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Is that flumuxed? Is that a word we're not. No, I don't think that's not a word. Is it, Ashton? Flummoxened. It's flummoxed. Flummox. That's the one. How many? Flummoxed. All right. God, we're smart on this show. If anyone agrees with this guy's lifestyle choice. Yeah, if it wouldn't be a deal breaker for you, because, dude. Or if anyone else does it, like that's true. That would actually be even more rare in the comments. Yeah, please let us know in the comments your thoughts on this one because we love reading them. It's one of our favorite things to do during the day. Seriously. And Alexis, what are some of your favorites you're seeing? I saw one from Dex who said, lots of love from Tokyo. You make my day every day. Since a fresh one is always ready when I cycle to work. Nice. Cycling to work. Way to show off. Well, you know, I bet you got great calves, Dex. All right, here we go. Let's get this Second Date Update podcast started. My dog Bagel loves it when I bring people home on the first date. Oh, I bet he does. He gets all excited, his tail sticks straight up and he runs into the other room so he can watch us through the one way mirror that I put in. You have a one way mirror just for your dog. So Bagel has seen things that he will never forget. Wow. He's just trained to go to the room and watch. He knows what it is. There dog therapy available? I have so many questions. Doesn't need it. But I'll tell you, he's never seen what happened in today's Second Date Update where a guy was invited back to hang out at his date's place. They spent hours there. Yeah. And what happened? The entire room is still trying to process. Yeah. In total disbelief. You have to hear it in your brand new Second Date Update. Feels so much like Bagel right now, honestly. Oh yeah. Confused. You enjoy right after this second Date update. First impressions are everything. They're pretty important. Like, Brooke, what did you think when you first met me that very first day? I mean, I remember you trying to put your hands all over Me? But what thoughts were dancing around in your mind? I think you were a promotion, kid. I don't know that. You left a huge mark on me, Jeff. I don't fully. She was leaving the claw marks on to me. That was the main thing. Yeah, I don't think so. She's being cruel for self preservation. It's okay, I guess. I don't recall. Well, what I do know is first impressions can make or break a romantic connection. Oh, I don't. You were scared. That's what I remember about you. Just the look in Brook's eyes when she was eyeing my entire body. It was. Sorry. You must have been so scared. I was back to the listener. But with first impressions, sometimes it could be the smile that stands out. It could be the outfit. It could be something you didn't even expect. Like, what's happening below the ankles? What? Wait, Below the ankles? What the heck? Hey. Hey, some action. You got some planter fasciitis going on down there, girl. It's working for me. And I'll just say our listener, Derek, had a very interesting first impression with his date. So let's find out about it. Derek, welcome to the show. Hey, thanks for having me on. Please tell me it's above the ankles. Yeah, very likely. We'll find out. What's this girl's name that you met recently? Yeah, I recently met Julia on a dating app. Oh, is that where you're talking about the first impression or the first impression when you met in person? No, it was when we met in person. And I know this is gonna sound kind of weird, but she was not quite as cute as her pictures. Oh, rude. Oh, well. Well, but here's the weird part. Not until later on in the date. Were you drinking? Well, no, not exactly. The impression I got is that she kind of forgot about the date and she came in right from a workout. Oh, that makes sense. So she wasn't all done up. I see. Right, right, right. Did she get cuter, like, the more you got to know her? Because I know some people that. Yeah. Like, after you know them, you're like, oh, my God. I could see why they're so attractive. She's talking about me again. No, that's what it is. Brooke, you gotta cool it over here. We're talking to Derek about him and Julia. That was definitely part of it. But there were also, like, some circumstances, like, as the date progressed, oh, it started raining, and. And so then she was twirling in the rain. I got it. Yeah, I see it, too, Jose. That would Be interesting. Yeah. Basically the best part was that even though she looked a little, like, frazzled, I could tell that she had, like, a cool vibe. I could tell she was really stylish. I could tell she was confident, and, like, the conversation was really flowing. We were talking about, like, travel. I had just gone to London last year, and she went to Paris two ago. We, like, were sharing stories about that. Can I ask, do we know where you are? Like, what you guys do? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. We met at this, like, rooftop bar. It was great. We met for drinks, and we were like. We got a little food, and we were, like, eating off each other's plates. That's a good sign. Whoa. Yeah. And honestly, kind of got, like. Messy would be the way I would describe it, like. Yes, let's talk about this. Let's get into the messy stuff. Messy on a rooftop? How messy did we get? I would say it was like a date. Brought to you by ty2go. What? No. Someone spilled. Oh. Oh, yeah, I did. I did a couple things. She made a mess on the cloth napkins, and she, like, spilled salsa, but it made it look like they were, like, bloody napkins. Red on white. We were laughing about it. It was, like, part of the fun of the day. And I, like, that's something that ran through my mind is like, I hope she doesn't just think I'm this, like, slob of a guy. But she was just as messy as me, so I don't think that was it. Yeah, I mean, who cares if you inconvenienced everybody in the bar and all the employees there? As long as the two of you were vibing? Really, that's all that matters in this scenario. Fair. Fair. Fair. That's good. So how did that night end? Well, so this is where I'm, like, pretty sure that I didn't read the vibes wrong. Right. So at the end, she was like, I'm sorry. You know what? I feel really gross. Like, I didn't get a chance to, like, clean up. And she was like, do you want to come over and I'll, like, clean up? And I don't think she would have, like, asked me over if she wasn't into the date and wasn't feeling it. No. I hate this guy texting her friends. I'm just gonna invite him over for a couple hours. Yeah, while I shower. Yeah, well, maybe she wanted him to clean her up. Like, she needed an assistant to help her do it. Like a pair of monkeys picking bugs out of each other's hair. See, Brooke's done it before. She knows. No, that is definitely a green flag. I don't know if it's a green flag that she wants a relationship with you, but it definitely means that she likes you. I mean, did you say yes to that invite? Oh, yeah. We hung out for, like, several hours, and it was getting late. We were in bed. We didn't, like, go all the way. I'm not gonna really get into the details of that. But I didn't stay the whole night. Cause I was like, I actually do have to work the next day. So I, like, needed to be in my space, you know? And I left really late, and we had, like, been in bed together. And I just hope. I don't know, I hope I didn't make her feel bad about leaving. I have to say or tell her it's possible that maybe. Do you believe a guy if he says, I have work in the morning, I have to go. It's a weekday. I do. People work on the weekends, too. I mean, I could just see where she may be, like, oh, man, he didn't like me. I think Alex is asking a question, though. Did you tell her that, like, did you explain anything the next day or. Oh, yeah. The first text I sent to her was on my way to work. That was like, hope you slept well, and last night was great, and we'll talk soon. Did she respond to that text? So that's just it. It's been seven or eight days. I have texted her a few times to, like, check in. I haven't been completely ghosted, but I just am not getting back a lot. Like, in the beginning, I got, like, one word answers, and now it's kind of like, trailed off. She's like, k. Yeah. Well, hopefully we get more than one word answers. We have to leave a good first impression with her. Yeah, this whole thing's about first impressions. Yeah, but her first impression was she wasn't that cute. So we're good at that. Okay, so just be us. Yeah, we'll just try do it the normal way when we come back. Call Julia and get you your second date update right after this. Hold on. Second date update. I'm gonna do a quick recap here on the second date update. If you're just joining us, listener Derek met Julia at a rooftop bar for drinks and super messy food. She had apparently come straight from a workout. So at the end of the date, she invited Derek to come back to her place because she wanted to freshen up. Hey. They put on a little something more comfortable. I Mean, honestly, is there a better question? Yeah. To ask a guy. We know what that usually means. Yeah. That felt good. And it did lead to them in bed. They did lie in the same bed at some point because Derek stayed, he said, half the night or a quarter of the night. Yeah. Not really sure how to explain it, but super early. Yeah. Didn't stay the whole night. But now he is not getting a call back and isn't sure why. And that brings us to this moment right here. And remember, he said he's not fully being ghosted, but it's like, little short answers. Something's off. It's weird that there's such a turn. Such a turn in that energy from her. Derek, did we miss anything that you did wrong or that you could have done better? Yeah, I don't think so. Like I said, I just. I don't know what's going on. I really like this girl. I. I've heard you guys help people before. I've heard people, like, try to help people. People. Yeah. But, like, you get to the bottom of a misunderstanding and, like, I've heard people have a second date and get past the problem. So I'd like to just know what the problem is so I can fix it. Hey, look at that. That's emotional maturity. Yeah, we don't normally like that here, but that's fine. We'll work with it. Let's call Julia. We'll see if she picks up and get those answers you want. Here we go. I appreciate that. Thank you. Really. Stop being so nice. It's irritating me. Here we go. She's obviously the problem. Yeah. Hello. Hi, we're looking to speak with Julia. This is she. Oh, hey, Julia. Yeah, thanks for picking up. Julia, I said we because you're on a radio show right now called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. Good morning. Oh. Oh, for real? Yeah. It doesn't happen very often, I'm sure. Mostly because there's not very many radio shows left. That's part of it. And that's a. This is a segment that we do on our show called A Second Date Update. Oh, gosh. Okay. Okay. I think it could. I think this one's gonna be good. Honestly, I think you're gonna be excited about this. Yeah. I got a good guy. Yeah. And I hope this doesn't sound weird, but we heard you went out with a guy named Derek recently. Oh, no. What? No. I don't know. It sounded like you were into Derek. Maybe. It could just be that she's, like, nervous on the radio, right? Okay, she's. Tell her again, and you can react again. Yeah, here we go. No, I've definitely not been on the radio, but I don't really want to talk about Derek either. Oh. Why? Okay, well, Derek told us about the hangout you two had the other night, and it sounded really fun. The way he described was fun. Good. I mean, you got to understand how he's confused. You invited him to, like, hang out at your place, and now not. Yeah, well, so I did invite him over, and we were having a great time, but he was over for quite a while. And he never took his shoes off in your house or in your apartment. Is that a rule that you have, Like. Yeah, take your shoes off when you come in. I mean, there's always two types of places, right? A shoes on or shoes off. House. My place, shoes are encouraged. Get everything muddy. I don't care. But then I have friends who, even for parties, shoes off. What about the bed? Did you tell him that? Well, so, yes, I definitely. I am a shoe kind of off person. But it was our first date. We were just sitting on the couch. It's okay. He wasn't completely walking around my apartment. And. And it can really ruin your outfit. Like, you're on a first date, you plan the look. Like, who knows what kind of socks he had on? Maybe that was the issue. Yeah. Yeah. Guys, think about that. You guys know exactly how men think. So true. Hey, there's a lot of shoe heads out there that love their shoes. It makes the outfit go together. Okay. Did you consider that, Julia? Sure. And I didn't want to be rude either. And so that's why later, when we were watching TV and getting kind of comfortable with each other and everything, I was like, do you want to get comfortable and take your shoes off? And he was like, no. And that was sort of weird. That's really funny, because it's hard to snuggle with shoes on. Right? It means that your feet are always on the ground. But it gets worse, you guys. It gets worse. How does it get worse? Well, I don't. I mean, maybe he didn't tell you, but we did end up in my bed. Yeah. With his shoes still on. What? Oh, okay. He got. He got into your bed with his shoes on. That would be uncomfortable and disgusting. Yeah. How did you react when he did that? I was appalled. And I'm like, what are you doing? Get your shoes off of my bed. And he's like, this is my thing. I don't take my shoes off. And I'm like, Am I in the twilight zone? Are you insane? You know, I didn't say anything. I think I just kind of freaked out. And thankfully he left like 20, 30 minutes later. I think that, like, the clothes that you wore for the day are gross. In your bed. Like, they have things you sit on and touch and move around. Like the bottom of your shoes are all over everything. Okay. Because I'm not even on the phone. I'm sorry. I did not expect it to be an issue that I keep my shoes on. That's really it. Shoe boys on the phone. Yeah, Julia, that's Derek. He's been listening this entire time on the other line. Really? It's not really Derek, is it? Yes, it's me. How's it going? Yeah, I can't really believe that that's the reason you're not like, returning my text. Well, what, you've never heard that complaint before? You don't know, you know anyone else who wears their shoes as much as you do? I've been doing this like a really long time. This has been kind of my thing for like 15 years. I wear shoes 23 and a half hours a day. What's the 30 minute break for, like a shower? Hopefully? Yeah, basically when I shower, I take the shoes out. Like a comfort, like a security blanket type of thing. Do you have weird feet or is it the fashion that the girls were saying? I don't know. I mean, the best way I can describe it, like, I am definitely, as a person, an extrovert, but my feet are. Are introverted. And plus, if you think about it, it is a lot more efficient. It saves me like two to three minutes in the morning. That really adds up. That's a couple extra hours a month. I don't think that's the right math. So you have to take your shoes off to put your pants on and then put them back on. Who's taking their pants off? I'm not taking my pants off. Oh, you got in bed with her. Most women would expect you to take your pants off. Skill to actually. Okay, wait, wait. If you have tearaway pants, then you don't have to take them off over your shoes. A lot of them, they're very useful. I actually think there could be a solution to all of this. Like, I hear you. You got your shoe thing, whatever. That's you, man. Is there a way you could get like house slippers where you could like, at least switch from? Definitely not. I look, I live a no barefoot decisions lifestyle. If I want to be ready, I want to stay Ready? Right now. That's a good point. It's not a good point, Jeff. It is if there's a fire. He is going to be the first one out. You can run out barefoot, but not as quickly. I think you would run equally as fast. It's like you with your glasses. If you take your glasses off, you're lost in this world. Yeah. You're handicapped. You can't get out the door. That's because I can't see it, Jeff. It's because your glasses are introverts. Yeah, they're shy. They need to be on your face to feel comfortable out here. It would make my eyes introverts. It's not my glasses. Your whole body's weird. No confidence. I feel like we're coming to common ground here. So. Really? He said no to slippers? Well, yeah. Ground that the shoes stand on. So let's offer to send you guys out on another date. We would pay for it. Julia, what do you think? Give him one more chance? I just can't. I honestly can't. It's so strange. Oh, no, I don't think I can adapt. Oh, here's. He's not willing to adapt. Why should I? There's a good point that this is. I know you said that you've never heard this as a problem before, but this has got to be part of an issue with every woman you've ever been with. Yeah, yeah. There's like, even socks on in bed are an issue for most women. That's true. Yeah, yeah. It's never really come up. But also, I haven't been like, actively dating. Like, seriously. I think that was Julia, like. Oh, you've heard of a farmer's tan? I can't imagine a shoe tan. Yeah, I just say you need to work through it. I mean, to me it's not a problem. It's a strength. Okay, okay. I'll be mature. I. I don't. So you deserve to be with someone who agrees with you. Maybe you'll find. Fair enough. A 23 hour wearing girl. And you'll. There is a woman out there who has her shoes on all the time. And she's going to be appreciative when she finally walks into the room and sees you. How much you want to bet his soulmate works at a shoe store? Yeah. Hey, Derek, I'm sorry, man. You tried. What can I say, just in general, we're sorry. Yeah. But we'll be here for you if you ever need our support in the future. Okay. Some arch support, of course, is what I mean, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Ryan Reynolds here from Mint Mobile with a message for everyone paying big wireless way too much. Please, for the love of everything good in this world, stop with Mint. 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We've had a lot of beat guys come through the show in the last few years. Not a lot of shoe guys. No. Yeah. That was so weird. Yeah. I was trying to be open. He's got his chew anxiety or something like feed anxiety. I don't know what's going on. I was trying to think what would be worse if he never took shoes off or if he never put shoes on. I would take no shoes. Yeah. Somehow more normal. Like when you go to a wedding, he's gonna be shoeless. Yeah, I know. But I would take that over the shoes. I mean, I am kind of surprised that nobody in his life has brought this up up to him in the last like 15 years. That seems pretty unlikely. That's weird. But I guess some people get confidence from like a nice haircut, some people get it from a nice dress, or some people just get it from being single for a long time. There you go. Because they keep their shoes on for 23 and a half hours every day. I don't know, does he have a lot of shoes or just one pair? Always? I mean, there were so many more questions that I had as well. I was trying not to make it about me. Me. Yeah, that's true. Well, we'll definitely have him back on for like a full interview. Yeah, shoot. Yeah, we'll just, we'll get the exclusive. But if you want help with your dating life. We can help you with that. Email the show, we'll call that person who's not calling you back and go check out all of our second date updates. They're available online wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning hey, it's Ryan Seacrest for Albertsons and safeway now through June 24th. Score hot summer savings and earn four times the points. Look for in store tags on items like Sargento cheese slices, Best foods, mayonnaise, lay's party sized chips and snacks and Triscuits. Then clip the offer in the app for automatic event long savings. 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