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Host 1
Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley season one.
Host 2
Every time I hear about my dad is, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil.
Host 1
I was becoming the bridge between Jeremy Scott and the son he'd never known.
Host 2
At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer.
Host 1
Listen to new episodes of bone Valley Season 2, starting April 9 on the iHeartRadio app. App, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Brooke
Kicking off your week with a brand new second date update. It just makes everything better.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Brooke
Hey, welcome to the podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and I'm just gonna say today. Imagine being on a date and having a waiter point out the one thing you're most insecure about.
Listener 1
Oh, no.
Phil
Oh, no.
Jeffrey
I'm too handsome.
Brooke
Oh, is that what it is right now? I can't.
Jeffrey
Please don't look at me anymore.
Listener 2
Guys, stop making eye contact with me.
Jeffrey
Oh.
Brooke
It's exactly what happened to one of our poor listeners. And that's why we have him on the phone today. We're gonna help him try to recover from it. Cry, dude. But before we get to the podcast, let's go over some of these comments that we got from our wonderful, wonderful listeners.
Listener 1
Yes, I saw one from someone named Even.
Brooke
Not Evan.
Listener 1
It's spelled Even.
Brooke
Okay, we'll go with you.
Listener 1
I don't know, but it says love from Norway. Love, you guys. Brooke, pay them more. I need more content.
Brooke
Oh.
Listener 2
Oh, yeah.
Listener 1
You are in charge of our pay, apparently.
Brooke
I like that they think I'm that much of a boss. I appreciate that. I do. I do.
Listener 1
And that's all we need. Well, more money. We'll just get more. Second day. We'll stay here all day.
Brooke
I got two bucks in my wallet.
Listener 1
Hey, I'll follow up on that one.
Brooke
I really will. All right. Hey, thanks for being here. And again, keep the comments coming. Like, subscribe and share and enjoy the brand new second date update.
Listener 2
Second date update. Brooke, what's that filter that you like to use on Instagram to make yourself look like 15 years younger?
Brooke
There's no filter, sweetheart. It's just life.
Listener 2
Ooh, Sweetheart, it's the FaceTime filter that you pay extra for because the live filtering on the videos, that costs a lot more.
Brooke
I don't use a filter, Jeff. Sure, yeah, FaceTime is. You mean FaceTune, I think is actually what you mean. Yeah, whatever.
Listener 2
It's broken, Jeff. Right now.
Brooke
The old man behind the mic over there.
Listener 2
But I only Bring it up. Because in today's second date update, age was at the forefront of the conversation, at least in the email that I just read from our listener, Phil.
Jeffrey
And I heard from experience that people get a little spicy when you talk about age, Jeff.
Listener 2
A little bit.
Brooke
But apparently, I don't know.
Listener 2
He is worried that it may have been a factor during his date. So talk to him, Phil. Phil, welcome to the show. Can you hear me talking to the bottom part of the phone?
Phil
Hi. Can you hear me?
Listener 2
Yeah, I can hear you. What time is it where you are?
Brooke
I'm surprised you didn't go instantly to the weather, Phil. We're making fun of your age.
Phil
I'm not. Okay, so here's what happened.
Listener 2
Okay, we haven't asked you that question yet. You're going a little quick.
Brooke
Can you take us off speakerphone, Phil?
Phil
Here we go. Is that better?
Listener 2
That's way better, Phil. Good job, man.
Brooke
You can teach old dogs new tricks.
Listener 2
All right, man. Officially. Welcome to the show. How you doing today?
Phil
Doing good. Doing good.
Brooke
After all of that, you still like us?
Jeffrey
And you even sound younger off speaker.
Brooke
Shocking.
Listener 2
Let's go straight to your date here. Tell us about the girl that you met recently. What's her name?
Phil
Mandy.
Listener 2
Okay, Mandy.
Brooke
Okay, good.
Listener 2
And.
Brooke
And I'm guessing you didn't meet Mandy on an app.
Phil
I did meet Mandy on an app.
Listener 2
Was it the app Coffee meets Metamucil?
Brooke
That's too low.
Phil
No, it was Tinder.
Listener 2
I deserve that.
Brooke
I like Phil spicy. Yeah, that's good. We like it.
Listener 2
Okay, so walk us through the meeting and the meetup with Mandy.
Phil
Yes. So I met Mandy on one of the apps, and we set up a date.
Jeffrey
Wait, what? The app. Will you tell?
Brooke
No, don't do this. Let's not tell us about it.
Listener 2
Yeah, go to the date. What happened on your day? Where'd you go?
Phil
We went to this really great seafood spot.
Listener 2
Oh, that's nice.
Brooke
It's a dinner date. And what were you feeling beforehand? Were you nervous, excited?
Phil
Yeah. You know, recently divorced. It's been a long time since I had a first date, so I was a little nervous.
Brooke
Congratulations on getting back out there.
Phil
Thank you. Yeah.
Listener 2
Okay.
Phil
Nice to hear something nice.
Jeffrey
Yeah. Eventually, we become kind.
Brooke
We actually got your back, Phil. We got your back.
Listener 2
That's good. So you go to the seafood restaurant where food is easy to chew. And how did it go?
Phil
The conversation's good. There is some talk about social media. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. She really liked the TikTok. I'm more of a Facebook guy. Yeah, I actually downloaded it. She got me, you know, interested in seeing how it's a little bit different.
Brooke
Dude, old people go viral on that thing all the time.
Listener 1
But now you're losing so many hours of your life. Sorry, you downloaded it?
Jeffrey
Dude, my accent. My dad sent me dog videos from Tik Tok all day long. That's all he watches.
Brooke
Really cute.
Listener 2
It is pretty cool, huh?
Brooke
Yeah.
Phil
Yeah. No matter what, I'm gonna thank Mandy for that.
Jeffrey
Cute, bro.
Brooke
Were you guys able to connect over other things?
Phil
Yeah, you know, we talked about a lot of stuff. It goes really good. We talked about, like, our first concerts.
Brooke
Oh, I bet that was a big difference.
Phil
Mine was a Smith in 89 when rock was real.
Brooke
Oh, okay.
Listener 2
Okay.
Brooke
And hers, hers.
Phil
Hers was, in fact, Ariana Grande.
Brooke
Okay, okay.
Jeffrey
That does show her age a little bit.
Brooke
But, hey, like we said, you were honest. You knew what she was getting into.
Listener 2
That's good. And the fact that you're connecting is a great sign, no matter what it is you're talking about. As long as the conversation is going smoothly, that's perfect. So take us to the end of the date. How did you wrap it up?
Phil
So that was where it got a little embarrassing.
Brooke
Okay, what happened?
Phil
A little embarrassing? The waiter came to give us our bill, and. And then he. We hope you and your daughter have enjoyed this meal.
Listener 2
So now you're in a tough position because you can either, A, let it slide and just brush it off, or B, you confront the situation head on.
Brooke
And tell him no, you just start making out and really freak the waiter out.
Listener 2
That's option.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I like that.
Listener 2
How did you handle it, Phil?
Phil
You know, sometimes you just have to take it on the chin.
Brooke
Oh, yeah.
Listener 2
Okay.
Phil
I said, that's not my daughter.
Brooke
Did you get any read on her reaction to that moment?
Phil
Not really. I was a little taken aback. I was a little embarrassed myself.
Brooke
Okay.
Listener 2
Okay.
Listener 1
I think when you're out someone older, you expect it. Like, everybody plays that game where you see a couple like that out and you're like, you think they're a couple or just a dad and daughter.
Brooke
Yeah.
Listener 1
And you see people in line.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Listener 2
Actually.
Jeffrey
You're Sorry. Sometimes it's fun to play that game.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jeffrey
Gold digger situation.
Listener 1
Yeah, they're related.
Phil
So you guys.
Listener 2
Okay.
Brooke
Okay. Have you reached out to her since the date?
Phil
I have. I just haven't heard back, and I don't want to be one of those people that over text, you know?
Listener 2
What are you doing? Are you just doing straight phone calls?
Phil
I can text.
Listener 2
Oh, really?
Brooke
We're acting like he's 85 years old. You got to be in, like, your 50s or something, right? Your 60s.
Phil
No comment. No.
Listener 2
Okay.
Jeffrey
All right.
Listener 2
Well, a lot of times a good way to, like, reach people now is through dms.
Listener 1
Yeah, but he has a number.
Brooke
He called a radio station. He's cool enough to listen to our show. We're gonna call her.
Listener 2
It's just because we're calling from a random number. She might not pick up when we dial her, but maybe she will. Maybe she'll give us a chance and we can talk to her and hopefully get an answer for why she hasn't called you back to hang out again. Because you sound like a great guy.
Phil
Well, thanks for that. It's once again nice to hear a second nice thing. Well, there you go.
Brooke
Maybe by the end of this, you'll have your whole finger full of nice things.
Listener 2
We're gonna think of compliments to give to you and about you when we call Mandy and get you your second date update right after this, okay?
Phil
All right.
Listener 2
All right, man.
Host 2
Hold on.
Listener 2
Second date update. Playing a little Aerosmith for our listener, Phil.
Jeffrey
Lighters in the air, baby. Yeah.
Listener 2
Real one. In honor of the very first concert that he ever went to back in 1989. And I bet he never thought back then that he'd be on a hot date today with a cute girl named Mandy, whose first concert was Ariana Grande.
Jeffrey
Different.
Listener 2
A little bit of an age difference there. Which only came to light when their waiter dropped off the bill at their table and said, we hope you and your daughter enjoyed your time here.
Brooke
So, bummer.
Listener 2
Kind of an awkward moment, but, hey, Phil rolled with it. Unfortunately, though, he's not getting a response back from Mandy afterwards. And that's where we come in, trying to help Phil.
Phil
Are we worried?
Jeffrey
She is hitting him up, but it's on tick tock, and he doesn't know how to work it.
Brooke
Stop it. He is not that old. I mean, he's rusty because he was divorced. And this is.
Jeffrey
That's right.
Brooke
I mean, the one thing you may not understand is that there's a lot of, like, ghosting in dating now. Like, it's pretty, and some people just.
Listener 1
Like to go out for a dinner.
Mandy
Yeah, yeah.
Jeffrey
No, that's a good point. Phil.
Listener 2
Did you know that?
Phil
Did I know that? The thing that happened to me happens.
Listener 2
Well, it happens all the time. It's not.
Brooke
And you shouldn't take it personally, because it's not a reflection of who you are or what you can offer in a relationship.
Jeffrey
That was a little spicy.
Listener 2
And, Phil, if we can get her, I'm not gonna bring up the age thing at all to her unless she says it first. Is that. Is that cool with you?
Phil
Yeah.
Jeffrey
Well, because if it's not about the age. And why even bring it up, it.
Brooke
Shouldn'T be because she, again, knows how old you are when you meet on a d. Dating now, which I keep forgetting.
Jeffrey
It's not like you bombarded her, surprised her.
Phil
I was completely truthful about it.
Listener 2
Okay, good. So I'd love to hear what excuse she has for not calling a great guy like you back. Let's figure it out. I'm gonna dial her number right now. Okay. Here we go.
Mandy
Hello?
Listener 2
Hey, we're looking to talk with Mandy. This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Brooke
Hey, Mandy.
Listener 2
Hi.
Jeffrey
Good morning. Mandy.
Mandy
Hi.
Brooke
Hey.
Listener 2
Hey, is it okay if we chat with you for a bit?
Mandy
I guess. I don't have a lot of time, but okay.
Host 2
Okay.
Listener 2
Well, this shouldn't take long. We're doing something called the Second date update, and we're trying to help out one of our listeners that you went out with the other night. And we heard it was actually pretty fun.
Brooke
Fancy seafood date, good conversation, little TikTok.
Listener 2
Action with a guy named Phil.
Mandy
Oh, no, not Phil.
Brooke
Oh, yes. You mean, oh, yes, Phil know K.
Jeffrey
N o W. Like, I know Phil's.
Listener 2
A little bit bummed because you guys haven't arranged a second meetup. And if you don't want to, that's up to you, but it would really help him out if you could, like, give an explanation for why.
Brooke
Yeah, I mean, remember, this is a guy who's back in the dating world. He's learning some new things.
Listener 2
You have to admit, he's a really nice guy, right?
Mandy
I guess.
Listener 2
Yes.
Brooke
Was he genuine? Wasn't he nice on the date?
Mandy
I mean, I'm into dating older guys, but.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Mandy
Bill's picture, it was a lot younger than.
Brooke
What?
Mandy
He made it out.
Brooke
Okay, so he was older than you would normally date.
Mandy
Basically.
Brooke
Okay.
Jeffrey
All right, so it's like he's like 40 or 50 in the picture. And then you showed up, and he was. He wouldn't tell us his age, so we really don't know.
Mandy
Yeah, it was off. It was not close.
Jeffrey
Well, he's probably you guess he is.
Phil
Can I ask that?
Brooke
How old did you guess age was.
Listener 1
A lie on the app, too?
Mandy
Well, I think his age was correct. It's just. It was a whole photo thing.
Listener 2
Okay, so maybe he chose an older photo of Himself. Because he liked how he looked however many years ago, which I think a lot of people do. But, yeah, I mean, we spoke to him. Him, and, like, his personality seemed very vibrant and young.
Brooke
Really?
Jeffrey
Yeah. Oh, remember Brock?
Listener 1
Like, photos aside, he's on tick tock now.
Jeffrey
Yeah, yeah, he was champer.
Listener 2
Like, he sounds cool.
Mandy
Well, here's the weird thing. I was showing him how to. Or how to. We were in the middle of the restaurant ordering, and I was showing him how to do the tick tock, and he basically ordered a glass of milk.
Brooke
What? From who?
Jeffrey
Oh, my gosh. That's such an old guy.
Brooke
From the waiter.
Jeffrey
Or a child.
Host 2
Yeah.
Listener 1
Or a kid.
Mandy
Apologize for the battery being too low. And he pulls out a full fanny pack and hard pack from the fanny pack, and.
Listener 2
Oh, he carries a fanny pack.
Mandy
It was a super pack. Not just a tiny one. It was a super pack in the fanny pack.
Jeffrey
Anyone need a band aid?
Listener 2
A thimble?
Jeffrey
Because I got everything.
Brooke
So he ordered milk and had a man fanny pack.
Mandy
And then on top of all that, the waiter, he made a comment, like, a weird comment at the end that was.
Brooke
That was really embarrassing for him.
Mandy
If I was waiting on that table, I would think the same thing.
Brooke
Oh, that's not a good response.
Jeffrey
Well, at least you know yours has a comb in his back pocket.
Brooke
What?
Jeffrey
Old guys.
Listener 2
We keep coming in like a tube of grease to do your hair.
Brooke
He's not a grandfather, is he?
Listener 2
Well, I don't know. But look.
Mandy
Well, he did start talking about my credit score and my ira.
Jeffrey
Hey, that's important no matter what age you are.
Mandy
Yeah, probably really good for my future, but, you know, that's not romantic.
Listener 2
Okay, you're right.
Phil
You're right.
Listener 1
Older guys, he's just a little too.
Listener 2
I get. It's good that sharing this with us, because Phil really did need to hear, I think, some of those things, because you might. You might not know. He is on the other line right now listening to this phone call.
Phil
Mandy.
Mandy
Oh, my gosh, not Phil.
Listener 2
Yeah, no, it's. It's a good thing because he really did need to hear some of this stuff.
Brooke
Yeah, that he's old. Like, why would anyone want to hear that?
Listener 2
Jeff, he's new to online dating. He needs to learn, like, what to do and what not to do as he goes forward in the baby.
Brooke
Just what age brackets he needs to pick going forward.
Listener 2
Talk to Mandy. She's on the phone right now. You can have a conversation. Go ahead.
Phil
So you're making fun of my fanny pack on the radio.
Mandy
It's not about that. It was a big charger, and I feel like I like you, but it.
Phil
Was a big charger. A lot can fit in that fanny pack.
Jeffrey
Oh, is that.
Brooke
Do you have it on right?
Jeffrey
Do you have it on right now? I don't know.
Listener 2
Cause Brook's getting turned on.
Brooke
What you got in your fanny pack, Phil?
Listener 2
Okay, Phil, how did you feel hearing Mandy say all that just a moment ago?
Phil
I'm not gonna lie. It hurt a little bit. Yeah, and some of that sounds a little unfair.
Brooke
Really? Like what. What part?
Listener 2
Was the glass of milk cold, or was it warm?
Brooke
And it's a good gastrointestinal system if you can still process it.
Jeffrey
At his age, Brook's like, you have any cultured yogurt?
Phil
One glass of milk before seafood. Helps with the gut.
Brooke
Okay, I didn't mean for you to go into it.
Listener 2
Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, we got it. We got it, we got it. Phil, it just sounds like maybe between you and Mandy, there wasn't so much romantic feelings going on. It was more like a father figure wanting to help a younger person out. That was the vibe that she was getting.
Phil
Yeah. So what do you want, Mandy? How do I. How do I be more romantic towards you?
Jeffrey
How do we shift a little bit here?
Listener 2
Just have to think about it differently. Mandy. He's not an older guy. He's just classy.
Brooke
Like the most interesting man in the world.
Listener 2
Yeah.
Jeffrey
Sexy.
Listener 2
No, you got to look at it in a positive way, like, you will never get a 2am hey, you up? Text from Phil.
Listener 1
But he'll even get us how to do that.
Listener 2
Yeah, It'll come at 5:30, but that's fine.
Phil
You guys are supposed to be helping me. Help me get a date with her.
Listener 2
Okay, well, we're trying, so we're just gonna ask. Mandy, Phil seems like a really cool, nice guy, and you admit yourself that you like older men. Ye.
Mandy
Not that old.
Listener 2
Well, we still don't know what that number is. And we would like to offer to send you out on another date with Phil that we pay for. Give Phil one more chance.
Mandy
You know what? Sign me up. I can get a AARP discount.
Brooke
You can't do that. Actually, Mandy, no.
Jeffrey
As long as you're with him, though.
Listener 2
You get the benefits off of it.
Jeffrey
Getting an early bird special.
Phil
Baby, if you're. If your heart's not in it, just say no. It's fine.
Listener 2
See, it's pretty obvious how she wants that genuine connection. Mandy. So give it to him straight. Do you really want to meet up.
Mandy
Again as A wing woman. Not any romance. No.
Listener 2
All right.
Brooke
And you may need that right now. Listen, if you surround yourself with friends that are young, you look younger.
Listener 2
Yeah, dude, Brooke knows from experience, so there you go.
Jeffrey
Yeah, she hangs out with us all the time.
Brooke
I swear to God.
Listener 2
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Couple texts coming in at 78592 that are saying we were kind of tough on Phil there, but you were brutal.
Jeffrey
There's too many jokes.
Listener 2
No, it's. It was like Jose said, when you agree to be on a second date, update with us, you have to be willing to hear the truth and get poked fun at a little bit.
Jeffrey
You guys listen to our show?
Listener 2
I think you went a little bit over the line during the call. The rest of us, Alexis, Jose, me. Good job. Yeah, we just skirted that line. Pass.
Brooke
Alexis even made one old.
Listener 1
No, I controlled myself.
Jeffrey
Yeah, Brooke.
Listener 2
So at the end of the day, let's admit we didn't get a second date. We failed on that front.
Jeffrey
But he did not.
Listener 2
Here's the good news. Now that Phil has tick tock, he can follow our show.
Jeffrey
Hey, we go viral all the time.
Brooke
It'll only take him two days to find it.
Listener 2
Yeah, and then he can listen to our second date updates every now and again. Wherever you get your podcast, Phil hear.
Jeffrey
Himself and be like, wait, I am getting old. What's going on right now?
Listener 2
Go check it out, Phil. And all of you, wherever you get your podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey.
Brooke
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Host 1
Something unexpected happened after Jeremy Scott confessed to killing Michelle Schofield in Bone Valley season one.
Host 2
Every time I hear about my dad is, oh, he's a killer. He's just straight evil.
Host 1
I was becoming the bridge between Jeremy Scott and the son he'd never known.
Host 2
At the end of the day, I'm literally a son of a killer.
Host 1
Listen to new episodes of bone Valley Season 2, starting April 9 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Summary of "Second Date Update: Age Is Just A Bummer"
Podcast Information
Episode Overview In this engaging episode titled "Second Date Update: Age Is Just A Bummer," hosts Brooke and Jeffrey tackle the delicate subject of age differences in dating, especially focusing on the challenges faced when one party feels ghosted after a promising first date. The episode features listener interactions, a detailed account of one listener's dating experience, and an attempt by the hosts to mediate and provide insights to foster a second date.
The episode kicks off with Brooke humorously setting the scene: “Imagine being on a date and having a waiter point out the one thing you're most insecure about” (00:35). This scenario immediately draws in listeners by presenting a relatable and awkward dating moment.
Listener Comments and Banter: Brooke and Jeffrey engage with listener comments, showcasing their playful dynamic. For instance, when a listener from Norway comments, “love from Norway,” Brooke responds with, “I like that they think I'm that much of a boss. I appreciate that.” (01:05), highlighting their interactive and light-hearted approach to listener feedback.
The central narrative revolves around Phil, a listener who recently went on a date with a woman named Mandy. Phil shares that his date was set up via the dating app Tinder and that they chose a seafood restaurant for their meetup.
Highlights of the Date: Phil describes the initial nerves due to being recently divorced and returning to the dating scene: “Recently divorced. It's been a long time since I had a first date, so I was a little nervous.” (04:21). The conversation flowed smoothly, covering topics like social media preferences and first concert experiences, which helped bridge the age gap between Phil and Mandy.
Brooke humorously remarks on Phil's newfound interest in TikTok: “Dude, old people go viral on that thing all the time.” (04:59), adding levity to the discussion of generational differences.
The date takes an awkward turn when the waiter mistakenly addresses Phil as Mandy’s father: “We hope you and your daughter have enjoyed this meal.” (06:01). Phil reacts with embarrassment, replying, “That's not my daughter.” (06:33).
Hosts' Commentary: Brooke contemplates the situation with humor: “And tell him no, you just start making out and really freak the waiter out.” (06:23). This moment serves as a catalyst for deeper discussion on age-related perceptions in dating.
Seeking clarity, Brooke and Jeffrey reach out to Mandy directly on the show to understand her side of the story. Mandy explains her confusion regarding Phil's age and behavior during the date.
Key Insights from Mandy: Mandy reveals that Phil’s profile picture was significantly younger, leading to expectations that were unmet during the date: “He made it out. Okay, okay.” (11:43). She also points out Phil’s outdated approach, such as ordering a glass of milk and carrying a bulky fanny pack: “And he pulls out a full fanny pack and hard pack from the fanny pack.” (12:42).
Mandy humorously critiques Phil’s preparation and conversation topics, indicating a mismatch in romantic chemistry: “It was a super pack in the fanny pack.” (12:56).
Brooke and Jeffrey offer Phil advice based on Mandy's feedback. They encourage Phil to embrace his authenticity and not be disheartened by ghosting, emphasizing that ghosting often reflects more on the other person's preferences rather than Phil's worth.
Notable Advice:
Jeffrey: “That's right, because if it's not about the age. And why even bring it up, it should be because she, again, knows how old you are when you meet on a d. Dating now.” (09:43)
Brooke: “You don't want to look like you're trying too hard. Just be yourself.” (07:08)
Despite the humorous and sometimes harsh tone, the hosts provide genuine support, reminding Phil that age differences can be navigated successfully with openness and understanding.
Closing Remarks: The episode wraps up with Brooke and Jeffrey reflecting on the importance of genuine connections and the role of humor in overcoming dating setbacks. They encourage listeners to subscribe, share, and engage with their content for more entertaining and supportive dating insights.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps:
Conclusion "Second Date Update: Age Is Just A Bummer" offers a candid and humorous exploration of the complexities involved in dating across age gaps. Through listener Phil’s experience and the hosts' interactive mediation, Brooke and Jeffrey provide both entertainment and valuable insights, encouraging open dialogue and resilience in the face of dating challenges. Whether you're navigating similar dating dilemmas or simply enjoy relatable relationship stories, this episode delivers a compelling blend of humor and heartfelt advice.