Second Date Update Classic: Floozy In A Jacuzzi

Summary

Podcast Summary: "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update" Episode Title: Classic: Floozy In A Jacuzzi
Release Date: January 4, 2025
Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts

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1. Introduction to the Second Date Update Segment

The episode kicks off with Brooke transitioning into the core segment, "Second Date Update," where listeners share their dating experiences, particularly focusing on why certain dates did not progress to a second meeting. The hosts, Brooke, Jeffrey, Alexis, and Jose, introduce the concept of analyzing "go-to" dating moves that either succeed or falter.

2. Mitchell's First Date with Jamie: The Setup

Mitchell shares his recent date with Jamie, whom he met online. He expresses his admiration for Jamie's distinctive style, particularly her "fedora," which he found both charming and unique.

Mitchell [01:49]: "Her name is Jamie. Met her online, you know, doing the online dating thing. Came across her profile and thought she was really cute."

3. The "Ninja" Move: Inviting Jamie to the Hot Tub

Mitchell reveals his signature move—inviting his date to his condo’s hot tub to create an intimate setting. He humorously refers to this tactic as "the Ninja."

Brooke [00:40]: "I'm always interested when somebody says they have a go-to move that they use on dates. That works every time."

Mitchell [03:54]: "So my go-to is I will invite girl back to my condo because I have a hot tub there, and I offer a more intimate experience there."

The group jokes about the implications of this move, highlighting both its romantic and potentially problematic aspects.

4. The Date Interrupted: The Alarming Turn of Events

During the date at Mitchell's condo, an unexpected work-related alarm interrupts the evening. Reflecting on this mishap, Mitchell explains how this sudden interruption led to Jamie deciding to leave, resulting in him being ghosted afterward.

Mitchell [05:38]: "So, yeah, we had another drink at the bar and then ended up going back to my place. And I think this is kind of where things maybe got away from me because right when we got there and before we even could get in the hot tub, the alarm on my phone went off and I had totally forgotten that I had this thing I needed to do for work."

5. Seeking Answers: Hosts Call Jamie

Determined to uncover the true reason behind Jamie’s ghosting, the hosts orchestrate a live call with her. Brooke initiates the conversation, setting the stage for Jamie to share her perspective directly.

Brooke [08:58]: "Jamie. What's up? This is Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, the radio show."

6. Jamie’s Perspective: The Real Story

Jamie clarifies the situation, revealing that Mitchell had planned to stream a video game session from the hot tub, which included her participating in a bikini. She expresses her confusion and discomfort with the abrupt shift in plans caused by Mitchell's work commitment.

Jamie [10:08]: "We were having fun. And like, he said hot tub. I was in the mood for some fun that night. I was like, okay, hot tub, condo, let's go."

Jamie [10:57]: "So what are you doing? You're going to play games? He was like, I actually was. Had this idea to get more views and more, you know, likes and all this stuff. I would play games, video games in my hot tub with this sexy woman, which is you."

7. Hosts’ Reactions and Insights

The hosts react with a mix of humor and concern, dissecting Mitchell’s actions and their impact on Jamie. They discuss the importance of clear communication and understanding boundaries in dating scenarios.

Brooke [16:02]: "If I told you that going in that we were going to find out that information, we'd say 0% chance this guy gets a date."

Alexis [16:23]: "He was just kind of nice and a little bit sincere, and that was all it took."

8. Resolution: Encouraging a Second Chance

Despite the rocky experience, the hosts advocate for giving Mitchell another opportunity to make amends. They encourage Jamie to consider a second date without the complications of the previous evening’s plans.

Brooke [13:58]: "I'm with you, man. I just want to make sure Jamie's on board. 'Cause, Jamie, we would love to send you on another date with Mitchell. You don't have to get into a hot tub. You don't have to put on a bikini. You just have to sit down with him to dinner, and we'll pay for it."

Mitchell [15:00]: "I'm not mad at that at all. By all means. Sounds great. I thank you for giving me another chance."

9. Conclusion: Lessons and Takeaways

The episode wraps up with the hosts reflecting on the complexities of modern dating, emphasizing the need for sincerity and attentiveness. They highlight that while creative dating moves can be entertaining, they must be executed thoughtfully to foster genuine connections.

Brooke [16:33]: "But if you ever want to get a second date update or invite us over for a hot tub party, I'll..."

The hosts encourage listeners to share their own dating stories, promising to provide insights and possible resolutions in future episodes.

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Key Takeaways:

• Authenticity Matters: While unique dating moves can make a memorable impression, authenticity and clear communication are crucial for building lasting connections.
• Respect Boundaries: It’s essential to respect your date’s comfort levels and be adaptable when plans change unexpectedly.
• Sincere Apologies Go a Long Way: A genuine apology and willingness to make amends can help salvage relationships after misunderstandings or mishaps.

Notable Quotes:

• Mitchell [05:38]: "So, yeah, we had another drink at the bar and then ended up going back to my place. And I think this is kind of where things maybe got away from me..."
• Jamie [10:57]: "He was like, I actually was. Had this idea to get more views and more, you know, likes and all this stuff..."
• Brooke [13:58]: "I'm with you, man. I just want to make sure Jamie's on board."

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For more engaging dating stories and updates, tune in to the full episode of Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify.

Transcript

[Brooke]

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[Jeffrey]

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[Alexis]

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[Mitchell]

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[Alexis]

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[Brooke]

Second date update. I'm always interested when somebody says they have a go to move that they use on dates. That works every time.

[Alexis]

And then they end up on our show.

[Brooke]

Well, at least it works somewhat. Yeah, I've heard of this one guy. I'm not gonna say he's in the room, but he calls it the Ninja.

[Alexis]

The Ninja.

[Brooke]

You're on the couch, Netflix and chilling.

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Next thing you know, he sneaks up behind the girl with a black mask and a plate of nachos.

[Jose]

Oh, my gosh.

[Alexis]

At first I thought scary, and then the nachos came in. So now I'm confused. I'm confused.

[Brooke]

That's exactly where I want you to be.

[Jose]

Jeff's move.

[Alexis]

Did he layer the cheese so it's like, not just on the top too?

[Brooke]

Now the ninja's not interested anymore.

[Jose]

It's literally, theoretically already working on bro.

[Brooke]

Yeah, don't get picky on the ninja. But it works every time.

[Jose]

The nacho ninja.

[Brooke]

And by works, I mean he ends up going to jail.

[Alexis]

But one of our listeners said that.

[Brooke]

He has a go to move he uses on dates. Let's talk to Mitchell about it. Mitchell, you pull a ninja?

[Mitchell]

I don't say it's a ninja, but, you know, I've got some. Got some things in my arsenal.

[Alexis]

Yeah, hopefully it's more like nachos, but.

[Brooke]

Okay, we want to hear about that in just a second. But first, tell us about the girl that you went out with. What's her name?

[Mitchell]

Her name is Jamie. Met her online, you know, doing the online dating thing. Came across her profile and thought she was really cute.

[Alexis]

Okay.

[Mitchell]

The thing that really stood out to me, though, is that in her picture, she is rocking a fedora.

[Alexis]

A fedora.

[Brooke]

Oh, classic ninja attire.

[Alexis]

I was thinking she was, like, part of nsync. You know, hanging out with it is.

[Brooke]

Kind of a throwback piece of clothing.

[Jose]

Wearing a ska band.

[Alexis]

I mean, it is time for him to make a comeback. Is it? Aren't we around that cycle right now?

[Jose]

I don't think so.

[Alexis]

Don't look at me. I don't know why you're. The bucket hats are back. Why not a fedora? Those are way cuter.

[Brooke]

Let's stop the sidebar on old school fashion and get back to Jamie. And how did you end up asking her out?

[Mitchell]

So, you know, I messaged her, and I was like, I asked you out. I'm hoping that the first time we hang out, I get to see you wearing that fedora.

[Brooke]

Okay. I didn't realize it was that important to the story.

[Mitchell]

Yeah, it was very cool. It was a very distinctive thing, you know, and I admire her flair and style for pulling it off, and she looked good with it. And so, you know, she sent some laughing emojis, and we set up some time to hang out and ended up going out to a bar and meeting in person. And I walked in, and sure enough, she had the fedora on, so makes.

[Alexis]

Her very easy to recognize. Yeah, I'm sure she's the only one wearing one right now.

[Jose]

Absolutely.

[Mitchell]

All right. Yes, she was indeed.

[Brooke]

All right, so far, things are lining up. How did the actual date go?

[Mitchell]

The actual date went really well. We clicked. We had a nice spark in person. The same kind of banter was there from talking online. We got the mutual interest, like comedy and going to concerts and stuff, and it went. It went really well.

[Alexis]

So when you're. You're sitting there talking to her, and you're thinking, like, there's going to be more dates, probably then.

[Mitchell]

Exactly. And kind of also getting the feel that, like, maybe we could take this date to another level. So I'm. This is me kind of sidebar with you guys. I guess this is where my move comes in, Right?

[Brooke]

Thank God. Because to be honest, your date was kind of putting me to sleep there. I want to know, what are the moves that you have? What does Mitchell do to get a girl back to his place?

[Mitchell]

So my go to is I will invite girl back to my condo because I have a hot tub there, and I offer a more intimate experience there.

[Alexis]

I'd go back with you. I mean, and it's very apparent what you're looking for when you offer a hot tub. I mean, they're just, oh, I see.

[Jose]

I need to get a hot tub.

[Alexis]

I mean, honestly, though, like, you're in a bathing suit or maybe not.

[Brooke]

Maybe some arm floaties. You guys, like, hold each other and float for a while.

[Alexis]

Yeah, that's what I say.

[Brooke]

Little trust, floating, float. Oh, is that how it works, Mitchell?

[Mitchell]

I mean, it can. That's what you're into? I'm down to trust Float?

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Jose]

No, no, baby, keep the jets off.

[Alexis]

I want to see through the water. Did she bite, though? Did she go back to your place for the hot tub?

[Mitchell]

Yeah, she was like, well, it sounds interesting and fun, but, like, I don't have a bathing suit with me. And I was like, well, you know, they got spares back in the condo. We can. That's not a problem.

[Alexis]

You have spare bathing suits in your condo? Is that what you just said, Mitchell?

[Mitchell]

I mean, yeah, I'll be like, told you my go to move. Got one piece. I got two people. Wow.

[Brooke]

You make it so that women can't even say no as an option.

[Alexis]

I feel like that should put me off more than it does.

[Jose]

I think I even got a fedora shaped swim cap.

[Alexis]

What? Like sharing a bathing suit with another woman is just.

[Brooke]

I just.

[Alexis]

I'm not into it.

[Brooke]

Well, I'm sure the hot tub cleanses and sanitizes. It's like a washing machine.

[Alexis]

Aren't you worried you come off as just like a player? You know, like, you got a hot tub with spider spare women's babies that makes you want to go more, but it doesn't make you want to call them back. Like, maybe you want to go for the night, but you're not expecting anything else.

[Brooke]

Maybe that doesn't matter because it sounds like Jamie was interested. Did you guys end up going in the hot tub?

[Mitchell]

So, yeah, we had another drink at the bar and then ended up going back to my place. And I think this is kind of where things maybe got away from me because right when we got there and before we even could get in the hot tub, the alarm on my phone went off and I had totally forgotten that I had this thing I needed to do for work. I couldn't avoid it for any other time. And I was like, hey, I'm so sorry. You can get in the hot tub. I have to do this thing for work real quick. But I could tell like immediately she was turned off. And ever since then, I can't get a hold of her. She's not responding to anything. It's total ghost mode.

[Alexis]

So she didn't.

[Jose]

That's.

[Alexis]

She didn't sit alone in your hot tub, did she?

[Mitchell]

Yeah, she didn't get in. I think once she realized I wasn't.

[Alexis]

Going to join her, that be so weird.

[Jose]

But you know what? If you were some crazy player, you know what I mean, you wouldn't say, oh, no, let's not do it. Like, you would say, screw, he is a crazy player.

[Alexis]

That's what he's been talking about?

[Jose]

I don't think so. I think. I think the fact that you had to say, hey, I honestly have work. I gotta pause the plans right before you get in a hot tub. I think that says a lot that you're not just looking for one thing. Maybe that's a good thing for her.

[Alexis]

I think she was just looking for one thing, and it didn't happen.

[Jose]

I didn't think of that.

[Alexis]

She's not calling him.

[Jose]

I didn't think of that, bro.

[Brooke]

Yeah, These are all good questions that we should ask directly to her. Reach out and call her and get your second date update right after this second date update. If we get this done and Mitchell, we help you out, are all four of us invited to come over to your hot tub? I don't think we. I don't think we've ever had a hot tub show party before. And maybe there's a reason for that, but.

[Alexis]

Yeah, there is.

[Brooke]

I'm willing to try it out. Mitch, you cool with that?

[Mitchell]

If y'all can make it happen. Yes.

[Jose]

Save a two piece for me. Extra large.

[Alexis]

You'd have to clean that thing afterwards.

[Brooke]

I'll tell you that if you don't know what's happening. One of our listeners, Mitchell, met a girl online named Jamie recently. They went out to drinks where he used his go to move on her, which is bringing up the hot tub back at his condo, where you can choose from any pre used bikini he keeps handy.

[Alexis]

I know, Mitchell, that you want to call her to, like, get a second date. I want to call her and ask what was going through her mind that she was going to put on a backup. Yeah, use baby store.

[Jose]

It's like whenever 21 instead of forever 20.

[Alexis]

Trust some dude that he washed it.

[Mitchell]

I mean, yeah, go ahead and ask her, but she seemed to be down with it.

[Alexis]

Oh, my God.

[Mitchell]

I. I wash. I wash the bathing suits. Okay.

[Alexis]

Yeah, sure.

[Jose]

Good. Good.

[Brooke]

All right. I mean, she was into it, but the problem was, as soon as they got back to Mitchell' his phone went off, reminding him he had some work he had to get done. Yeah, and she didn't want to stick around while that happened, so she took off. And now we're gonna try and figure out if we can get you another chance to get her back into that jacuzzi. That's what we all want.

[Alexis]

That's what she wants, too.

[Mitchell]

I mean, that's what I want. I'm at the front of the line.

[Brooke]

Okay, we all want it. Why doesn't she want it? Let's find Out Group goal. For once, we're all on the same page.

[Alexis]

We're all there. When you're in the hot tub with her, it's gonna be awkward.

[Brooke]

I'm gonna dial Jamie right now. What she has to say. Here we go.

[Jamie]

Hello?

[Brooke]

Hey, is this Jamie?

[Jamie]

Yes, it is.

[Brooke]

Jamie. What's up? This is Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, the radio show.

[Alexis]

Hey, Jamie.

[Jose]

Hey.

[Jamie]

Can I ask what this is about?

[Brooke]

This is about a hot tub party that we're having here that you're invited to.

[Jamie]

I have no idea what's going on. What do you need, actually?

[Brooke]

Well, we need some answers from you about why you're not calling back our good friend Mitchell, who you went out on a date with.

[Jamie]

Oh, my God.

[Jose]

Did the light bulb go off?

[Alexis]

I know. The hot tub's making sense now.

[Jamie]

Now I was like, what is happening right now?

[Brooke]

Yeah, because Mitchell reached out to us for this segment that we're doing right now called Second Date Update. He's trying to figure out why you're not calling him back after the whole hot tub thing didn't go down. Oh, he did tell us a little bit about it. He told us about going out to drinks with you at the bar and then going back to his condo, but then he had a work conflict.

[Jamie]

All right, I'll tell you. I'll tell you. We were having fun.

[Mitchell]

We.

[Jamie]

We did have a good time. And like, he said, hot tub. I was in the mood for some fun that night. I was like, okay, hot tub, condo, let's go.

[Alexis]

Even after he said, used bathing suit that you could use.

[Jamie]

Yeah. At that point, I mean, we were drinking. It was fun. I was.

[Alexis]

Okay. I was drunk.

[Jamie]

Come on. It was like.

[Mitchell]

Yes.

[Jamie]

All right, let's do this.

[Alexis]

Okay. So you were totally into it.

[Brooke]

Very.

[Jamie]

Yeah, we were.

[Mitchell]

And we were really.

[Jamie]

He is. He was. He's nice. I mean, we were having a good time.

[Alexis]

Okay.

[Jamie]

But an alarm went off on his phone. An alarm. And I was like. He goes, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. I have this work that I forgot about. And. And he goes, so I'm a video game streamer. And I'm like, what in the heck? What? Okay. So I was like, all right.

[Mitchell]

So.

[Jamie]

So what are you doing? You're going to play games? He was like, I actually was. Had this idea to get more views and more, you know, likes and all this stuff. I would play games, video games in my hot tub with this sexy woman, which is you.

[Jose]

Oh, my gosh.

[Brooke]

Wait, he invited you to be in his video stream in your Bikini.

[Jamie]

Exactly. Oh, and I'm like, was this plan. Did you, did you have this plan?

[Jose]

A lot of money to be made.

[Brooke]

I'll just let you know. Jamie, we didn't know anything about the video stream at all.

[Alexis]

We didn't even know that that's what he did. We had no idea.

[Jamie]

Of course. That doesn't even. You know what? That doesn't even surprise me.

[Alexis]

Is he streaming this right now? Can you do that? What?

[Brooke]

I don't know.

[Jose]

Oh, he could be.

[Brooke]

He's actually, he's actually on the other phone line.

[Jamie]

Oh, my God.

[Brooke]

And he's listening. He wants to talk to you.

[Mitchell]

I, I, you know, I see how it looks like it was a setup, but exactly honest. The sake of things just kind of lining up. But then I was like, well, why not just shoot my shot and see if it could happen?

[Jamie]

What is wr with your thinking with it? Like, what are you talking about, Mitchell?

[Brooke]

Don't you want to, like, say hi and then exchange pleasantries with her first?

[Mitchell]

I'm sorry. I'm a little overwhelmed here. I, you know, I'm just You and figure it out. We're all overwhelmed here together.

[Alexis]

Okay, wait, hold on. Mitchell, how could this have not been planned? You're the one that sets your streaming schedule. It's not like there's a boss out there saying, you gotta do this. Bikinis.

[Mitchell]

I got caught up in the date and having a great time and totally forgot about it.

[Alexis]

It's not the first time you've done it. That's why you have the bikinis. Alexis just called it.

[Jose]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Have you done this?

[Jamie]

I'm sure they're not washed.

[Brooke]

Have you ever done this before? Mitchell had another girl in your hot tub while you. Streamed.

[Alexis]

Remember? Don't lie, because people can find that video.

[Jamie]

Yeah, exactly.

[Mitchell]

I, I, there are a lot of things flying at me right now. Number one, I have never done that with another girl. And streaming in the hot tub, it was a, a stroke of not genius of the moment. And number two, I have to say, I absolutely wash the swimsuit.

[Brooke]

Keep driving that home.

[Alexis]

I don't know.

[Jose]

In his slight defense, both men and women do stream in hot tubs, and they make a lot of money. So he could be doing this on his own, too.

[Alexis]

Okay, if you were gonna make money, were you gonna give her a cut?

[Mitchell]

I'm totally down to give you a cut. Yeah, let's figure out a co ownership deal.

[Brooke]

Let's get you a new sexy fedora to that head.

[Alexis]

Oh, my God. That would be big. I feel like.

[Brooke]

Yeah, yeah. Maybe that's the reason that he. That he totally lost what he was supposed to do that night. The fedora was so cute, so sexy.

[Jamie]

I mean, what can I say?

[Mitchell]

You see it now you get it.

[Brooke]

I'm with you, man. I just want to make sure Jamie's on board. Cuz, Jamie, we would love to send you on another date with Mitchell. You don't have to get into a hot tub. You don't have to put on a bikini. You just have to sit down with him to dinner, and we'll pay for it.

[Alexis]

I mean, at least he's, like, honest and apparent. Like he is. Very true. It's. It's very obviously what you're getting with Mitchell, Right?

[Mitchell]

Look, I apologize again. I know it probably wasn't the best foot forward, but you were an incredible woman. You're beautiful. You're charming. I totally forgot about it. I'm not irresponsible like that. And I would love to fund all the fedoras you ever want to buy.

[Alexis]

Oh.

[Brooke]

Oh, Jamie, that's that video game money.

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Come on.

[Alexis]

A fatty.

[Brooke]

What do you say? Another date with them?

[Alexis]

No fedora, Daddy.

[Jose]

Oh, daddy.

[Alexis]

Oh, fu. Daddy. That sounds better.

[Jamie]

All right, let's do one more. I am gonna wear fedora, but I'm gonna bring my own freaking suit.

[Alexis]

I'll tell you, that'll be great.

[Mitchell]

I'm not mad at that at all. By all means. Sounds great. I thank you for giving me another chance. And thank you all for the help.

[Jose]

And remember, nudity isn't even allowed on a stream. If you're streaming, you can't get fully naked.

[Alexis]

No one was talking. No one was.

[Jose]

I'm sorry.

[Brooke]

I was interested in being on your stream, Jose, but never mind.

[Mitchell]

Hot tub. Party over.

[Brooke]

Adventures house. Yay.

[Jose]

Fedora's off.

[Alexis]

Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

[Brooke]

Oh, you know what I just thought of?

[Alexis]

What?

[Brooke]

His three for one target bikini sale. There's four of us. Oh, that means one of us is gonna have to go nude.

[Alexis]

Let me guess. You volunteer.

[Brooke]

I have already picked out of a hat.

[Alexis]

You're just gonna wear a hat?

[Brooke]

It's gonna be the hat.

[Alexis]

Why the hat?

[Brooke]

Because he likes fedoras.

[Alexis]

He does. Okay. I want to get invited back. I see.

[Brooke]

I mean, this. Honestly, this second date was an absolute miracle.

[Alexis]

I don't know how it happened.

[Jose]

I loved it.

[Brooke]

I mean, this guy invites a girl over, and when she's there, asks her to go live on camera while wearing a bikini for his video game stream. If I told you that going in that we were going to find out that information, we'd say 0% chance this guy gets a date.

[Alexis]

I feel like it's such a look at the dating world right now. Like, options very limited. Just taking what you can get out there.

[Brooke]

He was just kind of nice and a little bit sincere, and that was all it took.

[Alexis]

Apparently those bikinis were cute. I mean, they're from Target. Obviously they're cute.

[Brooke]

But if you ever want to get a second date update or invite us over for a hot tub party, I'll.

[Jose]

Just play the video game.

[Brooke]

You can always email the show. We'll call the person who isn't calling you back.

[Alexis]

Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.