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Text in your address. I can. I can show up. Jose will come to your house and give you hugs and food, or you give me food. And also, there's 45 more minutes of this dumb content that apparently you like, which we're really grateful for. You can go over to the main feed for the full show, Brooke and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff. Yeah. Second date update. We've been doing these long enough to know that people fib on their dating profiles. Yeah, and sooner or later, they're probably gonna get caught. Yeah. Doesn't matter if that happens on your first date or four months into the relationship when you say hey. So those noises upstairs aren't actually rodents. It's my other secret family. So I just gotta go back up there for dessert in, like, five minutes, and then I'll come back down. We can go out bowling, just like I promised. I thought they were gonna be living with their parents, Jeffrey, not a whole nother family. That came out eventually. Our listener Ray, says he's worried his lie may come back to bite him and he wants to nip it in the bud. Today, we're going to figure out what's going on in a second. But first, Ray, welcome to the show. Hey, how you doing? Oh, man. Probably better than you, Ray. I mean, if you're coming on to admit that you lied about something. How are you feeling? Yeah, I just kind of have, like, all this guilt, and I know this isn't really, like, the normal process. Are you talking in hushed tones? Because your secret family's in the other room and they're going to hear this. Yeah, sorry, I'm just a little nervous, I guess. This is a safe space. You can be honest with us, and we'll try not to judge you. But before we get into the whole thing, what is this girl's name that you went out with? Why do you think she's not calling you back? Well. Well, she calling me back. Oh, she is? Yeah, she. She wants to definitely continue. Okay, what's her name? Oh, I'm sorry. Her. Her name is Zoe. Zoe. Okay. Okay. So you're. You're excited about that piece, right? That she wants to see you again? Yeah, excited about that. We don't do a lot of second date updates where the other person wants to go out on another date, but they're calling us anyway. Was this like a big, big, crazy lie? Like I'm a complete different identity? Or is this like, oh, I have a sixth toe I didn't talk about? Well, I guess you'll have to be the judge of that. Okay, well, maybe we're asking too many questions here. I want you to be on record that he just asked us to judge him. Okay? So whatever happens next, you asked for it. We're safe. Okay, let's maybe start at the beginning with how you. You and Zoe met and what you did for your date. So we met. Met online. Yeah. And we started talking, and we went out to this, like, this real fancy Italian restaurant. Oh, okay. So you want to do Impressor? Was that your idea? Yeah, that was kind of the goal. But I think I made a mistake. You know, I just. On my online profile, you know, I have this little section that says that I won the lottery. Oh, God. And I actually did. I won the lottery a couple years back. How much? How much? Around $2 million. Congratulations, man. I was expecting, like, a technicality. Like, I won the lottery. The genetic lottery. I thought it was gonna be, like, five bucks. Yeah, like a scratch ticket. But $2 million, that's some serious cash. Yeah, it was great while it lasted. Blown through $2 million. Did you buy a house? Well, I wish. I wish I bought a house. Oh, no. So you're one of those lottery ruined my life candidates. You blew the money on something else? Yeah, I bought this really cool hovercraft. Hovercraft? It's like a boat that can, like, drive on, like, land and water. Like one of those swamp boats. Seen those things? That's good. I would show up to work in a hovercraft and feel pretty good about myself. Very practical. I mean. No, I didn't say it was practical. I would just feel cool. Yeah, it's flashy. But you don't have a house to store the hovercraft at, so what else did you get? So I would. I hit another boat and then I got sued. Oh, you crashed your hovercraft. Okay. Okay. And I'm guessing you didn't have insurance on it. Okay, No, I didn't know that you had insurance. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. It's kind of a vehicle thing. Yeah. Oh, my God. Why would you put this on your dating profile if you don't have any money left? But there's funny prompts, like two truths and a lie and stuff. I think this would be good for that. Oh, don't you think it's sending out the message that I am rich? Well, maybe I'm not financially responsible. I think it's funny to say you crash something out of it. Well, it is interesting. It's a good question from Brooke there. Why did you put it on your profile? It's not a lie. I mean, I did win it. And I guess maybe if I won it once before, I might be prone to winning it again. I'm sure that's how it works. Putting out the vibe. That's how odds go. You're a lucky guy, and girls should know that about you. So how does all of this relate to your date or whatever happened between you and Zoe? Well, that's the thing is because we went to this bougie place and that she might, you know, have this expectation that, you know. Did you guys talk about it on your date? Well, yeah, we talked about it, but, you know, I didn't say that I'm basically broke. No, you know, I think it's a cool story. Like, how did you win it? What was your reaction? What's the first thing you buy? It's a good conversation. I think it's a huge red flag. Flag that he spent all the money that there's nothing left. I mean, just that you're not very fiscally responsible. It's a cool start of a story, but with a very, very sad ending. Yeah, he could have done a lot more with that. And so now clearly you're worried that she's going to find this out about you, that you blew your $2 million. I hope he's worried that he has to tell her the truth, Jeff. Well, yeah, I'm really not worried about any of that. I'm just worried about her expectations. More expensive dates that I really can't afford. Okay, so did you actually call in because, you know, we give a free gift card at the end of this. Is that what's going on? The gift card wouldn't hurt right now, that's for sure. Okay. Okay. Okay. What are we doing here, though? Because she already wants to go out with you. So what's our question for her? Well, I'm hoping that when you ask her about the date, she likes me for me and not really my money. And that's the case that we can continue. That's what I'm hoping for. Just ask her questions about you get the vibe you're trying to read the room here. So we're going to call Zoe and try to get her to vastly lower her expectations on you and still want to go out with you when we come back and do your second date update right after this. Thank you. All right, man, hold on. Second date update. If you're just joining us, we got a lottery winner on the phone with us right now who took home 2 million bucks a few years ago. Unfortunately, he blew pretty much all of it on, quote, a bunch of dumb crap including a hovercraft that he ended up crashing into a boat. Yeah, with no insurance, so. But look, he seems like a really good hearted dude who met a nice woman recently named Zoe. She already wants to see him again, but he's a little bit worried that the expectations of dating a millionaire because she doesn't know that he blew all the money yet. That could break them before they even get started on this relationship. Well, and that's the thing. It does kind of feel like a lie. Even though you did win the lottery, like the way you're portraying it isn't fully honest. But, Brooke, he shouldn't be on his profile. Like, hey, by the way, I'm broke after winning the lottery. I mean, like, how honest do you want him to be again? Another funny story instead of the fact. Funny but not romantic. Like, no girl's gonna swipe on that. I know, but don't you feel like. I mean, let's be honest. What's his name? Oh, God, I always forget. See, if you have a net worth of under $5 million, she refuses to remember who you are. I don't think I remember either. What is it? No, it's. I got this. It's Ray. He had to look at his notes. I wrote it down. Ray, we remember you. I heard lottery winner and everything else went blank, Right? Yeah, that happens to most people. That's all they could think about. Yeah, just for the. I never lied. I know. I'm just saying you kind of misrepresented the finance. She thought he only won $10 like we did when he first. Well, stop doubling down on Ray here and call Zoe. And remember, we're trying to figure out if she really likes Ray for Ray or if she was just mesmerized by the lottery winner. If she thought she won the dating lottery. There you go. By meeting a lottery winner. All right, so here we go. I'm in A dollar number right now. Hello? Hi, we're looking for Zoe. This is Zoe. Hey, Zoe. I'm calling from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, Zoe, you're on the morning on the air with us. You might see my face up on a billboard in a city near you. Oh, we have been on billboards. Were we upside down on a billboard one time? Yeah, it was an accident. Yes, but you know what? I thought it got more attention than when we're right. Everyone remembers that one but Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And we're good friends with a guy that, you know named Ray. Okay. Hi. Yeah, hello. Hi. I know Ray. Cute Ray that you went out on a date with. Brooke calls him cute. Yeah. Yeah, he was fun, right? And we heard a little bit about the date. Ray said he had a blast with you at dinner the other night and wants to see you again. Well, that's great. But he's not showing it because I've been trying to hang out with him again and he's not responding. I see. Okay. Yeah, no, he actually had a really good time. Yeah. And he knows that you've been wanting to see him. Ray is just kind of like a reserved type of guy, though. And he needs, like, a third party to come and help him gauge, like, what you really think about him. So you guys are like his assistants? Like, for him. He pays us more than our own job. This is free, but, yeah, yeah, we're unpaid. We're doing this out of the kindness of our hearts. He just seems like a nice guy who's interested in you. And so what. What do you think? Think about Ray. I mean, I had a good time. I've been wanting to get together with him again. Okay, Can I ask, what did you like about him? Yeah, he just, like, was nice and normal and he had some really interesting things about himself that, you know, other people don't have. And so he was unique in that way. Oh, like what? Well, it was cool. He told me that he won the lottery at some point. And, you know, I play scratch off like, every week, and I was just like, oh, that's so cool that someone actually won exist. Yeah, I didn't find that part very interesting about him. I was more focused on, like, his personality. Interesting, personally. Oh, I can see why. Like, if him and I were, like, best friends, that wouldn't be the first thing that I would mention about Ray. Really? I feel like it'd come up when I'm drunk. If I had a friend that won the line that just Speaks to the type of person that Alexis is. That's honest. That's all right, Alexis. The thing is, Zoe, Ray has had some bad experiences before with women who maybe were in it for the wrong reasons. Yeah. I mean, at this age in our lives, we've all had bad experiences with people. Sure. So let's say that Ray was the same exact guy that you went out with to dinner the other night, but he did not have the lottery attached. Would you still like him? I mean, that's like, part of who he is, and that's like part of his story, like I. True. That's a small part, though. If you cut that part out, would you still love Ray for Ray? Well, I don't love anyone yet. Let's just be clear. I enjoyed getting to know him and I wanted to go on another date with him, so. But if you took. I think what Jeffrey's asking is, if the lottery wasn't involved at all, would you still want to go on another date with him? So are you telling me that he didn't win the lottery? No, no, he. No, that's totally true. He won the lottery a while ago. It was a long time ago. Some of the expectations that come with winning aren't. What? I know. It's complicated. It's kind of hard for us to tell you. It'd be easier to just let Ray explain it himself because he's on the other line listening right now. What in the world is going on? This is, like, super weird. Yeah, these second date calls do get kind of weird sometimes. But Ray really is there and he wants to speak with Ray. Zoe, how you doing? Oh, super confused. How are you doing? Ray? I'm sorry for all this. You know, I just wanted to really just try to, you know, understand how genuine you are and liking me. Yeah, okay. You know, so it's true. I did win the lottery, but I also, you know, I don't have any of the money left over. I blew it. Not a lot. You're just gonna drop that? Yeah. No, I don't. I don't have any of it at all. Oh, man. There's the truth. Okay? We put it all out there for you, Zoe. Okay? Which is admirable. That he lost all his money, I guess. Yeah. That. He's coming clean. Zoe. He's coming clean. You guys, let her say something that's nice. Like, I appreciate that he's coming clean, but, like, why did you lie to me? Yeah, it's like if I put a profile picture up of me weighing 50 extra pounds than I do now. Like, at one point, I was that skinny. You mean less. Should he have sent you a picture of his wallet before you guys met up just to prove with nothing in it? I think she's saying he's representing himself. Wrong. Yeah, I mean, it's more of, like, a fun story that I have. You know, I never once said that I still had the money. You took me out to a beautiful restaurant and acted like you had a bunch of money. And I'm not trying to say that I'm after your money, but, like, when you sweep a woman off of her feet, you're giving her an expectation. Well, you can't be after my money because I don't have any. She knows that now. I think she said she wasn't after your money. Like, if I'm being honest, I'm more concerned about your character. Mm. Oh. Why? I think he's a liar. Why? Are you serious? What? Cause he's a former millionaire and not a current millionaire? Cause he's representing himself as a millionaire, and he's not. It's misleading. She got a nice first date. Like, what do you want? Well, she's gonna take you to Chipotle. How much of the conversation was about the lottery? It wasn't, like, the first thing that we talked about, but, you know, you talk about things that are on the profile. So it was like, how did you win? What game did you play? Like, what were your numbers like? His eyes. I play. I want to know. It's a fun game to play even when you don't win. Guys, like, if you want. That's not what it's about, though. Well, hey, you know, I'm just letting you know, I'm not. I'm not done playing the lottery. I mean, there's a chance that I still really could win again. Wait a minute. Wait. That's your selling point? You think you're gonna win again, bro? Well, you know, I mean, a couple hundred bucks a week or something. Oh, my gosh, bro, wait. So many lines. You told us you were broke. Well, I'm broke after I buy the tickets. But not before you're putting all of your financial future into the lotto. Yeah, like I said before, I got lucky once. It'll happen again. That's what they say. Lightning always strikes in the same place two times. Always. And I'm sure that's what any financial advisor would tell you. This is just like your first date. It's gonna strike a second time as soon as we offer to send you guys out on Another date. And they promised us gift cards, too, so we don't have to worry about that. If I'm being honest, like Ray, I would want you to become an adult before we ever went on a second date again. Ow. Okay. Well, Ray, I'm sorry, man. Looks like she doesn't want to go out with you after all. That's why I called. I kind of figured she'd be a gold digger. Oh, my God. You're an idiot. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, looking for excitement. Chumba Casino is here. Play anytime. Play anywhere. Play on the train. Play at the store. Play at home. Play when you're bored. Play today for your chance to win and get daily bonuses when you log in. So what are you waiting for? Don't delay. Chumba Casino is free to play. 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