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Jeff
Second Date Update. Oh, every guy wants to know the secret for how to meet gorgeous women every time you go out.
Jose
Oh, okay, Jeff.
Jeff
And are you that thirsty?
Jose
Yeah.
Jeff
Everybody would want to know what that secret was. Oh, if there was a secret.
Jose
Hey, I'll find the gorgeous ladies too. Where are we at?
Jeff
It's actually really easy. Just be hot, rich or foreign. Any one of those. Preferably all three. But if you're just one, you shouldn't even have to try.
Jose
Oh, it's that easy, huh?
Jeff
Well, the thing is, I get if you're not any of those. Alexis, don't say ew. Don't worry, there's still hope. Because one of our listeners says he figured out a simple trick that allows any man to easily meet the hottest girls at the club every night.
Jose
Okay.
Jeff
Says it works for him, but apparently he might have to hang up his trick for good because he thinks he may have found a really, really special lady. That's why he needs our help. So let's talk to Wes. Wes. Welcome to the show, ma' am.
Wes
Hey, thanks for having me.
Jose
Okay. I love hearing these tricks from a guy perspective. Really? I'm always, like, skeptical because it's like a club and there's tricks like, it feels.
Jeff
Why she's saying that.
Jose
It feels hate on it, but I want to hear it. Okay.
Jeff
And Wes, can you confirm you're not free, foreign, hot, or rich?
Wes
I mean, I can't run out hot, but you know what I'm saying. I wouldn't say I'm on the rich guy.
Tina
Okay.
Jeff
All right. So this would work for anybody. What's your secret? You're going to share with us?
Wes
Yeah, yeah. I'm going to give a pointer out to folks. Okay, so this is the thing. You got to think psychology, right? So I try and find a place where most women go.
Jose
That's a good thing to do before you try to meet a woman. I like it so far.
Jeff
Where do most women go?
Wes
Most women go to clubs. So you see a lot of women in clubs, right, because they get in.
Jeff
Free and they get step one. Go to the club. Yeah. Okay. I think everyone's already doing step one.
Jose
I don't know if you can find a club that's all dudes. Tell me because I'll be there.
Jeff
Well, it's probably. They're probably not into you, Brooke.
Jose
It'd still be fun.
Jeff
Wesley, you're smoother than I thought you would be. So keep going. Now you're at the club.
Wes
All right, so we're at the club. Got tons of women there. What do all women want?
Jeff
Money. Free drinks.
Jose
You?
Wes
Free drinks.
Jose
But I thought you were my man.
Wes
I'm going there. Definitely not rich, but you got to give some kind of incentive. So what I do is I go to the bar, okay? I turn my back to the bartender. So I see all the women coming toward me. They're coming for me. So instead of me having to go and find them, approach them, they're coming towards me.
Jeff
I'm sorry, you block the Bar. Well, that.
Jose
Wait, coming towards you. Are they just in line, pushing their way to the front?
Jeff
You're blocking everyone. In his mind, they're coming towards him.
Jose
But really they're like, I see a gap.
Jeff
Go, go, go. Well, I mean, that sounds funny, but I can see in like, in a psychology way, you're kind of tricking yourself into not being scared. Yeah. Girls are coming.
Jose
Okay, so it' looking better on you than women so far.
Jeff
So how do you get the women to actually, like, engage with you and not push you out of the way to get to the bar without having to buy 10 drinks?
Wes
So this is the deal. I say that it's my birthday, and I asked them if they like to do a shot with me.
Jeff
Oh, birthday shots.
Wes
Birthday shot.
Jose
Shot means that your. Your interaction with them is usually about 25 seconds long. Which a girl would say yes to, though, because that's perfect.
Jeff
Totally.
Wes
I mean, that's the opening line. Maybe we get into conversation, you know, usually try, you know, some kind of complimen.
Jeff
Okay.
Jose
Okay. So the trick is to lie to them and tell them it's your birthday.
Wes
I mean, I'm a young old dude, you know, Like, I do this everywhere I go, and it, you know, it works like 99 of the time. It works at least get a conversation going. Maybe that leads to a dance. The dance floor. Maybe that brings me over to the rest of the girlfriends, but once I'm in, I'm in.
Jose
Okay, that's fun too. Who's the special one that you're in with?
Jeff
Yeah, you said you met a special girl using this tactic.
Wes
Yeah, so I met this girl named Tina. She did the birthday shot with me. She started asking me what I'm doing for the weekend. I'm celebrating. Learned a little bit about her. She learned a little bit about me. There was a vibe. We made out.
Jeff
That's a tell.
Jose
Is it though? Again, you're at a club. Like, what else do you do? Like, I mean, my club days are over, but like, free shots and making out with randos on the dance floor, that basically summarizes my night.
Jeff
Yeah, okay, you're being kind of a hater on his.
Jose
I'm just saying it's not that much different than it used to be.
Jeff
Jeff, I think this is great. It's working for you. Clearly you met this great girl. Tina had a perfect connection with her. So how did that night end?
Wes
It was real, authentic connection. Like I said, we made out, text a little bit the next day, tried to plan something, but she stopped returning My text.
Jose
Okay. Do you have any idea why?
Wes
I have no idea why. Like I said, I've been doing this for a while. I'm ready to meet the one. And I actually was genuinely interested in what she had to offer and what we talked about and whatnot.
Jeff
All right, well, we're going to give this all that we have, right, Brooke?
Jose
Oh, yeah. I mean, true love at a club. You know how it goes. Actually, I'm rooting for you, man. Like, I think it's sweet that you met somebody that you think is really special. I just don't want you to be disappointed if she wasn't taking it as seriously as you were.
Jeff
And at least you have the trick. Even if she doesn't like you, you can. You got the icebreaker.
Jose
TR she gave you her number. That's a good sign.
Jeff
And she kissed. Well, again, sorry, I forgot. That's not a big thing.
Wes
I make out with a lot of women doing this. Like, yeah, that happened, but they're not a lot that I get into a good conversation and get a phone number with and, like, have a genuine vibe with. Like, you know, quick and easy is one thing, but quality is something different.
Jeff
She stands out. Oh, wow. Well, let's call this quality woman. Tina. We'll come back and get you your second date update so you can retire this trick forever.
Wes
Wow.
Jeff
Or at least till next Friday.
Jose
Okay, whatever works.
Jeff
We're gonna do it right after this second date update. It's not easy for the average guy to meet a woman nowadays. On the apps or out in the wild. Yeah, you gotta be sneaky and kind of smart about it. Like our listeners.
Jose
Feel good when you say that, Jeff.
Jeff
You know, surprise ladies by jumping up around tactical. Maybe that's a better word. Yeah, that is a lot better. Our listener Wes said he uses a trick. It's kind of a psychology hack. When he goes out to the clubs where he puts his back to the bartender so it looks like the women are approaching him instead of the bar.
Jose
Come to me, my beautiful ladies.
Jeff
And when he sees one that meets his standards, just like a crouching tiger, he pounces and says, hey, it's my birthday. You want to have a free shot to celebrate? Okay, yeah.
Jose
I mean, the word free in there really helps that statement.
Jeff
And even though he's been using that trick for, who knows, maybe months or years.
Jose
It sounds like years.
Jeff
He says he finally found a special lady named Tina who he could see having maybe more than just a dance floor. Make out.
Jose
He really likes her.
Jeff
He does. So, Brooke, how Are we going to help him pull this off today?
Jose
Well, I don't think we're going to reveal that. He's been trying a trick for years, and then it finally worked on her.
Jeff
That's a good point. Unless Wes wants us to bring that up with her.
Jose
I got you, Wes. I got your back. All right.
Jeff
Okay. Another tactical move on our part.
Jose
How are you feeling right now, Wes?
Wes
I mean, you know, like I said, I'm at a point where I want to meet the One, and I'm feeling a little vulnerable right now, so I need y' all to help. I'm ready to get this going.
Jeff
Okay, well, maybe this will help. I want you to picture yourself with your back to a virtual bar right now, and let's pretend that it's your birthday today.
Wes
Yeah, yeah.
Jeff
He already chilled out a little bit. Let's call Tina here. We'll see if she picks up. Hopefully we can get some answers from her. Here we go.
Tina
Hello?
Jeff
Hey, what is. Hey, is this Tina? Smooth Jeff?
Jose
Oh, no, that's what I was thinking. Jose.
Jeff
He's gonna help our guy.
Jose
Yeah, I'm pushing Jeff aside to get to the bar.
Jeff
I had something in my throat. I was trying not to cough.
Jose
Okay, yeah, excuses.
Jeff
Sorry. Tina, are you there?
Tina
Yeah. Who is this?
Jose
Sorry, it's a lot of us.
Jeff
Yeah, this is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Tina
It's who? What? It's. What is this?
Jeff
We're Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're a radio show. And you're on it right now on a segment called A Second Date Update. Hey. Which is awesome.
Jose
She says.
Jeff
Okay, I hear the skepticism. So it's actually a really cool thing that we do where we try and help our listeners get back in touch with someone after they went on a date or they met out somewhere and had a really nice time together. And that was the case with you and a guy named Wes.
Tina
Oh, Wes. Yeah.
Jeff
Yeah. You met each other out at the bars one night, and it was Wes's birthday, so you guys took, like, a celebratory shot together and ended up vibing and pretty much hanging out all night.
Jose
He had a great time.
Tina
Yeah, well, I thought he was a good guy. He was that smooth kind of talker that I like, and he dressed really nice, and I liked that.
Jeff
Yeah, I know the type. Keep going.
Jose
Do you remember how this conversation started? You do know the type. Shh, shh, shh.
Jeff
We're talking to Tina now. All that sounds really positive.
Jose
Yeah. What happened?
Tina
Well, I've got friends that have had really bad experiences with guys. Like, you can never really tell what the deal is.
Jose
You mean just women who date men?
Tina
Yes.
Jeff
Yeah. Seriously?
Tina
Yeah, that's what I mean. So I went on Facebook and I went to Paige. Are we dating the same guy?
Jose
Oh, no, not that.
Jeff
Geez.
Jose
I've heard bad things about a little toxic, I'd say. I don't know if you can believe anything that's on there.
Jeff
Well, for people that don't know. What is that?
Tina
It's a Facebook page that women go on and they post pictures of guys that other women should be suspect of.
Jose
But you don't know, like, you don't know if these women have been like jolted or. You know, it's like my cousin. Cousin dated him and heard this or like, and it's cruel. Like there's cruel stuff.
Jeff
So you're saying you went on there and saw Wes somewhere?
Tina
Yes, his picture was on there and there were comments. Oh, I took a shot with him on his birthday and clearly, yeah, the same exact thing. I guess he has more than one birthday.
Jeff
Oh, no.
Jose
Isn't that amazing? Who can have more than one birthday? That's so cool.
Jeff
Impressive.
Jose
Yeah.
Jeff
Technology nowadays, am I right?
Jose
You didn't like that he was using that to meet you?
Tina
Oh, hell no. I did not like that at all. You know, and I'm still going out to the clubs, but I certainly am looking for a long term relationship. I don't have time for games.
Jeff
Well, so is West. West said that he wants a long term thing too.
Jose
That's the worst thing that was said about him. I've seen meaner stuff on there.
Jeff
And sometimes some people, like, they take their birthday and they stretch it out for like a whole week or a whole month, and it's like my birthday month. Maybe that's what was going on.
Tina
Yeah, I don't know.
Jeff
I don't know either. The only way to find out is to have you actually talk to Wes about it.
Jose
Oh, birthday treat.
Jeff
And wouldn't you know, he's listening right now on the other phone line waiting to talk to you.
Tina
Oh, no. Oh, no.
Wes
Hey, Tina.
Tina
Hi.
Jeff
Hey.
Brooke
Hey.
Tina
I didn't know you were on the other line.
Wes
How you doing? I mean, it's been a minute.
Tina
Yeah, listen, I just had to look into a little bit more Wes because you are a smooth moving guy, you know? So I went on this page and there are other women out there saying, oh, I had a birthday shot with him too, like two months ago. So you must have more than one birthday.
Wes
I mean, busted it's happened a few times.
Jose
There's the truth.
Jeff
That's our other segment.
Wes
So, look, I am at a point in my life where I am trying to change things. I really enjoyed the time that we had. I really did. That's what I told Brook and the crew, that I enjoyed the time we had. And I was thinking, there's other things that you don't know about me that I would like to know.
Tina
Like.
Wes
I like putting my business out there like that, but I'm actually a wealthy guy.
Jose
Oh, wait, no.
Jeff
Hold on, Brooke. Wait a second. Let's see where this goes.
Tina
You're wealthy?
Wes
I actually am doing well. I've got a car dealership that has been doing well. And sometimes I do own two of them. Yes.
Jose
How do you only sometimes own a car dealership?
Jeff
Wes, he loans one, he owns the other one.
Jose
Just tell her what you told. That you met this amazing woman, that you had this connection that you've never had with anybody else before and that you're so excited about about it.
Jeff
Boo. Talk more about the cars.
Wes
Why can't both things be true?
Tina
Why can't both? You know what? I don't know. Like I am. Maybe I'm not at that place where I'm looking for a long term. Maybe I'm just looking for a guy who's got a buck or two and he's willing to take me out.
Jeff
Are you saying that you don't believe him about the cars or.
Tina
You know what I'm saying at this point is I don't care if he's willing to take me out on a.
Jeff
Second date, spend money on me and make out again.
Jose
All he had to say was, I'm rich and I sometimes own two car dealerships.
Jeff
I'm trying to understand where your mind is at.
Wes
We don't need to understand anything. We just need to go out, just see how things go.
Jeff
Okay, I. I don't know how.
Jose
He was already buying you free drinks.
Jeff
I don't understand. Well, officially, we'd like to offer to send you two out on a date. Oh, this is. Is perfect, cuz it's his birthday in a couple days.
Jose
Yeah, it was already his birthday.
Jeff
No, it comes up every month, Brooke.
Tina
No, it's today. It's today.
Jeff
Well, in honor of his birthday today, would you like to meet up with Wes one more time and we would pay for the date?
Tina
Absolutely not. I just scammed him like he scammed me.
Jeff
Oh. Oh, my God.
Wes
What's going on here? I mean, did you not get it? Like I said, I'm rich.
Tina
Nobody believes that. Just like every girl on that Facebook page.
Jeff
Oh, man.
Jose
Why do I feel like his picture's getting posted a second time?
Jeff
Yeah.
Jose
So with his net worth underneath.
Jeff
Yeah, on Forbes. That's where it's gonna be.
Wes
I'm really thrown right now. You know, like I said, it's not every day that I'm vulnerable and put myself out there and actually try it.
Tina
Oh, and thank you. So hurt.
Wes
I think so.
Jeff
Bad things happen to good people.
Jose
Okay, let's just remember you. You weren't totally honest with her.
Jeff
So just because he wasn't rich at the start of the call and then he was rich by the end, doesn't mean that he's not being honest. Brooke. Yeah, the stock market fluctuates a lot. Brooke. Yes. $10 million can come and go into accounts all the time. Now let's get on the phone before he loses. Yeah, I know.
Jose
Do I own three color dealerships right now? Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
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Podcast Summary: "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update Classic: The Birthday Trick"
Podcast Information:
The episode kicks off with the hosts, Brooke and Jeffrey, introducing the theme of the show: helping listeners navigate the often tricky terrain of dating, particularly when they've been ghosted after a first date. The focus of this installment is a listener named Wes, who shares his unique approach to meeting women and his recent experience with a special someone named Tina.
Timestamp: [04:12]
Jeff introduces the concept by questioning the secret to consistently meeting attractive women. Amid playful banter, a listener named Wes steps into the conversation with his "birthday trick" designed to effortlessly attract women at clubs.
Key Points:
Notable Quote:
"The trick is to lie to them and tell them it's your birthday." – Wes ([07:38])
Timestamp: [08:11]
Wes recounts meeting Tina using his birthday trick. The initial interaction was promising, leading to meaningful conversation and a mutual connection.
Key Points:
Notable Quote:
"It was real, authentic connection. Like I said, we made out, text a little bit the next day, tried to plan something, but she stopped returning my text." – Wes ([09:03])
Timestamp: [09:06]
Despite the promising start, Tina ceases communication, leaving Wes puzzled and seeking answers. This leads Brooke and Jeffrey to delve deeper into the situation to provide Wes with a "second date update."
Key Points:
Notable Quote:
"She kissed. Well, again, sorry, I forgot. That's not a big thing." – Jeff ([08:30])
Timestamp: [11:12]
In a bold move, Brooke and Jeffrey connect Wes and Tina live on air to address the ghosting issue head-on. This segment aims to provide closure and clarity for Wes.
Key Points:
Notable Quotes:
Timestamp: [19:43]
Post-confrontation, the hosts reflect on the complexities of dating and the importance of honesty. They discuss the delicate balance between strategic dating tactics and genuine connections.
Key Points:
Notable Quote:
"The only way to find out is to have you actually talk to Wes about it." – Jeff ([15:50])
The episode serves as both an entertaining and insightful exploration of modern dating challenges. Through Wes's story, listeners witness the highs and lows of attempting to forge connections in a fast-paced social environment. The live interaction between Wes and Tina adds a layer of authenticity, emphasizing the real emotions involved in seeking a second date.
Key Takeaways:
Final Quote:
"Bad things happen to good people." – Jeff ([19:40])
Conclusion
"Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update" delivers a compelling narrative that blends humor, strategy, and heartfelt moments. Through Wes's journey, the podcast sheds light on the intricacies of modern dating, offering listeners both entertainment and valuable insights into fostering meaningful relationships.