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Brooke
Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. We got a Saturday treat for you. Like we always do. Double the second date today.
Jose
But yes, Saturday treats are delicious.
Brooke
Can I just say, please go follow our socials. Or if you're not already on our YouTube, find it. It's at Brooke and Jeffrey. Jose's dare was so amazing. His. I'm so proud of you.
Jeffrey
Thanks.
Brooke
You had the best attitude.
Jose
I mean, it's very. It's like, hard to get me embarrassed, but you guys really did it.
Brooke
We did it.
Jose
It's been a while since I felt like the warm face getting read like, oh, man.
Brooke
All we can tell you about it. You have to see it. Yeah. All it took was an inflatable sumo suit. Delivery pickups. That's all it took. And of course, Jeffrey's Song of the Week was amazing this week. If it's not viral on Tik Tok, then I don't even believe in TikTok anymore.
Jeffrey
Wow.
Brooke
What a statement. That is my statement.
Jose
Make it go viral somewhere else like MySpace or something.
Brooke
Right?
Jose
That'd be pretty impressive.
Brooke
It'd actually fit.
Jose
We could do that.
Brooke
It'd fit with the guy in the song, you know what I mean? The boyfriend song. So definitely check those out. And right now, just sit back and relax and enjoy two back to back second date classics.
Jose
Honestly, I don't know if we're classy enough for this phone call coming up.
Brooke
Here, because I'm gonna raise my hand and say, I'm not. I don't even know what you're gonna say next.
Jose
Well, because here's some of the information that I have about it.
Brooke
Okay?
Jose
Think champagne, but 30,000ft up in the air.
Jeffrey
Whoa.
Jose
Wow. And forget TSA pre check when the limo drives you right to the door of the plane, because this may be one of our first international second dates that we've ever done. So come on and take a ride with us. Okay.
Brooke
Let's pretend like we're rich, too.
Jose
I won in the limo. We're not at 30,000ft popping bubbly. We're at ground level in the back of a city bus, drinking a beer that somebody left here in one of the cup holders. It's classy in a different way.
Brooke
It's still beer.
Jose
Yep. It counts for your second date.
Brooke
Update.
Jose
Right after this second date update. You know, it's not very often we have a first date, go international.
Brooke
Ooh.
Jose
And we're not talking House of Pancakes international.
Brooke
That's also fun, though.
Jose
I mean, grab a passport, hop a plane, get the full TSA how do you do experience.
Brooke
Did they just go for that part?
Jose
Maybe that's what I just go to the airport for. But let's talk to this world traveler named Zach. Welcome to the show, man. Or should I say, guten tight to el show? I think you just fixed a bunch of languages. Pretty sure I nailed it. So, Zach, what's up, man? How you doing?
Jeffrey
I'm doing good. Thanks for having me, guys. I appreciate it.
Brooke
Oh, I'm so excited to hear your story. Did you meet this lady here, or is it an international love that you found?
Jeffrey
So. We actually met on a private jet.
Jose
Sorry? You said private jet, and we all freaked out. We don't know a lot of the people that have those.
Brooke
God. Yeah, right.
Jose
How did you meet her there?
Jeffrey
She was actually working the flight. She was one of our attendants.
Brooke
Oh, one of our attendants. Why were you there?
Jeffrey
I was there because I am just a regular civilian, but my friend sold his company and was treating me.
Jose
Does your friend need any more friends?
Brooke
I think we're too late. You got to get into the ground level with these people.
Jose
Yeah, they've already taken off. Okay. That's awesome, man. What was her name?
Jeffrey
Lamy.
Brooke
Lamy. Elainey Lamey or Elaine.
Jeffrey
It was actually with an M, which was cool.
Brooke
Yeah, like the horse is late.
Jose
Exactly. She's gone farther in life than any of us have.
Brooke
Wait. Yeah. Now, where does she live?
Jeffrey
She lives right here.
Brooke
Oh, she does? Okay.
Jose
Yeah.
Brooke
I don't think we make can make international calls, so tell us how that went, that plan.
Jeffrey
It went really good. Like, usually they do domestic flights, but because it was international, it was a little longer than normal. So she had, like, a lot of time to chat. And I got to kind of know her and, like, her world. Like, I didn't even realize renting these jets is, like, $15,000 an hour.
Brooke
Whoa. Dang, Brooke.
Jose
That's like, what, your daycare expense or what is that?
Brooke
That just two hours ago? That's still a lot.
Jose
Wow.
Brooke
Yeah, right? That's crazy. I mean, was she just being nice, or was there, like, a vi. You two.
Jeffrey
Oh, there was a vibe towards the end of the flight. I actually, like, checked in with her, and I was like, you know, I bet you every guy does this, but I would just feel bad the rest of my trip, like, oh, you didn't go for it? So I just asked her out, and she was like, I'd love to go out with you. And we actually. Actually ended up going out for drinks the very next night.
Brooke
Wow. She stays on the whole trip with you?
Jeffrey
Yeah, because we were flying back on the same jet.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jeffrey
So they were there for a couple days, too.
Brooke
Now, did she buy? Because I heard that those flight attendants on private jets make a lot of money. Yeah, I hear they make good money.
Jeffrey
I don't know about the salary, but she was telling me how much people tip, and I don't want to say that publicly, but I was like, oh, wow, that's cool.
Jose
I imagine it's a lot.
Brooke
You said, oh, well, that's cool. While, like, stifling all of your shots.
Jose
You think she was maybe trying to hint to you what she was hoping you would do at the end of your trip?
Jeffrey
Not me. Maybe my buddy. I think she could tell that I wasn't the kind of guy that's in that social economic group, because why? My eyes were wide and my jaw was just on the floor.
Jose
I was like, oh, yeah.
Jeffrey
Excuse me. That's a tip.
Jose
Yeah.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jose
Dude, I'd be jumping on the queen size bed. Like, we. I can't believe there's a bed here. Is there a bed inside the plane? Private jets.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jose
Zach, was there a bed in your plane?
Jeffrey
There was.
Brooke
Oh, there was. There's not always.
Jose
Yeah.
Brooke
I went on our company's private jet one time, and there's no bed. Yeah. And I did not act like I'd been there before. I was very excited.
Jose
I bet there was a bed on that plane, but they just didn't want you to get.
Jeffrey
Oh.
Brooke
Well, that hurts, Jeffrey.
Jose
Sorry. Let's get back to Lamy.
Brooke
How are drinks?
Jeffrey
It was great. She's, like, super pretty, really sweet. We were talking about family, and then she was telling me, like, her goals about how one day she actually wants to fly, but she wants to be a pilot.
Jose
That's so cool, man.
Brooke
Dude, that's awesome.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I thought it was super cool, and I was super supportive of that. We did make out a little bit.
Brooke
You did?
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Brooke
Oh.
Jose
So what went wrong, bro?
Jeffrey
I don't know. Now that we're back home, I noticed on her IG that she's back here, but I feel like I'm the one trying to reconnect more. Like. Like she's not ghosting me, per se. But, you know, like, whenever I text, she'll text back, but she Won't initiate or come back with another question or anything.
Brooke
I bet though, she gets hit on so much. Yeah, like, she's like beautiful woman with big goals. Like. She sounds amazing.
Jose
Yeah.
Brooke
Do you think she was amazed by you too?
Jeffrey
I mean, I hope so. Like, I'm a great guy, you know, I take care of myself too, so I think anybody would be lucky to be with me as well.
Brooke
Yeah, that's good confidence. I like that.
Jose
Probably what she saw in you. She's probably so used to rich guys in suits all and then you are a down to earth dude. Yeah, that's some wishful thinking for sure.
Brooke
I mean, she told you her insta. She wouldn't give that to a creepy old guy.
Jose
That's also true.
Brooke
Oh, you think he's old? No, I'm just saying.
Jose
Okay, so how long has it been since you've been back home and been trying to set up a date with Lamy?
Jeffrey
Two weeks now.
Brooke
Two weeks? Oh, yeah. And you saw that she's here, so it's not even like the travel is the problem.
Jose
Exactly.
Brooke
All right.
Jeffrey
And you know, the craziest thing is, like, we connected, but like, she found me on IG and added me, so I was like, oh, she's excited. You know, that was when we got back. And then it's just been like nothing.
Jose
Yeah, you don't have anything on your ig like you running from the law or anything like that. It's not like you're. It's not like your Instagram. I think we have an international investigation to do here.
Brooke
Yeah, for. Well, she's not a spy. I don't know. Yeah, but she sounds awesome.
Jose
I'm just saying this call might cost extra if it goes overseas.
Brooke
Are we charging him?
Jose
Yeah. Zach, you're gonna come, right?
Jeffrey
I'm good.
Jose
Sweet.
Jeffrey
All right.
Jose
That's your friend at least. Yeah, we'll send the bill to you after we do your second date update. Next. Second date update. Well, Jose has already called dib. If things don't work out for Zach and Lamy, Jose wants to shoot his shot. So. I love music. Flight attendants, bro. Is that okay with you, man?
Jeffrey
Sure thing.
Jose
And Alexis has called dibs on the private jet, wherever that's going. Now she doesn't even care who's on.
Brooke
Yeah, forget your friend. I'm attached to the plane.
Jose
But it's not hard to understand why everybody wants Lamy right now. Because she's a luxury flight attendant for private jets. That's where Zach met her. Aboard the plane that his rich friend rented For a trip abroad.
Brooke
I mean, she's attractive.
Jose
She's a future pilot.
Brooke
Has amazing perks if you date her.
Jose
Yeah, Zach was lucky enough to meet her and ask her out, and they had a nice little date overseas.
Brooke
They even made out.
Jose
But now that they're back home, Lamey is acting kind of lame and not calling him back.
Brooke
Calling him. I would use that when they talk to her name.
Jose
Guys, come on. Yeah, I mean, that just lent itself to it. But, Zach, how we feeling here? Confidence level on a scale of one to ten?
Jeffrey
Shoot, guys. Seven. Oh.
Brooke
Actually, it's higher than I expected.
Jose
Yeah, but it might not be high enough for Lamy, who's used to dealing with tens on her flights all the time. So we gotta bump that up somehow.
Brooke
That can be exhausting. Yeah. You know, you don't want to be around that all the time.
Jose
Okay, well, maybe just like me, bump it up one more to an 8.
Brooke
Sure.
Jose
7.5.
Brooke
We can do that.
Jose
Can you bump up your confidence a little bit, please? Raise the elevation.
Jeffrey
I'm going in with the team. Let's go with an eight.
Brooke
There you go. We're in control here. Going to convince her you're amazing.
Jeffrey
Okay, yeah, we'll back you up.
Jose
You are amazing. We don't have to convince her. Yeah, that's right, Brook. Okay, careful with your words. Let's do this. We're calling her. Let's get your second date update.
Jeffrey
Hello?
Jose
Hello. I'm trying to book a private flight, and I heard that you got the hookup. The hookup?
Jeffrey
I'm not sure you hear that from. But, no, I don't. You're.
Jose
You're a flight attendant, right?
Jeffrey
I am, yeah.
Jose
Do you take coupons for 10% off for 15 grand an hour?
Jeffrey
No. You have to do this direct. Company. I'm sorry, I can't help you.
Brooke
It's a joke. He's joking.
Jeffrey
Yeah. Sorry.
Jose
Am I?
Brooke
I don't know. If it worked, you wouldn't be sorry. I'm.
Jose
I'm messing with you. My name is Jeff. We're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry to bother you.
Jeffrey
Okay.
Jose
Sorry. We. We heard about you from one of our listeners who says that he met you during an international flight. His name is Zach.
Jeffrey
Oh, yeah. Okay.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jose
You remember Zach? Okay.
Jeffrey
I mean, yeah, I do.
Brooke
We just assume you have a lot of people as a flight attendant coming in and out of your life all the time.
Jeffrey
Maybe I do, but he was a little different.
Brooke
That's good.
Jose
Well, we're trying to get some answers. Here because we're doing something called a second date update, and Zach told us that he had a great time when he met you and hanging out with you abroad, but since he's gotten back, he's been hoping to hang out again, and that's not happening. Is there a reason for that?
Jeffrey
It's not happening. No. He's different from any of the other passengers that I come across.
Brooke
And you liked that?
Jose
Different good or different bad?
Jeffrey
No, different good. Like, really nice and genuine. But he's disappointing.
Brooke
He's disappointing.
Jeffrey
He's disappointing? Yeah, because.
Jose
But what man isn't?
Brooke
You know, I'm glad you guys said it.
Jose
You know, we're all gonna disappoint you in our own special way. How did he do it?
Jeffrey
He's very nice, but he just. He kept calling me the wrong name. Oh, and that's.
Jose
Wait a minute.
Brooke
Wait, isn't your name Lamey with an M?
Jeffrey
No, an N. Lay me.
Jose
L, A, N. That's what we thought he said. We had him clarify, like, three or four times. He's okay.
Jeffrey
Yeah, no, it's lame.
Brooke
Why would you not correct him?
Jeffrey
Well, I tried to correct it because I friended him on Instagram.
Brooke
Oh, so you thought he was. Oh, my God. Because it's your Instagram handle.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I mean, I tried to drop him a hint on there, but apparently he did not pick up on it.
Brooke
Men are the worst at attention to detail. Sometimes, sometimes. Not all the time. But, God, no, you're right about that.
Jose
I understand that must be really, really frustrating for somebody to get your name wrong for a very long time. But it's a simple mistake. Like, we can work through that.
Jeffrey
Understood. But that's not, like, the only thing. Like, he's not a very detailed oriented person.
Brooke
Okay, how else did that come up?
Jeffrey
Like, I told him that I would be back for three days and maybe we could see each other within those three days. And then I was leaving at 5:00 clock on the third day, and he texted me at like, seven, was like, hey, you want to go for drinks? Oh.
Brooke
I mean, I could see a person like you who's very schedule oriented, would need somebody who could pay attention to that stuff.
Jeffrey
But also, like, we talked on our date about, like, do you have any family? I said, yeah, I have a brother. And then. But then I said, okay, well, I'm out. You know, I'm out of town. I'm not home because I told you I was leaving today. And he said, oh, are you going to visit your sister? And I was like, no, I have a brother. Well, he was.
Brooke
Did he listen to anything?
Jose
You at least remember that you had a sibling?
Jeffrey
I mean, from the name to the sibling in between. That's frustrating.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jose
Remembering little things about anybody is always a huge.
Jeffrey
Yeah, but for my job, I'm required to do that for customers. Like, why can't they do it for me?
Brooke
Yeah, and, like, when you're interested in someone, like, really excited about someone, I always feel like it's easier to remember everything about them.
Jose
But it could also come off looking a little weird if you remember everything about them. Oh, maybe.
Brooke
So maybe he's throwing. Throwing her off. I could see that. Yeah. Like, I'm not that interested in you. I bet you don't even have a bomb.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Jose
Whatever your name is. What was your name? Right. Rainey. But I can tell you for certain that he really does like you.
Brooke
Oh, I bet he's so embarrassed listening to this.
Jose
And you don't have to trust us. You can hear it directly from Zach himself because he's on the other line right now and wants to talk to you.
Jeffrey
Oh, gosh.
Jose
Zach, talk to Lainey with an N. Yes.
Jeffrey
Hey, Lainey.
Jose
You said it, right?
Brooke
Oh, Zach, hi.
Jeffrey
I just want to say I'm disappointed in myself. I didn't realize, and it's such a dumb mistake. Like, I should have noticed on your Instagram, your name.
Jose
Yeah, that's.
Jeffrey
I don't have, like, a solid reason. Everything she's saying is absolutely true. I just really liked her. I was nervous. I know. Now she's saying she's telling about her brothers and stuff too, and I remembered, like, a sibling, but the whole time I was just ultra self conscious, just, like, talking to myself while even talking to her. Like, don't mess this up. Don't mess this up.
Jose
Lainey. Laney, are you hearing him? What do you think?
Jeffrey
I hear him. Yeah.
Jose
That doesn't sound very good.
Brooke
I think that's pretty sweet. That's pretty earnest. You sound like such a catch. And, you know, he isn't on private planes very often, and he's meeting this beautiful woman. Like, you could see how it'd be really overwhelming.
Jose
Yeah, and maybe. Maybe Zach was just, like, so mesmerized by how beautiful you are when he saw your Instagram.
Brooke
That's not helpful. That's not. That's not.
Jose
Well, it's just like, such an engaging, beautiful, gorgeous eye. Eyes on her profile photo. Why is her being pretty bad? I don't understand. Why is it bad to call a woman beautiful?
Brooke
Because it's like the way you're saying. No, you said that she's so distracting, that she's such a beautiful object. He can't even listen to anything that's coming out. You're not gonna date a guy that's like that.
Jeffrey
And clearly, y' all are, like, forgetting, like, the line of work that I. I work in.
Brooke
What does that have to do with anything?
Jeffrey
I am because I'm with men who have a lot of money and who are taking these jets and who. Yeah. They feel like they can just, like.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jeffrey
Call you whatever they want.
Brooke
Oh, that makes sense.
Jeffrey
Listen to anything.
Jose
But we know for a fact that Zach doesn't have a lot of money like all those other men.
Jeffrey
I understand, but, like, I thought he was different, but it just. It never got any better.
Jose
Well, no, I'm. So, like, we haven't heard from Zach at all. That was just me speculating. Like, Zach, we could clear this up right now. You can tell her that you don't find her beautiful at all. Yeah, we've learned that is.
Brooke
You guys.
Jeffrey
You guys.
Jose
Zachary.
Jeffrey
Yeah. I, like, I thought she was wonderful. Not just, like. Yeah, physically, of course. Obviously.
Jose
Careful. You're treading on dangerous ground with that guy.
Brooke
Stop it.
Jeffrey
I agree with her. Like, I was nervous. Maybe I just messed this up and that's that. But, like, I would love another chance to try to play it cooler.
Jose
I mean, Lainey, if you're willing to go out with him and give him one more shot, we would pay for another date.
Brooke
I think he deserves another chance.
Jose
Hopefully you do accept that coupon thing, because. International gift card. Yeah.
Jeffrey
I don't know.
Jose
He does seem like a genuinely good guy.
Jeffrey
He does seem like a very nice person. I just don't. I don't think this is a route that I want to take. I think I'm good.
Brooke
All right.
Jose
Darn. Okay, should we do, like, a detour route? Maybe, like, a connecting flight to.
Brooke
I think the flight's canceled. I think it's canceled. Zach.
Jose
I'm sorry, man.
Jeffrey
Oh, it's okay. It happened.
Brooke
It's a good. Good lesson for you, right?
Jose
Yeah, man. Don't call women beautiful. No.
Brooke
How about R.E.M. their name. Yeah. It's just a start.
Jose
Good idea, Brandy. We'll remember that. Brooke and Brandy in the morning.
Brooke
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Jose
Man, we hear a lot of weird stuff that happens on dates on this show with people, you know, taking their pants off in public. Moms and exes showing up to dinner uninvited. But sometimes, I mean, this proves it's the little things. Tiny attention to details that can really make the difference and can cause something to backfire.
Brooke
Your name is a little thing, but.
Jose
Okay, well, it was one letter and it was one letter off in the Alphabet. They sound kind of similar.
Brooke
Yeah. And she probably should have corrected him. Yeah.
Jose
To be honest, one time. I mean, bro, would you say, is it important for most women to pay attention to the details or do you think some women are more particular about it?
Brooke
I think that it's important for me to pay attention to the details, but maybe it's not important to other people.
Jose
Alexis, what do you think important to detail for a guy?
Brooke
If they're interesting. Like. Yeah, like I don't care about boring details.
Jose
Just gotta guess what that was. Oh, guys, if you're listening and there's a girl that you're talking to on a dating app, ask which of these things that you're telling me should I remember? Yeah, everything.
Brooke
I mean, no, I would go with name and whether the sibling is a brother or sisters. Pretty start. Pretty standard.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Jose
Okay, good to know. Also throwing. Hey, your blood type is O positive, right?
Brooke
That is actually mine.
Jose
Also, I have your Social Security number memorized frontwards and backwards. Oh, don't forget the credit card. Got those two right up in the old noggin. I care. Anyway, if you ever want to get a second date update, email the show. We can call that person who isn't calling you back. Check out all of our second date updates online, wherever you get your podcast.
Brooke
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Jose
Planning a fun activity to go along with dinner for a first date.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jose
Is normally a good plan. Not sure if that was the case though, with today's listener, because from what I understand, it happened in a low lit parking lot and could be in violation of open container laws. Yeah, I didn't want to bring that up, but I was like, this is illegal.
Brooke
I still think it could be fun.
Jose
Was it the downfall or the highlight of their romantic evening?
Brooke
That's the positive thinking we need.
Jose
We're going to find out in a second date update right after this second date update. How many mistakes are you allowed to make on a first date?
Brooke
Oh.
Jose
Oh, no, I never thought about this, Jeff.
Brooke
Depends. I guess if you want another one, there's a number.
Jose
I guess it depends on the mistake itself.
Brooke
Yeah, for sure.
Jose
Like forgetting your credit card. You get away with that.
Brooke
That's a big mistake once. I think that's okay. It happens.
Jose
Forgetting your date's name.
Brooke
Oh, definitely let that one go.
Jose
Forget your own name.
Brooke
Name yes.
Jose
Who am I again?
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Jose
Hey, I'm Carlo. No, wait, that's my cousin. Wait, what is mine? Let me get my id. Oh, wait, I forgot my credit card.
Jeffrey
Oh, God.
Jose
Luckily, none of those happened to our listener, Corey.
Brooke
Oh, no.
Jose
But he said in his email a mistake was definitely made. And I'm curious what it was. Corey, welcome to the show.
Jeffrey
Thank you guys for having me.
Brooke
All right, Corey, I'm glad you know who you are. There's no existential crisis happening.
Jose
Now, do we know the name of your date? Do you remember that one?
Jeffrey
Yes, I think it was Brenda.
Jose
He just looked it up on his phone right now. He had to swipe through, but.
Jeffrey
Okay, do you see me?
Jose
Okay, so what was the mistake that you made with Brenda?
Jeffrey
Well, the mistake was Brenda. And I was out to dinner, and Brenda had to excuse herself and go to the bathroom. And this very sexy waitress came over.
Brooke
Oh, no.
Jeffrey
And she started flirting with me.
Brooke
Did she, though? Did she. Let's be honest.
Jose
Or was she doing her job?
Brooke
Yep.
Jeffrey
And what did you do? I started flirting back with her.
Jose
You just couldn't help it, huh? It's one thing to, like, flirt, like, secretly. Did you got caught by Brenda flirting?
Jeffrey
Well, I didn't get caught, thank goodness. She came back to the table and she saw me rubbing on the waitress arm.
Brooke
What? What?
Jose
Wait, that's worse.
Brooke
You touched her at all?
Jose
You're feeling her up?
Jeffrey
Well, listen, she led to that. And as I'm feeling on her arm, Brenda comes back to the table. And I was like, oh, Brenda, I'd like you to meet Stephanie. This is my cousin.
Brooke
Wow.
Jeffrey
And I introduced the waitress. She went right along with it. But the waitress did slide me her number in there.
Jose
But still, the waitress was actually. She was feeling it, huh?
Jeffrey
Oh, yes, she was.
Jose
Okay.
Brooke
But you do not sound remorseful at.
Jose
All for this situation.
Jeffrey
I was a little. But listen, I can't help, but I have it that way. What can I say? Well, hold up.
Jose
Isn't this second date update that you want to do to call Brenda, or.
Brooke
Is it the waitress? I think you and the waitress might.
Jeffrey
Be a better match. Well, no, but Brenda and I, after the night went on, we hit it off very well. And listen, I would like to see Brenda again in a different restaurant. But, yes, I'd like to see Brenda again.
Jose
Yell at me, girls. But is there a chance that her seeing him get hit on slightly made her like him? More like there's competition.
Brooke
Because he. Yeah, he said that it was his cousin.
Jose
Oh, that's right. So in her eyes. It's his cousin. Oh, God.
Brooke
Anything? It's a red flag. Like, why are you rubbing your cousin?
Jose
You know, Brooke is cousin rubbing all up and down her family reunions. Let's not act like it's weird.
Jeffrey
We're not from West Virginia, so it wasn't like that.
Jose
Okay, so wait, how did this date start off before the restaurant?
Jeffrey
Yeah, it started off. We were playing flip cups on the hood of my car.
Brooke
Wait, wait, What?
Jose
Oh, confusing thing.
Brooke
What do you mean? As part of the date?
Jeffrey
Yes. Yes. I wanted to add some type of activity. I wanted to have some fun before the date, so.
Brooke
So you got no team. You're just competing against each other. Does someone remind me of the flip cup rules again?
Jose
You chug the beer out of the plastic cup and you put it on the table. Have to flip it over. That's the lane. On the other side, you have a.
Brooke
Team of, like, five.
Jose
You can just do it six times in a row yourself.
Jeffrey
Yeah, and that's what we did. Six times in a row.
Jose
Well, that's. That's thoughtful. A lot of guys don't put the effort into, like, plan out an activity for the actual date. They just go to a place and hope for the best.
Jeffrey
And listen, I was a complete gentleman. I provided the beer seltzer.
Brooke
Need a beer. I mean, that sounds traditional. Alexis.
Jose
Maybe Brenda's a beer type of gal. So we got flip cup, a restaurant, you hit on the wait trip. Anything else we should know from your cousin? Yeah, that's important, because I missed that. Corey, any other details from this romantic first encounter?
Jeffrey
After the nice dinner we had, we ordered dessert. Okay, I ate both of them.
Brooke
Wait, why? Cory, both the dessert. Desserts are meant to be shared. Yeah, part of the game.
Jeffrey
But she saw a hair in hers. And listen, I didn't have a problem with the hair, so.
Brooke
I actually appreciate that.
Jose
I'm with Brooke on this one.
Jeffrey
I would.
Brooke
Don't ever say anything. If that. That happens to me, you just pick it off.
Jose
It's a freaking hair.
Brooke
So she didn't want to eat it because there was a hair. So you.
Jeffrey
There was a hair.
Brooke
So you want to insult your cousin by sending it back?
Jose
What kind of dessert was it?
Jeffrey
Yeah, it was a fudge brownie.
Jose
Oh, you ate two whole fudge brownies in front of her?
Jeffrey
I ate two whole fudge brownies.
Brooke
Wait, why didn't you give her yours?
Jeffrey
Well, I have already ate mine before she found the hair.
Jose
Okay.
Brooke
All right. What? Awesome. This is a wild night.
Jose
Yeah, I can't wait to hear from her for multiple reasons. So what's happened since this date? Did you guys kiss?
Jeffrey
No, we. We didn't. Okay. But I was okay with that.
Brooke
Oh, that's good.
Jeffrey
All right.
Jose
It doesn't have to have. I don't know what's wrong with you. After you like brought her beer, introduced her to your family, showed her how good you are at eating. Sounds like a random night.
Brooke
Feeling so funny.
Jose
Kind of all over the place. I would love to hear what excuse this woman has for not calling you back. She repeats all three things.
Brooke
What could it be? Do you think you got got caught in your lie about the cousin?
Jeffrey
She didn't act like we still had a nice time afterwards.
Jose
Yeah, let's reach out to Brenda and have her explain herself and maybe even give you a refund after we do this second date update right after this.
Jeffrey
Thank you, guys.
Jose
Hold on. Then second date update. If you missed part one of today's call, here's what we know. Corey is our listener, and Corey's normal date dates are unlike any other normal date we've ever heard on this show.
Brooke
That's right, Jeff.
Jose
Because it started by meeting his date Brenda in a parking lot and playing flip cup with the backseat beer he had lying in his trunk.
Brooke
Oh, he didn't say it was warm though. Was it warm? I don't know why. That.
Jose
I don't know why. I'm just assuming it had been there a while. It eventually moved inside of a restaurant where he proceeded to hit on a waitress.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Jose
Doesn't think he got caught. Cuz he lied and said that she was his cousin.
Brooke
Yeah. And the waitress went along with it.
Jose
Yes. While he rubbed her arm. Yeah. Then it ended with two chocolate desserts, both eaten by Corey. Cuz Brenda said she found a hair in hers. Now it's unclear to me. Maybe he clarified this already. But Corey, you didn't eat the actual hair, did you?
Jeffrey
I may have that.
Brooke
May have.
Jeffrey
Pick it up. Listen, one long hair is not going to kill you.
Brooke
Actually, I think that's a good quote.
Jose
We should put that on the restaurant sign right there. Are we talking like dental flu?
Brooke
Female hair.
Jose
There we go. Still, that's really long.
Brooke
Do you have any regret that like maybe she was telling you there was a hair so that you would speak up to the waitress and you would get the dessert switched out? I mean, the waitress to her was your cousin. Oh, that's such a good point.
Jose
It's like setting you up to be like the shoe.
Jeffrey
Well, I didn't fall for that one.
Jose
It's not a trick, I think. Okay. All right. Not. Not Corey style. We get that. Now let's try and reach out to Brenda here and see if she answers.
Brooke
And we're not gonna out him on the cousin lie, right?
Jose
No.
Brooke
Okay. I just want to make that clear in the room.
Jose
Yeah. No, I'm not.
Brooke
Okay. Even though I might not have been as smooth as he says it is.
Jeffrey
Well, let's just make sure you all understand that I'm that smooth. Okay.
Jose
We never doubted you, man.
Brooke
I'm actually gonna make a note of. Okay.
Jose
All right, let's dial Brenda right now. Here we go.
Brooke
Hello?
Jose
Hey, is this Brenda?
Jeffrey
Yes.
Jose
Hey, Brenda. Thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Brooke
Hey, Brenda.
Jeffrey
Hi.
Jose
Good morning.
Jeffrey
Hi.
Brooke
Hi. Welcome to the show, Brenda.
Jeffrey
Thank you. I didn't sign up for any. I don't know.
Jose
No, no, you didn't sign up for anything. Somebody else kind of signed you up for this. It actually could be a really good thing for you. Yeah.
Jeffrey
Okay, well, what is it?
Jose
This is a segment we do called Second Date Update. Because you were recently out with a guy who listens to our show. Apparently, he thinks you two had a really nice time and he's been hoping to meet up with you again. His name is Corey.
Jeffrey
I'm not sure I know who that is.
Jose
Really?
Brooke
That is shocking that you would forget Corey.
Jose
You guys played like flip cup in a parking lot. You went to a restaurant, shared a dessert. Kind of.
Brooke
Yeah. We heard your dessert wasn't very good.
Jeffrey
This is really confusing. Did it. Did this happen at an Applebee's?
Jose
We don't know. Maybe it did.
Brooke
How does this sound?
Jeffrey
Memorable?
Brooke
I mean, honestly. Okay, we talked to him, and he was. He was a very impactful person to me. Like somebody I wouldn't forget.
Jose
Like, we're not going to forget even after this. I bet.
Brooke
Okay.
Jeffrey
I'm just confused because I'm a waitress at Applebee's, and.
Brooke
Oh, my God.
Jeffrey
I don't.
Brooke
Did he give us the wrong number?
Jeffrey
You're his cousin. Oh, Miss. Shoot.
Jose
Oh, God. Okay.
Brooke
I don't.
Jeffrey
I don't.
Brooke
Oh, we got the wrong.
Jose
He's talking. Yeah. So, Corey, please shed some light on this. What is going on? What happened?
Jeffrey
I think. Listen, I got three names under Applebee's. I got Applebee's, Brenda. Okay, Applebee's, Rachel and Applebee. Tanya and I kind of.
Jose
Okay, so one must be the waitress. One is his actual date at Applebee's. I don't know. Even know who the third one is?
Brooke
I don't think he does either. Rolled the dice. One in three, chance to get it right.
Jose
But we're on the phone with Brenda. The waitress from Applebee's.
Jeffrey
Yes, I'm Brenda. You know, are you the creepy guy that was, like, badgering me for my number?
Brooke
Your real number?
Jeffrey
You thought that you were calling, like, your date from the other night. But wait, but wait a minute. You feel like he was into it, so that's why I just went with it. Listen, listen. I'm a nice guy. You're a nice lady. And maybe, you know, after my date with my other lady.
Jose
Well, that, that's. That's how strong of an impression that you made on him, Brenda. That Applebee's. That he's completely erased every other female's name from his. All girls are now named Functioning brain.
Brooke
Yeah, he did.
Jeffrey
That's all I saw. I'm sorry I got the name wrong, but, you know, I thought we had. No, you didn't get the name wrong. I am Brenda. I was your waitress.
Brooke
You got the.
Jeffrey
Okay, okay. My fault. Brenda.
Brooke
I mean, that says a lot about a man, Brenda, that can admit their faults.
Jeffrey
Yes, listen, I made a mistake, but you still. You made that impression on me, Brenda. So maybe, Brenda, we can go out another time.
Brooke
Awkwardly saying her.
Jose
He's trying to, like, remember it. It's like a tool.
Jeffrey
I just. I can't believe that. Like when you were telling me about the date that did. He played flip cup in a parking lot. Like, that's not a date.
Jose
I gotta say, it's better than a date.
Jeffrey
No, it's not. No, it's not.
Brooke
It can't be that uncommon in the parking lot of Applebee's, is it not?
Jeffrey
Brenda, it was just an activity that I thought maybe we can have fun before, you know, we going into dinner now with you and I, I would try something different. I will come up with a different activity if you give me that chance.
Jose
That's the thing. Corey's all about, like, good vibes, good times with good people. And you fit all of those criteria for him.
Jeffrey
That's why he remembers the people.
Brooke
Well, you know, I think he.
Jeffrey
I remember Brenda.
Jose
I bet Brenda, if you gave him a shot and sweet talked him back, he'd be willing to play a different drinking game with you. Maybe King's Cup.
Jeffrey
I think I'm. I'm that one.
Jose
Spin the bot. Well, you and her, that's kind of.
Jeffrey
But, you know, I feel like this guy just like, doesn't think guys that.
Jose
Think, like, do you really want that? Like, that's gonna give you a headache. Yeah, you want to be in charge.
Brooke
I mean, Jeffrey actually has a point there. Yeah, a lot more work.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I definitely want a guy that thinks 100%.
Jose
Okay, well, Brenda, you're in definitely the minority of women with that one. But I'd still like to offer to send you on a date with Corey. And we would pay for it. Applebee's gift card.
Brooke
Anybody with her discount, you could get a lot for that.
Jose
You get four brownies and let him eat all of them.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I'm okay, though, but thank you for the offer.
Jose
Okay, Brenda, do you guys take orders over the phone right now? Because I'd like to put one in for lunch. Okay, we want brownies.
Jeffrey
I don't take the orders. But someone else I'm sure can help you with that if you just call back.
Jose
Okay, Corey, you're right. She is a dude.
Jeffrey
Yeah, the problem is me, for sure.
Jose
The one who doesn't eat hair. We didn't even talk about the whole dessert debacle with the hair in the brownie. Yeah, yeah, we don't get to discuss.
Brooke
It and him eating it.
Jeffrey
Yeah, I was there. I saw it happen.
Brooke
Wait. Oh, wait. You served him the dessert that you knew had a hair in it?
Jeffrey
I didn't know that there was a hair in it until his date sent something and we went to replace it and he had already eaten it.
Brooke
Oh, quick word.
Jose
Yeah. It's a man who doesn't complain.
Jeffrey
I don't complain. Brenda, you should complain about that. All I know, it was a very good brownie.
Jose
Okay, so you're not gonna get a date out of this. Clearly. But I don't see why Applebee's wouldn't use you to endorse their dessert menu. Oh, but if only we could come up with, like, a catchy slogan for them.
Jeffrey
Yeah. Here today, gone tomorrow.
Brooke
Here today, gone tomorrow.
Jose
I like it.
Brooke
That's a good day. I like. Oh, yeah. Bruce and Jeffrey in the morning.
Jose
Why do I feel like Corey is definitely going to be back on this show again somewhere down the road?
Brooke
Dude, I want to call Applebee's. Tanya does. No one else. I know we didn't get to the actual person. I mean, there was two other Applebee's off.
Jose
Yeah, I mean, it's a good reminder when you're putting the numbers of ladies into your phone, make sure you don't have more than one Applebee's girl.
Brooke
Or just describe them as Applebee's waitress. Applebee's hostess.
Jose
Applebee's Day.
Brooke
Yes, Applebee's Chef.
Jose
I should of us do like lips Peach, you know. Yeah. Physical descriptions. I. I should have asked him how many Denny's girls you got in there? Probably up in the 20s for that. Hey, I used to work at Denny's, all right? They like to party. He's got some talent in there. Make sure to clean up your phone every once in a while, though. It's a good reminder. Do some housekeeping. Make yourself and make your dating life a little bit easier. It's a good point.
Brooke
God, I have three people saved under ice on this. No.
Jose
So, yeah, if you ever need help, help with your dating life, we can try and make it easier for you by calling that person who isn't calling you back. You can go check out all of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey the Girlfriends.
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Podcast Summary: Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Episode: Second Date Update Classics: Private Jet Regret + Hair Today Gone Tomorrow
Release Date: August 2, 2025
Host/Authors: Brooke and Jeffrey
Platform: iHeartPodcasts
In this engaging episode of Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update, hosts Brooke and Jeffrey dive into the complexities of modern dating through listener stories, humorous banter, and insightful advice. The episode, titled "Second Date Update Classics: Private Jet Regret + Hair Today Gone Tomorrow," explores two distinct dating mishaps involving attention to detail and miscommunication, ultimately offering listeners valuable lessons on fostering successful relationships.
The episode begins with a listener named Zach sharing his romantic encounter with Lamy, a flight attendant he met on a private jet. Jeffrey recounts:
[05:29] Brooke: Did you meet this lady here, or is it an international love that you found?
[05:35] Jeffrey: She was actually working the flight. She was one of our attendants.
Zach explains that he was invited on the private jet trip by a wealthy friend who had just sold his company. During the flight, Zach and Lamy developed a connection, enjoying extended conversations and even sharing a kiss.
[06:43] Brooke: Wow. She stays on the whole trip with you?
[06:55] Jeffrey: So she had a lot of time to chat. And I got to know her world.
Upon returning home, Zach notices that Lamy isn't initiating contact, although she responds to his messages without reciprocating engagement.
[09:03] Jeffrey: I just feel like I'm the one trying to reconnect more. She's not ghosting me, per se.
[09:16] Brooke: You have to remember the right details.
Zach reflects on his possible mistakes, such as consistently misspelling Lamy's name on Instagram and not paying attention to the details she shared during their conversations.
[15:00] Jeffrey: He could tell that I wasn't the kind of guy that's in that social economic group, because why? My eyes were wide and my jaw was just on the floor.
Brooke and Jose attempt to reach out to Lamy, only to discover that Jeffrey mistakenly contacted Brenda, a waitress at Applebee’s, instead of Lamy.
[33:17] Jeffrey: I don't take the orders. But someone else I'm sure can help you if you just call back.
[33:15] Jose: That's a good reminder to clean up your phone.
Corey shares his rather unconventional date with Brenda, which started with playing flip cup in his car's parking lot before heading to an Applebee’s restaurant.
[26:26] Jeffrey: We were playing flip cups on the hood of my car.
[26:35] Jeffrey: I wanted to add some type of activity. I provided the beer seltzer.
During dinner, Corey unintentionally flirts with a waitress, Stephanie, while trying to impress Brenda. To cover his actions, Corey introduces Stephanie as his cousin, but this leads to further confusion.
[24:15] Jeffrey: I introduced the waitress. She went right along with it.
[24:28] Brooke: You touched her at all?
[24:43] Jeffrey: I was a little...
The date climaxed with Corey eating two entire fudge brownies. Brenda noticed a hair in her dessert but Corey had already indulged fully.
[25:03] Brooke: You ate two whole fudge brownies in front of her?
[25:12] Jeffrey: I ate two whole fudge brownies.
Brooke and Jose reach out to Brenda, discovering that she was actually the waitress Stephanie. This revelation clarifies the misunderstanding between Corey and Brenda.
[34:50] Brooke: You got the wrong person.
[34:56] Brooke: You made that impression on me, Brenda. So maybe Brenda, we can go out another time.
Throughout both stories, Brooke and Jeffrey emphasize the importance of:
Remembering Personal Details:
[21:54] Brooke: Ask which of these things that you're telling me should I remember? Yeah, everything.
Effective Communication:
[22:00] Jeffrey: Yeah.
Being Genuine and Present:
[36:47] Jeffrey: I was a little. But listen, I can't help, but I have it that way.
Avoiding Assumptions and Miscommunications:
[21:54] Brooke: I would go with name and whether the sibling is a brother or sister. Pretty start.
In this episode, Brooke and Jeffrey effectively highlight the pitfalls of neglecting attention to detail and miscommunication in dating. Through the humorous and relatable stories of Zach and Corey, listeners are reminded of the importance of genuine engagement, remembering personal details, and maintaining honesty in relationships. The hosts provide both entertainment and valuable insights, making Second Date Update a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern romance.
Notable Quotes:
Jeffrey on Attentiveness:
[15:07] Jeffrey: I have your Social Security number memorized frontwards and backwards.
Jose on Detail Importance:
[21:38] Jose: Maybe throw it somewhere else like MySpace or something.
Brooke on Confidence:
[12:28] Brooke: We are in control here. Going to convince her you're amazing.
For more detailed stories and updates, listeners are encouraged to tune into the full hour-long episodes available on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.