Second Date Update: Date Night Detour

Summary

Podcast Summary: Brooke and Jeffrey – Second Date Update: Date Night Detour

Episode Release Date: February 24, 2025

In the "Second Date Update: Date Night Detour" episode of Brooke and Jeffrey, the hosts delve into the intricate dynamics of modern dating through the unfortunate mishap of a listener named Rhett. The episode offers an engaging exploration of expectations versus reality in first dates, emphasizing the significance of honesty and communication.

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1. Introduction to Rhett’s Date

The episode kicks off with Brooke introducing Rhett's situation, setting the stage for a relatable and cautionary tale about first-date blunders. Rhett, a member of a hiking club, met Christina through their mutual love for cats. Their budding romance seemed promising, with Rhett planning a cozy evening to introduce Christina to his cat, Sorbet.

Brooke [04:09]: "You reached for the same cashew in the bag of trail mix and your eyes locked."

2. The Perfect Setup Turned Awry

Rhett meticulously planned the date: making pizzas at his house equipped with a fancy pizza oven and showcasing his beloved cat. However, the evening took a disastrous turn when Rhett forgot a crucial detail—he only shared custody of Sorbet with his ex-girlfriend. This oversight led him to inadvertently bring Christina to his ex's residence.

Rhett [06:00]: "I had a pretty busy day, and it slipped my mind."

Brooke [06:15]: "That's a lot to tackle."

3. Conflict at the Ex’s House

Upon arriving at his ex's house, the situation quickly deteriorated. Christina was unaware of Rhett's ongoing arrangement with his ex, leading to an uncomfortable and tense atmosphere. The ex reacted negatively to Rhett bringing a new date into her space, sparking an argument that left both Rhett and Christina in distress.

Christina [13:03]: "She called me a whore."

Brooke [07:34]: "A fight? With who? You and the ex or what?"

4. Christina’s Perspective: The Importance of Honesty

Christina expressed her frustration over Rhett's dishonesty regarding Sorbet's age, highlighting how such deceit can undermine trust in budding relationships. Her strong attachment to her own cat made the misrepresentation particularly significant, as she values honesty and transparency deeply.

Christina [15:16]: "My cat is my world. Like, I don't want my cat to be the little second sidekick cat because you have this older, leader, mean cat."

5. Mediation and Apologies

Brooke and Jeffrey took an active role in mediating the situation by bringing Christina onto the show. Through open dialogue, Rhett acknowledged his mistake, apologizing for lying about his cat's age and the ensuing chaos his actions caused.

Rhett [17:06]: "I'm very sorry for telling you the wrong age of my cat. And I mean, going forward, I swear I won't lie to you about something like that."

6. Offering a Second Chance

Demonstrating their commitment to helping listeners find success in their relationships, Brooke and Jeffrey proposed arranging a second date for Rhett and Christina, covering the expenses to facilitate a fresh start. Although Christina was initially hesitant, she agreed to give Rhett another opportunity.

Christina [18:00]: "Fine. Yeah, whatever."

7. Key Takeaways and Insights

The episode concludes with insightful reflections on the importance of honesty and clear communication in relationships. Brooke and Jeffrey emphasize that differing priorities and values can lead to misunderstandings, as seen in Rhett and Christina's experience. They encourage listeners to prioritize transparency and address issues proactively to foster healthier relationships.

Brooke [19:11]: "Everybody values different things in their relationships. And for Christina, she values honesty about your cat's real age. That's number one on the relationship."

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Conclusion

"Second Date Update: Date Night Detour" serves as a compelling reminder of the pitfalls that can arise from seemingly minor oversights in dating. Through Rhett and Christina's story, Brooke and Jeffrey highlight the critical role of honesty and the courage to rectify mistakes in building meaningful connections. The episode not only entertains but also educates listeners on navigating the complexities of modern romance.

For more engaging episodes and live updates, tune into the Brooke and Jeffrey podcast on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify.

Transcript

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[Brooke]

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[Jeffrey]

Thank you so much for being here. We don't normally do this, but you are really special to us. So Jose is going to give out his personal phone number right now.

[Brooke]

Okay. If you need to call him, so text 78592.

[Jeffrey]

Okay?

[Brooke]

That shows text board. If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it all night long.

[Jeffrey]

Okay?

[Jose]

You're on it more than your own phone texting, basically. I mean, it's a better way to.

[Jeffrey]

Reach him that's all we're saying. And don't Forget, we've got 45 more minutes. A full show, an hour long. Oh, my God. Can you take that much? If you want it, go for it. It's over at the Brooke and Jeffrey main podcast feed. But right now, we're all about the second date, so let's get it started.

[Brooke]

Second date update. Where's the worst place to take a woman on a first date?

[Jose]

The worst.

[Brooke]

Oh, my gosh. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Home of the second date update. Like a garbage dump.

[Jeffrey]

Are you gonna give us options? Because I have some ideas.

[Brooke]

Yeah, I mean, crematorium comes to mind. Oh, it's even worse than the gar. I don't. I would say, especially if you talked about having barbecue already that night, so. Oh, gosh, come on.

[Jeffrey]

Smoky flavor is always good, right?

[Brooke]

But there is something that might be worse than that.

[Jeffrey]

But there's no way. Jeff.

[Brooke]

Well, I was going to say Chernobyl, but you know what? Let's. Let's talk to our listener, Rhett, because he thinks he may have taken his date someplace pretty regrettable.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, that's all you have to do is come on our show, and you'll feel better by comparison. Yeah.

[Brooke]

Rhett, before we find out about this woman, just tell us the place that you took her.

[Rhett]

Yeah, I took her to my ex's house.

[Brooke]

Oh, God.

[Jeffrey]

Why are you. What? I have so many.

[Brooke]

Okay, yeah, we got to back up house.

[Jeffrey]

Not even, like, the restaurant where my ex works.

[Rhett]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know the bad idea now.

[Brooke]

Okay, it's good that you realize that. But let's go back and start from the beginning. Where did you meet this woman and what's her name?

[Jeffrey]

And not your ex.

[Brooke]

Not your one.

[Rhett]

You actually took out the girl that I took out. Her name's Kristen Athena. We met at a hiking club. Just a small group of people that get together and take hikes on the weekends.

[Brooke]

Let me guess. You reached for the same cashew in the bag of trail mix and your eyes locked.

[Jeffrey]

That's cute.

[Brooke]

Like cashews, too. You want this raisin?

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. How did you turn it from hiking to a date?

[Rhett]

Yeah, we're both cat people, so that's kind of how we came together a little bit on that.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

Okay. Bonded over cats, hiking and cat people talk on hikes. Yeah, that's true. So, I mean, you guys had a pretty good relationship then, probably before you actually moved into the romantic world, right?

[Rhett]

Yeah, I mean, we had tons of talks, and, I mean, I showed her Tons of pictures. My cat's name is Sorbet, so I set up a date at my house to help meet my cat.

[Jeffrey]

Okay. I like how you said your house. That's good.

[Rhett]

Yeah, we were gonna make pizzas at my place. I got a fancy pizza oven.

[Jeffrey]

Nice.

[Rhett]

So we wanted to do that, introduce her to the cat. She looked real nice. We didn't burn anything. That's usually a good sign.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, were you able to have. Because you guys had been friends already, were you able to have, like, some.

[Brooke]

Flirty moments, like, come up behind her and knead the pizza? Like, show her. Like, grab her hands and show her. Show her how to toss it.

[Rhett]

Yeah, we had, like, a little ghost moment with the pizza dough.

[Jeffrey]

Do not say you did that.

[Rhett]

I'm just kidding. Yeah, it was still flirty. A little flour getting everywhere, but nothing crazy.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

All right. That's cute. I mean, it sounds like a setup to a great evening.

[Brooke]

Yeah, it sounds like a great setup to go over to your ex's house, because how does that come into the picture?

[Rhett]

So, I mean, I kept calling for the cat. The cat likes to hide when new people are there, so I figured they needed a little bit of time to get used to her and.

[Jeffrey]

Right. I mean, cats notoriously don't come when you call them. Yeah. You know.

[Brooke]

Right.

[Rhett]

And then I remembered that I actually had dropped the cat off at the cat moms that morning.

[Jeffrey]

What?

[Brooke]

Wait, you remembered you and your ex split custody of your cat?

[Rhett]

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it was kind of a contentious part of the breakup there, but, I mean, we're good now.

[Jeffrey]

How could you forget that? It was the whole date center. I mean, that makes you look so bad. You're a cat dad that doesn't remember where he left his cat.

[Rhett]

I had a pretty busy day, and it slipped my mind. I mean, I had other things to worry about.

[Brooke]

Okay, that is a lot to tackle. Both pepperoni and cheese. So I can understand. Understand? Your head was totally full. I still don't get how did you end up at your ex's house?

[Rhett]

So right after we ate, I was pretty disappointed that she couldn't meet Sorbet.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah, okay. Yeah, but just chalk it up and you make a plan for the next time, right?

[Rhett]

Yeah, I wish I would have done that. That's a good point. On our way home, I just figured I'd swing by my exes and introduce her to Sorbet.

[Jeffrey]

Taking her home.

[Brooke]

You brought Chris Christina over to your ex's house? Oh, no.

[Rhett]

It sounds really bad when you say.

[Jeffrey]

It like that you didn't warn either woman. So you're gonna show up unexpectedly with a date on your ex's door, and Christina doesn't even know that's where she's going.

[Rhett]

Yeah, but usually my ex is pretty cool if I need to swing by and see the cat, you know, alone.

[Jose]

Probably.

[Brooke]

Yeah. How did that go?

[Rhett]

Oh, so, I mean, when. When we showed up, it was fine, but I could kind of tell that she wasn't really digging it. Really happy that we showed up to see the cat.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Really?

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. Shocking.

[Brooke]

I can see why you. You guys broke up. She's not. Not an accepting woman. Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

That's it.

[Rhett]

Yeah, it was a lot of silence and petting the cat on the couch, and it was real awkward. She was just staring at my date the whole time.

[Jeffrey]

You were all sitting on the couch together. Why did I imagine this just at a doorstep? You know what I mean? Like, say hi to the cat, then.

[Brooke]

Everybody parts like a scene to a funny movie.

[Jeffrey]

You're insane side.

[Brooke]

Okay, so you guys all spent the night at your ex's house, and then when you left the next morning, how did that go?

[Rhett]

That didn't happen. Thank God.

[Brooke]

Okay, good.

[Rhett]

The whole time ended in, like, a real big fight.

[Brooke]

Oh, my God.

[Jeffrey]

A fight? With who? You and the ex or what?

[Brooke]

You and the cat?

[Rhett]

Everybody kind of ended up shouting. Yeah, Christina didn't like that my ex was being rude. My. My ex didn't like that I brought a girl there. It was. It was a whole thing.

[Jeffrey]

Okay, why are you wanting to call this girl again? Christina doesn't want to have anything to do with you.

[Rhett]

Yeah, but you're show says you help people get second dates, and we do.

[Brooke]

The impossible miracle workers over here, but.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, my gosh. Can I just ask, when you drop Christina off at her door, what was the last thing she said to you?

[Rhett]

She actually gave me the finger, but I don't think she meant it.

[Brooke]

If it's a finger that I'm thinking of, then it could be a good thing. Was the wrong finger trying to go for the ring.

[Jose]

I also love that she didn't Uber. She still took the ride and then flipped you off.

[Brooke]

Wow.

[Rhett]

She was emotional. Now that we've had some space, it's been about a week or so, I figured we could give it another shot and you guys could help me out.

[Brooke]

Guys, at least this will be a great story, right? I'm very eager to hear how Christina felt the experience went.

[Jeffrey]

This woman's gonna be cussing.

[Brooke]

We don't know. We're gonna call her. We'll see how she's doing when we do your second date update. Right after this second date update. What went wrong on Rhett's first date? Gosh, little hard to say.

[Jeffrey]

Who knows, Jeff?

[Brooke]

Because there was pizza.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, that's good.

[Brooke]

There was cute cats and the one tiny mistake. And when I say tiny, I mean, like, minuscule. There was kind of a fight at his ex's house that involved him, his date, and his ex girlfriend, resulting at the end in a certain finger being pointed at Rhett when he dropped Christina off at home. It wasn't a proposal with the wedding ring.

[Jeffrey]

It wasn't the index finger.

[Brooke]

Other than that, though, a plus date, really. Rhett, you would agree, right?

[Rhett]

Yeah. Other than all of that, I guess it was fine.

[Brooke]

Good.

[Jeffrey]

The date was good.

[Brooke]

Okay. Okay.

[Jeffrey]

Wait. I have a question. Have you had a chance to apologize to Christina?

[Rhett]

Well, that's the biggest thing is I just haven't seen her in the hiking group at all. And it's not often you get to go from friends into dating, so I just. I didn't want to mess that up.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, yeah. Yeah.

[Brooke]

And I don't necessarily.

[Jeffrey]

I'm sure.

[Brooke]

I don't necessarily think you're the one who needs to apologize. It sounds like your ex girlfriend owes her more of an apology for not being cool about this.

[Jeffrey]

No, he needs to apologize to both women.

[Brooke]

Jeffrey, I don't know what started the fight.

[Jeffrey]

You cannot bring ex's house. You can't bring a date to your ex's house, especially unannounced.

[Jose]

I don't know what who does that.

[Brooke]

I'm just clearly Red is somebody that wants everybody to get along. Feels like you should be able to move past ex grievances. The ladies. I don't know why you guys are holding onto this like it's a big deal.

[Jose]

Your ex shows up at your house today.

[Brooke]

I don't have one. Joke's on you. All right. But we don't know the whole story. We have a hunch of. Of what went wrong. We need to get Christina's angle to really understand the full scope of this.

[Jeffrey]

I can't wait to hear her story. And the thing is, is that you actually sound like a really nice guy that just made dumb choices.

[Rhett]

Yeah, I'm just a really nice guy who made one dumb choice and I told you the whole story.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah, but her perspective is going to be interesting. Yeah.

[Brooke]

Yeah. Perspective. Well, let's find out what that is. I'm going to dial her right now. Hopefully she has nothing but good things to say about you.

[Jeffrey]

Or she doesn't just cuss at us and hang up.

[Brooke]

Okay, we'll see how this goes. I'm dialing her. What if she flips us off as she ends, answers the phone?

[Jeffrey]

We won't be able to see it.

[Brooke]

We'll be able to feel it, though. Here we go.

[Christina]

Hello?

[Brooke]

Hey, is this Christina?

[Christina]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Hey, Christina. Hi. Good morning. Good morning. We've all been very eager to talk to you. We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and I don't even know where to begin, honestly.

[Jeffrey]

Hi, Christina. How are you doing?

[Christina]

Fine. What is this?

[Brooke]

Yeah, this is a radio show, and we're doing a segment trying to help out one of our listeners that you went on a date with recently. His name is Rhett.

[Christina]

What?

[Jeffrey]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, actually, that's a better response than I expected from you, to be honest.

[Brooke]

Yeah, I'm being serious because we heard about your guys's hangout. We won't rehash the whole story.

[Christina]

Wait a second. Rhett called you?

[Jeffrey]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Yeah, he emailed us.

[Christina]

Why is he doing that?

[Brooke]

Well, obviously, because he likes you. Yeah, he wants a date.

[Jeffrey]

Well, I mean, not just that. Like, you guys were friends in the hiking group, and then. And then you had one date, and he knows he screwed it up.

[Brooke]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

Can I just hear the story? Like, I want to hear from your perspective. Like, you show up to his ex's house. Did you know that's where you were going?

[Christina]

No. He was like, oh, I've got something to show you. I really want you to see that.

[Brooke]

Oh, I've fallen for that line before.

[Jeffrey]

Yikes.

[Brooke]

We all have Jasmine. Okay.

[Christina]

I mean, at first I just thought it was, like, his friend or something. I didn't realize it was his ex. And then we get into this argument. She called me a whore.

[Brooke]

Oh, God. Oh, God. Wait, don't repeat it.

[Jeffrey]

But what. Wait, how do you go from Petty the cat to that?

[Christina]

Get some major insecurity issues or something? Because she was like, well, do you know what he likes? Because I know what he likes.

[Brooke]

Oh, God. Okay, we did not know that part of the story.

[Christina]

Yeah, like I said, she yelled at me and called me a.

[Jeffrey]

Wait, what did Rhett do? Yeah, he was halfway.

[Christina]

Yeah, he was yelling back at her. It was just. It was so dramatic. And this is the first date.

[Jose]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

Okay, I'm gonna tell you on the 32nd date. That would not be okay.

[Brooke]

Look, I know that we all feel terrible about that. Rhett feels sorry for even making the decision to bring you over there.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. I mean, he honestly sounds like a nice guy that made a dumb choice.

[Christina]

I don't know. He lied to me, too.

[Jeffrey]

Okay.

[Brooke]

He lied just that, like, about bringing you over there to introduce you to his cat?

[Christina]

No, before that. So I knew him from hiking. Like, we hiked together with, like, a group, and we were talking about our cats, and he told me that sorbet is 5 and my cat is 5 2. So I was like, oh, that's cool. They're the same age. But then his ex told me that sorbet is nine.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, cat age.

[Jose]

I don't know how old my cat is.

[Jeffrey]

I think we should probably just come straight. The argument with the ex and the.

[Christina]

Name calling, what was a five year difference? That's crazy.

[Brooke]

Okay, that was worse to you than the argument that broke out between the three?

[Christina]

Honestly, I think that he lied about his cat's age on purpose. I think he was trying to say that it was the same as my cat so that they would get along.

[Brooke]

Okay. I mean, we do hear a lot of people lying about their age on dating apps to impress somebody. Not usually lying about their cat's age to impress each other, but.

[Christina]

Well, yeah, but, like, that's important to me.

[Rhett]

I have something to say here.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, okay.

[Brooke]

You shut your mouth, you liar. I really hope you would, because we need to tell you, Christina, that Rhett's been on the other line listening to this call, wanting to clearly speak and hopefully apologize.

[Rhett]

Well, yeah, I mean, I'm gonna apologize for the fight, but not. Not for my cat being a different age. I mean, those are just details.

[Christina]

Well, you might not think that's important, but I do. I don't have kids. I'm not planning on having kids anytime soon. My cat is my world. Like, I don't want my cat to be the little second sidekick cat because you have this older, leader, mean cat.

[Rhett]

Well, maybe if your cat was more mature, it'd be okay hanging out with my older cat.

[Christina]

Okay, My cat is plenty mature.

[Brooke]

Oh, God, it sounds like it wears a top hat. I don't know what we're fighting about. Really?

[Jeffrey]

I don't get it either. I thought we'd really be concentrating on the name calling the ex's house here.

[Christina]

Well, that wasn't cool. But neither is lying about the age of your cat. Why would you do that? Why would you lie about anything like that?

[Brooke]

That is tr.

[Jeffrey]

The ex is lying.

[Rhett]

Yeah, I mean, my ex wasn't lying about that. He is nine. And then if. If that's the only thing standing in the way of this. I mean, we can always go get a five year old cat.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jose]

There are a lot of cats that.

[Jeffrey]

Need adopted, especially the older ones.

[Brooke]

I like the problem solving. That's a positive.

[Christina]

So my cat's a third wheel now. That's great.

[Jeffrey]

What? I am so confused at what you're upset at.

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[Brooke]

You find very interesting things important for your dating life.

[Christina]

You gotta think of it from my perspective. If this does work out and we're together now, we've got two full time cats and one part time cat that we're shuffling back and forth between his ex who thinks I'm a.

[Jeffrey]

What? Oh, between the ex who thinks you're. Yeah, I mean, I could see that part. But I mean it's nine. It's not like you're gonna have to do it for many years. I'm just saying times like.

[Rhett]

I take offense to that because my cat may be nine, but she looks seven at worst.

[Brooke]

Plus we don't know how many lives it has left. It could have all nine. Nine left.

[Jeffrey]

But we are really stuck on this.

[Brooke]

I know she's very upset that she got cat catfished. Yeah, that's the big issue. I think it's fish catted.

[Jeffrey]

I think it's just catfish.

[Christina]

It is. You did cat catfish me.

[Jeffrey]

Okay.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

We're going with the double catfish, right?

[Brooke]

You're very sorry, right? Tell her how sorry you are for doing that.

[Rhett]

Yeah, yeah. I mean, I'm. I'm very sorry for telling you the wrong age of my cat. And I mean, going forward, I. I swear I won't lie to you about something like that.

[Jeffrey]

Something like that. Why would you add that? Why would you just say I swear I would not lie to you about anything.

[Brooke]

About anything.

[Rhett]

Well, because that's like super important. I want her to know how important it is that I'm taking her her cat age. Very importantly, I won't lie at all.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, honestly, Christina, he is taking it into account and I think a lot of people would not be so patient.

[Brooke]

Brooke is basically saying team Rhett. Team Rhett. And so we would like to offer to send you out on another date with him. And we would pay for it.

[Christina]

I don't know.

[Brooke]

Two cats, three cats, one cat. No cat. Whatever. However many cats you want or don't want on it. You can cafe.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. And find a five year old one.

[Brooke]

Perfect.

[Christina]

Well, I doubt he wants to go out again with a.

[Jeffrey]

Hate that word.

[Brooke]

Rhett, what do you think?

[Rhett]

I mean, as long as the price Is right. I guess we could do it.

[Jeffrey]

Okay, I know it's a joke, but let's not.

[Rhett]

I'm. I'm kidding. Obviously, I would. I would love to have a second try at this.

[Brooke]

Yes. You went through all this effort to make this happen, and we're running out of time here. So what do you say, Christina? One more date with Rhett? I need a yes or a no.

[Christina]

Fine. Yeah, whatever.

[Brooke]

It's a romantic fight. Are you down? She just said fine.

[Rhett]

Yeah, she's still emotional. She'll get over it. I'm okay with fine.

[Jeffrey]

I'm sorry, but are we miracle workers? Because that is insane.

[Brooke]

Yes. We should take all the credit for this. You're right. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. You know what really makes me happy? Hearing someone regrettably agree to go out on a date again.

[Jeffrey]

Fine, Jeff.

[Brooke]

Fine. They're gonna look back and listen to this on their wedding day right before Christina turns to the pastor and is like, oh, fine. I do.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah, well, pretty sure the ex is gonna show up to that wedding.

[Brooke]

Yeah. I just hope the cats show up.

[Jeffrey]

I don't think anybody's showing up.

[Jose]

I think he's gonna.

[Jeffrey]

Their house. At the ex's house.

[Brooke]

It's a good reminder that everybody. Everybody values different things in their relationships. And for Christina, she values honesty about your cat's real age. That's number one on the relationship. I mean, baby could have still been dating the ex. She's like, I don't care about that.

[Jeffrey]

Around number five is ex name calling.

[Brooke]

There you go. Yes, it still mattered to her, just not quite as high. Everyone's got different priorities, and we know that now. So whatever is important to you, we will call that person who's not calling you back. Email the show so we can help and go check out all of our second day podcasts wherever you get yours at. Brooke and Jeffrey.

[Jose]

Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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