Second Date Update: Down In The Dumps

Summary

Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update – Episode Summary: "Down In The Dumps"

Release Date: July 2, 2025
Podcast: Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update by iHeartPodcasts

In the "Down In The Dumps" episode of Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update, hosts Brooke and Jeffrey navigate the often tumultuous waters of modern dating through the real-life story of listener Caleb. This detailed summary captures the key discussions, insights, and humorous exchanges that make this episode both entertaining and relatable for anyone grappling with the challenges of finding a meaningful connection in today's digital age.

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Introduction: Setting the Stage

The episode kicks off with Brooke and Jeffrey greeting their audience and introducing the central theme: helping listeners secure a second date after a disappointing first encounter. They emphasize the entertainment aspect of their mission, acknowledging the low success rate but high engagement from their audience.

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Caleb’s Story: From Craigslist to the Dump

Caleb, a listener, shares his unconventional dating journey, beginning with his foray into online dating platforms that yielded minimal matches. Discouraged by the dismal response rate—"I heard like 1% of guys match with anybody" ([06:01])—Caleb decides to abandon digital efforts in favor of real-world interactions.

He recounts purchasing what he believed to be a functional TV from Craigslist, only to discover it was an obsolete Arby's digital menu display:
"So, no matter what you're watching, you can still kind of see the outline of the Arby's menu over the top of it?" ([06:34])

Frustrated by the scam, Caleb brings the faulty TV to the dump, inadvertently setting the stage for his next encounter. While at the landfill, he meets Rebecca, a woman also there to dispose of items. Their interaction starts humorously as Caleb explains his mishap:
"I wanted to get my money back. He completely blocked me." ([07:24])
"It was just so branded. It was, like, the same thing, like, that guys always say, oh, I go to the gym. Like, well, okay, that's a good." ([17:30])

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First Date Success and Subsequent Hesitation

Caleb and Rebecca decide to take their connection further by going out for drinks. Their initial meeting is smooth and enjoyable:
"We went out just for a couple of drinks. And... she is so cool, bro." ([09:21])

However, post-date, Rebecca stumbles upon Caleb's dating app profile, which she finds underwhelming and generic. This disconnect leads her to reassess her interest, primarily influenced by his online persona:
"The more I read about him, it's just, like, the more boring he seems." ([16:00])

Caleb is perplexed by Rebecca's sudden change in demeanor, prompting the hosts to intervene.

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Hosts' Intervention: Bridging the Gap Between Online and Offline

Determined to help Caleb succeed, Jeffrey and Alexis (another co-host) decide to reach out directly to Rebecca to mediate and facilitate a second date. Their approach involves directly contacting Rebecca to address the misconceptions arising from Caleb's online profile.

Jeffrey shares a humorous insight into Caleb's predicament:
"Can you believe I have to offer to send you out one more time and we'll pay for the date?" ([19:37])

Meanwhile, Alexis suggests creative solutions and light-hearted strategies to reignite Caleb and Rebecca's connection: "Maybe do like a little speed dating event at a city dump." ([22:34])

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Rebecca’s Perspective: The Impact of Digital Profiles

During the conversation with Rebecca, she articulates her genuine interest in Caleb during their in-person interactions but expresses disappointment upon seeing his online profile:
"The more I read about him, it's just, like, the more boring he seems." ([16:00])

Rebecca highlights the discrepancy between Caleb's authentic self and his curated online presence, emphasizing the importance of genuineness in both realms: "But Alexis, you probably know how to address this. It's not about the app, but how you present yourself." ([17:25])

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Resolution: Facilitating a Genuine Connection

Acknowledging the challenges posed by digital misrepresentation, Brooke and Jeffrey propose actionable steps for Caleb and Rebecca to rekindle their connection. They encourage Caleb to update his dating profile to better reflect his true personality, moving away from generic statements like "I go to the gym" to more unique and engaging descriptions.

The hosts conclude with a supportive and optimistic tone, reassuring Caleb and Rebecca that with honest communication and genuine effort, a second date is within reach: "Don't look at his profile. Before you answer, just go off of what's in your heart right now." ([19:45])

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Humorous Banter and Light-Hearted Moments

Throughout the episode, Brooke and Jeffrey infuse humor to keep the conversation lively and engaging. From joking about meeting women at the dump to playful exchanges about Caleb's dating profile, their chemistry and wit provide a refreshing take on the dating struggle: "What was the most boring part of it? Like, I can't." ([17:25])
"Tag us in your pictures of Arby's in South Korea because I want to see what they have on the menu." ([20:08])

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Conclusion: Embracing Authenticity in Dating

"Down In The Dumps" underscores the significance of aligning one's online persona with their authentic self to foster meaningful connections. Brooke and Jeffrey successfully blend empathy, humor, and practical advice to guide Caleb—and listeners alike—toward securing that elusive second date.

Listeners are left with a sense of hope and actionable strategies to navigate the complexities of modern dating, reminding them that genuine interactions often transcend digital facades.

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Notable Quotes:

• "The tea I crave daily is finally filled." – Brooke ([03:47])
• "Can I say smelly?" – Jose ([03:35])
• "You're running out of time here, so at this point, I just have to offer Rebecca, we'll send you out one more time with Caleb, and we'll pay for the date." – Jeffrey ([19:28])
• "I think you need to go down delete that profile." – Alexis ([19:56])

This episode masterfully combines real-life anecdotes with insightful commentary, providing both entertainment and valuable lessons for those seeking a second chance in the dating scene.

Transcript

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[Alexis]

Hey, it's Brooke and Jeffrey, and this is the second date Update podcast. So thank you so much for being here. This is the official one, too. All right. Yes, this is it.

[Jose]

You found it and we can all verify it's us. Yeah, I'm looking at Brooke and Alexis right now.

[Alexis]

Yeah. Tell us something that no one else knows about you, Jose, to make sure it's actually you.

[Jose]

I love food.

[Alexis]

I knew it. I knew it. Only the real Jose could say that. Yeah. Today I'll just say that the couple that went out met in the most unusual.

[Jose]

Oh, my gosh.

[Alexis]

Pleasant place ever. No, maybe least pleasant. Top two of all time. Yeah.

[Jose]

Can I say smelly?

[Alexis]

Yeah. It's a wild story that I think you're going to enjoy. Let's start with some comments, though, Alexis. Yeah, this one's cool. Kobe said you've got a listener in Thailand. Cool, Kobe. Love you guys so much.

[Brooke]

The tea I crave daily is finally filled.

[Alexis]

Awesome.

[Jose]

I love that we get a little Thai tea out there.

[Alexis]

Saw what he cut. That's how you say hello.

[Jose]

I want to learn more.

[Brooke]

I'm going to trust you on that.

[Alexis]

Not going to fact check it, but.

[Jose]

If Brooke and I come and visit, will you put us up in your house?

[Alexis]

No. And you know what I love? In Thai, you say five is pronounced ha. So when something's funny in Thai, people write 5, 5, 5, 5, 5.

[Jose]

Oh, I'm going to start laughing.

[Alexis]

Oh, that is bad. That's really bad.

[Jose]

I'm going to leave the room.

[Alexis]

Correct me if I'm wrong on that, okay? But, hey, thanks for being here. Thanks for listening, and let's get this second date started.

[Unknown]

5, 5, 5.

[Jeff]

Second date update. I feel like we hear this a lot. From our male listeners telling us about how hard it is to be a dude on the dating apps. Yeah, because you can match with 40 women, send out 40 messages, and never hear a word back from any of them.

[Alexis]

I mean, how many times can you write sup girl? And nobody responds. That is so disappointing, Jeff.

[Jeff]

That's a lot of letters to type.

[Jose]

Or do what I do and send a bunch of gifts and be super funny. Now none of it works.

[Jeff]

Obviously it's easy to blame Brooke for this.

[Alexis]

Oh.

[Jeff]

Cuz we all know if she was still single and on the dating app, she'd be messaging back every dude who even glanced at her profile.

[Jose]

A problem.

[Alexis]

Honest to God. Would not have had time for a full time job if. If the dating apps had been around when I was single.

[Jeff]

Because she is a charity dater and a generous.

[Alexis]

That is correct. I see the good in everybody.

[Jeff]

Apparently there's another option out there for single consider that's even better than the apps. And that's where our listener Caleb is at right now. So, Caleb, welcome to the show.

[Unknown]

Hey. Thank you, guys.

[Alexis]

Wait, like is at as in it's a physical place?

[Jeff]

Not really sure. He just said he found another option, an alternative to the dating apps that he likes even better. So Caleb, I really am interested to find out what you're doing right now.

[Unknown]

Okay, well, a little bit of backstory is I started off on dating apps and yeah, it is a real challenge for guys. I heard like 1% of guys match with anybody.

[Alexis]

What? Only 1% of men get matches.

[Jose]

Wow.

[Jeff]

It's higher than I would have thought. So it still sounds pretty good.

[Alexis]

That's pretty wild if it's true.

[Unknown]

Whether or not it is true, I have to tell you, that's my experience. So I realized, okay, I just got to get out in the real world.

[Alexis]

Okay.

[Unknown]

So a couple of weeks ago, I found this TV on Craigslist. Looked like it was in really good shape.

[Alexis]

Okay.

[Unknown]

And I bought it.

[Alexis]

And you bought a tv?

[Unknown]

Yep. Needed to be cleaned up, took it home. Turned out it was an Arby's digital menu.

[Jose]

Oh, I've seen this happen.

[Alexis]

Wait, what? I don't get it.

[Jose]

So you know when they print like the. When you go into an Arby's and the menu is on a flat screen, after like six years, they just sell them and they get rid of them because they're old TV.

[Alexis]

They're not actually TV screens. They're like, they can only show the RV's menu.

[Jose]

It's burnt into them.

[Jeff]

Now they look like an Arby's menu.

[Alexis]

Yeah, it's like. So no matter what you're watching, you can still kind of see. See the outline of the Arby's menu over the top of it?

[Jeff]

Can you still smell the Arby's that seeped into the, like, electronics?

[Jose]

God, I just want a number two so bad right now.

[Alexis]

Arby's need screensavers?

[Jose]

No, but most restaurants like jbox does.

[Alexis]

That makes sense.

[Jose]

They just sell them after.

[Alexis]

So you actually now you're watching Arby's.

[Unknown]

The heck I am. I tried contacting the guy again because I wanted to get my money back. He completely blocked me. Of course.

[Jose]

You got hustled, bro.

[Unknown]

So I was so pissed, I decided to take this thing. I didn't even want to send it out of the curb. I actually took it to the dump where it belonged.

[Jeff]

Okay, nice.

[Unknown]

Okay, while I was there, turns out there's this lovely young woman right there who was.

[Jeff]

Well, hello. Shut up.

[Alexis]

Your big hack is to meet women at the dump landfill?

[Unknown]

Look it. You can't argue with results, okay?

[Jeff]

Yeah, it's a good dating hack, I guess, meeting women. I'm assuming she's just visiting the dump and she doesn't live there.

[Jose]

Yeah, she's a hoarder.

[Unknown]

No, no, she was quite lovely. Good.

[Jeff]

Okay.

[Unknown]

Okay.

[Alexis]

How do you strike up a conversation with her? Like, man, nice garbage.

[Unknown]

Actually, she asked me, why are you throwing away this brand new television?

[Jose]

Oh, that is a combo. Yeah, a big flat screen.

[Alexis]

When my mom goes to the dump, she often brings stuff home. Like a free for all. I'm going to go take anything you want.

[Jose]

People love it. People like liter go there and get free stuff.

[Jeff]

Okay, so you like, gave her your old tv?

[Unknown]

Oh, no, I wasn't gonna let anybody have that. But okay, once she asked about it, that was my opening to tell her the story. Yes, she thought was just completely hilarious.

[Jose]

Oh, it is, bro.

[Alexis]

Dude, you love a woman who will laugh at your pain, right?

[Jeff]

Yeah.

[Alexis]

Oh, he's still laughing.

[Unknown]

But then she also needed some help, so then I started helping her empty out her truck and we ended up just really connecting. So I got her number.

[Alexis]

Wait, is the dump the only date? Because then you were being used. Yeah.

[Unknown]

No, not at all. No, no, I got a number and I called her after, so. Good.

[Alexis]

So you went out.

[Jose]

Did you take her to Arby's? That would have been funny.

[Alexis]

That would have been funny.

[Unknown]

Well, if we went to Arby's, I would have known exactly what I wanted.

[Ryan Seacrest]

Yeah, so funny.

[Jeff]

Where'd you go?

[Unknown]

We went out just for A couple of drinks.

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Unknown]

And. Oh, my gosh. She is so cool, bro. Yeah, she. Well, basically the first person I met in real life in, like, the last decade.

[Alexis]

Oh, my God.

[Jeff]

You mean that you can go out with, like, you've come in contact with other humans?

[Jose]

Sounds like you have a room full of dolls and you're, like, staring at.

[Alexis]

The Arby's tv, going crazy. So you had a great time?

[Unknown]

Oh, we did. Oh, my goodness. She cleaned up so nice.

[Alexis]

Cleaned up so nice. I mean, I will say, if you're attracted to a woman in her dump attire, you're gonna find her hot.

[Jose]

Like, hot hot.

[Jeff]

Yeah, it sounds like it's the first woman that he's, like, spoken to in 10 years.

[Alexis]

So he does sound like the hermit that crawled out of the lip.

[Jeff]

It's a pretty low bar.

[Unknown]

You can say all you want. All I'm gonna say is I was at the dump getting rid of something, and I managed to get a cute woman's phone number, so.

[Alexis]

So you thought that there would be another hangout when you guys were done with drinks and everything?

[Unknown]

I really thought so. I mean, it's not like the Craigslist guy who just completely blocked me, you know? She. She's still responding. I just need you guys to help me out and seeing if she's willing to go out with me again. It doesn't seem like it.

[Jeff]

Okay. Okay, well, we want to step in and help you out. We'll come back. We're gonna call this garbage gal and see if we can get her to agree.

[Alexis]

Landfill queen.

[Jose]

O. I like that.

[Jeff]

Whatever it is, we'll hopefully get her to answer and get you a second date update right after this.

[Unknown]

Thank you.

[Jeff]

Second date update. You know, Caleb was just on with us, telling us how hard of a time he's been having matching online with women in his area. And if the call doesn't go well today, I do have an alternative option for him.

[Alexis]

Oh, you do?

[Jeff]

Because I saw a news article where South Korea is offering foreign men $36,000 cash to move there and marry a local woman.

[Alexis]

Do you only get the money after the marriage or.

[Jeff]

Well, the money. Plus they'll give you all the used RBTV screens that you can handle. And, dude, South Korean Arby's are the best.

[Alexis]

I actually believe that.

[Jose]

Korean barbecue.

[Alexis]

Yes. Oh, my God, that sounds so good.

[Jeff]

But before Caleb considers me moving continents, he did meet a woman here in real life. And, Brooke, you're probably the best person to say how it happened since your parents conceived you at the dump. So Tell his story.

[Alexis]

Dude, we call that the Dort mall where I'm from. It's not even a lie. No, they met at the dump. That's kind of the end of the story there. I don't know. What. What did you want me to add to it?

[Jeff]

I mean, you romanticized it so well, Brooke. Thank you.

[Alexis]

Yeah, yeah. I mean, she was hauling stuff, he was hauling stuff. They're both throwing things into the big.

[Jeff]

P. Bottom line is he was able to turn that meet up into a first date officially, but after that, she's been kind of avoidant.

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Jeff]

And Caleb, did we miss anything there? Was that romantic enough for you?

[Unknown]

I felt like it was a little more romantic, but yeah. You okay?

[Alexis]

Did you reach over and take the smudged dirt off of her face in the landfill?

[Jose]

And added his own? Because he's also at the landfill.

[Jeff]

Wait a second. That's not dirt.

[Jose]

Was that a diaper you were holding? Oh, is getting more romantic. Yeah, it's getting hot in here, guys.

[Jeff]

Let's just call Rebecca for you before I keep going. Yeah, because we could go all day with this. I'm just going to dial her number right now.

[Unknown]

Oh, thank you very much.

[Jeff]

Okay, now shut up and let me talk. Here we go.

[Rebecca]

Hello?

[Jeff]

Hey, is this Rebecca?

[Rebecca]

Yes.

[Jeff]

Hi, my name is Jeff from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

[Alexis]

I got it down there, bro.

[Rebecca]

I don't know, but that sounds okay, I guess.

[Jose]

Wow. That's exactly the best description of us.

[Jeff]

Okay.

[Alexis]

Hi, Rebecca.

[Jeff]

Yeah, the whole show is here.

[Jose]

Good morning.

[Jeff]

We've all been wanting to talk to you.

[Rebecca]

Well, I kind of don't like to be on public radio, but, you know.

[Jeff]

This isn't public radio. Brooke listens to that trash.

[Alexis]

Definitely commercial radio.

[Jeff]

Yeah. Yeah, we're doing a segment here, Rebecca. It's called a Second Date Update. And we're trying to help out one of our listeners, reconnect with you after you've gone out once before. His name is Caleb.

[Unknown]

Caleb.

[Rebecca]

Yes.

[Alexis]

Yes. Oh, my God. I'm dying to hear your, like, meet cute story.

[Jeff]

Well, we're pretty sure we know the story, Brooke, because I know we know.

[Alexis]

The story, but I want to hear what she thought when she saw him at the dump. Like, that's so unexpected.

[Rebecca]

I actually really liked him. He seems so interesting. And.

[Alexis]

Okay, when you're at the dump or when you guys were at drinks, he was so interested.

[Rebecca]

Like, both places. Like, even at the dump, I mean, he seems interesting. And then I was like, I don't know, really go out with men. That I meet at the dump.

[Jeff]

Well, that's refreshing. Thank God.

[Alexis]

I don't know. I bet there's a lot of them, though.

[Jeff]

But let's. Let's just back things up for you, Rebecca, because here's what we know from Caleb. He told us the story and said you two met at the dump, you had a connection there, talked about used TVs and whatnot, and then he ended up asking you out, you went out for drinks and had a nice time together.

[Rebecca]

That we did.

[Jeff]

Okay.

[Alexis]

He said he was so impressed with how cool you were. Like, I thought that was a really nice compliment.

[Rebecca]

That is really nice. And, like, I was like that at first, too. I totally was.

[Jeff]

Okay, so clearly something has changed, at least on your end since your meetup. Could you maybe help us understand what that would be so we could pass the information to him? Because he's totally confused.

[Rebecca]

So after my date with Caleb the next day, I went on the dating app and guess who I see? I see Caleb.

[Jose]

Oh, you didn't let us guess.

[Jeff]

His profile came up.

[Unknown]

What?

[Alexis]

Is that weird? I feel like you just match and then you're like, hey, Fancy seeing you here.

[Jeff]

If anything, it could be a sign that he popped up for you.

[Alexis]

Yeah, even the algorithm wants you to be together.

[Jose]

True guy.

[Rebecca]

Yeah, I thought it was so great because then I would be able to find out more about him. Yeah, Yeah, I just kept on reading about him and reading more and more. Yeah, and the more I read about him, it's just, like, the more boring he seems. Like he just doesn't.

[Alexis]

Wait.

[Brooke]

His boring answers.

[Rebecca]

I mean, you know, the branded answers. Like, I go to the gym, I love exercising.

[Alexis]

Like, why would that matter?

[Unknown]

I don't understand.

[Jeff]

You've already gone out with him. You know what he's like in real life.

[Alexis]

So. And it also explains why he was having such a hard time on the dating apps. He has a terrible profile.

[Brooke]

Yeah, I don't match with anyone that does serious answers.

[Unknown]

I like me. My profile is not horrible.

[Alexis]

Oh, that's the insult.

[Jeff]

Okay, well, Caleb was supposed to wait, but I guess I need to tell you, Rebecca, that that's Caleb on the other line. He's been listening to this conversation.

[Alexis]

What a not boring thing to do.

[Jeff]

Well, yeah, he's assertive.

[Jose]

Yeah, he is.

[Rebecca]

Wow. You know, I'm sorry.

[Unknown]

I'm so sorry.

[Rebecca]

I don't understand how he worried about.

[Unknown]

My profile when we went out on, like, one and a half dates. That doesn't make any sense. I don't. I'm not sure. I Understand what's going on here?

[Rebecca]

Your boring profile, it just stuck with me.

[Alexis]

Oh.

[Unknown]

Oh, no.

[Jeff]

Oh.

[Alexis]

What was the most boring part of it? Like, I can't.

[Jeff]

We probably shouldn't recap it.

[Alexis]

I don't know.

[Jeff]

I don't know. I think we want.

[Rebecca]

It was just so branded. It was, like, the same thing, like, that guys always say, oh, I go to the gym. Like, well, okay, that's a good.

[Jeff]

That's a. Yeah. I mean, I think that's, like, the generic, like, thing that people just want to, like, be mass appeal.

[Jose]

I'm in shape, not just hot.

[Unknown]

Hey, guys, I'm still here. Everyone's talking about my crappy profile.

[Alexis]

I don't think you should take offense to it. Like, my husband has, like, this one really cute guy friend, and his dating profile makes him look like a total loser, honestly. But in real life, he's awesome. And maybe that's you.

[Jeff]

Yeah, I mean, I've heard of people, like, not wanting to go out before the date because of a boring profile, but not after. You should know him by this point, Rebecca. Like, you've hung out with him.

[Alexis]

Yeah. Were you bored when you hung out?

[Unknown]

No.

[Rebecca]

Okay, that's funny.

[Alexis]

You see?

[Jeff]

What?

[Jose]

That's funny.

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Jeff]

You see the disconnect, right?

[Rebecca]

You know, it's just the last thing that stuck with me. It really was, like, burned into your brain.

[Jeff]

It's burned in, like, the Arby's menu on that TV screen. Just can't get rid of it.

[Jose]

You're perfect for each other if you don't even know it.

[Jeff]

Yeah, I mean, we need to step back.

[Unknown]

Where?

[Jeff]

I think we're jumping in too much. Let's re establish the connection that you two had with each other. Caleb, talk to Rebecca and light that spark back up.

[Unknown]

Rebecca, this is so backwards from the way this kind of thing always happens.

[Rebecca]

We met in person.

[Unknown]

We were together. We had a great time together both times that we saw each other. And then the last thing you did was see my profile and decide you don't want to see me. Come on, sweetie. Come on, Rebecca.

[Jeff]

Oh, God. Did you say sweetie a lot inside of your profile?

[Jose]

I'm looking for my sweetie now.

[Brooke]

I'm on her side.

[Alexis]

It was kind of a boring response.

[Jose]

Because of the gym.

[Jeff]

All right, we're. We're running out of time here, so at this point, I just have to offer. Rebecca, we'll send you out one more time with Caleb, and we'll pay for the date.

[Alexis]

God, I'm having such a hard time.

[Jeff]

Just don't look at his profile. Before you answer, just go off of what's in your heart right now.

[Rebecca]

I can't get over it. I just can't get over it.

[Jeff]

Are you kidding me?

[Brooke]

Are you serious?

[Alexis]

That is so funny.

[Unknown]

The dating app screwed me. I didn't even meet you on the dating app.

[Alexis]

I think you need to go down delete that profile.

[Jose]

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[Jeff]

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[Jeff]

How many people do you think heard this and went right onto their dating profiles and started making alterations to sound less boring?

[Alexis]

Paused it.

[Jeff]

Took it off. Yeah, I don't know how you make it sound sexier. Like, I don't work out. I'm a professional calorie incinerator.

[Alexis]

That'd actually be funny. Yeah, I mean, honestly, that would be more attractive.

[Jose]

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[Jeff]

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[Jeff]

Really?

[Alexis]

Yes. I know I've never been to a dump, but now I want to go. Oh, pretty fun. But the smell is overwhelming. Yeah, you're never gonna know what that person smells like until you get them out of that area.

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That could work to your benefit, though. Maybe do like a little speed dating event at a city dump.

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