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Kelly Harnett
The Girlfriends is back with a new season, and this time I'm telling you the story of Kelly Harnett. Kelly spent over a decade in prison for a murder she says she didn't commit. As she fought for her freedom, she taught herself the law.
Thomas
He goes oh God.
Kelly Harnett
Harnett Jailhouse Lawyer and became a beacon of hope for the women locked up alongside her. You're supposed to have your faith in God, but I had nothing but faith in her.
Thomas
I think I was put here to save souls by getting people out of prison.
Kelly Harnett
The Girlfriends Jailhouse Lawyer listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Will Ferrell
My Uncle Chris was a real character, a garbage truck driver from South Carolina who is now buried in Panama City alongside the founding families of Panama. He also happens to be responsible for the craziest night of my life. Wild stories about adventure, romance, crime, history and war intertwine as I share the tall tales and hard truths that have helped me understand Uncle Chris. Listen now to Uncle Chris on Will Ferrell's Big Money Players Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Kelly Harnett
I knew I wanted to obey and.
Sarah Spain
Submit, but I didn't fully grasp for the rest of my life what that meant for my heart. Podcasts and Rococo Punch this is the Turning River Road in the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls and forced them into a secret life of but in 2014, the youngest escaped. Listen to the Turning river road on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Danielle Robay
Just like great shoes, great books take you places through unforgettable love stories and into conversations with characters you'll never forget.
Kelly Harnett
I think any good romance, it gives.
Thomas
Me this feeling of like butterflies.
Danielle Robay
I'm Danielle Robay and this is bookmarked by Reese's Book Club. The new podcast from hello Sunshine and I Heart Podcast where we dive into the stor that shape us on the page and off each week I'm joined by authors, celebs, book talk stars and more for conversations that will make you laugh, cry and add way too many books to your TBR pile. Listen to Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Sarah Spain
Join iHeartRadio and Sarah Spain in celebrating.
Kelly Harnett
The one year anniversary of iHeart Women's Sports with powerful interviews and insider analysis. Our shows have connected fans with the heart of women's sports. In one year the network has launched 15 shows and built a community united by passion podcasts that amplify the voices of women in sports. Thank you for supporting iHeart women's sports and our founding sponsors, E L F Beauty, Capital One, and Novartis. Just open the free iHeart app and search iHeart Women's Sports to listen.
Thomas
Now, we got a brand new second date podcast for you today. Thank you so much for being here on the podcast since Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Jillian
Yeah.
Thomas
And they say it couldn't be done. Men thought it was impossible, but after 20 years, one of our listeners finally got out of the friend zone.
Jillian
Wow.
Alexis
It's crazy.
Brooke
What do you do after? Yeah, well, you, like, kiss and stuff.
Thomas
Yeah. You end up here. He's on with us. It's a bumpy ride. It's a bumpy ride. You know, there's no roadmap for this one.
Brooke
Oh, boy.
Thomas
So that is happening in your second date here in just a second. But what do you see, Alexis, that you like that people are writing about?
Kelly Harnett
Shay said all caps, but Brooke, Jeff, Jose, Alexis. My sister sent me a second date update about a year ago. I have binged 1857 episodes in under 12 months. Just a random dude from metro Detroit. Hoping Alexis reads my comment. Much love from the mitten.
Brooke
And you got your what? What's next? Mitten. What's your next goal? You've heard everything you had. Alexis read a comment. Oh, well, I mean, we need to prank, I don't know, phone tap him or something.
Thomas
I think he gets a. He gets a spot on the show.
Brooke
Yeah. You may just take my job.
Kelly Harnett
We got to start sending out plaques. You YouTube does.
Thomas
Yeah, I love that.
Alexis
That'd be so rad.
Brooke
You've been featured on Brooke and Jeffrey.
Thomas
God, if only we had a marketing budget. Yeah, or any budget. All right. Hey, thank you so much for being here. Your brand new second date update starts right now.
Jeffrey
Second date update. What are the percentages of how people meet when they come to us? It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning's.
Brooke
Gotta be up there.
Thomas
I'd say like 80%.
Jeffrey
Yeah, 80, 85%. Dating apps. I think a couple years ago that was up to, like 90. But lately, people have been starting to grow tired of that. They're finding new ways to connect. It's true. And you hear about more people meeting at run clubs and yoga classes. One couple even met at the dentist's office in the lobby when they were both high on nitrous, waiting for their rides to take them home.
Thomas
Why Do I feel like.
Brooke
I think so does yours.
Thomas
That was maybe just your personal story. Yeah.
Jeffrey
Still sexy and worth mentioning. But we don't get a lot of folks on this segment. We're who already knew each other for years before they ever went out on a date.
Thomas
Yeah, because usually they'd be comfortable enough to, like, check in and see what was going on.
Jeffrey
That's what you think. But we're doing it today with our listener, Jillian. So, Jillian, welcome to the show.
Alexis
Hi. Thank you for taking a call.
Brooke
Hey.
Thomas
I am, like, so, like, you got ghosted by someone who is your friend.
Kelly Harnett
Like, that makes it worse.
Jeffrey
How long were they were your friend for?
Alexis
So Thomas and I have known each other for almost 20 years.
Thomas
What? Wait, what years? Wait, how. How do you guys know each other?
Alexis
So we grew up in the same neighborhood. We were on sports teams together, and our families were super close together all the time. You know, the barbecues and all that.
Thomas
Oh, man, that's, like, really interwoven.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Brooke
Yeah.
Jeffrey
Was he your first kiss ever as a kid growing up?
Alexis
No. He did ask me out, like, multiple times, like, over the years. He'd asked me out, and I said no. Not because, like him, but just because I thought it might be awkward for our families, you know, like, we dated, didn't work out. I didn't want to make it weird.
Brooke
When families get that close. I had somebody who I thought was my cousin my whole life. And, like, literally, like, five, 10 years ago, my parents were like, that's not your cousin. That's a good family friend. I'm like, wait, Lisa Marie's not my cousin? I just love you because we've been. Families grow up together.
Thomas
I mean, they feel like blood. They really do. I'm with you on that one.
Jeffrey
Okay, so he was trying for it, and you kept shooting him down for years.
Thomas
Yeah. So what changed?
Alexis
Well, I saw him a couple weeks ago at a picnic my family was hosting. It had been a while since I'd seen him, and I'm not gonna lie, he looked really good.
Thomas
Thomas grew into himself.
Jeffrey
Someone had a glow up. Okay, and that changed your mind?
Alexis
Yeah, I was like, forget weird. Let's just go for this.
Thomas
Thomas got hot.
Brooke
Yeah, he's hot now.
Jeffrey
Okay. It's not shallow. You've known each other for a long time.
Alexis
Yeah. I mean, I felt like it was safe. And these days, you find someone that you feel safe with.
Brooke
Oh, totally.
Thomas
Okay, so wait, how did you guys turn it into a romantic d date, though?
Alexis
Well, I hit him up. I hit him up and I Was just like, hey, you want to meet up, hang out? And he kind of freaked out a little, you know, he was like, when are you free? Let me cook you dinner.
Thomas
He's like, I've waited my whole life for this moment.
Kelly Harnett
Why would he. That'd be weird.
Jeffrey
It's because you rejected him for so long. No wonder he was, like, totally caught back by it.
Thomas
Well, I thought he'd be confused that maybe they were just gonna hang out as friends, but his response definitely doesn't sound like that.
Brooke
She. You said the word date. Obviously, you, like, made it clear.
Alexis
I think it was more, like, in my energy and my tone. It kind of made it like, yeah.
Brooke
Yeah, let's hang out.
Jeffrey
The 18 heart emojis at the end of the text message and the kissing emoji.
Thomas
That wasn't the emoji she was using.
Jeffrey
Oh, maybe not. Okay, so that's cool. He wanted to cook for you. How did that go?
Alexis
Oh, it's great. We had a fabulous meal. You know, I did the whole, like, hanging out in the kitchen, watching him cook. It was like a coconut curry casserole.
Brooke
Wow, that sounds delicious.
Thomas
Was there any awkwardness? Because sometimes when you turn these friendships into something romantic, like, there can be, I don't know, just funny moments, you know?
Alexis
To be honest, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. The conversation was really good. We did end up, like, a little makeout session happened, so he picked up.
Brooke
Sounds weird to say, but it may be hard to get out of the friend zone, like, when you've been friends for so long. Apparently, he did it.
Kelly Harnett
Dude.
Brooke
Maybe she's laughing, dude.
Thomas
Maybe his mind is just still blown, and he hasn't, like, come to realize that this wasn't a dream.
Brooke
Yeah. Did that really happen?
Jeffrey
What happened after the kiss?
Alexis
Well, I did go home. I was a good girl.
Jeffrey
Oh, okay.
Alexis
But I got a couple of nice texts from him afterwards, you know, thanking me for coming over. But then I've texted him a few more times with just sort of, like, some invitations. What are you doing? Want to grab a drink, etc. And he's been sending back the word busy.
Brooke
Oh, just the one word?
Alexis
Yes. Like, the total attitude and energy and all of it has just changed, and I have no idea what's going on with him.
Thomas
Do you think he's trying to play hard to get now? It's really bad at it.
Jeffrey
Yeah. So does him. Just texting the word busy to you over and over. Is that worse than just getting straight up ghosted?
Alexis
I don't think he goes because, like, our family situation is too close. Like, that would be really weird.
Jeffrey
But just saying one word, busy, it implies that he's mad at you. Something's wrong.
Kelly Harnett
It's kind of funny the more he says it, though.
Jeffrey
Yeah, we're actually kind of busy right now, so we should probably move on to the second part of this call where we reach out to Thomas for you and try to figure out what's going on.
Brooke
Hopefully he's honestly not super busy.
Thomas
I know.
Jeffrey
Really important. We'll find out when we do your second date update. Right after this second date update. If you're just joining us, quick recap of Jillian's date with Thomas, a guy she's known for 20 years as a family friend. And Thomas has actually asked her out several times before. She always would say no to him until he showed up to a family picnic looking like a total snack. She gave Tommy boy the old green light.
Brooke
After that, they wanted to sit down next to the potato salad.
Jeffrey
Oh, yeah, you're looking good. Doesn't get any hotter. So eventually went over to his place. He cooked a meal for her.
Kelly Harnett
So sweet.
Jeffrey
It sounds like a lot of their family gatherings are kind of based around food, so that sounds normal. But since then, he's only been replying to her texts with one word. Busy, very cold. And Jillian doesn't understand why, so we're trying to help figure that out. Jillian, I'm curious. Just going back to the date night. You said he cooked like a coconut curry thing for you. When you bit into it, did you make a weird face or something that could have been taken the wrong way by him where he maybe got offended?
Alexis
No, no, there's no way. Like, his coconut curry was amazing. I was like, gushing, if anything.
Thomas
Yeah. And they had a makeout sess afterwards.
Jeffrey
Well, I've made out with people angrily before when I've been really mad at them. Sometimes you settle differences, though. Yeah.
Brooke
If you're a manager and Jeff asked for the manager, do not come. Yeah. Okay. It's not going the way you think.
Jeffrey
You're about to get a piece of my mind and my tongue.
Thomas
I could say that their first kiss was, like, crazy because it's like 20 years in the making. That's wild.
Jeffrey
A lot of build up to that.
Brooke
You even said it all felt natural. The kiss felt natural, the chemistry. Right.
Thomas
I mean, there is potential in this if we can get him to.
Brooke
Weird.
Kelly Harnett
Keep going.
Jeffrey
Yeah. So let's just dial his number. Hopefully he's not too busy to pick up and we'll see. If we can get some answers out of him. But I'm dialing it right now.
Jillian
Hello?
Jeffrey
Hey, is this Thomas?
Jillian
Yeah, who's this?
Jeffrey
Hey, man. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Brooke
Morning.
Jillian
Okay.
Brooke
We're just going to brag. We're a cool show.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Thomas
So we are very excited to talk to you. I am. Anyway, we've.
Jeffrey
We've heard a lot about you from someone who asked us to reach out to you named Jillian.
Jillian
Oh, okay.
Jeffrey
Yeah. Okay.
Thomas
Jillian.
Jeffrey
We know you know her for a long time. And this is a segment we do called a Second Date Update. Because we're trying to figure out why, after you two hung out the other night and had dinner together, I mean, she feels like there should be another hangout session and you're not responding.
Jillian
Yeah, I don't. I don't really know if I'm comfortable talking about this. I'm sorry, I gotta.
Brooke
Well, she thought the date went so well. Did it not go well in your eyes?
Thomas
I mean, it's such a cute story, you two.
Brooke
Yeah, it's been, like, in the making, right?
Thomas
20 years. You finally get out of the friend zone, which impresses every man.
Jillian
Yeah, Yeah, I had. I was looking forward to it and it went really well. But. Well, there's just a violation of trust. Unfortunately.
Thomas
I don't think she's aware of that at all.
Jillian
She probably isn't.
Jeffrey
Well, if you are such good family friends going back 20 years, I feel like you should be comfortable enough to reach out and talk to her if there was an issue, a violation of some sort.
Jillian
I mean, I'm not sure, like, how malicious it was, but it's just. It's complicated, unfortunately. And because of her, my grandmother won't talk to me right now.
Thomas
Wait, what?
Brooke
Your grandma doesn't like her?
Thomas
What does your grandma have to do with Jillian?
Jillian
Yeah, well, I didn't realize at the time, but she came over and I wanted to treat her right. Right. So I. I busted out grandma's secret recipe. You know, it's like this amazing dish that we always make for special occasions. A coconut curry casserole. Right. And I guess while I was in the kitchen cooking and doing my thing, at some point I must have had my back turned. And the family recipe book is just sitting there open. It's not supposed to be shared with anybody or anything like that. Apparently, at some point she must have taken a photo of the recipe and forwarded it to her grandmother.
Jeffrey
Oh, no.
Jillian
Yeah. I don't. I don't know. If she meant to steal it, like, maliciously or for whatever reason. But picture of it, it's now a thing where her grandmother is holding it over my grandmother's head. And now my grandmother's mad at me. She's like, why would you share that? You know, she's pissed.
Jeffrey
Some petty grandma rivalries going on.
Kelly Harnett
Dude.
Thomas
This feels not that petty to me, though. Like, you get a signature dish that you bring to every event, and everybody wants to know what it is, and you can't tell them because then they're gonna bring it. Then you have to ask, like, oh, are you bringing it? Because I'm gonna bring it. It's a whole thing.
Brooke
Some restaurants have literally started based on someone's secret family recipe. Like kfc. Yeah, that's a whole secret recipe.
Jillian
Yeah.
Brooke
I just.
Jillian
I feel like at the very least, you should have, like, said something or asked me before. But, like, now because of the way it went down and I didn't realize. And then, like, you know, these. These grandmas, they can. They. They got claws, you know?
Kelly Harnett
Did you tell her it was a secret recipe before the photo? Like, she knew?
Jillian
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, she knows it's my grandma's secret recipe. Absolutely.
Jeffrey
Okay.
Jillian
And now my grandmother's like, you let some temptress come in and seduce you.
Brooke
Seduce you.
Alexis
Okay, wait.
Jillian
Hello?
Alexis
Hello, Hello, Hello. I'm here to.
Jillian
Thomas.
Alexis
Thomas.
Jeffrey
Okay, well, shoot. All right. Yeah, Thomas, that's Jillian. She's been waiting on the other line wanting to talk to you.
Jillian
Are you kidding me?
Thomas
No.
Jeffrey
Yeah, sorry.
Thomas
That's.
Jeffrey
That's how this segment works.
Brooke
She's kind of sneaky.
Jillian
I know.
Jeffrey
Seriously, just like grandma.
Alexis
No, no, no. So listen, I did not think it was gonna be that big of a deal. I had no idea that my grandma was gonna share it with your grandma like that and, like, literally taunt her. I did not know that she was gonna do that.
Jillian
Well, you've met our grandmothers. They. They like. Oh, they got, like, old school beef with each other.
Thomas
Oh.
Alexis
I was thinking it was going to be more like a funny thing. Like, I didn't realize there was going to be, like, that elevated emotionally.
Jillian
Yeah, hilarious. Now she won't even, like, answer my phone calls.
Thomas
Oh, that's bad. When grandma.
Jeffrey
Well, you don't really want to answer any grandma phone calls, to be honest.
Alexis
I don't know.
Kelly Harnett
I think you should check the will.
Thomas
Because somebody may be written out.
Alexis
I mean, maybe I could talk to her. Maybe I can talk to her.
Jillian
Oh, trust me, she does not want to talk to you. I appreciate that, but not to the.
Jeffrey
Temptress that seduced you.
Thomas
But I think there's only one way out of this, and that's Jillian. You have to go get your grandmother's secret recipe and give it to Thomas's grandmother. It's like tit for tat. Oh, yeah.
Alexis
Yeah. Wait, wait, guys. I don't know. Maybe that's a little too far.
Jeffrey
Oh, that's too far. But what you did was innocent.
Jillian
I think that might actually work. I think I know what recipe my grandmother would want.
Brooke
Really?
Thomas
Tell us.
Brooke
I love food.
Alexis
Don't say it. Please, Thomas, please don't say it.
Kelly Harnett
Say it.
Jeffrey
Say it.
Jillian
Grandpa Joe's Bourbon Pean Pie. You know. You know we want it.
Jeffrey
Oh, Pean pie. That it would be a solution to balance things out and restore peace to the neighborhood. And to the grandma verse.
Thomas
I mean, if you have to sneak it, I think it's worth it. Remember how hot Thomas got?
Kelly Harnett
Oh, yeah.
Jillian
What was that?
Jeffrey
Oh, you didn't hear that, Thomas?
Brooke
Yeah, you're hot now, by the way.
Jeffrey
Never. Never mind. I mean, are we really doing this right now? Are we just swapping old family recipes to resolve a dating dispute?
Brooke
That's where our show's coming.
Thomas
And somehow I find it sexy.
Jillian
I think the whole thing.
Jeffrey
Yeah, but I don't want Jillian's grandma to now be mad at us for encouraging this, and now we're caught up in this neighborhood feud.
Brooke
Oh, we'll just give her one of Alexis's recipes for Mac and cheese.
Kelly Harnett
Oh, yeah. No butter, no milk, a little bit.
Brooke
Of pepper, splash of water, mix.
Sarah Spain
Okay.
Jeffrey
Well, I mean, I can't believe we're doing this, but, Jillian, is it possible that you'd be able to unleash one family recipe in order to make things good with Thomas?
Brooke
Pecan pie.
Thomas
That's right, the pecan pie.
Alexis
It's possible.
Jeffrey
Yeah.
Thomas
She does like you.
Jeffrey
Wow.
Jillian
Just quick correction. It's not just a pecan pie recipe. It's a bourbon pecan pie.
Thomas
Yeah.
Jillian
All right. That's the one we want.
Thomas
All right.
Jeffrey
Jillian says she's willing to betray her own grandmother and give it up to you.
Alexis
Well, I'm gonna have to ask her, and I'm. I'm. It's gonna take some work, but I'm willing to give it a try.
Jeffrey
All right, well, there you go. Will you say yes to a second date? Cuz if you do, we would pay for it.
Jillian
I mean, how. How can I say no? Yeah, of course.
Thomas
All right, let's go.
Jeffrey
We love to see the kissing after that pecan pie and after the coconut curry. There you go.
Thomas
I'm hungry and turned off.
Brooke
That's normal.
Alexis
Thank you, Thomas. I'm looking forward to it.
Thomas
Oh, cute.
Kelly Harnett
You guys are gonna be cute.
Jillian
Yeah, of course. And if you come over again, I got the recipe book out. Just promise me you'll ask me to close it or no wandering eyes, right?
Jeffrey
Yeah. You temptress. Look at Jeffrey in the morning.
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Jeffrey
There are many versions of what happened in 1969 when a young Ted Kennedy drove a car into a pond and.
Kelly Harnett
Left a woman behind to drown.
Sarah Spain
There's a famous headline, I think in the New York Daily News. It's Teddy Escapes Blonde Drowns. And in a strange way, right, that sort of tells you the story really became about ted's political future. Ted's political hope. Will Ted become president?
Jeffrey
Kappaquiddick is a story of a tragic death and how the Kennedy machine took control.
Sarah Spain
And he's not the only Kennedy to survive a scandal.
Jeffrey
The Kennedys have lived through disgrace, affairs, violence, you name it. So is there a curse? Every week we go behind the headlines and beyond the drama of America's royal family.
Sarah Spain
Listen to United States of Kennedy on.
Kelly Harnett
The iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever.
Thomas
You get your podcasts.
Jeffrey
Oh, missed opportunity. Not for Thomas. Not for Thomas. And not for Jillian. For us. How did we not get a pie order in at the very end there?
Brooke
Loves pie too.
Jeffrey
We discussed pies for like the last three minutes. We, not one of us, asked for it to be delivered to the station.
Thomas
Dude, what I want is a awkward Tuesday phone call with those two petty grandmas. Yeah, I mean, that's where the real drama is.
Brooke
I want to. I want to be part of a Bake off dude.
Thomas
I feel like her grandma drama set her up, put it in her mind to go out with him just so she could get that rest. Yeah, maybe that's it.
Brooke
I kind of thought that too. Like, what if she was like, let's just go on one date. Yeah, but then she wouldn't have been asking us.
Jeffrey
Dirty work for me. It's a lot of drama still, but we love it. Whatever drama is happening in your life, in your personal life or in your dating life, you can always email the show and we can call that person who's not calling you back. You can find all of our second dates wherever you get your podcast at. Brooke and Jeffrey. Binge them if you want. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Kelly Harnett
The Girlfriends is back with a new season, and this time, I'm telling you the story of Kelly Harnett. Kelly spent over a decade in prison for a murder she says she didn't commit. As she fought for her freedom, she taught herself the law.
Thomas
He goes, oh, God. Harnett, jailhouse lawyer.
Kelly Harnett
And became a beacon of hope for the women locked up alongside her. You're supposed to have your faith in God, but I had nothing but faith in her.
Thomas
I think I was put here to save souls by getting people out of prison.
Kelly Harnett
The Girlfriends, jailhouse lawyer. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Will Ferrell
My Uncle Chris was a real character, a garbage truck driver from South Carolina who is now buried in Panama City alongside the founding families of Panama. He also happens to be responsible for the craziest night of my life. Wild stories about adventure, romance, crime, history and war intertwine as I share the tall tales and hard truths that have helped me understand Uncle Chris. Listen now to Uncle Chris on Will Ferrell's Big Money Players Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Alexis
I knew I wanted to obey and.
Sarah Spain
Submit, but I didn't fully grasp for.
Alexis
The rest of my life what that.
Sarah Spain
Meant for my heart. Podcasts and Rococo Punch. This is the turning River Road. In the woods of Minnesota, a cult leader married himself to 10 girls and forced them into a secret life of abuse. But in 2014, the youngest escaped. Listen to the turning river road on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Danielle Robay
Just like great shoes, great books take you places through unforgettable love stories and into conversations with characters you'll never forget.
Kelly Harnett
I think any good romance, it gives.
Thomas
Me this feeling of like butterflies.
Danielle Robay
I'm Danielle Robaix and this is bookmarked by Reese's Book Club, the new podcast from hello Sunshine and iHeart podcasts where we dive into the stories that shape us on the page and off. Each week I'm joined by authors, celebs, book talk stars and more for conversations that will make you laugh, cry and add way too many books to your TBR pile. Listen to Bookmarked by Reese's Book club on the iHeartRadio app. Apple Podcasts are wherever you get your podcast.
Sarah Spain
Join iHeartRadio and Sarah Spain in celebrating.
Kelly Harnett
The one year anniversary of iHeart Women's Sports. With powerful interviews and insider analysis, our shows have connected fans with the heart of women's Sports. In just one year, the network has launched 15 shows and built a community united by passion podcasts that amplify the voices of women in sports. Thank you for supporting iHeart women's sports and our founding sponsors E L F Beauty, Capital One and Novartis. Just open the free iHeart app and search iHeart Women's Sports to listen now.
Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update – "Family Dinner Drama"
Episode Overview
Release Date: July 16, 2025
In this engaging episode of "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update," hosted by Brooke and Jeffrey from iHeartPodcasts, the hosts delve into the intricacies of transitioning from long-term friendship to a romantic relationship. The focus is on a listener named Jillian, whose attempt to move beyond the friend zone with her long-time friend Thomas has led to unexpected family drama.
1. Introduction to the Second Date Concept (04:25 – 05:00)
Brooke and Jeffrey introduce the segment by highlighting the challenges of moving a relationship from friendship to romance. They tease the story of a listener who successfully navigated this transition after 20 years of friendship.
Notable Quote:
Jeffrey (04:25): "Now, we got a brand new second date podcast for you today."
2. Listener Story: Jillian and Thomas (05:00 – 09:00)
Jillian shares her story of finally deciding to date Thomas, a friend of nearly two decades. Initially hesitant due to their intertwined family relationships and fear of awkwardness, Jillian was convinced to take the leap after seeing Thomas's "glow up" at a recent family picnic.
Key Points:
Notable Quotes:
Alexis (05:22): "So Thomas and I have known each other for almost 20 years."
Alexis (06:38): "I was like, forget weird. Let's just go for this."
3. The First Date Experience (09:00 – 12:00)
The date proceeded smoothly with Thomas cooking a delicious coconut curry casserole, leading to a comfortable atmosphere and even a spontaneous makeout session. However, post-date communication took a bewildering turn as Thomas began responding to Jillian's messages with a curt "busy."
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Notable Quotes:
Alexis (07:05): "He's like, I've waited my whole life for this moment."
Alexis (08:11): "We had a fabulous meal... a coconut curry casserole."
4. Analyzing the Communication Breakdown (12:00 – 16:00)
Brooke and Jeffrey explore possible reasons for Thomas's behavior. They consider whether Thomas is playing hard to get or if there's an underlying issue affecting his responses. The conversation takes an unexpected turn when it's revealed that a mishap involving a secret family recipe has strained the relationship between Jillian and her grandmother.
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Notable Quotes:
Jillian (13:02): "It's complicated, unfortunately. And because of her, my grandmother won't talk to me right now."
Brooke (14:33): "Some restaurants have literally started based on someone's secret family recipe. Like KFC."
5. Resolving the Family Feud (16:00 – 18:30)
To mend the strained relationships, Brooke and Jeffrey propose a creative solution: exchanging secret family recipes between Jillian and Thomas. This exchange is humorously suggested as a way to appease both grandmothers and restore peace.
Key Points:
Notable Quotes:
Jeffrey (16:14): "But what you did was innocent."
Jillian (16:38): "Grandpa Joe's Bourbon Pecan Pie. You know, you know we want it."
Jillian (18:02): "She's looking forward to it."
6. Conclusion and Moving Forward (18:30 – 18:49)
The episode wraps up with the agreement that Jillian and Thomas will embark on a second date, funded by Brooke and Jeffrey, symbolizing support from the hosts in their journey. The hosts humorously reflect on the episode's events and encourage listeners to engage with their own dating dramas.
Notable Quotes:
Jeffrey (18:20): "We love to see the kissing after that pecan pie and after the coconut curry."
Brooke (18:31): "That's normal."
Key Insights and Takeaways
Conclusion
This episode of "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update" masterfully combines humor, real-life dilemmas, and heartfelt advice to explore the complexities of modern dating. Through Jillian and Thomas's story, listeners gain valuable insights into the delicate balance between personal relationships and family dynamics.
Listen to the Full Episode
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