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She was very cute, based on her pictures, and she seemed really nice. So I talked to her on the phone, and her laugh was amazing. Oh, that's so sweet. Yeah, I mean, you know, and we clicked really well, and I asked her out on a date. Okay. And so Jeff keeps calling her classy. Does that come from you? That's what he said in his email. Oh, okay. Okay. So were you nervous going into this date? Because it sounds like you were really excited. To be honest, I was. I was a little bit nervous. I got the impression that she did come from, like, money or something, and I'm like, a working class guy, so, you know, I just. I wanted to maybe class it up, you know, I don't really know what I'm doing, but that's like every Life Lifetime movie out there, so this sounds like it's meant to be. It's harder in real life, though, dude. And those movies are usually the other way around. It's usually the guy's really rich and she's like a bumbling idiot. Titanic. So what did you go with Sean? How did you impress Kat? So I got a limo. You bought a limo or you rented a limo? No, we went on a limo date. I don't know. It's like a service where you sit inside a limo for, like, two hours and just drive around the city drinking. Oh, my God. Was in a limo. Shut up. That is class. It is. I like it. Did you talk with a British accent? Why is he ruin all the classiness? Brook's like, did y'all use utensils? Classy. Sean, how did it go? What did Cat think of the limo? Yeah, well, I don't know. I think she liked it. It was kind of hard to tell, I guess, but she was making you drive and put the divider up so you couldn't tell. Yeah. How is it hard to tell? I mean, if I. If a dude showed up to pick me up in a limo, I'd be like, what? For the first time, I'd be freaking out. Yeah, I thought it was a pretty good move. I mean, you know, at least at the start. Yeah. Oh, I hook up with you. Did you see the limo pants come off? Did you think it was a bad move at some point when you say it like that? Well, yeah. I mean, you know, two and a half hours in a limo is kind of a long time. I mean, the first hour was pretty great, but I don't know, maybe she got bored or something. Kind of run out of things to do. You can only hang out on the roof so many times. It's like when you start a road trip and you're, like, really high and you got your mixtape in. You're high on road trips? No, like, excited? No, I think you meant what you said. You're singing along, and then, you know, eventually turn the radio down, the road sets in. So I just want to understand, in the entire two and a half hours, you never got out of the limo? Like, how did it go? What'd you guys do in there? Well, I was like, hey, you know, tell me, you know where you like to get a milkshake. And so we go get a milkshake. Oh, that's cute. Yeah, I was like, where do you like to get French fries? So we go get French fries. And so, you know, we ended up accumulating all this food. Oh, that's kind of cute, too. In a limo again, cute. For 45 minutes. How much fatty knots can you eat in two hours? Yeah, two hours. Does a limo even fit through the drive thru? I've never thought of that. So what Was like the highlight of the evening. Like the best moment when you think back to your fast food limo ride. Well, I guess it was, you know, when we went out onto the roof of the limo, we stuck our heads out and we were just looking at the city nuggets. That's pretty baller, dude. Yeah, this is Alexis. I know. You're speaking my language. I think we all would sign up for that. Yeah, that's really cute. But how did your date in the limo end? Ended Good. We kissed. Oh, you did? Hey, like one kiss or were you making out in the backseat? It was like a, you know, half make out kind of thing. Nothing serious. Half make. And I'm picturing just the bottom lip. No, no. Both bottom lips touching. Yeah. Sounds hard. Okay. That's how the rich people do it. Yeah. It wasn't like a long make out or it wasn't really short. It was like kind of like in the middle. Like, you know, you're at a wedding, you're getting married. Okay. Very specific. Well, that is very nice kiss. I mean, but a description like that and the end of an evening like that. I'm guessing you thought there was going to be another date. I assume there would be, yes. Because it sounds like things went great. I mean, despite maybe it went a little long. Yeah. Well, since then, have you guys spoke? Have there been any conversations since? Yeah, not on the phone, but we have been texting. Okay. I asked her out and she said, oh, yeah, I have to schedule it. And then, you know, didn't hear from her. And then I was like, well, you know, how's your scheduling going? Nothing. Yeah, nothing. You haven't heard anything since? Yeah, I mean, she said still scheduling and so I don't know. I think she's blowing me off. I think you're right. It's a classy way to blow you off, too. But you know those classy ladies, they're always really busy. And hopefully we can find her at a not busy time because we're going to play a song, we'll call her, and we're going to try and get you a second date update. Okay. Sean, she could be in another limo right now. If she's in another limo right now, I think that would be very weird. Well, she's classy. Who knows? We're going to find out. Let's play a song. We'll do it right after this second date update. Sean, I want you to know we're gonna do our best to get you another shot with Kat, but if it doesn't Work out. There are four people in this room who are willing to date you right now. Really? Correct. Oh, yeah. Because if you missed it, Sean wanted to impress Kat for their first hangout and decided to take her for a limo ride, visiting all their favorite fast food spots. It's really cute. The more I think about it, I want to do this. It's really creative. It's awesome. They spent two hours driving around, looking at views, eating nuggets, and I just. I don't get this girl. Because if I were her, Sean, you and I would be in a limo right now, and we would not be vertical. You hear me? I hear you, man. Is it a compliment? Cuddling, Laying down? Again, it's more than a compliment. All right. He'd be your Big Mac is what you're saying. I'm up for anything when it's a limo and fast food. I thought for sure you were going to choose to be the special sauce, but whatever. All right. Sean, are you still with us? Yeah, I'm here. Sorry, Sean, we're not funny. You know, I was getting into it. Sorry. We're just stoked on your date, man. We are. We are. And I feel like if she. I don't know, for whatever reason, possibly, like, look down on the fact that you went to fast food, you don't want to date that girl. She's not any fun. She's not down to earth, you know? So hopefully there's a different reason. There's no way she could say that now because she was totally into it. Okay. Yeah. And you said she helped pick some of those places. You were asking her what she liked, right? That's right. So, yeah, that can't be. All right. Okay, well, let's get to the bottom of it. I'm gonna dial Cat's number, and we're gonna see what she says. You ready? Yes. All right, here we go, man. Hello? Hi, is this Kat? Yes, this is Kat. May I speak? Speaking. My name's Jeff work on a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay. The reason I'm calling is because we do a segment on our show called a second date Update, and that's where if you go out with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show to help you figure out the reason why. Okay. Okay. Okay. So. So that's what we're doing. Yeah. It's fun. All right. It means you went out with somebody recently who had a great time with you, and his name is Sean. Oh, wow. Okay. Is that a good wow? That sounds like a good wow. Hearing a lot of laughter on your end, that sounds good. I don't. I don't know about Sean. Are you happy to be on the rad? That phrase doesn't match your reaction. She's like, no, I hated it. All right, so obviously Sean has been trying to get ahold of you, and it's been a little bit touch and go, according to him. What did he tell you about the date? The day sounded awesome from what he told us. Yeah, he said he rented a limo and you guys drove around the city checking out the sights, got a bunch of fast food from your favorite spots. Like, you did fries in one place, milkshake in another. Even mentioned a kiss at the very end. Yeah, yeah. I mean. I mean, I'm trying to read your emotions here, Kat, and it just sounds very positive. I'm sorry. I'm. It was really fun at the start of it. Okay. But, you know, like, after that first hour or so, like, being in the limo, it was just. It smelled like there was cast food wrappers and half eaten food, you know? I mean, he did say that he thought that maybe it went on a little bit too long, but that wouldn't be a reason to, like, not call somebody back. And you have to rent a limo. Like, if you rent it for two hours, you got to stay, get your money's worth. Yeah, yeah. It was just. I mean, the windows are down a lot because it smelled, and they don't have controls over the windows in the back there. Well, we had them down because it smelled. And I mean, I was just worried maybe it was, like, body functions. I don't know. I just. It was a weird smell. All the different fast food. More than just the smell of the food. Yeah, yeah. It wasn't the most romantic scene after an hour. Got it. Got it. It was grosser than mine. I mean. But didn't you like him? I mean, okay, yeah, the smell kind of ruined the romantic vibe, but, like, him as a person, like, the first hour, you guys had a great time, and you still ended up having a, like, really sweet kiss at the end of the night. He said, yeah, because we got a really good vibe from his personality. Just talking with him a little bit. How did you feel? Yeah, he did kiss me, and that was fine. It was not exactly the best kiss I've ever had, but, you know, it was nice. Okay. But then he brought out. He brought out a backpack with, like, bedding in it. What? Huh? To his credit, he did say, you know it's just an option. If we wanted to say no. What was the option? I don't understand what the option is. What's the bedding? I don't know. I'm assuming maybe spend a night in the limo. Do they allow that? What, do they just park it? You hope nobody notices it's in an RV amongst the French fry packets and the burger wrappers. I know you guys are laughing, but that still sounds fun. A limo fortnite like that sounds really good. It sounds like your apartment, Jose. Yeah, totally. Totally. Covered in. At least you could crack a window. And they have ac. Okay, but you said no to that, huh? Yeah, I declined because it was the first time we went out. Okay. And then when I declined, he said that he had edibles we could taste. This is sounding more like my apartment. Are you sure you were not with Jose? I don't think it was Jose. I'm pretty sure it was Sean, but. All right, so he offered to let you sleep with. With him inside the limo overnight, and then wanted you to partake in some recreational activities? Yeah, it was interesting. Yeah. Like, obviously, you guys are talking to him, so I guess you could tell him that. Thank you. Like, I had a great time, but I just want to be friends. Yeah, we could tell him that. Or if you wanted to, Kat, you could tell him yourself, because I need to let you know Sean's actually on the other line listening. Oh, God. Okay. I think it's okay. He needs to hear this, Cat. Yeah, and he may be out of it, so who knows? Sean, you there? Wake up, Sean. I'm loving it. What are you. Did you hear what she was saying, Sean? Oh, man. That's a little bit embarrassing, I gotta be honest. What? So that's true. Are you doing, like, the Dutch oven thing and the limo, Sean? Yeah, it was more of, like, a hot apple pie, but, yeah. Stop. Okay? We don't need this imagery. But it's kind of a funny response, so. I like that you're leaning in. I do. I do. I like that you're leaning in. Sean, you need to talk to Kat and tell her, like, what were you thinking? What was going on in your head when you were doing all this? I don't know. I guess I was nervous and I get a nervous stomach, so. You can understand that cat a little bit, can't you? I could barely understand what he was saying. I feel like he's had a few edibles before. He got. Seriously, he's just embarrassed, Cat. I mean, that's an embarrassing thing. He didn't mean for it to backfire. He liked you a lot. I mean, John, can you kind of explain the whole bedding thing? Like, did you want us to spend the night going? It was just. It was just like an option, you know? Like, I could have bought the limo for the rest of the night and just wanted to have that. Like, if you wanted to, you know? I don't know. Trying to show you a good time, but maybe. Sean, you invite her back to your place. Yeah. Where it doesn't cost $800 to sleep. Dropped the bong. Yeah. Sean, what is happening right now? I dropped my soda. Stop with the fast food. Sean, you're a mess. Tell Kat how much you like her. Kat, I like you a lot. And I would spend more money on you and flip a limo or whatever you want. I promise. It's not about the money. I just. I don't know. I had fun. I did. And I enjoyed hanging out with you, but I just. At the end, it just got really weird with the bedding and the edibles. And then when I said I didn't want an edible, you had offered me a joint. And I just don't really do that kind of stuff. If you don't love me at my nuggets, then you don't deserve me at my caviar. Oh, that was deep. I get it. I get it. I saw that on a poster once. There's probably a reason why we went to the Taco Bell. Drive thru Three time. That is the spot. Okay. Good side. It is. Fourth meal. A lot of this is making more sense. But I do need to ask. Kat, would you be willing to go out on another date with Sean? It doesn't have to be fast. No limo. No limos, no substances. Yeah, well, come on. Well, if Sean can do it. I don't know. We won't provide. Come on. Come on. He's, like, asking us for. I'm leaning towards no, just because I just don't do that kind of stuff. And I don't think that's a good fit. And I. I'm sorry. Hey, it's cool. You don't have to do it. You could just watch me do it. What? A proposal. Does that sound interesting? Kat? Um, no. 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Podcast Summary: Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
Episode Title: Second Date Update: Fast Food Limo
Host: iHeartPodcasts
Release Date: November 28, 2024
In the latest episode of "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update," hosts Brooke and Jeffrey delve into the intriguing story of Sean, a listener who went on an unconventional first date with Kat—referred to as "Cat with a K." The premise of the episode revolves around understanding why Sean's creative attempt to impress Kat didn’t lead to a second date, despite an initially promising evening.
Sean reached out to the show seeking insights into why Kat hasn't responded after their memorable first date. His approach to impressing Kat involved renting a limousine for two and a half hours, during which they toured the city while indulging in fast food favorites like milkshakes and French fries.
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Sean's intention was to create a unique and memorable experience, believing that the combination of luxury transportation and shared fast food would showcase his personality and thoughtfulness.
Brooke and Jeffrey initially express admiration for Sean's creativity, discussing whether such grand gestures are effective in modern dating scenarios.
Notable Quotes:
Brooke: “Shrimp towers are classy. Are they? I don't know. The fact that Brooks liked them, Brooke likes them, makes me feel like doing it wrong.”
[Timestamp: 05:45]
Jeffrey: “If a dude showed up to pick me up in a limo, I'd be like, what?”
[Timestamp: 14:50]
The hosts ponder the balance between effort and authenticity, questioning if an extravagant gesture might come off as over-the-top or insincere.
To gain a comprehensive understanding, Brooke and Jeffrey connect with Kat to hear her side of the story. Kat shares that while the date started off enjoyable, certain aspects led to her pulling back.
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Kat: “It was really fun at the start of it. But, you know, like, after that first hour or so, like, being in the limo, it was just... It was a weird smell.”
[Timestamp: 25:15]
Kat: “If you don't love me at my nuggets, then you don't deserve me at my caviar.”
[Timestamp: 37:40]
Kat appreciated Sean's initial enthusiasm but felt uncomfortable as the evening progressed. The confined space of the limo, the lingering smells of fast food, and unexpected suggestions—such as spending the night in the vehicle accompanied by edibles—diminished her interest in pursuing a second date.
Brooke and Jeffrey dissect the elements that may have led to the date's downturn, emphasizing the importance of comfort, mutual interests, and appropriate pacing in early relationships.
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Jeffrey: “Sean, you need to talk to Kat and tell her, like, what were you thinking? What was going on in your head when you were doing all this?”
[Timestamp: 46:00]
Brooke: “If Sean can do it. I don't know.”
[Timestamp: 44:30]
The hosts highlight that while Sean's intentions were positive, the execution may have overlooked Kat's comfort and personal boundaries.
Ultimately, Kat decides against a second date with Sean, citing the mismatched vibe and uncomfortable moments during the initial encounter. Despite this outcome, Brooke and Jeffrey encourage listeners to view such stories as learning opportunities.
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Kat: “He liked you a lot. I mean, John, can you kind of explain the whole bedding thing?”
[Timestamp: 35:50]
Jeffrey: “But I do need to ask. Kat, would you be willing to go out on another date with Sean? It doesn't have to be fast. No limo. No limos, no substances.”
[Timestamp: 49:10]
While Sean's unique approach didn't yield the desired outcome, the episode emphasizes the value of sincerity, attentiveness, and adaptability in the dating landscape.
"Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update" provides a candid exploration of a real-life dating scenario, offering listeners relatable insights and practical advice. By dissecting Sean and Kat's experience, the hosts shed light on the delicate dynamics of first dates and the importance of aligning intentions with genuine connection.
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Listeners who missed the episode can tune in to gain valuable perspectives on navigating the complexities of modern dating through real-life stories and expert commentary.