Second Date Update: Hearts and Crafts

Summary

Podcast Summary: Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update – "Hearts and Crafts"

Episode Details:

• Title: Second Date Update: Hearts and Crafts
• Hosts: Brooke and Jeffrey
• Release Date: July 23, 2025
• Platform: iHeartPodcasts

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Introduction

In the "Second Date Update: Hearts and Crafts" episode, Brooke and Jeffrey delve into the modern challenges of dating, particularly focusing on innovative ways to secure second dates. The episode centers around a listener, Connor, who experiments with a creative dating tactic inspired by a TikTok trend. The hosts aim to explore the effectiveness of such strategies and provide entertaining insights into contemporary dating dynamics.

Listener Interaction: Connor’s Bracelet Strategy (03:07 - 08:07)

Connor’s Approach: Connor reached out to Brooke and Jeffrey seeking advice on improving his dating life. Inspired by a TikTok trend where women give out bracelets with their phone numbers to potential suitors, Connor decided to adopt a similar strategy. Instead of relying solely on verbal communication, he crafted friendship bracelets embedded with his contact information.

Notable Quotes:

• Brooke [05:02]: "Hey, there's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends, my friend."
• Connor [05:14]: "I came across this trend where apparently these girls are putting their phone numbers on these bracelets... And if you guy doesn't call you."
• Brooke [07:11]: "You know, she's probably with her friends doing it. You're a good boy. You're a good boy. Zoomies."

Execution and Results: Connor distributed approximately a dozen bracelets over a week. Out of these, three individuals contacted him, though one responded humorously with an "unsubscribe" message. Notably, he connected with a woman named Ainsley, leading to a lunch date.

Brooke’s Insight: Brooke commends Connor’s creativity, stating, "It's creative and funny, I think. Okay. It would work on you."

The Second Date Update Call (08:07 - 20:05)

Setting Up the Call: Brooke and Jeffrey initiate the "Second Date Update" segment by contacting Ainsley to uncover the reasons behind her lack of continued communication with Connor. This segment aims to provide entertainment while shedding light on real-life dating scenarios.

Conversation Dynamics: Ainsley expresses interest in Connor but reveals she is also pursuing another individual, causing confusion and disappointment for Connor. The interaction highlights the complexities of modern dating, where multiple options and indecisions are commonplace.

Notable Quotes:

• Ainsley [13:15]: "I mean, I just don't want to lead either one of them on because it's kind of early."
• Connor [14:26]: "Honestly, I'm not upset about it. Right. I'm just a little bit surprised."
• Brooke [16:43]: "Maybe they should just go to a movie so they don't have to talk."
• Ainsley [19:51]: "So, yeah, that was a lot. Thanks for calling and ruining my day a little bit, I guess."

Outcome: The call concludes with Ainsley deciding not to pursue a relationship with Connor, as she navigates her interest in another suitor. Brooke and Jeffrey use this outcome to emphasize the unpredictable nature of dating and the importance of clear communication.

Brooke’s Reflection: Brooke draws a parallel between the scenario and the popular reality show "Love Island," commenting, "It's like everyone's guilty pleasure. I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts over it. Yeah, it's everywhere. Right. It's drama."

Discussion and Conclusion (20:05 - End)

Modern Dating Complexities: Brooke and Jeffrey discuss the broader implications of Connor’s experience, touching on themes such as commitment issues, the overwhelming array of dating options, and the challenge of making decisive choices in relationships.

Notable Quotes:

• Brooke [20:35]: "There's too many flavors out there."
• Jeffrey [20:36]: "You just gotta come back once every day, get one thing off the menu until you've gone through the whole thing."
• Brooke [20:46]: "Maybe she's just trying to make conversations."

Humorous Takeaway: The hosts conclude with a lighthearted comparison to dining at a restaurant with an extensive menu, suggesting that sometimes sticking to what you know is the best approach: "Or you just stick to the one thing you like."

Final Thoughts: Brooke and Jeffrey wrap up the episode by reaffirming the unpredictable yet entertaining journey of modern dating, encouraging listeners to remain creative and honest in their romantic endeavors. They highlight that while strategies like Connor's bracelet method may not always yield consistent results, the process itself offers valuable insights and amusement.

Closing Quote:

• Brooke [21:14]: "It was awful. It was hilarious."

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Key Takeaways

1. Innovative Dating Strategies: Leveraging trends, such as TikTok-inspired methods, can offer unique ways to connect with potential partners, though results may vary.
2. Communication is Crucial: Clear and honest communication remains paramount in navigating romantic interests and avoiding misunderstandings.
3. Modern Dating Dynamics: The plethora of options and fear of commitment among younger generations complicate the pursuit of meaningful relationships.
4. Entertainment in Reality: Podcast segments like "Second Date Update" provide both entertainment and relatable content for listeners navigating similar dating challenges.

Conclusion

"Second Date Update: Hearts and Crafts" offers a humorous yet insightful exploration of contemporary dating practices. Through Connor's experience and the ensuing interaction with Ainsley, Brooke and Jeffrey illuminate the trials and tribulations of seeking meaningful connections in an era dominated by endless possibilities and fleeting interactions. The episode serves as both a reflection on personal dating experiences and a commentary on the broader societal shifts impacting romantic relationships today.

Transcript

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[Brooke]

Hey, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning and we've got a brand new second date podcast for you. Thanks so much for being here. Yes, thank you. We love it. And today I'm really curious to see how many people this would work on this guy's trick. I don't know if it's a trick, but it's a cute way to give out your number without ever having to talk to anyone. Yeah, it's creative and funny, I think. Okay. It would work on you. Yeah, it would. Yeah. Awesome. Until all the guys start doing it. That's the thing. Only one time is it funny, you know, and then it's not.

[Advertiser 2]

It goes viral and everyone's aura farming. Yeah.

[Brooke]

Yeah, that's right. All right, what do we got in comments right now? Yeah, there's one from Pancham who said, love listening to this podcast. I migrated to Spotify from Insta Reels and my dog recognizes Brooke's voice. She'll get the Zoomies when the second date update starts.

[Advertiser 2]

So cute.

[Brooke]

You're a good boy. You're a good boy. Zoomies. I love that. Thank you so much for listening and being part of this podcast, guys. It means the world to us. Make sure you subscribe and sit back and enjoy the brand new second date Second Date update.

[Advertiser 2]

We've been seeing studies lately and we've talked about this on the show where more and more men, especially Gen Z guys, are scared to approach women in person and try to strike up a conversation.

[Brooke]

Very scary. That gender, very intimidating.

[Advertiser 2]

Which is different than me who doesn't approach anybody in person because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy gets nervous.

[Brooke]

But like Jeff, that's actually Jeff's real personality. So everyone knows.

[Advertiser 2]

Don't tell them but just like Jeff Goldblum said in Jurassic park, life finds a way. Oh, and so did our listener Connor, because in his email to us, he said he's trying something new to meet people more organically these days and watching TikTok to find creative ways to do that. So, Connor, welcome to the show, man. How you doing?

[Connor]

I'm doing all right, brother. How you doing?

[Brooke]

Hey, there's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends, my friend.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Hey, they help.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, I am a little bit shy just to talk to you and ask, but what did you find on TikTok that helped your dating life?

[Connor]

I came across this trend where apparently these girls are putting their phone numbers on these bracelets, right. And they see a guy they like, they give them a bracelet.

[Brooke]

Okay, wait, real quick. I'm picturing, like, the Taylor Swift Friday. It is those. Yeah, it is. Why do you know so quickly, TikTok?

[Advertiser 2]

I can see the merit in it because then you don't have to, like, say words to each other. Yeah. And if you guy doesn't call you.

[Ryan Seacrest]

Then you're like, cool.

[Advertiser 2]

I just gave him a gift and he's got a nice little free brace.

[Brooke]

Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that.

[Advertiser 2]

So, wait, Connor, how did that help you?

[Connor]

I had this random thought, right? I was like, if girls could do it, we should be able to do it too, right?

[Brooke]

That's right, my friend. Make your friendship bracelets.

[Advertiser 2]

All right, so you. You did some arts and crafts for.

[Connor]

Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help me to make this.

[Brooke]

Smart to string some beads.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, we'd be lost. So.

[Brooke]

I mean, honestly, it feels like it would work better the reverse the way you're doing it. It's funny.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah. If it's bad and clunky rather than it's, like, cute.

[Brooke]

A woman would really appreciate it.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, a little kooky maybe. But is this something that you put on just for when you're going out for the night, or do you wear the bracelets all the time? Even at work, just in case you meet someone?

[Brooke]

I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and then pulling them out and giving them to someone.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, all the time, though. Like, you always have them on deck. That's what I'm saying. 24, 7. Are they on you?

[Connor]

To be honest with you, this is new to me. Right. So I kind of wanted to just try it out for just a full week.

[Brooke]

Oh, wow.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. So how many bracelets total did you give out in that week?

[Connor]

Probably like a dozen.

[Brooke]

Okay. Not too Many?

[Ryan Seacrest]

Like, a lot.

[Brooke]

How many callbacks did you get?

[Connor]

So I got three.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay, that's 25% one in four. Yeah.

[Connor]

One of them just texted me back, said, unsubscribe.

[Brooke]

Oh, that's funny.

[Advertiser 2]

Kind of funny. Borderline really good. But, yeah, that's. That's funny.

[Brooke]

You know, she's probably with her friends doing it.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. And so I'm assuming that's the girl that we're calling then today.

[Connor]

No, no, not that.

[Brooke]

No, he followed the rules. He really did unsubscribe.

[Connor]

Honestly, I hit it off with this girl named Ainsley.

[Brooke]

Ainsley.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. I mean, you've given out so many bracelets throughout the whole week. Did you remember which girl Ainsley was?

[Connor]

To be honest, at first, I didn't.

[Brooke]

Okay. No, that's all right. You didn't tell her that, did you?

[Connor]

No, I didn't, but we. We did a picture exchange, so I knew who I was.

[Advertiser 2]

Faces, I'm guessing that's probably. I'm glad you remember you. She's like, five guys gave me bracelets since last week.

[Brooke]

Was there a date?

[Connor]

Yeah, it was. We got some lunch.

[Brooke]

You got lunch?

[Advertiser 2]

Lunch.

[Brooke]

Okay, that makes sense. Like, random guy involved, hands, bracelet. Let's do daytime. Smart girl.

[Advertiser 2]

What was it like meeting her a second time?

[Connor]

She was still wearing her bracelet, so I guess that's a good thing.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Connor]

And I actually brought her a matching homemade necklace.

[Advertiser 2]

It's kind of corny, but to match her bracelet. Okay. And I'm assuming your lady friend helped you make that one, too. But we won't tell Amy.

[Brooke]

I bet he'd fix. Figured it out by then. Yeah, you just need a longer string. That's all a necklace takes.

[Advertiser 2]

My boy's got custom earrings with their name on, too. Yeah, he's got the whole set.

[Brooke]

What do you write on the necklace? Because you'd already put your phone number on the bracelet.

[Advertiser 2]

Social Security number on this one?

[Connor]

No, no, no. I just, you know, I put a little note like, you're special.

[Brooke]

Cute.

[Advertiser 2]

Did she like the necklace?

[Connor]

Because apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island.

[Advertiser 2]

Alexis.

[Connor]

Wow.

[Brooke]

But I don't know where this is in the show.

[Advertiser 2]

All the Gen Z things. Friends, bracelets, Love Island.

[Brooke]

Maybe she's just trying to make conversations. Yeah.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Advertiser 2]

So you guys talked about Love Island?

[Connor]

Yeah. Well, you know what? I'm kind of a fan of Love island just a little bit, bro.

[Advertiser 2]

It's like everyone's guilty pleasure. I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts over it. Yeah, it's Everywhere. Right. It's drama. Anyway, sorry.

[Connor]

It's a lot going on, but we hung out for a bit over an.

[Advertiser 2]

Hour, and that's good.

[Connor]

I expected a little more, but we hugged, and it was a good time.

[Brooke]

That sounds cute.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

I mean, that's all an appropriate ending for a lunch date, right?

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Brooke]

And have you talked at all?

[Connor]

You know, all she really does like. Likes my text or I see that she reads them. I'm kind of left on red, you know? But I think it's worth reaching out again and just kind of seeing what's going on, because I thought we really connected. And even the Love island thing was so nice to have somebody else be a fan of that show. So we're kind of on the same frequency. You feel me?

[Advertiser 2]

You understand that she's maybe saying the same saying because it's, you know, Love island, like you would think she's saying. Oh, I'm so glad I found a guy who's into it. Right. Let's call her and find out, man. We're gonna come back. We'll reach out to Ainsley for you.

[Brooke]

Wait, what do we do? Like, I don't. I haven't watched the show to welcome into the villa or something. Like, we have to meet at the fire pit.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. I'm gonna.

[Brooke]

A new bombshell could come in and throw it on. What happened to just the simple rose on these shows?

[Advertiser 2]

No, I'm gonna hop on Amazon. We're gonna order a portable fire pit, throw on our bikinis, and come back and do your second date update, Love island style, right after this.

[Connor]

Thank you.

[Advertiser 2]

We just learned the hot new way to meet women, and that's friendship bracelets with your phone number on them. Oh, yeah. It's a idea our listener Connor found on TikTok, where women are doing this to meet guys now. So he thought, why can't a cool, confident man do it, too?

[Brooke]

It worked. It's fun. I mean, it works multiple times.

[Advertiser 2]

For him, it sure did. And that's how he met Ainsley.

[Brooke]

It's really easy.

[Advertiser 2]

The two of them met up for a date, talked a lot about the show Love island, but since then, she hasn't been responding to him very much. And Connor is now starting to wonder if he just got voted off of her Love Island. Connor, how you feeling, man?

[Connor]

I'm. I'm good. I might still have some options.

[Brooke]

Okay, so you got. Wait, you got a backup plan then?

[Connor]

Yeah, you know, I got. I got. I got a few other options.

[Advertiser 2]

Oh, okay. Well, we can call all of your Options when we're done with this first option. Ainsley, do options all have bracelets?

[Brooke]

I. I gotta know if you've got backup bracelets for next week out. Like, how many extras did you make that haven't been passed around?

[Connor]

Well, I don't think I needed much extras. I mean, I'm not a bad looking guy.

[Brooke]

All right. Coming with the confidence. I didn't just say, like, three out of 12 texted.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay, well, still, that's. That's a high. That's a high success rate for a man. So let's keep that confidence going. I'm gonna dial Ainsley's number right now. Hopefully she picks up.

[Connor]

Sounds good.

[Advertiser 2]

All right, here we go.

[Ainsley]

Hello?

[Advertiser 2]

Hey, we're looking to speak with Ainsley.

[Ainsley]

This is her. Who's calling?

[Advertiser 2]

We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm offended that you don't recognize us by our voices alone.

[Ainsley]

We're not.

[Brooke]

It happens daily. Makes sense.

[Ainsley]

Yeah. Okay. Like, what's going on? Did I win something?

[Advertiser 2]

No, you clearly haven't listened to the radio in a very long time. We don't give away anything.

[Brooke]

There's no budget.

[Advertiser 2]

Actually, we may ask for money by the end of this, actually, so get your Venmo ready. But what we're doing is a segment here. It's called a Second Date Update.

[Ainsley]

Okay.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. And that's something where we reach out to people who've gone out with somebody before. That person is not calling our listener back, and we're trying to figure out why.

[Ainsley]

Oh, that's awkward.

[Advertiser 2]

Totally. Which is why we put it on for entertainment purposes.

[Ainsley]

Perfect.

[Brooke]

So it could be fun, though. It could be somebody that you really like.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah. And in this case, it's a guy named Connor.

[Ainsley]

Oh, yeah.

[Advertiser 2]

I think.

[Ainsley]

I think I would like to maybe go out with him again. He was nice.

[Brooke]

Oh.

[Advertiser 2]

Oh, you would?

[Brooke]

That was easy. I feel like you. I feel like you've auditioned for a reality show before.

[Ainsley]

I mean, it's just that the thing is, like, there's this other guy who's also pursuing me, and I just. I'm trying to be fair and, like, figure out what's going on, because I like both.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay. Another person in the picture. Okay.

[Brooke]

Who's the competition? What are you working with here, Brooke?

[Advertiser 2]

What does that mean?

[Brooke]

I need to know what our boy Connor is up against.

[Ainsley]

You know, I mean, he's a really nice guy. Listen, they're both nice, but I don't really want to lead either one of them on because it's kind of early, so I just kind of want to see how it progresses. Like, date each one of them a couple times and kind of get to know them so that I can actually make a choice.

[Brooke]

So you are gonna call Connor back and go out with him again, too?

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, because Connor is the one who gave you a bracelet, if you remember.

[Ainsley]

I do remember. I still have it. It was really cute.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, but the other guy didn't give you any handmade jewelry and a necklace.

[Ainsley]

No, you're right. I. I don't have any other handmade jewelry, and it was super cute.

[Advertiser 2]

That's a few points that Connor already has up on this other.

[Brooke]

I like this.

[Ainsley]

That's what I'm saying. Like, they both really sweet, and it's like, everybody can be sweet on the first date. Like, let's. Let's see what this is like, after a couple. I don't want to burn a bridge.

[Brooke]

Okay, but you're burning a bridge right now by not responding to him. All you're doing is liking his text.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Ainsley]

Oh, yeah. I mean, I just don't want to lead anyone on, and I don't know, maybe I'm not going about it the right way. So it's like, yes, I'm definitely still interested in Connor, but I also don't want him to think that I'm, like, both feet in gun ho right out the gate, and then like, oh, this doesn't work out, and then, like, be, like, really crushing.

[Brooke]

I think you are going 80 steps ahead of yourself here. You guys have had one lunch date. You know, I think if you were just honest with him and told him you liked him, that would make. Wouldn't that make you feel good as a guy?

[Ainsley]

I mean. Yeah, that's why I'm willing to go out with him. I mean, everything you're saying makes sense. So I guess make me think about this a little bit differently.

[Advertiser 2]

Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you actually relayed that message to him, because he's in the middle right now, unsure of where your head is at. We're voting for Connor.

[Ainsley]

Yeah. That's fair.

[Advertiser 2]

Text in your text. Well, I think there's a really good opportunity. I don't think we need. I don't think we need any of that because there's a good chance for you to tell him those feelings directly since he is already on the phone right now waiting to speak with you.

[Ainsley]

Oh, well, that's awkward. Okay.

[Advertiser 2]

Like I said, that's what we enjoy about this segment, so. Yeah. Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor you there? Do you want to say hi to Ainsley?

[Connor]

I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else, but I guess that's cool.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay.

[Ainsley]

Okay. So, like, it wouldn't bother you if I'm kind of just seeing you both for a couple weeks and seeing who I really connect with?

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Connor]

I don't know if it bothers me, but I think it's a little weird. Yeah.

[Ainsley]

Like, what does that mean?

[Advertiser 2]

Connor, don't blow this. You had a yes when I was talking to her that she already wanted to see you, but suddenly you came on. You say one thing and it's flipped to an, I don't know, stick up for yourself.

[Brooke]

No, wait. Why are you being defense? Like, I. I'm confused, Connor. Because you told us you had other options, too. I mean, isn't that what dating is?

[Connor]

Listen, don't tell her that. I mean, that was between you and me, right?

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah. Brooke, what are you doing? You're trying to submarine him?

[Brooke]

She has options. He has options. Everyone who's single has options.

[Advertiser 2]

It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually talk about. Brooke, it's a secret.

[Brooke]

Well, that's the problem. It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor. You don't need to, like, feign like you're upset about it. You can't be upset about it if you're doing the same thing.

[Advertiser 2]

You don't have to have anybody tell you how to feel about how to live your life. Connor, it's okay. Just talk to Ainsley.

[Connor]

Honestly, I'm not upset about it. Right. I'm just a little bit surprised. I thought you and me, we were really trying to work this out. You just seem like a dope, awesome person. I kind of feel like we're a good match.

[Brooke]

Oh, that is so cute, Ainsley.

[Ainsley]

Listen, Connor, I. Honestly, it's really sweet, and I really do appreciate. Genuine. You are. And you seem like a really good guy. So, I mean, yeah, I mean, I do think we could probably go out again. You know, just see what happens.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay, here we go. We're back. Connor, well done.

[Connor]

I. That's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to be on the same page with you. So you're going to pass on this next guy, right? Because we're. We're chilling. We're getting to know each other. Oh.

[Brooke]

Oh, you want to be exclusive?

[Ainsley]

What?

[Connor]

You know, I'm just trying to figure this out. Right. So are you saying you want to see me or are you want to still see him? Or, like, what's going on.

[Ainsley]

Wow. Okay, so, like, now you're giving off some pretty serious jealous vibes, and I'm really not into that.

[Brooke]

I don't know that that's the case. I mean, Connor, you would be doing the same thing, right? Like, you would be only seeing her. Like.

[Connor]

Yeah, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not seeing anybody.

[Ainsley]

You literally just said you had other options. Like, maybe it's a better idea if we don't go out.

[Brooke]

Wait, what? Ainsley, here's the thing. Like, how do you. He's just saying let's really actually try this instead of not.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah. Connor, remind her of the good times that you two had together.

[Connor]

Yeah, we bonded over Love Island. I gave you the friendship bracelet. And in this necklace.

[Ainsley]

Yeah, okay, I did like that. Maybe. Maybe we should hang out then.

[Advertiser 2]

Okay, well. Okay. It's. At this point, I caution Connor to not say any other words whatsoever. Because anything, anything that you say could have a detrimental impact on Ainsley's decision here for a second date.

[Brooke]

Maybe they should just go to a movie so they don't have to talk.

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah, I'm just going to officially ask now. Now that she seems to be on board again. Connor, are you still cool with this? Do you want to hang out with Ainsley?

[Connor]

Honestly?

[Advertiser 2]

Yeah.

[Connor]

I don't know.

[Advertiser 2]

Connor. Dude, all you had to say is yes.

[Connor]

Yeah, you know, but I just don't know if we should.

[Brooke]

This is why so exhausting. Make a choice.

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Oh, my God.

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Are seeing someone. What's this?

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This is why people give up on dating.

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So, yeah, that was a lot. Thanks for calling and ruining my day a little bit, I guess.

[Brooke]

But we also made it better at the same time, right? I mean.

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Yeah. At least I know Connor is no longer an option.

[Connor]

Are you sure about that.

[Brooke]

Oh my God.

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[Brooke]

No.

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I never thought about that. I bet a lot of people do have their pants off.

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