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Tune in on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor and I'm Drew Phillips and we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated adhd. Oh my God. Perfect. Perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness psycho babble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom's the podcast for you. Open your free iHeartRadio app, search Emergency Intercom and listen now. I'm Dr. Joy Hardin Bradford, host of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. I know how overwhelming it can feel if flying makes you anxious. In session 418 of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast, Dr. Angela Neil Barnett and I discuss Florida flight anxiety. What is not normal is to allow it to prevent you from doing the things that you want to do, the things that you were meant to do. 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And I think today's second date is going to elicit a lot of commentary. People are going to have strong feelings about what happened after a ten hour date. Yeah, you might have strong feelings about that in itself. Ten hours. Yes. Yeah. So definitely leave us those comments. We love reading them. What did you see from last week, Alexis? Yeah, Fabian said, hey guys, I have a date today. And she seems nice. Just hope I won't be on your guys show anytime soon. And then you never gave an update, so now we need one. How did it go? I mean, let us know. I always feel like no word is good word. Hey, thank you so much for being here. If you ever want a second date update, you can go to our website. It's brookeandjeffrey.com There's a little submit button there. We can't do international calls yet. Okay, we're working on that. But for right now, sit back and enjoy the very state side. Second date update. Brand new. Starts right now. Second date update. What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with someone when you're on a first date? Oh, if it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout last? Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married. I was gonna say two hours max. I was only three to four. But experts say a coffee date could go 40 to 60 minutes. That's a long time. Yeah, I feel like that's a 30 minute. Dinner dates could stretch up to two hours if it's really going well. That makes sense then with activity dates. Like naked frisbee golf? No, they do like bowling. Dude, those can last two and a half hours if the chafing doesn't get in the way. Oh, wow. So you probably want to take a time out here and there. Ask your date to rub some Gold Bond medicated powder on your thighs during break. Are you getting sweaty playing frisbee golf? Yeah. You're doing it right. But I want to know what does it mean when a first date lasts four times that amount? Oh, cute. It's cute. Goes on for 10 full hours. Maybe they're lost in the Woods. A lot of people go hiking. Okay. But we all agree this is something wrong. I feel like it's not normal. But one of our listeners said that happened to him. Unless this is a typo or something. Chad. Oh, it's one hour. Is it? Is this a typo? It can't be 10 hours. No, this was a marathon date that started early in the day. It literally kept going. Oh, yeah. It wasn't even. It wasn't even planned. Oh, it wasn't planned to spend that long together. No, no, no. We. So we met on a dating app and we were just supposed to get some coffee and pastries. Wait, wait, wait. What's her name? Her name's Samantha. Samantha. Okay. Okay. We kind of hit it off. Definitely kind of liked each other. And I thought that was kind of where it was going to end. And then, you know, I was planning on going to the gym. Yeah. He just seemed like she kind of wanted to keep going. Well, yeah, she's got all that coffee energy now. She's got to burn it off and do something else. Yeah. Did she suggest, like an activity or something? She could be like, I go to the gym with you. I don't. She wanted to go to the wine bar. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That sounds way more fun. Clothes and sweaty and that's just. Yeah, but wine in the morning, that's cool. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I kind of like there. It was a little early, but I was like, what's one day? So you skipped glute day, Jeff. Wow. I know you're disappointed. I know. But I mean, you must have felt the connection too, if you're willing to skip the gym for it. He used those crazy strong words. I kind of liked her. Yeah. For a guy, Big as it gets. How was the white part? Well, things are going pretty well. She kept asking, like, tons of questions. She was super into me. I could tell she definitely liked me. And again, I liked her too. And then we're about four hours in at this point. Wow, you're drinking four hours worth of wine. Well, we got coffee first and then wine. Yeah, we're trying to make our hearts stop. Stomach's upset. What's going through your mind at the four hour mark? I mean, I'm just thinking, like, when is this ending? Like, I like her, but yeah, it's like, what's next? But it's so fun to get kind of day drunk and then you just, like one thing leads to another and suddenly you're at some house party at night and you're like, well, Today was awesome. Yeah. So we actually. We took some wine to go, and then she wanted to go to the park, and I was like, well, I don't know. We're already here this far. Let's go hang out at a park. Yeah, let's put some public intoxication on this first day. I got to be lunchtime soon. I know. I'm feeling like they need to eat, too. You need to get something in your stomach. Right. So we're up to, like, maybe five hours here, and she asked if she wants to go get some dinner. Yeah. So we went to another bar before the dinner. Okay. How dry are you? Are you seeing this as an issue at all? Are you having fun, getting annoyed, or. A little bit of column A, a little bit of column B. It's. It's. The buzz is kicking in, and I'm having fun. But it's also, you know, like, if this is a long time. But again, I like her. Right. Like me. It's at the same time you were saying at hour four, you were wondering when this date was gonna end. It sounds like you just don't know how to politely be like, I need this to be over. Yeah. So I did say at one point, hey, I've had such a great time. I'm sorry to take up your. Okay. Okay. All right. So you gave her an out. What? I mean, because maybe she was doing the same thing. Maybe both of you don't know how to end it. What did she say? You know, and she goes, are you kidding? The day has just begun. But I go in to kiss her, and she pulls away. I have no. I have no clue. I thought for sure, after 10 hours, four different location changes. I'm into her, she's into me. Yeah, I thought for sure. I thought. I thought you wanted me to kiss her. Yeah. Yeah, I felt it. How many signs can you get from one person that they like being around you and like, hanging out? Yeah, I would have been making out an hour, too. Brooke makes out to say hi at the wine bar. For sure. Exactly. It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss, though. And then where did that happen? Like, was that in the restaurant? Is that. No, we were actually. Yeah, we walked back to her place. It was right in front of her place. She pulled away, and she hasn't returned my phone call since. And she sobered up any. Maybe she was just more intoxicated than you thought. Yeah, she didn't want your first kiss to be a super sloppy drunk. Actually a good thing. Or she didn't pull away, she just lost her balance. I mean, all could be true. But then that doesn't explain why she won't return my calls. So would you be disappointed if after a great 10 hour date you find out you messed up at the 9:45 mark and those last 15 minutes just absolutely killed it for you? Or she blacked out an hour too. I, I, I'd be, I'd be very upset. Okay. All right. She's like everything was perfect until he tried to kiss me. Yeah. Did you like her more at the end of the 10 hours or less? I kind of just was carpe diem season the day and it felt right. So I still just can't explain it. I, I liked her very much. He was just relieved that it was over. He can go home and take a nap probably. But let's come back. We will call Samantha for you and hopefully get some answers about why after a 10 hour marathon date, she is suddenly ghosting you. We'll do it. Thank you. Right after this. Hold on. Second date update. If you're just joining us for the second date update, our listener Chad went on a first date that lasted longer than most relationships. 10 full hours wasn't planned that way. It just happened naturally where they kept rolling from one activity into the next to the next to the next, until 10 hours later, he's finally standing in front of her place, going in for the kiss and she pulled away. Hasn't heard from her after that. Yeah, it sounds like it was an awkward moment for sure. Yeah, but they were both drinking the whole day, so who knows what the moment was really like. But just to be clear, Chad, you still want to try to get another date with Samantha here? Are you just doing this to figure out why? I want to know both. I want to know why. And I would love to go on another date with her. We had a good time. But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys did was her idea, right? Not one of them was your idea. That's true. Maybe in her life, 10 hours is a really short date and she's like, he can only last 10 hours. She's like the opposite of dog lives. She does sound like the type that would have gone out after it. He left that now? Yeah, she was up till three in the morning after that. But I don't know. Let's call her. We'll see if she picks up. And I'm dying to know what she has to say about this because there's just remember when we get her on the phone we don't have 10 hours to talk to her. Yeah. Oh, okay. We'll do a quick. Gosh, what if that's it? She just doesn't stop talking? All right, we might need some help with it, but I'm calling her right now. Here we go. Hello? Hi, is this Samantha? Yeah. Who's calling, please? This is a radio show calling. You called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Isn't that fun? Oh, okay, that's weird. Why are you calling me? Did I win something? Maybe kind of at the end. You kind of do, yeah. Depending on what happens over the next few minutes here. Because this is a segment we do called a Second Date Update. Oh, I think I've heard this before. Okay. It's pretty popular. Yeah, Some of them go viral on Tick Tock and stuff. Oh, okay. So you're calling me. So who is the person that I went out on a date with? Yeah. I really appreciate you doing my job because I'm not great at it, but there's a guy you should definitely remember because you spent 10 full hours with him. A guy named Chad. I can't tell if that's good or bad. Incredible. Incredible. Wow. You think he's incredible? I think it's incredible you're calling me about him. Why would it be so unbelievable? It sounds like you had a great time all day long. Yeah, yeah, yeah. How do you spend 10 hours ongoing with somebody if there's not some sort of vibe happening? If there's no feelings? I'll tell you. I'll tell you. So he went out with my best girlfriend. Wait, wait, wait, wait. What? Wait, when? After you went out with him? No, no, before. Months ago. He went out with my best girlfriend. Okay, wait. Did you know this before you went on a date with Chad or. I sure did. You knew Chad before you went out with him as having dated your friend? Yeah. Oh, that's weird. He didn't mention that. Yeah, well, he didn't know this, but he spent many, many hours with her, then ghosted her. He was very into him. Liked him so much. He totally. I feel like he led her on. He even took her to spend time with his grandma. Wait, he took your best friend to spend time with his grandma and then he ghosted your best friend? Yeah, introduced her. He spent all this time with her, basically, you know, half a day, and then he just ghosted her. Never replied to her, never called her, nothing. I know she didn't do anything wrong. She's adorable. She's sweet. She showed me pictures of him and I matched with him months later on a dating app. And I ran to her and I was like, oh, my God, you're never going to believe this. I matched with him. She goes, oh, you got to go out with him and get him back. What? So this whole thing, your whole 10 hour date, was just revenge for him ghosting your best friend? Yeah, we girls gotta stick together. Yeah. So give him the message. Now you know how it feels. Give him that message. Oh, man, I don't know that that's the most mature way to deal, but this makes sense. Why she was the one that was, like, wanting to, like, keep the date going on and why she wouldn't kiss him. And the look on his face at the end of our date. Priceless. I don't know if he told you, like, how much time we spent, how much money he spent on me, but you realize that, like, have never got the message of what you're doing, that it was even revenge if you didn't call him and tell him. Okay, we. We knew. We knew. Me and Tara knew. Okay, so it was just for you too? Yeah, he definitely had no idea about this whole thing going on, but yeah, Good. Tell him he should be humiliated. And, you know, I. I don't have to tell him that because he's actually been listening to this phone call on the other line quietly this whole time. So he's. He's kind of already heard it. She's acting great. It gets even better. I love it. You're enjoying this. I feel bad about it. She's like, loading now. I mean. Chad, are you there? Yep, I'm here. I don't even know what to say right now. That's. That's really what was going on the whole time? Yeah. I'm not interested in you. Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I heard everything you said, but we spent 10 hours. You mean at hour eight, hour nine, when we've had chardonnay, coffee, all. All types of food. We've had the most fun all day. You mean to tell me you didn't feel anything? Because I. Yeah, I felt something. And I. I'm pretty sure you felt five hours with you. And then you. You ghost her. So now you know how it feels. Wait, your friend. Your friend Sarah only went on one date with him before that lasted a long time. Yeah, five hours. So you doubled it. Okay, okay, so it was a little tip for tat, and I have no regrets. No regrets? No. There wasn't even a moment in that 10 hour period that you felt like a tinge of Guilt, Samantha. Like, he might be a decent guy. A little bit. I was enjoying myself so much. Oh, God. I had a. I had a belly full of food. I had drinks going in my veins. I was like, fine. And vindication tastes so good. Yeah. Yeah. And to top it off, you know who else had a great time? Sarah. We laughed for hours. Oh, my God. We're still laughing about it. I don't even want to tell you that Chad skipped his glute day at the gym in order to extend his date with you. I hope you don't relay that to Sarah. And he. He really needed that day. I'll tell you what. Okay. Oh, Chad. I mean, do you feel bad about ghosting Sarah? I guess that's what she wanted. Yeah. I mean, it was just a tough time, you know, with my grandma not doing so well. I just didn't feel like I could be dating. I am curious, Chad. Why did you introduce the other date to your grandma? I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just a quick errand. It wasn't really like I was introducing you to her. You monster. I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was really hurt, but, like, we deal with so, so much dating on this show that ghosting just seems like the normal way that people get out of things these days. I don't think she should have maybe taken it so personally. Guys are just playing us all the time and they're playing games and they. You know, we just felt like, oh, let's get this one back already. Sarah. And you have done. But I'm also interested. Yeah, Chad just happened to be the wrong place at the wrong time. I don't know. I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here because I kind of would like to play a little bit of a game with you. A game of. Would you like to go out with Chad one more time? I would rather. I would rather slit my eyelids with razor blade. That is so dark, Samantha. No. Chad, are you into that or. Yeah, honestly, it just seems like she's still really angry because of what happened with Sarah. And honestly, at this point, I just. It doesn't seem like it's gonna work out okay, man. Oh, you think? You think? Oh, right. Yeah. He didn't answer like he's the one being asked. Yeah, you never know who you're ghosting, too, I guess. Yeah. Seriously, Chad, now you know, if a girl in the future ever says that she wants to hang out with you more and really likes you, red flag. Someone's trying to get on you. We're on number three of this date. It must be awful. Yeah. And you know what else? Don't say you're going to call the person. Don't say that you like them and you had a great time. Don't. She's still mad. I know. She's trying to drag us into hour 10 of this phone call. We appreciate your time, Samantha. We'll let you go. Thank you. Yeah. All right. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hello, it's Danielle Fishel, Ryder Strong and Will Friedle from Pod Meets World. And we're bringing you Viva Las Content. That's right. We are back in Las Vegas, the city of sin and giving the people what they want. A full week of Y2K content. Wait, we're back in Vegas? Tell me why. Well, for the Backstreet Boys residency, it's Sphere, of course. We sat down with Kevin Richardson and AJ McLean just minutes before they took the stage. And our very own Will Friedle basically became the newest member of the band. Boy band, please. Plus, the man who has the longest running comedy show on the strip joins us and gets his props. It's Carrot Top, baby. And finally, we all l o v e her. Ashlee Simpson Ross joins us to talk about her upcoming sold out Vegas residency. It's a full week of nostalgic interviews you don't want to miss. Listen to Pod Meets world on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor and I'm Drew Phillips, and we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated adhd. Oh, my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness psychobabble. Yes. Yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free iHeartradio app, search emergency Intercom and listen. Now, it used to be that dating apps were scary, like, oh, my gosh, is this rando gonna, like, show up and murder me or whatever? But nowadays it's like, oh, my gosh, is this person gonna waste all money and time in a revenge plot and then ghost me afterwards and laugh about it with their friends and then maybe on the radio. Yeah, dude, I just can't believe there's so few options on dating apps that you run into the same people or people that your friends have dated. Yeah, totally. How awkward. I remember my friends hitting me up like, dude, your girlfriend is still on Tinder. Yeah, we talked about it. On the show. Yeah, this whole thing just really is not a great advertisement for all the matchmaking apps out there. But I guess this is what's happening right now. Oh, boy. 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I'm Ebony, and every Tuesday I'll be sharing all new anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you new insight on the people around you. Every Tuesday, make sure you listen to Pretty Private from the Black Effect Podcast network. Tune in on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Hi, my name is Enya Umandzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated adhd. Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness psycho babble. Yes. Yes. Then Emergency Intercom's the podcast for you. Open your free iHeartRadio app, search emergency intercom and listen now. I'm Dr. Joy Hardin Bradford, host of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. I know how overwhelming it can feel if flying makes you anxious. In session 418 of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast, Dr. Angela Neal Barnett and I discuss flight anxiety. What is not normal is to allow it to prevent you from doing the things that you want to do, the things that you were meant to do. Listen to Therapy for Black Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Super Secret Bestie Club podcast season four is here and we're locked in. That means more Juicy Cheesemaker, Terrible love advice, Evil spells to cast on your ex. No, no, we're not doing that this season. Oh, well, this season we're leveling up. Each episode will feature a special bestie, and you're not going to want to miss it. My name is Curly. And I'm Maya. Get in here. Listen to the super secret bestie Club on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.