Second Date Update: There's A Chili In The Air

Summary

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Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update

Episode: Second Date Update: There's A Chili In The Air
Date: October 1, 2025
Network: iHeartPodcasts

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Episode Overview

This episode of Second Date Update centers around Dorman, who seeks help after being ghosted by Yolanda following a unique chili-themed first date. As always, the hosts—Brooke, Jeffrey, Alexis, and Lauren—bring humor, empathy, and teasing to unravel why Yolanda hasn’t responded, and attempt to broker a second date, delivering classic awkwardness and laughter along the way.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

Setting the Scene: Dorman Reaches Out

• Dorman’s Situation: Dorman emails the show feeling "desperate," admitting he's tried every other avenue to get in touch with Yolanda, who isn’t returning his messages.

  "Desperation is what made our listener Email us for help today. Not saying he's desperate, but you know what it feels like..." (Brooke, 04:40)

• Dorman's Connection with Yolanda:

  • Met online; found her "intentional" and "playful"
  • Appreciated her effort in her dating profile, noting a witty Harry Potter tattoo reference

  “She seemed really intentional and playful…" (Dorman, 05:40)

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The Notorious First Date

Why Chili?

• Dorman chose a local spot “world-famous for their chili,” hoping the food adventure would be a novel bonding experience.

  "I picked this spot. It's, like, really known for their chili...world famous." (Dorman, 07:01)

Date Conversations

• Dorman recounts being nervous and rambling, including:
  • Discussing his close relationship with his mom (she still packs his lunch every Friday)

  "There's a tradition from years ago...every Friday...I go to my mom's place to see her, and she always, like, packs my lunch for me." (Dorman, 08:14)

The Chili Backfire

• The physical repercussions of the chili cut the date short; Dorman needed to rush home, driving Yolanda home in obvious distress.

  “I didn’t think the chili thing through. I was like, I gotta hit the restroom.” (Dorman, 09:34)

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The Hosts React

• Hosts tease Dorman’s choice of food and his continued family traditions.
• The date's abrupt end sparks debate on whether it was a "vibe killer" or just unfortunate, relatable timing.

  “My point was that you don’t think of chili as a really romantic food...” (Brooke, 07:18)
  “It could happen to anybody.” (Jeffrey, 10:26)

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Contacting Yolanda: The Truth Comes Out

Initial Confusion & Reluctance

• Yolanda is confused and slightly unsettled by the radio call, hesitant to discuss her date on air.

  "It's weird because there's, like, I don't even know how many people are on the phone, and you're asking me about details from a date..." (Yolanda, 13:48)

The "Red Flag" Revealed (14:33–15:41)

• The real dealbreaker: Dorman volunteered that he hadn’t been with a woman romantically in three years, then added, looking her dead in the eyes, “I hope that can change soon.”

  "He brought up the fact that he hadn't been with a woman romantically in three years...Then he...looked me dead in the eye, and he's like, 'I hope that can change soon.'" (Yolanda, 14:33)

Awkward Admission Escalates

• Dorman, listening in, tries to explain, blaming nerves, chili, and “truth serum” effect.

  "We were having chili. I don't know. I just rambled." (Dorman, 16:19) “Chili brings up…” (Jeffrey, 16:24)

• Yolanda’s discomfort grows with each TMI revelation—including the mention of his mom discussing her own physical relationship with his dad.

  "You tell your mom about your lack of intimacy?" (Yolanda, 17:42)
  "She just tells me that, like, her and dad do it more often." (Dorman, 17:45)

• The hosts try to salvage the interaction, joke about changing cuisines for the next date, but Yolanda firmly declines.

  “Would it change your mind at all if it's not chili?” (Brooke, 19:48) “No. I can't believe you ask that.” (Yolanda, 19:51)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• "You can't spell desperation without Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning." (Brooke, 04:29)
• "I picked this spot...known for their chili...world famous." (Dorman, 07:01)
• "There's a tradition...every Friday before I go to work, I go to my mom's place...she always, like, packs my lunch for me." (Dorman, 08:14)
• "He just said it to me, and he...looked me dead in the eye...I hope that can change soon." (Yolanda, 14:47)
• "You telling women that makes it even less likely to happen." (Yolanda, 17:31)
• "My mom says the same thing." (Dorman, 17:39)
• "At this point, guys, I'm sorry. I'm getting nervous again. Rambling...Even when I was getting it three years ago, it wasn't that great..." (Dorman, 19:14)
• "I hope you don't. Then you'll know what it feels like." (Dorman, 18:13)
• "Far too open for anybody to be comfortable with." (Brooke, 20:08)

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Important Timestamps

• 04:29 – Segment officially begins, Dorman’s intro.
• 05:36–06:09 – Dorman discusses meeting Yolanda and her memorable dating profile.
• 07:01–07:32 – The chili restaurant chosen as a date spot.
• 08:14–09:28 – Dorman’s relationship with his mom and the infamous lunch tradition.
• 09:34–10:02 – The date’s abrupt end due to chili trouble.
• 13:14 – Yolanda is called and recalls the date.
• 14:33–15:11 – Yolanda reveals the big red flag: Dorman’s TMI confession.
• 16:00–17:45 – Dorman joins the call and the awkwardness crescendos.
• 17:45–19:28 – Dorman reveals another layer about his parents’ intimacy; situation spirals.
• 19:39–19:57 – Brooke offers a new date; Yolanda firmly declines.
• 22:31–23:29 – Post-mortem discussion by the hosts.

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Episode Recap and Takeaways

• Central Theme: Vulnerability and oversharing can tank even a promising start. Dorman’s candid admission about his romantic dry spell and his family’s openness went too far for Yolanda.
• Hosts’ Tone: Fast-paced, relentlessly teasing, but not unkind. They balance empathy for Dorman’s earnestness and laughter at the spiraling awkwardness.
• Final Outcome:
  • No second date granted.
  • Consensus is that Dorman is well-meaning but needs boundaries—and perhaps a new lunch tradition.
  • Hosts encourage listeners to reach out with their tough dating situations (and joke that maybe someone out there wants to meet Dorman!).

  "We all wish you a lot of luck getting over your hill that you're trying to climb here." (Brooke, 20:21)

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For those not listening:
This episode is a front-row seat to the perils of nervous oversharing, chili-fueled confessionals, and the laugh-out-loud, cringe moments that make Second Date Update a must-listen for fans of dating chaos.

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[Alexis]

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[Brooke]

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[Jeffrey]

Have we told you lately how much we love you being here? Hey. Yeah, we do. We do. It's true. Welcome to your brand new second date. This is the podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And we do have a brand new second date coming up. But first we've got to reflect on yesterday's awkward Tuesday phone call. Yeah. The proposal fails and then non athletic. Yeah, she didn't want to get married to him supposedly because he wouldn't give her athletic genetics. Yeah.

[Yolanda]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

So what are people saying? Yeah, we got one person said, I want to put my head in the oven after hearing her excuses. Someone else said, knowing a proposal is coming soon. And as a fellow listener with my partner, I'm totally stealing the non athletic children as a joke for the future. God.

[Alexis]

Oh, yeah.

[Jeffrey]

Watch your timing on that. Okay. Yeah, it's not actually while they're down on a knee.

[Brooke]

Yeah.

[Lauren LaRosa]

You know.

[Yolanda]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

And then a lot of. I would break up with her. He should have dumped her. Why is he such a simp? Hey, Brooke is 99 right here. Oh, why are people shocked?

[Yolanda]

I don't know.

[Jeffrey]

I don't either. That's fine. We'll see how right I am today. Let's go to it, though. Let's get your brand new second date update going. It starts right now.

[Brooke]

Second date update. You can't spell desperation without Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

[Alexis]

I can't spell well, but I think that's right.

[Jeffrey]

That's absolutely correct.

[Brooke]

Pretty much desperation is what made our listener Email us for help today. Not saying he's desperate, but you know what it feels like when you've tried every other option, you've exhausted every good idea, you've reached out to every other reputable company and are getting nothing back. Eventually you say, fine, I'll talk to Brooke and Jeffrey.

[Jeffrey]

You know, it doesn't feel as good to be the last resort when you explain it that way.

[Brooke]

The fact that we are a resort should feel good. We are on the list, even if it's at the very bottom. And that's what made our listener resort. Absolutely. That's what made our listener Dorman. Email the show for help today. Dorman, it's an absolute pleasure to have you. Welcome to the show.

[Alexis]

Fun name. Is that your real name? Dormant.

[Dorman]

Yeah. Thank you guys, for having me.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. Yeah. Well, desperate times call for desperate measures.

[Brooke]

We are excited to have you on the show. Tell us about the woman that you are trying to get a hold of. What's her name?

[Dorman]

Her name is Yolanda.

[Jeffrey]

Yolanda. Okay. Where'd you guys meet?

[Dorman]

We met online. And what made her stand out to me was, like, obviously I thought she was very attractive and cute, but, like, just her prompts and stuff. She seemed really intentional and playful at the same time.

[Brooke]

Sorry, what do you. What do you mean by intentional? What does that mean to you?

[Dorman]

To me, that means, like, somebody who's actually, like, being honest and transparent. She took the time to fill out her actual profile. It wasn't just, like, one or two word answers, you know?

[Jeffrey]

Can I ask what your favorite thing that she wrote was?

[Dorman]

Yeah, I forget, like, the exact wording of it, but it was, like a joke about, like, Harry Potter, and, like, she had a tattoo of it, and people just thought, like, it's the little lightning strike, but people just thought it was about the Flash, the superhero.

[Jeffrey]

Oh.

[Yolanda]

Oh, okay.

[Brooke]

She's got weird tattoos.

[Alexis]

Not weird.

[Jeffrey]

Cool tattoos. And old people are the only ones that would associate it with the Flash, right?

[Alexis]

Yeah.

[Dorman]

Yeah.

[Alexis]

What does that mean?

[Brooke]

I mean, there's a new Flash TV show that's airing right now.

[Alexis]

Pretty big. I didn't want to call her out.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, I didn't know that. I didn't know that either.

[Brooke]

You're just gonna insult the Flash for absolutely.

[Jeffrey]

No, not like a 70s superhero or something.

[Alexis]

I think all the superheroes are coming back.

[Jeffrey]

Someone hot play the Flash. Yeah.

[Brooke]

No, Alexis. They picked the first ugly guy ever to be the star.

[Jeffrey]

But then I don't care anymore about it.

[Brooke]

Good. So Doran, bottom line, is, appreciated her and her profile so tell us about how you interacted with her. Like, what was your date?

[Dorman]

So I was thrilled that she wanted to go out. I picked this spot. It's, like, really known for their chili. It's supposed to be, like, world famous.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, that's kind of cool.

[Brooke]

Oh, chili's a great first date food.

[Jeffrey]

I don't know, but, like, people love chili.

[Brooke]

I mean, my point was that you don't think of chili as a really romantic food that you want to eat and then make out afterwards.

[Alexis]

Also, that, yeah, you could be a little gassy.

[Brooke]

But I guess going on an adventure to taste the best chili in town, that could be a bonding experience. Right? So how did that go?

[Dorman]

So it was good. I'm gonna be, like, really transparent with you guys because I'm asking you for help. So, like, at the restaurant, I did catch myself rambling, and when I reflect on that, I was like, okay, that's nervousness and maybe a hint of insecurity. Like, I was just like, this girl is so cool, and I haven't had a girlfriend in a while, and she would be an awesome girlfriend. She's smart, she's funny. She was, like, super self aware of everything.

[Alexis]

It's a good feeling when you can see yourself with somebody.

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. And it sounds like you have a lot of self awareness. I mean, you maybe have babbled a.

[Dorman]

Little bit, but it gets worse. A little bit, maybe. I don't know.

[Brooke]

Oh, there's more rambling.

[Jeffrey]

There's more to that.

[Brooke]

Okay, how does it get worse?

[Dorman]

Well, I just told her I'm close to my mom and, like, I talk to her daily. And there's a tradition from years ago where, like, every Friday before I go to work, I go to my mom's place to see her, and she always, like, packs my lunch for me.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, she packs your lunch?

[Dorman]

Yeah. Just kind of like how she used to when I was a kid, you know?

[Alexis]

Okay, well, at least, you know, again, self aware. Right, Brooke? Yeah, this could be it.

[Jeffrey]

What was her reaction?

[Dorman]

I mean, in the moment, she was super nice. She was just listening. I kept rambling, and then I changed the subject to something else, but I just don't know how it landed.

[Jeffrey]

Okay. Yeah, that's a lot.

[Brooke]

You wouldn't take that guy home immediately, Brooke, after he came out with that information?

[Jeffrey]

Honestly, I think if you just said, every Friday I go see my mom. Awesome. Perfect. Awesome.

[Brooke]

It was the details that were.

[Jeffrey]

It was the lunch and the childhood. But what if the mom would pack her lunch too? Then I might be into it.

[Alexis]

You know, now we get twofers. I like that. Okay, let's make all of us lunch.

[Jeffrey]

I am not your mother.

[Brooke]

If it doesn't work out with Yolanda here, Alexis is ready to jump on board with you and your mom going out.

[Jeffrey]

I would need to see the menu.

[Brooke]

Oh, she'll do a taste.

[Yolanda]

Are you kidding me?

[Brooke]

I need to see him.

[Alexis]

Him?

[Brooke]

Just the menu.

[Jeffrey]

All you need is an uncrustable. Every Friday.

[Dorman]

Good.

[Brooke]

All right, so your mom might be on the hook here soon, but how did the date with you and Yolanda end?

[Dorman]

Overall, it was good. But I will say it wasn't the longest date because I didn't think the chili thing through. I was like, I gotta hit the restroom.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, no, no.

[Alexis]

It did backfire.

[Jeffrey]

So you're the one that ended things early and you had to rush home to use the restroom, and I'm the.

[Dorman]

One that drove her there. So I was like, you know, I have to keep this all together still drive her back home. I get home to myself.

[Alexis]

Okay, okay. But sometimes that could be a vibe too. I mean, it ends the date and you're not expecting it.

[Brooke]

Totally. Or speeding at 80 mph home might be another hint that something's wrong.

[Jeffrey]

And profusely sweating with a grimace face.

[Brooke]

With a bumper sticker on the back of your car that said, we just had the best chili in town. Look out.

[Alexis]

So happy I bought this bumper sticker.

[Brooke]

I knew it would come in handy.

[Jeffrey]

Okay, there's a little bit of regret.

[Dorman]

Yeah. And, you know, I was just, in my defense, trying to avoid any awkward situations in the car.

[Jeffrey]

Totally. Totally. I mean, it could happen to anybody.

[Brooke]

So how long has it been since that date happened?

[Dorman]

It's been about eight days now.

[Jeffrey]

Okay.

[Brooke]

I mean, eight days. It could have taken her that long to recover from the chili dinner, so maybe she just needed a little extra time.

[Alexis]

Oh, man. Must have been hot chili.

[Jeffrey]

I'm really hoping we were done with talking about this part.

[Brooke]

We'll have to see when we call Yolanda and try and get you a second date update. A successful one coming up right after this. Hold on. Second date update. If you're just joining us, let's recap the highlights from Dorman's first date. A couple big bowls of chili. There were a few stories of Dorman's mom making his lunch still to this.

[Jeffrey]

Day, just like she did in China. Only on Fridays.

[Brooke]

Only on Fridays. And he's only 34 years old. Followed by a rocket ship car ride back to Yolanda's house because the chili was Starting to kick in.

[Alexis]

It sounds like you put a quarter in one of those machines outside of, like, a grocery store.

[Brooke]

That's what it felt like to his insides, I'm sure.

[Jeffrey]

You know what we didn't ask is if he even came to a full stop before she got out of the car.

[Dorman]

Oh, God.

[Brooke]

Dorman, did you make her tuck and roll out the vehicle before you sped home?

[Dorman]

No, but she's the first girl in a long time that has girlfriend potential, you know?

[Jeffrey]

Yeah. Well, listen, if she can see past all of this, then she may be the right person.

[Alexis]

She may be wife material.

[Brooke]

We're gonna do our very best to go to bat for you and make sure you lock down a date with Yolanda. Are you ready to do this, ma'? Am?

[Dorman]

Yeah, let's do it.

[Alexis]

All right.

[Brooke]

Is your mom ready to do this?

[Alexis]

She's not behind you?

[Jeffrey]

If she was back on the speaker phone, I swear.

[Dorman]

Just me this time.

[Alexis]

All right.

[Brooke]

We'll work with what we've got. Here we go.

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Hello?

[Brooke]

Hey, is this Yolanda?

[Dorman]

Yeah.

[Yolanda]

Who's this?

[Brooke]

Yeah, this is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

[Jeffrey]

Hey, Yolanda.

[Dorman]

Hi.

[Alexis]

Good morning, Yolanda.

[Yolanda]

Why are you guys calling me?

[Jeffrey]

Great question. Right to the point.

[Brooke]

I've heard better questions, but you know what? I'll answer this one. This. It's a segment that we do. It's called A Second Date Update.

[Yolanda]

Okay. And I still don't know why you guys are calling me.

[Brooke]

So the Second Date Update is where we have a listener who isn't sure why they're not getting a call back for another meetup after they went out with a lovely person.

[Yolanda]

I'm so sorry, guys. I really feel like you might have the wrong person.

[Brooke]

Well, okay.

[Alexis]

I've been on any dates lately.

[Brooke]

The fact.

[Jeffrey]

The fact that it's just confusing.

[Brooke]

Yeah. We got your number from a guy you went out with recently named Dorman. There's probably more than one pretty common name.

[Alexis]

I've never heard that name.

[Jeffrey]

I have so many Dormans in my life.

[Brooke]

Does that ring a bell? Dorman.

[Yolanda]

Yeah, I know who that is. Why did he give you my number? I don't. That part I don't get.

[Brooke]

Well, because he felt like the two of you had a really nice going out to the chili restaurant.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, he honestly had some really lovely compliments he gave about you when we talked to him.

[Yolanda]

So that's why you're calling me?

[Jeffrey]

Well, he just really.

[Brooke]

It's because he liked you, and he's confused why there hasn't been Another meetup?

[Jeffrey]

Are you upset with him? Because you sound kind of just shocked.

[Yolanda]

Oh, my gosh. This is so weird.

[Jeffrey]

Is it just weird?

[Yolanda]

It's weird because there's, like, I don't even know how many people are on the phone, and you're asking me about details from a date. Like, this is weird.

[Brooke]

I understand that this is definitely a lot. It can be really overwhelming. So maybe we can just cut to the chase. We just want to know, is there one main reason, one big red flag for why you're not wanting to see dormant again?

[Jeffrey]

We're not trying to attack you or anything.

[Brooke]

Not yet.

[Yolanda]

Oh, I'll just say this. We were at dinner, and he brought up a really uncomfortable conversation that, like, didn't sit well with me.

[Alexis]

Oh, man. Yeah, we kind of might know what that is. He did say something to us.

[Brooke]

Something involving his mother, maybe?

[Yolanda]

No, no. Had nothing to do with his mom.

[Brooke]

Oh.

[Dorman]

He.

[Yolanda]

He brought the fact that he hadn't been with a woman romantically in three years.

[Alexis]

He told you that?

[Brooke]

Wait, he said that? Physically, he hasn't. Okay, how did that come up?

[Yolanda]

It didn't. It didn't come up. He just said it to me, and he. Then he. He followed it up with, like, looking me dead in the eye, and he's like, I hope that can change soon.

[Jeffrey]

How do you even respond to that? What did you say?

[Alexis]

What the heck is this?

[Yolanda]

I didn't know. I didn't say anything.

[Brooke]

He did say that he was rambling a lot during the date and was just saying every thought that came to his mind. Maybe that was one of them.

[Jeffrey]

He was really nervous.

[Yolanda]

I get you nervous, but, like, why make me nervous too?

[Alexis]

Well, I think he was excited. Yeah, you check a lot of boxes.

[Brooke]

For him, and it's probably more common than you would think. Like, Alexis, that's happened to you multiple times, right?

[Yolanda]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

I would totally date those people. Yeah.

[Dorman]

So, see?

[Jeffrey]

I would totally give them another chance. You don't have to lie.

[Brooke]

Okay.

[Jeffrey]

No, I can see. I could see where that'd be pretty shocking on a date.

[Yolanda]

Yeah.

[Alexis]

Just a different thing to say.

[Yolanda]

Okay, so now you know. I'm gonna go now.

[Brooke]

Well, hold on. It's really important that we. We know, but it's actually more important that Dorman knows that, and.

[Yolanda]

Well, then just tell him.

[Brooke]

Well, I don't have to because he's on the other line listening to this right now and wanting to talk to you.

[Yolanda]

Oh, my God. Are you serious?

[Brooke]

Yeah. I'm sorry, man. Dorman, are you there?

[Yolanda]

Oh, God.

[Dorman]

Yeah.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, Buddy Dorman.

[Brooke]

Say hi to Yolanda.

[Jeffrey]

Say something.

[Dorman]

Hi, Yolanda.

[Yolanda]

Oh, hi.

[Alexis]

Okay, okay.

[Brooke]

Say more.

[Jeffrey]

Apologize.

[Dorman]

I'm sorry. We were having chili. I don't know. I just rambled.

[Jeffrey]

Chili brings up.

[Yolanda]

Okay. I don't know why you would tell your date that you hadn't had sex in three years.

[Dorman]

Look, it's a lot. The chili was spicy. We were talking about our love life while eating it, and. Fun fact, I just haven't done it in a while. I just started rambling.

[Jeffrey]

Okay.

[Yolanda]

And when I get nervous, whenever you're in front of a bowl of chili, you feel like it's like a truth serum. Yeah.

[Lauren LaRosa]

That's good.

[Jeffrey]

A lot of girls are going to test that on their boyfriend. Yeah, I mean, it's kind of like that interview show, the Hot Ones. People confess things they don't realize they were gonna say because they're just not in control of what's happening.

[Dorman]

Yeah, I don't know why it came out. I'm sorry that it did, but now it's out publicly, so I have to depend on it. But it just came out. I'm sorry.

[Yolanda]

It doesn't matter who brought it up. You're the one who said it on a first date. Like, that's so weird.

[Dorman]

I mean, it's not weird. Making love is natural thing. That's just not happening currently.

[Jeffrey]

Don't do that.

[Dorman]

I wish that it was, and I was just expressing it.

[Yolanda]

You telling women that makes it even less likely to happen.

[Jeffrey]

Wait, wait, wait, though.

[Yolanda]

I mean, listen, you don't think I know this?

[Dorman]

My mom says the same thing.

[Yolanda]

You tell your mom about your lack of intimacy?

[Dorman]

Again, I'm not the one that brings it up, okay? She just tells me that, like, her and dad do it more often.

[Jeffrey]

It's okay, Dora. Let's not. Let's not talk anymore.

[Yolanda]

Listen, I didn't think I could be more turned off at the start of this call, but congratulations. He did it. Now I don't know if I'm gonna have sex for three.

[Jeffrey]

Oh, wow.

[Dorman]

I hope you don't. Then you'll know what it feels like.

[Brooke]

Hashtag relatable.

[Yolanda]

Oh, my God. I can't with you.

[Alexis]

You know, more than anything, he wants to go back after a date and tell his mom all about it.

[Brooke]

Okay, this. This is not going.

[Alexis]

Darn it.

[Brooke]

I mean, maybe. Maybe it's going a little bit better than what.

[Alexis]

Then?

[Jeffrey]

His conversation with his mom about his mom's sex life.

[Brooke]

Well, it's his mom's fault that she's rub that into her son's. Face. I feel like that's rude. You know what, Dorman? Shame on your mom for bragging to you about how much action she's getting from your dad.

[Dorman]

Hey, let's leave the mothers out of it, okay?

[Brooke]

You were the one who brought it up. That was your information.

[Yolanda]

Yeah, you brought it up.

[Dorman]

Okay, not on the radio. That was over an intimate bowl of chili.

[Jeffrey]

Okay?

[Alexis]

That was a private bowl of chili.

[Jeffrey]

I mean, I cannot believe it was this and not the other things that.

[Alexis]

We had Dorman got.

[Yolanda]

You need to stop talking because every sentence you say makes it worse.

[Dorman]

Okay, you know what? At this point, guys, I'm sorry. I'm getting nervous again. Rambling. I've said everything that I needed to. I'm just gonna keep talking. Like, fun fact. Even when I was getting it three years ago, it wasn't that great. And, you know, it wasn't even, like, the fun stuff.

[Jeffrey]

We don't want detail, okay?

[Brooke]

We've heard enough.

[Dorman]

Yeah, but, Yolanda, I just think there's a connection here, that we should.

[Yolanda]

Stop talking.

[Brooke]

Okay, he's gonna stop talking, and I'm just gonna pick it up and offer to send you to on another date. And we will Don'.

[Dorman]

We would pay for it.

[Yolanda]

I'm all set.

[Brooke]

Yolanda, would it change your mind at all if it's not chili?

[Yolanda]

No. I can't believe you ask that.

[Brooke]

It's possible.

[Jeffrey]

I like that Jeff. Thought that was the issue.

[Brooke]

Well, ch seems to be the thing that's bringing up all of these deep seated memories and thoughts.

[Alexis]

What if we lined you up with some cob salad?

[Dorman]

Guys, I appreciate it. Some people are just too judgmental, you know?

[Alexis]

That's the issue.

[Brooke]

That's well said, Dorman. And we appreciate you coming on the show and being open with us. Far too open for anybody to be comfortable with. But you know what?

[Jeffrey]

I need, like, a break after this. There's a breather in the other room.

[Alexis]

We got your bag, Dorman.

[Brooke]

We all wish you a lot of luck getting over your hill that you're trying to climb here. Yes. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

[Jordan]

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[Alexis]

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[Brooke]

Brooke, you've had a few moments to recover after that fiasco. Are you feeling any better about what we just heard?

[Jeffrey]

Oh, my. I honestly think that he's a good person and that, like, I don't think he means to be socially awkward. So open. Yeah, close it down a little bit, buddy.

[Brooke]

Yeah, I don't think we've ever had somebody on the show in the middle of a date. Admit I haven't gotten action from a woman in three years, but I'm hoping that's gonna change.

[Alexis]

Looking at you, at least he didn't say never. I mean, that's still not bad either.

[Brooke]

I just think he's got hope.

[Lauren LaRosa]

It's crazy.

[Jeffrey]

She wasn't like, oh, I get to be the lucky one.

[Brooke]

Thing is, I'm a believer in manifestation. In like trying to put your wants out there into the world. I don't think this is quite the right way to to do it.

[Jeffrey]

No, that's into the world, not into your date.

[Brooke]

Although, who knows, maybe after this. Dorman's gonna have 12 women in a single week. Yeah, almost as many sessions as his mom and dad have. Keep dreaming Dorman.

[Jeffrey]

A lot of work.

[Alexis]

I'm still looking for someone to text in to go out with him. Yeah, I'm literally looking.

[Brooke]

Somebody's out there for him and there's somebody out there for everybody. If you need some help in your dating life, email the show. We can call that person who's not calling you back back. Go check out all of our second dates. Wherever you get your podcast, they're up online at Brooke and Jeffrey I'm Jordan.

[Jordan]

And I'm here to talk about my breasts. We've been through some big changes. Divorce, a new grandkid, and just as I was starting my next chapter, metastatic breast cancer. That's when my doctor recommended Kiskali. Since then I drove cross country, earned a degree and saw my favorite band. Because I'm more than just breast cancer.

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[Jeffrey]

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[Alexis]

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[Brooke]

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