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This is for the ones who had to survive and still show up as brilliant, loud, soft and whole. The Unwanted Sorority is where black women, femmes, and gender expansive survivors of sexual violence rewrite the rules on healing, support, and what happens after. And I'm your host and co president of this organization, Dr. Lea Tritate. Listen to the Unwanted Sorority. New episodes every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, it's Brooke and Jeffrey, and this is the second Date podcast. Thanks all for being here. Yeah, and it looks like we're getting some Comments on yesterday's trial run of a 22nd date. Yeah, 22nd date update. What are you seeing Alexis? Yeah, Uche said I thought it was a typo until I started listening. Yeah, we knew that was gonna happen. I'm Uche from Nigeria, and I've binged all your episodes on Spotify since I found you guys in March. Hey, thanks, bro. I definitely should be on something similar. Except mine should be the 2022 second since I'm getting ghosted by my girlfriend of over two years. Well, she's ghostly gone, bro. I would. I wouldn't expect her back now. She is not worth your time. No, that is the case. How rude. Hold on, bro, comment again. If she walks in the door, are you taking her back two and a half years? He can say no. But when you're in that moment. Yeah, that's when the truth really comes out of you, Jay. Yeah. Well, thanks for listening and thanks for being here. And I love that our listeners always default to us screwing up because that means they know the show well. Yeah, and they understand us. All right, your second day podcast starts right now. Second date update. On a first date, if you're a woman, where's the safest place to meet a guy for the first time? Public. Oh, yeah, lots of people. Public is too general. Like inside of a police station. I mean, anywhere. A bar, a restaurant. I've crossed off a few suggestions Jose gave earlier. Dark web. Oh, no. Oh. Although it does provide good anonymity. On. Wait, is this like the dim web? Like not a full dark. Maybe a children a place. Yeah. Okay. Children's toy store where the security guard can see you. Safe. Fun. I think they're all closed, aren't they? Like, maybe. I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartment, so she always gives them the address to Brooke's house. Oh, yeah. Meets them there. It's really big. They'll get lost in the. Yeah, nobody wants to steal anything from there anyway. Is that how that gutter guy ended up at my house? Wasn't actually a door to door salesman. One of our listeners, Davis, said he met his date at a place that he never expected he would. So let's learn more about it. Davis, welcome to the show. What's this girl's name, first of all? Hey. So her name is Ashley. Ashley. Ashley. Where did Ashley want to meet you? So we were going to go out and she asked me to give her a ride, which I thought was really interesting. That doesn't usually happen to. Not safest things to do on A date? I'm guessing. Had you met in person before, or is this meet up off the apps? No, this is off an app. Yeah. So that's kind of sketch. Getting in a car. Shouldn't you just never do that, ever? Yeah. I mean, honestly, Davis, I trust you immediately. So you can come to the radio station whenever you want. How long were you guys talking before the date happened? So we only talked once, and it was on the phone, but it was for, like, three hours. So, I mean, you obviously were vibing and you were clicking for three hours. You got to have a good connection with somebody. But it. Was there a reason why she wanted you to pick her up? You know, she didn't mention. She just asked if I could pick her up. And I thought, okay, that's fine. So she gave you an address, and this turned out to be the actual place that she really lived? Yeah, why wouldn't it be? I'm just saying. Gotcha. I don't know. We could give a different address. It's so weird. That's what I would do. But I don't know. What was it like when you showed up at her house and if it was her house or apartment and you got her? Yeah, I mean, it was great. So it was a house. She has a roommate, but her roommate was out for the night. So, you know, I said, hey, yeah, let's. Why don't we, you know, head out? We'll go. And she said, well, first, do you want a drink? Like, I can give you a tour. And I was like, oh, okay. Oh, wow. She's inviting you inside immediately. And a drink. That's great. They're hanging. Yeah. How can I say no? So after the tour, we just sat on the porch and just started talking, and that turned into, like, longer and longer, and eventually we didn't even end up going out. It's just like. It's just like your phone call from the first time you met, like, you just get lost in conversation together. That is such a great sign. What'd you guys, like, connect over? We connected over a lot of stuff. We have, like, a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things like that. What's the issue, though? Did anything weird happen? Well, okay. Not. I don't know if it was weird. Like, okay, so we were on the front porch. We had a few drinks throughout the time that we were there. So I kept going in and out to get the drinks and come back out with them. And she has a dog named Nugget. Really cute. Yeah. Yeah. But she kept warning me, you know, hey, like, just make sure you're mindful of shutting the door, because, you know he'll run away if he gets out. Yeah. So after a few drinks, kind of forgot that she had a dog for a little bit. So I did leave the door cracked while I was handing her drink. And Nugget almost got out. He was, like, halfway out the door, and I had this sort of. Yeah. I had to dive to grab him. Oh, my God. But you got him. I did. I got him. Yeah. Okay. But then after that, it was getting dark. I said, why don't we put on the light? Do you have a light out here? And she said, well, I would, but it's sort of broken and it's too high for me to change. I said, oh, well, that's not that high. I can reach that. So I reached up and I changed the light, and she said, oh, you know, that was really nice for you to do. I appreciate that. I said, oh, yeah. I'm a little handy. A little. Sometimes you're a little handy by changing a light bulb. That's handy. Change a light bulb. That's something that's useful that you do around the house. That is not handy, Jeff. Anybody can change a light bulb. It's using your handy means that you have, like, skill and you know how to. You have to twist it one way and then twist it back the other. Yeah. And then sometimes it's a dud. You got to do it twice. I understand it's handy where you grew up, Davis. She doesn't consider you handy, man. Well, not for that. You know what? I did fix a burner, too. Oh, what burner? Wait a minute. That is handy. Her burner phone. Yeah, I threw it. I hope not. No, the burner on her kitchen stove. Wow. Okay. That's handy. Yeah. Yeah. Thank you. You screwed in a gas pipe this time, which is way more different. Less romantic vibes. Yeah, it does sound like you help her out. You talk for a few hours. You may just be a really best friend now. Or maybe she's not getting back to you because there's CO2 poisoning in her house. Didn't do it, right? I hope not. Was there any romance, like, any kissing action or. We did kiss a little bit at the end of the night before I. Cute. Okay. She's romantically into you. Well, if she's romantically into me, why isn't she answering my text now? She should be excited to text you, if anything. She should be like, oh, my God. Okay, wait 30 minutes before you text him back. Totally. It sounds so good. All of it. It sounds great. Yeah, I thought it was. Something's wrong with her, bro. No way. It's you. Yeah, we'll find out what her problem is. Too handy, even. We don't know. Maybe it's handsy. Maybe that was the problem. Well, Brooke would consider that a perk. Everybody has a different opinion, Jeff. Let's figure this out. We're gon call Ashley for you, get you a second date update right after this. Hold on. Second date update? Most other radio shows try to lift up their listeners. Praise them for doing nice things and good deeds on a first date. Yeah, that's not really our style. We like to downplay your positive traits and good deeds. And we'll even insult your handy skills because we're trying to help you to realize your own flaws. Why are you so stuck on this? Changing a light bulb is not handy, Jeff. And double down. Insult his manhood. I'm not about caring. Real love isn't about support. It's about flaw finding. And our listener Davis appreciates that. Right, Davis? I guess so, yes. Now, brooke wrote down 15 other shortcomings that she noticed during the date. She was super nice and helped her out. Too nice. She made one turn. She might not be calling you. You are impossible some days, Davis. She's calling you impossible, Jeffrey. Oh, hard to tell. Some exhausting. Yeah, well, it's possible that he did exhaust her because Davis was with her at her house for many, many hours, drinking out on her front porch. Yeah, it's so cute, though. Like, I can't believe she's not calling you back. Same, same. I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you back is that her dog just got loose and she's been out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs your help to track him down. Not a good alternative. Can you. That's your positivity, Jeff. We're here to help her in her time of need. That's a good thing. Let's dial her and see where she's at and if she needs a little assistance. Here we go. Hopefully she picks up. Hello? Hey, is this Ashley? Yes, it is. Who's this? Hey. Hey, Ashley. We're a radio show. We just wanted to know, is Nugget there? Can you put Nugget up to the phone? Is Nugget safe? What, your dog? Yeah, your dog, Nugget. That has the cutest name ever. Good job on naming your dog. Thanks. Don't know how you know my dog's name? But we heard it from a listener to our show that you met up with for a date with recently. His name's Davis. Okay, I don't really. I don't really remember. You don't remember Davis? I. Yeah, I don't know. I just. I kind of hang out with a lot of people, so. Oh, you guys talked for hours. He came to your house. Yeah. I think you just hung out with him like, a week ago. A week ago? Yeah. According to him, you guys met on a dating app. You asked him to come pick you up for a date, and then he ended up just staying there, drinking with you on your front porch. Which, you know, we were actually shocked that you were so trusting of him so quickly. I mean. Cause it's just a guy you met on the Internet. Yeah. Does he have dark hair? I think he was wearing a gray shirt. Are you joking? The week is not that long. We've never seen him, but that does sound like him. Yeah, good old gray shirty. He sounded very gray shirt and dark hair over time. How many dates? I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that many in a week. How could you not remember someone like that you spent hours with? Well, to be honest, I mean, that's kind of like just how I use the dating apps. I've been doing this for a while. Doing what? Wait, what? You invite people over and talk to them and then let them leave? That's called a date. You're not tricking anyone, but it feels like you didn't even know his name while he was at your house. Yeah, I've been using dating apps for over a year now. And when I started, I was looking for a relationship, but I don't. I don't really know if that's where I'm at anymore. What do you mean? Like, you. You just. You don't want to see anybody seriously? Or, like, why go out on the date to begin with if that? I just. I saw, like, too many people just want to mess around, you know? And after a while, it just really kind of, I don't know, mess with my head. So I just decided, screw it. I'm just gonna be in my free handyman phase. Your what? Free handyman phase. So you do admit he's handy. What do you mean? Well, so I'll set up a meeting with a guy, and they will end up fixing stuff for me. You don't like him. How do you even know they're handy when you meet them on the app? Oh, that's a good point because the girl asked me to do some stuff. Yeah, you're stuck with them for hours. I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy whether they really are or not. I mean, spending so much time. Jeffrey did think that he was handy with the light bulb, so. Yeah, I'll screw in any light bulb in this studio. Watch me. Dude, that's so messed up. You're just using these people. You spend hours with them and kiss them. Offer. Oh, yeah, yeah. Wait a minute. Sucks. God, guys, chill out. I mean, look, I'll have him back over if something else goes wrong in the house, but what about romantic? Like he. He thought that he was going over there to have like a genuine connection with you. And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just put on the apps just looking for a handyman and guys would still volunteer to do that. Yeah, and if you're a landlord. Exactly. Yeah, that's true too. Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things. And look, if I put just looking for a handyman on an app, people are gonna show up thinking that it's like an X rated request. Oh, that's kind of true. Just looking for a pizza guy. Okay. Show up in uniform. Oh, I would show up. So ready. Dude, that's so messed up. He's gonna be hurt. Is he gonna be hurt? We don't know. The only way to find out is if we actually just talk to him because he just happens to be on the other line right now waiting to jump this conversation. Oh my God, he heard everything. Is he there? Listen, before he jumps in, I'm just. I'm still trying to figure out which guy he is because I had two come over in the same weekend things you have in your home. Did he? I just. Did he recall the bathtub or. No, I didn't hear anything about any recock. He fixed your stove. Unless we missed that part of the story. Davis, are you there? You would have remembered that word. Yeah. Hey, I'm here. What? Ashley, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date for love and I'm looking for someone who wants the same. Aw, that was such a sweet response. Maybe you're confused. Well, I really love that you fixed my stove. She's so bad. Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just jaded from being hurt. You know, that's true. And I'm sorry you feel bad. I mean, I. You were nice to talk to. I mean, I'm happy to hang out again with you at my Place while he fixes something else for you, like. Well, only if he wants to. That's good. Oh, she's being honest. She's being honest now. What an offer. How could anyone pass that up? I mean, the good news is I've already got a guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask you to do any plumbing. Oh, there's a different guy? You have that many plumbing issues? Well, it's hard to find a good plumber. I just feel so taken advantage of right now. I really thought we had a real connection. And it looks like you have this kind of connection with a lot of people. Oh, David, I'm really sorry you feel that way. It's Davis with an S. Davis. Oh, my God, David. I can't believe you kissed him. Still. I know. Was that you were drinking? What was that? Or is that the tip? You know, he did a nice thing for me. What's wrong with a little harmless kissing? Well, everything. When he thinks there's more behind it, he's like, bye, I love you. She's like, yeah, bye, Ryan, whatever your name was. That's awful. Again, like, I'm sorry if he was confused about things, but I just know where I am at in my life. I'm in this handyman phase. Okay, but you didn't tell him that. Yeah, well, now he knows. If he'd like to come over again, I'd be open to it. There is no way Davis still wants to hang out with her. Come on, buy some wood and go build her a deck, bro. If you love her, go get her. Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy. You never know what he's gonna say if it means scoring another date with a cute girl, so. That's true. Davis, remember how pretty Ashley was? And I think I hear a noise in my ceiling fan. Another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her pulls the cord. She just pays you in kisses. What do you think, Davis? My handiness is deserved for someone who loves me. Oh, that's right, David. Way to have standards. That should be a bumper sticker. Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David, and good luck. Oh, my God, you're so. Good luck with all your handy dating life stuff in the future. Thank you. And, Ashley, I know a couple guys on our text board at 78592 say they will be available at a moment's notice to come and fix your ceiling or whatever you got going on here. Do you have no dignity left? No. She kisses at the ends of the date Last time I kissed somebody. Crooked Jeffrey in the morning. Hello, it's Danielle Fishel, Ryder Strong and Will Friedle from Pod Meets World. And we're bringing you Viva Las Content. That's right, we are back in Las Vegas, the city of sin and giving the people what they want. A full week of Y2K content. Wait, we're back in Vegas? Tell me why. Well, for the Backstreet Boys residency, it's Sphere, of course. We sat down with Kevin Richardson and AJ McLean just minutes before they took the stage. And our very own Will Friedle basically became the newest member of the band. Boy band, please. Plus, the man who has the longest running comedy show on the strip joins us and gets his props. It's Carrot Top, baby. And finally, we all L O V e her. 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And then as we try the whole thing out for real. Wait, what? Oh, that's the Runway. I'm looking at this thing. See, listen to no such thing on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I wasn't kidding. We really were Getting texts at 78592 from many gentlemen who would not mind helping Ashley with her household problems. Dude, but we're men, feel useful, and we like pretty women. Have some respect, get paid for it. At least that's the thing you have to think about. Like, I know we were saying earlier that having a stranger who you just met on the Internet come over to your house for a date is kind of sketchy. Yeah, but how is that any different than finding a Random handyman on the Internet and hiring him to come out to your house. Yeah, Jeff, I don't. I don't have those guys come to my house when I'm home alone. Yeah, like, you literally make sure that someone else is there. That's what women do. And, like, make sure you know their name. Maybe. I'm just saying, either way, it's a random, random dude that you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley's plan was economical because she got pre work done. I don't know. She can't change her own light bulb. I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human. Which was just off. Yeah. Do you know how many people I've paid to come out and change my light bulbs for me? And I pay them. She's just given all the women of the world a great life. Have you just bought a house and you're paying people to change your life? Pay me next time. I don't know. I don't know if you guys are handyman and certified again, it doesn't take a handyman. I need to see the check mark next to your name if I'm going to believe you're going to fix my stuff. But if you ever want help with your dating life. We're not certified at all for that. We'll step in and give it our best try. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. 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