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All right. It's always a special treat when we get a check in from one of our second date update couples. Welcome to the podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey, the home of the second date update. And this is one of the favorites of the last year.
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Podcast Host
Like, yeah, we went back and looked at the comments from when we originally posted this podcast, and it was insane. Yeah.
Reality Show Host
And all of them are so sweet. Someone said Jared said this episode is healing. Someone said this is so wholesome.
Podcast Host
That's so awesome. So the way the updates work is we will play the original call with the couple so that you can be caught up with what happened on all.
Reality Show Host
The adorable, wholesome cuteness. Yes, yes.
Podcast Co-Host
Little details.
Podcast Host
At the very end of the podcast, we get the couple back on the phone and see what's happened since being on the show.
Podcast Co-Host
So don't skip ahead too far, okay? You're gonna spoil it for yourself or.
Podcast Host
Turn it off too early, right? You gotta stay till the end on this one. It's your update. Update right now.
Legends Announcer
Second date update. You know the saying, opposites attract? I don't know if that's really true. At least not in today's call.
Podcast Host
Okay. I mean, it typically is, but why do you say.
Legends Announcer
Because the woman on the phone said that her and her date both have blonde hair, they both enjoy chocolate pudding, and they both have the same mother. How crazy is that?
Podcast Host
That's gross.
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Reality Show Host
I think so.
Podcast Host
That's not the word. That's not the word I'd use. It's illegal.
Legends Announcer
We draw the line at cousin stuff on this show. But please welcome Justine to the program. Hey, Justine.
Justine
Hello. Hi.
Reality Show Host
What an intro.
Podcast Host
You do realize the same mother makes you siblings, even, not cousins?
Legends Announcer
Only by blood, Brooke. Only by blood. So, Justine, you said in your email that you bonded with this guy because you had a lot of similarities. What similarities did you notice?
Justine
Well, we're both really quiet.
Podcast Co-Host
Aw, I can see that.
Legends Announcer
Do you want us to talk softer during this call.
Reality Show Host
A little awkward on our first date.
Legends Announcer
What's his name, by the way?
Justine
His name is Ken.
Podcast Host
Okay. How'd you meet him?
Justine
We met at the bank.
Podcast Host
At the bank.
Podcast Co-Host
Another quiet place.
Reality Show Host
Why did you have to go into a bank?
Podcast Host
I don't like.
Justine
Right. Who does that anymore?
Podcast Host
I think it's interesting that two quiet people would meet in person. Like, who approach to.
Justine
Well, actually, we were both filling out paperwork side by side, and I asked him to borrow his pen, but I didn't even, like, say words. I just was like.
Legends Announcer
You just hold your hand out like you point.
Podcast Host
You pointed with a nice smile.
Justine
Yeah, exactly. And that's kind of how it got started. It was pretty sweet.
Legends Announcer
That's kind of cute. You're both cute, though.
Podcast Co-Host
The vibe. It was purely vibes.
Legends Announcer
Yeah. So what did you guys do when you went out?
Justine
We wound up going to this little Mediterranean place. And, like, we were texting before we went, and we agreed to each bring notebooks, so we just wrote each other notes at dinner. Very fun for you.
Legends Announcer
This is cute.
Podcast Host
Yeah.
Podcast Co-Host
I'm not saying for everyone. It'll be torture for me, but this is adorable.
Podcast Host
Was it the whole time you wrote notes?
Justine
I mean, we talked to the waiter.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Legends Announcer
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Podcast Host
Gave your orders.
Legends Announcer
But for the rest of the time, you two tried to stay quiet and just enjoy and soak up each other's silence.
Podcast Host
Well, no.
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Legends Announcer
Yeah, but quietly.
Podcast Host
Yeah, quietly. Yeah. In their way.
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Podcast Co-Host
I bet there's a lot of smiles every time the note got passed back, though.
Legends Announcer
Yeah, you'd hope. Sounds hot.
Justine
Well, and, like, we wound up laughing the whole time like, we really enjoyed each other's company, which is kind of awesome. But there was a mistake. The waiter brought out only one meal at first, and it was what I had ordered, but they put it down in front of Ken, and so he started eating, and I was like. I wrote him a note, and I said, no, that's mine. And he wrote back mine. What?
Podcast Host
Oh, no. I'm glad he didn't say. Not anymore.
Justine
Right. So it made us laugh. We both laughed a lot. It was really fun.
Podcast Host
Did you get food? I'm worried.
Justine
Thanks for worrying. Yes.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Justine
He gave me back my dinner, and then his showed up.
Legends Announcer
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Reality Show Host
Like a challenge to not talk. That's what it almost sounds like it would be gonna break it first.
Podcast Host
Yeah.
Podcast Co-Host
Sounds like a challenge to them would be to talk.
Legends Announcer
Yeah. Like, for certain people, like, talking is a big struggle, but, like, this is the perfect Date for two people that are kind of shy and introverted.
Podcast Host
You guys shared the last kiss by just drawing lips on two pieces of paper and putting them together.
Justine
That's funny, but no.
Legends Announcer
So tell us, after the quiet dinner, how did the date end?
Justine
It didn't end with dinner, which was kind of nice.
Legends Announcer
Oh, really?
Justine
We went and got ice cream, and we were people watching, and I pulled out my notebook and said, we should do this again sometime. And he wrote, yes, but that was, like, more than two weeks ago. Well, that's not true. It's almost two weeks ago, I guess.
Legends Announcer
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Podcast Host
I don't know. I feel like this guy is going to be a slow mover. From the vibe he's given, we're not a bad thing. No, no. It's just who he is.
Reality Show Host
We sent a letter in the mail.
Podcast Host
Yeah, it's taking a while. Exactly. Like, I don't think I would be worried that he hadn't contacted you in two weeks.
Legends Announcer
You guys literally do sound like an old married couple with, like, you guys go to the bank, you guys write each other notes, enjoy each other's silence, and sit on a park bench eating ice cream together.
Podcast Co-Host
Sounds like you guys just text, though. Obviously you're not on the phone a lot.
Justine
I mean, I sent him a text.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Legends Announcer
That must have been a struggle for you, though, just to get one out.
Podcast Host
He's good at writing.
Justine
You guys are making me blush. I can't believe how hard my cheeks are burning.
Podcast Host
Okay, I'm just gonna say real quick, I am really impressed that you're doing this, because you are really putting yourself in a place that isn't a comfortable zone for you. That's cool.
Justine
And that's actually the deal is, like, I feel like I need your help because it's so awkward to call him.
Podcast Host
Yeah.
Justine
And you guys are so good at the talking.
Legends Announcer
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Podcast Co-Host
It's not an awkward Tuesday.
Legends Announcer
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Podcast Host
You're in the middle of a second date update update. And we're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you hear part two.
Legends Announcer
We probably just met one of the sweetest people that we've ever had on this show before.
Podcast Host
I'm worried we're gonna ruin her I. I hope not.
Legends Announcer
Her name is Quiet. She's kind sounding. She's got a very genuine laugh. It made us all feel good about ourselves, no matter what we said.
Podcast Host
I mean, honestly, that's so rare.
Legends Announcer
If we get this guy Ken on the phone and he says something rude or disrespectful about her, Hang up. I'm just letting you. I am treating her like a little sister to our show and I'm going to be standing up for her hardcore.
Podcast Co-Host
Are you fighting them?
Podcast Host
I don't know if she wants to be a little sister, but.
Legends Announcer
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Podcast Host
Okay? Okay.
Podcast Co-Host
Got it.
Legends Announcer
And I mean, it already sounds like her heart is breaking because who goes on a silent date and has a great time?
Podcast Co-Host
Yeah.
Legends Announcer
Justine and this guy. Apparently the only communication that was had the entire time was via handwritten note. So we need to figure out how to get him on the line and figure out why he is not jumping to get on another date with her.
Podcast Co-Host
Same vibes.
Podcast Host
Honestly, like, he can't have a multitude of options here. This is a guy who barely talks.
Legends Announcer
Okay? This is her future husband that you're talking.
Podcast Host
I don't mean it in a mean way. I'm just saying he's not out there being a player, you know, like, he's not out running game because he can't pass notes to just any hot lady that walks by. It's not like he's just out on the field.
Legends Announcer
Justine, do you want to defend your man?
Podcast Host
No, that's. She knows what I mean, right?
Justine
Making me giggle, though.
Podcast Host
Okay. Okay.
Podcast Co-Host
Just walk into a library and rizz up everyone in silence.
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Podcast Co-Host
Tossing bookmarks.
Podcast Host
So many hot singles at the library.
Legends Announcer
All right, just stay quiet. Justine. I know you're not. Not going to have any trouble with that, but we're going to call him and talk to him.
Podcast Co-Host
I'm worried she. When she tries to pipe in, we're not going to hear her.
Legends Announcer
We'll call you in when it's time. Okay?
Podcast Co-Host
We'll make it obvious.
Justine
Okay. Okay, thank you.
Legends Announcer
All right, hold on. Here we go.
Ken
Hello?
Legends Announcer
Hey, is this Ken?
Ken
Yeah, speaking.
Podcast Host
Hi, Ken.
Legends Announcer
Hey, Ken.
Podcast Co-Host
Good morning, Ken.
Ken
Good morning.
Legends Announcer
Yeah, this is. You're probably hearing a lot of voices right now, and that's because you're on the radio with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Ken
Why? Sorry, what are you calling.
Legends Announcer
Yeah, we don't want to overwhelm you, but we're doing a segment here. It's called Second Date Update. And one of our listeners asked us to reach out to you because you went on an awesome date with her the other day.
Podcast Host
Well, she thought it was awesome.
Legends Announcer
She. Yeah, we all thought it was awesome, too, because we heard a little bit about it. We're talking about Justine.
Ken
Yeah, her, huh?
Legends Announcer
Yeah.
Podcast Host
I think you guys went out almost two weeks ago.
Ken
That is correct.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Legends Announcer
Okay. I mean, she told us about the day that you two hung out, and it sounded pretty unique. Yeah, at least for us. We do a lot of these calls, but we haven't heard a lot of dates where two people go out and stay quiet. Quiet and actually enjoy it.
Ken
I. I'm. I'm so sorry. Just one second.
Legends Announcer
You okay?
Podcast Host
Huh? I don't know. Maybe he's at work or something.
Legends Announcer
He's nervous. He's throwing up right now.
Podcast Host
Stop it.
Legends Announcer
There's a lot of talking.
Podcast Co-Host
Or he's in a library.
Legends Announcer
The librarians, they're shushing. Okay. Hey, Ken. Sorry.
Podcast Host
So, look, it sounds like you're busy right now.
Legends Announcer
Yeah. We don't want to, like, take up too much of your time, but bottom line is, Justine says she had a great time. The question is, she's not getting any signals back that you wanted to hang out again, and she's kind of disappointed by that.
Ken
I. I kind of don't want to hang out again.
Podcast Host
Wait, what, Buddy, Why?
Ken
I mean, we were passing notes, right?
Podcast Host
Right.
Ken
We were talking about ourselves, and I started running out of things to say.
Reality Show Host
Oh.
Podcast Co-Host
Oh, I hate.
Podcast Host
I mean, it would be a lot to write because. Yeah.
Podcast Co-Host
Yeah. And it is hard, like, when there's a lull in conversation to force a question.
Podcast Host
Yeah.
Podcast Co-Host
The first couple are okay, but by the third or fourth, you're like, so.
Podcast Host
You shouldn't feel bad. That happens on all first dates.
Justine
I feel like I get that.
Ken
But you guys don't understand. I literally told everything about myself.
Legends Announcer
Oh, you ran out of things to, like, reveal about you on the. On the first date?
Podcast Co-Host
That should be impossible, bro.
Ken
Books, movies, interests, foods.
Podcast Host
Yeah, but there's more to people than.
Reality Show Host
Just what you're like and hurt. That's a lot of right hand.
Podcast Host
I mean, I don't think you're giving yourself credit.
Ken
I. I think you're giving me too much.
Podcast Host
Oh.
Podcast Co-Host
It's gotta be a middle ground here.
Legends Announcer
You might. Surprise. I can understand you feel a little bit nervous and intimidated, but what are you worried about? Like, what's the harm in seeing her again?
Ken
I am. I'm worried she's gonna find out. I'm not just quiet like she is. I'm boring.
Podcast Co-Host
Boring.
Podcast Host
That just broke my little heart. Dude, you're not boring.
Reality Show Host
When you do another date, that's what you talk about. The whole day is the activity like a new topic, you know?
Podcast Host
Or just what happened on the last day.
Reality Show Host
Yeah, exactly.
Podcast Co-Host
You are not just always gonna replay their first date.
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Podcast Host
Yeah.
Legends Announcer
And it doesn't matter if you think that you're boring or you're not enough. Somebody that believes that you're plenty is Justine. And don't. Just trust me. She's on the other line right now waiting to talk to you quietly.
Podcast Host
This is pretty bold.
Legends Announcer
Justine, are you there?
Justine
I'm here.
Ken
Are you guys kidding me right now? She's been listening.
Podcast Host
It's okay, Kat.
Legends Announcer
The whole time crying. Cute.
Podcast Co-Host
Not embarrassing.
Podcast Host
I think he's about to have a heart attack. Yeah.
Ken
Justine, I am so sorry. I can't listen to all that. Why? Why?
Justine
Because it was my idea. I was too nervous to call you, and I called somebody who could, and these sweet people have. I didn't. We didn't mean to scare you.
Legends Announcer
Sweet?
Podcast Co-Host
Who in this room is sweet?
Justine
This feels like maybe it backfired.
Ken
No, no, not at all. I. I'm really glad to hear from you again.
Legends Announcer
Oh, my God.
Podcast Co-Host
I feel like if we wouldn't have gotten involved, they would have never talked to each other.
Legends Announcer
That's right.
Podcast Host
Jose, make this about us.
Legends Announcer
We are amazing.
Podcast Host
Yeah.
Reality Show Host
I'm so proud of you contacted us, don't forget.
Legends Announcer
But, look, I understand that you're really nervous. This Ken. About talking to her and coming across a certain way. I think the pressure of being in a quiet setting is a lot. I think the next date that you go on, like, you're just in the wrong venue. Do something that's loud. Yeah. Go to a sporting event, like, go to a comedy show where there's other stuff to point at and talk about rather than just sitting quietly together.
Justine
Comedy show would be so fun. Yeah.
Podcast Host
We get to watch comedy would be fun. Would that be fun for you, Ken?
Ken
That sounds like it would happen.
Reality Show Host
Okay.
Legends Announcer
Comedy does happen. Yeah. Okay.
Justine
See what I mean? He's so funny.
Legends Announcer
All right, look, the whole goal of this is to set you guys up on another date and lock that down. And we would pay for it. So, Justine, now that you know how he feels, you still want to go out with him again?
Justine
Very much.
Legends Announcer
Okay.
Podcast Host
Did you Hear that? Like, that's got to feel good, right?
Podcast Co-Host
Did he hang up?
Legends Announcer
Hello?
Ken
Ken, I'm sorry, I dropped my phone. That sounds great.
Legends Announcer
Okay, so we will send you guys out on another day and we're gonna pay for it. Okay, awesome.
Justine
Thank you so much. I'm so grateful, you guys.
Legends Announcer
Okay.
Podcast Host
It just makes me want to go to the other room and shout, ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken, Ken. See? It feels good.
Ken
That's a little terrifying.
Legends Announcer
Oh, okay, so we should have whispered it, bro. My bad.
Ken
That's even more terrifying.
Legends Announcer
All right, we're just gonna hang up. Bye.
Podcast Host
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Legends Announcer
Maybe one of the sweetest second date calls that we've ever done on the show.
Podcast Host
I have been dying to hear from this couple.
Legends Announcer
All of our listeners have been asking for months to get an update on this, and now we're. Got him back. Welcome Ken and Justine back to the show. How's it going, guys?
Ken
Justine isn't here right now.
Legends Announcer
Wait, it said that you guys were both going to be on the call.
Ken
Yeah, well, we had dinner with her parents last night and.
Podcast Host
Oh, okay.
Ken
She's. She's feeling a little overexposed.
Podcast Host
Oh, too much social.
Ken
Yeah, not feeling up to the social element right now. She is here, though.
Podcast Host
Wait, does that mean you guys are still together?
Ken
Yeah, it's been going great, honestly.
Legends Announcer
Where is she?
Ken
So she's on the other side of a door. She's. That's a little weird. She's in another room.
Legends Announcer
So she. Okay, you guys are like, in the same apartment. She's in a different room right now.
Reality Show Host
Is your apartment you live in together?
Ken
Yes.
Reality Show Host
That is so cute.
Legends Announcer
Okay.
Podcast Host
Oh, my God. Are you happy?
Ken
Yes.
Legends Announcer
Is she happy?
Ken
Actually, no. I can ask. Hey, honey, the people on the radio want to know if we're happy. Knock once if the relationship is going well. Knock twice if you have notes.
Podcast Host
Wait, what?
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I heard one.
Ken
Okay. Only one knock. I think things are going all right.
Legends Announcer
All right.
Podcast Host
Oh, my God.
Legends Announcer
Okay, so things are moving forward in your guys relationship. Clearly.
Podcast Co-Host
Good.
Ken
Well, I mean, they're moving plate. I mean, we haven't like. You're not. You're not asking if we've done that, right?
Podcast Host
No, no, no, no.
Legends Announcer
Not physically.
Podcast Co-Host
I was.
Legends Announcer
Okay.
Podcast Host
Do what you need to do in your own time, my man.
Legends Announcer
All right.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Ken
Yeah.
Legends Announcer
Well, we'll give you some space. I know we've already taken up probably way too much of your time, but. Hey, man, keep us updated on yours and Justine's blossoming relationship, okay?
Podcast Host
Just smiling ear to ear for both of you.
Legends Announcer
And I don't mean in the physical way, just the rest of the way. Keep us updated.
Podcast Host
Just like tag us in some. Just kidding. That was a joke. That was a joke.
Ken
All right, good.
Podcast Host
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
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Podcast Summary: Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update – "A Quiet Place"
Episode Title: Second Date Update UPDATE: A Quiet Place
Release Date: April 24, 2025
Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts
Introduction
In this heartwarming episode of Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update, hosted by iHeartPodcasts, listeners are treated to an in-depth look at the evolving relationship between Justine and Ken. This episode, titled "A Quiet Place," delves into the unique dynamics of their initial date, the challenges of post-date communication, and the podcast hosts' role in facilitating a second meeting. The episode promises rich discussions, insightful observations, and emotional moments that capture the essence of modern dating.
The Unique First Date: Silent Connections
The episode begins with the hosts welcoming Justine and Ken, a couple whose first date was anything but conventional. Instead of traditional conversation, Justine and Ken opted for a silent date, relying solely on handwritten notes to communicate.
Justine's Experience ([04:33]):
"We're both really quiet," Justine explains, highlighting their mutual introversion as the foundation of their connection. Their date took place at a quaint Mediterranean restaurant where they exchanged notes throughout the evening, creating an atmosphere of calm and genuine interaction.
Hosts' Observations ([06:13]):
The hosts comment on the adorableness of their communication style, noting, "The vibe. It was purely vibes." This approach allowed both individuals to enjoy each other's company without the pressure of constant conversation.
A Hilarious Mix-Up ([06:15]):
A humorous incident occurs when a waiter mistakenly serves Justine's meal to Ken first. This leads to a playful exchange of notes clarifying the mix-up, adding a lighthearted moment to their quiet evening.
Insights on Silent Dating ([07:02]):
The hosts discuss the challenges inherent in a date that minimizes verbal interaction. "For certain people, like, talking is a big struggle, but this is the perfect date for two people that are kind of shy and introverted," Jeffrey remarks, emphasizing that such a setup can be ideal for those who find traditional dates overwhelming.
Facilitating Communication: The Second Date Update
Intrigued by Justine's struggle to reach out to Ken after their initial date, the hosts decide to step in and facilitate communication. This section highlights the podcast's commitment to helping listeners navigate the complexities of modern relationships.
Justine's Dilemma ([08:26]):
Justine admits, "I feel like I need your help because it's so awkward to call him." Her hesitation stems from the awkwardness she feels in reaching out, a common issue many face after a first date.
Hosts' Empathy and Strategy ([10:13]):
"We need to figure out how to get him on the line and figure out why he is not jumping to get on another date with her," Jeffrey explains. The hosts empathize with Justine's situation, recognizing the difficulty in initiating second contact.
The Follow-Up Call: Bridging the Gap
The podcast takes an active role in connecting Justine and Ken, resulting in a live follow-up call that brings both parties together.
Initial Hesitation from Ken ([11:22]):
Ken initially appears uncomfortable, stating, "I kind of don't want to hang out again," revealing his reservations about continuing the relationship in the silent format they started with.
Hosts' Encouragement ([14:05]):
"You are not just always gonna replay their first date," Brooke encourages Ken, suggesting that future dates could involve different activities to foster better communication.
Ken's Revelation ([14:13]):
Ken shares his concern, "I'm worried she's gonna find out. I'm not just quiet like she is. I'm boring." This candid admission highlights his fear of not living up to Justine's expectations and his self-perception issues.
Transition to Agreement ([16:43]):
After some light-hearted banter and further encouragement, Ken responds positively: "That sounds great." This marks a pivotal moment where both parties agree to move forward, reshaping their approach to dating.
The Outcome: A New Beginning
The episode culminates in a joyous update about Justine and Ken's relationship, showcasing the successful intervention by Brooke and Jeffrey.
Joint Presence and Happiness ([18:05]):
Although initially there was confusion about their physical togetherness, Ken clarifies, "She's in another room right now," indicating that their relationship is indeed progressing positively.
Final Affirmation ([19:10]):
Ken confirms the growth of their relationship with a knock, "Only one knock. I think things are going all right." This subtle yet meaningful gesture signifies mutual satisfaction and happiness.
Hosts' Celebration ([19:51]):
The hosts express their delight, "Just smiling ear to ear for both of you," celebrating the couple's newfound connection and the success of the episode's mission.
Conclusion: Lessons and Reflections
"A Quiet Place" serves as a testament to the power of thoughtful intervention and the importance of understanding individual communication styles in relationships. Through Justine and Ken's story, Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update underscores the value of patience, empathy, and creative problem-solving in fostering meaningful connections. Listeners are left with a heartfelt reminder that every relationship journey is unique, and sometimes, a little help can go a long way in turning a silent connection into a lasting bond.
Notable Quotes
Justine on Shared Quietude ([04:33]):
"We're both really quiet."
Jeffrey on Date Challenges ([14:05]):
"You are not just always gonna replay their first date."
Ken on Self-Perception ([14:13]):
"I'm worried she's gonna find out. I'm not just quiet like she is. I'm boring."
Brooke Celebrating the Outcome ([19:51]):
"Just smiling ear to ear for both of you."
Timestamps for Key Moments
This episode not only entertains but also offers valuable insights into the nuances of modern dating, making it a favorite among listeners seeking both entertainment and meaningful relationship advice.