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Alexis
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Jeff
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Brooke
Yeah.
Jeff
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Brooke
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Kristen
Second date update. Is it possible to be too hot to date asking for a friend?
Alexis
Yes. Nobody in this room could answer.
Brooke
Yeah, not in this room.
Kristen
Seriously. If you look on TikTok right now, there's all these videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach them because guys are too intimidated.
Alexis
Oh my God. My best friend is gorgeous and she always had that problem.
Brooke
Yeah, I think that is the truth. You just gotta talk to him.
Kristen
It was all part of Jose's hashtag ask a hot girl out without peeing yourself challenge.
Alexis
Without.
Kristen
Yeah, didn't go so well.
Brooke
You gotta wear black pants.
Kristen
But that might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe she was too attractive during her first date.
Brooke
Oh my God.
Alexis
Okay, we'll try not to make fun of you right out of the gate.
Brooke
I don't feel sorry for you already.
Kristen
We want to learn more. How you doing?
Ben
I'm sorry, can I just. This was a one night phenomenon. I am not that hot, Kristen.
Kristen
Spoken like a true hot girl. Anyway, let's hang up on this girl.
Brooke
She's like, I'm only a 10. That night I was an 11. That's what happened.
Kristen
We're just joking around with you, Kristen.
Brooke
That's better. I like that.
Kristen
Tell us about the guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name?
Ben
His name is Ben. I don't even know if you could call it going out. Last week I was supposed to meet up with my friend, just get some drinks or whatever. Girls nights? Yeah, I have this thing where I like to wear these one piece outfits now.
Alexis
Oh, like a jumper?
Kristen
Like a jumper, yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you zip up from the foot all the way to the neck.
Alexis
I will say I wish they had a zipper down below because going to the bathroom in a jumper is really. Yeah, that wouldn't be hard.
Kristen
Okay, so sorry. Keep going, you're looking good.
Ben
So I'm sitting at the bar waiting for my friend and she is running late. And meanwhile guys are like sending me drinks. The bartenders flirting with me, like okay, girl. And there's this one guy in particular who is just like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he was even wearing like the outfit my high school CR used to wear that was, like, my favorite outfit with, like, green corduroys and a little black polo shirt. And he had a beard just, like, he was way taller than me.
Kristen
It's good that you got over him eventually. So did Ben approach you then?
Ben
No. I mean, I thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit, but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so I went up to him.
Alexis
I love this. As you watch all the other boys be jealous. That made it not cool.
Kristen
Brooke has clearly never been in your situation in the corner of the bar.
Brooke
Saying that, like, ooh.
Alexis
Seriously, I'm stoked for you. I'm so all. All about this.
Kristen
So how did it go?
Ben
Well, okay, here's where it gets a little bit weird, because I've never had anything like this happen to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him, and I'm chatting with him, and I'm clearly into him, and the bartender comes over and interrupts because some other guy sent me a drink.
Brooke
Oh, bro, that's a good nice.
Kristen
While you're talking to the guy that you want.
Alexis
I like that.
Brooke
And competitive, like, guy to guy, being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you. She walked to you, but I still got a retention over here. No, I like that.
Alexis
Did he seem to like that, like, as like, a challenge, or did he seem to be put off by it?
Ben
I mean, he had a beard, so it was pretty hard to tell.
Kristen
What, was he mostly beard the whole time?
Brooke
She has no idea.
Alexis
Like, I was picturing more like five o'clocky shadow. No, I'm picturing Santa Claus. Same thing.
Kristen
Caveman.
Ben
Now, that was, like, a little bit awkward. So I kind of use that as an opportunity to, like, show him that I was into him. So I kind of looked at the other guy like, thanks, but what the heck? And just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben.
Kristen
Made him feel good.
Brooke
If I was Ben, I'd be like, wow, thank you.
Ben
But here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.
Alexis
What? Whoa, wait. Same dude?
Ben
Like, same dude, new different dude.
Brooke
What?
Alexis
Can you send me a link to your jumpsuit?
Brooke
I want that.
Ben
I had, like, some sort of magical magnetism going on, and I just. I just. I, like, saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, hey, captain.
Alexis
And I'm thinking about sending you a drink right now.
Kristen
The bar seems like the coolest place. It's got captains, it's got lumberjacks, brooks over in the back saying, like, howdy Doody.
Brooke
This is a yo mama tell off. Cause I'm out here commentating.
Kristen
That's the weirdest bar. How did this interaction between you and Ben, how did that end?
Ben
Well, I mean, eventually my friend let me know that she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine.
Kristen
Totally forgot about your flipping.
Ben
And we hung out for the rest of the night. Had a fantastic night. He gave me his number. Number. I gave him my number.
Alexis
Yeah.
Ben
And I mean, that's basically been it.
Alexis
Did you ask him if he was single, like, point blank?
Ben
Oh, my God. No, I have not, actually.
Brooke
This is mind blowing because even if he wasn't interested in you, the fact that you were, like, literally swatting other men away in front of him and then telling him you were so interested, like, that alone would make a guy just call you back.
Alexis
Not him.
Ben
I've been theorizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing but this. And maybe he, like, stalked me online and is like, okay, she's not always that hot.
Alexis
Oh. It's like when they turn the lights on at the end of the night at a bar and you're like, oh.
Ben
You have to understand, like, for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like, no effort.
Alexis
Yeah, they're really cute.
Ben
So it's like, I don't wear makeup.
Alexis
Yeah, that's true. I'm with you.
Kristen
Okay. You and your magic onesie. Hold on. We're gonna play a song.
Alexis
We'll play that.
Kristen
We'll call Ben for you, and we'll try and get your second date update. Okay?
Ben
Okay. I'm suddenly feeling very self conscious.
Alexis
Here we go. You're hot.
Brooke
You got this.
Kristen
Hold on. Second date update.
Alexis
You're in the middle of a second date update, update. And we're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you hear part two.
Kristen
Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. Kristen and the Magic dude attracting onesie. Oh, this is the modern music.
Unnamed Caller
Yeah.
Alexis
Alexis just wants a link because she.
Kristen
Went out and wore this one specific jumper that made her look real fine that night. So guys at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing, except it was happening while she was sitting down with the one dude that she really wanted to be with. A sexy lumberjack type named Ben, who's apparently more beard than body. Yeah, but she's worried maybe all that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben, and it could have scared him away.
Alexis
How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated?
Ben
I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so, I mean, whatever it is, I want to know.
Alexis
Okay, fair.
Kristen
Maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's just. He can't get home to make the call to you, so let's find out. Here we go.
Unnamed Caller
Hello?
Kristen
Yeah. Yeah, it sounds right. Hey, is this Ben the beard?
Unnamed Caller
What?
Kristen
I mean, Ben. Ben with a beard. This is Ben.
Unnamed Caller
Who is this?
Brooke
He's not.
Kristen
Sorry. He sounded exactly like I thought, I think.
Brooke
Yeah, just flustered everyone in the room. I know.
Kristen
Ben. Sorry. My name is Jeff. I also have a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I. I host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit.
Alexis
You can also hear us on podcast, too. If you want to look us up on, like, Spotify or any of that, we're there.
Unnamed Caller
All right, cool.
Kristen
That's all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time, Ben. Go check us out sometime. No, we're really calling because we're doing something called a second date update, and we're trying to help one of our listeners get a hold of you.
Unnamed Caller
Okay.
Kristen
Her name's Kristen, and you met her out at the bar the other night.
Alexis
Yeah, it wasn't really a first date.
Kristen
Yeah.
Unnamed Caller
I don't know.
Alexis
Oh, my God. You don't remember Kristen? She had the really cute jumper on.
Kristen
Most guys don't recognize that stuff.
Alexis
Yeah, good cleavage.
Kristen
Now you're speaking our language.
Unnamed Caller
No. Oh, my gosh. I do know. I know who that girl is.
Alexis
Yeah, she sounds good. I mean, when we got to talk to her, she sounded awesome. Like, funny.
Brooke
She wasn't, like, full of herself at all. Yeah, she's really fun.
Unnamed Caller
Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay, I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something? She told a radio station we hung out.
Kristen
She said that she met you out at the bar the other night and was having a really nice time, and then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting a hold of you, and she's curious why.
Ben
Wow, this is.
Unnamed Caller
This is so crazy.
Kristen
Yeah, I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener.
Unnamed Caller
Who does that? Who does that? That's so. She's just kind of messed up.
Alexis
Did she do something to you?
Unnamed Caller
I don't know. I was. The situation was, like, I saw her at a bar and like, she came over to me and we started chatting. She was really funny, but I mean, like, she got, like, a drink from another guy, I guess.
Kristen
Okay, yeah, she mentioned that to us a little bit. Is that something that intimidated you?
Unnamed Caller
I mean, not really. Not at first. I mean, I thought it was kind of funny that a dude was doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened, like, a second time, I was like, oh, hell no. This is ridiculous.
Alexis
Yeah, but how are you. How are you blaming her? Yeah, it's not her fault.
Unnamed Caller
So, like, the situation that happened was, like, she had to leave for a hot second to step out to, like, talk to her friend, I guess, because I guess the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I, like, walked over to the guy who had set the drinks. Like, hey, do you mind not doing that? I'm talking to this girl right now, and it kind of makes me look a little better. Like, feels like you're being competitive, which is, like, so childlike.
Brooke
That's not bad. To go talk man to man real quick and just say, hey, bro. Yeah, you know. You know you're not causing a scene, right?
Alexis
Yeah.
Kristen
You want to wrestle beards over.
Ben
No, see, that's what I mean.
Brooke
If he's like, back off. But if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to talk with her, and, you know, I think she's interested in me.
Alexis
So what did he say?
Unnamed Caller
He said he didn't send it.
Brooke
What?
Alexis
Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude. Yeah, like it was somebody else.
Kristen
The bartender said it wrong?
Unnamed Caller
No, because, like, the bartender pointed at the guy out.
Brooke
Oh, yeah, because they're across the room. So the bartender was like, from him.
Alexis
So you went to the bartender?
Unnamed Caller
So I walked over to the bartender, and I asked the bartender, and he was like, I can't really disclose that.
Brooke
What?
Alexis
I thought he just pointed the dude out. He just disclosed it.
Brooke
Oh, sorry, man. HIPAA can't do that.
Alexis
He probably doesn't want to start a fight or something.
Brooke
Yeah.
Kristen
What was. What did he say?
Unnamed Caller
It was just weird that he was being coy. And I called that out and I was like, why do you care? You literally pointed the guy out before, and that's what he told me, which is that. I guess this is something that she.
Kristen
Does that Kristen does.
Unnamed Caller
She pays the bartender to, like, send a drink to herself from some random guy every, like, half an hour.
Brooke
Hour. Brilliant.
Alexis
Oh, my God.
Brooke
No way. Do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this?
Alexis
I don't think that works for You.
Kristen
You think that's true?
Unnamed Caller
Yeah, because the second he, like, admitted it, he was like, don't tell her she does this often. Like, she comes in and does this every month or so.
Alexis
Who's this bartender blowing up her spot? Like, he. He did it for, like, a few months for her, though. That's kind of nice.
Brooke
Yeah, it's about to keep track of.
Kristen
I mean, that's a sneaky trick.
Alexis
Yeah. So you think that's a red flag? You don't think it's just kind of funny?
Unnamed Caller
So do people. It's so weird that it does.
Brooke
That is this.
Alexis
I feel like it's just trying to pump up her own confidence. Like some people that. Especially if they're going to go approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do as a woman. True.
Kristen
It's. I mean, it sounds so outlandish. You guys are all believing it. I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I think we should just ask Kristen directly. Kristen, did you pay the bartender to send you drinks?
Ben
Of course not. That's ridiculous.
Kristen
Ben, I forgot to tell you, Kristen's on the other line listening. She wants to talk to you.
Ben
This is so embarrassing.
Unnamed Caller
I'm embarrassed. This is embarrassing for everyone, honestly.
Ben
Okay, first of all, that is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say, theoretically, someone did that. That's hilarious.
Alexis
I don't believe her.
Ben
I was listening, and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up. And I'm like, have you never seen the movie Clueless?
Alexis
In Clueless?
Brooke
I haven't seen in a while.
Ben
Yeah. Remember, she sends herself chocolates and flowers.
Alexis
I thought they were in high school. I don't think they could be at a bar.
Kristen
For somebody that's denying it, you sure do know a lot how this system works.
Alexis
It's strange.
Ben
Oh, my God, you guys. A magician never reveals their secret.
Alexis
There we go.
Brooke
Okay, so let me get some random guy.
Alexis
Is it not even that cute? Then I'm kind of like, wait, No, I mean that. Here's the thing. Does it even matter? Like, who cares? She sounds awesome.
Unnamed Caller
I mean, you can kind of hear what she's saying right now. She's making it seem like it's not that big of a deal, but she's, like, not owning up to it, but she kind of is owning up to it. And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong foot by being, like, deceitful and, like, maybe lying or maybe telling the truth, then I Already don't want that right off the bat. So you are like.
Ben
I feel like you're taking this really, really seriously, considering we were a couple of random strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to know you.
Unnamed Caller
All right, well then if you think that I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it then, and I'll ask you again. Did you do it?
Ben
Yeah, of course I did.
Brooke
Yeah. Why do I love it, though?
Alexis
She wasn't lying. That was flirty.
Brooke
She lied to all of us and said she didn't do it.
Alexis
It's a little trick. It works. It's what dating is. It's like, you know, trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself look the best. She just used a different method.
Kristen
Well, I'm sorry. I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do need to let Ben know that there's another woman who wants to send you a gift card to go on a date.
Alexis
Yeah.
Kristen
Would you like that gift card, Ben? Because, Ben, if you say yes, then you can go out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that.
Ben
You know what?
Unnamed Caller
Sure. Yeah. Why not? But you have one strike against you right now. You know, I'm putting you on a warning. Okay.
Alexis
Sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah.
Ben
Okay, great. You know, I have never ever cheated or anything like that any ever in my life.
Kristen
That no one asked.
Brooke
No, nobody asked that.
Alexis
I was starting to worry Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Kristen
It's been a few months since we did that second date and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back on with us today to get an update on their situation.
Alexis
What? We don't.
Kristen
Only Ben agreed. Kristen actually sent us an email calling Ben a bunch of names.
Brooke
What?
Kristen
I don't know why, but, Ben, can you shed some light on the situation? Tell us what happened.
Brooke
What'd you do?
Alexis
Maybe they were sweetheart. Maybe she was calling you sweetheart and babe, that's not the name.
Kristen
What happened, dude?
Unnamed Caller
I mean, I absolutely know why she refuses to be on the phone. We went to some sort of bar, but it was different one than we went to on the first day, obviously, for obvious reasons.
Alexis
Yeah, yeah, we gave you a gift certificate. So what happened?
Unnamed Caller
Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, and I was like, you know, it would be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, it was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny, which is I decided to pull the same joke that she pulled on me.
Alexis
Oh, were you had pretend women sending you drinks?
Unnamed Caller
Exactly. That's it. I got there Early. And I told the bartender, I was like, hey, I'm gonna sit over there. Here's my credit card. And you'll see when my date comes in. And maybe wait like five minutes and then can you bring me a vodka soda and say, like, point to the cutest girl in the bar. Like, say it's from her. Do you mind that?
Kristen
Okay. That's exactly what she did.
Unnamed Caller
Yeah, I thought it was obvious, obviously. Funny, right?
Kristen
Right.
Unnamed Caller
But then when the bartender did it, she was furious.
Alexis
Why was she so mad? Did she think you were making fun of her?
Unnamed Caller
I don't think that she really got the joke at first. And I didn't really have much of a time to kind of explain it because she just marched right over to the woman.
Alexis
Oh, no.
Unnamed Caller
So I had to kind of play damage control. And I like, rushed up as well. And I was like, hey, I'm so sorry. Like, like, it was a joke. And then she like got in my face for a hot second.
Alexis
Whoa.
Kristen
She was the one that came up with this joke.
Alexis
It's not as funny when a guy does it.
Brooke
Only I do the joke. You can't do the joke.
Alexis
She seems so cool, not so unstable.
Kristen
That's what happens with all those cool girls. They're cool one second, nightmares the next.
Alexis
Oh, no, buddy. So was that the end?
Unnamed Caller
Well, yeah, I mean, I guess she just got a little bit of her own medicine and she's not really returning my calls. Okay.
Alexis
So obviously she really was doing it because she had kind of some. Maybe some self esteem drops happening. Okay. Poor thing. Dang it.
Unnamed Caller
Yeah, it was a bummer, but whatever.
Brooke
Yeah, it worked out for the best, bro.
Alexis
Did you get that woman's number that sent you the drink?
Unnamed Caller
If I can get it. Will you guys help me out with the second date update?
Alexis
Oh, for sure.
Kristen
You got it, man.
Alexis
It obviously went so well the first time for me.
Kristen
Great.
Alexis
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
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Podcast Summary: "Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update" – Episode: Hot Girl Jumper
Release Date: December 19, 2024
Hosted by: Brooke and Jeffrey
Available on: iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify
In this engaging episode of Brooke and Jeffrey, the hosts tackle the intriguing and often humorous challenges of modern dating. The focal point revolves around Kristen, a listener who finds herself in a predicament: she wonders if her attractiveness might be a hindrance in securing a second date after a stellar first impression. The episode, aptly titled "Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper," navigates through witty banter, real-life anecdotes, and insightful discussions to explore this modern romantic conundrum.
The episode kicks off with Kristen posing a relatable dilemma: "Is it possible to be too hot to date asking for a friend?" (02:32) This question sets the stage for a candid conversation among the hosts—Brooke, Jeffrey, Alexis, Kristen, and Ben. The discussion quickly highlights the paradox where high attractiveness can sometimes create unexpected barriers in romantic pursuits.
Notable Quote:
Kristen [02:32]: "Is it possible to be too hot to date asking for a friend?"
Ben shares his experience from a night out hoping to connect with Kristen. He describes waiting at the bar and encountering another man who sends Kristen drinks, potentially signaling disinterest or creating awkwardness.
Key Moments:
Initial Attraction: Ben spots a man who matches Kristen’s description and feels an instant connection.
Ben [04:15]: "There’s this one guy in particular who is just like absolutely my type from head to toe."
Interruptions Begin: As Ben engages with his interest, other men, facilitated by the bartender, send Kristen drinks, adding confusion to the situation.
Ben [05:02]: "I just saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, hey, captain."
The presence of beards becomes a recurring comedic element, symbolizing identity and miscommunication. Kristen and the hosts joke about the significance of facial hair in dating dynamics.
Notable Quote:
Alexis [05:38]: "I’m picturing Santa Claus. Same thing."
In a bold move, Kristen decides to flip the script by orchestrating a similar scenario to see how Ben reacts. She pays the bartender to send herself drinks from other men, hoping to gauge Ben’s true intentions and feelings.
Key Moments:
Kristen’s Strategy:
Kristen [08:16]: "You got this."
Ben’s Embarrassment: Ben becomes self-conscious upon receiving a call intended to facilitate a second date, leading to a humorous yet heartfelt exchange.
Notable Quote:
Ben [14:35]: "I also have a beard, but probably not as nice as yours."
Ben attempts to address the continuous sending of drinks by the bartender, leading to misunderstandings and tension. The situation escalates until Kristen clarifies her intentions, resulting in a playful resolution.
Key Moments:
Misunderstandings Unfold:
Unnamed Caller [11:55]: "So you are like."
Resolution and Second Chance:
Kristen [16:35]: "Would you like that gift card, Ben? Because, Ben, if you say yes, then you can go out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that."
Throughout the episode, Brooke and Jeffrey offer reflections on the complexities of dating in the digital age. They emphasize the importance of clear communication, authenticity, and understanding oneself and others in romantic engagements.
Notable Quote:
Brooke [19:48]: "Yeah, it worked out for the best, bro."
The episode wraps up with a promise of a forthcoming update on Kristen and Ben’s relationship, highlighting the show's commitment to providing relatable and entertaining content for listeners navigating the dating scene.
Attractiveness Isn't Everything: Being highly attractive can sometimes intimidate potential partners, leading to unexpected dating challenges.
Communication is Crucial: Clear and honest communication can mitigate misunderstandings and foster meaningful connections.
Humor in Dating: Injecting humor and lightheartedness into dating scenarios can alleviate tension and build rapport.
Self-Reflection: Understanding one's own intentions and feelings is essential in forming genuine relationships.
Listener Engagement:
Brooke and Jeffrey encourage listeners to share their own dating stories and dilemmas, fostering a community of support and shared experiences.
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This summary captures the essence of the "Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper" episode, highlighting the humorous and insightful discussions on the intricacies of modern dating. Whether you're navigating similar challenges or simply enjoy relatable entertainment, this episode offers valuable perspectives and laughter.