Brooke (2:59)

Welcome to your brand new second date update. We're so glad you're here. Yeah, you found the podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning and what? Oh, today's about timing how long a date should be. Yeah, that's right. That's right.

Alexis (3:10)

I love that your timing was kind of off as just, I wish I.

Brooke (3:14)

Would have done it on purpose.

Alexis (3:15)

I was comedic.

Brooke (3:15)

I didn't. I didn't do it on purpose. But this guy's first date lasted five days. Or that was his plan anyway. You're going to hear the whole story in just a second. How could that go wrong? Yeah, how could it go wrong? And you may think that we have another man in the studio, but it's just Alex. Alexis, it's me who lost her voice. Yes. That's not gonna stop me from reading your comments. That's right, Alexis, give us that in your sultry voice. Yes, but Lincoln Godfrey said I showed my personal trainer dad this podcast a couple months ago. And ever since this, whenever I stop in his gym, he's always playing this for his clients to work out to.

Alexis (3:54)

Let's go. Wait, can we make you work out harder or lazier? Like, are you.

Brooke (3:59)

It's good for your ab muscles if you laugh.

Alexis (4:01)

Okay.

Brooke (4:02)

You're doing crunches. There it. All right, I love that. Let's get this second date brand new started right now.

Advertiser 1 (4:09)

Second date update. What do you do if you've been on the dating apps for so long? You start seeing the same people on there over and over and over.

Brooke (4:20)

Does that happen? Yeah. Or you like delete it and then two years later you get it and you're like, you again.

Advertiser 1 (4:25)

Start thinking like, oh, they haven't found somebody yet. Oh, that Catfish account is still active. Weird. At that point, they're not potential soulmates to you you anymore. They're more like co workers just occupying the same space as you every single day.

Alexis (4:41)

Hey, Sarah, good to see you here again.

Advertiser 1 (4:44)

That's where one of our listeners, Patrick, found himself recently and he chose to do something about it. Let's find out. Patrick, welcome to the show.

Patrick (4:53)

Hey guys, thanks for having me.

Brooke (4:55)

It's funny to think that the people that are you are seeing are also seeing you and thinking the same thing.

Advertiser 1 (5:00)

Yeah, yeah. You know, but it sounds like you were on the dating apps for a long time.

Patrick (5:05)

Yeah, I was.

Brooke (5:06)

Unfortunately, he's like, why bring it up, Jeff?

Patrick (5:08)

Yeah, thanks for reminding me.

Advertiser 1 (5:10)

But it says that you decided to do something about it to change that. What did you do?

Patrick (5:15)

So I kept seeing the same people. Yeah. So I expanded my location.

Brooke (5:22)

So you're willing to drive four hours for a date now?

Patrick (5:25)

Basically.

Advertiser 1 (5:28)

So you expanded your search to farther away and who did you end up matching with?

Patrick (5:33)

Her name was Lisa. And our first date actually ended up being a vacation.

Brooke (5:39)

What? Wait, it's that far away that you had to take a whole weekend to get there?

Alexis (5:43)

What the heck?

Patrick (5:44)

Well, it was kind of more of a separate trip.

Brooke (5:46)

Whoa. You invited her on a vacation and she said yes?

Patrick (5:51)

Well, it happened to coincide with the work vacation, so I just thought I would bring her and it sounded fun and spontaneous.

Alexis (5:58)

It's funny because every time, sometimes I feel like when I go on a vacation and a girl will always joke like, oh my God, take me with you. Like, you don't actually take them with you. That's a stranger, bro.

Brooke (6:07)

Did she know you don't live in her city?

Patrick (6:10)

Yeah, I told her. I told her.

Lisa (6:12)

Yeah.

Advertiser 1 (6:12)

Okay.

Brooke (6:13)

So confused. And you're calling this a work vacation? Aren't those two words that don't go together?

Patrick (6:18)

It's kind of sponsored by my work. It's a five day trip that we could take if we want.

Brooke (6:24)

Oh my God. You spent five days together?

Alexis (6:26)

Wow.

Patrick (6:27)

Well, it was supposed to be five days. It actually lasted about a day and a half.

Brooke (6:31)

A day and a half.

Advertiser 1 (6:33)

Okay, that's not good.

Patrick (6:34)

Why?

Advertiser 1 (6:35)

What happened?

Patrick (6:36)

Well, I'm not quite sure actually. We. We were staying in the same room and of course we were going to restaurants. We were seeing the sites, doing all the stuff and having a really good time in my mind and oh my.

Brooke (6:50)

Gosh, like, you're staying in the same room. Did she. Like there's just so many layers to that. Like you're meeting this person for the first time and you're going to be using the same bathroom is all I can think. Yeah.

Advertiser 1 (7:02)

To be Fair. We can't talk about anything without talking about the bathrooms. If Brook's involved in the conversation.

Brooke (7:09)

That, like, makes it super awkward, right?

Alexis (7:11)

Oh, like using the bathroom and having.

Brooke (7:13)

To get ready and having. You know, and just, like, when you.

Alexis (7:17)

Have to toot like that, you got to hold it for, like, three days sometimes, right?

Brooke (7:21)

I mean, that's.

Advertiser 1 (7:22)

Is that why she ghosted you after a day and a half?

Patrick (7:25)

I hope not. I mean, I didn't think all that through at the time, and I should have, for sure.

Alexis (7:30)

So was there, like, a moment, bro?

Advertiser 1 (7:31)

Like, yeah, tell us about. Like, tell us about the vibe of the vacation. Like, how did it go up to that point?

Patrick (7:37)

Well, I thought it was going well. You know, we were having a lot of laughs. She seemed to be enjoying herself. I was enjoying myself. And we went on this bike tour, like, the first day we were there, and we were on the bus coming back from it, and she just said, I know where. Said, hey, I need to talk to you. I don't think I could make you happy.

Advertiser 1 (7:58)

That's what she said.

Patrick (8:00)

Yeah. And she got off the bus at the next stop, and I don't know what happened to me, but I just started crying.

Brooke (8:06)

Oh, man, this is so many emotions. Was it one of those. So much. Was it one of those wine bike tours? Because after I drink, sometimes I like to cry a lot, too.

Advertiser 1 (8:15)

Emotional.

Alexis (8:15)

Emotional.

Patrick (8:16)

There was no alcohol involved, actually. Okay. I don't know why I got emotional. It's probably. I imagine it's because I've been on the apps for so long, and then, like, I finally found somebody that I connected with, and we were in a beautiful place. It was more dramatic again.

Brooke (8:33)

No, it's not dramatic. That's just having feelings, man. That's all right.

Advertiser 1 (8:37)

Either that or you got dust in your eye. Could be either one.

Patrick (8:41)

Sand in my eye.

Brooke (8:44)

What do you think she meant by I can't make you happy?

Patrick (8:46)

That's what I would like to find out. I mean, when I got back, she was kind of packing up all her stuff, and, yeah, I gave her space, and then she left, and I haven't really heard anything except she texted once that we're probably better off friends.

Advertiser 1 (9:03)

Okay, well, it sounds like you planned a lot of activities for your vacation, and some people, when they travel, they don't like to do that, bro.

Alexis (9:09)

I'm just. Yeah, like, let's do one activity, maybe two.

Advertiser 1 (9:11)

But, yeah, mostly do beach time. No bike tours.

Brooke (9:15)

Jose and I could never vacation together.

Advertiser 1 (9:17)

No. Maybe she realized you weren't compatible in that way.

Patrick (9:21)

Yeah, I mean, that could be. She seemed to be into all the little things I planned for us, though.

Brooke (9:26)

It's just so much time together. And she's adventurous enough to agree to a five day vacation with a guy off a dating app.

Advertiser 1 (9:33)

But maybe she just wanted the free vacation to like, lie up by the pool the whole time. Didn't want to be going to the zoo and going to the.

Brooke (9:40)

Maybe she thought he'd be working and she was just getting a free vacation.

Advertiser 1 (9:46)

How long has it been since that happened?

Patrick (9:49)

It was about a week ago.

Brooke (9:51)

Okay. Okay. And obviously you're upset about it.

Patrick (9:54)

Yeah, I'm very upset. I mean, crying in front of strangers is upset.

Brooke (9:58)

Who hasn't cried in front of strangers? You're fine.

Advertiser 1 (10:01)

Yeah, well, maybe she's still even there now. Maybe she's just partying it up wherever you guys went to.

Alexis (10:05)

Maybe she moved.

Advertiser 1 (10:08)

Let's find out when we call her. We'll come back, we'll try and get you your second date update right after this. Hold on. Second date update? Some people like to go out to a restaurant for a first date. Others might see a concert or hit up mini golf. But not our listener, Patrick.

Brooke (10:26)

No.

Advertiser 1 (10:27)

He jumps straight to a five day vacation for his first date with Lisa. At least it was supposed to be five days. Yeah, but she cut things off after just a day and a half.

Brooke (10:38)

And she did it in a pretty respectful way.

Advertiser 1 (10:41)

The last thing that she said to him was, I don't think I can make you happy. Yeah, the last thing he said to her was because he cried from that comment. Understandably, he'd built up a lot of hope. And those bike tours can make you chafe real bad too. So.

Brooke (10:59)

Not only that, but he's been on the dating apps for years, so it's like years of pent up frustration just coming out.

Alexis (11:04)

And I think it's worse when you think things are going well, right?

Brooke (11:08)

Yeah.

Alexis (11:08)

He was like, this is great.

Lisa (11:09)

And then.

Alexis (11:10)

Oh no.

Advertiser 1 (11:10)

Got blindsided. The thing is, he still doesn't know understand what prompted her to say that. Patrick, if you had to guess, what do you think it is?

Patrick (11:18)

Maybe it was my breath. Your breath usually have gum and I didn't have it.

Brooke (11:22)

Can't be an ick. I'm not sure why that would prompt her to say, I don't know why I can't make you happy, but I.

Alexis (11:27)

Cannot recommend a dentist.

Advertiser 1 (11:29)

She didn't have gum either. Brooke, it's the romantic tragedy of the century.

Alexis (11:34)

Now it makes sense.

Brooke (11:35)

I mean, maybe you guys can try to get just a single date together. Maybe that will be the key here.

Patrick (11:41)

I like that. But we do live in different cities, so somebody's gonna have to travel.

Brooke (11:46)

Okay.

Advertiser 1 (11:46)

Meeting up is a vacation in itself.

Alexis (11:48)

So, hey, that may be kind of fun. It's like once a month someone takes a vacation.

Advertiser 1 (11:52)

That could be. Let's start with trying to get expensive. Let's start with trying to get her to pick up the phone first and hopefully get an answer out of her. But I'm gonna dial her number right now. Let's see how this goes.

Lisa (12:09)

Hello?

Advertiser 1 (12:10)

Hey, is this Lisa?

Lisa (12:12)

Yeah, who's this?

Advertiser 1 (12:13)

Hey, thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

Brooke (12:17)

Hi, Lisa.

Alexis (12:18)

Hey, Lisa.

Brooke (12:19)

Good morning.

Lisa (12:20)

Hi, good morning.

Advertiser 1 (12:21)

Sorry to interrupt your day like this, but we're doing a segment on our show. It's called the Second Date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but one of our listeners named Patrick has asked us to reach out to you.

Lisa (12:33)

Oh, wow. Okay.

Patrick (12:36)

Oh, wow?

Alexis (12:36)

Like oh, wow?

Lisa (12:38)

No, not oh, wow.

Advertiser 1 (12:41)

Oh, okay.

Brooke (12:42)

Are you surprised to be hearing from Patrick?

Lisa (12:44)

Yeah, I'm surprised. Well, I guess I'm not surprised because he seemed pretty desperate.

Advertiser 1 (12:52)

Oh, desperate?

Brooke (12:54)

Oh, come on.

Advertiser 1 (12:55)

That's a pretty harsh judgment for someone that you hung out with for like a day, a day and a half.

Lisa (13:02)

Trust me, you'd be saying the same thing if you knew all the things that he said and did.

Brooke (13:06)

What?

Jose (13:07)

Really?

Advertiser 1 (13:07)

Okay, desperate.

Alexis (13:08)

It's like a different level of thirsty.

Brooke (13:10)

That's so wild. Like, we talked to him. He seems so mellow.

Lisa (13:13)

Yeah, maybe it's you because he's not in love with you like he would.

Advertiser 1 (13:17)

That's not fair either. I was sensing love vibes towards me personally.

Patrick (13:22)

But.

Brooke (13:25)

He can't be in love with you. I mean, he just sounds like he really liked you and you two finally connected.

Lisa (13:30)

He was behaving as if he loved me.

Advertiser 1 (13:33)

Oh, geez. What happened to make you say that? Because I don't think we have the full story. Like, we know that he did a lot like a vacation.

Brooke (13:42)

You agreed to go on a five day vacation with him, which is wild.

Lisa (13:45)

Yeah, that's the thing. It was just. It was a lot. And yes, I agreed to go on this trip, but there didn't need to be extra pressure on top of it. And there was.

Brooke (13:56)

Okay, how so?

Lisa (13:58)

So our first night there, we went to dinner and he was like, I could totally see myself proposing here. He wasn't talking about me, but it was like he was waiting for Some of me to be like, oh, yeah, like, well, I'll be so lovely one day. Or, you know, I don't know. I was like, okay. And then the next day, we go on the tour, and he introduces me to the guide as, oh, this is my future wife.

Brooke (14:24)

Oh, no.

Alexis (14:25)

Okay, hold on. Was he kidding?

Advertiser 1 (14:27)

Like, was he like, this is my future wife.

Alexis (14:29)

Like, how did he say it?

I (14:30)

Is it funny?

Brooke (14:30)

Even if he was kidding, there was.

Lisa (14:33)

A note of kidding, but it was not enough to, like.

Alexis (14:36)

Yeah, to justify.

Brooke (14:38)

I mean, he sounds kind of like an earnest guy who can be a little awkward.

Advertiser 1 (14:43)

Yeah, he's right.

Brooke (14:44)

When we talk to him.

Lisa (14:46)

No, this was beyond. Like, he then wanted to stop at a jewelry store, and he was like, hey, let's go check out some, like, ring.

Advertiser 1 (14:53)

Okay, but did you tell him ahead of time that you're against love and the idea of marrying someone in a beautiful location?

Lisa (15:00)

I'm not against love and marriage and all those things. It's more that I don't need it on my first date. Like, let's get to know each other first.

Alexis (15:08)

That's true.

Brooke (15:08)

Ring shopping is wild. I mean, not.

Alexis (15:10)

I mean, I was. I was almost engaged, and we still never went ring shopping.

Brooke (15:13)

Maybe it was a local artisan shop and he was just being a tourist.

Alexis (15:17)

He's looking for a necklace, and there happened to be rings there.

Advertiser 1 (15:20)

Well, we don't have to speculate on, like, what he was thinking and where his mind is at, because he's actually on the other line right now waiting to talk to you.

Alexis (15:29)

He's on one knee, I think.

Advertiser 1 (15:31)

No, he is.

Brooke (15:33)

Give him a chance.

Advertiser 1 (15:33)

Patrick, are you there?

Patrick (15:35)

Yeah, I'm kind of bummed out that I haven't heard from you. You haven't returned any of my calls or messages.

Lisa (15:41)

Wow. Like I said, it really. I didn't think it was a good fit. I didn't think we were handling the pace of everything and seeing eye to eye.

Brooke (15:49)

Was that hard to hear, Patrick?

Patrick (15:52)

Yeah, of course it's hard to hear. I mean, I. To be fair, I didn't actually propose.

Brooke (15:57)

Yeah, we know.

Alexis (15:58)

We know.

Patrick (15:59)

For the. The ring shop. I feel like you're blowing it out of proportion a little bit. I was just curious what your taste was. It's kind of fun to go into a shop. It could have been a T shirt store, you know, Anyway.

Lisa (16:09)

Yeah, it was really too much. It was too much.

Patrick (16:12)

Yeah. I know you're saying it's too much a lot, but sometimes people just know. It's like an instinctual thing, and you just Feel it. For my parents, I mean, it was love at first sight. They fell in love within the first few minutes of meeting each other. They ended up having four kids very soon after that.

Alexis (16:27)

Okay, I bet they were on the same page.

Brooke (16:30)

I think that's a good timeline to lay out after what she just said.

Lisa (16:35)

Yeah, and that reminds me of the time also, you said, oh, one day I hope we can have future kids. Little us's.

Patrick (16:43)

Wow.

Brooke (16:45)

In a day and a half.

Patrick (16:47)

Isn't that what everybody wants in life? I mean, I thought that's why we were going on a date in the first place, is to find love. Really? Isn't that why people.

Brooke (16:56)

Yeah. In the long run, we should have known. A guy who invites a girl on a five day vacation is. Yeah. Serious. Maybe he could slow it down though, you know, maybe you could pump the brakes a little bit.

Patrick (17:06)

I could pump the brakes, yeah. Yeah.

Brooke (17:08)

See?

Advertiser 1 (17:08)

Wow.

Alexis (17:09)

Dude, you're never playing hard to get, bro. I'm sorry.

Lisa (17:11)

But yeah. I'm skeptical if he's capable of that by.

Advertiser 1 (17:15)

If he's able to dial it back. Pull back the reins on the love and just do like one dinner date with him. No vacation. Would you be up for meeting Patrick one more time?

Patrick (17:28)

Lisa, before you say anything, I just. That day you left me on the bus and when you said you could never make me happy, I cried when you got off the bus. And I don't normally, I'm not a big crier, especially in public, and it hit me.

Advertiser 1 (17:43)

Not sure that's usually a romantic selling point, but yeah.

Brooke (17:46)

Yeah.

Advertiser 1 (17:47)

Sounds like your second date is definitely gonna be casual then.

Lisa (17:51)

I mean, this seems like a lot of pressure. This. I. I don't know about this.

Brooke (17:55)

Yeah, but listen, sometimes opposites attract. He is hopeless romantic. And you are more like Alexis. You know, I think she's gonna wake up in bed with a ring on her finger. Yeah.

Advertiser 1 (18:06)

It's up to you though. Lisa. We're not trying to pressure you. We're not trying to like, force you to do anything you don't want to do. We just think that love is the most important thing in the entire world and what the whole purpose that we're on earth. With that being said, would you give him one more chance?

Lisa (18:22)

I am open to it. It's just I need some confirmation that it'll be dialed back like 95.

Patrick (18:28)

I've already dialed it back. Oh, already down.

Alexis (18:32)

I feel it right now. It's totally dialed back.

Advertiser 1 (18:34)

I'm not sure. I'm sure he likes you anymore. Honestly.

Alexis (18:36)

Yeah, honestly, he did he hang up?

Lisa (18:40)

Yeah.

Patrick (18:40)

Why don't we just talk on the phone for a while and see where things go from there.

Brooke (18:44)

Hey, that's reasonable.

Alexis (18:46)

That's nice and slow.

Patrick (18:47)

We could start there. That's.

Lisa (18:48)

Yes, let's start there.

Advertiser 1 (18:50)

True love. See, Lisa, you were wrong. You can make him happy.

Patrick (18:56)

Hey, definitely. She just made me happy with the phone call for sure.

Lisa (19:03)

Okay.

Brooke (19:07)

This is not happening.

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What did you.

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I didn't need to hear any more of that. I have a feeling that she might not answer the phone.

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Yeah, we should try to get him for an awkward Tuesday.

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