Call Her Daddy: Becky G – Cheating & People Pleasing (April 1, 2026)
Host: Alex Cooper
Guest: Becky G
Main theme: Navigating generational trauma, people-pleasing, cheating, and resilience as a successful Latina in the entertainment industry.
Episode Overview
In this deeply personal and relatable episode, Alex Cooper welcomes global superstar Becky G for her most candid conversation yet. Together they explore Becky’s childhood in Inglewood, her family’s struggles, the pressures of being the eldest daughter and provider, and the complex topic of betrayal in relationships. Becky G fearlessly opens up about her father’s addiction and infidelity, how generational trauma shapes women, people pleasing, and publicly confronting cheating in her long-term relationship. The discussion is infused with humor, cultural pride, and plenty of wisdom about healing, boundaries, and choosing growth over victimhood.
Key Discussion Points & Highlights
1. Opening Vibes & Tequila Toast
[03:09–05:40]
- Becky G and Alex kick things off with tequila shots, having a laugh about Becky’s well-known pre-show ritual (“I’m Mexican. It just felt right.” – Becky, [05:14])
- Discussion of personal drink choices and light banter sets an easy, warm tone.
2. Firsts & Worsts – Becky G’s Lightning Round
[06:25–11:18]
- Becky describes her morning routine, evolving from meditation to panicking about work texts.
- Admits to biting her nails as a past “worst habit.”
- Starstruck moment: Meeting Denzel Washington at the Oscars.
- Shares the worst rumor about herself: AI-generated fake pregnancy photos (“I know what I’m going to look like when I’m pregnant. She’s giving cutesy.” – Becky, [09:07]).
- Worst date story: Awkward Olive Garden meal where her date criticizes her joyful eating.
3. Irrational Fears & People Pleasing Roots
[10:56–11:18, 14:18–25:57]
- Becky’s deepest fear: “Letting the people I love down.”
- The conversation leads straight into “therapy talk,” exploring the pressure and generational wounds behind people pleasing.
4. Childhood in Inglewood and Early Responsibilities
[14:18–19:39]
- Becky proudly recounts her upbringing as a Chicana in Inglewood, surrounded by a sprawling, tight-knit family.
- “I’m one of 19 grandchildren on my mom’s side and one of 15 on my dad’s. … I always had my tribe.” ([14:18])
- Discusses helping to support her family from age nine, following a passion for music inspired by icons like Shirley Temple.
5. Generational Trauma, Survival Mode, & Family Addiction
[19:39–25:57]
- Becky reveals the extent of her family’s hardships: loss of their home, living in her grandparents’ garage, and her father’s addiction.
- “When we lost our home… with my dad being an addict, we had nothing. … But as a kid, you have a bit of naiveness… I was like, oh, it’s a big sleepover.” ([18:15])
- The generational nature of addiction and trauma—how cycles of avoidance and survival mode play out through families.
6. The Heavy Cost of Being the Eldest Daughter
[23:09–25:40]
- Alex and Becky break down birth order theory, “parentified” children, and the unique burden of being the family “fixer.”
- Alex: “It almost forces you to be one step ahead of every situation… and it’s hard to realize that everyone’s emotions are not your responsibility.”
- Becky: “If we rewind a few years ago, yeah, I was like, ‘I have to be a self-sacrificer…’ I have to give up mine for the greater good.” ([23:31])
Memorable anecdote: Becky’s Disney World “breaking point” with her sister
[25:57–30:59]
- Becky gets too drunk at Epcot while trying to give her sister an escape from family issues, then is overwhelmed with guilt.
- “I’m the worst sister on the planet. Like, I can’t believe I did this. … And they’re like, girl, do you know what I have done blackout drunk?” ([27:31])
7. Father Dynamics, Resentment, & Becoming the Provider
[31:42–36:26]
- Becky’s complicated feelings toward her father: Anger, lack of respect, and a desire to “out-dad” him.
- Became family’s sole provider at 16, fueling her work ethic and sense of responsibility.
- “It looked like being at peaks on charts and not having any health insurance because … health insurance isn’t built into a record deal.” ([35:31])
8. Mental Health, Breaking Generational Cycles, and Therapy
[36:28–41:28]
- Becky credits her mother as her greatest support and recounts a key moment:
- Becky’s mom: “You could choose to never pick up a microphone ever again… We’ll figure it out. It’s not on you.” ([38:32])
- Despite this, Becky admits it took therapy to believe she could release herself from this burden.
9. How Childhood & Parents Shape Romantic Relationships
[41:28–45:30]
- Becky G’s “ride or die” mentality comes from her family’s culture:
- “Me today is like, ‘If I ride, why do I gotta die?’ … There’s some boundaries I’d like to put in place.” ([41:28])
- The way parents love each other and us leaves a big imprint on our romantic lives.
10. Cheating, Public Betrayal, and Self-Worth
[45:30–66:05]
- Becky opens up about her partner’s public betrayal and why she chose to address it in her documentary:
- “To me, I’ve always believed half a truth is still a lie.” ([42:50])
- She details wanting to make decisions for herself, not for public opinion, and the pain of trying to heal both privately and in the public eye.
- Discusses societal double standards:
- “Back in the days, women used to be shamed for leaving… now it’s like, if you stay, you’re dumb. … And it’s like, the girls who would say ‘I could never’ — I actually love that for you. That was not my ground zero. My ground zero was people pleasing, self-sacrificing…” ([48:57])
- Shares how infidelity shattered her sense of self-trust and explains her journey of rebuilding her relationship with both her partner and herself after calling off their engagement.
- She and Alex explore how childhood wounds complicate adult relationship problems, especially around infidelity.
On Rebuilding After Betrayal:
- “Emotions aren’t forever. … I can’t make life decisions based off of other people’s emotions in my comment section.” ([52:42])
- Becky and her partner are still together, having rebuilt trust through reflection and therapy:
- “It was just me… learning to give myself space and empowering myself with the experiences, with professional intervention…” ([58:15])
- “There is a spectrum, an array of experiences… empowerment as a woman isn’t being perfect. It’s living in your truth and standing in your truth.” ([64:07])
11. Resilience, Reframing Pain, and Post-Traumatic Growth
[66:14–71:48]
- Becky credits her positivity and strength to a radical mindset shift:
- “PTG—post traumatic growth—is a choice… I don’t want to be a victim. I want to be a survivor. … We deserve so much more than just to survive life, but to actually thrive.” ([67:04])
- She urges feeling the pain fully and trusting that “this too shall pass,” highlighting the importance of self-compassion and learning life’s lessons or facing them repeatedly.
12. Women’s Place in the Industry & Uplifting Others
[74:49–79:52]
- Becky on how the music industry pits women against each other and how she and her peers—like Karol G, Natti Natasha, Anitta—built teamwork and solidarity behind the scenes.
- “Junta, somos mas. Together we are so much more.” ([74:49])
- Shares practical stories of collaboration, helping each other with glam and logistical support:
- “It’s not me versus you; it’s us versus the system.” ([77:32])
- “Other tables are being built, and you can build your own.”
13. ‘Marathon’ and Empowerment Era
[79:52–83:37]
- Becky discusses her new single “Marathon,” describing the track as a reflection of her journey, perseverance, and a “divine alignment” with her fans’ growth.
- “It’s like, if we’re crying, we’re crying in the club, girl. Like, we are… it’s a vibe. It’s meant to bring joy.” ([82:03])
- The creative process for “Marathon” was joyful and collaborative, mirroring her own journey from pressure and negativity into earned liberation.
14. Becky G vs. Rebecca: Healing the Inner Child
[83:37–84:35]
- Becky G reflects on reconciling her stage persona with her vulnerable self:
- “Becky G, the boss… Rebecca, who is this more vulnerable… side of myself, is also a star in what I’ve been doing lately. … They’re like the best collaborators now.” ([83:47])
Notable Quotes & Defining Moments
- On addiction and childhood:
- “Addiction… is generational… it fuels this deeper wound.” ([19:54])
- On people pleasing:
- “The words ‘no’—the way my body would just contortion if I felt a no and I had to say it.” ([22:10])
- On being eldest daughter:
- “I have to give up mine for the greater good… not about how I actually feel.” ([23:31])
- On healing post-infidelity:
- “The thing about betrayal is, like, it doesn’t just make you not trust the other person. You don’t trust yourself anymore.” ([48:57])
- On relationship recovery:
- “This isn’t just about this relationship. How many dynamics have I been in where this version of myself has been in the driver’s seat?” ([56:06])
- On growth and empowerment:
- “Empowerment as a woman isn’t being perfect. It’s living in your truth.” ([64:07])
- On thriving after trauma:
- “PTG, post-traumatic growth, is a choice… I can change my mind today and that’s okay.” ([67:04])
- On lifting up women:
- “We all look amazing… iron sharpens iron. It’s not personal. It’s us versus the system.” ([77:32])
Timestamps for Key Segments
| Segment | Timestamp | |---|---| | Tequila & Icebreakers | 03:09–06:25 | | Firsts & Worsts Q&A | 06:25–11:18 | | Childhood & Early Family Life | 14:18–19:39 | | Generational Trauma / People Pleasing | 19:39–25:57 | | Disney World Anecdote | 25:57–30:59 | | Relationship with Father & Responsibility | 31:42–36:26 | | Mental Health & Therapy | 36:28–41:28 | | Shaping Romantic Relationships | 41:28–45:30 | | Betrayal, Cheating & Healing | 45:30–66:05 | | Positivity, Growth after Trauma | 66:14–71:48 | | Women’s Career Solidarity | 74:49–79:52 | | “Marathon” & New Music | 79:52–83:37 | | Becky G / Rebecca Reflection | 83:37–84:35 |
Tone & Style
The episode is distinctly vulnerable, witty, and intimate, with both Alex and Becky harnessing humor to navigate tough topics. Becky frequently shifts between English and touches of Spanglish, embodying pride in her culture and family roots. Both host and guest are encouraging—a blend of tough love, affirmation, and radical honesty.
Final Thoughts
This episode is a must-listen for anyone resonating with codependency, family trauma, or struggling with self-worth after betrayal. Becky G’s transparency about generational wounds and the labor of healing is rare in celebrity interviews. Listeners take away not only practical advice for self-care and boundary setting but also permission—as Alex and Becky say—to “let the shit be shit” and to own every part of their story, imperfect and evolving.