Call Her Daddy - Episode: "Stop Forcing Your Friends to Drink"
Release Date: December 25, 2024
Host: Alex Cooper
Guests: Matt Kaplan, Unnamed Female Guest

Introduction and Personal Life Updates

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Saying Goodbye to Childhood Memories [06:31 - 19:20]

Alex Cooper begins the episode by sharing a deeply personal update about her family's decision to sell her childhood home in Newtown, Pennsylvania. This announcement marks a significant emotional turning point for her, evoking memories of her upbringing and the sentimental value the home holds.

• Notable Quote:
  "My parents are officially selling my childhood home. And if any of you still have your parents that live in the home that you were born in and grew up in, you know the sentimental value that that thing holds, right?" [03:23]

Alex reflects on the various Christmases spent in different locations and explains the emotional weight of returning to Pennsylvania one last time. She emphasizes the importance of family and the bittersweet nature of leaving behind a place filled with cherished memories.

Transitioning to a New Beginning: Buying Her Parents a Home

In a heartfelt gesture, Alex reveals that she has purchased a new home for her parents in Los Angeles, California. This move not only signifies her gratitude but also her commitment to ensuring her parents' happiness and comfort.

• Notable Quote:
  "Buying them a house is, like, the least I could do because they sacrificed financially, emotionally. They sacrificed with my other siblings in moments for me." [14:11]

Matt Kaplan contributes by highlighting his role in renovating the new home, demonstrating their joint effort to create a perfect living space for Alex’s parents. The couple’s decision to keep the new home close (approximately 10-15 minutes away) underscores their desire to maintain strong family ties and accessibility.

Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Personal Growth [19:20 - 24:47]

Alex and Matt discuss the evolution of their relationship, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect, effective communication, and shared values. They highlight how their partnership has grown stronger through their collective efforts and shared experiences.

• Notable Quote:
  "As long as you're good with the people that you love, like, that's all that matters." [24:47]

This segment underscores the significance of building a supportive and understanding relationship, where both partners contribute to each other's growth and well-being.

Q&A Segment: Handling Peer Pressure to Drink [28:08 - 34:36]

Listener Question:
"Hey, Alex, I'm a sophomore in college and all of my friends like to go out, but I'm not a big drinker. I feel like I'm also getting judged for not drinking. How do I still have a good time without drinking?" [28:08]

Response by Matt Kaplan:

Matt offers comprehensive advice on dealing with peer pressure related to drinking, especially in a college environment where social drinking is prevalent.

• Key Strategies:

  • Have a Drink in Hand:
    "No matter what, you can always have a drink in your hand. So that immediately will just block people from asking if they can get you a drink." [29:55]

  • Open Communication:
    "If you're just someone there that's trying to have a good time and everyone is nagging on you, or there are specific people that are nagging on you, this is my advice." [34:36]

  • Setting Boundaries:
    Matt emphasizes the importance of asserting personal choices without feeling guilty, and distancing oneself from those who are consistently judgmental.

• Notable Quotes:
  "You should never feel judged or insecure about something that you don't want to do." [30:10]
  "If you don't care what anyone else is doing unless it is directly affecting me, why do you care if someone's not drinking tonight?" [34:12]

Matt also touches on the broader implications of drinking culture, acknowledging its complexities and the diverse reasons why individuals may choose to abstain.

Q&A Segment: Relationship Doubts and Commitment [40:40 - 60:35]

Listener Question:
"I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost two years now and I love him so much. But sometimes I sit back and think about, is this really it? Is this who I'm meant to be with forever? Should I be worried and think more about my relationship?" [40:40]

Response by Matt Kaplan and Alex Cooper:

The hosts delve into the common experience of questioning relationship longevity, offering insights and actionable advice to navigate such doubts.

• Validation of Feelings:
  "It is so normal when you are getting to a place in your relationship that it feels like, okay, this is more than dating." [42:56]

• Practical Steps:

  • Live Together:
    "If you don't live with someone that you're considering spending the rest of your life with, my first step would be live together." [42:58]

  • Deep Conversations:
    Encourage discussions about life goals, financials, future aspirations, and shared values to ensure alignment.

• Importance of Self-Reflection:
  "Have you talked to them about it? Have you sat them down in an environment where you're coming from a loving place and you're not being attacking and you're actually like, how do we fix this?" [51:49]

• Notable Quotes:
  "If you're finding yourself doubting more than you're happy, that's your answer." [42:58]
  "When you are staying because something is, I've spent so much time and it's been five years, what am I gonna do?" [55:42]

Alex and Matt emphasize the importance of honest self-assessment and open communication to determine the health and future of a relationship. They advocate for making informed decisions based on mutual respect and shared life goals.

Conclusion and Final Thoughts [60:35 - 61:22]

In wrapping up the episode, Alex and Matt reiterate the importance of fostering healthy relationships and maintaining open lines of communication. They encourage listeners to engage in self-reflection and proactive relationship management to ensure personal happiness and fulfillment.

• Final Encouragement:
  "So Merry Christmas. I'm gonna answer some questions and I'm gonna give you guys, just a little you time because we've had enough me time." [60:35]

Overall Summary

In this emotionally charged episode of "Call Her Daddy," Alex Cooper and Matt Kaplan navigate through personal life transitions, including the sale of Alex's childhood home and the purchase of a new home for her parents. These discussions are interwoven with profound insights into relationship dynamics and handling societal pressures, particularly related to alcohol consumption.

The episode offers a blend of personal storytelling and practical advice, making it both relatable and instructive for listeners facing similar life challenges. By addressing topics such as peer pressure to drink and relationship doubts, Alex and Matt provide valuable guidance while sharing their own experiences, fostering a sense of community and support among their audience.

Notable Quotes:

• "My parents are officially selling my childhood home. And if any of you still have your parents that live in the home that you were born in and grew up in, you know the sentimental value that that thing holds, right?" [03:23]

• "If you don't want to drink, drink." [29:55]

• "If you're finding yourself doubting more than you're happy, that's your answer." [42:58]

This episode underscores the importance of balancing personal growth with maintaining meaningful relationships, all while navigating the complexities of modern social pressures.