Why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart?

In this episode, Family Lawyer and author (Live, Laugh, Find True Love) Sarah Intelligator shares the 6 Fail Factors she’s seen again and again in nearly two decades of divorce cases. From fundamental values and fear to foundation, family, fairy tales, and fixing, Sarah reveals the hidden patterns that cause couples to break down — and what it takes to build a relationship that lasts.

We explore:

- The #1 red flag most people ignore when dating
- How to tell the difference between fundamental values and fleeting interests
- The 5 pillars every relationship foundation needs (respect, trust, communication, honesty, teamwork)
- Why “don’t go to sleep angry” is a myth — and what to do instead
- How fear and fixing sabotage relationships before they begin
- Practical steps to strengthen communication and prevent resentment

Whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or reflecting after divorce, Sarah’s insights will help you avoid common pitfalls and choose love that lasts.

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Sarah's Links:
• Book: Live, Laugh, Find True Love
Australia link: https://amzn.asia/d/7st5XwZ
U.S. link: https://a.co/d/i3kTi7j
• Website: lafamilylawpractice.com
• Instagram: @sarah.a.intelligator.esq

Dr. Katie Links:
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkatiestirling
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CallMeKatiePodcast
• Website: https://www.drkatiestirling.com

What Makes Relationships LAST | The 6 Fail Factors with Divorce Lawyer Sarah Intelligator