You hit one goal, and before you can even feel it, you're already onto the next one: being more productive, more efficient, more successful, constant improvement, and seeking perpetual growth… But have you ever stopped to ask what all that growth is actually for? If the goalpost keeps moving no matter what you accomplish, this one is for you.

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Growth gets treated as an automatic good, so we rarely stop to question it. In this episode, I unpack the difference between healthy ambition and the compulsion to grow, where that drive comes from culturally and personally, and how to move from autopilot to intentional growth without losing your ambition. If the goalpost keeps moving no matter what you accomplish, this one is for you.

In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 The difference between healthy ambition and a drive that never lets you rest 👉 Where your definition of "more is better" actually came from (it's not just you) 👉 How to grow on purpose instead of on autopilot

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Chasing More 00:58 - Healthy ambition vs. the compulsion to grow 02:20 - Cultural and systemic origins: the American Dream, capitalism, keeping up 05:44 - Lifestyle creep and the moving goalpost 06:59 - Why our brains still chase more 08:29 - Tip 1: Separate your values from what was conditioned 08:53 - Tip 2: Autopilot growth vs. intentional growth

📚 RESOURCES + SOURCES MENTIONED Juliet Schor, The Overworked American (book referenced in this episode) Lifestyle creep: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/l/lifestyle-creep.asp

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