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Bold Journeys Podcast
Hosted by Rob Spee · EN
All around us, people are overcoming extraordinary challenges. Where do they find the resilience and perseverance to move forward?
At Bold Journeys, we share stories of grit, adventure, and faith from those whose journeys have both tested them and shaped who they've become.
Hosted by Rob Spee, each episode of the podcast explores the resilience it takes to carry on – offering encouragement, perspective, and a reminder of what's possible.
We seek guests who've walked through the fire, whether it's a challenge they chose like climbing Mt. Everest, or a knock-down punch life throws at you.
If you're ready to reflect, grow, and live boldly... you're in the right place.
🎙️New episodes every Tuesday
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The Fighter Pilot's Guide to Growth, Accountability, and Performance
2w ago00:40:52Tap to summarizeThis is Part 2 of my conversation with Christian "Boo" Boucousis. We move beyond his origin story and into the mindset of a fighter pilot. As the CEO of Afterburner, Boo teaches teams how to implement a practical, no nonsense approach to clarity, accountability, and performance — the same principles that kept him alive in the cockpit. This fighter pilot's guide is something we can apply in business and everyday life, including: • Iteration as a daily practice — why quick, honest reflection creates momentum • Clear expectations — how alignment reduces friction in work, relationships, and leadership • Accountability without blame — a simple debrief framework for steady improvement • The D.O.S.E. model — using your brain's chemistry to stay resilient and focused Be sure to watch Part 1 to hear Boo's full journey from his childhood in the Australian outback to the Royal Australian Air Force, his entry to entrepreneurship and his faith transformation. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more episodes that explore clarity, courage, and the mindsets and faith behind meaningful growth. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Think Like Fighter Pilots 03:03 Afterburner and Mission Focus 04:08 Red Tails Lesson on Mission 05:32 Finding and Buying Afterburner 06:52 Accountability and Skill Benchmarks 09:31 Flight Suit Culture and Identity 12:46 The Cognitive Model of Iteration 15:54 Debriefing vs Blame Reviews 21:44 Applying Iteration at Home 27:06 Biases Beliefs Behaviors Framework 32:20 The Chemistry of Resilience 36:11 Final Questions and Takeaways
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From Darkness to Light: How Survivors Reclaim Their Power After Narcissistic Trauma
Apr 2801:15:21Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Host Rob Spee sits down with survivor and holistic healer Deanna Scaldaferri, whose twenty‑year relationship with a narcissist nearly cost her her voice, her safety, and her sense of self. Deanna opens the door on what these relationships really look like — the early love bombing, the charm that fools everyone else, the private chaos, and the slow erosion of identity that keeps victims trapped. She breaks down the patterns that made her vulnerable, the fear and trauma bonding that kept her in place, and the physical toll of living in constant threat. What follows is a conversation about truth, courage, the breaking point and the long road back to the light. Deanna shares the faith that saved her and the tools that rebuilt her life — therapy, meditation, brain rewiring, and return to God after profound trauma. Today she's using her story to help others name what's happening, break the cycle, and reclaim their God‑given light. You can find Deanna at https://www.healinghandsbydeanna.com/ Key Takeaways Name the cycle so you stop doubting yourself. Love bombing, mask‑slipping, gaslighting, inconsistencies, control — once you understand the pattern, your intuition comes back online. People‑pleasing is not peacekeeping. The "keep the peace" reflex is often the doorway to losing your voice. Reclaiming boundaries is the first step toward reclaiming identity. Charm in public doesn't erase abuse in private. Narcissists curate a persona. Survivors need outside support — therapy, trusted friends, and professionals who understand the dynamic. Your body tells the truth before your mind can. Panic attacks, chest tightness, hypervigilance — these aren't overreactions. They're signals that your system is overwhelmed and unsafe. Healing requires all of you — mind, body, and spirit. Faith, breathwork, movement, somatic therapy, massage, reiki, and intentional "rewiring" help break trauma loops and rebuild confidence. Leaning into God is a turning point, not a last resort. Deanna's story shows how faith can anchor you, and even save you, when grief, loss, and trauma collide. You can leave the victim mindset behind. Healing isn't about pretending it didn't happen — it's about choosing who you become next. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Love Bombing Begins 05:01 Deanna Background and Advocacy 06:37 Mask Slips and Confusion 10:29 Charm and Smear Campaign 13:58 Starting a Support Group 17:34 Conscious Control and Gaslighting 28:04 Childhood Roots and Silent Treatment 32:21 Reclaiming Your Light 35:35 Faith Returns to the Forefront 42:24 Choosing Faith Over Anger 46:29 Leaving Victim Mindset Behind 47:31 Reiki and Energy Healing Explained 57:48 Brain Rewiring and Neuroplasticity 01:01:38 Rapid Fire Self Care Habits 01:06:29 Narcissism Red Flags to Watch 01:12:35 Resources and Final Takeaways
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After the Mission: A Fighter Pilot's Path to Purpose
Apr 1400:55:54Tap to summarizeChristian "Boo" Boucousis flew nearly 1,600 missions as an Australian fighter pilot before life forced him into a completely different path. He talks about what happens when the mission ends—how operating at the peak of the stress curve, mastering the basics until they're automatic, and building identity through call signs shaped the man he became. He also shares how long‑term visualization and relentless reps helped him push through average grades and undiagnosed ADHD to earn the cockpit. His fighter pilot career ended after a medical discharge from an autoimmune joint disease, and he had to rebuild from the ground up. Boo walks through the transition from the cockpit to entrepreneurial success in Afghanistan. The success came with real cost: PTSD, divorce, and a complete reset of identity. Boo opens up about getting help from an unexpected source, rediscovering a faith centered on joy, purpose, and responsibility. His story shows what it looks like to find purpose again when the mission changes, and how discipline, vision, and service can rebuild a life from the inside out. Key Takeaways Purpose has to outlast the mission. When the cockpit disappeared, Boo had to rebuild who he was without the uniform, the call sign, or the structure that shaped him. Discipline and identity travel with you. The habits, awareness, and standards forged as a fighter pilot became the backbone of how he navigated entrepreneurship, pressure, and uncertainty. Awareness is a survival skill in life, not just in the air. Knowing what you know, what you don't, and what's happening around you guided him through Afghanistan, leadership, and personal upheaval. Rebuilding requires humility, service, and a clear sense of purpose. Boo's path back—through PTSD, loss, and faith—shows that the next mission is often internal, not external. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Peak Stress Curve 01:00 Fighter Pilot Call Sign Origins 06:44 Inside the Cockpit 12:24 Awareness and Senses 14:55 Queensland Roots 17:54 Obsessed With Aviation 26:36 Checklist Mastery Under Pressure 27:57 Programming the Brain Networks 30:36 Afghanistan by Choice 33:36 Fear on the Ground 35:48 PTSD and Life Unraveling 37:55 Discharge and New Direction 40:41 Why Afghanistan Made Sense 45:05 Faith Reframed and Joy
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Divine Intervention: Finding Joy After Trauma and Homelessness
Apr 701:22:30Tap to summarizeJosette Pelatan's story is a study in grit, faith, and the long road back from trauma. Born into addiction, adopted across an ocean, and later navigating life in the U.S. alone at sixteen, she carried years of anger, complex PTSD, and misdiagnosed illness while pushing herself through school, advanced degrees, and relentless adversity. In this conversation, Josette opens up about surviving a drug‑facilitated rape, years of neurological symptoms dismissed as "mental health," and the eventual diagnosis of relapsing MOGAD that reframed her entire medical history. She also shares the 2022 moment she calls divine intervention—a turning point that sparked her healing, her creative work, and her commitment to rebuilding her life while homeless. We talk about what real support looks like, why resilience is never just willpower, and how purpose‑driven routines—breathwork, meditation, visualization, gratitude—became her daily anchors. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Adoption and Absent Father 03:35 Meeting Josette and Her Duality 07:40 Childhood in France Begins 13:12 Grandfather Anchor and Boarding School 18:34 Texas at 16 Cowgirl Life 22:55 From Jobs to Higher Education 24:43 Assaults and Breaking Point 31:08 Mystery Illness and Diagnosis 35:58 Turning Point – Divine Intervention 39:04 Forgiveness and Daily Practices 44:10 Homelessness and Street Reality 52:36 Omnist Faith And Discernment 59:04 Breathwork And Daily Routines 01:04:18 Producing Films Against Odds 01:06:25 Disability Fight And Purpose 01:16:12 Unconditional Love For Healing
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How to Stay Resilient & Optimistic: Lessons from a Mindfulness Guru
Mar 3101:05:08Tap to summarizeHit by a COVID‑related brain stroke, the doctors told Professor M.S. Rao he wouldn't survive. Then when he does survive, but is left paralyzed on his right side, doctors told him he would never walk again. He refused to accept that ending. In this episode, Rao shares how disciplined self‑talk, a steady spiritual foundation, and a lifetime of resilience helped him rebuild his body and re‑shape his future—one determined step at a time. An Indian Air Force veteran, author of 55 books, and longtime advocate for mindfulness and mental health, Rao opens up about the forces that shaped him: a difficult childhood, the structure and cultural tolerance forged in the military, and the daily practices that anchor his optimism. He explains how concepts like dharma, karma, and service guide his choices, why he believes "life is an echo," and how gratitude, empathy, and ethical living became non‑negotiables in his recovery. In this episode, we explore: How disciplined inner dialogue helped him survive and recover The mantra he repeated when fear and doubt closed in Why fitness, structure, and service became the backbone of his resilience How karma and dharma shape his approach to leadership and healing The role of gratitude, empathy, and respect in rebuilding a meaningful life Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Subconscious Survival 05:50 Dalai Lama Foreword 07:46 Toxic Childhood 13:12 Air Force Lessons 17:00 COVID Stroke Ordeal 21:33 No Doubt Mindset 25:44 Hinduism Dharma Karma 37:29 Writing After Stroke 41:14 Reincarnation and Karma 50:26 Gratitude Daily Ritual 57:08 Final Advice and Wrap Up
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From Shame to Strength: How Honesty, Community, and Courage Sparked Transformation
Mar 2401:00:17Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Bold Journeys, I sit down with Lisa Robinson, Golden Retriever Wrangler, Weightlifting Enthusiast, and Mountain Climber. Lisa opens up about the long road from people‑pleasing and hidden shame to sobriety, adventure, and a faith rooted in love. Lisa's story is a testament to what can happen when you stop hiding, start telling the truth, and let community and challenges reshape you. Her journey reveals that transformation happens one honest step at a time, and it can happen for you too. Core Lessons Lisa Learned Faith grounded in love is stronger than fear — Lisa no longer believes she has to choose between who she is and being loved by God. Sobriety grows through honesty and connection — meetings, therapy, truth‑telling, community, and a very loving sponsor kept her anchored. Community shifts with each season, and each one plays a role in healing and growth. Grit is built step by step, in life and on the mountain, through false summits, setbacks, and staying present in the climb. Saying yes to adventure expands your world — building confidence, belonging, and a deeper sense of self. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Secret Identity Struggle 03:44 Saying Yes to Adventure 07:29 First Trip and Training 17:39 Growing Up in Georgia 21:49 Church and Belonging 24:18 Coming Out and Fallout 27:18 Early Signs and Drinking Spiral 33:07 Faith and Identity Clash 35:42 Relapse and Rock Bottom 36:41 Recovery Program Deep Dive 39:12 Community Beyond Meetings 40:42 Love Over Legalism 43:17 Hiking as Healing 49:39 Rapid Fire Reflections 57:36 Final Advice and Support
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Grit. Faith. Lesson From The First 10 Episodes
Mar 1700:06:01Tap to summarizeTen episodes in, I'm taking a moment to pause and look at what Bold Journeys has already taught me —about grit, faith, resilience, and the power of simply beginning. Reflecting on the nine conversations with people who've pushed through fear, illness, doubt, and the unknown, I'm humbled and awed by their stories - and their courage to share them. I also want to take this moment to thank you for being part of this bold journey with me. I'd love to hear what you like about the show or what new stories you'd like to hear. Thanks! Rob Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 - Celebrating 10 Episodes: The Milestone and Reflection 00:31 - The Heart of Bold Journeys: Sharing Stories of Courage, Faith, and Adventure 01:00 - Overcoming Challenges in Podcasting and Personal Growth 01:28 - The Intertwined Threads of Grit, Faith, and Adventure 02:27 - Daily Faith Practice & Its Role in My Journey 03:26 - Exploring Diverse Faiths and Cultural Stories 03:39 - Expanding Into New Adventures: Sailing, Climbing, Cycling & More 04:09 - Announcing Upcoming Live Podcast Studio & Interviews 04:37 - Your Voice Matters: Share Feedback and Stories You Want to Hear 05:21 - How You Can Support: Sharing Is Caring!
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Overcoming Life's Hardest Challenges: Faith & the Warrior Mindset
Mar 1001:14:42Tap to summarizeWhat makes one person collapse under adversity while another rises? In this conversation, business leader turned sailor and Sailing Life Warriors founder Dave Mortell opens up about a life shaped by childhood abuse, near‑death medical crises, and the loss of his first boat and two dogs in a fire — and how faith, grit, and a long‑held dream to sail the world carried him forward. Dave's journey from trauma to the South Pacific is raw, honest, and deeply human. If you're navigating your own storms, his story will show you the life that can be carved out of pain through a warrior mindset and faith. What Dave Learned the Hard Way Trauma can bury you or build you. His "warrior" mindset isn't bravado — it's the discipline of getting back up when life hits hard. Healing takes time and truth. He didn't fully face his childhood abuse until maturity and mentors gave him the tools to do it. Faith is a lifeline, not a slogan. Dave learned to talk to Jesus like a friend and trust that God wasn't finished with him — even when cancer and medical crises said otherwise. Marriage requires presence. He regrets not supporting his wife well through miscarriages and learned that faith should never replace empathy. Big dreams demand resilience. Losing a boat and two dogs could have ended the journey. Instead, it clarified what mattered: family, preparation, and a community built on shared values. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who is searching for more courage and faith. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Two Choices Mindset 02:56 Sea Life Warrior Origin 06:45 Childhood Trauma Story 08:45 Faith After Abuse 10:44 Air Force Turning Point 16:15 Miscarriages and Marriage Strain 23:32 Aneurysm Scare and Recovery 27:15 Stage Four Melanoma Fight 34:29 Sailing Dream Origins 37:48 Quitting Career for Family Time 38:55 Choosing the First Catamaran 40:18 Cardiologist Shock and Stents 43:07 Boat Fire and Losing the Dogs 56:50 Faith and the Adventure Mindset 01:00:40 Rapid Fire Sea Stories 01:05:32 God and a Personal Relationship 01:11:43 Advice for Aspiring Cruisers
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Transformational Leadership: How Personal Growth Shapes Your Career
Mar 300:45:42Tap to summarizeTransformational leadership isn't something you inherit. It's built through mindset, resilience, and the willingness to do the inner work. This episode of Bold Journeys goes deep into that process with Raj Gupta, Global Head of Partnerships at TCS — a leader shaped not by titles, but by discipline, humility, and purpose. Raj's story begins in a middle‑class home in India, where he watched his father work without ever checking the clock. A major setback early in life forced him to retake his engineering exams, eventually ranking seventh in his state. That moment became a defining lesson in resilience and honest self‑assessment — a theme that runs through his entire career. Across his journey from electronics to software, from India to the U.S., and from contributor to global leader, Raj shares the mindset shifts that shaped his growth. He talks openly about being passed over for opportunities and the discipline of building for the next role while honoring the current one. We explore the habits that keep a leader adaptable and close with the anchors that keep him grounded: health, family, faith, and the belief that leadership is measured not by the followers you gather, but by the leaders you develop. Key Takeaways Mindset drives growth. Your attitude, work ethic, and willingness to do the inner work shape your trajectory more than any opportunity or title. Setbacks are feedback. Honest self‑assessment, clarity of purpose, and the courage to restart turn failure into fuel. Curiosity is a leadership advantage. In a world shaped by AI and rapid change, adaptability matters more than tenure. Keep unlearning and relearning. Humility sustains leadership. Pause before reacting, admit mistakes, listen deeply, and build leaders — not followers. Join the Journey Stay with us, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone who is looking for more resilience, purpose, and advancement in their career. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Quick Tips from Raj 03:10 Raj's Global Role at TCS 04:33 Growing Up in India 07:54 Early Leadership Instincts 09:20 Moving to the United States 15:20 Purpose Over Money 18:01 Fear of Failure Reframed 22:08 Unlearning Over Experience 23:40 Learning from New Grads 25:56 Curiosity in the AI Era 28:24 Culture And Skip Level Leadership 30:35 Leading Gen Z with Humility 32:12 The Parable of the Dirty Window 36:36 Rapid Fire Leadership Rules 40:58 Health Family Work Balance 43:58 Legacy And Admitting Mistakes
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Staying Calm When It Matters: Lessons from 300,000 Miles Offshore
Feb 2401:10:21Tap to summarizeSome people chase adventure. Others build a life around it. Offshore captain Hank Schmitt has done both. In this conversation, Hank traces the long arc of his sailing life, from Long Island summers and high school racing, to oil rig shifts, boat work, deliveries, and eventually founding Offshore Passage Opportunities (OPO). Hank walks through the defining moments that shaped his leadership at sea — dismastings, jury rigged steering, a mid winter rescue, and the quiet discipline required to keep a crew steady when the ocean has other plans. We talk about navigation before GPS, the mindset of a solo Atlantic crossing, and why self‑reliance still matters in a world where Starlink can make the ocean feel smaller than it is. And we explore OPO's decade of work in Dominica — rebuilding after hurricanes, expanding moorings, and strengthening a local sailing community. Hank shares how OPO began in the pre‑internet days, after watching aspiring crew fly to the Canaries to "walk the docks" hoping for a ride. He built a better way to connect captains, delivery skippers, and sailors who want real sea miles — a system that's helped hundreds of sailors gain confidence, competence, and offshore experience. Here are five of my takeaways from Hank's approach to staying calm under pressure and how we can apply them in our lives: 1. Lead without leaking panic At sea, a skipper's energy sets the tone. On land, it's the same. People read your face before they hear your words. When you stay steady, you give others permission to stay steady too. Calm leadership isn't about pretending everything is fine — it's about refusing to amplify fear. 2. Deal with what's in front of you Good seamanship is solving the problem that exists, not the one you're afraid might happen next. Life works the same way. Most situations get worse when we dramatize them. They get better when we take the next clear step, then the next, without spiraling. 3. Slow down before you act On a boat, taking the wrong action can make a small issue a big one. In life, rushing decisions often does the same. The discipline is the pause — taking a breath to choose intention over impulse. 4. Repetition builds self‑reliance Confidence offshore comes from miles, mistakes, calms and storms. Confidence in life comes from the same ingredients. You don't become resilient by reading about resilience. You become resilient by living through things, learning from them, and showing up again. 5. Expect systems to fail — and stay adaptable Boats break. Plans break. Technology fails. People disappoint. Calm comes from expecting that reality and preparing for it, not from hoping everything goes smoothly. When you know your backups — your skills, your values, your ability to improvise — you stop fearing the unknown. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, follow the show for more real stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who could use a steady voice in their corner. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Staying Calm at Sea: Pressure, Leadership, and Problem-Solving 01:55 Podcast Intro: Meet Hank Schmidt & Offshore Passage Opportunities (OPO) 05:10 300,000 Miles of Experience: Dismastings, Jury Rigs, and Self-Sufficiency 10:40 Where the Calm Comes From: Early Independence and Life Choices 11:37 Building OPO Before the Internet: Boat Shows, Side Hustles, and Survival 14:19 Falling in Love with Sailing: Long Island Childhood to High School Racing 17:12 First Big Passages: Florida Dockwalking to Offshore Oil Rigs 23:59 Solo Crossing on a Shoestring: Minimal Gear, Old-School Navigation 24:52 Speed vs. Soul Offshore: Tech, Starlink, and the Changing Ocean Experience 28:43 OPO's Core Concept: Matching Crew, Building Skills, and Win-Win Deliveries 32:02 Rob's Path Through OPO: From Dominica to the SWAN Program 34:12 Why Dominica Became a Focus & Building a Mooring Field 39:01 Dominica's "Back in Time" Cruising & Why It's So Special 46:48 Modern Forecasting, Weather Windows, and Fast Swan Passages 48:25 Why Offshore Sailing Hits Different: Quiet, Connection, and Community 51:58 Rapid Fire + Real Skills: Gear, Autopilot Myths, and Steering Lessons 58:17 Scariest Moment & Dream Sailor to Meet (America's Cup Story) 01:01:50 Rallies, Self-Reliance, and Getting Younger People into Sailing 01:06:18 Legacy, Scaling Back, and How to Take Your First Step into Sailing
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