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Meg Tirrell
Menopause Talking about it can still feel a little taboo. My name's Meg Tirrell. I'm a CNN medical correspondent and I am of the age and demographic that I get fed a lot of social media content like this.
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Dr. Jen Gunter
The reason you struggle with dropping fat in menopause is because you're sleeping on this.
Meg Tirrell
I'm getting ads for weighted vests and warnings to watch out for rising cortisol levels. It's a lot even for a health journalist like me to wade through. But thankfully I'm not alone. I recently sat down with Emmy winning writer and comedian Samantha Bee, who shared her journey leading up to menopause with me and how the way we talk about it is changing.
Samantha Bee
Less than 10 years ago, nobody was talking about menopause and I mean like zero people. So we're all kind of talking about it now and you can read about it and people are like, yeah, but eight years ago, zip. Like zero information. Nobody in the conversation. Not cool. Very unsexy. Mention it and you are just like a witch crone who lives in a cave. Don't come out.
Meg Tirrell
If you missed it. That's last week's Chasing Life episode And during our chat, Samantha told me, there's one person who's really helped her navigate all of this.
Samantha Bee
I would say that Dr. Gunter is my spirit animal. She told me that some of what happens when you are in perimenopause is that your brain is creating new neural pathways, because it is. It's kind of cleaning itself out. It's kind of scrubbing out all of the neural pathways related to, like, getting pregnant, feeding a baby, like all of those, like, early childhood maternal pathways in your brain. It clears a little bit of space. So it can be a time of tremendous creativity.
Meg Tirrell
Dr. Jen Gunter is a gynecologist and author. Her book the Menopause Manifesto is a New York Times bestseller. She's earned a name for herself as the Internet's OBGYN for her work debunking some of the myths that surround this stage of life. And these days, there seem to be plenty of those. So today, Sanjay has once again agreed to pass me the mic for part two of our deep dive into menopause. And I decided to sit down with Dr. Gunter to get her help. Demystify. Demystifying all of it. If you want a little help separating menopause myths from the actual medicine, this one's for you. This is chasing life.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Dr. Jen Gunter, thank you so much for being with us today.
Podcast Host
Thank you for having me.
Dr. Jen Gunter
So last week, we talked with Samantha Bee, who is a big fan of yours. I'm sure you already know that. And one of the things we talked with her about is that as she was going through all of this, it took her a long time to know what it actually was. Is this a common experience that you hear from people?
Podcast Host
Yeah, I mean, I think that it's related to several different factors. So first of all, we don't talk enough about the menopause experience. So if you've never heard about it, how would you really know what's going on with your body? Right. So there's that a lot of women get their symptoms dismissed, but also the symptoms can be really nonspecific. You can have irregular periods for other reasons. You can have heavy bleeding for other reasons. You can have hot flashes for other reasons. Brain fog, just not feeling yourself. So there's, I think, a combination of reasons that a lot of people don't realize that's what it is until they're in the middle of it. And, you know, yeah, we don't talk about menopause or really human physiology in general in any kind of good way. And I think that most people probably graduate high school knowing more about frog biology than human biology. And then if you look at human biology, they probably know the least about the reproductive tract. And then if you look at about sort of the reproductive tract, they probably know the least about menopause.
Dr. Jen Gunter
That is such a good point. Well, let's talk about it and really try to kind of demystify I think what this process is. So I turned 40 at the end of last year and I have been led to believe by social media that now I need to wear a weighted vest. I cannot do too much cardio because my face is going to puff up because of all the cortisol. And there's just a lot of stuff coming at people of my age about what to expect with perimenopause. Like, can you tell us what we actually should expect, what to expect when you're expecting perimenopause? Sure.
Podcast Host
Well, first of all, you're still a human, so things like, oh, cardio is bad for you. That doesn't apply. Those are people trying to sell like coaching services or you know, they're cherry picking one bad article. Fear mongering. That's what it's all about because that's what gets attention on social media. So menopause is your last menstrual period. That's around the age of 51 in the United States. And then if you look at the range where that can happen, that's kind of age 45 to 55. And the menopause transition is sort of the hormonal changes that start to lead up. And we might refer to that as perimenopause. And perimenopause, the average age, it starts as 45. So for some people it can be younger, some people it can be older, it can last about four to 10 years. And that, that's when symptoms can start, but they don't always. It's really a wide range of experiences. In general, we say perimenopause has started when you start to notice changes with your menstrual cycle that are happening like on a regular basis. So normally cycle to cycle, we say that you can have a seven day swing. So it could be every 28 days and every 32 days and every 25. And that's all normal. And with the very first start of the menopause transition or perimenopause, we're starting to see more than seven days. And so that means that you're likely in the early menopause transition. And then when you're, you're skipping a period Then you're probably likely in the late menopause transition, late perimenopause. You probably have about one to three years to go.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Hmm. And so we always hear about, you know, I'm in menopause, or, you know, when we do see it represented in pop culture, it's usually things like hot flashes and things like that. But what you're telling us is actually menopause is really, like, one point in time that you can't really tell until, like, at least a year after it's actually happened. And what we think of as menopause and going through all of these different symptoms is actually sort of perimenopause. That's the. The time when you're experiencing all these things.
Podcast Host
So I would tell people to not get too hung up on perimenopause and menopause, because there are only a couple of situations where it matters. So when we're studying something medically, we need to have a hard start date. Right. Like, if we want to study everybody who's similar in a group, we need to be able to say, okay, well, all these people are after their final period, or all these people are before their final period. And it also matters because we can't tell you that you can't get pregnant until you're kind of a year past your last period. So for somebody who has concerns about fertility, it matters then. And it also matters when we're investigating irregular bleeding. So if you have bleeding after your final period, when you're after. When you're in menopause, where we need to rule out cancer. So those are kind of the three reasons why it really matters. And for a lot of people, that doesn't matter day to day because you can have symptoms in both. I like to call it the menopause experience or the menopause continuum.
Dr. Jen Gunter
What are some of the things that are most commonly experienced during this time that people should be aware of?
Podcast Host
Yeah, so the most common symptom is irregular bleeding. I mean, I'm sure there's a rare unicorn who had regular periods and then, boom, stopped. Just like there's people who didn't have any pain, you know, during pregnancy and delivery. There's always. There's always one. So that could happen. Hot flashes are also very common, wide range of experiences. So, you know, maybe about. Maybe 75% of women, 80% will be bothered. For some people, they can start earlier. Some people not till after their final period. Some people, they can go on for more than 10 years. Other people, it's going to be Shorter brain fog is another common symptom that we hear about. Disturbed sleep, joint pain is another common symptom. Depression is something else that can happen. Heart palpitations, something that's reported. Vaginal symptoms such as dryness and pain with sex and then irritation, things like that. And then as I alluded to, there's also sort of a change in health trajectories. So an increased risk of osteoporosis, a change in health trajectory for cardiovascular disease, diabetes, metabolic syndrome. And you know, those are probably like the most, the most common ones that we hear about.
Dr. Jen Gunter
This sounds great.
Podcast Host
Well, think about all these things that are also with aging. Right. So with aging you have these increased risks as well. You just have to look at it as well. This is how your body changes. And isn't it good to know about how your body changes? I think the most important thing is to talk about it so people can be open and honest and then they can make educated decisions.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Yeah, well, that was one of the things I really liked that I read in your book. You pointed out that women who live in cultures that use terminology that references a change of life instead of menopause tend to be less bothered by common symptoms of menopause. Can you talk us through that a little bit?
Podcast Host
Yeah, I mean, it's fascinating, but how you talk about something actually changes your thoughts about it. And you know, this doesn't mean people don't have hot flashes. It doesn't mean that people are making it up or it's in their head. It means that we have a mind, body experience. So yeah, if you think about it, if everybody around you is telling you that you're an ugly old hag whose time has come and you know, all you're seeing are 70 year old men dating 20 year old girls and you're going to start to feel like you could see how someone would feel worse about maybe the changes happening to their body. Although men get euphemisms, they have erectile dysfunction, we don't say penile failure. If we talked about men's bodies the way we talked about women's bodies, Woo. That would be a whole different ball game. And you know, so I just think it's, it's important that we have a level playing field in terminology as everything else.
Meg Tirrell
What are some of the things we.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Hear so much about? Hormone treatment, hormone replacement kinds of things. There's all these different supplements I was recently told by my doctor to take, you know, vitamin D and a daily multivitamin. And I was sort of skeptical of it. Just because I was like, I didn't even know if I'm low on vitamin D. But then I checked with my OB GYN and she was like, yeah, you probably do need vitamin D. And so what are the things that have data to suggest you do need them and what doesn't?
Podcast Host
Sure. So if we want to start at the beginning. So the data would be, you want to make sure you're eating a balanced, healthy diet with 25 grams of fiber a day. So that would be. So you want to talk about, like, your foundation, and that would be part of your foundation, because a lot of people don't. So you want to think about that. There's no special menopause diet, intermittent fasting or whatever. They're all. There's no special menopause diet. So that's one of the things getting your exercise in. And you mentioned earlier hearing a lot about resistance training. And it's true, resistance training is really good for women, especially for protecting bone health and muscle health as we age, because we also all lose muscle as we age and women start out with less muscle mass than men. But you also need to do cardio, you know, work your cardiovascular system. And also thinking about your. How active you are during the day, your daily movement, those three things. You don't have to be lifting heavy. You don't have to do whatever this number of reps for this. Like, there's. There's so many people making it more difficult for people to enter into the exercise, the, especially the resistance training sphere. I mean, imagine if I said, oh, you have to run a marathon. There's no other way to do cardio. Like, right. So, you know, we have to make it accessible for people. Because if you look at women in menopause and what they're doing, sort of these basics, eating healthy, exercising, the recommended amounts, and not smoking. Think about those as the three basics. Only 7% are doing all three. So there's a lot of room to move. So that's kind of the basic. Then you think about the next level. What can you do? Well, what is bothering you? What's your bother factor? Are you having irregular bleeding? Are you having hot flashes? Is your depression getting worse? What's bothering you? And so I think it's important to let people know that you have, like a buffet of options. And here are the options, here are the things that might work the best, here are the things that are studied. I encourage people to make a list, and then when they come to the doctor, try to focus on the top two. And then you can start to gradually work down the list for supplements. It depends what you're doing. Vitamin D is a little bit controversial in that people have done so many studies with it and it hasn't really panned out to do much except raise the vitamin D levels. That being said, especially in places where people get little sun and in northern climates, taking 600 to 800 international units of vitamin D a day is not going to harm anybody. There is some possibility that high, high doses can cause. So, you know, you're taking 6, 800 international units a day. That's great. You just want to take one that has been USP or NSF certified. Those are independent third party. And as for any other supplement, you know, I, I think that if somebody's got an individual health concern, obviously if you know you're low in iron, you need an iron supplement. Right. Things like that. But from a. Is there another menopause supplement that we recommend? Not really.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Well, there's so much talk of them right now, you know, on social media. There was just an Oprah special about menopause. I read your blog posts about it and one of the things I thought was really, you know, a good way of putting it was you mentioned we are in a menopause gold rush right now with celebrities, medical professionals and influencers all trying to cash in. Can you tell us more about that and some of the things you think are most concerning that you're seeing out there?
Podcast Host
Yeah, I mean, in the United States, if you want to get rich, supplements is a great way to do it. I actually went through the process and set up my own supplement company to see how much money and how much effort it would cost. I didn't go through with it because I'm ethical. And it's a stunningly little amount of work. So it's very easy. It's like printing money. And so we see people moving more and more and more into this market and pushing it. There are influencers who have ads, you know, that they may be working with supplement companies. And the problem with supplements is they're generally understudied. They often don't contain what they claim. And people cherry pick the literature and there's a lot of money to be made. And so if these products really worked, people would study what they. You'd think they'd want to study them. So I just tell people to be, to not take health advice from people who are selling you stuff. Because if it was a pharmaceutical company that said, oh, you should take our hormone or oh, you should take our. Are you know, antidepressant, you'd say, you know what, I should probably get independent information here. I probably shouldn't trust the company.
Meg Tirrell
So where can you go for reliable information? Dr. Gunter shares some resources after the break.
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Dr. Jen Gunter
I do a lot of reporting on like GLP medicines, the new weight loss drugs, and I've heard from a lot of people going through menopause that they associate recent weight gain with menopause Is weight gain caused by menopause or is it another one of these things that can kind of happen at this time of life?
Podcast Host
Weight gain itself, if you're just looking at the number of pounds that you're putting on, follows an age related trajectory. Nobody likes to hear that. I often get a lot of insults about that and it does, it follows an age related trajectory. However, the weight that you put on tends to be more fat and so, and it tends to go around the middle. So body composition does change. And so it is true that you might say, I used to have this shape and now I have this shape and that is related to menopause. So many people will notice that it's going around their weight waist and we don't actually understand why that is. People have studied menopause hormone therapy for weight loss and it hasn't shown to be effective for that. But obviously if you're sleeping poorly, that can be a co factor for weight gain. And if you're sleeping better now, that could be helpful. So you kind of have to think beyond like what are your other symptoms? Or say you have a lot of joint pain from menopause and you can't exercise and you're in the small percentage that hormone therapy helps your joint pain. Well, you know what, maybe you can now exercise. So you kind of have to look at it that way. But yeah, there's a lot of predatory people out there telling you that, you know, hormones can, can help you lose weight or they can cause weight gain. And people with all kinds of special programs related to it.
Dr. Jen Gunter
What have they shown that? Hormone replacement therapy, if that's what you.
Podcast Host
Call it here, Menopause hormone therapy.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Menopause hormone therapy, what has it been proven to be helpful for? With the caveats that as you noted, not everybody has the same outcomes from, from this.
Podcast Host
Yeah. So it's the gold standard treatment for hot flashes and night sweats is estrogen, which is part of menopause hormone therapy. If you have a uterus, then you also need another drug to protect your uterus because estrogen will cause cancer of the uterus over time. That's a property of the medication. It's a property of the hormone. Estrogen in your body can do that. So menopause hormone therapy, gold standard for hot flashes and night sweats, everything. And it's also helpful for prevention of osteoporosis. But everything else is not fda, not an FDA approved indication. And we have varying levels of quality data to support it. So in this area, we kind of have to say, well, it might be reasonable to try. I kind of call these, like the yellow light indications. So, for example, there's some data to show that estrogen can be helpful in the menopause transition for depression, but that it is not helpful after the menopause transition for depression. So once you're in menopause, antidepressants are also effective and they get a bad rap. They're not a bad option. They're both different options and they are both effective in the menopause transition. And even together, they can be synergistic and give a greater effect. Brain fog. There are no studies looking at estrogen for brain fog. And so anybody claiming that estrogen can do that is literally just making that up because there are no, you know, there's no studies. Is it reasonable to try for brain fog? It wouldn't be unreasonable to try menopause hormone therapy to see if it helps, but it would be inappropriate for a doctor to go online or, you know, to say, this is absolutely, definitely going to help you. Right. Those are slightly different things. You know, one is accurate and one is, you know, sensational. And so a lot of the symptoms are like that. You can say, well, it might be reasonable to give it a try. And let's see how it works for you. Understanding that there could also be a placebo response. And so we just have to be careful because I often see people who have had a partial response and then they keep getting the dose escalated, they keep improving, and then all of a sudden now they're on doses that are equivalent to the birth control pill or sometimes even higher, and, you know, they're still not better. So I think it's just really important to just be open and honest. But also with something like brain fog, you know, you want to make sure it's also not like iron deficiency, because estrogen is not going to help that.
Dr. Jen Gunter
One of the things we were. We've talked about a little bit is the social media discourse around this right now. And I wonder your reflections on it, because in some ways there's a lot more conversations about menopause. People are talking about it a lot more. Samantha B. Was telling us she thinks it's really Gen X that has, like, said we need to talk about this stuff and this generation is doing things for my generation generation, and hopefully my generation will help the next generation and we'll talk about it more. And that seems like a good thing. But at the same time, there's a lot of misinformation. There's a lot of what you said, you know, causing fear often to try to sell things. How do you reflect on the social media discourse around the menopause transition?
Podcast Host
Yeah, so, you know, I've been pretty active on social media since 2010 and I would say that the discourse over the last three to four years, you know, shortly after my book came out, I would say has really changed. And I think there is a lot of people realizing that there's a lot of money in menopause and the menopause supplements the leading with fear that every, every six months it's a new thing. Right. I mean there's women coming in 32 saying oh I, I might be in perimenopause. And, and when you talk to them, they don't have any of the symptoms that will, you know, line up and you know, maybe they have depression and they've been led to believe by social media that depression at 32, when they have rock solid normal periods and nothing, nothing else to suggest it is, is perimenopause and that's doing women a disservice. That's the patriarchy. Right. Giving people disinformation about their bodies serves misogyny. So I think that people need to be very careful about first of all researching laterally. So if you find information on social media, you can't use that same person to further research that topic. You need to move to a different browser and you need to research independently and find another source, find a vetted reliable source. Does I say the same thing or not? If somebody is selling you a product, it's a sales pitch like we're seeing now people offering bespoke coaching services like where it's twelve hundred dollars a year to join or you know, things like that. And I just, you know, I, I, we don't have any outcome data from any of this stuff, so how helpful it is, we don't know. And the third thing I would say is if somebody's leading with fear, be very mindful about that. You, you can absolutely talk about lots of subjects without leading into fear. But fear is what drives the algorithm on social media. So I think that you just have to, have to kind of look at what they're selling and the whole totality. And I get it's really hard, it's very easy to get sucked in in social media. That happens to me about other topics.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Yeah, I think that's such a good point. Even switching your browser or let's say you're seeing something on Instagram, then to you need to maybe move off of Instagram, because as you mentioned, the algorithm then starts to feed you similar things you think you are by just going to a different thing, but you may not be be.
Podcast Host
Absolutely. And that's. That is one of the hallmarks of reading laterally. You've got to open a new browser, you've got to get off that site and go somewhere else. Because we all mistake repetition for accuracy. That's a human trait. And so what is Instagram? What is TikTok? It's repetition. That's what it is. And I would say that one of the best places people can look are the guidelines from medical professional societies. And so what I tell people is if you want to fact check something, put in your Google search weighted vests and then put in osteoporosis society, put in menopause society, put in something like that. The Canadian Osteoporosis Society is fantastic site.
Dr. Jen Gunter
One of the things Samantha mentioned to us that she said you really helped her with was understanding what's going on in her brain during menopause and how that really does change and, and kind of gives you this new beginning in some ways where you're, you, you are moving to a different stage of your life. And she said you helped her think about that. Can you tell us a little bit more about what's happening there?
Podcast Host
There are a lot of changes in the brain that are going on. And, you know, they're always. Whenever there's a change, people always paint it as dangerous or scary or, you know, I think that we're still trying to understand all of the impact of all of the changes with menopause. So I think that while that research is being sorted out that people should, you know, cool their jets. We need to clinical trials. Many women describe a clarity in menopause once they're kind of done all this chaos. And whether it's because, you know, their brain has pruned all the pathways that are no longer needed for reproduction and they've got all this, like, space left. I mean, it's a bad, you know, I'm butchering the, you know, the neurophysiology of it. But you do kind of get the point. Like, you have a lot of your brain is occupied with, with reproduction, selling this, sending the signals back and forth. And who knows, maybe once that's not needed, maybe it's a clarity. Maybe it's just aging and you don't care anymore. It's also possible that. But the thing that I would say is that, you know, menopause women in menopause have Historically been incredible contributors to their society. Right. So if you look at studies from traditional hunter gatherers, women in menopause are providing the bulk of the calories for the family unit. They're the ones out there, you know, doing the gathering, bringing the food in. And if you think about a lot of work, like that's, you know, that's, that's a lot of physical labor historically, you know, what do you think is, what's the value of somebody after they finish reproducing? We have this very patriarchal view that we're only a value if we're popping out babies. Right. And the thing is, is women have been living far beyond their reproductive capacity for a long, long time. But if you think about it histor that women in menopause were almost certainly, you know, the knowledge bearers in the tribe. They had the information, the wisdom. If there's only a drought every 15 or 20 years, you need someone who's lived long enough to remember where to go get the water. And so I would say that there is a lot of collective wisdom that we have as we age. And our society has downplayed that and downplayed that value. But there's a lot of women thriving and super successful, you know, in their 50s, 60s, and 70s and beyond. So it doesn't, it doesn't stop with your last period.
Dr. Jen Gunter
I also hear a lot about rage. Does that go away?
Podcast Host
I mean, that's been played up. It hasn't been studied. So I think that it's hard to make a comment about something that hasn't been studied. There's a lot to be ragey about right now. Right. So I just think that's also important to acknowledge. It's enraging to not have your symptoms taken seriously. But if you want to think about it from a physiologic standpoint, there certainly are some women who can have a worsening of their PMS in their menopause transition. So that's an important thing to acknowledge. And you know, anger and rage can be part of PMS also, at the beginning of the menopause transition, there's a subset of women who have shorter cycles before they get longer. And that means that you're shorting the part of the cycle, if you have PMS where you feel good. We also don't really understand the effect of some of the chaotic hormones. So you can have sky high estrogen levels, some cycles, which is, as in the menopause transition, this is something called loop ovulation. And what's the impact of that what's the impact of having sky high estrogen and then going back down? So is it conceivable or possible that people could have sort of, you know, symptoms related to that? Behavioral, neuropsychiatric type symptoms? Absolutely. Do I have good data to say what, what's causing it and what isn't? No. Do I have, you know, I also talk to women who are going through the menopause transition, who are working full time, they're helping their kids with college essays and helping their kids get into college at night, and they're doing the bulk of the emotional labor in the house in a heterosexual relationship. Yeah, I'd be angry too, because you don't have time to take care of yourself or go out for a walk. So I just think that you have to sort of step back and say, like, what's going on holistically in your life? What are the other symptoms that are going on? And, and what can we do about that?
Dr. Jen Gunter
The last question I have for you is not necessarily to do with menopause, although it could be if you would like. But of course. This is Dr. Sanjay Gupta's podcast called Chasing Life. And the question he loves to ask his guests is how they chase life.
Podcast Host
Oh, how do I chase life? Can I swear?
Dr. Jen Gunter
Sure. I think we have a bleep.
Podcast Host
I don't fucking care what anybody thinks about me. Be true to you. Like, like being your authentic you to me is the most liberating thing possible. So I would say that that's for me is like trying to, trying to be my authentic me and reveling in being my authentic me, I think is, is how I'm chasing it because that makes me super happy. And when I'm, you know, or it makes me less encumbered, I would say, and when you're unencumbered, it's a lot easier to enjoy many other things.
Dr. Jen Gunter
Such good advice. And I bet it took a while to get there. So I'd love to hear about that sometime.
Podcast Host
You know what, it's a long process and maybe that's one of the clarities that I've had with menopause. So think about that.
Dr. Jen Gunter
All right, A wonderful parting message. Dr. Jen Gunter, thank you so much.
Podcast Host
Thank you so much for having me.
Meg Tirrell
That's all of my conversation with Dr. Jen Gunter, new York Times best selling Author and OB GYN. Dr. Sanjay Gupta will be back next week.
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Chasing Life: Episode Summary – "Making Sense of Menopause"
Introduction
In the May 9, 2025 episode of CNN's "Chasing Life," host Meg Tirrell delves into the complex and often misunderstood topic of menopause. Aimed at demystifying the physiological and emotional changes women experience during this transitional phase, the episode features an insightful conversation with Dr. Jen Gunter, a renowned gynecologist and author of the New York Times bestseller The Menopause Manifesto. Together, they explore the nuances of perimenopause and menopause, debunk prevalent myths, and discuss the impact of social media on women's perceptions of this life stage.
Changing Conversations: Samantha Bee’s Perspective
The episode opens with Meg Tirrell sharing her recent discussion with Emmy-winning writer and comedian Samantha Bee. Bee reflects on the evolving discourse surrounding menopause:
Samantha Bee (02:12): "Less than 10 years ago, nobody was talking about menopause... Mention it and you are just like a witch crone who lives in a cave."
Bee emphasizes the shift from taboo silence to open conversations, highlighting the generational changes spearheaded by Gen X in making menopause a more approachable topic.
Expert Insights with Dr. Jen Gunter
Dr. Jen Gunter joins Meg Tirrell to provide a medical perspective on menopause. Their conversation is structured around several key themes:
Understanding Perimenopause vs. Menopause (04:13 - 09:05)
Dr. Gunter clarifies the distinction between perimenopause—the transitional phase leading up to menopause—and menopause itself, which is officially diagnosed after a year without menstruation. She explains that perimenopause typically begins around age 45 and can last between four to ten years, during which women may experience a range of symptoms due to hormonal fluctuations.
Meg Tirrell (04:34): "So there's, you have a lot of changes with menopause. Sanjay has agreed to pass me the mic for part two of our deep dive into menopause."
Common Symptoms and Health Impacts (09:05 - 12:30)
The discussion outlines common symptoms such as irregular bleeding, hot flashes, brain fog, disturbed sleep, joint pain, depression, heart palpitations, and vaginal dryness. Dr. Gunter also touches on long-term health risks like osteoporosis and cardiovascular disease.
Dr. Jen Gunter (10:22): "Some people don't realize symptoms are related to menopause until they're in the middle of it."
Cultural and Linguistic Influences (10:43 - 11:57)
Dr. Gunter highlights how terminology affects women's experiences, noting that cultures referring to menopause as a "change of life" tend to report fewer bothersome symptoms.
Meg Tirrell (10:59): "It's not unsexy anymore. We need to have a level playing field in terminology."
Hormone Therapy and Supplements (12:30 - 17:04)
The conversation delves into hormone replacement therapy (HRT), its benefits, and misconceptions propagated by the supplement industry. Dr. Gunter warns against the unregulated promotion of supplements on social media, emphasizing the importance of evidence-based treatments.
Podcast Host (14:10): "If somebody's got an individual health concern, obviously if you know you're low in iron, you need an iron supplement. Right. Things like that."
Dr. Jen Gunter (19:46): "Menopause hormone therapy has been proven to be helpful for hot flashes and prevention of osteoporosis."
The Role of Social Media and Misinformation (17:14 - 27:34)
Both Meg and Dr. Gunter express concerns over the proliferation of misinformation on social platforms. They discuss how fear-based marketing and unverified claims can mislead women, leading to unnecessary anxiety and poor health decisions.
Meg Tirrell (24:23): "People need to be very careful about first of all researching laterally... Look at what they're selling and the whole totality."
Dr. Jen Gunter (26:38): "Repetition on platforms like Instagram can be mistaken for accuracy."
Weight Gain and Metabolic Changes (19:26 - 23:43)
Addressing the common concern of weight gain during menopause, the speakers clarify that while overall weight tends to increase with age, the distribution of fat may shift towards the midsection. They debunk myths linking menopause directly to weight gain, noting that factors like sleep disturbances and decreased muscle mass play significant roles.
Podcast Host (21:12): "Menopause hormone therapy is the gold standard for hot flashes and night sweats, not for weight loss."
Emotional Well-being and Rage (30:20 - 32:12)
The episode touches on the emotional turmoil some women face during menopause, including feelings of rage and frustration. Dr. Gunter emphasizes the importance of considering both physiological changes and external stressors, such as caregiving responsibilities, that may contribute to these emotions.
Podcast Host (30:24): "It's enraging to not have your symptoms taken seriously."
Embracing Authenticity: Chasing Life
Concluding the episode, Meg Tirrell shares her personal approach to "chasing life" amidst the challenges of menopause. She advocates for authenticity and self-acceptance as key tools for navigating this life stage with joy and resilience.
Podcast Host (32:30): "Being your authentic you to me is the most liberating thing possible."
Dr. Gunter echoes the sentiment, highlighting the value and wisdom that women accrue beyond their reproductive years.
Dr. Jen Gunter (27:55): "Women in menopause have historically been incredible contributors to their society... There’s a lot of collective wisdom that we have as we age."
Conclusion
"Making Sense of Menopause" offers a comprehensive and empathetic exploration of menopause, blending medical expertise with personal narratives to empower women. By addressing myths, providing evidence-based information, and encouraging open dialogue, the episode serves as a valuable resource for anyone seeking to understand and navigate the menopause transition.
Notable Quotes with Timestamps
Samantha Bee (02:12): "Less than 10 years ago, nobody was talking about menopause... Mention it and you are just like a witch crone who lives in a cave."
Meg Tirrell (04:34): "So there's, you have a lot of changes with menopause... deep dive into menopause."
Dr. Jen Gunter (10:22): "Some people don't realize symptoms are related to menopause until they're in the middle of it."
Meg Tirrell (10:59): "It's not unsexy anymore. We need to have a level playing field in terminology."
Dr. Jen Gunter (19:46): "Menopause hormone therapy has been proven to be helpful for hot flashes and prevention of osteoporosis."
Meg Tirrell (24:23): "People need to be very careful about first of all researching laterally... Look at what they're selling and the whole totality."
Dr. Jen Gunter (26:38): "Repetition on platforms like Instagram can be mistaken for accuracy."
Podcast Host (21:12): "Menopause hormone therapy is the gold standard for hot flashes and night sweats, not for weight loss."
Dr. Jen Gunter (27:55): "Women in menopause have historically been incredible contributors to their society... There’s a lot of collective wisdom that we have as we age."
Podcast Host (32:30): "Being your authentic you to me is the most liberating thing possible."