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Sanjay Gupta (0:38)
Welcome to Paging Dr. Gupta. As you know by now, this is the podcast where your health questions drive the conversation, and it's so fascinating to hear what's on your mind. So, Kira, who's up first?
Kira (0:51)
All right, Sanjay. First up, we have Annie from New York City, and I feel like now is the time that a lot of people are starting to spring clean, and so her question couldn't come at a better time. So let's take a listen.
Annie (1:03)
Hi, this is Annie. I'm 22, and I'm calling because I'm wondering if you have any thoughts on how our space impacts our happiness. Living in New York, our quarters are very tight. My room is very small, and I'm wondering how organization and space impacts my happiness and whether I should be prioritizing that more to increase my quality of life.
Sanjay Gupta (1:25)
Well, Annie, first of all, thank you for the question. I have to tell you, you're 22 years old. I have three daughters who are just a little bit younger than you. So this topic comes up in our own home all the time. And my oldest daughter, she's now in college, and we just had a conversation about her space recently as well. And I'll tell you, it's interesting because I think when they were younger, my daughters were not great about keeping their space uncluttered, but it has changed throughout their lives. So maybe these things sort of evolve. I'm not sure, but I'd be curious about that for you as well. Was this something that you dealt with your whole life, sort of the idea of thinking about organization, or is this something more recent? Nevertheless, you know, there's the old adage that a cluttered space leads to a cluttered mind. Not everyone agrees with that, but I think there's probably some degree of truth. Research has shown that living in a cluttered environment can trigger anxiety, it can trigger stress, and it can trigger something that I've come to describe as cognitive burden. It's almost like you have a certain amount of cognitive resilience every day. If you're living in a cluttered space, it may soak up some of that cognitive resilience and adds sort of an additional cognitive burden that you don't need. So the space that we live in affects our mood, it affects our stress, it affects our overall well being. I think part of the problem is that just initiating what to tackle first, how to prioritize what to tackle first, that is the big challenge, just the initiation phase. There's a sense of chaos that makes those simple, usually simple everyday tasks just feel harder. So that means the key is to not make yourself feel bad about it. Because when you beat yourself up or label yourself as lazy for not tackling the simple task, that's not motivating, that's additionally draining. That adds to the cognitive load, the cognitive burden, the shame that we feel uses valuable mental energy, making it harder for our brains to focus and get things done. So I think there's a really important lesson in there, which is a simple one. Just start. Just start organizing. Just start decluttering. By the way, perfectionists, they're not off the hook either, because the thing about trying to maintain a perfect space, that can also increase anxiety because things are not going to stay perfectly clean forever. And that's going to leave you unable to fully relax or ever enjoy your space because you're always thinking about decluttering it, because nothing stays perfect forever. So. So the goal should not be perfection. It should be about creating a space that works for you, not against you. So daily life feels a bit easier. But again, just starting, just initiating, just doing something. That's probably the critical first step. As a general rule, Annie, cleaning and organizing isn't easy for everyone.
