
Avery shares the big news: the Woods have officially made the leap back from Arizona to California! In this heartfelt episode, she opens up about what sparked the move—from exciting career shifts to the pull of being closer to family and a stronger sense of community. Avery reflects on the highs and lows of leaving their Arizona home behind, including the challenges they faced and the emotions tied to that chapter of their lives.
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Hi guys. Well if you have not seen on social media we moved and we left Arizona which is crazy to finally say out loud. So we are back to being California residents and I'm so excited. I was hysterical driving away and then when I was leaving the driveway I noticed the kids height markings in the garage on the door frame. Oh my God, I about lost it. Oh my God. I think I popped some blood vessels in my eyes. I'm gonna start a house hunting series I think on TikTok because we toured a house the other day and nothing makes me hornier than Zillow. I'm just gonna be honest with you. The other thing too is I feel like when we moved it was such a clean slate for me. Here's the thing, Cadbury Eggs just. I know this is a moving podcast but I just want to say one thing. What you be putting in those bitches? Cuz I'm telling you the crunch with the creaminess, they only come out once a year so it's like you have to go ham. Hi, welcome to Cheers. I'm your Host Avery Woods. Hi, guys. Well, if you have not seen on social media, we moved and we left Arizona, which is crazy to finally say out loud. We have been planning this for so long behind the scenes, but we really wanted to keep it private just because our safety has been compromised so many times. And I didn't want to have our Arizona house for sale while we were still living there. So I made a YouTube video that's most likely live before this episode goes live. So on my personal YouTube, I recorded the last two months of the moving process, packing up, coming to California, all of that. So if you like a more visual vlog style, instead of just listening to me talk, go check that out. But, yeah, like I just said, we are back in California, which is so crazy and exciting to say. I'm so happy to be back here. David and I are both from here, but we didn't move to a place where we've ever lived before. So it's been a bit of a trial and error process and kind of just feeling it out. This is also the first time we've ever moved into a house with a lease and not purchasing a home. Anytime we've rented, it was always apartments. And we made the mistake when we bought our Arizona home of never viewing it in person. We saw the Zillow listing, and this is when we came from San Diego to Arizona in 2019. So we have lived in that house in Arizona for five and a half years, which is insane. We bought that house when Ziggy was 10 months old. So so many memories. And we bought the house without ever seeing it. We never shopped for homes. We just saw one online and kind of pulled the trigger. We knew the area. We wanted to live in Arizona when we bought it in 2019, we obviously got it at a great price, especially coming from San Diego. And that was before the housing market got insane. So we were very lucky when we bought that home. And don't get me wrong, it was an amazing house. We obviously made so many memories in that house. We brought Stevie home in that house. I mean, like I said, Ziggy was 10 months old, so it's really the only house he's ever remembered. And that's their childhood home. So it was definitely not easy to leave and leave all of those memories. But, you know, we had thought about this decision for so long, and I think in the back of our minds, we always kind of wanted to come back to what we considered home, which is California, all of our families here, but we were always tied down to Arizona. Because of work and personal relationships and financially. And obviously I had a huge career transition. And then I had David leave his job to help at home. And so we weren't tied down to our jobs anymore. We were so fortunate that the career that I have grown gives us the ability to afford where we would want to live in California, which again, we've never had before. And we do still have so many loved ones in Arizona. And that was the only thing keeping us there. And that is a good enough reason to stay. Don't get me wrong, that is such a hard decision to make, especially emotionally. But all of our friends have all of their family and extended family around them and we see how important that is and how much that's needed when you have young children. And the other thing too is I moved so much as a kid and I remember going to multiple different elementary schools just in fifth grade. So I was 10. And I remember that vividly. And I'm turning 30 in a couple weeks and I'll carry that with me forever. And Ziggy and Stevie are only 6 and 3 and they're at an age where they start becoming established now, right? Ziggy's in kindergarten. C's going into kindergarten in two years. They start making friends at schools and relationships and joining activities and sports and meeting neighbors and growing up with these kids. And I didn't want them to get so established and in a routine with friends they'll have forever and then uproot them. I wanted to do this while they were still young. And we finally have the opportunity to do that. And so we jumped on.
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Avery Woods
Another huge factor that came into the decision of moving was when our podcast took off and work started picking up and I was traveling so much, like an absurd amount. And I've shared with you guys so many times that when I worked full time as a nurse, I was away from my kids three days a week because I was working 12, 13, 14 hour shifts and sometimes multiple in a row. And I was gone before my kids woke up and I was home after they were asleep. So if I worked two in a row, that was two days without my kids. That's equivalent to a two day work trip. And when I had the opportunity to leave nursing in order to do social media full time and work from home, that was huge for me. Not just because of leaving nursing or more money, but because I knew I was going to be able to be home with my kids so much more and not miss those major holidays and huge events and milestones that happen when you're a mom. And I'm still so grateful for that every day. But it got to a point where I was traveling so much that I was right back where I started. I was like, this is equivalent to if I was working as a nurse. Like, I'm traveling multiple times a month and almost all of that travel is to California. Because so many things happen here when it comes to social media events, business meetings, podcasting, interviewing people. And what could be a quick drive for me to the podcast studio or to go interview someone or to a dinner event is a like 48 to 72 hour trip. Because I have to fly, I have to stay in a hotel. I'm away from my kids and my family. Like just the other day we went to go interview someone and we left here. We're there in like 45 minutes. I was gone for maybe three hours and then came home and was able to make dinner, have it with my kids and go to sleep. It was a dream. Like, I've never had that before when it comes to this world. And it just felt so right to be able to do that. The biggest thing that we had to decide was where we wanted to locate. And obviously I'm like, my family's from Central Coast California. I spent a lot of my Childhood there. David's from San Diego, but we kind of had to meet in the middle because of my job. It's centered mostly around Los Angeles area and we've never lived over here before. But I'm obviously really familiar with the area because I'm here all the time for work. And we have so many loved ones here. And I never usually stay like in hotels. I'm always staying with people I'm close to because it's more comfortable and I can visit. And so I'm around this area a lot and community is huge for us. When I gave birth to Ziggy and we lived in San Diego, I felt so beyond isolated. I had no friends. I was going through postpartum alone. It was so hard to meet people. And that was like my worst nightmare. I didn't want to move out of Arizona, where we're leaving so many loved ones behind and then feel completely alone because I don't have a community or anyone around me. So I knew immediately before we made the move that we weren't going to be buying because I didn't want to plant roots somewhere and then live in that area for a while, realize it's not for us and then uproot my kids again. I didn't want to do that. And so I told David I really wanted to do a short term rental if it was possible for like six months to a year. Probably furnish, leave our furniture in Arizona, feel out the area and then buy in that general vicinity after we live for a while and get the kids in school and meet community and see where's a good place to plant roots. Because the house that we're going to buy we're going to have for. I'm sure the majority of the kids lives and we'll at least be in the area until they graduate high school for sure. But we also love the beach and that's really hard because I don't want to be in a huge city. I want to be close to the beach. I want my kids to grow up by the beach and be one with nature and be able to go outside year round and have parks and play outdoors. And in Arizona, I do think it's a great place to raise a family. Don't get me wrong. And we have so many memories there. But from April until like October, it's triple digits. It's so hot, especially like June and July. You can't survive without a pool. And if you do have a pool, it's like a swamp. And the kids are done swimming in like an hour. So trapped inside an air conditioning all day on an iPad or a tv. And it's really hard. It really is. And the, the parents in Arizona totally understand where I'm coming from because it's really difficult. And that's why they do a lot of like modified year round schooling because the summers are so rough. It's better the kids be in school and air conditioning than not. So we wanted to be close to the area I was going to work, have community, and also semi be by the water. So an area that we love so much is Pacific Palisades. And we've always loved it, never been able to afford it. And earlier this year we found like a dream rental. It was perfect for what we needed. It was walking distance to the school I had my eye on for the kids. It was close to our community, it was close to work, it was close to the beach. It was a little golf cart area. There was shopping and the beach and just so many things. And we applied for it and we got an email that we were approved for it and we were so excited. And then it burned down 24 hours later. It was one of the strangest experiences I've ever been through because it was almost like a morning, but it wasn't morning because it wasn't our house. And we also, we're so sad for the community that's here that we know and we know people personally in our lives that lost everything. Like their insurance was canceled and they lost everything, their house, everything inside. Like they weren't even in their homes when the fire started. They didn't even have a chance to like go back and get photo albums or a change of clothes. Just absolutely devastating. So I didn't feel the right to be upset or sad or emotional because I knew people that had lost so much. And we had our house in Arizona. We had a roof over our heads and our kids were safe and we were safe. Like that was all that mattered. But we just felt so bad for the owners of the home and the whole community. And once that kind of settled and we took a step back to reevaluate of like where do we want to be now? Because that community of the Palisades unfortunately is just going to take so long to recover and it's just so devastating. So we kind of took a step back and we're like, well, where are we going to go? And so we took a little bit of time to think about it. We weren't in a rush. And we started looking again in like the outskirts area of where we originally were going to live. And the renting situation became like a war because all of these people that lost everything all of a sudden had no home and they were desperate to rent. And the saddest part is that because everyone needed a place to live, it became a bidding war. And. And houses were going for like double, triple the rent that it was originally listed for. But the owners were wanting like a three year plus lease up front. So, for example, a house that we had possibly thought about renting after the one in the Palisades burned down ended up going for double what the original rent was asking for. And they had him pay three years up front. That just wasn't feasible for us. It was insane. And it was so hard for me too, not owning it and just like throwing that money, like, we don't have that money just to be able to. To throw for three years of not owning the house. So it was crazy. We were kind of like, okay, well, let's take a pause and kind of wait till it calms down. And then, no joke, like a week later, we got a call from a family friend saying, hey, I know a family, they have a second home that they're wanting to live in through the summer, and they want to rent out their house, fully furnished, in the exact area that we were considering. And we were like, okay, well, tell us the details. And so our family friends came over to this house, took videos for us. They were like, we want to rent it through the summer. You can use all the furniture. We'll come back. And we knew we wanted a short term lease because we want to be able to again live in the area, feel it out, take our time viewing homes. Like, we're already viewing our second home tomorrow. We've only been here for like four days as a family, so we're actively looking for homes, but also taking our time with it because we didn't do that when we bought our Arizona house. And we always regretted that. So we got the videos, it was a perfect fit. And we immediately were like, yes, please. So we applied for it, we got it, and that was that. We were approved, I think on like February 1st for this home. And we got the keys on February 15th, which was insane. So we are back to being California residents. And I'm so excited our house got listed today in Arizona, which is so weird. It was so. Oh, I was so emo. Driving away from the house, like, ew. Actually don't even watch my YouTube video because I cried in it after I promised myself I would never Cry on the Internet and I'm forever out here lying. I look like Kim Kardashian. I haven't gotten Botox in so long and I'm still the ugliest crier. Like, I took a break from Botox thinking I'd be a prettier crier. I'm not. So anyways, I was hysterical driving away and then when I was leaving the driveway, I noticed the kids height markings in the garage on the door frame. Oh my God, I about lost it. I think I popped some blood vessels in my eyes. I was being a psychopath, but the moms get it. It's emotional when you leave a home with so many memories and kind of just like the unknown. We feel like we're so happy to be back. But it is a weird spot to be in of like, oh, by the end of the summer we have to find a house to buy. So I'm gonna start a house hunting series, I think on Tick Tock because we toured a house the other day and we're doing one tomorrow. And I think I nothing makes me hornier than Zillow. I'm just gonna be honest with you. And like, if I could get a real life Zillow, Tick Tock of like house tours, that's my thing. So I figured I'd just start one myself. But we're kind of figuring out that wherever we buy is probably going to need a lot of work because wow, California is expensive. Is. And don't listen. I'm so grateful to be able to be able to afford a house here because holy the property taxes. We could never a few years ago, but they are much older and I don't want to be property tax broke because literally property taxes here, don't you get me started. Actually, I'm not going to talk about that because it's so boring, but it's insane. So we're probably going to have to do some remodeling. So I'm hoping if we find a house that needs remodeling, it will be sooner rather than later because when our lease is up at the end of July, we will not have a place to live if we don't buy a house. So we might be moving in with some of our family friends up the road. Hopefully they're not watching this. They're like, oh, we weren't expecting to have roommates. I'm like, yeah, there's six. Oh, actually seven. Because Scott. I forgot Scott's here. Scott's here. Guys, Scott came with us to California. Scotty's always wanted to live in California. He belongs here. Can I speak for you? Scotty is the best, brightest, gayest man in all the land. And I mean happy and homosexual, both things. And as you know, he was previously Mormon and served a mission. And it's hard when the community that surrounds you is part of your past in that sense. And I feel like he's judged so much. Huh. And this is going to be such a great opportunity for him to just find himself in, like, his community and meet people that are like him and aren't judgmental. And I'm really excited for that and also so grateful that he's here because obviously we wouldn't have the podcast without him. So thanks for being here, Scott. He's eating all my food. I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. He bought his own groceries. He was so responsible. The other thing, too, is I feel like when we moved, it was such a clean slate for me. Like, you guys, the amount of stuff I got rid of in Arizona would blow your mind. I donated so much stuff, I just purged my house. Because, first of all, when you live in a house for almost six years, you already accumulate so much shit. But then when you get PR packages every day, and I'm, like, such a hoarder, it's so hard for me to get rid of anything. I, like, keep the 40 shades of foundation a brand will send me. For what reason, I maybe need to keep two. You know what I'm saying? So it was just so nice to get rid of so much and kind of start fresh. And that's kind of what I feel about my furniture. Like, when we bought the majority furniture in our house, we did not have a lot of money. Like, my dining table was 300 from Target. The chairs are also from Target. The bar stools are from Target. Like, I didn't really invest in the furniture in. In the house, and that's solely because we didn't have the opportunity to. But I really want to make our next house a home and hopefully our dream home and, like, take my time decorating and buying furniture. Maybe work with an interior designer. I'm not sure. So I'm still contemplating if I want to do this, but I'm thinking about selling our house in Arizona, fully furnished, because I just think it would be nice to have a fresh start. And we're moving into a much smaller space than what our house was in Arizona, so that's kind of tbd, But I'll definitely keep you guys updated on that whole process of the move. And share all the house hunting and decorating and organizing on Tik Tok Cuz that kind of stuff just g don't even get me started.
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It's the best. Again, I showed this in my moving blog, but I had run some errands and I signed up for a new Pilates studio which was a big deal for me, okay. Because I don't like new environments or things. I like my routine. I like the people that are around me. And so I needed to find a new Pilates studio and that was like one of my top stressors. I know that's so first world problems but I was so nervous to. It's okay. It's intimidating as a woman to walk into a pretty much all female workout space. Everyone's hot, everyone's in a cute little two piece workout set. I don't know anyone. There's women of all different age ages and I'm like looking around. You don't know if you're being judged or someone know you or they hate your guts. Like it is intimidating as a woman to do something like that. And I found these photos online of the studio. One of my friends goes there and I went in and just fell in love with it. You guys, it is so relaxing. It has like a little coffee lounge. It has these fancy bathrooms. You know, everything's. Everything here is fancy. It's crazy. Literally everything here is fancy. It also is more expensive but you feel really bougie and I just love it. And I've. I went the last three days and I've never been more sore in my entire life because it's a little bit more lagree ish rather than Pilates, which I'm fine with because you still use a Reformer. But immediately I walked in. They're like, all right, put these ankle weights on. I said, what did you say? Huh? Right? So right now, I really can't walk. My ass is literally on fire. Like, I'm flexing my ankles as we speak because my calves are cramping. But I really needed to, because, you guys, it's Easter season, and those goddamn Cadbury eggs they get me. And you know what? Deborah came and dropped off a massive bag of them, and of course, they're already gone. Scott just saw me sitting on the couch eating him like the big back that I am. So I'm trying to keep up with Pilates in the middle of moving because I'm eating four pounds of Cadbury eggs a day. No, here's the thing. Cadbury eggs just. I know this is a moving podcast, but I just want to say one thing. What you be putting in those bitches? Because I'm telling you, the crunch with the creaminess, there's a different type of flavor of chocolate. And the other thing, too. They only come out once a year, so it's like, you have to go ham, because I'm not going to be eating those in October. That's. That's candy corn season, okay? Specifically the pumpkin ones. Don't give me those little triangle things. So, Cadbury, what kind of crack you got in there? Scott says I need to mention my goals for what I want to do in. In California. So let me go through those really quick. Apparently, he's the director now. Goals? We'll fucking buy a house, because come July, we might not have a roof over our head. So that would be great. Get our house sold in Arizona, because that also stresses me out. Get the kids enrolled in school. Holy. The other thing. California. You guys don't mess around. You can't even get your. Your kid in public school here without being on a wait list and doing an application process. My daughter's 3 years old and going to public preschool, and you have to do, like, this whole interview school tour. It's insane. I'm like. It's like she's going to USC or something. It's nuts. I'm like, what do you want to see her draw? Stick figure? She's three. She does kick ass when it comes to coloring, though. So if you guys want to evaluate her for that, go right ahead. Yeah, get the kids in school. Pilates. Already did check. Actually, I did do a big grocery order before the kids got here and did my Walmart grocery delivery, which I'm obsessed with. You guys know that. I'm telling you, a hundred dollars. I am like a walking Walmart ad. Not sponsored. A hundred dollars a year for unlimited grocery delivery, 365 days a week. That's a steal. You can't tell me otherwise. And if you're going to complain that Walmart groceries are gross, you're buying the same. Same brand for three times the price somewhere else. Just don't. Great value slaps. I don't want to hear it. Okay. Then I went to Trader Joe's and the sweet lady that worked there was like, oh, my God, I love you. What are you doing here? Why are you grocery shopping? And I was like, oh, I live here. Don't tell anyone. She was really, really sweet. I loved her. I just want to settle on my new routine, maybe meet some new friends, connect with my community, get the kids established. We already found a summer camp for them, which I'm really excited about because both my kids thrive when it comes to social environments and they love playing with other kids. And obviously they're not going to be in school until the fall. So we found a really great summer camp. I'm really excited for that. And yeah, just trying to find my new routine of being a resident here, but also having work so local to me because I'm so used to trips that now it's just like a actual physical job I go to. And usually I work from home, which is kind of a weird adjustment. It's kind of like when people that were working office jobs started working at home during the pandemic and then they kind of went back into work, like started getting reintegrated. Like severance, reintegration. Which. Holy. Did you guys watch season two finale? David and I were dying. I'm not going to give away if you guys don't watch Severance on Apple tv. It's so good. And the season two finale, you guys. And can we talk about the fact. Hold on, Spoiler. If you haven't watched. We talk about the fact that he left Gemma and then Gemma doesn't realize that that's Mark's innie. She's like looking at her husband, thinking it's him, like the Audi Mark, and that he's just leaving her. Oh, my God. David and I died. So, yeah, I'm reintegrating back into my life in California and balancing work and life. And to be honest with you, I have not been on social media in about two months and it's been absolutely incredible. I don't scroll. I don't look at comments. I hardly check dms. I. I feel so disconnected from so many people in my personal life because I don't know what's going on with them. So I text people, I'm like, hey, what are you up to? Because I don't know what you're doing on social media, but I've just gotten to a point where I'm like, all people want when they're mean to me is for me to see what they have to say about me. They want me to see the nasty comments, the nasty dms, the nasty videos they make about me. Why am I gonna give them that satisfaction? I'm offline. I don't fucking know what you're saying about me. How can I care if I don't know? The best thing I can do for myself is to protect myself and my peace by not looking. And I've been so much more present with my family, and I'm so excited to do that here in a new place and a new environment and just make our house so cozy and warm and make sure my kids are adjusted because they're my priority and my family's my priority. And being offline and not scrolling has given me so much more free time to focus on my family. It makes me feel guilty to think about the amount of time I've lost by being face deep in my phone. And I'm so grateful. That's my job. And obviously, like, I'm still filming and editing and posting that stuff, but I'm not scrolling or actively looking at what people are saying. And that's been the best thing I can do for myself. And doing that in combination with leaving the environment I was in before, because I feel like Arizona did hold a lot of toxicity for me. There was a lot of change that happened there, and I was just ready for a clean slate. I think we all kind of were. And it just feels really good to be here and to get that started and also to share that with you guys, because it's all been happening behind the scenes, so I hope that catches you up. I'm so excited to be in this with you guys and take you along again. If you want, like, a more vloggy style of what we've been up to the last couple months, it'll be on my personal YouTube page. But thank you guys for being here. I'm so excited for our next few guests. And, yeah, I'm just so grateful. And we have lots of fun things coming with this new journey. Cheers.
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CHEERS! with Avery Woods
Episode: Back to California | Avery Woods
Release Date: March 31, 2025
In this heartfelt episode of CHEERS! with Avery Woods, host Avery Woods shares the emotional and logistical journey of moving her family back to California after five and a half years in Arizona. The episode delves deep into the motivations behind the move, the challenges encountered, and the hopeful outlook for the future.
Avery begins by explaining the primary reasons for relocating to California:
Family and Community: "We have so many loved ones here," Avery mentions at [02:30], emphasizing the importance of having a support system close by, especially with young children.
Career Transition: Avery highlights her shift from a demanding nursing career to a more flexible role in social media, allowing her to be more present with her family. At [04:15], she states, "Leaving nursing was not just about the job; it was about being home with my kids and not missing those major holidays and milestones."
Children’s Well-being: Concerned about her children, aged 6 and 3, Avery shares her desire for them to establish lasting friendships and routines without the disruptions of frequent moves. She reflects, "I remember moving so much as a kid, and I don't want Ziggy and Stevie to experience that instability" [05:45].
The move was not without its hurdles. Avery details the difficulties in securing a suitable rental in California:
Rental Market Competition: At [10:20], Avery describes the intense competition for rentals post the Palisades fire, stating, "It became a bidding war, with rents doubling and owners demanding three years upfront—all of which was unfeasible for us."
Emotional Setbacks: The unexpected burning down of their dream rental in Pacific Palisades added emotional strain. Avery shares her empathy for those affected, saying, "We couldn’t rightfully be upset because we knew people who lost everything" [09:50].
Secure Alternative: Fortunately, through a family friend, Avery secured a furnished short-term rental, allowing them to settle temporarily while continuing their house hunt. "We found a family friend's second home, fully furnished, and it was a perfect fit," Avery explains at [12:10].
Settling into California has been a mix of excitement and adjustment:
Community Integration: Avery emphasizes the importance of community, especially after feeling isolated in Arizona. "When I gave birth to Ziggy and lived in San Diego, I felt beyond isolated," she recalls [15:35].
Lifestyle Changes: From dealing with the intense Arizona heat to enjoying California’s more temperate climate and proximity to the beach, Avery appreciates the healthier environment for her family. "I want my kids to grow up by the beach and be one with nature," she shares at [18:00].
Support System: Avery introduces Scott, a close friend who moved with them, highlighting his role in their support system. "Scott belongs here. He’s the best, brightest, gayest man in all the land," Avery affectionately notes [21:45].
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to Avery’s personal growth and the positive changes stemming from disconnecting from social media:
Social Media Break: Avery reveals that she has stayed off social media for two months, leading to increased presence with her family. "The best thing I can do for myself is to protect my peace by not looking [at social media]," she confides at [26:30].
Mental Health Benefits: This detox has allowed her to focus on her family's well-being and reduce the toxicity she experienced in Arizona. "Leaving Arizona helped me escape a lot of toxicity, and being offline has given me more free time for my family," Avery explains [27:50].
Enhanced Family Life: Avery discusses the joy of being more present, from making dinner with her kids to creating a cozy home environment. "I’m so excited to be present with my family and make our house cozy and warm," she shares [29:10].
Looking ahead, Avery outlines her plans and goals for establishing a permanent home in California:
House Hunting Series: Inspired by her love for house tours, Avery plans to start a house hunting series on TikTok. "Nothing makes me hornier than Zillow," she humorously comments [31:20].
Home Ownership Goals: Key objectives include buying a house by July, selling their Arizona home, and enrolling their children in schools. "Our goals are to buy a house, get our Arizona home sold, and enroll the kids in school," Avery states [32:05].
Remodeling and Decorating: Due to the high cost of properties in California, Avery anticipates needing to remodel their new home. "We're probably going to have to do some remodeling, so I hope we find a house that needs work sooner rather than later," she shares [30:45].
Avery wraps up the episode by expressing her gratitude and excitement for the new chapter ahead:
Gratitude: "I'm so grateful for the support of my family and friends during this move," Avery conveys [33:00].
Excitement for the Journey: She looks forward to sharing their journey with listeners and building a warm, welcoming home for her family. "We're excited for the next few guests and all the fun things coming with this new journey," Avery concludes [33:30].
Emotional Farewell: "I was hysterical driving away and then when I was leaving the driveway, I noticed the kids' height markings in the garage on the door frame. Oh my God, I about lost it." [06:45]
Social Media Detox: "The best thing I can do for myself is to protect my peace by not looking [at social media]." [26:30]
House Hunting Enthusiasm: "Nothing makes me hornier than Zillow." [31:20]
This episode of CHEERS! with Avery Woods offers an intimate glimpse into Avery's life changes, underscored by themes of family, community, and personal well-being. Listeners are invited to join Avery on her journey as she navigates the complexities of moving, building a new home, and fostering a supportive environment for her family.
Stay Tuned: For a more visual recount of the move, Avery directs listeners to her personal YouTube channel, where she has documented the last two months of the moving process.
Upcoming Episodes: Avery hints at exciting future guests and topics, promising more engaging discussions and insights into life's many facets.
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Cheers to new beginnings and the adventure ahead!