Choiceology with Katy Milkman

Episode: On a High Note

Guests: Maurice Schweitzer & Matthew Polly
Release Date: September 23, 2024
Podcast Host: Charles Schwab
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Overview

In this episode of Choiceology, host Katy Milkman explores the "peak-end rule"—a cognitive bias in which people remember experiences based largely on the most intense moment (the peak) and the end, rather than the entirety of the experience. The episode honors the late Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman, who extensively researched this phenomenon, highlighting how this rule shapes not just our memories of events, but also our perceptions of famous lives—especially those marked by dramatic endings, like Bruce Lee’s.

Through a narrative blending Bruce Lee’s mythic legacy with behavioral science insights and featuring experts Maurice Schweitzer and biographer Matthew Polly, the episode investigates how the peak-end rule affects decision-making, memory, motivation, and even how we structure our days for more positive recollections.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Bruce Lee Myth & Memory Distortion

(00:07–17:38)

• Memory Selection in Experience:
  Katy Milkman opens the episode asking listeners what parts of a vacation they remember best—typically a highlight or a low point, but rarely the mundane in-between.

  “You probably don’t immediately recall the details of the Uber ride you took to the airport, or the small talk you made with a concierge...” —Katy Milkman (00:07)

• Case Study—Bruce Lee’s Legacy:
  Guest Matthew Polly describes Lee’s legendary status as a result of his remarkable peak fame and tragic, early death. But this collective memory, Polly argues, is inherently distorted by the peak-end rule.

  • Bruce Lee went from rebellious youth in Hong Kong to Hollywood icon, and his unexpected death at 32 cemented his legendary status.
  • The public’s memory skips over more nuanced aspects of Lee’s life—his American birth, early acting career, and personal struggles.

  “So the image of Bruce Lee in the public mind is this cultural innovator who was also a philosophical genius and the world’s greatest fighter combined into one five foot seven human being.” —Matthew Polly (09:05)

• Discrepancy Between Myth and Reality:
  Polly provides anecdotes that challenge the “monk-like” image, describing Lee as fun-loving, flawed, and ambitious—far more complex than his icon status allows.

  “He grew up as an actor. He was extremely charming. He loved being in groups and telling raunchy jokes...These are not the activities of a warrior monk. These are the activities of your typical 1970s celebrity.” —Matthew Polly (13:31)

• Philosophy—"Be Like Water":
  The famous Bruce Lee quote “Be like water” is actually a common phrase from the Tao Te Ching, not unique to Lee, but popularized by his celebrity.

  “What’s interesting about that is that’s a straight pull from Lao Tzu’s the Tao Te Ching...it’s now become attributed to him to the point where Hong Kong protesters... were arguing that they should be like water against the government.” —Matthew Polly (14:42)

The Peak-End Rule & Daniel Kahneman’s Legacy

(17:38–35:48)

• Peak-End Rule Explained:
  Katy transitions to the cognitive foundation: the peak-end rule, as researched by Daniel Kahneman, which posits that when reflecting, we “overweight” the most intense moments and the ending.

  “Our collective memory of Bruce Lee’s life is an illustration of a tendency we all have...to amplify and recall with particular vividness certain predictable components, specifically the peak and the end.” —Katy Milkman (17:38)

• Foundations from Kahneman:
  Kahneman’s work with Amos Tversky on heuristics and biases changed psychology and economics, emphasizing that our memories and decisions are predictably flawed but understandable.

  • Notably, even Kahneman’s own life is remembered for its peak accomplishments and recent fame, overshadowing less publicized but formative experiences.

• Illustrative Example—Cold Water Experiment:
  Guest Maurice Schweitzer explains a foundational study in which participants endured cold water trials:

  • Given a choice, people preferred a longer trial with a less painful ending over a shorter but uniformly painful one—even though the longer trial was objectively worse.

  “65% chose the longer trial...that was objectively worse but retrospectively seemed less aversive because of the ending.” —Maurice Schweitzer (22:14)

• Rationale Behind the Bias:
  Schweitzer discusses how our brains use shortcuts (heuristics) in memory, discarding low-importance details and focusing on peaks and ends—an efficient, if imperfect, strategy.

  “I think what happens is in our memories we’re just deleting most of the stuff...I think we use these heuristics to simplify memories in ways that are broadly useful.” —Maurice Schweitzer (24:00)

Practical Research—Peak-End Rule in Volunteering

(25:42–31:15)

• Modern Application—Volunteer Burnout:
  Schweitzer describes new research: analysis of 2 million crisis text line conversations revealed that counselors were more likely to quit after sequences (streaks) and endings of particularly intense, negative experiences.

  • Double-streaks increased quitting by 22%; long streaks doubled quitting probability.

  “People that have long streaks become about 100% more likely to quit...All of the counselors...were trained, but retaining them remains a significant challenge.” —Maurice Schweitzer (27:15)

• Implication—Task Scheduling & Well-being:
  Mixing up difficult and easy tasks and ending on a “high note” can buffer negative memory, sustain motivation, and reduce burnout in intense environments.

  “When we end on a difficult note, that’s tougher for us. And we do difficult things in sequence, it’s more draining to us. So, I think mixing things up...can make a big difference.” —Maurice Schweitzer (30:12)

Honoring Daniel Kahneman

(31:37–33:14)

• Kahneman’s Lasting Influence:
  Schweitzer reflects on Kahneman’s profound impact on academia and society, highlighting his insight, modesty, and role in changing how people understand human judgment and decision-making.

  “He really was this incredible thinker, had so many generative insights, and yet, I think, remained incredibly modest throughout his life.” —Maurice Schweitzer (32:18)

The Most Famous Study: Colonoscopies

(33:27–35:48)

• Medical Application—Colonoscopies as a Memory Experiment:
  Katy describes a legendary Kahneman study: By making the final part of a colonoscopy slightly less unpleasant, patients remembered the procedure as less aversive and were more likely to return.

  “Patients who got the behaviorally informed bonus ending colonoscopy remembered it as less unpleasant...and were more likely to come back in five years for their next colonoscopy.” —Katy Milkman (35:27)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote | |-----------|-------------------|-------| | 00:07 | Katy Milkman | “You probably don’t immediately recall the details of the Uber ride you took...our mind selectively retains some parts of past experiences and memory while discarding others.” | | 09:05 | Matthew Polly | “So the image of Bruce Lee in the public mind is this cultural innovator who was also a philosophical genius and the world’s greatest fighter combined into one five foot seven human being.” | | 13:31 | Matthew Polly | “...the image of him as this kind of person who’s come out of the mountain to deliver the wisdom to us and beat the bad guys—very much a film image became part of his personal biography...” | | 14:42 | Matthew Polly | “Be like water is a very common phrase...Bruce Lee was using this very common phrase. And it’s now become attributed to him...” | | 17:38 | Katy Milkman | “Our collective memory of Bruce Lee’s life is an illustration of a tendency we all have to overlook many aspects of a past experience...but also to amplify and recall with particular vividness certain predictable components, specifically the peak and the end.” | | 22:14 | Maurice Schweitzer| “65% chose the longer trial…that was objectively worse but retrospectively seemed less aversive because of the ending.” | | 27:15 | Maurice Schweitzer| “...people that have long streaks become about 100% more likely to quit...retaining them remains a significant challenge.” | | 30:12 | Maurice Schweitzer| “When we end on a difficult note, that’s tougher for us. And we do difficult things in sequence, it’s more draining to us…mixing things up, that’s one clear implication we found from our data.” | | 35:27 | Katy Milkman | “Patients who got the behaviorally informed bonus ending colonoscopy remembered it as less unpleasant... and were more likely to come back in five years for their next colonoscopy.” | | 32:18 | Maurice Schweitzer| “He really was this incredible thinker, had so many generative insights, and yet, I think, remained incredibly modest throughout his life.” |

Practical Tips & Takeaways

• Harness the Peak-End Rule: Plan experiences, tasks, or even vacations so that the end is especially positive—this improves overall memory of the event.
• Break Up Negativity: Don’t schedule consecutive difficult tasks or meetings; mixing them with more pleasant or easy activities reduces the negative impact on motivation and recollection.
• Apply to Health & Wellness: Medical procedures and other unpleasant events can be made more tolerable (in memory) by easing the intensity at the end.
• Remember Human Complexity: Our collective memory will often mythologize individuals—be aware of how peaks and endings can obscure the fuller, more nuanced picture.

Episode Structure and Timestamps

| Segment | Start | |--------------------------------------------------------------|----------| | Introduction—Memory & Daniel Kahneman Tribute | 00:07 | | Bruce Lee: Myth, Memory, and Reality w/ Matthew Polly | 02:43 | | The Philosophy & Pop Culture Legacy | 04:42 | | Bruce Lee’s Peak, Death & Lasting Status | 06:09 | | Discrepancies Between Myth and True Biography | 10:28 | | The Peak-End Rule—Origin and Explanation | 17:38 | | Experiments and Practical Examples (Cold Water, Sports) | 22:14 | | Volunteer Burnout Study—Modern Application | 25:42 | | Implications for Organizing Life and Work | 30:12 | | Remembering Daniel Kahneman | 31:37 | | Colonoscopy Study—Medical Application | 33:27 | | Wrap Up & Practical Advice | 35:48 |

Conclusion

Choiceology’s “On a High Note” uses Bruce Lee’s life as a lens to explain the peak-end rule—with insights from both behavioral science and pop culture—highlighting that the moments we remember most shape our stories much more than the entirety of our experiences. The episode not only honors Daniel Kahneman but provides practical strategies for improving our lives by managing how experiences are sequenced and concluded, showing that small changes in how we structure events can have outsized positive effects on memory, motivation, and satisfaction.

For Further Information:

• Maurice Schweitzer’s research and book: [Show notes/Schwab.com/podcast]
• Matthew Polly’s "Bruce Lee: A Life": [Show notes]
• Financial Decoder podcast: [Schwab.com/financialdecoder]
• Katy Milkman’s book "How to Change" and newsletter Milkman Delivers: [Show notes/Substack]