Brutally Honest Advice (with Nanny Faye)

Summary

Chrisley Confessions 2.0 – “Brutally Honest Advice (with Nanny Faye)”

PodcastOne | March 25, 2026
Host: Todd Chrisley
Special Guest: Nanny Faye Chrisley

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Episode Overview

In this episode of Chrisley Confessions 2.0, Todd welcomes the beloved Nanny Faye for a wide-ranging, unfiltered conversation. Together, they dive into family humor, faith, generational differences, marriage advice, and the candid wisdom Nanny Faye is famous for. True to form, Nanny Faye shares stories from her past, blunt advice for younger generations, and her no-nonsense take on modern relationships—with plenty of laughs and memorable one-liners along the way.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

Life Updates and Health Talk

• Todd’s Recovery from Surgery [02:17]

  • Todd details a rough bout with kidney stones, his aversion to water, and navigating health with Nanny Faye by his side.
  • Both share their dislike of drinking water despite doctors’ advice, leading to some classic Nanny Faye humor.
  • "If I eat some country ham, I can drink it, but I can’t eat that every day." – Nanny Faye [05:43]

• Family Dynamics with Julie and Savannah Away [06:54]

  • Todd and Nanny Faye discuss how the household has changed since Julie and Savannah have been away, with Nanny joking about newfound freedom and “Hazel the maid” energy.

Old-School Wisdom vs. Modern Life

• Advice for Relationships, Sex, and Marriage [08:42, 19:41, 22:04]

  • A listener favorite: Nanny Faye’s old-school perspective on courting, marriage, and intimacy draws questions and stories from the past.
  • Discussion on modesty, “waiting until marriage”, and the differences between generations’ approach to sex.
  • On her own marriage: "I didn’t always like him every day, but I loved him all the time." – Nanny Faye [12:29]

• The Importance of Give and Take in Marriage [12:10]

  • Nanny Faye emphasizes compromise and staying committed despite disagreements.
  • "Everything’s not a bed of roses. Because if you think getting married is going to make your life easier, nine out of ten times it’s not." – Nanny Faye

• Teaching Respect & Setting Expectations in Marriage [20:45]

  • Nanny stresses respecting your spouse and the effectiveness of the “silent treatment” over fighting.
  • "I still was a mother, I was still a wife. I did the chores that I supposed to do." – Nanny Faye

On Divorce and Dealbreakers

• When is Divorce Justified? [25:39, 27:14, 31:10]

  • Nanny Faye strongly believes in working through marital problems, except in cases of abuse or infidelity.
  • "Now, he should never put his hand on you in the first place. That is something he’s supposed to cherish..." – Nanny Faye [25:52]
  • On infidelity and “deal breakers”: "Coming in and mistreating me and my family and out here running around." [27:18]

• Critique of Modern Relationships (Throuples, Cheating, etc.) [31:28]

  • Nanny Faye doesn’t hold back on her views about non-traditional relationships, throuples, or anything outside her classic values:
  • "Well, there’s but two people in a marriage, so that third one needs to go. That’s all I can take." – Nanny Faye [31:57]

Generational Gap: Work Ethic, Women’s Roles, and Social Media

• Work Ethic & Gender Roles [26:09, 26:59]

  • Strong, heartfelt defense of “the greatest generation’s” work ethic and traditional values:
  • "I can outwork any of them right now." – Nanny Faye [26:28]
  • Addresses being labeled as “setting women back,” instead calling it pride in personal choices.

• Men, Women, and Changing Dynamics [32:33]

  • Discussion about shifts in male and female roles in families.
  • Nanny Faye: "Maybe they don’t earn it." (responding to "men don’t treat women with respect") [32:49]
  • On men: "He’s the head of the house...and if he’s not leading in the right direction, then things might need to change." [33:12–33:15]

• Social Media Boundaries [34:30]

  • Nanny Faye is adamant about not airing family grievances online:
  • "You should keep your stuff inside those four walls and work on it private." – Nanny Faye [34:42]

Family Ties and Legacy

• Love for Grandchildren and Future Generations [37:12, 41:24]

  • Warm stories about her relationship with grandchildren and hopes for future great-grandchildren.
  • "I have lied for you. I’ve stole for you. I’ve done everything for you. You owe me five minutes." – Nanny Faye [36:12]
  • Nanny Faye’s deep family loyalty and straightforward expectations for reciprocation.

• Reflections on Aging and Regret [42:19, 43:45]

  • If she could talk to her 30-year-old self, Nanny would tell her to get an education and perhaps become a nurse, but wouldn’t change her devotion to family.
  • "I would not change anything about my family at all...But as far as myself, I would do that for me." – Nanny Faye [43:45]

• Praise for Julie [45:10]

  • A very touching, sincere endorsement of Julie as both wife and daughter-in-law:
  • "She’s always been good to me...I don’t have anything that I could not write her the best." [48:51]

Classic Nanny Faye Moments

• Learning About "Queefing" [28:30–29:53]

  • A hilarious, unfiltered exchange where Todd introduces Nanny Faye to the term “queefing” and has her ask Siri for an explanation.
  • "Well, I believe I’d run to a doctor if I’d have done any such stuff as that." – Nanny Faye [28:45]
  • "Who in the heck would ever talk about such stuff as that? I wouldn’t waste my breath." [29:53]

• No Regrets About Being a Lady [18:31]

  • "No, I’ve never wished that. Never even thought about that." – On ever wishing to be “a little trashier.” [18:40]

• On Grandkids Visiting [50:08]

  • "The day I gotta ask, I won’t be coming." – Regarding never needing an invitation to her kids’ homes.

• ‘Silent Treatment’ as a Power Play [20:49]

  • "Yeah, that worked best for me. Not talking...And that way I didn’t have to say that I’m sorry." – Nanny Faye

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments (with Timestamps)

• "If I drank one of them [protein shakes], hell, I would really outwork all y’all." – Nanny Faye [01:33]
• "If I eat some country ham, I can drink it, but I can’t eat that every day." – Nanny Faye [05:43]
• "I was a virgin." – Nanny Faye [09:35]
• "Everything’s not a bed of roses. If you think getting married is going to make your life easier, nine out of ten times it’s not." – Nanny Faye [12:10]
• "I didn’t always like him every day, but I loved him all the time." – Nanny Faye [12:29]
• "Lord, Todd. I’m not talking about stuff like that." – Nanny Faye [09:55]
• "He’s the head of the house...But if he’s not leading in the right direction, then things might need to change." – Nanny Faye [33:12]
• "I have lied for you. I’ve stole for you. I’ve done everything for you. You owe me five minutes." – Nanny Faye [36:12]
• "Well, there’s but two people in a marriage, so that third one needs to go." – On throuples [31:57]
• "You should keep your stuff inside those four walls and work on it private." – On social media [34:42]

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Advice & Takeaways for Listeners

• Marriage is Hard Work: Stick with it unless there’s abuse or repeated infidelity, and don’t be quick to walk out over anger.
• Value and Respect: Respect is a two-way street in marriage; silent treatment can sometimes be more peaceful than confrontation.
• Family Above All: Family loyalty and taking care of one’s own remains paramount for Nanny Faye.
• Social Media Boundaries: Not everything deserves to be shared online; keep family business private.
• No Shame in Traditional Values: Be proud of the work ethic and values handed down, even if times have changed.

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Closing Thoughts

The conversation wraps up with Todd and Nanny Faye expressing gratitude, humor, and mutual respect. As always, Nanny’s wisdom (and sass) shines through, leaving listeners with encouragement to “be as good as you can be,” pray for others, and place family first—while never being afraid to speak your mind.

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Useful For:

• Fans of Chrisley Confessions and the Chrisley family
• Listeners seeking real, old-school advice on marriage and life
• Anyone who enjoys multi-generational banter, Southern humor, and hard-won wisdom

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Note:
All quotes are verbatim and attributed with timestamps for easy listening reference. Ads, intros, and outros have been omitted per instructions.

Transcript

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

Welcome to Christly Confessions 2.0 and today's going to be a great day because we have the number one biggest fan draw of the Chrisley nation here with me today. Nanny Faye. How are you, darling?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm blessed every day to get up and see the sunshine.

[Todd Chrisley]

I. I believe that. I believe that. You told me this morning coming over here. You said I. Folks, I had been telling my mother that I wanted her to start drinking this protein shake, and she goes, I don't need it. And you know, she is. Y' all think that she's this sweet, kind, gentle grandmother. That's not who she really is. She looks at me as I'm driving down the road and she said if I drank one of them, she said, hell, I would really outwork all y'. All.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Amen.

[Todd Chrisley]

But why do you say that? You act like you do, like. Like you do everything and that I don't do anything. I was sick for three days. Couldn't even be sick for three days.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I had you to be sick and I offered to wait on you.

[Todd Chrisley]

You did. Folks, I had another round of Kidney stones. And this time it was a 6 millimeter. And I went to the doctor, they did a CT scan. It was there. And he's the one doctor said it was a 4 millimeter. And he said, I think that you can pass this and we won't have to do surgery or, you know, put you under, whatever. And I said, pass it like. Like through my. I won't be good with that. And he said, well, we're going to try. He said, I'm going to put you on flow max. And he said, it's going to expand enough with all of it. At any rate, folks, I am not capable of doing those kind of things. So I elected to go in and be put under and have this stone removed. And it kicked my ass. I mean, I was in bed from Friday after the procedure until last night until really yesterday. Now, I got up yesterday, so Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday night, I was in bed, did not leave my room. And this one, she got so nervous after the second day, she thought I had died. So she comes upstairs and she comes creeping in my bedroom. And my dad used to be bad about the same thing I am, because I can hear anything. And I'm laying there like this right here as she comes creeping in, leans down, puts her hand on me. Tied. Tied you alive.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Glad you want my precious. Something happened to him.

[Todd Chrisley]

What would you have done if I'd raised up? Said, hell no, I'm dead.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I know that's a lie if you raised up, but, I mean, I. I was concerned. I hadn't seen you smiling face.

[Todd Chrisley]

It had been rough. This. This one had been a tough time. But now they have the stone. Now they've placed me on a medication that will hopefully prevent me from creating another one because I. My body creates too much uric acid. So, Doc, for all of you that's listening to this, don't send me messages telling me I need to drink a damn case of water a day. Don't send me all that because I'm not going to do it. My mother doesn't drink water either. Do you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I hate water.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, I don't like water either.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

If it doesn't happen, it just might be just I don't ever get thirsty, but. So I don't have no desire to want to go drink.

[Todd Chrisley]

But we had all of our blood work done for our physicals, right, folks? Me and mama came back the healthiest of everyone. But here's the crazy thing. She and I were deficient in the same exact thing, wasn't it? It was the exact same thing. Our numbers were almost identical regarding certain things, but we were perfect across the board except for one thing, and that was dehydration. And so they said, you know, you need to be drinking more water. I can't do it. I just can't do it. I mean, unless it had. Unless it's lemonade, sweet tea or coke, I just don't want it.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, if I eat some country ham, I can drink it, but I can't eat that every day.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, and you should not be eating that every day.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, but I mean, I will get thirsty then and I can go drink water. But I just hate water.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I do too, mom. I don't love it either.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Oh, you know what Dr. Chang told me about my bladder cancer. Nanny, you've got to drink 10 to 12 bottles of water. I said, oh damn, you might as well hook me up the Cumberland river then.

[Todd Chrisley]

She's going to be hooked up folks to the Cumberland River. So for you that don't know what that is, that's the river that runs through Tennessee. So we're. We just can't do it right now. Although I have bought you all of these waters but because I will buy them for her to make sure she's drinking. I buy you the propel, I buy you the vitamin water. Then I ordered you this new water that, that you wanted or tried or with the electrolytes or whatever. And so you have been drinking a little bit of that. Just not a lot.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I drank one yesterday.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, that usually you need to be drinking like, like Dr. Chang said, like 10 to 12 a day.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I can't do that. That'd be the worst job. I could get out and work.

[Todd Chrisley]

It's been Julie's in Savannah's now been gone for almost three weeks and it's been different.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And I'm Hazel made.

[Todd Chrisley]

She's Hazel the maid. But it's been different, hadn't it? Because we need. We need Julie back. Yeah, we need Julie back.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I just feel more relaxed because I can do whatever I want to. I. I can go and come when

[Todd Chrisley]

I want to as long as you is here. Yeah, because you get you out of whatever you get into.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

She's gone. I. I have to do everything. And so I'll be glad. Yeah. I told Chloe this morning on the way to school, I said, I'll be so glad when Judy gets back home, I won't know what to do. I said. She said, why, Nanny? I said, well, first of all, I'm going to be gone where are you going?

[Todd Chrisley]

She's going to the casino, y'.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

All. Well, my. Go to my happy place, Lisa. Don't nobody ask me do nothing.

[Todd Chrisley]

Listen, since. Not to interrupt you, but since the last podcast that you were on here, we got so many questions that I didn't even know about until last week. But folks, the episode with Nanny, whenever it was a month or two months ago, was one of the highest rated episodes ever. And the reason for that is because y' all wanted old school advice about how women of my mother's generation views sex, relationships, and just things that are happening today that never happened when you were growing up. A lot of people love the. Loved the fact that. That I exposed or really brought out in the open that daddy nailed you in the hog parlor.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Todd, hush. But that's not true.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, Mama, that's what he's saying.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, you know, he was known to lie to, just like you.

[Todd Chrisley]

But did you give it up to him in the hog?

No.

You did.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I did. I didn't give it up till I got married. And then I was scared. I should have not married that day, but I did. Shut up. I don't talk about it.

[Todd Chrisley]

So was your. Was yours and daddy's marriage kind of like Dues and Lorettas?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, that's what he told me. So we watched that movie. Yeah, he said there's another thing.

[Todd Chrisley]

So did you wear all your clothes

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

to Baby, I wanted to. Well, I'm not talking about that, Todd. I'm letting that stuff go. That was.

[Todd Chrisley]

But, Mama, that's 60 years. I understand, but these younger generation of women are wanting to. Wanting to compare their life of where they are today to where you were then. So when you got married, you were you.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I was a virgin.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. And then you had your honeymoon at the Center County Hotel.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I look at every time I go by, it's still about. Think about it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Is it fond moments?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I was a scared moment. But you know what? Life goes on. I loved him.

[Todd Chrisley]

And what, did it get better after the first time?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Lord, Todd. I'm not talking about stuff like that,

[Todd Chrisley]

Mama, but the people want to know.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, listen, first of all, girls. Now, I'm not saying because they are beautiful, they pretty.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you said they're whores.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I'm not saying that, Mama.

[Todd Chrisley]

You did.

You said they go out here like a bunch of hoes and you said all they got to do is put a push button on her head and their legs fly up. Now that's what you say.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I didn't say Mama. Todd, I'M just saying they need to be more careful in what they do.

[Todd Chrisley]

And she's trying to be polite and clean this up, but I'm going to get her back to what she said.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

You need to say what you say to me and your grandchildren. What do you say about your grandchildren being hoes?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not calling my grandchildren hoes. I'm not calling anyone because like I've told you many times, I'm not talking about no one's children. That's the parents. The parents, the parents and what they need to do to their children and how the upbringing. We didn't know anything about anything going when we were growing up.

[Todd Chrisley]

When you got to the Center County Hotel, you had not thought in your mind or your grandmother had not told

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

you what to expect. Do you realize that I was in about the 11th grade in high school before we ever got a little black and white TV? And we was never allowed to watch it after 9 o' clock because we worked.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you didn't have like skin a max or anything like that?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No. All we. The four things that my mother that raised me said to me, there are four things in life that you're going to do. And soon as you girls learn it, what we have to do, then this household will be great. You're going to work, you're going to mind. You're going to go to school, you're going to go to church. That was our lives till we graduate. Then we. I worked my senior year in high school in a cotton mill.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And then after that, I stayed on that job till I met Jean and I married him. And you know what? Everything's not a bed of roses. Because if you think getting married is going to make your life easier, nine out of ten times it's not.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But you're supposed to give and take it. Don't. SENECONI HOTEL don't be arguing about things that's not worth a hill of beans.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you and Daddy did argue.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah. We didn't always agree. I didn't always like him every day, but I loved him all the time.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right, because, I mean, you fought a lot. I mean, you was just not going to have somebody telling you what to do.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, because I left my boss at home when I married.

[Todd Chrisley]

So he wasn't going to be your boss?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I was his partner and his lover. That's who I was.

[Todd Chrisley]

Let's go back to lovers. So you learned how to be a lover at the Center County Hotel?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm just saying I wasn't out looking for no one else. When I married, I was happy. I wanted a home and that's what I began to work for. And then I had you and I had my children. And that's what I love most of all.

[Todd Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

Did women twerk back in the day?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't know nothing about twerking.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you don't know what twerking is?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, and I don't need to know it then. 82 years old, I don't need to know.

[Todd Chrisley]

Did they pull it back?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't know. All I know is about myself.

[Todd Chrisley]

What, did you throw it back?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I didn't throw back.

[Todd Chrisley]

You didn't throw back?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No. All I did was work and try to be a lady. Like I said, I've been a lady my whole life.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you ever sometimes when you're not by yourself, just stop and think, I wish I had been a little trashier?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I've never wished that. Never even thought about that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Really.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Because I've had a good life. I said I had a hard life, but a good life. Why do I say one? Me and Jean, we didn't always get. Have the best days, but we didn't hate each other.

[Todd Chrisley]

But we didn't always agree because you were very independent.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

And you didn't want. You resented a man telling you what to do.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, because I knew what to do.

[Todd Chrisley]

But.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And so why did you and Randy always. When he'd take your car keys, why would you always run to me?

[Todd Chrisley]

Because we knew that you were going to override him. So I guess. What? I guess. How do you view. How do you view sex today between a man and a woman versus when you were growing up and getting married?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, you know what? We grew up. We didn't talk about nothing like that. We didn't know to talk about it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Cause you think this is inappropriate for me to have this conversation with you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Because I don't care about talking about stuff like that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right. But I do it for y'.

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But first of all, we taught to be a lady always. And this is what I say to these young couples. You love someone enough to want to marry them, so you should try to make it work. Don't get up arguing and fussing with each other. Respect each other. You're not always right, and I'm not always right, so.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you were more right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, most of the time I was. Because I wasn't setting out to do anything bad. Right. You know, I just sometimes didn't always agree with him. And then it might piss me off. And so, you know, then I didn't talk for days, but I went on about my job. I still was a mother, I was still a wife. I did the chores that I supposed to do.

[Todd Chrisley]

You put him on silent treatment.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I just didn't talk.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, silent treatment.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, that worked best for me. Not talking. Arky, just don't talk. And that way I didn't have to say that I'm sorry.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, I never did hear you say I'm sorry. Showing up, you know, now that you brought that up. Showing up. I never heard you say that to him. Well, but so if he, if he cursed at you, did you ever curse back at him?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I might take him. Go to hell. Yeah, I might.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think you said more than that. No, but I. Folks, I'm not one to put everybody's business on front.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I'm just saying that I stayed with him. I married him.

[Todd Chrisley]

You married him. And when he pissed you off, you was determined to stay married to him because you was. Because if that pissed him off, you was gonna do it right now.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I wasn't going to plan on it. Don't you remember his brother come down there and I was mad about something. He said, what's wrong? And I said, you know I'd leave if I had anywhere to go. And he said, well, if you leave

[Todd Chrisley]

and I am too, well, that's because daddy's family loved you more to him. But so when you. How do you feel? So when, for you, a marriage. When you got married, it was for better, for worse, in sickness and in health until death do you part. And that's. Those were the vows you honored.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, and I never ever thought anything about it because he was my husband, I was married to him, I had my children. So I wasn't out here eyeing nobody. I wasn't going nowhere to be involved. And I tell these young kids when I do these cameos, and they won't know it. Some good advice. I said, well, listen, first of all, you've got to have Jesus Christ in your heart.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's gotta be the center of your foundation.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And that should be what you work for every day, right? And when God gives you that little piece of joy, always be the best you can be. Because you know what? That's their safe place. They don't know anything except their mother and their dad. So don't be arguing in front of them. If you disagree, wait till they're asleep or you go outside while they're playing.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, because I wasn't always asleep.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, well, I'm just saying.

[Todd Chrisley]

I heard you jump on my daddy.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

A lot of times now you're lying there, but I'm just saying that you need to try to make it work because in the end people has told me I'm 82, I've learned a lot and people's told me, well, I divorced out of anger. Had I not been angered, I would not have divorced. So you need to think about what

[Todd Chrisley]

you're doing before you jump through your

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

eyes, before you jump and be sorry of it later.

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[Todd Chrisley]

Do you believe in divorce?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Not really.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you don't believe there's no reason That a man and woman should ever divorce?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, if he comes in and knocks on you all the time. Yeah. And you can't.

[Todd Chrisley]

Is it all the time or one time if he puts his hands on you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, he should never put his hand on you the first place.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Because that is something he's supposed to cherish and you're supposed to cherish him. But women now are meaner than men in a lot of situations.

[Todd Chrisley]

Women are, have taken on a much more masculine role.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Now we was more laid back as a lady and we wasn't going to jump on you.

[Todd Chrisley]

But the women. But the women today would, when they hear you say that, would say that yours was the weaker generation.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Because we're the greatest generation.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah. Because y' all are the hardest working. Because they ain't. There ain't none in this generation today that can outwork one of you.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I can outwork any of them right now and.

[Todd Chrisley]

But they would say that when you make a comment like that that you're setting women's rights back.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I'm not. I am proud that I'm able to get up and do whatever I want to. That's my choice. But always try to make it the best choice that you can. Now you're not always going to be right, you're not going to always be perfect, but always try to be the best that you can.

[Todd Chrisley]

But what do you say to the women who say, who hear you when you say that you don't believe there's a reason to divorce? That a man really can't do anything that's going to make you divorce?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Oh yeah, they are.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, what would those things be? What would a deal breaker be for

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

you coming in and mistreating me and my family and out here running around.

[Todd Chrisley]

Now running around means that means hoaring around, horn around.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But I tell these kids to when you get married that the Bible says you become one. That's what he says. So if you're going to believe any of it, you got to believe that too. So you supposed to cherish that partner that you have.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And so you're not supposed to be out here doing things and wanting to go out here and do other things with other couples. The best thing to do is worry about your home life, your family and building a good Christian based home.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And don't be out here. I'm not saying you're not supposed to be friends with people, but you don't have them over every night a cooking out because next thing you know they

[Todd Chrisley]

in bed with each other.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

You're. It's going down the wrong road. So best thing to do is do you and your family and that church and your job and that consists of all the time that you can possibly have.

[Todd Chrisley]

Did y' all deal with queefing in your generation?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

What? I don't even know what the word is and don't know what it means. It could care less.

[Todd Chrisley]

Then I want you to ask Siri. Just say Siri, what is queefing?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Siri, what is queefing? What the heck is that? Queef is a farting sound caused by air moving out of your vagina. This is from health.com well, I believe I'd run to a doctor if I'd have done any such stuff as that. I believe I ran to a doctor and you know, I don't run to a doctor. That would have scared me. That's crazy. See that, that's how come into all that stuff is good, but it's just gone too far because what is that? That ain't worth 2 cents. But I know if that happened, I need to find a doctor. I gotta waste my time on something else.

[Todd Chrisley]

So now you learned something today. What is a queen?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

It didn't help me out. Whatever. I learned.

[Todd Chrisley]

What is a queef?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Farting your vagina, I guess. Oh, God. Now who in the heck would ever talk about such stuff as that? I wouldn't waste my breath.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, oh God.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

That's why at my age I'm able to get up and get a shower at 5 o' clock in the morning and get dressed and go on and get out and go maid a little bit and do whatever I want to. I'm not thinking about such stuff as well.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, well, you've learned something new.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I've done forgot it because I'm not going to ever. I'm not.

[Todd Chrisley]

You would never repeat.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not going to store that in my memory.

[Todd Chrisley]

So. Okay, that's. We're done with that.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

We're done with that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, so now what is your thoughts

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

on

[Todd Chrisley]

if you're married and your spouse cheats?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I would really give it a cold shoulder.

[Todd Chrisley]

But would that be enough to warrant a divorce based on where you are in your life today? Now let's just. Let me ask you this. Let's say 25 years ago Daddy had had an affair. Would you have been more likely to leave him then rather than when you first got married and him doing that?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I don't think there's no excuse for early marriage. Late marriage, mid time marriage, there's no Excuse in neither one.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

In my book.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. Because cheating, cheating, cheating. She don't. You don't. You don't agree?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't agree with that. No, I don't.

[Todd Chrisley]

What do you think about these couples today that are in relationships that they call throuples?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Todd, I don't why you won't talk about stuff like that. Because I don't even know about it.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you don't know what that means?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, either. And I'm not going to ask Siri either, because I don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

So we're done with Siri.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, we done with Siri. And I'm done with talking about stuff that I don't even know I've done live my life.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, so do you understand what a throuple is?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No.

[Todd Chrisley]

Three people in the marriage.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, they're not. But two people in a marriage, so that third one needs to go. That's all I can take.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, so then no threesomes, right?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I never heard.

[Todd Chrisley]

I know, mama, but I mean, I'm.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm dumb enough to do such stuff as that. They need to get down on their knees and don't come up till they got salvation. It's all I can say. Lord have mercy.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I think some of them are on their knees.

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Well.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I don't think that salvation is

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

what you're looking for, that they need to be on their knees.

[Todd Chrisley]

So how do you feel about women in general today? Because the. A lot of the comments today from women is that men are just not men anymore. Men don't treat them with respect.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, maybe they don't earn it.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you believe that. That these women have a role in

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

the level of disrespect or sometimes, you know, these women do get kind of out of control.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But the man needs to hold his. Be the person that he should be.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because the Bible says a man is supposed to lead his household.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

He should be. He's the head of the house.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

My Bible. Mm. And if he's not leading in the right direction, then things might need to change. Well, he said it's better to live on the rooftop of your house than to live with a brolin wife.

[Todd Chrisley]

That means a wife that wants to fight all the time and run that

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

mouth and do things that they don't have business doing. Doing. Then it's best to go. That's when he gives you authority.

[Todd Chrisley]

Gotcha.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

To. To get out of it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But listen, you need to try to work out everything and get up and to be the best you can today just get up and look in that mirror and thank Jesus for letting you get up and breathe fresh air. And. And you get a choice to make today to do whatever you need to do. I'm not saying what you want to do. What you need to do. Give someone a smile, be kind, it doesn't cost us anything. And when you get up and get that shower and look in that mirror and say all that, then you're going to have a better feeling about yourself.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And then when you come out, you're going to be a better person and you'll be more kinder.

[Todd Chrisley]

What do you believe that? How do you feel about people in general putting all their personal business. Business on social media?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

First of all, social media might be a good thing, but it's not people, it's not a news media. You should not. You should keep your stuff inside those four walls and work on it private. You don't need to go out here and start telling the world. I don't want the world to know that I had to tell you off. I'm not going to go on Internet and say, well, I had to tell Todd off today.

[Todd Chrisley]

Which she did tell me off today.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

He pissed me off and he was doing this. So pray for me. No, the devil made me do it first of all. So I don't need to be prayed about it, I need to take care of it myself.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I had to do it because I meant what I said.

[Todd Chrisley]

So when you told me off, you meant it.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, because if I had to.

[Todd Chrisley]

But what about my feelings?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, if it hurts feeling that, if I was wrong, I say I'm sorry. But if I'm not wrong, I'm just going to go on and do the best I can.

[Todd Chrisley]

And there's not many times that you're wrong.

[Sponsor/Ad Voice]

No.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And I don't tell you. No, I don't. But I'm just saying I'm not going to get up and cause things didn't go my way today. And I'm going to go put it on social media. No, I'm not. And just cause one of my grandkids got mad at me and wouldn't talk to me. I'm not going to say, well, my grandson or my granddaughter, they didn't talk to me today because they'll listen now. You know what that would be if one of them didn't.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, they get your feelings.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, they gonna get your feelings hurt

[Todd Chrisley]

because she will hurt their feelings because you are the boss.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I am. I have done everything for them. You know what I tell. I don't care what you're doing today. You got five minutes for me. I have your eyes. I have lied for you. I've stole for you. I've done everything for you. You owe me five minutes.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm with you.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And if they don't give it to me, I don't bother them today.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you will put a guilt on them.

Yeah.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Tomorrow. And they will answer now. Now they will do that because you

[Todd Chrisley]

will call and say, I ain't heard from so and so today.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But when I.

[Todd Chrisley]

And then I send them a text message. And then you'll say, oh, I got to go, Todd. He's calling me right now, folks that

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

let me tell you something. When I got let him slide today, but tomorrow I'll ring that number because God hadn't taken my mind, right? And I know how to call. And I say, I've not died yet.

[Todd Chrisley]

You have been an amazing grandmother. Daddy was an amazing grandfather. Do you think that you will love your great grandchildren?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I do. I love Chloe and Jason Jackson. And for him to call me about a ball game just lights up my heart.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that you will love your great grandchildren that Savannah and Chase and Grayson will have as much as you do, the ones you have now?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, if I get to spend time with them, I wish Savannah have one right now. I never lay it down and it would grow to my side.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I told you that you're not going to be able. I'm not going to let you carry my baby.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Or what? She told you too? She said, she got the whole man. She gonna hold mine.

[Todd Chrisley]

I said, mama, you're not going to carry my bait when Savannah has a baby. You're not going to carry that baby around. I says for you to drop it. She said, go to hell. I will be carrying my baby, Savannah. Won't I be carrying my baby?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

She said, yes, you got. You carried me. I said, you didn't ever leave me, did. She said, no. And I said, it won't either. It won't never want to go.

[Todd Chrisley]

How are you going to feel when it loves me more than you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, it won't. I promise you that. I promise you that, Mama.

[Todd Chrisley]

You know, when Savannah has one, you're not going to be able to. People just might as well go ahead and do it for me.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

She just bought a house. She said, I got a guest house out there, Nanny. I said, swimming. That baby stay.

[Todd Chrisley]

That baby. My baby.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I'm. Well, I got to get it whether it's a girl or boy. And get it a name so I can say it's not a baby. I got to say I told her,

[Todd Chrisley]

I said savannah, please, when you have a baby, if it's a girl name or Harper Monroe. And she says I'm not, I swear. If you have a little boy, name him Hudson. I'm not. I said well name him fucking Larry. I don't give a shit.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't care. Cause you remember when you tell me about Savannah, I saw her. She wouldn't.

[Todd Chrisley]

You know what she said about Savannah? She said my God in heaven, Todd, the young and won't never be able to spell her name. It's got so many letters. I swear mama, I'm hoping that I'm not going to have a child that's that dumb. Then you remember what else you said.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't know.

[Todd Chrisley]

You said todd at Savannah. Names like a pawn name.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I know I don't care about that

[Todd Chrisley]

but what kind of night. What?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't even know what I meant by.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, you did what's in dirty movies. What do you call them? Points, whatever they are. She said this name Savannah was like a poin name.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, well whatever. Well, I changed my mind.

[Todd Chrisley]

So now you like.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

It's why you can always change. You know what she names it?

[Todd Chrisley]

Larry or Lester.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I make any difference.

[Todd Chrisley]

It will to me.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well it won't.

[Todd Chrisley]

You keep Larry and Lester over, will you? And then I'll go and I'll. And I'll love Chase's Harper.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And I don't care what you do. It'll be more room for me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, well you go ahead and care

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

less around I made it to she has one In a year or two it might give me ten more good years of life.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well mama, you're starting your. You've started your Peptides. You're getting ready to have stem cell done. You're going to listen. You are the female version of Bernie's weekend. I am propping you up.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well no, you have to prop me up because I can get up and get going.

[Todd Chrisley]

I mean but how wonderful is it that. That you can still go and do and ha. You have all your mind.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I mean God's been good to me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yes.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Now he don't show favoritism, but he knows I've been a good person all my life. I know I've failed him a lot of times, but I've always asked him to forgive me. And if I ever say anything, I tell him every night and every day when I talk to him. I said now you know, I might have Slept up and said something that I shouldn't have said today. But now you know. I've already told you. You took care of Peter, so take care of me, okay? I always tell him that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And I am so thankful that I'm almost 82. I can drive and go any place I want to go, right? I can do whatever I want to do. Maybe not as fast, but I can still do it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that you will live long enough to have another car if this wears out?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I will. My friend Louise Morton, she called me. She's 93, she just went to church Sunday. Still drives and does everything she.

[Todd Chrisley]

So then you will probably have to have another car.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, then they do. I buy one. Listen, I making them every day and I got to keep them a job if mine runs out.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I think that you need to get you a truck this time.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not getting a truck. I can't even get up in a car now. Shut up.

[Todd Chrisley]

Folks. This. Cause her legs is so short. What is it daddy used to tell you that he said you had a lawsuit against the state for them building the highway so close to your ass.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, that's right. But that's all right. That little leg still going

[Todd Chrisley]

and I

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

feel good every day.

[Todd Chrisley]

What is the. If you could go back to your. If you could. If you could speak to your 30 year old self, what would you say to them?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Just keep doing what you're doing because it's working out for you.

[Todd Chrisley]

You wouldn't say, you wouldn't look at where you are today. Look, talking to your 30 year old self. You wouldn't try to preempt and saying if they don't do that because that's not going to work out the way you think it is.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I would not listen to stuff like that. If I could go back at 30 years old and know what I know now, I'd have me an education.

[Todd Chrisley]

Will you have an education?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I know. But not enough to get out here and do a real good job. I would be a nurse.

[Todd Chrisley]

Would you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I would. That's what I'd go to.

[Todd Chrisley]

Mommy, you faint over needles and stuff.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, you know what you, you, when you start doing gets old and you won't mind it. And if you're helping someone, it makes you feel good.

[Todd Chrisley]

So do you think that was your calling? That you should have been.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, no, I didn't feel like I had a calling back then because I got married and I thought my calling was to be a wife and have a home and a family. And I did that. But you're asking me, could I

[Todd Chrisley]

look

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

back at 30 years old, what would I do? I would get out and get me an education. I would be a nurse. I'd raise. I would not change anything about my family at all. I would still do the same thing. That would not stop me at all. But far as myself, I would do that for me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. To be a nurse.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah. I wouldn't stay in a cotton meal 50 something years.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, but.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But I had a good life.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I never. You know, you've never said that you would, that you'd be a nurse.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But I just see now the opportunities and the calling that it is a good calling if you use it right.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you want me to bury you in a nurse's uniform?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No. I don't know.

[Todd Chrisley]

With a little hat?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I'm gonna do a little maid hat.

[Todd Chrisley]

You a shady effort you are. Shade girl.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I wouldn't take nothing for this journey. God's been good. Has it always been a perfect day? No. But I always said when it was going bad, I said, dear Jesus, there's nothing going to come minding your way today that you and I can't handle. So I get up and do the best I can with it. Because if it's something that I didn't do, I didn't have any control over it. I just kind of got to get over how it affected me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, let me ask you, because a lot of people ask all the time, what has made your relationship with Julie so valuable and so cherished to you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, first of all, now I know that she's never agreed with me 100%, but she never come back to me. So I had never had to say something that I shouldn't have said. So that made.

[Todd Chrisley]

So she's always been respectful?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, she's never. And if she needed something, I've always did as much for her as I have for you. If she asked me, I did it. She's never tried to tell me what to do and what not to do. She let me live my life and say what I'm going to say. Whether she liked it or not, she didn't sit back in the thing and. And want to get even with me. Because now that would have been hard for her to try to get even with me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because you're just a bad bitch.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No. Well, I'm just not going to take anything when I know it's wrong. So I'm not going to do that.

[Todd Chrisley]

But. But you really do believe that you've been right pretty much all your Life.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

All my life. Yeah, I have. Because I don't go out here to hurt no one. And I don't do anything wrong that intentionally.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you do understand that just because you think a certain way doesn't mean.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, it must have worked out because look at how many years I got on y' all and all these things.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, maybe the Lord's keeping you here so he can help you to learn

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

that you have been wrong here to bring more sheep to him. That's exactly what he's leaving me here for.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And Julie's been with me through my surgeries. And it's so weird that, you know, she went with me to every treatment, 21 with everyone, never missed the one. And when I'd have to hold my urine, that medicine for two hours, well, once I got in that car, I could hold it. But once I got up, I couldn't hold him. She would ride me a ram in her go look at stuff and ride to my two hours just about up and take me home. And you know what? The days I had my treatments was kind of a bad day. I had to sleep. I was tired and sleepy. She's always been good to me. And then when y' all got pardoned, I had to go back because they thought they had seen something else. So I went back my surgery this year for that. So God's good. He don't make no mistakes.

[Todd Chrisley]

So do you think that. So you're basically grateful and to God and. And feel blessed that I made the right decision in marrying her?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, when you divorced and you married her, I think that was a good decision. Has she always been perfect? No, I'm not either. But like I said, she's a hard worker. She gets up and takes care of her family. You don't have to tell her what to do because she does it. And she's become a great cook. That's what I told her. I said, taught you all I need that I know. So now I'm leaving it up to you now.

[Todd Chrisley]

So on a scale of 1 to 10, what would you rate her as a wife?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

A 10.

[Todd Chrisley]

What would you rate her as a daughter?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

A 10. I don't have anything that I could not write her the best.

[Todd Chrisley]

So how blessed is that? How blessed are you to be able to say that?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Because most people don't even look like their mother in law. And I don't know why.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, not everyone has a mother in law like you either. Some of them have kind mother in laws.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I've been kind to her too. I Believe I'd been bad? I don't believe she'd been.

[Todd Chrisley]

You'd have run her off.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I believe I'd have run her off.

[Todd Chrisley]

So what would you rate your relationship with me as a son?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Listen, I've always had a good relationship with you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, but is it a 10 or a 9 or an 8?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I just give it a 10 because listen, I don't have anything that I could say, bad or negative about you. Because you don't control me. I do what I want to and if I want some information or I want to ask you something, I don't feel like that I'm ashamed or I'm scared to answer to ask you because I'm not scared.

[Todd Chrisley]

And if you need something, you're going

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

to come to me if I need it. Yeah, I will.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's right.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not going to sit back and do without and when I know that I got better resource. I'm not.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I'm. And I'm your true resource.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Right, I'm. Listen, I got a lot of people I can call, but I call my son first.

[Todd Chrisley]

There you go. There you go.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't have to knock on no. You know that we have never people come to our house. From the time you can remember, we never nobody knocked unless it was a stranger. Everybody come in our door. I'm not going to call my daughter in law or my son and say, well, can I come over tonight? The day I got to ask, I won't be coming.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's right, you won't.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

You won't even see my pretty face go in this house. That's right because I'm not doing that. You don't knock at my door. I have to keep it locked now because I don't want nobody to get me so.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, stop putting those pineapples out by your door.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I don't worry I don't got rid of that pineapple because I'm not going to do that. But anyway, I'm just saying that parents and children should never put a limit on their parents that they have to call for an invitation day. I got half for an invitation, ain't coming.

[Todd Chrisley]

And if you call, I look at it this way. I never had to have an invitation to come home.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, growing up the door was always that's right.

[Todd Chrisley]

And it has never crossed my mind for me to say, mama, I'm married now. Call before you come, mom.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, I'll leave you married then I'm not coming.

[Todd Chrisley]

But I have never even thought about doing such as That I never. And Chase is the first damn one. They'll say, privacy, boundaries. Bitch, the boundaries. Are you in my house?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, then you need to go get your own place.

[Todd Chrisley]

Thank you. Get as much privacy as you can afford.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

You don't want me. Don't worry. I won't be there.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, listen, I know that I got at least three out of the ones I've raised that will look out for me, and I'm grateful for that because not. I mean, some people don't have one.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Listen, once they get my age, you. History.

[Todd Chrisley]

But like I told Julie, I said, listen. I said, once we get to, you know, 70, 75, we're doing us a penthouse in a building to where we feel safe, to where we've got everything that we need. To where we don't have to be dependent on our children. Because I don't want to be a burden.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't feel like I'm going to be. No. Depending on my children because I don't really need them right this moment.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I mean, you know, folks. I mean, at this point, I mean, people know that, you know, we're getting ready to do a move and. And you had my mother. The new house has a wing for her, and then we have our wing. And she said, I'm just not going to do that. And I said, yes, Mama, you are 82. And she said, no, I'm not. I said, mama, you have your own wing on the other side of the house. And she looked at me and she said, that ain't far enough. I mean, that has really scarred me.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, get over. Put you some vitamin E on and heal that scar. Because I'm still able to live by myself.

[Todd Chrisley]

I know, but, mom, I can. I cannot. You are a national treasure. And people will be trying to look at what happened to Nancy Guthrie.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

They not going to kidnap me for the same reason they did her.

[Todd Chrisley]

Mama, you on your conspiracy, folks. When I'm going to go down the road. She's not figured this whole thing out, and it's really bizarre, but that's not why she's missing. But you don't know what could happen to you.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I understand that.

[Todd Chrisley]

And if you're with me and Julie every day.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I know, but I don't need a babysitter yet when I. When I consider them a cow.

[Todd Chrisley]

We're not going to be. You're not, Mama. You're going to earn your keep.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But I ain't going to be maiden.

[Todd Chrisley]

You keep up your side of your. Of the house, your apartment and stuff. You Keep that up. And then we'll eat together every day like we do now. And then you and Julia go do your shopping. And then Terrence has already agreed he's going to take you to the casino.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't need nobody take me. I can take myself.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you just told him the other day that. Yes, it.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I said when I come to Biloxi, I said, I'll call you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, but you're going to be a further away from Biloxi, so he has to travel with you because you cannot be going that far by yourself. No, no, no. We're not gonna start all this again. You know what the deal is. You either mind, I'm gonna put one of them dog collars on your shock to piss out of you every time you talk back.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

You're gonna be sitting there.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not worried about what's gonna happen. I'm not worried about that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, good. You better hope, doctor. You better hope Dr. Chains got that bladder right, because I'm gonna shock the piss out of you.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm gonna go do. Do me and you do you. I need y' all caught.

[Todd Chrisley]

I am. I want you to learn how to do. How to two step.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm too old for that.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, you're not. There's a thing. There's a two step club in Texas for people 70 and older.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't want to.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I want to take you there and I want you to learn.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't want to.

[Todd Chrisley]

But, mama, you'll find you a cowboy. You know they say don't give. You know what they say about Texas?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

15 years.

[Todd Chrisley]

Everything's bigger in Texas.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't care about that. I'm not wanting to do no work for. That's not work. I don't.

[Todd Chrisley]

Just having a good time.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah. When I go to my house and you win, everybody always talks to me. They're nice to.

[Todd Chrisley]

And you think they're not going to do that if you're line dancing.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

But I don't do that. I don't do that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, you're going to have to try. You got to do different things.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm done. All I'm going to do.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I always cherish the time that you come on here and I love to do.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I know. I hate to have to come and bail you out.

[Todd Chrisley]

I know. She had to bail me out because I'm leaving for D.C. today. I'm going to speak on the Hill tomorrow regarding prison reform and to try to help as many people as I can. Then I'm off to Dallas for until Sunday. Julie comes home Thursday.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't know. But when she comes, I'll be packed up. Ready?

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, I think it's Thursday. This right here is ready to run. So does Julie hits the door. That must be why Chloe said this morning it's just going to be me and mom this weekend. Have you already told you you're going to casino?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I ain't even.

[Todd Chrisley]

Stick your tongue out as a lie bump.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, it ain't. No, I hadn't said anything back. I don't even talk about it till I know I'm going.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Then I call and tell them I'm on a room and I go and stay as long as I want to.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. Well, it's been a pleasure having you on again.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, when you need me to bail you out again.

[Todd Chrisley]

You're too expensive. I can't have you as a regular guest all the time. You rate. Some have got to come down.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, well. Yeah. I'm gonna get my own podcast.

[Todd Chrisley]

What would you call your own podcast? If you were to do your own podcast, what would it be?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Listen to Nanny and all of her Good Information.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's a long title that nobody's gonna remember.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Listen to Danny. She's good.

[Todd Chrisley]

Let's try to shorten it even more.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I don't know.

[Todd Chrisley]

Nanny talks.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Oh, no, no. Because what I say is truth.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I with Nanny.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I want to see everybody do.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's your podcast, Sex with Nanny.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, that's not what I'm going to call mine, but I want everybody to get up with a smile on their face and just be good and do the best you can. And listen, I pray for our country every day.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I do. And I always pray for the sick and the sad and the lonely because I want to see everybody happy and prospering and doing good. And listen, if I can help you, call me. I'll come and help you. Right?

[Todd Chrisley]

Because you're just a good soul.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I want to be the best that I can be. I said that I was going to start a show. Rent Nanny. Rent Nanny for the day with her grandbabies. Right. With your grandchildren.

[Todd Chrisley]

People don't want anyone watching their children when the nanny says, sit your ass down and shut the hell up. Now you go sit up and cry. I'll give you a reason to cry. Yeah, Shut up.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, I'm a prayer.

[Todd Chrisley]

Shut up. I got much.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I'm not babysitting. I'm just having a good time.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you believe that you might be a white version of Medea. Well, because you want to fight all the time.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

No, but I. Listen, I'm not going to let the children. I'm at the boss. My grandchildren didn't boss me and you didn't y'. All.

[Todd Chrisley]

What about my grandchildren bossing, you know.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Well, they're not gonna boss me either.

[Todd Chrisley]

What about Lester?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Who's Lester?

[Todd Chrisley]

That one that Savannah's gonna have.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Listen, I'm let it by. I let. Look at. We've done all kind of stuff with our grandbabies. We didn't tell you everything. And some things I have, but they'll laugh and say, now, I guess you're going to carry that with you. I said, until you piss me off, I'm going to carry it with you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Folks, you know that I'm normally going off about the BoP because they give me so much ammunition, but this week I have decided because it's been such a. I've had such a good run for the last three weeks in the BOP that I want to give credit where credit's due. There's a young man, Justin Thornton, who is over all of facilities for the Bureau of Prisons, and I have been able to work with him for the last couple of weeks to report conditions of certain prisons and the issues were resolved within 48 hours. So I know that what we're doing is making a difference because of people like Justin. So, Justin, thank you from the Chrisley family and for all that we're trying to do and you making that job easier. Mama, say hello to Justin and tell him how grateful we are to have him on our team. Hey, Justin, right there, that's your camera.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Hey, Justin, I just want to thank you for joining the Chrisleys and what they believe in and what they want to accomplish and get going with to make America great again.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, in that case, make America the Bureau of Prisons great.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yes. Help them out.

[Todd Chrisley]

Would you like to be a warden?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

I would be a great one.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because daddy used to call you warden.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Yeah, I'd be a great warden.

[Todd Chrisley]

So now's your time to say to Justin if he can put in a good word to get you hired.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Justin, if you need any help, call Nanny.

[Todd Chrisley]

Nanny's the warden.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

Nanny will be a warden.

[Todd Chrisley]

All right, folks, until next week, good luck and God bless Pluto.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

If I'm lying, I'm dying.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

Breathe.

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

This is the mantra.

[Todd Chrisley]

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

This is the mindset. Mindset. With movies like Titanic, Dreamgirls and Gladiator,

[Todd Chrisley]

why are you not entertained?

[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

And TV shows like Survivor, SpongeBob SquarePants, the Fairly Odd Parents, and Ghosts. Pluto TV is always free.

[Todd Chrisley]

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

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[Nanny Faye Chrisley]

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