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I, you know, I'm not showing up in my pajamas, but I do feel a little bit more elevated and fancy and sophisticated. And it's because I had gone up to LA today for an event which was so fun and I don't typically have a lot of excuses to Dress up like this. And, you know, it was, like, a nice event, and it was fun, and it was with this makeup brand. They were incredible. Okay? Incredible. The pop up, because they were visiting. They're not based out of Los Angeles. It was beautiful. So, so impressed. So much fun. Everyone was so kind, and I just had the best time, and I was already in this outfit, and I was considering changing and just getting into something more comfortable, like a cozy sweater or something, but I was like, you know what? We're just gonna keep rolling with it. Like, I loved this outfit so much. So here we are, guys. There we are. I love you guys. I love y'. All. Can I just tell you how much this podcast brings me joy? Like, true, genuine joy. And I think, if anything, obviously, my biggest thing with this podcast is, like, praise God, that this is something that the Lord is using to tell people about Jesus and. And, you know, to reach people. Like, it's his spirit, you know, moving through me that gets to just minister to you guys. And I'm really so grateful for that, but also, like, I'm just so grateful for this community. Like, genuinely grateful for the family that we have here. It's like nothing I've ever really experienced. I just love y', all, and I'm so proud of the people that you guys are. And so I just want to encourage that and encourage you guys in that. Like, I don't know if anyone has told you that they are proud of you, but I am genuinely so proud of you. And I know that we don't know each other personally, but I do know that the Lord is so proud of you. And just the fact that you're listening to a podcast like this, there are just so many other things that you could be doing with your time right now. And the fact that you want to spend your time this way in a way where we are hopefully in this episode, that's my goal in every episode, is to just look at Jesus. Like, the fact that that's how you're spending your time right now is just really amazing. And it's remarkable, and it's beautiful. And I just think the fact that we are all here and we are able to just look at Jesus is actually a miracle in itself. I think, you know, probably a lot of us listening right now maybe have stories like mine where I didn't know Jesus, like, that it's a miracle that I'm here today. And so in the way that I am, like, the fact that this is my life now is a literal freaking miracle doesn't make sense. And so, yeah, it's a miracle that you're here. It's also a miracle that you've just been created and formed by God. Like the odds. I looked it up. I shared it one time on the Internet of the odds of just being alive. Okay? People usually ask this because they're feeling the weight of how wild it is to exist. And honestly, the odds are insane. So listen to this, guys. Here's the simplest, clearest breakdown of what people mean by the odds of being alive. This is a calculation is like, it's actually an insane. I don't know what this number, I can't even say it back to you, but it says that's a one with 2.7 million zeros after it. That number is so huge, it might as well be zero. This includes your parents meeting them, staying together long enough to conceive the exact egg and sperm combining 1 in 400 quadrillion. Your ancestors surviving long enough to have children. Every event in history lining up to allow your existence. It's wild. Your existence isn't a random accident anyway, even if the odds are mathematically impossible. Scripture frames it differently. You were knit together in your mother's womb, which is Psalm 139, 13. Meaning you're not here by chance at all. You're here because God wanted you here. So in a scientific sense, the odds are almost zero that you exist right now. In a Christian sense, the odds are irrelevant because your existence is intentional. Another way to picture it, of just the odds of you being alive and the fact that we are all sitting here is a miracle, right? So a way to picture it is imagine the entire universe covered in grains of sand. Every planet, every moon, every star. Then imagine. Imagine picking one single grain at random. The odds of picking that exact grain someone secretly chose beforehand still much higher than the odds of you being born. It's just so crazy that mathematically we shouldn't exist. But the fact that we do, I don't know why, that just, like, wrecks me. But God so intentionally created you. So intentionally created you. And I think we just forget that. Like, we genuinely forget what a miracle it is to be alive. I think we probably take advantage of it. And I think that we also probably let the heaviness of life. Get in the way of remembering just how special it is to be alive. And I think that even though the pressure of the world, too, with how we're supposed to spend our life or what we're supposed to do with our life, and there's so much Pressure on doing it the right way or making the right decisions. And from, you know, a faith perspective, you know, if we're sitting here, I would imagine it's because you love Jesus or you want to learn how to love Jesus. But maybe we can sometimes fall into this cycle of, like, well, I want to live my life to the fullest of what God wanted for my life. You know, And I think that that's a really good desire to have, and I think it's an honoring desire to have. But there might be a point where we maybe are putting too much pressure on ourselves to be quote in the will of God, that we're just stressed and anxious the whole time about what our purpose is or what we're supposed to do here on Earth. And so I really would love to talk about purpose. I would love to talk about why in the world you're here. Why am I here? What are we doing? Like, okay, it's a miracle that we're alive. And it's crazy that we exist. Like, the odds of us existing is basically zero. That's how big the number is. But why? Like, like, actually why? Why are we alive? Why are we here? What's the purpose? What's our job? What are we supposed to do while we're here on Earth? And apparently this life, in comparison to eternal life is like a grain of sand compared to the life that we're going to live after this life, right, with Jesus in heaven in all of eternity, like, this is just a. Like a little glimpse, like a sparkle, like a little compared to the life that we're going to spend in eternity with Jesus. And so it is such a little blimp of, like, our life and what our life will look like even after this lifetime. But also, we want to spend it well. And if you do believe in Jesus and you love God with all of your heart, mind, and soul, first most important commandment is you want to do that well, and you go. And you want to go, okay, God, so then what am I here for? What did you make? Like, if I was so important to be made, why did you make me? And so if that is a question you have asked yourself in your life or just recently, I think this is gonna be a really good episode for you. And just a tiny little plug. Cause it's not yet finished yet. And I think I've. I think I've, like, I've snuck this in an episode before, maybe. I don't know. But I am writing a book. We're in the process of getting it out there and it being like an actual book. And what I've written about is around this topic of purpose. So I am very excited for that book to exist in the world very soon. But I felt such a burden to write about this topic of purpose. And I'm sharing a lot of my own stories in my life, of how I've navigated and how I've even gotten to where I am today and what clarity God has given me in my purpose. And so that'll definitely be a more in depth version than this podcast episode, of course, because it's a whole book. But I'm very excited about it and I. I'm excited to announce it. So, I mean, stick around if you'd like, keep your eyes peeled for whenever that can go live and follow me on socials and stuff too, because I'll definitely be talking about it on socials, but I'll be talking about it on here too. Duh. Anyway, purpose. Okay, let's talk about it. 1. It's so funny because I feel like that is like the. One of the deepest desires, if not like the deepest desire of the human soul. I think since the beginning of our lives is. I think the biggest thing that we are always trying to understand is why, like, why am I here? What was I made for? How to feel fulfilled and just how to feel confident and good. That, like, this is. No, this is what I was made for. And I think that when you are filled with that kind of purpose, there is that instant satisfaction that comes. Comes to our soul. Like, that restoration that comes to our soul of like, oh, this is what I was made for. And I think a lot of times, like, if you are in high school and you are figuring out what your passions are, like, what are your loves? What do you love to do? What are you passionate about doing? Is it sports? Is it being a counselor and helping people? Is it being a nurse? Is it being a doctor? Is it running your own business? Dreaming? Being an artist? Like, what does that mean? So finding that and then obviously, like, that's what you're gonna do with the rest of your life. And the thing is, is God has given all of us passions and abilities artistically. I mean, we can all be creative in our own ways. It doesn't mean you have to have necessarily a paintbrush and a canvas. But I do believe we're all creative and we have strengths and we have things that we love because those are gifts from God. And so I'm not saying that those things are bad, but I do think that A lot of times the world, especially if it's void of God, if it's void of Jesus. And it's like, we're just looking at that. That is where all our worth goes into. And that is our definition of our purpose. It's like, no, my purpose is this thing that I'm really good at. My purpose is to play basketball. My purpose is to, you know. And I feel like that's actually just like a little dinky, dinky sliver of what our actual purpose is here on Earth. And I think that's an expression of how to be in our purpose. Because, like, if you have a strength, that's the tool, that's the medium that you will definitely need to be using, like, as, you know, your tool in life. But I think we all have the same purpose. And then, like, with those gifts and those things that God has planted in all of our hearts, we all reach that, you know? But the big major purpose that I have realized, it's not. It doesn't just stop at that. And I think that's the disconnect that the world has is. It's like. It's actually quite, like, shallow. And it goes a lot deeper than that. It's not just like, oh, well, I'm really good at this, and I can help people in this way, and this is what I do. It's like, yeah, for sure. But also, like, there's such a deeper meaning to our purpose that is spiritual, that is rooted in, okay, where did we come from? Who were we created by? And who gave me these passions and these gifts or these things that I love? Like, if that's songwriting, who gave that to you? And so I think the first step of truly understanding our purpose, like, genuinely before anything else and is understanding who you were created by. I didn't say fully understand because we will never fully understand or be able to conceptualize who God is. Because he's massive. Massive. I believe at the end of our lives, like, even if we just, like, faithfully followed God and studied the Bible and studied Scripture and just, like, educated ourselves to the most of our abilities of who God is. And we did that for the rest of our lives until we were 93 years old, we probably still wouldn't come anywhere near truly understanding who God is. He's just too big. But he's so kind to have left his Holy Spirit, who genuinely is, like, our intercessor is our counselor, is the one or translator, you know, that can help us understand who God is. And I think, for me, like, the best way I've really understood who God is to me is through, obviously, scripture. Like, you guys, I've shared my story so many times of how I've come to Jesus, but it was scripture that actually introduced me to the spirit of God, which made me feel something I had never felt in my life. And so I actually think the way that I've understood God is through a way of feeling that sometimes I can't even put words to because that's how massive he is. Actually, that's like a whole nother rabbit hole that we could probably fall into of just like. I don't know, like, how we all can kind of encounter God differently. But I guess that's just been my experience is I feel like I've understood God more through obviously, scripture. And then the feelings. The feelings. I don't know. I can't just. It's just. It's just him. It's just his kindness, it's his love, it's his compassion, it's his empathy, it's his heart. Like, so I will say that I think step one is that is like being like, okay, who are you, God? Like, understanding my purpose, I think best start would be who made me, you know, so understanding our Creator to love God and walk closely with him. Your first calling is relationship, not performance. To know Jesus, talk to him, to trust him, to lean on him, and to let him shape your heart day by day. Everything else flows out of that place. And if those things sound overwhelming to you, it. We gotta go back to that very first sentence that said, your first calling is really relationship, not performance. So you don't need to strive. You don't feel like this is a checklist that you have to try to achieve. Like, okay, I have to talk to him, I need to trust him, I need to lean on him, and I need to let him shape my heart. Like, yeah, for sure. And you do actually. You have to talk to him. That is something you physically have to do. And I could be speak like preaching to the choir. A lot of you guys may know this, but also, if you're new, I just feel like maybe there could be a lot of new people that are just clicking on this episode because it's about purpose. And they're like, I don't know, maybe you've never even tried to consider Jesus, but I really think that going into it with an open heart of being like, I'm just gonna start talking to you, Jesus, and I'm gonna start opening my heart to you, and I'm gonna start praying and I'm gonna start reading Scripture. And, like, that is walking closely with him, you know, is, like, starting to lean on him and trust him and look at him like a friend. And I think that that's something that happens over time, just like any friendship. I mean, you think about when you start becoming friends with anybody, and probably the first couple hangs are a little like, who are you? What's your. What's your vibe? What are you about? And then the more that you realize that it's safe, and the more that you realize you actually really like this person and you like their character and you love their heart, and you're like, wait, this person's, like, actually so kind, and they're, like, really compassionate, and they kind of have a little bit of humor. Like, they're funny, and they make me feel safe, and they never make me feel judged. And then you just want to be around them all the time. And I think that is exactly what it's like becoming a friend of Jesus and letting him be your friend. And so, yeah, I just think that that comes with time. So, like, there is no pressure to be like, oh, but I gotta make sure all this, like, genuinely just come to him with an open heart and curiosity and being like, okay, God, I want to know who you are. Okay, Jesus, I invite you into my life and into my heart, and slowly but surely those things will all start to fall together. He will then be able to start shaping your heart day by day, and then everything else will flow out of that place. It's beautiful. It's like, the coolest thing ever. And so once we've done that, okay, let's say, okay, now we've. We've finally encountered the very man who saved my life, the very man who died on the cross for me, the very man who's created me. The man who humbled himself and came down from heaven to live a life like ours, but perfectly, never committing a single sin, overcoming all of sin and death and evil of the world so that we could be freed through his blood and his sacrifice, we can plead his blood and say, thank you, Jesus, for overcoming the sin of my life and the sin of the world. So once we've accepted him as Lord and Savior and we're starting to get familiar with him, and we're like, wait, Jesus, you're actually, like, the best person ever. I want to give my life to you. Okay, you've given your life to Jesus. You're like, this feels like purpose. I really believe that that is, like, the first step of really feeling so fulfilled is because the purpose of our existence is to know who we've been created by and to then love people the way that we've experienced the love of God. And so the next thing, okay, would be to reflect Christ into the world around you. There's something so powerful about being that example of Jesus in the ordinary moments. I recently went to the hair salon and my stylist complimented my hair and she was like, ally, I can tell that you use like the best of the best products. And truly, truly, you guys, that is how I feel when it comes to my overall self care. Like not just for my hair, but my skin care, my body care, like everything that I use to treat myself. I kind of want to use the best of the best because I know the benefits that comes with it. It's worth the investment to me because I know what I'm putting on my body is actually good for it. And a brand that I have been so obsessed with is osea. 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And so forgiving people quickly is a major, major thing that we are called to do and something that would set us apart as followers of Jesus, to show kindness that doesn't make sense, offer peace, intense places, and choose truth over convenience. Your life becomes a living picture of what God is like. So we're just supposed to reflect the the love of God. And the only way we can do that is to know him and to have experienced his love. And so that's why this can't actually come before step one. Step one is, who are you, God? Who made me? What's going on here? Why am I here? And then step two is be that example in the world of who God is and who Jesus is. And the example of who Jesus was. And Jesus humbling himself, being God was to also set the example like of how we are truly supposed to walk through life. One of the clearest ways we love God is how we treat people. Your purpose includes building others up, serving your family, friends and even strangers, showing compassion and being a safe, steady presence in A world that feels chaotic. Love is your ministry, Love is your purpose. Love, love. And not the fake kind of love. Like there's so many versions of love out there. I'm telling you, the. The fruits of the Spirit, which is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control, those are all fruits of the Spirit. And the Spirit is God. So this is the fruit of who God is. This is his character. This is who God is to the core of Him. And so that is who we're called to be. And those are only things we can access through His Spirit, through Him, through His Spirit working through us. So when you are baptized in the Holy Spirit, you have access to those fruits because His Spirit is the one that gives you the strength to have all of these things. And so if it's hard for you in the chaos of this world, in how unfair this world is, how evil this world is, how selfish people can be, how they can just backstab you with no problem and then walk away and, and dispose you off to the side of the road. Like that is, is the sad truth of the world that we live in now. And it is hard to practice these things when that is how we are being treated or that is that those are the things that are like honestly ruling and dictating a lot of the world right now. Like there, there, there just is not enough of this. The fruits of the Spirit, the character of God. There's not enough people practicing the true characteristics of who God is, which is joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control. And so to love people deeply and sacrificially through building people up, serving your family, friends and strangers, showing compassion, being a safe and steady presence in the world that feels chaotic, right? All these examples, but the only way you will be able to do those things is through the power of God and through His Holy Spirit. And so if that's an intimidating thing to hear right now, I have good news for you. You don't have to do it alone and you don't have to do it out of your own strength. That is what happens when you come into partnership with the very Creator who made you. We were made to love. And not just any love, not just any man made, manufactured, selfish love, that's all about ourselves and how other people can make us feel. But like, like the real definition of love that comes from the very source, which is God. He created us in love for love, to be loved by him and to love other people, God just is love. So now that we've gotten a better understanding of who our Creator is. We are not only doing that, we're walking closely with him, we're in relationship with Him. And then we're reflecting those same characteristics of who God is to the world. We're letting the Lord use us as a vessel and be like, I want to look just like you, God. I want to love people the way that I've experienced your love, the way that you love the real you. I want to show people the real you. So you're doing that. You're loving people deeply and sacrificially. And now it's like, how do we partner all of those things with also who God's created us to be? Like, individually, as a person, you're like, who have I been created to be? And that can stem from your personality, your gifts, your creativity, your voice, your story. None of it is random, whether through your job, relationships, music, creativity, or simply the way you make people feel seen. I think it really is that simple. What is the thing that God has put on your life and in your heart that makes people feel seen? At the end of the day, our purpose is also to help people feel seen. And if we do that in partnership of loving people, as God loves us and as God loves them, you are living the most purposeful life. And it isn't just about the title of who you are. It isn't just about the job that you were able to get. It isn't just about the college that you were able to get into. It isn't just about the money that you could make or the car that you could have or the house that you could have. Like, there is just too much emphasis on that being like. And that was my purpose, and that's my purpose. It's actually more so like, what are your gifts? And what has God created you to be and to do? And what. What is it about that that helps people feel seen? And I'm not saying that it's. It's a bad thing to want to be successful at that. It's not a bad thing to want to make a lot of money. Because I believe as Christians, we are called to be successful and make money so that we could bless people with that. Because money is a tool. And it is something that is still God's, by the way. Money is still God's. Everything is his, everything is God's. And so that is a tool that I believe God trusts us Christians with to bless other people and not to just make it about ourselves and to hoard it and to only have our income be about us. And there's nothing wrong with wanting to have a nice life and to have a night and even provide for your future family, if that's a goal that you want. But for that to be the only purpose of why we do what we do is where I believe there is a big disconnect. We should be thinking more about, okay, I want to operate in my strengths and my gifts that God has given me so that not only am I really good at it, but I want to be really good at it so that I can bless even more people and help even more people be seen and to feel loved by God. And that could be in a profession that isn't a pastor. It doesn't have to be something that's necessarily in, like, a Christian title, but you can absolutely do that in whatever that gift or talent could be. I believe that you can still point people to Jesus, no matter what that is, as long as it honors God, and as long as it is something that, you know was put in you for whatever reason, and whatever reason is because God had a plan for your life and he wanted you to use that very gift to love him with it by loving others with it. And also, if you're young and I. When I say young, I mean, you could be, like, high school, even college, like, if you're still having a hard time fully understanding. I do believe that deep down, though, like, in our gut, we know the very thing that God has made us for. And I think it's just a matter of, like, really sitting down with him and being like, okay, God, what are some characteristics about me? My personality, the things that I love to do, and the ways that I like to make other people feel through those things. What do you say about that? And what would you say I was made for with going to him and asking those questions? Like, if you genuinely are, like, I don't know, I think that would be such a cool invitation to sit with God and be like, all right, Lord, I want you to highlight my strengths, and I want you to bring to mind the things that I know I'm really strong. Like, if that's communication, if you're like, a strong communicator and you're so good at talking to people, I think that's a great start of being like, okay, God, I know this is a strength of mine. And then just like, letting him navigate you in your life and. And let him open the doors that need to be opened and close the doors that need to be closed. Do thoughts like Did I really mean that prayer? Or what if God is disappointed in me? Replay over and over again in your head. 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