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CockTales: Dirty Discussions
Hosted by Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe · EN
CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.
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The One Legged Drummer and Other Conversations We Shouldn't Have Had w/ Dree Taylor
2w ago01:04:43Tap to summarizeStart managing your money better today at rocketmoney.com/cocktalesKiki and guest co-host Dree Taylor are back with another hilarious and chaotic episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions. This week they discuss weird sex stories, fake industry friends, podcast life, dating preferences, New York culture shock, motherhood, and why some people really need attention 24/7.The conversation gets deeper when they respond to a listener struggling with whether to distance themselves from a family member accused of domestic violence — and how families often protect toxic behavior behind closed doors.The girls also open up about burnout, evolving friendships, preserving your energy in media, and whether podcasts have officially become the new talk shows.Start managing your money better today at rocketmoney.com/cocktalesGet 10% off Drive Boost from VB Health with code COCKTALES visit vb.health todayDownload Feeld in the App Store or Google Play.Follow our Special Guest CoHost Dree Taylor @_dreetaylorContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Ep. 493 "The Group Chat Said Leave!" ft. Special Guest Co-Host Dree Taylor @_dreetaylor
3w ago01:47:06Tap to summarizeThis week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Medinah is out, but Kiki is joined by special guest co-host Dree Taylor for an episode that feels like one long hilarious group chat you probably should’ve muted 😭From dating disasters and memorable link-ups to recession indicators, reality TV chaos, fake doctors, friendship breakups, and whether aliens are already living among us… nothing is off limits. Kiki and Dree dive into everything from Real Housewives of Atlanta drama and celebrity gossip to sex talk, conspiracy theories, broke men with too much free time, and why spaghetti might just be the official meal of economic struggle.Plus, the ladies unpack friendship boundaries, industry opportunists, and the weird ways people reveal who they really are. Pour up “The Group Chat Said Leave His Ass” cocktail and get ready for an unfiltered episode full of laughs, side quests, and the kind of conversations that only happen when your homegirl pulls up to co-host.Follow our Special Guest CoHost Dree Taylor @_dreetaylorFEELDDownload Feeld in the App Store or Google PlayBrooklyn BeddingUse code COCKTALESPOD for 30%off sitewide! This offer isn't available anywhere else! brooklynbedding.comIrohaVisit iroha store USA for luxurious Japanese self-pleasure products! Enjoy 10% off with code [cocktales10]. https://tidd.ly/4wPnFa8Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Warm the Buick Up: Let’s Talk Orgasms ft. Bryanna Gená
4w ago01:43:12Tap to summarizeThis week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are joined by board-certified sex and relationship coach Bryanna Gená for an honest (and hilarious) conversation about orgasms, fake moans, emotional foreplay, and why so many women struggle to speak up in the bedroom.The ladies break down the myths women were taught about sex, why penetration alone doesn’t work for everyone, and how emotional safety, chemistry, anticipation, and communication all play a role in pleasure.They also get into bad sex, “warming the Buick up,” men with too much confidence, masturbation, sex shame in the Black community, and why some people are literally counting sheep during sex. Plus: living apart while married, period diaper discourse, being attracted to men with “curated sex playlists,” and asking a date if he might be on the spectrum. Pour up and join the conversation because baby… somebody’s lying during sex.FEELDDownload Feeld in the App Store or Google PlaySOAKING WETVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% offContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Worst Behavior: Vacation Reveals EVERYTHING ft. Kitty Roberts
May 901:07:28Tap to summarizeThis week, we’re joined by Kitty Roberts — founder of Worst Behavior Tour — for a conversation about luxury travel, relationship drama, sexual curiosity, girls trips, and why everybody is NOT built for international travel. We talk about:the reality of hosting trips to places like Jamaica, Bali, Thailand, and the Philippinesrelationship drama that unfolds on vacationwhy some couples should NEVER travel togetherbalancing freedom, trust, and boundaries while datingsex clubs, open-minded relationships, and curiositytravel scams and red flags people miss when booking group tripswhy travel changes the way you see dating, men, and yourselfthe pressure women face when dating publiclyMeg Thee Stallion’s breakup discourse and why women are exhausted with cheating cultureKitty also shares stories from hosting trips to Hedonism II, wild travel moments, why communication matters before couples trips, and the difference between traveling for fun versus traveling for healing, freedom, and self-discovery. Whether you’re planning your next girls trip, thinking about booking a luxury group experience, or trying to decide if your relationship can survive a vacation together…this episode is for you.Offers From Our Sponsors:Drive Boost - VB HealthVisit vb,health and use code CockTales for 10% offFEELDDownload Feeld in the App Store or Google PlayMORE OFFERS:BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloudIf you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpodSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →“You Say You Deserve Better… So Why Are You Still There?”
Apr 3000:57:32Tap to summarizeThis week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re unpacking a word we use all the time but rarely question… deserve.What does it actually mean to deserve something? Is it earned… aligned… or just something we say we want?From dating standards and “soft life” expectations to the reality of accepting less than we claim we deserve, we get real about confidence, self-worth, and the disconnect between what we say and how we move.Plus, one of us shares a wild dating story that quickly turned into a lesson in knowing when to walk away… immediately. If you’ve ever said “I deserve better” but stayed anyway… this episode is for you.Offers From Our Sponsors:Soaking Wet- VB HealthVisit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% offSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.MORE OFFERS:BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloudIf you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpodSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →The Power of Girls: Raising Confident Women in a Chaotic World ft. Tameka Kee
Apr 2501:22:26Tap to summarizeThis week, we’re joined by the CEO of The Power of Girls, a program dedicated to building confidence, leadership, and cultural awareness in young girls. From international trips to real-life mentorship, they’re shaping the next generation of women in a major way. We get into what “power” really means (and why it’s not what you think), how confidence actually shows up in real life, and the fine line between being confident and being a people pleaser. Plus, we talk about social media pressure, body image, and why exposure matters more than perfection when it comes to raising girls. It’s funny, it’s honest, and it might have you rethinking your own definition of confidence.Offers From Our Sponsors:Drive Boost- VB HealthVisit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off or click the link in the episode descriptionMORE OFFERS:BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloudIf you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpodSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Contact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Hydration Station & Doomsday Delusions
Apr 1800:54:29Tap to summarizeThis week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we start things off light with a “hydration station” cocktail (because apparently water is the drink of the day 😭) before spiraling into a conversation that goes everywhere — and we mean everywhere. From reflections on Harriet Tubman’s no-nonsense leadership to debates about whether we’d survive the apocalypse, the girls get into family compounds, doomsday prepper plans, and what skills actually matter when everything falls apart. Let’s just say… not everyone is making the cut. Somehow, we also find time to debate fast food favorites, question what’s really in our food, and discuss helping others versus minding your business when life choices get questionable. And of course, the advice segment does not disappoint:– One listener wants to surprise her husband with anal sex but is TERRIFIED 😅– Another shares a church story that took a turn she absolutely did not see coming… It’s unhinged, it’s hilarious, it’s a little deep, and it’s very much CockTales. Grab your drink (or your water, apparently) and tune in. 🧠 Key Topics Covered“Hydration Station” aka… just drink waterHarriet Tubman & standing on businessFood cravings, fast food confessions, and conspiracy rabbit holesFamily compounds & end-of-the-world planningSurvival skills: what actually matters?Helping others vs. minding your businessListener advice: trying anal for the first timeChurch heartbreak & unexpected plot twistsOffers From Our Sponsors:BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloudIf you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpodSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Soaking Wet- VB HealthVisit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off or click the link in the episode descriptionContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Are You a Good Friend… or Doing Too Much?
Apr 1001:16:23Tap to summarizeThis week, Kiki and Medinah get real about the fine line between being a good friend and doing way too much. From unsolicited advice to judging your friend’s relationship choices, they break down when to speak up—and when to mind your business. Plus, a wild advice letter about dating a “good man” with not-so-good bedroom performance sparks an honest conversation about compatibility, sex, and what really matters in relationships.Offers From Our Sponsors:IndaCloudIf you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpodSuper.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Soaking Wet- VB HealthVisit soakingwet.com and use code CockTales for 10% off or click the link in the episode descriptionContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Black Girl's Guide To ATL: CockTales Edition ft. Shanita @blackgirlsguideatl
Apr 401:22:19Tap to summarizeThis week, we’re outside (literally) with a real Atlanta insider. We’re joined by Shanita, the woman behind @blackgirlsguideatl, and she came through with the blueprint for actually enjoying this city—whether you’re dating, solo, or outside with your girls.We kick things off with a round of I’m Curious to Know that gets a little personal (as usual), then get into everything Atlanta: where to go, what to do, and how to stop defaulting to the same tired dinner + drinks routine.From Beltline staples and hidden gems to interactive date ideas, museums, wine tastings, and even where to meet quality men (yes… she gave real strategy), this episode is basically your Atlanta starter pack. We’re talking daytime vibes, girl dates, family-friendly options, and experiences that actually make dating fun again.We also get into real conversation about confidence, self-worth, and dating from a place of abundance—not desperation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure where to start, this part is for you.Plus, we highlight some incredible Black-owned businesses, local experiences, and upcoming events you need to add to your list ASAP.Save this episode, share it with your group chat, and take notes—because Shanita did not come to play. Cocktail of the Week:“Sweet, But Don’t Play With Me”2 oz vodka1 oz triple sec½ oz fresh lemon juiceSplash of soda waterAdd ingredients over ice, top with soda water, and stir gently.Offers From Our Sponsors:Erika LustGet 45% off with code COCKTALES at Erikalust.com Super.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score.Follow Our GuestInstagram: @blackgirlsguideatlContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.comDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
Transcribe →Meet Me in the Middle: Effort Is Sexy & Y’all Acting Confused
Mar 2601:31:30Tap to summarizeThis week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions,the conversation gets real about effort, expectations, and the ongoing struggle of trying to meet people halfway… when they’re barely stepping forward.We’re joined by publicist and conflict coach, Adrienne, of the IPY Agency. We unpack the imbalance that shows up in dating and relationships — from emotional labor to planning, communication, and consistency — and ask: are we asking for too much, or are people just doing too little?The episode dives into what “meeting in the middle” actually looks like, how compromise gets misunderstood, and why so many situationships feel one-sided. Of course, we keep it honest, a little petty, and very relatable.Topics Covered:What “meeting in the middle” really means in datingFeeling like you’re always the one putting in effortUnrealistic expectations vs. bare minimum behaviorWhy compromise shouldn’t feel like sacrificeSituationship dynamics and uneven energyEmotional labor and communication gapsKnowing when to adjust… and when to walk awayOffers From Our Sponsors:DRIVE BOOST BY VB HEALTHVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Super.comStart building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Follow Our GuestInstagram: @impromotingyouAdrienne’s Site: Public Relations | The IPY Agency | United StatesPurchase Meet Me In the Middle https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper” www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsMOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklistBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
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