Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry & Lindsie Chrisley – Episode Summary
Podcast: Coffee Convos
Episode: 2025 Might Take Us Out
Date: December 11, 2025
Hosts: Kail Lowry & Lindsie Chrisley
Episode Overview
In this lively episode, Kail and Lindsie dive into a freewheeling conversation about the quirks and chaos of mom life, family routines, the evolution of social media, relationship dynamics, finances in partnerships, privacy boundaries, and playfully honest sex talk. True to Coffee Convos form, no topic is off-limits as these two close friends swap rants, advice, and hilarious confessions, always keeping it real while reminding listeners that no one truly has it all figured out.
Bathroom Habits & Pet Peeves (03:29–09:16)
- Toilet Paper Placement: Kail and Lindsie debate "over" vs. "under" for toilet paper rolls, with Kail firmly “over.”
- Both are regularly irked by public restroom behavior, especially people who abandon empty rolls or just set them atop the holder.
- Trash Cans in Bathrooms:
- Lindsie avoids bathroom trash cans due to germ and bug fears, choosing to take feminine products to the kitchen trash.
- Kail sees this as impractical and reveals she only changes the bathroom trash after her period, noting, “I would be changing it every single day.” (06:10)
- Kail: “Please do not fucking come around me and you don’t put liners in your trash bags. I do not want to pick shit off the bottom of a trash can.” (05:39)
- Diaper Disposal: Both avoid keeping dirty diapers inside for long. Lindsie used grocery bags for sealing diapers, while Kail tosses them outside immediately.
- Nostalgic Rants: Discussion of uniquely "Diaper Genie" people and mild horror at the thought of used diapers fermenting inside the house.
Relationships, Parenting, and Generation Gaps (10:30–13:33)
- Modern Relationships: Lindsie contemplates a possibly questionable decision after getting a cryptic “Are we stupid for this?” text.
- Single Mom Struggles: Discussion transitions to Lindsie’s not sleeping at home and being caught by her child via phone location sharing.
- “Isn't it crazy how our relationship with our kids just change as time goes on?... They know what's going on.” (12:27) — Kail
- Lindsie notes how much nosier kids are, with her son accessing her texts and knowing every family password.
Passwords & Digital Privacy (14:38–16:12)
- Kids & Tech: Lindsie laments her son’s digital savvy—he knows all the family passwords and accesses various devices at will.
- “No one's ever gonna know. Like, no, that's just the bottom line. Nobody’s ever gonna figure it out.” (15:34) — Lindsie
- Password Management: Both hosts eat crow about their casual password habits, with Kail using a spreadsheet and Lindsie using repeated passwords with slight variations.
Social Media Fakery & Influencer Culture (16:20–25:31)
- Influencer Posers: They recount a viral story of an influencer faking a workout for content.
- Kail: “I have such a love hate relationship with all of like the influencers and content creators…” (18:46)
- Outrage over content “posing” vs. genuine sharing, longing for more honesty on social platforms.
- Genuine vs. Curated:
- Lindsie pushes back against the curated, unrealistic highlight reels that dominate Instagram.
- Both hosts struggle with whether sharing “day in the life” vignettes ever really captures their reality.
- Kail: “I’m so far removed from [content creation] at this point. So that’s been really challenging for me to accept... what do I have to offer people, what can I do now?” (25:31)
Adulting, Transparency and Relatability Online (25:57–27:20)
- Rebirth after Public Life: They swap notes on how to become more authentic, discussing transitions out of reality TV and the struggle to create content that is both relatable and real.
- Kail’s 2026 goal: show what grocery shopping/cooking for a family of nine is REALLY like.
Breastfeeding Normalization & Parenting Culture (29:13–36:11)
- Pumping While Teaching: A viral article spurs a discussion on breastfeeding normalization.
- Both women are fiercely pro-breastfeeding, with zero patience for public shaming.
- “If you are uncomfortable with my boob feeding my baby, I do not give a fuck. That is a you problem.” (29:45) — Lindsie
- “If we just normalize things like that from the beginning of time, there would be no controversy by the time these kids get into high school...” (35:19) — Kail
Nosiness, Traditions, & Family Fascinations (36:25–41:26)
- Observing their kids' different play styles fascinates Kail, who envies how grandchildren pick up unique family traditions.
- Both hosts admit their nosiness extends to other families’ routines/questions about exes and relationships.
Finances & Relationship Structures (39:00–48:46)
- How Do Couples Manage Money?
- Kail and Lindsie are stunned by couples who split everything, even kids’ expenses, down the middle.
- “We had one account that all the money went into, and... it got paid.” (41:01) — Lindsie
- Joint accounts vs. totally separate finances—everyone has radically different systems.
- Producer Kristen shares her own arrangement: she and her husband maintain a joint checking for all shared expenses but keeps personal savings.
- “Everything has been joint from there on... Parameters on don’t spend over a certain amount of money without checking with the other person.” (45:07) — Kristen
- Kail’s marriage boot camp insight: “At the end of the day in a relationship... your baggage becomes my baggage.” (47:27)
- All agree every couple does it differently, and they crave feedback from listeners on this topic.
Living Arrangements & Downsizing (61:15–65:42)
- Lindsie ponders selling her house and downsizing to a luxury apartment, tempted by a lighter maintenance lifestyle as she co-parents part-time.
- Kail relates to the desire for less upkeep, especially after years of living in unnecessarily huge homes.
- Humor at the idea of both co-hosts living their best lives in little posh apartments (“I’m going to be a Pilates instructor rebrand,” jokes Lindsie [65:42]).
Explicit Sex & Relationship Stories (66:05–68:42)
- Foul Play Segment:
- Listener story: After a heavy meal, a woman throws up on her boyfriend during oral sex—now husband, still a great sport fourteen years later.
- “What happens when you throw up on a dick?” (67:38) — Lindsie
- Kail: “You’re mortified, probably gonna cry, pure embarrassment...” (67:43)
- Lindsie: “At the point that throw up has transpired, this game’s all over.” (67:52)
- Hilarious retelling and non-judgmental, real talk about intimacy and accidents.
Other Notable Quotes & Moments
- “We are truly breeding the nosiest generation of children.” (13:09) — Lindsie
- On exes coming back: “People always spin the block.” (33:34) — Kail
- On privacy and digital boundaries: “It’s the point that this is my phone... I don’t want anyone reading what’s in my phone, let alone my parent.” (52:28) — Kail
- On ‘spank bank’ nudes: “If you have nude videos and photos of an ex on your phone and you are in a new relationship, that is absolutely, absolutely cheating.” (55:00) — Lindsie
- On lavender marriages: “If it’s mutually beneficial... I’m open to that. Because it’s more of, like, a life companion.” (59:44) — Kail
Recurring Themes & Tone
- Candid, Unfiltered BFF Banter: Humor, self-mockery, and occasional raunchiness.
- Motherhood Real Talk: No sugarcoating, whether the topic is periods, diapers, or emotional struggles.
- Skepticism of Social Media Culture: Both hosts push back against influencers faking their lives for content.
- Curiosity About Other People's Choices: A blend of relatable nosiness and recognition that there’s no one "right" way for relationships, parenting, or finances.
- Keeping it Real: Honest admissions of failures, fears, and accidents—especially in relationships.
Recommended Segments & Timestamps
- Bathroom Realities & Trash Can Debate – 03:29–09:16
- Influencer Fakery Rant – 16:20–25:31
- Parenting & Kids' Privacy – 12:27–15:32
- Finances & Couples – 39:00–48:46
- Real-Life Sex Mishaps (“Foul Play”) – 66:05–68:42
For First-Time Listeners
If you’ve never tuned in to Coffee Convos before, this episode captures the heart of the show: two friends refusing to pretend motherhood, relationships, or adulting are neat and tidy, and inviting listeners to laugh, groan, and relate right alongside them. From serious discussions to gut-busting confessions, Kail and Lindsie offer both the camaraderie and honesty modern moms and women crave.