Coffee Convos Podcast: "Have Some Couth!"
Hosts: Kail Lowry & Lindsie Chrisley
Date: November 13, 2025
Podcast: Coffee Convos by PodcastOne
Episode Overview
This episode, titled "Have Some Couth!", sees reality stars and close friends Kail Lowry (Teen Mom) and Lindsie Chrisley (Chrisley Knows Best) dive into their usual blend of candid conversation about life as mothers, women in the public eye, and humans navigating consumerism, relationships, holiday chaos, boundaries, and taboo topics. The episode is marked by its unfiltered, often hilarious, back-and-forth and insights informed by their unique experiences.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Holiday Consumerism and Fast-Tracking Seasons
(Starts ~01:55)
- Kail and Lindsie rant about stores and social media skipping over Thanksgiving and jumping headfirst from Halloween into Christmas.
- Kail: “I am really sick and tired of going to the store and seeing another holiday when the first holiday didn’t pass.” (02:07)
- Both share frustrations about feeling pressured to keep up with others' decorations or holiday shopping sprees.
- Lindsie: Relates being a "Grinch" and not wanting to engage with holidays at all.
- Discussion on influencers accelerating the cycle by promoting holiday products earlier.
- Kail: "Influencers...are putting all this stuff up early so people can get it, you know?" (04:21)
2. Parenting & Buying for Kids
(05:04)
- Lindsie struggles with saying no to her kids’ wants versus needs—like jeans or cleats.
- Lindsie: “I don’t know how to say no to my children.” (05:04)
- Kail: Observes the pressure to buy, "Did the kids need new cleats? Not really, but I’m gonna buy them anyway because they want them. And that’s not okay either." (06:06)
- Brief exchange about whether giving clothing as a present resonates with all kids.
3. Social Media, Opinions & the Jenner Discussion
(07:07 – 11:22)
- Viral Kendall Jenner clip: “I love her, she’s my dad,” referencing Caitlyn Jenner.
- Lindsie: Dissects outrage over the quote. “Are we really normalizing saying, ‘she’s my dad’… I can’t wrap my head around people caring that much when it does not affect them.” (08:02)
- Kail: Reflects on how social media encourages everyone to have (and share) an opinion. "There are some things you just do not need to have an opinion on. That would be one of them.” (09:15)
- Both agree public figures face outsized scrutiny, something they empathize with.
4. Motherhood, 'Couth,' and Raising Kids with Manners (and Tolerance for Grossness)
(11:47 – 16:55)
- Kail’s hilarious car story about her son’s “marinating farts” and making him run as punishment.
- Kail: “You will not fart on me in my vehicle… I am raising somebody’s husband one day… If you think that I’m going to subject some poor, innocent person [to that]…” (13:07)
- Lindsie talks about parenting hacks, like scaring her son into washing properly, and the wish for kids to "have some couth"—manners and social skills.
- Both touch on the discomfort and awkwardness of bodily functions and parenting teens into responsible adults.
5. Sleeping Habits & Relationship Boundaries
(18:04 – 21:31)
- Conversation veers into sleepwear in relationships, comfort, and the practicality of PJs vs. sleeping naked.
- Kail: “If my house caught on fire and I’m naked, I’m going out naked.” (20:22)
- Lindsie: Talks about dealing with kids bringing crumbs into bed; “Crumbs is…one hill that I’m gonna die on...” (21:31)
6. Wearable Tech & Self-Tracking
(21:48 – 26:55)
- Amusing confusion and schooling about Apple Watch data/electronic plan/capabilities (Kail knows, Lindsie’s clueless).
- Lindsie: “I thought I bought it at the store and that’s it.” (22:51)
- Comparing step-counting, activity, and fall-off of bike riding habits after an initial burst of enthusiasm.
7. Maintaining Independence & Need for Space
(29:05 – 30:06)
- Kail’s discomfort at being reliant while away from home; considers buying a scooter for mobility.
- Brief segment on the logistics of being between homes and the emotional/mental toll.
8. Birds vs. Windows: Suburban Woes
(30:06 – 31:43)
- Kail discusses finding dead birds at her house—birds flying into glass doors—and seeks outlandish suggestions (Lindsie: "Try Saran Wrap").
- Kail sums up: “No, I’m definitely not doing that, because then that affects my view.” (31:11)
9. Hyperbaric Chamber & Multitasking in Self Care
(34:41 – 37:18)
- Kail brings up Paris Hilton’s claim that she owes her looks to time in a hyperbaric chamber—not fillers.
- Both reflect on time management and “multitasking” during self-care, underscoring modern life’s demand for productivity even in supposed downtime.
- Kail: “If I was doing…sauna…while productively getting something else done…Because it seems so time consuming…” (36:11)
10. Relationship Capacity, Boundaries, and Communication Style
(37:27 – 47:12)
- Questioning the idea humans can maintain 200 relationships; both are skeptical.
- Lindsie: “We, as humans, only have the capacity to maintain up to 200 relationships? ... I already have nine in my own household.” (38:26)
- Kail: “There’s maybe five people that I maintain a relationship with, like, in totality.” (40:00)
- Discussion of gradients of relationships: work vs. personal, transactional vs. deep, high-maintenance vs. easy, and the legitimacy of "cutting off" draining connections.
- Both express preference for deep, meaningful relationships over surface-level small talk and clarify that lack of contact doesn’t equal lack of care.
- Lindsie: “I hate surface level conversations. I don’t want to fill the silence with small talk.” (43:59)
- Modern texting culture: preference for not texting all day—wanting to save conversation for in-person moments.
11. Tech, Constant Contact, and Generational Shifts
(47:43 – 54:20)
- Both agree that constant connectivity (phones, Snapchat, texting, even for kids) adds to overconsumption, reduces boundaries, and can harm the value of in-person interaction.
- Kail: “...the extreme access that these kids today feel like they need to have with everyone...I liked it back in the time when he did not have a cell phone.” (44:44)
12. "Am I The A-hole" Listener Submission: Grandma & Toy Overload
(54:20 – 59:05)
- Listener frustrated: MIL showers only grandchild with toys, teaching transactional love and creating friction in the family.
- Lindsie: “My problem...would be less about the toys and more about the lies and manipulation...no, I don’t think you’re the a--hole.” (55:42)
- Kail: “That relationship is teaching the child to have transactional relationships.” (56:26)
- Suggest alternative: grandmother can gift to savings instead.
- Both hosts admit to wanting to spoil their own nieces/nephews or kids but caution about the relational precedent set by constant gifts.
13. Foul Play: Sex Toy Mishap & Taboos in the Bedroom
(60:40 – 64:10)
- Listener’s embarrassing bedroom story involving a “bullet” sex toy, some alcohol, and a near-ER visit.
- Lindsie and Kail share personal (and awkward) experiences and reflect on the overrated nature of certain sex acts.
- Lindsie: “Some people love anal…They claim. I don’t know that I believe them. I want to give somebody a lie detector test who says they love anal sex.” (62:58)
- Both question the appeal of certain activities (thumb in the butt, anyone?).
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- “I'm just not with the fakery anymore.”
— Kail Lowry (01:16), fittingly setting the no-filter tone. - “As a parent...the relationship that is being created with the mother-in-law is teaching the child to have transactional relationships.”
— Kail Lowry (56:26) - “Are we really normalizing saying, ‘she’s my dad’? ...I can’t wrap my head around people caring that much when it does not affect them.”
— Lindsie Chrisley (08:02) - “I hate surface level conversations. I don’t want to fill the silence with small talk. It’s not where I don’t have. I don’t even want to listen to music anymore because I just need silence...”
— Lindsie Chrisley (43:59) - “You will not fart on me in my vehicle. ...I am raising somebody’s husband one day...”
— Kail Lowry (13:07) - “If my house caught on fire and I’m naked, I’m going out naked.”
— Kail Lowry (20:22) - “It's better out and feel the shame than in and feel the pain.”
— Lindsie Chrisley (16:42) - “We, as humans, only have the capacity to maintain up to 200 relationships? ...I already have nine in my own household.”
— Lindsie Chrisley (38:26) - “Some people love anal…They claim. I don’t know that I believe them. I want to give somebody a lie detector test who says they love anal sex.”
— Lindsie Chrisley (62:58)
Timestamps for Key Segments
- Holiday Rant & Consumerism: 01:55 – 07:07
- Parenting, Wants & Needs: 05:04 – 07:07
- Kendall/Caitlyn Jenner & Internet Outrage: 07:19 – 11:22
- Raising Kids with ‘Couth’: 11:47 – 16:55
- Sleeping Naked, Relationships & Fires: 18:04 – 21:31
- Wearables, Step Counting & Bike Rants: 21:48 – 29:05
- Birds vs. Windows: 30:06 – 31:43
- Self-Care & Time Management: 34:41 – 37:18
- Relationship Capacity & Boundaries: 37:27 – 47:12
- Tech, Contact, and Overconsumption: 47:43 – 54:20
- Listener Submission: Toy-Giving Grandmother: 54:20 – 59:05
- Foul Play: Sex Toy Mishap: 60:40 – 64:10
Conclusion
This episode blends relatable “mom life” struggles, sharp observations on modern culture and relationships, and a humorous finish with their signature "foul play" story. Kail and Lindsie’s dynamic remains open-hearted, irreverent, and honest—always championing boundaries and authenticity over keeping up appearances.
Recommended for: Listeners who enjoy real talk about motherhood, modern relationships, pop culture hot takes, and unfiltered humor about both everyday and TMI topics.