Why do Christian marriages drift when both spouses love God and said “until death do us part”?

In this honest and eye-opening episode, Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on a hard truth: most Christian marriages do not explode overnight. They erode quietly. The connection fades. Conversations get shallow. Intimacy is replaced with activity. And before long, two believers who serve God faithfully feel like roommates under the same roof.

They break down the subtle warning signs many couples miss. Spiritual drifting. Avoiding hard conversations. Tolerating small compromises. Replacing affection with function. Keeping score instead of fighting for unity. These are the little foxes that slowly spoil the vineyard.

Drawing from Scripture like Song of Solomon, Ecclesiastes, and Revelation, they remind couples that loving Jesus is not the same as tending your marriage. You can attend church and still neglect your covenant. You can serve in ministry and still lose heart connection at home.

This episode is a wake-up call and an invitation. Guard your garden. Fight for your oneness. Seek God together. Because a marriage surrendered to Christ is not easily divided.

If your relationship feels distant, this conversation might be the turning point.

Chapters

00:00 The Decline of Christian Marriages

11:01 Spiritual Drift and Its Consequences

16:12 Replacing Intimacy with Activity

21:12 The Importance of Hard Conversations

28:32 Avoiding Compromises and Keeping Score

33:32 Rebuilding Connection and Restoration

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Why Christian Marriages Quietly Fall Apart