Can I Try A Piece? - Episode 217

Summary

Crash Dummies Podcast with Pat and Mike – Episode 217: "Can I Try A Piece?"

Released on July 30, 2025, Crash Dummies Podcast hosts Patrick Johnson and Michael Esiobu delve into a variety of engaging and sometimes controversial topics. In Episode 217, titled "Can I Try A Piece?", Pat and Mike navigate through discussions ranging from social media privacy and app security to national debt, weddings, personal relationships, and more. This detailed summary captures the essence of their conversation, enriched with notable quotes and structured for clarity.

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1. WhatsApp Privacy and Social Media Authenticity

Pat opens the episode by discussing WhatsApp's privacy features, emphasizing that personal messages remain confidential within your circle.

Mike [00:01]: "Whether you're sharing the streaming password in the family chat, or trading those late night voice messages, your personal messages stay between you, your friends, and your family. No one else, not even us."

The conversation shifts to a recent incident involving a parody account of NFL star Christian McCaffrey. Jean recounts spotting dubious tweets attributed to McCaffrey, sparking a discussion on the importance of verifying information on social platforms.

Christian McCaffrey [00:59]: "Sometimes you got to fact check some stuff."

2. Merchandising and Community Engagement

Mid-episode, Pat and Mike introduce their latest merchandise, highlighting the quality and design tailored for their audience. They encourage listeners to purchase and proudly wear their Crash Dummies gear.

Jean [03:35]: "These are very good quality. They are printed on unfinished legacy blanks... give them about two to three weeks to ship."

Christian McCaffrey [04:04]: "We also gave y' all something that's also a little bit more subtle. So people don't know if you got a podcast shirt on."

3. The T App Scandal: Security Breaches and Privacy Concerns

A significant portion of the episode addresses the recent security breaches of the T app, an anonymous platform where users discuss societal dangers. Jean expresses concern over leaked IDs and inappropriate content resulting from the hack.

Jean [06:05]: "People are saying that there was a lot of, like, porn kind of going on... they're putting out sex tapes."

The hosts lament the original purpose of such apps versus their current misuse, emphasizing the broader implications of app security vulnerabilities.

Christian McCaffrey [07:25]: "If everybody can access something, it's not going to be good."

4. National Debt and Government Financial Policies

Pat and Mike dive into a quirky topic: the ability to send money to the U.S. government via Venmo and PayPal to reduce national debt. They humorously critique the concept and the government's handling of tax-related information.

Christian McCaffrey [10:39]: "I just don't understand... it's a debt that's never going to be paid off because we're always going to borrow money."

5. Weddings: Venue Choices and Personal Experiences

The conversation turns to weddings, with the hosts sharing unconventional venue ideas and their personal dislikes about traditional ceremonies. They debate the length of weddings and the dynamics of speeches given by bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Jean [14:03]: "If y' all had to marry at a random store, which store would it be at?"

Jean [16:04]: "I just don't like all the attention being on me."

6. Barbershop Tales and Personal Anecdotes

Pat shares a memorable (and unfortunate) experience at a barbershop, highlighting issues like lack of professionalism and personal discomfort during services.

Christian McCaffrey [31:25]: "That was probably one of the worst haircuts that I ever had. I still haven't recovered."

7. Celebrity Discussions: Hulk Hogan and Public Perception

The hosts touch upon the late Hulk Hogan, balancing his legendary status with his controversial actions, reflecting on how society separates achievements from personal misconduct.

Jean [36:39]: "He was good at what he did... people are done. He's also a shitty person."

8. Listener Callers: Relationships, Cheating, and Personal Struggles

A series of interactions with listeners or guests explores deep personal topics such as cheating in relationships, pick-me behaviors, and communication issues within romantic partnerships.

Mike [44:17]: "What I get out of it is I'm not as bored as I am in the relationship that I am in."

Christian McCaffrey [47:34]: "She has always been in a relationship... she just has a track of being in a relationship."

9. Responsible Community and Feedback

Towards the end, Pat and Mike encourage their community to engage more through social media, subscribe to Patreon for exclusive content, and partake in merchandise promotions.

Jean [93:21]: "Make sure you guys subscribe to Patreon as well... tag all our pages."

Christian McCaffrey [93:30]: "It's a barrier of entry to be a little bit less for people to join for the first month."

10. Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

The episode wraps up with reflections on national issues, personal growth, and maintaining community standards, reinforcing the podcast's commitment to engaging and honest discussions.

Christian McCaffrey [94:06]: "Spending less, smile more."

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Notable Quotes:

• Mike [00:01]: "Your personal messages stay between you, your friends, and your family. No one else, not even us."
• Christian McCaffrey [07:25]: "If everybody can access something, it's not going to be good."
• Jean [93:21]: "Make sure you guys subscribe to Patreon as well... tag all our pages."

Key Takeaways:

• Privacy Matters: Emphasizing the importance of secure communication platforms and the risks of app breaches.
• Community Engagement: Encouraging listeners to support through merchandise and Patreon, fostering a close-knit community.
• Personal Growth: Honest discussions on relationships highlight the complexities of modern romantic dynamics.
• Social Commentary: Light-hearted yet critical takes on societal issues like national debt and pick-me behaviors.

Conclusion:

Episode 217 of the Crash Dummies Podcast offers a multifaceted conversation that blends humor, personal anecdotes, and critical social commentary. Pat and Mike successfully engage their audience by addressing relatable issues, promoting community involvement, and maintaining an authentic dialogue throughout the episode. Whether discussing the latest app scandals or navigating the intricacies of personal relationships, this episode provides valuable insights and entertaining perspectives for both longtime listeners and newcomers alike.

Transcript

[Mike]

On WhatsApp, no one can see or hear your personal messages. Whether it's a voice call message or sending a password to WhatsApp, it's all just this. So whether you're sharing the streaming password in the family chat, or trading those late night voice messages, that could basically become a podcast, your personal messages stay between you, your friends and your family. No one else, not even us.

[Christian McCaffrey]

WhatsApp message privately with everyone. Hey guys, it's Christian McCaffrey, pro running back. I'm partnering with Abercrombie this season to tell you about their viral denim. All you need to know is denim should fit like this. Abercrombie's athletic fit is a game changer. They're designed for guys with an athlete's build like mine. Just enough room and the perfect stretch. When a jean fits that well, I'm wearing it on repeat. Shop Abercrombie denim in the app, online and in store. So I was scrolling on Twitter the other day and I saw a tweet from what I thought was a parody account, so I ignored it. And then I saw another screenshot about that tweet. So, you know, sometimes you got to fact check some stuff.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I went to the person's page and saw that they actually tweeted and I thought it might have been like the worst tweet of all time. And it was just an emojis. It was from P. Diddy and it was like the eyeball.

[Jean]

Oh yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And I just. I just feel like that's just not him. I feel like he. The eyeball emoji is no longer yours. You don't get to use that. Like that's the eyeball emoji. Like if you send me the eyeball emoji, I think like, oh, you got tickets to something or you're somewhere and you're about to let me know or whatever. Yeah, eyeball emoji is more like surprise.

[Jean]

Diddy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's not you, Diddy.

[Jean]

Yeah, he can't. You can't try to be like mysterious and you already kind of live this mysterious lifestyle. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You put the eyeball in.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What are you about to tell us?

[Jean]

Anyway, welcome to crash dummies episode 216. I'm Mike, by the way. Haha. He, he. And I am from Nigeria.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Wait, go ahead, wait. I want to apologize real quick because that's the only time I'm rem.

[Jean]

It.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Episode 215. My bad Philly. That's crazy. Cuz we just had our Philly guys up here. Lionel J.

[Jean]

And plug that's gonna be on the Patreon episode on Monday.

[Christian McCaffrey]

On Monday. But 215. I apologize, Philly. You right. But that's not just something in my brain.

[Jean]

Remembering a Philly area code is not. Come on, now. They don't. I don't even hear Philly rappers rap about the area code.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like, yes, I tell you, like, Detroit.

[Jean]

I know Detroit's area codes because a lot of people say 313 all the time.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's literally three world. I mean, like, come on, it's eight.

[Jean]

Mile all over, like, Philly. That's up to y' all to shout out y' all area code.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Dina live 215. I didn't know that the 215 was Philly. That's my fault. But don't get mad at me for some like that.

[Jean]

Oh, man. Yo, quick break to talk about merch. Merch is finally here.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes.

[Jean]

Y' all. Thought I was capping.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You see me, I have on the yellow crash D dummies with the little car and mic.

[Jean]

I have the. The crash dummy's head. This is what I feel like. This is one of our very artful pieces of merch. Something that you can actually wear at with a fit, not just like podcast merch and stuff.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I wanted to get. That's the thing I wanted to do for them, which I'm glad, you know, Mike took the lead on finding this design is to give y' all a shirt that y' all can actually go out to the club with, to the bar with, because the last shirt we put out. Listen, I'm not judging some of y' all style. Y' all should not have been going to the club. You know what I mean? So I want to get y', all, like, some graphic, you know, something like this, something simple where y' all can rock us. And. And also, we got another one that obviously y'.

[Jean]

All. Yeah, you guys will see on the screen somewhere. Audio listeners just go straight to the crash dummiesmerch.com.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But, yeah, we also gave y' all something that's also a little bit more subtle. So people don't know if you got a podcast shirt on. Maybe you want to hide us for some reason.

[Jean]

These are very good quality. They are printed on unfinished legacy blanks. So you guys know, part of the clothing brand. And we use really nice blanks and really high quality. So you guys are getting really good quality. Give them about two to three weeks to ship. And yeah. Oh, yeah, if you're in the Patreon, you already saw already, you guys got the Discount. So if you're not in the Patreon, you can join the Patreon. The Patreon, get your little discount.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Join the Patreon, get your discount.

[Jean]

And it's a Patreon discount.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You get a discount on Patreon, discount on merch.

[Jean]

Yep.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And then obviously you get to enjoy the. The content that's coming. And we're about to push out some more vlogs, so you get a lot more than what people usually get when they join a Patreon. So let us know.

[Jean]

And as we got to tell them, the website, you got to go to www.crash dummies merch.com or you can just click in the description somewhere and it's. We're going to put it somewhere. Make it for y' all to get to.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, man. Also, again, once you get the merch, what we'll keep rewinding. You keep reminding you, you know, two or three weeks from now, when you get your merch, take pictures in the merch. Show us, Tag me, Mike, Jean, whoever you want and just show us that you got your merch on so we can repost it and influence others to get the merch. So.

[Jean]

All right, appreciate it. All right, enough yapping and gets back to more yapping. Peace.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

Oh, we talked about this on the Patreon episode that's coming out next week, but Jean wasn't here. The T is going through some, some, Some scandals right now where it got hacked and the ti. For people that don't know it was a anonymous app where a woman can go on and talk about men that might be a danger to society. And I was saying how kind of one. It's kind of weird that there's some guys that are too angry at this. Well, bro, this is like. All right, bro, chill out.

[Christian McCaffrey]

We know why those dude. Some of those dudes mad because they know they're going to end up on the T app and they don't want that tea out there.

[Jean]

Yeah. Wow. That was very philosophical of you.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Appreciate it, Appreciate it. But what. But like you were saying, like, you explain more how the T app got leaked. What, what Exactly.

[Jean]

I was so basically was saying that one, that the security measures of the. The app were. Were terrible. Like you could download like the JPEG files and like hacked it pretty easy and got all that. But they saw, they, they. So they hacked it. And so like people's eye, you know, you need an ID to, to verify that you're a woman, I guess.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Right.

[Jean]

And then people's IDs were getting leaked. And the shitty part about this too, is that there's people's IDs and their faces getting put on the Internet too. And, like, this is the type of people I expected in this group and stuff like that. The thing. I mean, people are saying that there was a lot of, like, porn kind of going on, or, like, not even porn, I guess it's not point for acting. But sex tapes, they're like, they're putting out there. And like, people. Dudes might be sending, like, dick pics and, like, they're posting on there. The thing about those apps, I feel like they start off with a really good purpose, but I don't think it's ever going to be used for those good purposes either.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If. If everybody can access something, it's not going to be good.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Because there's always. There's bad people in the world. There's people that want to see destruction. And it's fucked up about some of those leaks. You know, people get put on there and they get exonerated on the spot. Yeah, those dudes also get their shit leaked. It's like a girl is like, oh, let me put this do on the T. Because I've been dating this dude six months and he's kind of mysterious about his life. And then everybody was like, oh, he's just a good dude, but not. His information got leaked.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah, good dude. It's like, I think, like, anytime there's an app like that when only one, I guess only woman can do it or only men can do it, I think it never is going to be the. The outcome. Because the thing about those Facebook groups that are not. I think they're better than the apps in a sense, because at least it's more of a. It's a little bit more public then. And then people can kind of verify if people are lying and stuff like that. Or like the story doesn't make sense, like we said.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah. Calling people. I'm just like, dudes wouldn't. I don't think dudes what? Have an app like that. Because there's.

[Jean]

There was one with the dudes. They said they made the Dudes T app already, but I'm just saying I.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don'T think it will work in the way that people think it will work. Yeah, the thing about women is that if a woman likes to do and she sees the dude on an app, she's like, less likely to like that dude anymore. You know what I'm saying? It's just like, oh, I don't want this dude that everybody's saying that they got. No, some men work way differently. They like, oh, this girl been with six dudes.

[Jean]

Okay.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'm number seven.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Or they start lying and. Yeah, yeah, man, I was with her last week. That's with her last week. Well, she be playing, bro. But I'm telling you, that's my girl.

[Jean]

I don't know where to verify this or where to look for there. I saw an Internet too of saying that the, the guys made their own too. I think maybe like a telegram group or something with the same thing. And then there was. They were posting sex tapes as well. Like, oh yeah, crack this. I just cracked this girl yesterday. This and that free game type, you know, that's like, that's a lot different.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's a zesty. I'm not gonna lie. That's zesty.

[Jean]

Why?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Huh?

[Jean]

What do you mean by zesty?

[Christian McCaffrey]

I mean that's like very, very like.

[Jean]

Putting, putting yourself having sex. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Trying to like, oh, I'm quote unquote putting people on game and then posting the sex tape like, oh, watch me have sex with this girl. I'm putting you on game. You can have sex with her too. Like I'm inviting you to have sex with the same person I had sex with. And look, just position like, but see.

[Jean]

Like you said dudes are like that. Like some dudes are like that. Whereas like they want to be number seven. They don't care. I would say more dudes don't really care about too many. Like, especially if it's just sex. They don't really care about the girl's past and stuff like that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I see more porn stars that are like, women get married and go have a kid. I feel like the dude, the famous dude porn stars, they never going to settle down. Like no woman want to deal with that. She could just be scrolling on Twitter.

[Jean]

Unless she's in the industry as well.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, that is very true.

[Jean]

Are you out of 22 and his girl?

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's just different.

[Jean]

Yeah, it is different. That is different.

[Christian McCaffrey]

He probably always been a low key porn star. If you think of Adam as a porn star.

[Jean]

So I saw a, a post that says Venmo and PayPal users can now send money to the US government to help pay down the national debt. So it's like, why the would I do that? It's crazy how the, the government makes it easier for you to help them out, but they still won't tell us what we owe on our taxes.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I don't, I, I just don't understand Right. That's the other thing we always talk about that you, we gotta guess every year how much we either get back or owe on our taxes. And then you want us to help you pay a debt that technically isn't even real.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I'm saying? It's just like it's a debt that's never going to be paid off because we're always going to borrow money from such and such and technically if we got the best army in the nation, we really don't owe nobody. You want to go like that? Like, okay, like okay, if I owe Gene 250, right. And he, he really wants it and let's say Gene owns a gun, like, okay, then I really owe him 250, you know what I'm saying? But if I borrow 250 from a nine year old and then he keep asking for it back, I'm just like, I'm going to just pay you little man. I'll pay you $10 a month here in the moment. I don't feel like then I should. I'll just invade this country. Nah, bro. Here's the tank though.

[Jean]

But I think with the national depth one, I think that's like within the U.S. i don't know if it has even anything to do with any other country.

[Christian McCaffrey]

How we end. We can't. No, it has to be us borrowing from other countries. We have to. Oh, why will we, why would we be in debt with ourselves?

[Jean]

I think that it's possible you owe like. And who do we owe? Let me see who we owe. You said the federal owes his creditors an intra governmental debt. Yeah, it doesn't. Domestic investors, individual Americans. Oh. Foreign countries like Japan and China.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's what we owe.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, yeah. I mean at that point. But it just get to a point and just like it's like, like you know, certain, certain millionaires and billionaires are paying like fifteen hundred dollars a month for their taxes. Like they're not gonna pay that off before they die. It be just these reoccurring payments. Like we're never going to pay that off. So you getting that money, I know you're not putting that towards your bill because you're going to pay the same on your bill that you've been paying for the last 25 years.

[Jean]

And it's in the trillions. So there, you know, like you, if you, if you're pay. If you b the government, you are dick riding the America. But the thing is that's ultimate American glaze.

[Christian McCaffrey]

We know the IQ of America.

[Jean]

You Know that you know who's paying, you know, you know what demographic.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's a. With 15American flags up in his living room that just sent $20,000 to the government. They said, I hope this helps.

[Jean]

That not gonna be a drop. I don't even think that would move a number. Like, you know how those national debt tickers on billboards. I don't think that would move any number on that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Imagine sending 20,000 to the government. You get a message back that you just funded a pizza party for the Pentagon. Like, everybody in Pentagon eat lunch because of you, man. Real American hero.

[Jean]

So I saw a couple got married at a Dollar tree. And so I. It prompted a question for me is like, if y' all had to marry at a random store, which store would it be at?

[Christian McCaffrey]

A random store.

[Jean]

Yep.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'mma go. I'm going go with like, a Kohl's or like a JCPenney, because everything there. You know what I'm saying? If, like, let's say I wanted to SW up like, damn, this red suit not hitting. Like I thought it was. Let me go buy. Get this little turquoise blazer real quick. Throw that hoe on. You know what I'm saying?

[Jean]

Just like, I feel it.

[Christian McCaffrey]

We could costume switch. We got some jewelry in there.

[Jean]

I was probably pick Macy's over Kohl's.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Any. Any of them type of stories. This don't matter to me.

[Jean]

They all the same to me.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Anywhere you can get a diamond necklace and also a pico at the same thing. I feel like, you know.

[Jean]

Yeah. What would you do?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just like a good venue, you're saying?

[Jean]

Yeah, venue.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I don't know why. My immediate thought was like, Verlo's mattress store. Imagine that boy trying to little daddy wedding. Yeah. All beds just in a random spot.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

A mattress store is crazy.

[Jean]

But how about do like a trampoline park?

[Christian McCaffrey]

A trampoline park?

[Jean]

Yeah, that's.

[Mike]

That's.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's kind of like. That's very unique and stupid. Like, very dumb. Like, I'll be pissed, bro.

[Jean]

I think it'll get people to leave quicker.

[Christian McCaffrey]

A trampoline party?

[Jean]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All the people that don't work out.

[Jean]

The thing that always, like, kind of not made me turn me off the weddings and stuff like that for myself particularly turned off by get. Having a wedding for myself particularly is I just don't like all the attention being on me. I'm like, I'm the person that likes to leave the party early. So I don't like all the attention being on me. So, like, if say we. The reception's going on and the reception don't end to 11, I might leave the reception before everybody else and everybody. And it's just like. It's a lot of conversations you have to have with a lot of people saying the same thing. It's just kind of like too much for me.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I feel like that's normal.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah. Because I just DJ my mom's wedding and her husband left, like, 8 o'. Clock.

[Jean]

Oh, really?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like two hours before everybody. Yeah.

[Jean]

Yeah. But then you put the pressure on your girl, though.

[Christian McCaffrey]

She was still there.

[Jean]

Yeah. You put the pressure on your girl.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I think the thing about weddings, I think is dope, especially for a family like mine, because I feel like my family is super. I got a lot of family and a lot of, like, all my family, mom and dad. So I grew up in Pontiac.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But, like, those people will never interact again unless it's. I get married and I like, look at that day as that, like, I get this, like, automatic family reunion that I get to put together.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So I'm putting on a show in that, like, I'm gonna have performers, everything, Strippers. No, I'm kidding.

[Jean]

I probably also don't like having that many people watch me do, like, do everything through the night. Like, people are. Imagine. It's like for. I'm just saying. But this doesn't seem the same. This is like actual eyeballs. If. So just say your average length of your wedding is like, your ceremony starts at three and then reception. Everything 11, you know, at least five hours straight. People are staring at you. Just like, staring at your whole move. How you eat your chicken.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

How you about to eat this cake?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Everything. They're making you kiss your girl.

[Jean]

Yeah. And you're the next.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The only thing that's going to bother me is, when do I fart? Like, I'm here all day. Like, can I toot before the ring?

[Jean]

Can I toot it? It's crazy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I said two it up.

[Jean]

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[Jean]

Yeah, there is those times where you get the group chat and it's like, hey, bro, let's go out tonight. Especially in college. Y Or you don't got it. You don't got tonight's money.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know how many dudes probably lost the love of their life? They actually didn't have money. And now the girl thinks that they don't want to go out on a date. Like, I just didn't have 150 to my name, baby girl. I'm sorry.

[Jean]

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[Jean]

That's a good combo.

[Christian McCaffrey]

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[Jean]

That's actually the best flavor to me too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

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[Jean]

Yeah.

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[Jean]

Yeah. Blueberry. I guess blueberry is a safe flavor.

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[Jean]

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[Christian McCaffrey]

No way. I think. I think weddings. I think weddings are good. Especially when you're not important. In a way, a wedding is like the best time.

[Jean]

Nice. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I can't. I can leave Any time. And I think people are trying to like are catching on to the trend of not having their ceremony be that long. The last three weddings I went through my friend Ellie's Marvin's wedding. Quick as hell.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like you know what I'm saying? Like I'm. I did one scroll on Twitter and it's over. I was paying attention but. But it's over and it's good and like the reception is longer and people are playing better music now because I think we're getting in a space where even people from like the outskirts of inner city listening to more urban and hip hop music. Because back in the day when we used to go to weddings. Oh my God.

[Jean]

Boy, I was gonna say that also. The other thing I do hate about weddings sometimes some weddings is just that when the groomsmen or the bridesmaids, the maid of honor try to be the main character and that like I'm not gonna lie. And this might sound sexist. It does happen more with the made the maze.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That like when. When I say see the maid of honor pull out that. You know when you rip the paper out of a notebook. When I see them pull it out for the speech. My God. Telling you don't let a rifle be near me my whole brains out. I'm not killing her.

[Unknown]

But.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But I'm saying it's just like it get to a point where. All right, the you know the up part is like sometimes that first bridesmaid because you know, usually the main Brian is that the.

[Jean]

The male made on.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Sometimes it's too made of honors.

[Jean]

Yes. Which is not a real thing too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

You can't do this. I hate, I hate when you break the rules. Just do it again. This might sound sexist again to our woman listeners. Girls are more sensitive about their friendships.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes.

[Jean]

Dudes, if I'm not the best man even there's a wedding I'm about to go to. I've been friends with this. This person I'm going to wet to. I've been friends with himself 5. I'm not even in his like his groomsmen. And it's fine because obviously we grew up together but we kind of didn't go to college together. So you know as you become an. You don't talk as much on it but it's still like I would never feel away because that was. Those are your friends you made in college and they saw you grow up. But I think it's not the same with girls. So they make. They do the two thing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The two, two mains that could really up their whole friendship if I don't let this second girl get this speech off. But, you know, that's not your maid of honor.

[Jean]

And you know, the most instances I see it in is sister.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yep.

[Jean]

And best friend. Yeah. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Well, my sister's been there my whole life. But you don't really. With your sister be real. Your best friend, the one. And then usually the sister is the top one.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Because they have to. But you can always tell who closer because of whose speech is better. Like, one person would be like, the sister would be like, we grew up together. I love your kids. I love your husband.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

People say we look like twins. Done. The best friend be like, when we were 18 and we were in that car accident, I looked in your eyes and said, we're gonna make everybody cry. This like, that's the real maid. We need to bring back Bo into speeches. @ what? Like, y' all don't sound that close. Bo make me cry.

[Jean]

Or it be like the stories back to kind of like the story. It be like. It almost like the. The main character syndrome of, like, she wouldn't be here if it wasn't for me type of thing. Like, she wouldn't have made this far. She wouldn't have met this person. She wouldn't have gotten the job where you met this person. That. Those type of situations.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The little dry humor jones like that. Like, don't diss me, like, unless it's, like, about to. It makes sense that you're dissing me because I'm doing this now.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like, some people be like. And she was always late to class.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That is not funny.

[Jean]

And college, when she was sleeping with all those 10 dudes and he was the one that came. I said, that's him also.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay. I feel like we've been too hard on the women.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

With the guys.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If you can't read, don't go. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Jean]

That's true, too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And we were the best of friends. And every day I look at you as motivation.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

One day I want to get married just like this. Like, please.

[Jean]

Hooked on phonics or the nonchalant, like, jokes and, like, the random ass. College stories.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

Like the ones. Especially the one I think as a. As you were a groomsman. Right. What's it. What's the one for the groomsman? Best man. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Best ass.

[Jean]

But. But I feel like you should still give you, like, a heads up of, like, a story you can, like, hey, bro, I'm about to tell that story from college. And in my head, you already kind of know. But to bring up a whole other story about like the girls that maybe that came before, like, their exes. Don't talk about no exes during here.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You might. Hey, bro, I'm not gonna lie. You might not like, you might not know the story I'm about to say, but you gonna remember it when I started.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So it was the night that you had that dude on accident. He's actually here tonight.

[Jean]

Yeah, you Ronnie, you said what's up? Yeah, you should not. He might have an ejection later. Actually, it's too late. It's a reception.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Remember you and Ronnie used to be in love. But that's how the fresh started. Obviously. Ronnie back there. What up, Ronnie. Ronnie. Open it up. Tuned it up.

[Jean]

Or it be like I passed to my ball situation.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, yeah. So we used to fight over the same girl. She actually here.

[Jean]

Look like you won, bro. Congrats. Or maybe that dodge a bullet.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like, come on now. It's funny. I met your wife. I actually her. It's crazy we were even friends because the things I did to your wife.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Insane.

[Jean]

I don't even want to hear the stories. If y' all work together or something like that. Or you and my girl are best friends. Like, save. All the best friends save. And you guys were killed. When we were kids, we used to think we were gonna end up together. I don't want to hear that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like, that would be crazy. Has there ever been a situation of like, the guy best friend is technically the maid of honor.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's bestie her top pick.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I'm saying? But he's like a very like, straight man.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I'm saying? So it's just like. Oh, and they're. He's describing their friendship.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

We were really close. All those late night cuddles and study sessions.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's like basically this dude just up here like. Yeah, man. I her so good. She is ready for you, buddy. Got her warmed up.

[Jean]

I see like the. There's women too that are usually part of the groomsmen too. But for some reason, like, the only time I see them is usually like studs that they do that way.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's not true. I just went to a wedding where it was like that.

[Jean]

Was she straight?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes, it was his sister and he was one.

[Jean]

And she was straight woman.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes. But her dress matched the.

[Jean]

Got it. Okay. Okay, okay, okay. Okay.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So it just. I think it was just like a numbers thing.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah. But.

[Jean]

But I get It, I get it because usually.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But the thing is, I wish I had a stud friend because I would love to have a.

[Jean]

We do have a stuff friend.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Put a stud in the suit.

[Jean]

Oh, you talking a close friend. Yeah, yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I'm saying? I feel like, like you gotta grow up with those. Like at this point.

[Jean]

You said with those.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But they, it's a lot those. But yeah, it's like, because at some point they weren't always.

[Jean]

Now you're good, bro. You're good, bro.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, no, I'm good.

[Jean]

I got you.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don't worry.

[Jean]

I gotta do nothing, dude.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Shout out to my studs. But yeah, you got to grow up with them. You just can't get them in adult life. Like that's not like ain't no 21 year old studs out like that you meet in college. You just like, oh, you my friend for life.

[Jean]

You know what I'm saying? Some, something I noticed is that when you're getting your haircut and your barber is venting with you, you have to kind of agree with what he's venting about to make the, your haircut not take any longer or get up. Yeah. If you, if you offer an objection, I do feel that's when your haircut. Because that's when he'd be like, no, that's when the clippers stop. Because he obviously because he'll say something and then he'll stop the clippers after you object them because he don't think you really hear him. So now he's stopping. So now he's turning off the clippers so you can really hear what he's saying and you still don't agree. Then your haircut, your hair is not getting cut, bro. And there's no way to really be like, as much as you want to say no, I'll just tell my barbers, can you come my hair up ass? It's like, no, you, your barber kind of has that power where you have to be somewhat cordial with him even if he's annoying you. But I bro, I got somewhere to go type of thing. But you're still saying it respectfully. You're not going to disrespect them.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know, I mean, you still in a vulnerable position.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah. No.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The worst thing is when your barber is running behind and then the person that gets their haircut after you sits down and you can kind of tell like usually barbers cut at like the, the 30, 45 or the 0 on the clock. You know what I'm saying? So you can kind of tell like, okay, it's 5:43, this sitting here. So his haircut must be at 5:45. And you look at your hair, and you're like, oh, my. Not halfway done. So, you know, he about to try to zoom past your. I'm like, hell, no. I'll be watching. I'll be watching every little cut. My new barber don't play that. But my old bar be like, zip, zip, zip, zip out of here. Like, what, my beard. I got you next time.

[Jean]

I feel like it was worse when we were kids. Like, the. The. The disrespect you can take when you're kids. Like, your barber kind of getting on the phone and kind of stopping you and stuff, like, without doing anything. But as you get adult, it's just like, yeah, not really doing all that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That.

[Jean]

I don't really. Honestly, I don't really see barbers taking that many phone calls anymore. It really was like when I was getting cut by a whole bunch of Africans, like the Ghanaians and Nigerians. They always. And it's the Bluetooth era, when the Bluetooth era was popular, man. Multitaskers.

[Christian McCaffrey]

This is barbershop in Omaha. I swear, all the barbers are 63 plus, bro. They stay on a Bluetooth. And for some reason, I feel like none of them have appointments. It's all, like, walking. Yeah. And they just all sit there, and it's almost like you got to choose because nobody say some shit to you. They just all flapping that cake.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What you need? I see you got that high top, boy. They try to compliment you on your hair. I see you with the growth. Let me go ahead and shape that up for you. That's how you know they about to.

[Jean]

You up when they say some shit like that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Shape that up. No, bruh. So there's. I don't even want to call him out because I think people might know who he is. There's a barber in Milwaukee that I had went to. It was like Valentine's Day, like, a couple years ago, and I went to a flower shop, literally, right, like, near our place. Went to a flower shop, and it was a barber shop right next door. So I'm like, oh, this is perfect. I can get a little haircut.

[Jean]

You went into a barbershop that you've never been to before.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Never been to. But mind. Wait, wait, wait. This like, six, seven months into Milwaukee. So at this point.

[Jean]

Okay, okay.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I didn't really have a consistent number in the first place. You know what I'm saying? So I Went into the barbershop. He said, what you need? I literally googled a picture, picture for him. He said, I got you, blah, blah. And I'm looking around the barbershop, the barbershop, nice as hell. So I'm like, dude, gotta get some clientele. But as I'm getting my hair cut, it's 20 minutes in and nobody has walked in, so it's just me and him. So I'm like, bro, this don't get no customers or some. Not a phone call, not a texting. And I thought he was on drugs because he kept nodding off in the corner of my head. Like he kept nodding off during the haircuts. I'm like, damn, dude, sleeping during my hair.

[Jean]

Good.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And he finally pulled me to the mirror to where I can see him for real. And he had like Tourette's and he was taking a break every time, like when his Tourette's. So the haircut literally took an hour and a half, bro. Was it fresh though, huh?

[Jean]

Yeah, no.

[Christian McCaffrey]

He me, I'm not gonna lie. That was probably the one of the worst haircuts that I ever had. I. I still haven't recovered. That was like three years. It's like a 900 day recovery, bro.

[Jean]

Oh man, Drama. Have you ever thought about that? You know when they say that it was their last of everything? It was your last. You're never gonna know if it was your last time that you did something. And it was like there was the last time that your parents put you to bed to sleep type of thing, right? But like, it's just interesting when that moment becomes that moment. I just. It's just like a very. Those are like. Those are like deep shower thoughts.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I don't remember. I think my mom stopped putting me to bed when I was like 6 or 7.

[Jean]

Or like putting you to bed.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like my. I don't ever remember. Like it was go to bed or get the beat out. You like, what's up? Open that door if you want to my seat. I never, I was patting myself to sleep.

[Jean]

I never had a. I never had a bedtime.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Me either. I had no bedtime. But it was. I had a wake up time though.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That was a. Shut the quiet hours.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But my dad didn't play that. Like I could stay up to like five in the morning, but he come in that room at 5:30 though.

[Jean]

My parents did not care.

[Christian McCaffrey]

My dad kicked down the door. Get up, I said, because he knew I was up late. Get up, get up. Let's go, let's go. Let's go get ready for school. And then if you especially. The worst thing you can do after a parent wake you up is what? Go back to sleep. You go back to sleep, boy. I was working and they catch you all. They about to go crazy. Especially like, I don't know you. I don't know if parents got the concept of, like, obviously, okay, my bad for falling asleep. Yeah, but I just woke up. You just woke me up and you're yelling at me, bro. Like, it's like being in like the army or something. That's what it sounds like. Yeah. It's like, get up. Get. I told you not to go to sleep. You sitting there in wrinkle clothes and like, what the.

[Jean]

My dad. My dad used to like, come back sometimes, like 12 o', clock, 1 o' clock in the morning, and then he'll be like, just like whisper in the room, like, talk in the room. Like, do y' all do your homework? I'm like, huh? You do? Everybody get up. Everybody get up. Get up. He's like, did y'. All. Did you do your homework? No, we're doing our homework at like 1-8-o' clock in the morning.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's actually the worst thing I've ever heard in my life.

[Jean]

We're doing math and then my dad's like. My dad's a really smart dude, like math and all that type of stuff. He's. He studied architecture, text or whatever. But he's very strict on academics with us. And legit, having to solve a math problem at 2am is like the worst experience.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That sound like. It sound like you got to be off drugs to do some. My dad will also do weird, like.

[Jean]

But then, then we'll still get mad if we sleep in. So sometimes I'll just go into. As I get sleep in the morning, I would like wake up, go to the bathroom, turn the shower on, and then sit on the toilet and just like kind of catch some Z's.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Sitting on the toilet catching like some.

[Jean]

Prison, I think too, because I lived across the street from my school, right? So, you know when you live close to something, your perception of time, you think you have like, all the time in the world, so you never really factor in going down the elevator, mail the elevator getting to you on time, then going down the elevator and all that time that kind of happens. So I was always late to school. Like, like two minutes. Like two minutes, three minutes, four minutes. Because it'd be like, next, say school starts at 8, 7, 30. I'm just getting up and looking out the window, seeing everybody walk into. I'm like, now I got time.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That would be a glitch mode. I live. I live like two miles from school. My dad used to make me walk. Like, why am I walking? The worst thing he used to do, if he catch you staying up too late, he will wake you up, like, super early, no questions asked. Get dressed, shorts, T shirt, put you in the back seat. That's how you know you up. You try to open the front seat door, and it was. It was locked. No words. He hasn't spoke to you yet. He told you is shorts and shirt. And you basically following around the house. Y' all know what you do. And you know you up when the front door is locked, so you got to get in the back seat. And then he just drives, and he just drive. You don't even know where the you going. And he stop on the side of the road and he tell you run back home later on this, bro. You lucky I can't get my hands on no cell phone. Be in jail. Tell you how many times my. I was so enraged at my parents that if I had a phone to child protective services and they were already on the phone. Yeah, I would have ratted on these. They're being in jail. Rp. Hulk Hogan.

[Jean]

Rp. Rp. Rp.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Hulk Hogan. I know he looking up right now.

[Jean]

There's people there. Like, the thing about. What people. Again, we talked about this on Patreon next week. But the thing about people passing away, that did, like, because all Hogan is a legend no matter what. Nobody said he's a legend. He's also a shitty person. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Legendary racist.

[Jean]

Yeah. Yeah. But no, I'm just saying, like, people, they're. He was good at what he did. Like, growing up watching Hulk Hogan, you like Hoga Maniac. That was iconic and stuff like that. But I think that's what, like, anybody like, that's done terrible things and they. They pass away. I think sometimes I think I see people going too far.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

With, like, with the disrespect of the dead. It's just. That's not my thing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Smoking on smoking Hulk Hogan pack is, like, way too, way too, like, crazy. Especially like, if you believe in karma and like. Yeah.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I feel like that was a thing already, though. Like, like a weed strain called, like, Hulk that wasn't.

[Jean]

That is.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, bro.

[Jean]

But.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But the thing about it is, like, I. I had people. People reach out to me, like, oh. Because I had posted some stuff about Hulk Hogan, which I never said. Like, I'm not telling Hulk Hogan to rest in piss or no weird shit like that. I'm just saying I'm not celebrating like everybody else's.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And the people that reached out to me, they were non African Americans. Like, I don't think. You know, like, if somebody says they don't like me, be, like, a person because of their skin color, and I'm that skin color. I'm that person he's talking about. Why would I ever show respect for a person like that?

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So, yes, I don't. I'm not gonna say Hulk Hogan rest in piss, but I can also say.

[Jean]

I don't give a. Yeah, you cannot care. That's the thing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I don't care. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't care. I'm not saying that I wish he died. Like, yeah, if I saw Hulk Hogan walking in the street, I wouldn't say I wish he was dead. I would say maybe I wish somebody had kick him in his mouth or some. But you know what I'm saying? I don't think disrespecting the day like that, smoking all that, especially if you're not from the streets. Like, that's awesome. People that live in the burbs and that. Just stop that.

[Unknown]

Yo, yo, who did any.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Who. I got a question for you, bro.

[Unknown]

What's up?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Who this? Who called you on ig?

[Unknown]

Oh, I'm tripping. What's up? What? What's up? What's going on?

[Jean]

Okay. Are you serious?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, you. Did you just answer the phone blindly?

[Unknown]

I absolutely did. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, okay. My fault. Oh, got you. Safety. Safety first. Ass. Scary driving ass. All right, I got a question for you. What's something that you're tired of?

[Unknown]

Porn, bro, I'm sick of porn. By they meet. Be too big is od. It's overly big. Don't make no sense. I'm talking about. I'm talking about pulling out 10, 12 inches like it's nothing. Don't make no sense. That ain't realistic. You know what I'm saying? That crazy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, we got the dick detective over here.

[Unknown]

Hold on.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The slings.

[Unknown]

What?

[Jean]

Is that what you're, like, paying attention to when you're watching porn?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Penis police.

[Unknown]

No, no, no, no. And listen, don't. Don't get me wrong. I'm not just, like. I don't just go look up porn like that. It's usually on Twitter. Like, on Twitter, you know, you scrolling? You see some. They might. Somebody might retweet. Okay, but now you get to, like, watching it, and you like, damn, that kind of big. I can't help it, you know what I'm saying? It just beat her, you know what I mean? And then I'd be like, like. Like, you'll think about your own shit. You'll be like, my decent as my. Ain't that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I mean? Okay, so I got a question for you. Okay, so if. If you were at a restaurant, right, and it was just you and a guy at a restaurant and you got a plate of food, right, And a guy got a plate of food and his plate of food looked better, what would you say?

[Jean]

Oh, no. Oh, no, go ahead.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay, sorry.

[Unknown]

I don't know what you said.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay, I got you. If you was at a restaurant with another dude, just you and another dude, and y' all both got your place at the same time and his. But y' all got the same meal, but his food looked better than yours, what would you say?

[Unknown]

I mean, I'd be like, damn, cuz, Can I try a few?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Correct. So that's the same thing you're saying about dick. Because, like, man, I don't want that.

[Jean]

I think it walked right into that one. You didn't even have to answer that honestly. I thought your answer was going to be all, his looks better than mine. Did I have a piece.

[Unknown]

No, no, no, no, no, no. I'm not. I'm not looking at.

[Jean]

I have a piece is so crazy.

[Unknown]

I'm not looking at the bigger me thinking, damn, I want to try that.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's not what the I'm saying, sir. You are a co. Good Lord.

[Unknown]

I'm looking at him and I'm like, damn, that is crazy. What the is he doing with that? That's too much. That's all I'm saying, too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's too much is.

[Jean]

Sorry. No, you're crazy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Hey, go.

[Jean]

Oh, man. All right, bro.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All right, bro.

[Jean]

Appreciate you the dick detector.

[Unknown]

Hey, man, watch that.

[Jean]

Watch that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Sergeant Shaft, Inspector here.

[Unknown]

Sergeant.

[Jean]

Oh, my gosh. All right, bro. You have a good one.

[Unknown]

All right.

[Jean]

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[Mike]

Hello?

[Jean]

Hello?

[Mike]

Can you hear me?

[Jean]

Yeah. Can you hear us?

[Christian McCaffrey]

I know she in the bathroom.

[Mike]

Okay, can you guys hear me now?

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What are you whispering?

[Mike]

Sorry.

[Jean]

All right, I got a question for you. What's. What's something that you're tired of stuff?

[Mike]

I'm tired of being a serial cheater. I'm over it.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Why don't you just stop?

[Mike]

It's hard, okay? It's hard to stop. That's the problem. It's hard to stop.

[Jean]

Can you explain, like, why, like, what are the urges that you are feeling? Like, what do you get out of cheating? Like, what makes you feel good about cheating?

[Mike]

What I get out of it is I'm not as bored as I am in the relationship that I am in. I don't know how to explain it.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, no, no, no. So you're saying you're. You're doing this to get entertainment while you're in a relationship, and it makes.

[Mike]

A relationship better in entertainment in general, like, because I get Bored easily.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So what are you doing? Like, what are you doing when you cheat? Are you, like, meeting up with other dudes and just having sex with them or are you going out on dates?

[Mike]

There's nothing, like, physical. It's just like, the, like, attention, like, FaceTiming, calling. It's just. I get sick of one person, and I feel super bad because right now I'm in a relationship, but I'm talking to, like, six other people at the same time, and I don't know.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay, so then the question is, why not just be single and talk to multiple people freely?

[Mike]

But that's. That's where I'm confused at. Because, like, I want to be in a relationship. I want the relationship thing, and I want. I want another person. It's just I want to talk to everybody else at the same time.

[Jean]

Yeah, but why don't you just find some dudes that are into that? There are some dudes that don't care that, like, you're with other people.

[Mike]

But I don't.

[Unknown]

I don't want.

[Mike]

I don't want the other person talking to nobody else.

[Unknown]

Oh, okay.

[Jean]

You want this one?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, they got a word for that. That.

[Mike]

So I. I don't know. You know, but it's nothing like this.

[Jean]

So you haven't had. You haven't cheated on him physically?

[Mike]

No, no, no, not physically.

[Jean]

Why you say no? Like. Like, it's, like, a crazy question that's very. That's very likely with your situation.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So you're. So you're legit. So you're legit just meeting up with these, like. Or just texting and FaceTiming these other dudes just for the fun of it.

[Mike]

Yeah, just. Just something new. It's like something new, so.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I know what it is. You. You like attention. I bet you're probably doing this when he. At work or something or when he can't be with you. Then you're probably reaching out to these people.

[Mike]

Yes, but. Okay, it's so complicated because I love this boy. I love him to death, but he's so annoying. He's so annoying. All he wants to do is FaceTime and call.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But you.

[Unknown]

But you.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But you FaceTime and call other dudes, though.

[Mike]

That's like.

[Jean]

It's different, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You're annoying. No, it's. I think you just, like. Like, attention. I think you should just, like, break up with him and then just get.

[Mike]

No, I don't want to break up with him, though.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, you don't deserve him, though. What if he was doing the Same thing, though.

[Mike]

Know I would be mad. I would be hurt.

[Christian McCaffrey]

This. Don't.

[Jean]

I don't think it's. I don't think it's really, like, registered. I don't think you're clocking what we're saying right now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

She not standing on business.

[Jean]

No, she's not clocking it right now.

[Mike]

Clocking it is crazy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what's crazy? It's your cheating ass.

[Jean]

Wait, are you, like, sexting these dudes? Cuz, like, what are you saying? Like, again, what's the entertaining part of it? Like, are they saying, oh, you're so beautiful and this and that, sending you money?

[Mike]

It's not even that. It's just like, we can have conversations, I think. Okay. I think the problem is that my boyfriend is white and the people that I talk to are not white.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What are you?

[Mike]

I'm mix.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay.

[Jean]

But is. So is this a conversation you had with your boyfriend and saying, like, hey, I don't feel like I'm getting enough attention or I'm craving this. Like, you know, just like, I need this in my life to make your relationship better.

[Mike]

I thought about bringing it up to him. I just don't want to hurt him. And then on top of that, like, he buys me everything.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So this is what's confusing me. You're in your story really quick. You're. You're saying this for the conversation because your boyfriend's not black and stuff like that. Why don't you find a woman, like a best friend or some more friends to talk to if you're bored or you need attention? Why does that have to be a guy? Another guy?

[Mike]

Because I don't get along with females. I don't know.

[Christian McCaffrey]

So you're saying. Are you saying all these guys that you're reaching out to are like, they're your guy best friends or you're. Or I would say, are you talking sexually with them?

[Mike]

I would say they're more like best friends. But then sometimes, like, like, I'll make little jokes here and there or.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What's a joke? Give me a joke. You tell me a joke.

[Mike]

It would be like a sexual joke. So, like, they were on the phone, we're FaceTiming, he's like, in the shower or something. I'll be like, let me get in.

[Unknown]

The shower with you.

[Jean]

Watch your best friend. And then they're in the shower, and it's in the shower on FaceTime.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's a joke. No way.

[Jean]

Oh, man.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Man, you are.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You're a different type of woman. I tell you that Bless your heart. You know? Hope. Hope you find your way. I hope you. I hope you just, like, leave them and just, like, enjoy being single. Sound like you want to be single. Just. Just go be single.

[Mike]

No, I don't want to be alone.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I think I. How about the.

[Jean]

That you on the shower with? Go pay them a visit.

[Mike]

No, I don't want. I don't want them either.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, you don't want that?

[Jean]

You just sound like you're having a little pickle to me. Huh? All right, you have a good one.

[Mike]

All right, you too.

[Jean]

All right, bye. Hello. Yo, yo, yo.

[Mike]

What's up?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Welcome to Crash on his podcast. What's good?

[Mike]

Hey, man, I'm honored to be here.

[Jean]

Honor. Honor. All right, I got a question for you. What's something that you're tired of?

[Mike]

Hopefully it's such a serious thing these days and it's overlooked. Everybody's happy now because everybody gets free play. Easy to get, Big's easy to get. That's not good for the community long term. That's short term gratification. I need it to end.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Did she say wholeflation? Interesting.

[Jean]

Can you explain to some of our listeners that might not know what Hoeflation is?

[Mike]

Okay. Basically, it's like there's a surplus of hoes around, so now it's easier and easier people to get play. But this also drops the value of individuals overall because they have to work less on themselves to get what they want.

[Jean]

So what is your experience being with the whole flash and how's it been affecting you?

[Mike]

It's less about me specifically. I mean, like, dudes I talk to, they usually pretty, like, bogus, so I just cut them off. But like, seeing how it affects my homegirls, it's like, man, man, that hurts. You know, getting treated like a cheap object is just sucks for everybody. Even my homies, too. My homie just got dogged out by a girl. I put them on with my bad.

[Jean]

So you can't even sense the whole flation in your friends?

[Mike]

Oh, yeah, it's. It's a serious issue. Like, it's deeper than just like a small community. This is worldwide.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I. I believe you.

[Jean]

Have you had this discussion with any of them?

[Mike]

Oh, yeah, for sure. It's the serious thought you gotta have. Like. Like, you know, you can always plant the seed, but when people actually want to do something with it, it's on their own time.

[Jean]

So, you know, so you don't think you're contributing to the whole flation at all then? Right? Like you're.

[Mike]

Oh, no, not at all. Nah. Like to stay out of that, but I am looking, like, from the outside in, and it still sucks. Like, you know how you're watching a horror movie? It's probably scarier to be in the horror movie, but people still jump sometimes, and they're just watching it, you know, Wholeflation.

[Jean]

Okay, nice.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I think you just put us on.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Mike]

Feel free to spread the word.

[Jean]

Oh, what's your message? This is your platform now, I guess. So what's your. What's your message? To stop hopelation and.

[Mike]

Being easy is not cool, bro. Like, you guys are actually like horse and it's. I'm not speaking on your character. I just think you shouldn't treat sex so casually.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Hey, or. Or don't FaceTime. Other while they in the shower and.

[Jean]

Joke.

[Christian McCaffrey]

There was some whole flashing going on.

[Jean]

All right.

[Unknown]

You have to come on. Yo, what's good, dummies?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don't call us that. The thing is, like, when y' all say dummies, I know y'. All. Y' all trolling. Y' all trolling. Y' all trolling. Y' all trolling. We don't want to be called dummies. You. If you listen to this show, you know damn well we don't want to be called. There's been enough people that tried that for you to know not to say that you still said that.

[Unknown]

Yeah, yeah. No, no, no. I was just with y', all, man. I didn't know. Yeah.

[Jean]

All right, man. Oh, today we got a question for you.

[Unknown]

I'm good. I'm good.

[Jean]

What's something that you're tired of?

[Unknown]

Man, I'm tired of just getting shot, then hopping on IG like, you need to pray is no, bro. Got their priorities up. Got their priorities up, man. Need to pray first, at least.

[Christian McCaffrey]

How you know?

[Jean]

Didn't they pray?

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'm not gonna lie. If I get shot, I'm going straight to the ground. No doubt about it. Especially I survived.

[Jean]

I mean, either way.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Either way. Yeah, right. You're either going on a gram, you're spinning live yourself or somebody else. Yeah, but, yeah, I'm definitely going on the ground. I just survived getting shot.

[Unknown]

Nah, your mixtape. That need to get nine to five. That's why don't got nine to five.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Where do you work at?

[Unknown]

I'm a conservationist. I'm a fire practitioner.

[Christian McCaffrey]

A what?

[Unknown]

A fire practitioner.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Explain that to me.

[Unknown]

I've never heard of that before, so. So I work for a company called the Nature Conservancy, and pretty much we're like the world's biggest, second biggest non profit conservation group. And so I work with an endangered snake called the eastern indigo. And I do. And I burn the woods, basically.

[Jean]

You work at a circus?

[Unknown]

No.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I Like.

[Jean]

Now. We're joking, bro.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I never heard that boy work with snakes. That's dope. So you burn the woods. Safer for the snakes.

[Unknown]

Yeah, yeah, Literally.

[Jean]

Oh, fire that.

[Unknown]

The eastern indigo. The gopher tortoise. The. What is it? The coach whip.

[Christian McCaffrey]

The boy giving snakes. Boy work with snakes.

[Jean]

Tough.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I've never heard of that before. You got a new unique, unique job.

[Jean]

But yeah. Watch your back though. You know how snakes get.

[Unknown]

Hey, yeah. N N. So I stay on the. Hey, bro, am I. Hey, look, am I going on the pod?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, you work with snakes.

[Unknown]

Hey all. Hey, I with y', all, bro.

[Jean]

No, I've been watching this episode. I, I. Let me get this straight. I always appreciate everybody's support and everything, but to scream a grown man to scream at the top, top of their lungs for us, that's a little too far.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, he was screaming in different octaves. And I bet you you have to be doing jazz hands during that scream. Like there's no way you can put that up.

[Unknown]

No, bro, I wasn't, bro. But listen, hold on. I've been watching y' all since episode 47.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Damn, that's pretty good.

[Jean]

That's still not enough for a stream. If you said one as you said one. Okay, but 47.

[Unknown]

And I still got a bone to.

[Mike]

Pick with you, Mike.

[Unknown]

Don't pick nothing. You said all Rossels. Hey, Ronald. If you. If your name is Ronald, you're a. And you know what, Mike. All Mike's a. And you. And you got a soft ass voice.

[Mike]

Soft ass.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's what you get. Good shit, bro. No, you can't do that nigga though. That's crazy.

[Jean]

Crazy. This just scream because I said yes and they said I got a soft ass voice. This soft ass voice made you scream to at the top of your lungs. No, it's not, it's not going out.

[Mike]

Man.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Matter of fact, we put. We putting you on a patient episode that come out in three months. Good luck.

[Jean]

Not. You scream for no reason.

[Unknown]

Yeah, you.

[Jean]

Scream.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what's funny? When he first, when he first started off, I thought he was trolling.

[Jean]

Yeah. I thought he was joking.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like towards the end. Like, I'm like, you can't.

[Jean]

When he starts to catch his breath and like that he was really catching his breath. I said, okay, for real.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, you can't. Fake like that, bro.

[Jean]

Golly.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Nigga's a screamer. Screaming.

[Jean]

Hello.

[Mike]

Hey, how's it going? Okay. How are y'? All?

[Jean]

Pretty good. Pretty good. I got a question for you.

[Mike]

What's that?

[Jean]

What? Is something that you're tired of?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah. TV in the background or what?

[Mike]

Yeah, I'm watching Big Bang. Is it too loud for y'? All?

[Christian McCaffrey]

A little bit. Turn it down on a phone and. Good. Now I like to turn people up. Like, I feel like now it's like a real conversation, you know what I'm saying? Like, you got the tv, the background, watching a Big Bang Theory. That's a good show, though. Go ahead.

[Jean]

I haven't really seen.

[Mike]

You said what I'm tired of.

[Jean]

Yes.

[Mike]

I'm tired of Pikm.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay, explain.

[Mike]

Like, girls just like that just, like, go out of their way to get or seek male attention or just attention in general especially.

[Christian McCaffrey]

They'd be taking the easy route. You saying.

[Mike]

Yeah, like, I don't know. It's just. It's just weird. Like, I know somebody that she has pick me, like a pick me mentality. And it's just like, she posts certain stuff online and what's something that she.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Posts that's like, very pick me up? Her.

[Mike]

Like, she'll post stuff like. Like she just got out of her relationship and the guy still follows her. And she'll be like, oh, give me some ideas for a solo date this weekend. And then when he. She'll like, let me know, like, oh, he swiped up. I'm like, do you want to be with him or not? Like, you posting all this stuff, talking about some. Oh, I just love being by myself. Just so he can be like, oh, so you don't miss me type. And I just be looking like, that's weird. If you want to talk, then just talk to them.

[Jean]

But did it work for her, though?

[Mike]

No. They're not even talking because some.

[Jean]

There are some pick me's that their pick me's to get to their ultimate goal. So sometimes you can't really hate on the pick me if they get to what they actually wanted to get in life.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes. And you. And.

[Mike]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And you can't judge people about how they communicate because that's just a dude. That's probably a dude that you would never, ever talked to. Yeah, but that's how they communicate. They can't commute. If she probably would text him and be like, I miss you. I want to see you. He probably, like, put on his. He'll probably put a status.

[Jean]

I get what you're Saying though, because there are some pick me's that don't believe in the thing that they're pick me for. For instance, for like the girls that be on Instagram kind of doing like the apple alpha male type of thing. Like if you're a woman, you should be doing all these womanly traits and stuff like that. But they don't really believe that. They're just doing it to get. Get engagement, I guess. Yes, but they don't really follow that in their life.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, but she says she's doing it for like a. A person's attention. I don't think that's a pick me if it's like she's doing it for one person. I feel like a pick me is like I'm about to do something that's very low vibrational. Like I'm about to wear a certain shorts outside and take a picture a certain way and then act surprised when a bunch of dudes swipe up.

[Jean]

Like that's, that's more delusional.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But I feel like that's more, that's more.

[Mike]

I don't know, I just feel like, like I just feel like, like at the age that. Because we're the same age, I just feel like we're too old for stuff.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like how old is that age?

[Mike]

We're about to be 25.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Damn. Yeah, that's kind of old for that.

[Jean]

You think so? Yeah, that's like that's pick me prime. Pick me age.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, that's like I feel like this the prime. Are you going to ascend or not?

[Jean]

Oh yeah. Okay.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If you still doing that at 25 and not on your way out, I feel like it's going to continue into your 30s. Yeah, you're right. You need to get away from her. She thought she bringing you down. Down.

[Mike]

You can't bring me down. Settled down.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, you. How long you been in a relationship?

[Mike]

3 and a half years. We just had a baby a year ago.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, no, no, no. Didn't.

[Unknown]

What?

[Christian McCaffrey]

What? That debunks everything you said. I don't like when people do that. People be settled down and got their family and then they judge people off like the single life because they found a person early. You can't do that.

[Jean]

It's not.

[Mike]

I'm not judging her off her single life. I mean she just has, she has a track of being like relationship, relationship.

[Christian McCaffrey]

She's 25.

[Mike]

Just sat down for longer than you just said.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That was too old though to be doing that. But not judged by a person. She should be on her Way out. I thought. I thought that she was a single friend, and I was trying to get. I thought y' all was both single, and I thought y' all was both, like, in, like.

[Jean]

Nah, she just giving a good advice.

[Mike]

I'm not judging her.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'm just been. At 22. You don't.

[Mike]

I'm saying, like, since our. Our sophomore year of high school, she has always been in a relationship.

[Unknown]

Like.

[Mike]

Like, hasn't sat down, just took. I always tell, like, you need to sit down, take time for yourself, you know?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay.

[Mike]

And just figure out what you want because you're jumping in and out relationships and not getting anything out of it. And she's like, yeah, I'm gonna take time for myself. And then a couple weeks go by, and she's like, yeah, me and this guy are talking and we're gonna go out. And then weeks and weeks go by, and she's like, yeah, I think I love him. And I'm like, you just said you was gonna take time for yourself. It's like. She's like, yeah, for real this time. I'm done with, man. I'm just really going to take time, focus on myself. I'm just like, okay. I've heard this before.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Everybody. I feel like everybody has different journeys to different things. Yeah, because, you know, like, that's true a lot. Like, if she figures it out by 29, I think that's still pretty early, and that's four years from now. Yeah, I think you figured out pretty early. It just, like, your path and your journey. You just matured earlier in that thing. There might be something she's more mature about on her end that she has that you're not there yet. So it's just like different journeys, a different path. You gotta let. You gotta let her go through that. You gotta let her get over a bunch of times and just be there.

[Unknown]

And have her 100%.

[Mike]

But it's like she asks for my advice, and then when I give it, she does.

[Jean]

I get. That's frustrating. No, that's frustrating.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All right, just stick with her, though. Just stick with her.

[Jean]

No, you can.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, yeah.

[Jean]

No, it's all right. Be a bad friend and leave. All right. You have a good one.

[Mike]

You, too.

[Unknown]

Hello.

[Jean]

Yo.

[Unknown]

Hey. What's up?

[Jean]

What up up?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Why you talking like that?

[Unknown]

All right, Don't.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don't change. Don't change your voice for the podcast. Nobody talks like that. Nobody says, what's up? Nobody talks like that.

[Jean]

No, I think he does.

[Unknown]

Like, what?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Exactly. It's over already. All right, I Got a question.

[Unknown]

He's hating on me because I talk like a white guy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I asked. This is my first time hearing your real voice. I didn't know you even talk like that. And I didn't even know you was white.

[Jean]

Like, what the.

[Unknown]

All right, you got a point. You got a point.

[Christian McCaffrey]

There you go. So country ass up. All right, I got a question for you.

[Unknown]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

What's something that you're tired of?

[Unknown]

My weird ass? Dude. Friends that, like, share social media posts from, like, athletes and stuff like that. Like, what kind of glaze is that? You really got nothing better to do on a Sunday?

[Jean]

All right.

[Unknown]

In bed.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Give us. Give us an example.

[Unknown]

Let's hear. Let's hear it.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Give us an example. I'm not attacking you, bro. Calm down.

[Unknown]

Well, you didn't let me finish, so I thought you were.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I know, but whatever you about to finish. Unless it's, like, something crazy. Crazy. But you're just talking about their posts or is there something else you got to talk about?

[Unknown]

So, like, if a guy posts him at the beach and he's got Rod Wave as the sound, why are you sharing that on your story?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, wait, what?

[Unknown]

Yeah, exactly. Wait, what is Right.

[Jean]

So can I guess we're confused then. So it's like, your friends. Can you give us an example? That's what we kind of need.

[Unknown]

So my friends.

[Jean]

Oh, that was.

[Unknown]

Will share some random dudes. Dude. Like a celebrity or something like that. Okay, celebrity or just somebody that they really don't have any ties to. They'll share their stuff on their Instagram or Snapchat and it's always the weirdest stuff.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes. Give us an example of it happening.

[Unknown]

Like, because, like, the dude is at the beach with Rod.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay. It's your friend. And then what did he. Who did post that? He shared.

[Unknown]

All right, let me give it. Let me look right now. He shared. Set homegrown at the beach, and he got Rod Lake. You don't know, chat. Like, why are you sharing his stuff?

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, chat is crazy. Like, not even. Like, no Michael Jordan.

[Unknown]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

[Jean]

Like, why are we so random?

[Christian McCaffrey]

That is crazy. That's crazy.

[Jean]

Why does that make you mad, though?

[Unknown]

Be a man. I don't know. Quit being weird. No, get a job. Do something else.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Is it up right now?

[Unknown]

Yeah, look at. It's Chet's Instagram post right now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Let me see this.

[Jean]

Chat.

[Christian McCaffrey]

There we go.

[Jean]

On ground.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, it's not up anymore.

[Unknown]

That's a good thing. You took it down that Rob Wave is crazy.

[Jean]

I was not. So it was a poster or story?

[Unknown]

It was a post.

[Jean]

Oh, nice post.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Wait, which post did he share?

[Jean]

No way.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, it's just all selfie.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

At the beach. Send us the one that he actually shared. Why would he share that?

[Jean]

Yeah, the only one that see with him in it is a selfie. Yeah. Is this.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, look.

[Unknown]

Y. Yeah, it's the second one. It's the second one.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's what he shared. That's crazy.

[Unknown]

Weird, isn't it? You'd be tired of that too, if you had to see that every weekend.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, I would honestly beat my friend's ass. Like. No, we're fight this. A. This is. I'm calling you out.

[Unknown]

You not.

[Jean]

It's not even doing a basketball move.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's literally Chet. You sure he's not attracted to Chet or something?

[Unknown]

Hey, he might be one of. What is it, a DL? Is that what they call it?

[Jean]

All right.

[Unknown]

He might be one of them. Girls say DL on your podcast a lot.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don't be learning from our podcast, bro. I told y' all about that, bro. Pick up a book.

[Unknown]

But don't worry. The. The problems they bring to your podcast will never be a part of my life.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's that boy live in Bovill, Alabama, talking like this.

[Unknown]

Hey, you're close, but I know I'm close. I'm closer to you than I am in Alabama.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Really? What you in a Carolina or something?

[Unknown]

Wait, y' all Milwaukee? Yeah, I'm in Oklahoma. Oklahoma?

[Jean]

I guess that's not that far.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You might be there soon.

[Unknown]

Oh, yeah? You come to a Thunder game, you gonna share chat story and get courtside tickets?

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, bro.

[Jean]

I guess being from Oklahoma and Sharon. Chet is not bad.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's not.

[Jean]

It's crazy, but because Oklahoma is like a. It's a very close knit type of sports community.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Chet might be like, top five famous people that lives in Oklahoma. Like, it might go Zs, B. Lou.

[Jean]

SG SJ is popular. Than Zs and B. Lou.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay.

[Jean]

Yeah, but here's the thing, though.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Jalen Williams Chat, bro.

[Unknown]

But it's not basketball. It's just him. Selfie. Like, that's weird.

[Jean]

Selfie's a bit strange. All right. Hey, I was kind of against you at first, but you might be right, bro.

[Unknown]

Hey, I just had to share the vision, that's all.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You started off shaky, but you made it, bro. This, bro.

[Unknown]

Hey, this is for the audio listeners, all right. Hey, don't hate on me now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It don't hate on me.

[Unknown]

Hey, y' all have a good one, though.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All right, man. Tell you.

[Jean]

Oh, this was. I was out here about to say as a message for the audio listeners. My bad.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, he was just saying this is for all your listeners. Hey, man, appreciate you coming on your show. Tell your sister, your wife or I know they're the same person. Just tell them.

[Unknown]

No, that's crazy. Hey, first off, I'm from Florida. We don't do that. Weird. I just live in Oklahoma. Oklahoma.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I've been there for a long time.

[Unknown]

No, I just gotta. Well, I do have a Southern ass family, now that you say it, but we're not weird.

[Jean]

All right, man. You have a good one.

[Unknown]

All right, See you guys.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All right. This is. This is one of the best quotes I've seen about Trump because this is so true about him. Donald Trump, not Tiana. Just listeners would be confused about this.

[Jean]

Shout out to.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, shout out.

[Jean]

I haven't seen much from her lately, but I'm just saying I haven't seen like her on social media or anything.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You think she's. When the last time Tiana Trump posted. Can you get that for me, Jean? See her last post? Just go to your bookmarks. That was quick as hell in three weeks.

[Jean]

Yeah. Now she tweeted something yesterday. She ch with gun in them.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just drop, bro. All right. A New York Times reporter said. Said Trump lies quoted in their article. I'm guessing Trump lies frequently but also tells the truth. Now, before I talk about the. The response kind of cooking that sentence. That is very true. Yeah, because like during his. The. The campaign when he was like rerunning for president and even now there's been like some blatant lies he's told.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know, and that's like almost every politician, but obviously president you held out of different accountability, whatever. But there is like sometimes he weirdly tells the truth about some that you think like, damn, another president might not have said that right there in that spot. Like, he might call like, that reporter is dumb as hell. He might just say some like that where Obama might have like danced around it.

[Jean]

Just.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, I don't pay attention to the naysayers or something.

[Jean]

Definitely more blunt. I feel like Obama would have been more blunt now than he was about what in general. General and just more blunt. And I just think this. It was just different times too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

About what though?

[Jean]

In general. Just more bump. Just like the situation you just explained.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay. Do you think what. What would he be more blunt about? Because there's one thing, I don't like Trump as a president, but I do think he's the most blunt person.

[Jean]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Even if he's lying, at least he's blunt about the lie. Like, he's like, outrightly. I don't really see him dancing around world words. During his campaign. He did a lot, but not really now.

[Jean]

There's, like, I would say there's more when you're. You don't like somebody and it being known. You don't like somebody. Yes.

[Christian McCaffrey]

He doesn't hide. Yeah. Yeah. I will say, like, if Obama went through a list of people he didn't like, I bet you there'll be some surprises on there.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, I didn't know. He ain't like.

[Jean]

I feel like Obama always did in a funny way. It was always at those, like, corresponding dinners when, like, the comedians. Real. Jo. The funniest one was when Trump was actually there and it was like, you know that whole campaign about. About Obama not being American.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, yeah.

[Jean]

And that compass, like, really. Trump ran a campaign about that. Like, he wasn't. He was born in. In Kenya or something like that, and his birth certificate was fake. And like, that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's a up part. Because during this, like, just looking back at the presidential race, how they had to go on podcast. Oh, my God. Obama would have killed it.

[Jean]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, that. That's what I'm talking about. Just like, different times are just like.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, like, imagine Obama on Joe Rogan's podcast. Like, he would kill Obama. Damn near probably going, Joe Budden.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And he probably. I don't know why Joe Button and Joe Biden just don't collab.

[Jean]

Yeah, right.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Same person to me. But the response to, like, the response to the quote I said, again, Trump lies frequently but also tells the truth. Somebody responded and said, Jeffrey Dahmer ate a lot of people, but also often ate chicken. So it kind of like throws that whole thing off. Okay, Tweet of the week. This is true. As a man, you got to work all your life to avoid being that one uncle. And I didn't get that at first. And then I really thought about it how your nieces and nephews, like, not your kids, because you kind of have the cheat code with your kids. Like, your kids should think, like, you're the best person in the world, especially at a young age.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But your nieces and nephews are only really viewed through you by, like, your siblings or, like, whoever. Gay, like, whoever kids those are. And they. And so, like, you actually really have to be something for them to describe you in, like, good grace. Like, my. My Nieces think like I'm amazing and I'm like some big time celebrity. But I imagine if I was like a bum, like my sister would tell them the truth.

[Jean]

Like he'll be so.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That would be always a. Like, yeah, that's my uncle. He a bum ass.

[Jean]

Like I even think that about with your son. I tried my best to be the best person that he knows outside of outside. Once he starts. Once he starts remembering gifts, it's raps. I'm literally. I'm cuz it's. It's. It's obviously I'll give him stuff here and there, but it's different when they actually remember. Like Uncle Mike got me this. Uncle Mike got me this. Uncle Mike got me. He started doing that and that repetitive thing. That's my. When I. That's when the gifts start flowing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's who. That's who the kids be killing first off.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like they favorite uncle that be kill your ass. All right. This not really Tweety week, but I got it from Twitter. A fire broke out. A fire broke out at American Airlines at Denver's airport report resulting in the immediate evacuation of passengers. And that was my first time really seeing like the slides deploy not on water and somebody slid down the slide and like tumble three times and like lost like their carry on. So you could tell they went to go get their carry.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And my thing is if I'm on a flight, I feel like if I'm in that situation, I'm probably in danger because I'm about to push it to the fucking limit of when I get off this plane, I'm trying to inhale a little bit more smoke. Ho. Because I know, I know I'm being worked on by the. By the people that's coming in the ambulance and they gonna take all my vitals down. Cuz this. I need my. To look bad for court. This could have died, bro. Like I need my name.

[Jean]

I feel like once you get on the plane, I feel like they make you sign a compliance thing or something. Like you're already like. If it's not like a pilot's fault type of.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I might start tussling with the pilot. I'm gonna keep pushing a pilot till he punched me. This crashed.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah, he punched me.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh bro. The.

[Jean]

The other thing is that I saw a plane flying. It just. Just happened. It was like the. The wing was on fire and then. And it landed. It's just like. I hate when those situations happen, but it's going to sound bad, but I don't Mind sometimes those situations happening like that when I'm. Because it makes me know that at least somebody is like paying attention to the next time that happens. You know, there's more attention on it. Like there was a time where this plane didn't take off on time and while plane was landing and they almost collided. Right. I know now that that mistake happened. All those traffic control agents now are on, on, on go now. They like, yeah, it's like, oh, I don't want to make that same mistake.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's like the lighting is not going to strike twice in the same.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just like the pilot should be more of like, okay, if I saw, saw the first true plane crash in American in America in the last 20 years happens. I know I got at least a good 40 before it's me like, let's put these flights RP to the people of flight 272. But like bro, planes.

[Jean]

Planes are just getting like it. I don't feel like it's happening a lot. It makes it seem like it's happening a lot with the plane stuff, but I think it's, it's just getting reported on a lot more because that's what's like everything with news is about clicks and like that. So though.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But that's, that's all it is.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

How many times they told us peanut butter is good and bad for us in the last 20 years?

[Jean]

No, they got us with milk though, for sure.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Don't start that, bro. Is it good or bad right now?

[Jean]

Milk.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Where's it at?

[Jean]

Milk. Milk, Milk. They got us with milk. Milk.

[Christian McCaffrey]

He revving that up. He got to rev it up to say it, right?

[Jean]

Milk. Milk, Milk, Milk, milk. But the guys with milk, you know what, the got milk convert commercials and like that. But now if you drink whole milk, people kind of get on your ass about it. Now I'm not gonna.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I. It's up because when Lux was younger, my son, he had started drinking whole milk. And I want to tell you that's the most embarrassing thing to have in my cart. Like I had whole milk in my cart and I'm checking out and I can just feel the judgment on everybody eyes like, damn, bro, you haven't tried no soy milk. That's for my son.

[Jean]

In. When I was in Sweden, they had that. They actually have a lot of like lactose free milk. So you don't have to do. Because I, that I actually enjoy that because I, I get with my coffee now I get oat milk. But it's nice to have just like non oat tasting coffee that's just lactose free because that's what really it is about with milk. A lot of people are lactose intolerant.

[Christian McCaffrey]

They know that. Yeah, your not supposed to smell like that. Like let's just be.

[Jean]

But why don't you drink milk? Like why, what's your reason though? Like your personal reason? Like did you get bullied out of it? Like for me I got bullied out of getting, getting the iPhone because I was tired of being in the, the group chat with the green text.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, I got bullied the iPhone. They bullied me for sure.

[Jean]

But like how did you get bullied out of drink? Do you drink whole milk?

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, I don't drink whole milk.

[Jean]

When did you stop drinking whole milk?

[Christian McCaffrey]

Well, I went to the school I graduated from was like a green school. So they was like all like plant based stuff. We didn't get like they didn't cook any meat there. Everything was like catered from like vegetarian restaurants and stuff like that. So a lot of, a lot of students started to like transition into like vegetarian. Gave a real head. He just on us.

[Jean]

So I found we are very health, we were very health conscious as kids, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Mine I used to drink, I used to drink that out the gallon though. Like the blue cap I used to run in, I used to run in from playing outside and just like chug that and run back.

[Jean]

Yeah. Cuz it's like strong bones and like that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I was never naturally a fan of just like pure white milk. Like I did strawberry milk and chocolate milk.

[Jean]

Strawberry milk is like the most childish thing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But no, I'm just saying I did that in.

[Jean]

It doesn't matter.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Middle school, high school.

[Jean]

Yeah, that's fine. I judge people drinking strawberry milk.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If you drink strawberry milk. If I see you as a grown man drinking strawberry.

[Jean]

Even as a kid I was judging.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I don't even rob people. I'm robbing you flat out. Come off everything.

[Jean]

Strawberry milk. All right, Strawberry milk.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I could be having a good day. I could be with my son, I could be with my grandma having a good day and I see a dude drinking strawberry milk. I'm going in the house and grabbing a ski mask, the pistol whip, the out this now you got hours straight.

[Jean]

You, you in the grocery store, you're in the grocery store, you see somebody with strawberry milk in their car, you're just like oh, how many, how many kids you got man? I don't got no kids. Oh, I just saw the strawberry milk in, in your car. Just Wondering.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'll be right back.

[Jean]

This is my favorite milk to drink. Okay. All right. Give me the milk.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I got an AK with a shoestring. All right. Last tweet of the week. My. Be loud as when we have sex.

[Jean]

Sorry. Oh my God. I'm sorry. But it's just like I took a.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Deep breath before that too.

[Jean]

We don't say. We don't say that. I don't really hear you say that often, so. It's always funny. Go ahead.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I never. It's funny cuz I don't refer to women as.

[Jean]

Yeah, but go ahead. My bad. We don't have. You don't have to wear your cape right now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Cuz it's really.

[Jean]

You don't have to wear your cape.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I just.

[Jean]

It just go ahead.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Let me finish.

[Jean]

I'm hating. Go ahead, bro.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Listen, I just want to put this out there like cuz, you know, a lot of dudes use for women, but in. In real life, most of these is the.

[Unknown]

You feel me?

[Christian McCaffrey]

I just want to. You know what I'm saying? Most people don't know that I'm put. I hate when people say quotes like that. Like they putting on game and comment.

[Jean]

Respect in the comments right now. Respect. Go ahead. Go ahead.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All right. My. My woman be loud as. No, I'm just fine. My girl be loud as when we have sex. Like, relax. This the same dick from last time. There is like some moments like there's been times like where I've had in my life a gap between like, okay, this is my second time around with this woman.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And there's been maybe a one or two year gap have. And she's like visibly better at sex this time around. And it's just like, that's okay with me. But I always imagine if I had that. I always imagine myself of having a mindset of some of these other dudes. It's like, would that bother me at what rate with that? What would she have to do in this bedroom to where it bothered me that much? And then like, is there something that she could do? And I just like, I would enjoy her getting better, but there is like certain things like, okay, if we were just having regular sex this time and you did some crazy move that made me come in 30 seconds, we're done. Cause what the. That's a lot of practice.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And then it's like not even about like the. I don't think I would ever pull bodies that she would have. Just the fact that like that like you was in the gym.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just getting some shots up, man.

[Jean]

Well, definitely. Probably.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It.

[Jean]

It definitely have to be a thought after the fact, cuz I feel like if you're thinking about another dude at the time during sex, it's just like during 30 seconds. There has been times though, not even thinking about what she. The. The person. There's times that my mind is wandered during sex, but more to like think about like household things like what did I leave the. The. That I leave the door unlocked or what I got to do tomorrow. It's just like. It's just so random sometimes. That's why you have to have like some type of like noise if it's too quiet.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah.

[Jean]

You don't have like the. There's no ambiance. It's just her voice. You kind of need a little more ambiance than that sometimes.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But that's obviously if you don't agree with that, that means you're a minute man and everything is action.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If you. If you have sex, like sometimes, like, you know, sex for me, like can go on for like an hour or whatever. Like just doing different things and stuff. Just being real.

[Jean]

No, that's fin. Just like. Or.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I'm be real.

[Jean]

I go for hours and hours and hours.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Most of y' all calling y' all girls, but it's really these. I put y' all on game. But no, I'm just saying. Just not. Not on. No, it's a bragging. I'm just saying like it can happen like that sometimes there's going to be time. You're not locked in for the whole hour.

[Jean]

It's hard to stay locked in, you know, all that long when you down.

[Christian McCaffrey]

There eating a little.

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Eating a little cat.

[Jean]

That's what my mind. That's why my mind wanders the most.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Listen. But. But you real. If you lie back. Cuz you almost get offended that she not. Wait, why she not moaning Got me up.

[Jean]

You know.

[Christian McCaffrey]

He started cussing the out you hitting it and stuff like that. And then you realize. You realize yourself that, oh wait, I'm not that locked in. And then you kind of look down and just like, oh, you still enjoying this? Unlocked in?

[Jean]

Yeah, yeah, exactly.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just locked in. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Jean]

How about that Wheels.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Beat that. How about this? When I actually concentrating, I think also.

[Jean]

Because a lot of. Especially. Especially in the creative field, a lot of things wander through your brain a lot. So it's just like sometimes it's like you can't always turn your brain off no matter who you're with sometime, no matter bro.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It don't, it don't matter who you with. And if, if you locked in for an hour, I bet you can't do it again, you know what I'm saying? There's way you locked in every time during sex, you know what I'm saying? Not every, it's just impossible.

[Jean]

There are times too, even during sex where you know, like, oh, let me lock in because I'm slacking right now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes.

[Jean]

Cuz every dude, some dudes, we try to believe that every performance in the bedroom is their best performance. And it's not. Especially when you're like consistently with somebody. You're like n. I wasn't as like I couldn't turn. I could have did more than that. Yeah. And then you know, the next time it's like, all right, I gotta take it, I gotta take it there.

[Christian McCaffrey]

That's what's wrong with people. They don't want to get better. And sometimes like, even if you're like the best, because I feel like a lot of people, like, especially like the relationships I've been in, the sex at the beginning could be end up being the best sex that you had, the whole damn relationship. And it's like, because people just get repetitive and don't get locked in. It's like sometimes you got to get locked in.

[Jean]

I think as the older I've gotten, the more mature like mentally I've gotten, I think you start to know that, that it's, it's a normal thing to ask your girl what she likes and what she doesn't like. Yeah. And even just like stuff that you could just ways people, there's ways to guide, guide it through like what you should be doing better in during sex and stuff like that. But some dudes don't even like to have those conversations and just like, nah, I'm good, I'm doing everything right. And they're not knowing, they're not really pleasuring their girl. So you gotta, you gotta be dudes, especially early 20s now. Now if you're with somebody that you're really with, I guess you guys don't want to react to the girls. You're just hitting for one night stands and like that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But, but still that's, it's game, receive the game, like get better. Because that could be the time where you actually need it to bag your wife.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You know what I'm saying? And you don't, you don't do something. Right. That could have like sealed the deal for you. And now I think it's.

[Jean]

Yeah, we should normalize Having sex, sex, sex talks with your. The person you're with. Like, conversation around sex and not being awkward or being like. Or don't even do it because I think it would be. More dudes might be offended. It's like, oh, I wish you would do this better. And now it's like, nah, she tripping.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I literally watched it. I literally heard a dude, he was talking about sex. He was like, man, I was with this freaky girl. She kept putting her. Her finger in her butthole when I was hitting it and like that, like, okay, you stupid ass. She wanted you to do that?

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

She tried to show you what to do?

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Just looking at it like, dude, that's cool.

[Jean]

Crazy. Or if that's not your. Or that's not your thing too. You can just have that conversation.

[Christian McCaffrey]

No, no, no. If you a dude, ain't no such thing as.

[Jean]

There is such thing. Is not your thing, man.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Unless.

[Jean]

No. So you let your girl do whatever she's. Or a girl.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Unless it's like some play or something that.

[Jean]

But that is ass. That's legit play.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If she's saying, I want this done to me, I don't think there's anything that. You know what I'm saying? Like, as a dude, what you doing?

[Jean]

I mean, there's still limits to what you want to do.

[Christian McCaffrey]

If a girl told me, hey, I.

[Jean]

Won'T like, but I want you to.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Wear a strap on which your dick. So you got three dicks.

[Jean]

Exactly.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Then you call me. Try dick.

[Jean]

Is crazy.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Try dick coming through.

[Jean]

Like, I personally wouldn't do anything anal. Right. That's just.

[Christian McCaffrey]

With your.

[Jean]

With my girl, I just. That's not my thing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But, but, but even if that was.

[Jean]

Her thing and she said that was her thing, I would be like, that's something. That's a compromise we have to make.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Fake that you not doing it.

[Jean]

That I'm not doing it. How is that weird? But I think. Because I think anal's always an. I think that's an extra additive thing. That's like a.

[Christian McCaffrey]

You didn't sign up for that. Yeah, but the thing is, it's all about, like, who you've ran into. Like, I've. I legit know women out there. Y' all can not believe me or not. But there's legit women. Women that don't like to be eaten out like that.

[Jean]

Yeah, they're women like that.

[Christian McCaffrey]

They're women like that. So if, If a guy just runs into those type of women more than often, then he might get to a point Just because that's how he start having sex is like, oh, I don't really do that. Because it just becomes the norm to him at some point. Like, oh, I don't do that. But you know, like, let's say, you know, your first couple of times having sex, all three girls like anal and like you only had three sex from. From age 18 to age 24. You only have sex with three and they all were into anal. You would kind of think that's the norm. It's whatever you're introduced to as a norm. But I feel like our generation anal was like deemed as bad.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Like it. When we came up, it was like, it's kind of bad. Like, oh, you doing anal ill. You know, I'm saying, like stuff like that. Whereas like the generation before and I think the generation after is kind of just like.

[Jean]

I think it's just like a. Just not a normal thing. Yeah, I think it's just not. Not a norm. I think there's more dudes eating girls out than. Then there are people that are doing anal.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, I'm not, I'm not. If. If the. I just think I was talking to one.

[Jean]

It's just a lot of preparation for it too.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah, Yeah, I would. That's the thing.

[Jean]

That's why I say the girl have.

[Christian McCaffrey]

To be good at. I'm not. No anal. Like, God damn.

[Jean]

I think just cuz naturally nothing.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But to me, I also find it.

[Jean]

Like, I guess a lot of anal talk right now.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yeah. But to anything. My only attraction would be that the girl is so attracted to that. And I don't think I would run into. I haven't met a girl like that.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

In my life. They'll just be like, I love anal. So I was just like, why would I. Why would I introduce it?

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I've never seen. I've never looked at a butthole and been like, yeah, it's not me, man. I'm sorry.

[Jean]

All our gay listeners right now, they're like, don't knock it till you try. Respect to y' all though, man.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's very old.

[Jean]

I still rock with y'. All. No, no, no.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Let's get to some listening callers.

[Jean]

All right. That actually we. We should end it.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay.

[Jean]

All right. All right. That has been crash dummies, episode 217.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Oh, you got a correct. Yeah, yeah, we're supposed to do that earlier.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

But still the 215 thing still is the same thing. But shout out to 215. I gotta shout them out because I feel like I dissed them. My fault.

[Jean]

Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

My Philly listeners. Merch.

[Jean]

Oh, yeah. Merch is out. Remember, link in the bio description wherever and when you guys purchase the merch again, we said this already. Make sure you guys tag all our pages. My page, Pat's page, Jean's page, and the crash dummies, just so we can see the people actually interact and give you all and mess y' all back.

[Christian McCaffrey]

I do want to say something. I got one. I do think that we're one of the best communities out there, but I do think our community plays it too close. Who. Like, it's okay. Like, when I see. Obviously we're not as big as these podcasts, but the Joe Button Network and all these other people that have Twitter communities and stuff, I just feel like they talk about the show more. And it's okay if y' all give opinions on stuff we talk about. And obviously, we don't talk about subjects as hard to give crazy opinions on. But we like when y' all tweet. We like when y' all mention us. We like when going back and forth on IG comments or whatever like that. So if y' all got stuff to say, share more. More like, do just whatever. And if y' all need us to interact more, just let us know, because I'll be busy anyway.

[Jean]

Make sure you guys subscribe to Patreon as well. Patreon members. You guys already know y' all got your discount. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

And who said? Well, first of all. And somebody was like, oh, they giving discounts because they going broke. Let's go band for band actually.

[Jean]

Actually bothers you.

[Christian McCaffrey]

It's just like crazy, crazy accusations.

[Jean]

Like, oh, they doing 50%. Honestly, I might even extend it. I really just want a barrier of entry to be a little bit less for people to join for the first month. That $10 is the thing that's scaring you. You don't know this is worth it yet. Pay the. Pay the 50 off, and then if you like it, keep it. If you don't, then cancel. It's like, it's. Obviously, we appreciate the. The support.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes.

[Jean]

But. Yeah.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Yes. And. And I'm always gonna call out the one negative thing. I hate when people say, oh, it was 20 positive things and one negative comment. Tell that one negative comment I'm coming.

[Jean]

I got. Oh, that's crazy. My. My rule for that. My rule for that is that if I ever respond to a negative comment, I have to respond to two positive comments.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Okay?

[Jean]

That's my rule.

[Christian McCaffrey]

My rule is if I respond to a negative comment. Find his cousins. Aunties.

[Jean]

All right, y'.

[Christian McCaffrey]

All.

[Jean]

Peace.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Mom and dad. The school supplies you buy me this year will mostly end up in my mouth. Maybe shop. Low prices for school at Amazon so I don't eat up all your money. Just something to chew on.

[Mike]

Amazon.

[Christian McCaffrey]

Spend less, smile more.