Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Episode #523: When to Push, When to Pivot, and When to Ask for Help with Heather Monahan
Release Date: May 21, 2025
Introduction
In Episode #523 of Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan, Heather delves deep into her personal and professional journey, sharing invaluable insights on knowing when to persevere, when to change direction, and the importance of seeking assistance. This episode is a compelling narrative of resilience, adaptability, and the relentless pursuit of personal growth.
Reflecting on Personal Growth and Patience
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Heather begins by reflecting on her recent birthday at age 47, emphasizing the importance of annual self-assessment. She discusses her tendency to be impatient and how her experiences over the years have taught her the value of giving herself the necessary time to achieve success.
"Good things take time, great things take even longer." – Heather Monahan [02:15]
Heather recounts her 20-year tenure in the radio industry, highlighting the challenges she faced when she was fired at 43. Transitioning from being an established expert to a rookie in authoring, speaking, and podcasting was daunting. She shares how comparing her present self to her younger self helped her navigate this transition.
Embracing the Learning Curve
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Heather discusses the lessons learned from publishing her first book, Confidence Creator. Initially, she had no knowledge of pre-promotion or pre-orders. However, with experience and a supportive team at HarperCollins Leadership, she successfully launched her second book, Overcome Your Villains, achieving notable milestones such as becoming a number one new release on Amazon.
"Experience really helps you access more success and do it more seamlessly." – Heather Monahan [05:40]
She emphasizes the importance of patience and self-compassion, encouraging listeners to allow themselves the grace to grow and learn without undue pressure.
Overcoming Corporate Challenges and NDAs
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A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to discussing the complexities of leaving a corporate environment, especially concerning Non-Disclosure Agreements (NDAs). Heather shares a listener's story about being offered a standard NDA upon leaving a company and the difficult decision between accepting a financial settlement or forging a new path without compromising her narrative.
"Your experience is only less credible if you say it is right." – Heather Monahan [12:45]
Heather advises maintaining authenticity while respecting legal boundaries. She highlights the power of leveraging testimonials and focusing on current endeavors to build credibility without delving into past corporate experiences.
Building a Business Amidst Challenges
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Heather and her co-host engage in a heartfelt conversation about resilience in the face of setbacks. They discuss strategies for building a successful venture while honoring NDAs, such as focusing on other life stories and using client testimonials to bolster credibility.
"Stay focused on the solution. Challenge yourself to find the solution. And the obstacles will not stop you." – Heather Monahan [14:30]
Heather shares her own experiences of overcoming hurdles, including technical challenges with Amazon, which ultimately opened doors to significant partnerships and opportunities.
Launching a New Book and Embracing Action
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Heather transitions to discussing her latest book, Overcome Your Villains, published by HarperCollins Leadership. She details her pre-order campaign, including a bonus bundle valued at $500 to incentivize early purchases. Heather expresses pride in her work and gratitude towards her supporters.
"Success isn't always easy. It takes a lot of trial and error." – Heather Monahan [17:05]
She underscores the necessity of hard work and perseverance, sharing the unexpected positive feedback from her publisher, which reinforced her belief in her mission.
Connecting the Dots and Embracing Fear
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In her concluding remarks, Heather reflects on the unpredictability of life and career paths. She emphasizes that the pieces of one's journey often only make sense in hindsight, advocating for proactive and bold actions despite uncertainties.
"Step into fear. Choose to see fear as a green light. That means go and grow and go now." – Heather Monahan [19:20]
Heather recounts her milestones over the past four years, from self-publishing to becoming a recognized keynote speaker and lecturer at Harvard. She encourages listeners to embrace fear as a catalyst for growth and to continuously push their boundaries.
Key Takeaways
- Self-Reflection and Patience: Regularly assess personal and professional progress, allowing time for growth and learning.
- Embrace the Learning Curve: Transitioning to new roles or industries requires humility and a willingness to start anew.
- Authenticity within Constraints: Navigate NDAs by focusing on current achievements and client testimonials to maintain credibility.
- Perseverance Through Challenges: Overcoming obstacles can lead to unexpected opportunities and partnerships.
- Proactive Action Despite Fear: Taking bold steps, even amidst uncertainty, is essential for personal and professional development.
Conclusion
Episode #523 of Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan offers a profound exploration of navigating career transitions, the importance of patience, and the courage to seek help when needed. Heather's candid discussions and actionable insights serve as an inspiration for anyone striving to create confidence and achieve their dreams amidst life's inevitable challenges.
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