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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Unlock an Unstoppable Mindset & Marriage with Sarah Blakely & Jesse Itzler
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- [00:00]
Heather Monahan
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- [01:45]
Jesse Itzler
We all go through this period in any part of our journey where we're overwhelmed with self doubt. Anybody, no matter what you're doing, as a parent, as an entrepreneur, as a marketer, someone's bad. I'm not good enough. I don't have what it takes. Whatever we go through this period of self doubt, I had it in my race. I started off, I was like, could run four miles. And once you get momentum and you start to believe and you can, you can have something that you can build on that's super powerful.
- [02:13]
Heather Monahan
Come on this journey with me each week when you join me.
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Sarah Blakely
We are going to chase down our goals, overcome adversity and set you up for a better tomorrow.
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Sara Blakely
Fasten your seatbelt I'm ready for my close up.
- [02:25]
Heather Monahan
Tell me, have you been enjoying these new bonus Confidence classics episodes we've been dropping on you every week? We've literally hundreds of episodes for you to listen to. So these bonuses are a great way to help you find the ones you may have already missed. I hope you love this one as much as I do. I'm so excited for you to hear this interview. This again, literally is an interview of a lifetime. And I'm going to cut right to it because you're going to be blown away by Sarah Blakely, the founder of Spanx, and her husband Jesse. It's a serial entrepreneur and I got the opportunity to interview Sarah and Jesse live on stage and now you get.
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Sarah Blakely
The chance to hear it.
- [03:09]
Heather Monahan
Can't wait to hear what you think.
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Sarah Blakely
Meet a different guest each week. As was just mentioned, you guys have had a lot going on in the last week.
- [03:22]
Sara Blakely
Yes, that's definitely true.
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Sarah Blakely
It. Not much sleep.
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Sara Blakely
Not a lot of sleep.
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Sarah Blakely
In case some of the people here don't follow you on Instagram, can you kind of break down what Last Man Standing was all about?
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Jesse Itzler
Yeah, so I just. That's the reason why I'm wearing flip flops. I just got back from a race called the Last Man Standing. You guys hear me? Okay, cool. Okay. I feel like an operator. And the format of the race is you run a 4.2 mile loop. You have an hour to do it and if you finish earlier, you can rest, finish in 15 minutes. You have a 10 minute rest and then they line you up again at the top of the hour and you do it again and you keep going until one person is left. So my wife was in Maine. And when I, when I. Yeah. Well, when I googled it, it said that there were. There was moderate elevation. Yeah. If you live in Maine, it was crazy terrain. So I ended up, I just got back. We. I did 20 hours, 80 miles and I came in fifth.
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Sarah Blakely
I think that deserves a round of applause.
- [04:27]
Jesse Itzler
And my wife was the wife standing.
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Sara Blakely
Yes. I win. Last wife standing. I didn't sleep for 35 hours, so I was supporting him and it's really challenging. I said at one point I had a breakdown, I think at like 4 in the morning where I just started crying because it's. I said marriage is hard when you have to really support each other's dreams and especially if you have to watch the person you love suffer. And Jesse had a pep talk with me before and he said, no matter what, tell me I look good. Tell me I look strong. Don't pull me out of the race. Don't tell me that you're worried about me. So.
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Jesse Itzler
But I didn't say to say it like this. Oh, you look. You look good.
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Sara Blakely
That's true. But it was really a wild experience of just human spirit. You know, what we all have inside of us, that grit and determination. And there were 112 of really intensely impressive ultra runners there. And wow, I was just blown away by, by mindset, really, because I asked Jesse after this. I mean, Jesse's 51. So I said, honey, even though you didn't get the last man standing, you definitely won the oldest man standing because he was 10 to 20 years older than every other racer in this race. And yeah, so. And so I said to him, I was so curious because I knew mindset. I'm a huge believer in mindset. And I said, what was your mindset and what were you thinking during the race? And he looked at me with laser focus after it, and he said, I was saying repeatedly to myself, I push my body and my body responds, and boy, did it ever. I mean, because his knees, his ankles, I mean, the rest of his body really, I mean, was shutting down. But, but his mindset was there and that, that pushed him, I would say. I mean, at mile 47, I thought you were done. I love you, but I really did. I was, like, so worried. And then, like, you know, you just can't. You can't ever doubt the mindset. If the mindset of the person's in the right place, then they. They just go way beyond what you expect.
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Jesse Itzler
What's interesting about this race is, you know, you can get lost in how long it's going to be or how long, what the distance is. And it's like anything you're doing in your entrepreneurial journey or any challenge, any goal, it's really just being laser focused on what's happening right now, what's the most important thing? And not getting. Not patting yourself on your back for all your achievements, like, oh, I got to mile 25 or whatever, and not thinking about how far you want to go. It was literally just staying super present. And I always say, be where your feet are. And right here I'm in this loop. I'm in this loop right now. Let me get back to the. To the chair, get my little rest and go on the next loop right now. This is my job to get to the loop. And that was the focus.
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Sarah Blakely
Wow. It's very, very impressive.
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Sara Blakely
And if any of you guys want to be super entertained and inspired, it's on my Instagram page at Sarah Blakely, and it's in one of those. You know, I put it in a permanent circle in the bar below the descriptor of my name, and it's called the Last Man Standing. And it's really. It is very.
- [07:43]
Sarah Blakely
You have to check it out. Her Insta stories are really funny. So, Sarah, you mentioned mindset and the importance and effect that mindset has, not only for Jesse, but, you know, people look at you and your company today and they think you're enormously successful, and it was probably always that way. However, you were a salesperson at one point in time and had a very different life. Do you attribute the things that have happened in your life to mindset, or what do you attribute that success to?
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Sara Blakely
Yeah, definitely mindset. I mean, I sold fax machines door to door for seven years after graduating from college. And I, you know, for 20 years, Spanx is going to be 20. I started it in the year 2000. And the sound bite in the media has been Sarah cut the feet out of pantyhose and solved an undergarment issue. And now Spanx is here. And. And while that is true, there was so much more about the behind the scenes of why this happened. And people have asked me, can I have 10 minutes, 15 minutes of your time? I want to pick your brain on how Spank started. But the real answer is, it started way before I cut the feet out of my pantyhose. And it started when I was much younger, and I had a series of kind of tragic events happen to me when I was in high school. And it led me to Wayne Dyer, who is a motivational inspirational speaker. He passed away about two years ago, but I got exposed to him, and I listened to his cassette tapes over and over and over again to the point that I had his one series called how to Be a no Limit person. Memorized all 10 cassette tapes, front and back, and try living with that. Well, that's funny, because in high school, no one wanted to get stuck in my car. Like, after a party. They're like, she's gonna make you listen to this shit. And so. But then, you know, I said, I.
- [09:41]
Jesse Itzler
Think I would take simple things, like, I'm just gonna do the laundry tomorrow. And she'd be like, do you know the ramifications of waiting till tomorrow?
- [09:50]
Sara Blakely
So, but then fast forward, you know, I think it was 10 to 15 years after high school that I ended up on the COVID of Forbes. And the texts I got in my phone were so funny. I mean, literally all my friends were like, damn, should have listened. So. So. But I'm a big believer in it. I learned early on about manifesting law of attraction, not caring what other people think about you, which is a really big one for an entrepreneur or, you know, in life, really. And I'm a work in progress on that. There are times where I do care, and I check myself and say, you know, let's. Let's work on this. But it's very freeing to not care what other people think. You'll take more risks to not really focus on the outcome and be so afraid to fail. So all of that is a big part of my journey. And Spanx, for sure. So I think mindset is. I work on it daily.
- [10:41]
Sarah Blakely
We all need to. I need to get those cassettes. Jesse, you didn't start out an MTV rapper. You didn't start out owning an NBA team. You were sleeping on couches for quite a while, which people probably find hard to believe. Do you attribute your success to mindset or what do you attribute it to?
- [11:01]
Jesse Itzler
I think, well, I definitely have my own version of mindset. When I have a goal, I like to say that's the end of the movie. I go to the end of the movie first, where I want the outcome to be, and that's unwavering. I don't negotiate that. I don't try not to ever negotiate my goals. The script changes, the plot changes, how you get there. You have all kinds of obstacles, but the end of the movie really never changes for me. So that's my form of visualization and how I kind of attack it.
- [11:31]
Sarah Blakely
Sarah, you mentioned that you didn't share your invention with anyone for that first year. Why would you take that approach instead of enlisting others to help you or support you through that?
- [11:45]
Sara Blakely
I. That really came from a gut feeling. I really honor my gut and intuition a lot and still do through the journey that I'm on. But when I cut the feet out of my pantyhose and started Spanx, I had actually asked for the idea two years prior, so I was selling fax machines. I had one really bad day. I'd been kicked out of an office again. I mean, I got usually business cards ripped up in my face about once or twice a week. I got escorted out of buildings all the time. And this day was just hard. I mean, I'm seven years into 100% cold calling to sell people a fax machine. And I. I pulled over and I said, I'm in the wrong movie. How did this happen? Call the director, call the producer. This is not my life. Like, I. I'm redirecting my life. And I went home and I wrote down a list of what I'm good at in the positive column and strengths. And I saw sales, and I thought, okay, well, what is it about sales that I'm good at? And it led me to the fact that I like to offer people things that they may not know they need and then really makes a difference for them. And I wrote down in my journal that night, I'm going to invent a product that I can sell to millions of people that will make them feel. And then I looked up in the air in my apartment and I said, I'm ready for the idea. If you give it to me, I won't squander it. And two years later, I cut the feet out of control. Top pantyhose one night to wear white pants to a party and not have a panty line or anything show. Because, guys, you're out there in the audience. I don't know how many of you struggle with what to wear under white pants, but it's a legit problem that we have. And so I. I cut the feet out of my pantyhose one time, and I thought this could be the idea, because I had already set the intention for the idea to show up. But as soon as I started on the path of it, I thought, okay, I don't want to tell anybody my idea, because I feel that ideas are the most vulnerable in the moment that you have them. And it is our human nature that the minute we have an idea, we tell our friend, our co worker, our wife, our husband, boyfriend, girlfriend. And in those moments, out of love and care and all the right intentions, half the time the person might say something that completely squashes it or makes you not pursue it. So I didn't want to tell my friend, family and friends, and I have very supportive family and friends, but I didn't want ego to have to get involved too early on in the process. I wanted to spend my time pursuing it and not defending it. So at night and on the weekends, for two years, I would sell fax machines during the day, and then at night I would stay up and I would. Was working on the patent and I was, you know, doing all my research and driving, taking vacation days to drive to North Carolina where the manufacturing plants weren't begging them to help make the first prototype. But that is really why. And I have to say, I mean, everybody in their life has a million dollar, even a Billion dollar idea. I mean, we, we do. They, they come.
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Sarah Blakely
I haven't had mine yet.
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Sara Blakely
Well, well, you do. And I feel like recognizing it is a big one, and then also, you know, holding it sacred for, for me. And I'm glad I did because I, I sat my family down a year later, and all they knew was Sarah's working on some crazy idea. And a year later, I sat him down and I said, okay, guys, are you ready? It's footless pantyhose. And I mean, they were like, so, sweetie, if it's such a good idea, why hasn't anybody else created it? And then someone else in my family was like, well, honey, you know, and even if this is a good idea, the big guys are just going to knock you off in the first six months and you will have spent your savings on this. And if I had heard those things in the moment that I had it, I probably would still be selling fax machines or something like it. So I really, I really believe that. I believe that you gotta, you gotta really protect it now. It didn't mean I didn't tell people that would help me pursue it. I was telling lawyers, having them help me try to write the patent. I was cold calling manufacturers and talking to them. I just didn't seek out people simply for validation until I knew I'd put enough of my own sweat equity into this idea that no matter what, the validation came back as I wouldn't waiver.
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Sarah Blakely
That was a tweetable moment for me. I'm going to spend my time and energy pursuing it, not defending it. I think that's really powerful. Do you see ideas the same way that they need to be nurtured and protected? Or were you more, I mean, because you created a lot of different companies and concepts over your career in life. Did you bring people in earlier on or did you take that same approach?
- [16:24]
Jesse Itzler
Well, I have to agree with everything. We're married, so of course I agree. No, I think one of the most important things as an entrepreneur I found is figuring out how to get from point A to point B the fastest. And if that is telling someone, or if that, in my case, maybe it was getting a key investor, getting a celebrity as part of Zico or one of our brands, whether it was a key partnership, I think that's a critic. That's been a critical part of my journey. Because when I started out, I did sleep on 18 different couches. The one thing I needed that we all need is we need a story. We need momentum. People buy into stories and Momentum more than they buy into products like we're the business plan. And when I started out, I started out in the music business. I had a record out on a label called delicious vinyl. And right when my album came out, I did Club MTV, which is a big show on MTV. At the time, I was 21 years old, and I thought, like, wow, man, Mom, I made it. I'm on mtv. This is unbelievable. And I did my first show in Pittsburgh, and I got off the airplane in Pittsburgh, and when I got off the airplane, there was a huge newsstand. And on the COVID of this big magazine called rap pages at the time was my picture. And I'm like, holy shit. I'm on the COVID of rap pages. And I'm like. I'm like, this is unbelievable. I was like, being on Forbes for Sarah, like, I'm on rap pages, and I go and I get the magazine, and the COVID of the magazine with my picture on it was, are white rappers ruining hip hop?
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Sara Blakely
That wasn't heard this story.
- [17:59]
Jesse Itzler
Why would I tell you would've married me. So I needed a story. I needed a story. So for me at that age, you know, it wasn't about when I had an idea telling people. It was about getting momentum. And I went to the New York Knicks with an idea to do a theme song for the knicks. I was 22 years old, and I said, you know, sports is changing. People sit in seats for three hours in an in an arena, but the game is only 48 minutes, so you have to entertain them for over two hours. Let's do a song and a video, and we'll get all the celebrities in New York. The song was called Go, New York, go. And the knicks paid me $4,000 for the song. And by the time I paid the studio, the engineer, the singer, the producer, the drummer, it cost me $4,800 to do the song. So is that a good business model?
- [18:46]
Sarah Blakely
No, right?
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Jesse Itzler
They paid me 4,000. They paid me 4,000. It cost me $4,800. Do you guys think that's a good business model? Wrong. That's an amazing business model, because I would have paid the next right. I would have paid the Knicks $5,000 to do the song for them to help me get to point B faster. Because now I had a story, and I could call up the Bulls and be like, I did the Knicks song, and every team that came into Madison Square Garden was like, why don't we have a song like that? And that was what really jump started my career. So for me, it's like, how do you get from A to B the fastest?
- [19:23]
Sarah Blakely
And then you wrote and produced a song for the NBA that actually won an Emmy.
- [19:28]
Jesse Itzler
I did.
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Sarah Blakely
And then you created a company, another company out of this concept.
- [19:32]
Sara Blakely
Right.
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Sarah Blakely
So it actually was a good business model, losing $5,000.
- [19:37]
Jesse Itzler
Yeah, well, I mean we figured out the business model after that. It wasn't sustainable, but it got me in the door and it got me momentum. And you know, I always tell people that ask me if they're stuck, if they're overwhelmed. Small wins just, you know, even in this race I just ran, we all go through this period in any part of our journey where we're overwhelmed with self doubt. Anybody, no matter what you're doing, as a parent, as an entrepreneur, as a marketer, someone's bad. I'm not good enough. I don't have what it takes. Whatever we go through this period of self doubt, I had it in my race. I started off, I was like could run four miles. And once you get momentum and you start to believe and you can, you can have something that you can build on that's super powerful and yeah, I.
- [20:23]
Sara Blakely
Mean you got to create your own.
- [20:25]
Jesse Itzler
Small wins for sure.
- [20:27]
Sarah Blakely
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- [20:38]
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Sarah Blakely
I asked you to try to find your passion.
- [22:02]
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Sarah Blakely
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- [24:55]
Sarah Blakely
I ask you to try to find your passion.
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Sara Blakely
That's reminding me. I mean for the first four years of Spanx, I wore a black T shirt with Spanx ironed onto it that I went to one of those T shirt shops and took a white letter and ironed on Spanx and cream pants. But I was the advertisement so I wore that everywhere I went. And then when I got a chance to sell it in Neiman Marcus, I would bring my friends to the store to act like excited customers. And they would stand around my distance display table and go, oh, every time we'd like cue it, we'd be like, customer coming. And this like really fancy lady, you know, perfectly dressed would be walking up and my friends would all go, tell me more. What is this? I can't believe I'm just finding out about this. And it would always cause the customer to go, what? You know what's happening? And. And then I'd be like, yes, I get an opportunity to explain it to her.
- [25:46]
Sarah Blakely
I love that you brought that story up. Would you mind sharing that story of how you sold it into Neiman Marcus? Because they, that is such a great face to face and it just pulls on that past track record that you had with the cold calling and how it paid off for you.
- [25:59]
Sara Blakely
Yeah. So when I first landed, Neiman Marcus was my first account. And two things about that that are just something that I reflect back on. One is everybody in the industry after I landed Neiman's came up to me and said, how in the world did you land Neiman Marcus? And I would look at them and I'd say, I called them. What do you do? And they'd say, oh my God, we go to trade shows and we set up a booth and we've been doing it for seven years. And everybody says around year six or seven that you get a chance with Neiman's. I didn't even know there were trade shows. So I often say what you don't know can be your greatest asset if you let it. If you're not intimidated by the self talk of I have no idea what I'm doing and that shuts you down. So if you can power through the I have no idea what I'm doing and actually see it as a positive and go, that means I'm going to do it different. And that's where you break real Ground. It takes a lot of courage and a lot of willingness to look stupid and potentially fall on your face, but that's where the magic is. So, anyway, I land. I got a chance to go and cold call Neiman Marcus. I flew on a plane from Atlanta, where I live, to Dallas, and I met with the buyer, and she was impeccably dressed. I'm in the intimidating Neiman's headquarters. I had my lucky red backpack from college. I had the prototype in a Ziploc bag from my kitchen and a color copy of the packaging that I had created on my friend's computer. And halfway through my pitch, I was telling her what it is, and I could tell I was losing her. You know, after seven years of cold calling and trying to sell things to people, you get really good at reading non verbals. And I always say, non verbals tell you way more than the verbal. You know, when people sit there and shake their head and say, I love it, and I'll call you tomorrow, you're like, oh, my God, Mayday. You know, that's when you pull the shoe and say, I've got to, like, try everything. And so she was kind of doing that. She was like, okay, thanks. And I just stopped and said, you know what, Diane? Will you come to the bathroom with me? And she literally was like, excuse me. I'm like, I know it's a little weird, but can you just follow me to the bathroom and I'm going to actually show you what my product can do. I'm going to go in the stall. And she was like, oh, okay. And she walked down the hall, and I went in the stall and I put it on under my white pants, and I came out. So I showed her before, and then I showed her with the product on, and she just sat there and she goes, I get it. It's brilliant. And I'm going to try it in seven stores. And I was like, that deserves a round of applause.
- [28:23]
Sarah Blakely
I love that story. So you guys talk a lot about humor and embarrassing yourself, poking fun at yourselves in business and in life, and have a lot of fun with that. And we mentioned specifically on Instagram, can you talk a little bit about what that looks like?
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Jesse Itzler
I just think we both, you know, don't take ourselves super seriously. And humor works. Humor's fun. I think one thing we've both had in our entrepreneurial journey is we've had fun. And I think a lot of people forget how fun it can be. And we work on making it fun. We try to do fun things, and Incorporate fun things into our household, with our kids, with our cultures at our companies. And it's an important part of the process.
- [29:16]
Sara Blakely
I mean, I would say, to add to that, I recognize that the two biggest fears that we all have as human beings are basically the fear of public speaking and the fear of being embarrassed. And so I want that to lose its power over me. So I will intentionally embarrass myself or I will intentionally find scenarios where I'm not good at something, and then I go through it, and it usually ends up making me laugh. Or if something ridiculous happens to me, I immediately want to share it with people, because then I start to find that it loses its power over me. And then you also find that when these things happen, if you can make somebody else laugh or smile, then it was. Wasn't all in vain. And that's where real human vulnerability and connection happens, especially even with your customers. So I learned that from selling fax machines. I mean, anytime I tried to act perfect or put on the perfect pitch, I got kicked out time and time again. You know, if I walked in and was like, look, I'm, you know, I'm nervous. It's hard for me to walk through your door. I'm sorry. I know there's no soliciting sign. I mean, I would get farther with that. But just calling out the humanness and the real of what we're all dealing with and not. Not being afraid of it. So we do that at Spanx, too. We have oops meetings at Spanx where we have the whole company get together and we stand up and we share what we failed at or an oops or a mistake that we made and everybody claps and it's just like, diffuses it.
- [30:48]
Sarah Blakely
That's such a great culture. I believe we actually may have a video or two that we can share. I happen to be a huge fan of this one bird. If we could cue this video up the Instagram stories.
- [31:00]
Jesse Itzler
Lovely.
- [31:00]
Sara Blakely
Yeah. Oh, great. Okay. I was wondering why it was like.
- [31:31]
Jesse Itzler
I see him. I see him looking at me.
- [31:33]
Sara Blakely
My husband has been running every day on this island and says a bird attacks him. So I'm on the walk with him where his jog got this, cuz I don't believe him. Well, honey, where. How bad could it be? Come on. How are you going to get past this walking spot? Nothing's attacking me. He's fine. I see him and he's fine. See, the bird's there. He's not gonna bother you, Jess. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
- [32:18]
Jesse Itzler
That bird. That bird no, Heather, that bird is not raised proper. That bird was ridiculed as a kid.
- [32:27]
Sarah Blakely
I have to tell you, I'm so happy that you shared that video. I had shown it to my son after I'd gone to interview you, and I said, you know, Jesse's such a great guy. And I was showing it to my son. He said, mom, I thought he was a really strong kind of guy until right now.
- [32:42]
Jesse Itzler
I ran the same route every day, and I would come home and Sarah would say, how was the run? I was like, the run was great, but I got attacked by a bird every time. And she's like, it's impossible. I said, no, you gotta come with me. And she walked by. The bird didn't care. I walked by and the bird went bonkers.
- [32:59]
Sara Blakely
It was very personal, obviously, for the bird with Jesse. I don't know, I. Maybe they thought your hair was a nest, honey. I don't know.
- [33:08]
Sarah Blakely
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Sarah Blakely
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- [36:34]
Sarah Blakely
I asked you to try to find your passion, Sarah. You actually spend some time doing stand up comedy. Were you petrified to do that? Because now it seems natural. I feel like you could just grab a mic and walk around do it.
- [36:47]
Sara Blakely
I was so petrified. I did it when I was selling fax machines door to door and I have this thing where if something terrifies me or if I think I would never do that and the answer is because I'm scared. It kind of becomes something I really want to try to do and that was one of those things. And I just did open mic mostly around. I did it around the country for two years while I was a trainer for the company that I worked for. But it was terrifying. I mean I was so nervous and I wasn't that good.
- [37:20]
Sarah Blakely
So it sounds like the hardest job in the World.
- [37:23]
Sara Blakely
It's the hardest. Well, it's, I mean, it's taking the number one fear in America, which is public speaking, to the next level because you can be in front of an audience and be bombing and not really know, you know, like the whole back section could be asleep or on their phone and you still ramble on. But if you're doing stand up comedy, I mean, you get validation or you get crickets every 15 seconds. So it's like the most immediate. Like you're failing, you're not failing, you're failing, you're not failing. And the only way to test it is in front of an audience. So you have to be so willing to bomb in front of a group of people or.
- [37:56]
Sarah Blakely
So please laugh at our jokes.
- [37:57]
Sara Blakely
Yeah, exactly. Or to learn what's funny or not funny. So I. Yeah, it was, it was. But you know what? I didn't know it at the time, this combination. See, I wanted to be a lawyer, but I'm a terrible test taker. I'm not good in, like, I have trouble with reading comprehension, so I'm sure I have some sort of undiagnosed learning disability. But anyway, so I, I was, did debate all through high school and college, and then I get to the LSAT and I bombed it not once, but twice. So it derailed my whole vision of being a lawyer. And that was really depressing at the time. And then I, I naturally then went to Disney World and tried out to be Goofy. And you have to be, you have to be 5, 8 in order to be goofy. And I'm only 5 6, so I'm the height of a chipmunk. So, like, this was rock bottom for me. I mean, my family, everyone's like, what's happening? I said, I, I'm too short to be goofy and I don't want to be a chipmunk. And so I just started selling fashion machines door to door because it's really. I mean, you needed a pulse to be hired there. And so anyway, but the stand up comedy I did. But life has a weird way of giving you these experiences because when I started Spanx, the combination of the amount of rejection I had had was perfect to start a company because I was told no every day for two years. The idea is no good. No, thank you, we don't want to help you. We think this is stupid, whatever. And it didn't really faze me. And then the writing comedy for two years while I was doing that helped me do all the writing for Spanx and the marketing and Spanx didn't advertise for 16 years. We became a household name and a household brand around the world without ever advertising. And I believe we did so much of that through humor and through the connection that we had with our customer and storytelling. Jesse mentioned it. Lead with story. Your customers are so much more interested in why than they will ever be interested in what. What you're selling, why you're selling it, why you're doing it. Who are you in the world? What matters, what's your why? That is what people really respond to. So and to if you can do it and make somebody laugh or smile, it's so much better. I mean you. Then you have a chance of them telling five other people, which is what happened with Spencer. You know, it became a word of mouth brand.
- [40:13]
Sarah Blakely
Jesse, did you have that same experience that Sarah had, getting into stand up comedy, being afraid of it when you became a rapper, was it that same, you know, we were petrified it or did you gravitate towards it?
- [40:24]
Jesse Itzler
Well, the first, right when I got signed to my record label, Delicious Vinyl, they had two huge acts at the time. One was the guy named Tone Loke. Some of you might not remember. Tone Loke. Yeah. Wild Thing, Funky Cool Medina.
- [40:34]
Sara Blakely
Yeah.
- [40:35]
Jesse Itzler
The other was a guy named Young MC who won a Grammy for his song called Bust a Move. And I was one of the next artists signed to the label. So before my album even came out, I got a call from the owner.
- [40:43]
Sara Blakely
Wait. Jesse was best known for two songs, Shake It Like a White Girl and College Girls Are Easy.
- [40:49]
Sarah Blakely
Please google it. Please google it.
- [40:53]
Jesse Itzler
So anyways, I get a college, which.
- [40:55]
Sara Blakely
Which I had a lot of fun telling my dad, you know, I was like, dad, dad, I think I met the one. He's like, that's nice, honey. What does he do? Like, he's a rapper best known for Shake It Like a White Girl. And college girls are easy.
- [41:08]
Jesse Itzler
People buy. People buy into stories. This is all part of the plan. Anyway, before my album came out, I got a call from the owner of the record company who said that they're having this huge concert in Atlanta, where we live now at the Georgia Dome. And they were busting in 36,000 inner city kids from all over the state of Georgia for this concert that they coined, the Increase the Peace concert, because they were going to have black artists and white artists come together in this community bonding event. And the day before the concert, Vanilla Ice canceled and they needed a white rapper. So they volunteered me to be the white act. So I get to the venue and as soon as I get there, I meet. I recognize immediately. Like, the place is unruly. There's fist fights going on. They're putting the house lights on, and police are everywhere, and the kids are booing every single act that came on stage. They booed him off stage. So the first guy up was like, LL Cool J in his prime. And they boo LL Cool J off the stage. I'm sitting over here in the green room, about to go on next to sing my song called Shake It Like a White Girl. So I called my mother, and I said, mom, I got a really big problem, man. They're booing LL and she was like, sweetie, just be yourself. They're gonna love you. And I get up on stage, and the MCs like, you know, all the way from California. Give it up for my man Jesse James, which is my stage name. Do not Google it. And as I'm going on stage, the record company gave me some T shirts, like, promotional T shirts. So I grab them as I come on stage. I'm like. I'm looking at the kids in the front row, and they're pissed off that I'm even invited to the venue. But I have these T shirts. So I'm like, does this section over here want some free T shirts? And the kids go crazy. I throw them out. I'm like, the section over here to my right, you want some T shirts? They went nuts. I threw them out. I'm like, middle section, you want some T shirts back there? They went bonkers. I threw them. I said, thank you very much. Salt and pepper's up next. I got the out of there, man. That's. Never let him boo you. Never let him boo you. It's like the first rule I got in business. No, I'm not doing stand up.
- [43:14]
Sarah Blakely
How animated is this, man? Oh, my gosh, I can't take it. Okay, so, Sarah, after you had made it, you made a very shocking decision, in my opinion, to really put yourself out there and go on Richard Branson's reality TV show.
- [43:30]
Heather Monahan
Why did you make that decision?
- [43:33]
Sara Blakely
You know, I read his book in college, and I really thought he was. Seemed like such an interesting guy that I would like to know. And so I. That was the start of it. And when he declared that he was doing his own version of the Apprentice, his own reality show, I just thought this was a great opportunity to meet him. And he started Virgin Overseas in London. He's just a really colorful, fascinating, adventurous guy, but he. Yeah, so Spanx was 4 years old at the time, and my Lawyers literally begged me not to do it. They're like, why would you ever do a reality show? You're the face of this brand and you're putting your reputation over to Fox and you have no idea what they're gonna, how they're gonna edit you or what they're gonna do. And I just, I just had confidence that Richard, from what I'd read about him, wouldn't, wouldn't be a part of something that wouldn't edit me the way that I am. But I got a 27 page contract before I did this. And it was the most insane contract. It literally said, we can burn you, we can submerge you underwater, we can drop you in political unrest. I mean, it was like insane. So my dad is a lawyer. And I emailed it to my dad and I said, dad, I'm thinking about doing this reality show. Can you help me edit the contract? And all he wrote back was, no sane person would sign this. Love, dad. And I signed it and I went and.
- [45:02]
Jesse Itzler
Which is a great influence on our kids.
- [45:05]
Sara Blakely
Yeah, we have not let the kids see the video footage, but it was two months of the most intense stuff. What they didn't tell me, but I should have figured out and put the two and two together from the contract, was that if you lost the business challenge, each business challenge took place in a different city around the world. So instead of every challenge being in New York City, one was in Hong Kong, one was in Africa, one was in Tokyo. It was wild. We were traveling all around the world. But if you didn't win the business challenge, instead of going to a boardroom and just being fired, you had to do a world record breaking death defying stunt with Richard. And two days into filming, I literally was in Atlanta in the Starbucks line like the day before. And then the next day I'm in England. And they woke me up at three in the morning and handed me a helmet. And I said, I'm an entrepreneur. Why do I need a helmet? And I had to scale the side of a hot air balloon at 10,000ft in the air and have tea on top of the hot air balloon with Richard.
- [46:02]
Sarah Blakely
And you're afraid of heights.
- [46:03]
Sara Blakely
And I'm so afraid of heights. Like I cry on planes, I cry during takeoff. I don't like heights. Yeah. So that was crazy. And that was the first day of filming. But Jesse can't even watch it. Jesse's watched like half of the first episode.
- [46:16]
Jesse Itzler
Got so ridiculous. It was like, Sarah, climb the scale the top of the building and jump in this glass of water, you know, and then when you're in the water, throw you in with the sharks, and then you swim around and come up. I was like, what? This is crazy.
- [46:30]
Sarah Blakely
So you guys weren't married back then?
- [46:31]
Sara Blakely
No, no, he didn't know me then, but yeah.
- [46:35]
Sarah Blakely
So was it worth it now when you look back, are you glad that you did that?
- [46:39]
Sara Blakely
I'm so glad I did it. I mean, I think that I. I don't think I would have done the challenges if I was a mother at the time, but I wasn't. I was single and.
- [46:49]
Jesse Itzler
Definitely not.
- [46:50]
Sara Blakely
Yeah, but, yes, I'm so happy I did. I mean, Richard's actually a great friend. I'm actually going to Switzerland this Friday with Richard and about 35 entrepreneurs from around the world, and we're doing a physical challenge through the Swiss Alps to raise money for education. And I'm not like my husband. I'm not this physical, you know, challenge person. But I had had too much tequila when Richard asked me if I wanted to go, and I said yes. And so now I'm going.
- [47:18]
Sarah Blakely
I hate it when that happens.
- [47:19]
Sara Blakely
Slightly terrified, but we're going to swim, bike, and hike through Switzerland. And it starts with a glacier lake swim and a full body wetsuit.
- [47:30]
Sarah Blakely
Well, just in case you guys haven't can't picture this or haven't seen this show, we brought you a clip.
- [47:37]
Sara Blakely
Oh, you have a clip. Which clip is it?
- [47:39]
Sarah Blakely
The rock balloon.
- [47:40]
Jesse Itzler
Next challenge is that we're going to go up into the top of the balloon.
- [47:43]
Sara Blakely
Something I've never done.
- [47:44]
Jesse Itzler
It's not going to be easy at all. On the top of the balloon.
- [47:47]
Sara Blakely
We're going to have a tea party.
- [47:48]
Jesse Itzler
And have a discussion.
- [47:53]
Sara Blakely
Being hoisted out on the ladder suspended at 10,000ft on the side of a hot air balloon is terrifying. I am so scared. That is. I'm impressed. Sweat. I'm in a full sweat. I don't.
- [48:31]
Jesse Itzler
I don't.
- [48:31]
Sarah Blakely
Did you just watch it?
- [48:32]
Jesse Itzler
I'd rather run for 20 hours.
- [48:34]
Sara Blakely
That was so intense. There were so many things about that, but it took me 48 minutes to climb. It was a dangling rope ladder, so there was nothing anchoring it. So I spent the first 25 minutes of the climb just flailing around in the air. And then the last 20 minutes, I kept saying, just get to the balloon. Get to the balloon. But once I got to the balloon, the balloon was hot and the rope was very taut against the balloon, so I had nowhere to put my fingers anymore around the rungs of the ladder. So I'd use my fingertips. And then once I did the little T thing and was like, woo, that was great. I started bawling because I realized I had to climb down.
- [49:10]
Jesse Itzler
Oh my gosh.
- [49:11]
Sara Blakely
I was like, wait, how do we get down? So we had to go back down the ladder.
- [49:15]
Sarah Blakely
It sounds horrific.
- [49:16]
Sara Blakely
Yeah. No, but thank God you're here. Listen, I'm here. And what an experience. So.
- [49:20]
Sarah Blakely
So Jesse, you have an online community. Build your life resume community, which is really amazing. Check it out if you guys haven't seen it. All right, we got some peeps here.
- [49:31]
Jesse Itzler
Awesome.
- [49:31]
Sarah Blakely
Thank you guys. Some of the feedback, Jesse, that really pops out at me, the things that people like. The takeaway is the brownie. The you know, what is your unique brownie? Can you share what that means and how you develop that?
- [49:43]
Jesse Itzler
It's just a reference to a story. When I was in college, I took, I was a crossroads. My senior year of college, I was either going to the music business, which I loved, or I was going to sell a product called Aunt Franny's Brownies. I had a roommate in college that had an aunt Franny. And every month she sent us a shipment of brownies. And I don't know what she put in the brownies, but they made everybody happy. Like, I can market these. Like this is going to work. So from my advertising class senior year, we had to create a fictitious brand from scratch. Soup to nuts, like, you know, jingle, which I was good at. Billboard, slogan, packaging, everything. So I said, I'll use this advertising class as my R D department and if they like my Aunt Franny's Brownies presentation, I'll just roll it out and I'll sell brownies. So the way that the final exam was set up, there were a hundred kids in the classroom. It was small and everybody had a hand in their campaign. But five people were going to get picked at random to present a 30 minute state of the union of the business they were going into the industry they were going into in front of the class. So like I'm a senior in college, there's a 5% chance that I wanted to get picked. Like nobody prepared for the oral presentation. You didn't want to get picked. And sitting to my right in the classroom was a guy named Ronnie Cohn. Ronnie Cohn was a professional jackass. No, Ronnie Cohn bullied half of the class for four years of college. So when the professor said, we're going to do this the democratic way, everyone write down your name and I'll put take off my hat and I'll pick out the name. When he came to me, I took 25 pieces of paper and I wrote Ronnie Cohn's name down. I stuffed him in the hat. And when he picked out the name, this is a true story. Sure enough, the first name that came out was Jesse Itzer. The jackass did the same thing. He's such an asshole. So I went up there and I pitched Aunt franny's brownies. And 30 seconds into my presentation, and by the way, the tuition in American University is $40,000 a year. That's where I went. So for four years of tuition, $160,000 of my parents money, this is literally the only thing I remember. The professor stopped me for $160,000. He stopped me in the middle of my presentation, 30 seconds in, and he said, son, I want to know, what is your point of differentiation? And I was like, what does that even mean? He said, what makes your brownie different than all the other brownies on the market? And I was like, well, they're moist and delicious, they could be gluten free, they're home baked, blah, blah, blah, blah. And he was like, no. He said, son, there's a thousand brownies that come out every year and substitute them for marketer, for restaurateur, for advertising, for lawyers, for whatever you do, there's a thousand of you that come out. And if you want to make it your brownie, whatever it is has to be different than all the other brownies. Sit down. And he made me sit down. And I realized at that moment, like, it was a real powerful moment for me because I asked myself at that moment, like, and since then, as an entrepreneur, I've always asked myself, like, how am I different? You know, what makes my product stand out? How can I treat my customers differently than everybody else? Sarah mentioned it early, but like, if you, if you rip up the playbook that everybody in the industry is using and you say, like, well, how would I do it if I never was taught how to do it? That's where innovation comes from. So I always ask myself in an authentic way, you know, if you're quirky, be quirky. If you're this, be this. But what makes you different? I just remember, not to belabor this point, but I remember when we started Marquis Jet, which is a private jet company that I started with my partner, we had no aviation experience, we had no airplanes, we didn't know a lot of rich people. And we started this company, that. And not a great formula for a private, but we ended up building a company that did $5 billion in sales, and we sold it to Warren Buffett's NetJets. And I remember sitting with our sales team, and I would go in and I would listen to pitches, and they would pitch the way Kenny and I, my partner and I were pitching. And I'd be like, like, what do you. You can't. What are you doing? Like, you're a single mom. Tell. Be who you are, you know, and be unique for you and be different for what you are. You can't. You're not the co founder. So it's always been a mantra of mine to just kind of like, what makes you uniquely different? And that was a question Sarah asks all the time to. To her team and to her employees. You know, she always asked her employees, if no one taught you how to do your job, how would you do it?
- [53:58]
Sara Blakely
Yeah, because we're on autopilot as human beings. I mean, think about it. Almost every single thing that we do, someone taught us how to do it, or we observed how it was done. And so I like the space of closing your eyes and saying, if no one showed you how to do this.
- [54:14]
Sarah Blakely
How would you do it?
- [54:15]
Sara Blakely
Like, would you be doing it differently? And oftentimes you will, and the answer or the vision comes to you and then that. That's a real nugget for yourself.
- [54:28]
Jesse Itzler
Yeah, I would just put an asterisk next to that because, you know, I just ran this race, and I did. I. I'm a big believer in becoming the expert in the space you're going into. So before I approached this race, I called everyone that I could find, anyone I could find that did this race and ask them a lot of questions. How many calories you have to take, how many ounces of fluids you have to take every hour, how much sodium do you need every hour? And in a very, very short amount of time, I. I became what I believe in my own head, was an expert. And I would come in every station and say to my pit crew, I'd be like, I had one goo half a bottle of rock tane, which was drink that I was drinking. I had 200 calories, 70. I need 350 milligrams of soda. I was very aware of it. So in certain circumstances, you want to become the expert and follow the advice, but in others, you want to stand out for what you know, what you are.
- [55:18]
Sarah Blakely
Please do not get mad at me. But unfortunately, we have to move to the lightning round of questions, and we're about ready to wrap. Even though no one wants These two to leave. Okay. What's happening in your life right now?
- [55:29]
Sara Blakely
I'm going to Switzerland on Friday, which sounds very fabulous.
- [55:32]
Sarah Blakely
That sounds very exciting. Okay. How do you feel when you're in a room with Richard Branson, Microsoft giving pledge?
- [55:39]
Sara Blakely
How do I feel when I'm in the giving pledge room? Super humbled and, you know, like, kind of like, how did I get in this room? Pinch me. Kind of feeling.
- [55:50]
Sarah Blakely
Sarah's agreed to give away half of her wealth to charity. Amazing. What would your career be if you didn't start Spanx?
- [56:06]
Sara Blakely
I mean, I'm a frustrated beautician, so I might have my own salon. Or I was someone who did everyone's hair for prom, and I always liked doing makeovers and things like that.
- [56:17]
Sarah Blakely
Oh, that sounds fun. Theme song for your life.
- [56:23]
Jesse Itzler
Your speed round, sweetie.
- [56:25]
Sara Blakely
Oh, gosh. Theme song for my life.
- [56:30]
Sarah Blakely
Look, either one of you can.
- [56:31]
Sara Blakely
Mine is Baby Got back.
- [56:34]
Jesse Itzler
Yes.
- [56:35]
Sara Blakely
Excellent marketing.
- [56:36]
Sarah Blakely
Excellent marketing.
- [56:37]
Sara Blakely
I'm in the butt business. Okay, that's good.
- [56:41]
Jesse Itzler
Oh, there's a song called Here I Come. It's a reggae song. That's one of my mantras. Like here I come. So it's strong, personal thing.
- [56:49]
Sarah Blakely
Okay. Favorite party trick?
- [56:56]
Jesse Itzler
I can make people say no. I had this crazy thing I could do with you after Heather. Have you ever heard it before?
- [57:02]
Sarah Blakely
No. All right. That was good. Weird treat about you.
- [57:10]
Jesse Itzler
We are.
- [57:10]
Sarah Blakely
What a weird trait about either one of you.
- [57:13]
Sara Blakely
I mean, this is so weird, but I can vibrate my eyes.
- [57:17]
Sarah Blakely
What does that even mean?
- [57:19]
Jesse Itzler
What'd you say?
- [57:19]
Sara Blakely
I can vibrate my eyes.
- [57:22]
Jesse Itzler
You learn something new all the time, remember? 10 years I never seen you vibrate your eyes.
- [57:27]
Sara Blakely
I can vibrate my eyes. And the weird thing is is Charlie just looked up at me and vibrated his eyes the other day. Our little boy. So apparently it's genetic.
- [57:36]
Jesse Itzler
I've only had fruit until 12 o'clock noon for 28, 29 years now. Unwaveringly.
- [57:43]
Sara Blakely
Fruit till noon, brother.
- [57:45]
Sarah Blakely
And I didn't like that smoothie that you gave me.
- [57:48]
Jesse Itzler
Listen.
- [57:49]
Sarah Blakely
Okay, what's your biggest pet peeve?
- [57:53]
Jesse Itzler
Pet peeve?
- [57:53]
Sara Blakely
Oh, I know what yours is like.
- [57:56]
Jesse Itzler
The newlywed, you know? What do you think mine is?
- [58:00]
Sara Blakely
Well, I mean, you're probably about to answer something different, but. Running water?
- [58:03]
Jesse Itzler
Absolutely. Don't get me started on running water.
- [58:07]
Sara Blakely
Yeah.
- [58:08]
Sarah Blakely
Did anyone notice the clock is now going the opposite direction?
- [58:11]
Jesse Itzler
What?
- [58:11]
Sarah Blakely
A little confused. Okay.
- [58:13]
Sara Blakely
My pet peeve is when the windshield wipers are going more than they need to.
- [58:17]
Heather Monahan
That's a fair.
- [58:18]
Sarah Blakely
That's a fair one.
- [58:19]
Jesse Itzler
Believe me, I get the. I mean, we'll be driving, and Sarah will be like, shut the window. The wipers off. Lower the wipers. I'm like, it's upsetting me based on the wind. Raise the wipers. Lower the wipers. Wipers.
- [58:32]
Sarah Blakely
Okay, here's a good one.
- [58:33]
Jesse Itzler
Sarah, shut the wipers off.
- [58:37]
Sarah Blakely
Who is your celebrity crush?
- [58:39]
Sara Blakely
Well, growing up, my celebrity crush was Gene Wilder. I married. I found my real life. Gene. I'm not kidding. I had a question.
- [58:55]
Jesse Itzler
Guess what my celebrity crush was. One Wonder Woman. Guess who I married.
- [59:00]
Sara Blakely
Oh, I love that.
- [59:03]
Jesse Itzler
I love that.
- [59:05]
Sara Blakely
That was awesome.
- [59:07]
Sarah Blakely
Please join me in thanking these two amazing human beings.
- [59:12]
Sara Blakely
Thank you. Thank you.
- [59:17]
Sarah Blakely
I decided to change that dynamic. I couldn't be more excited for what you're gonna hear.
- [59:24]
Heather Monahan
Start learning and growing.
- [59:26]
Sarah Blakely
Inevitably, something will happen. No one succeeds alone.
- [59:31]
Jesse Itzler
You don't stop and look around once in a while. You could miss it.
- [59:34]
Heather Monahan
Come on this journey with me.