There are few things I like to do more than argue about the fine gradations of Who Is A Star Today And Why. I love the categorization element (what's the difference between a heartthrob and a sex symbol??) but I especially love thinking about what the actors we designate as heartthrobs tell us about our current understandings of masculinity. Is Pedro Pascal a heartthrob or a boyfriend? Is Leonardo DiCaprio the Eternal Heartthrob? Are the stars of Heated Rivalry the Official Heartthrobs of 2026? Do our heartthrobs age with us, or are they eternally 22? Romance author and male celeb aficionado Adib Khorram joins me to work through all of the above and so much more.

Connor Storrie and Hudson Williams at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party (via Getty)

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Show Notes:

Learn more about Adib and find links to all his books: https://adibkhorram.com/
Order Adib's most recent book One Word, Six Letters: https://bookshop.org/a/56144/9781250405555
And pre-order his next adult romance, Isn't He Romantic?: https://bookshop.org/p/books/isn-t-he-romantic-adib-khorram/3c6c724552db372c?ean=9781538739594
Follow Adib on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adibkhorram
The BBC Article we reference about heartthrobs through the ages: https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20191218-timothe-chalamet-and-hollywood-heartthrobs-through-the-ages
Everyone is Beautiful and No One is Horny!!! https://bloodknife.com/everyone-beautiful-no-one-horny/
I reference Emma Straub's book American Fantasy: https://bookshop.org/a/56144/9798217046850
Strongly recommend this essay collection if you want to think a lot more about the masculinity of Rudolph Valentino and Douglas Fairbanks in the 1920s: https://www.rutgersuniversitypress.org/idols-of-modernity/9780813547329
As promised, the photo of when Pedro Pascal visited the BuzzFeed office in 2014:

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