
Hosted by Heather aka Nookie · EN
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.
I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.
Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, messy, joyful work of being human together, plus I keep you updated on new education, books, and more.
You’ll hear about dating disasters, kink revelations, emotional growth, and the kind of vulnerability that makes relationships actually work. Sometimes it’s tender. Sometimes it’s filthy. Often, it’s funny. Always, it’s real.
If you’re curious about love that feels alive—and life that feels like love—this is your daily dose.
Love smarter. F*ck better. Stay curiouser—daily.

This is actually good news. (I promise.) What he called "terrible communication," I call free data. https://my.curiouser.life/post/061626-effort

Pushing your number on someone is not the flex you think it is. https://my.curiouser.life/post/061526-number --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai

Not every inconsistent person is a mastermind. https://my.curiouser.life/post/061226-breadcrumbing

Yes, I used to reply to everything. No, I'm not going to apologize for stopping. https://my.curiouser.life/post/061126-ghosting2

It just got dramatic about it. Spoiler: No reply IS a reply. https://my.curiouser.life/post/061026-ghosting

Taking apart a viral rant, one bad premise at a time. https://my.curiouser.life/post/060926-dating --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai

And he was wrong. Here’s what you can learn from this. https://my.curiouser.life/post/060326-unique

I've been there. And I want to tell you what I learned. https://my.curiouser.life/post/060226-begging

I spent my weekend surrounded by love in every form. Let me tell you about it. https://my.curiouser.life/post/060126-pride

This is why I do what I do. https://my.curiouser.life/post/052926-problem --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai