
Hosted by Heather aka Nookie · EN
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.
I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.
Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, messy, joyful work of being human together, plus I keep you updated on new education, books, and more.
You’ll hear about dating disasters, kink revelations, emotional growth, and the kind of vulnerability that makes relationships actually work. Sometimes it’s tender. Sometimes it’s filthy. Often, it’s funny. Always, it’s real.
If you’re curious about love that feels alive—and life that feels like love—this is your daily dose.
Love smarter. F*ck better. Stay curiouser—daily.

A hammer doesn't fix anything on its own either. https://my.curiouser.life/post/080426-communication

Tomorrow the price goes up. Today it doesn't have to. https://my.curiouser.life/post/073126-blissboogie

A quote from an influencer. A memory from my marriage. A pattern I see constantly. https://my.curiouser.life/post/073026-accountability --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai

I pulled out my phone mid-movie to write this down. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072926-odyssey

Turns out "but" is doing a lot of talking you didn't mean to do. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072526-yourbut --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai

Every mixer, every party, every "let's do this again" led here. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072426-blissboogie

It wasn't a lie exactly. It also wasn't true. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072326-kittenfishing

Plenty of coaches say block on sight. I think it's more complicated. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072226-physical-touch

He said it with zero irony. That's the part that got me. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072126-mankeeping

Romance can't fix what friendship never taught you. https://my.curiouser.life/post/072026-friends --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai