
Hosted by Heather aka Nookie · EN
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.
I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.
Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, messy, joyful work of being human together, plus I keep you updated on new education, books, and more.
You’ll hear about dating disasters, kink revelations, emotional growth, and the kind of vulnerability that makes relationships actually work. Sometimes it’s tender. Sometimes it’s filthy. Often, it’s funny. Always, it’s real.
If you’re curious about love that feels alive—and life that feels like love—this is your daily dose.
Love smarter. F*ck better. Stay curiouser—daily.

Two men proved my point better than I ever could. https://my.curiouser.life/post/051126-experience --This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai

Picasso painted over his canvases. So did Rembrandt. Turns out, that's where the masterpieces came from. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050826-canvas

The honest answer? Both. And also: it depends. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050726-boundaries

It's not about their list. It's about yours. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050626-selfish

It’s grounded in inspiration, not intimidation. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050526-inspiration

May is for self-love. The literal kind. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050126-may

Same feeling, different person? That's not a coincidence. https://my.curiouser.life/post/043026-game

There are two kinds of monogamy. Most people are only one of them. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042926-nomono

How a play party reminded me about what that really matters. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042726-wild-things

CW: AbuseBlame the victim? I have thoughts. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042426-herd