DaBaddest Radio, “Birkin Dreams & Bad Decisions”

Host: Bretman Rock (with Ms. K and Kat)
Date: October 2, 2025
Podcast: Dear Media

Overview

This episode of DaBaddest Radio is a wild, laughter-filled cocktail of confidence, pop culture, and luxury dreams, as Bretman Rock and co-host Ms. K embrace the chaos of “getting crunk” on air. With signature humor and uninhibited honesty, the crew embarks on a drinking game, dishes about their luxury shopping lists and TV obsessions, and dives into the playful realities of sugar daddies, self-love, and just staying true to their baddest selves. It’s an unapologetic celebration of living large, making “bad” (and bougie) decisions, and never apologizing for it.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Setting the Vibe: Realtor Fantasies and Getting "Crunk"

• The episode opens with playful realtor cosplay—Bretman and Ms. K serving straight-haired, blazer-clad “business” looks with a party twist.
• They announce the plan for the show: taking a shot every 10 minutes for an hour, with Ms. K embracing her higher tolerance and Bretman, ever the lightweight, opting for baby shots.
  • Quote: “I’m extremely lightweight. So I will be doing half shots.” – Bretman (02:59)

2. Pop Culture Tea & TV Obsessions

• The trio catch up on their favorite shows, fiercely debating drama and rooting for contestants on “Drag Race Lesion Royale,” “High Potential,” and “Project Runway.”

  • Discussion of representation and online negativity toward trans talent on TV.
  • Quote: “The way where the social media is so mean to a trans woman is crazy…But I love Vijay. I love her.” – Bretman (06:20)

• Upcoming shows like “Chief of War” finale and their Filipino TV faves are also hyped.

3. Birkin Dreams & Shopping Goals

• Bretman shares his luxury wishlist for an upcoming Korea trip:
  1. Another Birkin bag (“skin is itching of thickness”)
  2. An Audemars Piguet (AP) watch
  • Banter about pronouncing “Audemars Piguet” and the culture of flexing luxury items, especially watches at “rich people” events.
  • Quote: “I feel like a baddie always needs an AP. And especially a baddie AP.” – Bretman (09:20)
  • Ms. K jokes her ideal Korea souvenir would be instant ramen—a nod to keeping it real.

4. Sugar Daddy & “Hoe” Eras – Owning the Fantasy

• Hilarious and candid reflections on sugar daddies:
  • Kat recounts getting $10K over 10 days from a man she’s never met or spoken to.
    • Quote: “In the course of 10 days, he sent me 10K. It was great.” – Kat (18:17)
  • Bretman yearns for a “sugar daddy era”: “I just wanna send foot pics for 10k.”
  • The meaning and limits of the “hoe era” – mostly talk, less action, and feeling like a “square” when guys actually flirt.

5. “Bad Decisions” & Drunk Confessions

• The drinking game quickly spirals, leading to hilarious side stories:
  • Bretman’s lightweight status and infamous history of puking: “That’s why I don’t drink, you guys, because I’m a puker.” (24:57)
  • Both hosts swap tales of wild nights, clogged sinks, and missing memory gaps—but always with a sense of fun, camaraderie, and friendship.
• Drunk Q&A segment (“questions to ask drunk people”) brings out improvisational humor, from fighting preschoolers to accent attempts and food cravings.
  • Quote: “How many preschoolers do you think you could fight before you get overwhelmed?” – Kat (28:27)
    • Bretman: “I feel like I could do a hundred.” (28:41)

6. Confidence, Compliments & Manifesting Main Character Energy

• Banter about compliments: how to respond, fish for more, or turn the attention back around.
  • Bretman: “What I will never understand is when people don’t know how to take compliments. I’m like, just take it!” (49:24)
• Self-love and being the baddest at meet-and-greets, giving and receiving praise, and leaning into that Leo energy—embracing compliments as more than just small talk.

7. Inventive, Imaginative, and Always Iconic

• Flights of fancy: If you could party with any mythical creature?
  • Bretman picks Peppa Pig and Dora the Explorer (“Where’s the after party, Dora?”)
  • Ms. K picks Rosetta Stone (“She can speak any language”) and Lucy from the movie “Lucy”—because “she can handle it.”
• The hypothetical “Last Supper” menu (Bretman craves sushi and caviar, of course).

8. Product of the Day

• Ms. K demonstrates a multi-use item: “good for fidgeting and holding the mic. And a bracelet even. And a ring.”
• Bretman’s favorite is the Kiana Rice Pack Face Mask from Japan (“my skin loves it, I’m glowing every time I use it”). (54:11)
• A moment of cultural nostalgia for Filipino “rice glue.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Birkin Obsession:
  “I just want one. Every time I see somebody with one, I’m like, yeah, that would be on my wrist.” – Bretman (11:25)

• On Compliments:
  “If anything, I’m like, keep going. Like, what else do you love about me?” – Bretman (49:42)

• Sugar Daddy Wish:
  “I just wanna send, like, foot pics for 10k.” – Bretman (17:13)
  “Everybody deserves a sugar daddy… But me specifically, I want a sugar daddy era.” – Bretman (18:39)

• Friendship Dynamic:
  “You see how I’ve never been in a relationship? I feel like that’s the kind of man I’m looking for.” – Ms. K (18:29)

• Drunk Logic:
  “If you could eat any meal right now, what would you eat?”
  Ms. K: “Sinigang with corned beef and buffalo.”
  Bretman: “The pork sinigang from the Philippines Shangri-La. Extra sour, thank you very much.” (32:37–33:04)

Important Segments & Timestamps

| Timestamp | Segment/Topic | |------------|---------------------------------------------| | 00:01–04:20 | Vibe check: Realtor cosplay, rules, shots | | 05:00–08:30 | Pop culture TV: “High Potential”, “Drag Race”, Project Runway | | 08:37–11:48 | Bretman’s Korea shopping list: Birkin & AP | | 15:29–19:04 | Sugar daddy confessions | | 24:23–26:55 | Drunk tales: prom, puking, being a lightweight | | 28:27–33:07 | Drunk Q&A (preschooler fight, accents, music, food) | | 39:02–41:12 | What’s the first thing you notice about someone? | | 41:18–44:36 | Celebrity party guests & “Last Supper” menu ideas | | 54:09–55:50 | Product of the Day: Kiana rice pack mask, “rice glue” nostalgia |

Tone & Language

• The conversation stays playful, spontaneous, and candidly baddie—reflecting Bretman’s signature style and Ms. K’s banter.
• Light cursing, pop references, and Filipino-American slang abound.
• Frequent affirmations of self-love and pride, balanced with witty sarcasm and vulnerability about insecurities or feeling “square.”
• An open, inviting, supportive dynamic among friends, punctuated by genuine laughter and camaraderie.

For Listeners Who Missed the Episode

This episode is an iconic snapshot of Bretman Rock’s world: full of laughter, luxury, a little reckless decision-making, but mostly a celebration of showing up as your most unapologetic, confident self. You’ll walk away both craving a Birkin and reminded that “being the baddest” often just means loving yourself anyways—no matter how many shots you can (or can’t) handle.

Next week: Halloween decor, more twinning, and maybe (maybe) less tequila.