Boba Almost Killed Her & This Man Is a GASLIGHTER

Summary

DaBaddest Radio – Episode Summary Episode: Boba Almost Killed Her & This Man Is a GASLIGHTER
Host: Bretman Rock (with Ms. K and Ozzy)
Date: July 2, 2026

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EPISODE OVERVIEW

This episode of DaBaddest Radio, hosted by the ever-unapologetic Bretman Rock, dives into a bit of everything: hilarious friend hangouts (and edible mishaps), near-death-by-boba stories, guilty culinary pleasures, FIFA hype, and a candid discussion about trust and gaslighting in relationships. Along for the ride are Ms. K and Ozzy, who bring their own flair to the topics at hand. The vibe is breezy, sassy, and always a little unfiltered.

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HIGHLIGHTS & SEGMENTS

1. Weekly Catch-Up: The Sleepover that Wasn't

[00:39–03:34]

• The trio recounts a "hangout" where Bretman promptly fell asleep after inviting friends over.
• Edible-induced nap: "Honestly... when us three is together, Miss Mary Jane is involved. I took an edible. They didn't. And girl, by the time the edible was kicking in, I was like, nikki, I gotta use the bathroom real quick. And I never went back upstairs." – Bretman Rock [02:55]

2. Tea of the Week: Mazapan Latte & Boba Confessions

[03:34–06:18]

• Bretman whips up a mazapan latte, inspired by Kat (who left ingredients but no instructions).
• Ms. K admits she’s a “boba hater” after a traumatic experience: "I almost died to one. So I have a hate against it, period." – Ms. K [06:14]
• The table debates drink textures and calorie counts of boba.
  • "Death by tuba boba. That's crazy." – Bretman Rock [06:40]

3. Fast Food & Guilty Pleasures

[10:00–11:46 | 21:10–24:43]

• Cravings for Carl’s Jr., favorite burger stories, and comparisons to chains like Crumbl and Chick-fil-A.
• "When I'm in the mainland, I never think about Carl's Jr. But at home, I'm literally like, girl, we have the best cars." – Bretman Rock [22:50]

4. Current Obsessions: Jersey Pride, FIFA Hype, and Early-2000s Romance

[11:12–16:38]

• Bretman sports a Philippines FIFA jersey: "Did you guys know that we have a FIFA World cup team? The Philippines does." [11:32]
• Gushes about the series "Off Campus" and other teen rom-coms.
• Soccer’s global impact and the U.S.'s relative indifference:
  • "Somebody posted on TikTok about how they were shocked to find out that America had a soccer team. I really cannot name one person from the American soccer team." – Bretman Rock [13:11]
• Celebrity soccer sightings: Neymar, Beckham, etc.

5. Dating Diaries: Listeners' Stories & Gaslighting Talk

[25:21–37:48]

• Listener Submission: Gaslighting Boyfriend

  • Rose from the UK shares her experience with a boyfriend who was messaging another girl, deflected blame, and used her insecurities against her.
  • "He basically said the only reason I was upset was because I was insecure and that any other girlfriend would have been fine with it." – Rose (via Ozzy) [32:24]
  • Hosts unanimously call this gaslighting:
    • "He's gaslighting the fuck out of you." – Ms. K [33:16]
    • Emotional cheating vs. physical cheating is debated, with all agreeing emotional cheating is harder to forgive.
      • "I feel like not that I could forgive someone for hooking up with somebody, but... if I had to pick which one I would get over faster, it would be the hookup." – Bretman Rock [36:04]

• Friend’s Dilemma: The Old Ex Photo in the Wallet

  • A friend discovers her boyfriend carried a photo of his ex for over a year.
  • Lack of reassurance leads to a breakup. Was she being dramatic?
  • "I don't think you're breaking up with him because of what you found. You're breaking up with him because of how he... the lack of reassurance." – Bretman Rock [46:33]

6. Product Picks of the Week

[47:13–49:41]

• Ozzy: Rubik’s Cube – uses it as a morning brain warm-up.
  • "You try to get like a menial task out of the way so that your brain can start like, functioning right away." [47:53]
• Bretman: Fenty Beauty Mousse Bronzer ("but she needs more shades!" [48:48])
• Ms. K: She Glam Lip Tint and Brow Liner

7. Memorable/Notable Moments & Quotes

• On Carl's Jr.:
  • "Let me suck your dick real quick. Come on the pod." – Bretman Rock [23:39]
• Storytime humor:
  • "I need somebody to literally, like, ask me if I could give them like a foot job or type shit like that." – Bretman Rock [25:43]
• Reassurance in relationships:
  • "For a man to act oblivious, it's also... another form of gaslighting is just pretending like nothing happened." – Bretman Rock [46:08]
• End of episode sign-off with a live song from Ozzy.

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TIMESTAMPS FOR KEY SEGMENTS

• [00:39] – Friend Hangouts & Sleepover Story
• [03:34] – Mazapan Latte, Boba Drama
• [06:14] – Boba Almost Killed Ms. K
• [10:00, 21:10] – Guilty Pleasures & Carl’s Jr. Appreciation
• [11:12] – World Cup, "Off Campus", Jersey Pride
• [25:21] – Relationship/Dating Talk Begins
• [32:24] – Gaslighting Story & Emotional Cheating Debate
• [40:35] – Friend's Story: The Ex's Photo in the Wallet
• [47:13] – Product of the Day

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TONE & STYLE

Upbeat, raw, friendly, and playfully chaotic—Bretman and friends speak candidly, often with expletives or irreverent jokes, but always with heart. Themes of friendship, confidence, and personal wellness are woven through every segment, backed with their riotous, can't-take-us-anywhere energy.

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Perfect for listeners wanting laughter, relatable drama, and that dose of Bretman Rock’s self-assured, “baddest” attitude—plus some unfiltered relationship real talk.

Transcript

[Ms. K]

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[Bretman Rock]

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[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

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[Ms. K]

Dear Media Production The Baddest Radio Season 2 Episode 46, take one.

[Bretman Rock]

Hello, everyone. It is Thursday yet again, and I'm wearing my favorite colors, my power colors. So you know, a bitch is looking extra Fabulous today. Ms. K, how you feeling, girl?

[Ms. K]

I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good period.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, it is I, your host, Bretman

[Ms. K]

Rock, and your hostess, Ms. K. And

[Bretman Rock]

on set today, we got period. And we'll talk about our week after this intro. And Ms. K, I want you to think about the type of person that I really am while on this break, because how do you feel about me calling you over to come over just to watch me sleep today?

[Ms. K]

Yesterday. Oh, I know. Oh, my God, this intro.

[Bretman Rock]

Bratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we are back. So Yesterday I invited Ms. Nikki and Ms. Kate to come over and I fell asleep on them.

[Ms. K]

No. Okay. So we started watching Monopoly. I know. We started playing Monopoly and I was like, can I put the Love island on the background? Just for like. The background? Yeah, because we always knew something because it would be too quiet. And then we started, like, kind of just gazing on the Love island episode. And then we just started watching.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, we forgot to play Monopoly.

[Ms. K]

Brett goes, this could be the last game. And let's just watch. And we were like, yeah, okay, let's do that. We were watching the episode. And then I think he got to that part where the girls were like cheering like about like, how this is

[Bretman Rock]

the casa more episode, by the way.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah. And then me and Nikki were just like, talking about, like, oh my God, if we were in like, Love island, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then we turn around and then he was not there anymore. We were like, where the did he go, period? We were. And I was like, did he go to sleep? And Nikki started laughing and I was like, I did. She Was like, I think she. I. He did. And then we went downstairs. Every lights were turned off, and we

[Bretman Rock]

were like, oh, she's asleep, period. Honestly. Okay. I don't really even have to say too much, but just know that when us three is together, Miss Mary Jane is involved. And I took an edible. They didn't. They didn't. And girl, by the time the edible was kicking in, I was like, nikki, I gotta use the bathroom real quick. And I never went back upstairs.

[Ms. K]

Oh, you. You told her.

[Bretman Rock]

I literally told Nikki, I'm gonna use the bathroom real quick. Which I did. And then I was like, let me go downstairs. And then I knocked.

[Ms. K]

Lights were all off. Everything was off. Your door was locked, Period. Bye, period.

[Bretman Rock]

And to make up for it, I made the tea of the week.

[Ms. K]

No, I know.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm so excited for the fact that I literally got these coasters from the Philippines just for you to put it in the glass. And I'm so excited because Kat told me about this mazapan latte. She didn't tell me how to make it, so she just left the ingredients on the table.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

So this is what I came up with. And pardon me if it's cold, like,

[Ms. K]

watery, but it's good.

[Bretman Rock]

And you're gonna have to suck harder because the hole on these mix it really.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God. That's really good. It's like a. Like a cookie butter. Have you ever had that mud pie ice cream?

[Bretman Rock]

There might be, like, peanuts in the bottom, so. But when the straw is thicker, I mean, the hole is thicker. It's really good. Is it good? Yes or no?

[Ozzy]

I was just. I was just pausing on the comment of if the hole was bigger. I'm sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

Is it good? Ke. Oh, my God.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

I know.

[Ms. K]

God, it reminds me of that. It reminds me of. So have you guys ever had that ice cream? What is that? Dave's ice cream.

[Ozzy]

Elaborate.

[Ms. K]

Dave ice cream has this in. I think so. I think so. Yes. Dave's ice cream has this flavor called mud pieces.

[Bretman Rock]

And it tastes like that.

[Ms. K]

And it tastes like it because it has, like, kona coffee, chocolate, and, like, it has, like, brownies in there.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Well, to prepare this.

[Ms. K]

Wow.

[Bretman Rock]

It's really good. It was just mazepan. You crush it up in the bottom. You mix milk with it. Sweetener of your choice. I use white agave. Mix it all together, and then you pour espresso on top, milk on top and that.

[Ozzy]

So you said it's marzipan.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

It's like a Polon.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. It's like the Mexican pole Voron.

[Ozzy]

That makes sense. Tastes good.

[Ms. K]

I like the little texture.

[Ozzy]

I don't know if you guys would agree, but I also like texture in my drink sometimes.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

Really?

[Ozzy]

Yeah. Just something to like.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yeah. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

You know what I don't like, though?

[Bretman Rock]

Back when I used to drink.

[Ms. K]

Oh, I'm a Boba hater. I'm sorry.

[Ozzy]

Wait, we'll come back to that, because we might be starting on a. I

[Ms. K]

almost died to one. Go back to.

[Bretman Rock]

No, literally. That had me losing my train of thought. I'm literally like, bitch, I died.

[Ms. K]

I almost died to one. So I have a hate against it, period.

[Bretman Rock]

I literally don't even. I forgot what the fuck I was even talking about. Oh, I can't remember. I said. I was going to say back when Ms. SB. Ms. Starbucks wasn't canceled.

[Ms. K]

The Mermaid.

[Bretman Rock]

There used to be, like, this one drink with, like, java chips in there. Is it java?

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Isn't it chocolate chip mocha? Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Java chips.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. I love the little. Yes. Another one that had really great texture. Remember when Taco Bell Kefer, like,

[Ms. K]

so sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

No, it's the way you be like,

[Ms. K]

I didn't even think about. My straw is like.

[Bretman Rock]

She keeps doing it.

[Ozzy]

It's because she already gave her two cents about Boba. And she's like, I'm just waiting for my turn. Yeah. Damn.

[Bretman Rock]

God forbid.

[Ms. K]

I'm sorry.

[Ozzy]

Go ahead, Br.

[Bretman Rock]

I lost the drink.

[Ozzy]

Taco Bell. You said Taco Bell.

[Ms. K]

Taco Bell drink.

[Bretman Rock]

You remember when Taco Bell had, like, those Sanja. Like the watermelon drink. The watermelon bomb Refresher.

[Ms. K]

Oh, the one with the seeds on it.

[Bretman Rock]

And there was seeds on it.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I never tried Mira.

[Ms. K]

The watermelon Freeze.

[Bretman Rock]

The watermelon freez freeze.

[Ozzy]

Wow, that sounds good.

[Bretman Rock]

Taco Bell. Bring that back.

[Ms. K]

Now they have the Sprite.

[Bretman Rock]

Taco Bell. Bring that back, please. Taco Bell. Bring the different.

[Ms. K]

Bring that the back.

[Bretman Rock]

Bring that the back.

[Ozzy]

Oh, desperate, desperate Taco Bell.

[Ms. K]

Bring that the back right now.

[Bretman Rock]

They're bringing it back as we speak.

[Ozzy]

All right, we gotta go back to the whole Boba thing.

[Bretman Rock]

No, yeah.

[Ms. K]

Wait, wait. I didn't. Okay, fine.

[Ozzy]

You interjected with Boba, and I was like, no, Boba.

[Ms. K]

Okay, so there's this one time I was drinking Boba. It was like a honeydew.

[Ozzy]

Boba.

[Bretman Rock]

It's always the honeydew. Yes.

[Ms. K]

And then it's always. Okay, So I was like, she's always

[Bretman Rock]

honey doing the most.

[Ms. K]

No, it got stuck in my.

[Ozzy]

Almost Died to Mars, man.

[Ms. K]

That's crazy. Yes. I. I Was like one of the boba. I think it was too. Well, you know like when two bobas gets stuck.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I hate working on that.

[Ms. K]

Like the hardest thing and it went through and it went straight to my throat and I was like, you know, started choking.

[Bretman Rock]

Death by tuba boba. That's crazy. That has happened to me before.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, with boba too. But I. It's not enough to be a boba hater.

[Ms. K]

And also I found out how many calories there are.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that's. It's crazy. Look up how much calorie is in one motherfucker.

[Ms. K]

One single boba and there's like 12 bobas in one drink.

[Bretman Rock]

I think there's 12 calories in one fucking boba yang.

[Ms. K]

No, there's.

[Bretman Rock]

Can you imagine?

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Huh.

[Bretman Rock]

No, it's not.

[Ozzy]

I don't know about single.

[Bretman Rock]

Single my salang. How much?

[Ozzy]

It's telling me by serving.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, let me go find one Boba Yam.

[Ms. K]

Well, what is one serving?

[Ozzy]

One serving is 100 to 150 calories, which is a quarter cup.

[Bretman Rock]

A quarter cup? That ain't no.

[Ozzy]

A single standard boba contains about 0.5 to 1.5 calories.

[Ms. K]

Oh, where did you get that?

[Bretman Rock]

How much calorie is in one fucking boba? Google that word for word, right?

[Ozzy]

No, it is how many calories in one Boba Pearl?

[Ms. K]

One Cook Boba with Sarah.

[Ozzy]

Right? Honeydew. Well, one cup of tapioca Pearl is 544 calories.

[Ms. K]

See, that's crazy.

[Bretman Rock]

That's like crumble levels.

[Ozzy]

Have you guys tried crumble?

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't like some of them, but I like their. I tried enough to not want a lot. I mean not want it or crave it. I feel like I've never went to crumble and was like I'm so glad I got that. Or I can't wait to get more crumble. Like no, never.

[Ozzy]

Do you guys have a guilty pleasure?

[Bretman Rock]

Something like you don't mind eating.

[Ms. K]

I'm a cheesecake.

[Bretman Rock]

When I was a kid I used to put orbeez at my ass.

[Ozzy]

Like something you eat that's a good thing.

[Ms. K]

What is that one?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, I love me a takis hot cheeto.

[Ms. K]

What is that one dessert that cat makes that has like drench of milk in it?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

Strawberry chestnut.

[Bretman Rock]

Mine has to be chips. Like I love a good hot Cheeto girl. Like finger licking type shit.

[Ozzy]

I just salt and vinegar.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait. Mikayla, do you have a tea of the week?

[Ms. K]

I do. I mean I've seen one. I've Seen this comment a while ago, like, while back in one of the episodes that we filmed before, but you recently got into it and I wanted to talk to you about it. I've been wanting to talk to you about it, actually.

[Bretman Rock]

What?

[Ms. K]

Because I've been obsessed with it. So how do you feel about off camp?

[Bretman Rock]

How did I know you were gonna ask about that jersey as well?

[Ms. K]

And I was like, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Thank you for noticing my jersey. Did you guys know that we have a FIFA World cup team? The Philippines does.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, girl. Ms. Jennifer Taylor. Take shout out to Ms. Jennifer Taylor. She was like, do you want a FIFA Philippine shirt? And I'm like, sure. Like, what? Yeah, obviously. I already got oil and onyx. I was.

[Ms. K]

So is that why you wanted to change?

[Bretman Rock]

I wanted to change, but then I was like, let me just move my hair there. So that's why my hair is here. But no, I've been loving off campus, the whole cast. So hot. I just love, like a kicking my feet type of show keeper. Like, I love when I show like a little girl.

[Ms. K]

And I love how, like, I feel like all the good shows has been like a book.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. There's also something so early 2000s about it.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

It's so early 2000s.

[Ms. K]

Like the house. Like a mean girl.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

It's so good. And if you just like, like rom coms, like, you need to watch like, teeny boppy romance, like, I wouldn't even. Yeah, I would say it's very teeny boppy. Yeah. Check out.

[Ms. K]

Because we never had one in so long. I feel like the last time it made me feel it was like the Bridgeton, but that's. I don't even count that.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, I will also say heated rivalry was very.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Oh, wait, never mind then.

[Bretman Rock]

I love the whole hockey lore right now. I'm like, okay, hockey.

[Ms. K]

And also speaking of, like FIFA.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

I love how everyone is getting into it. Like, it's been going. Happening, you know, throughout the years, but like, we've always thought about, like, just soccer, like the end field. It was always football or basketball, never soccer. But now everyone's getting into it, which I love because I think it's such a vibe.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like the only people that has really not gotten into it is America as fuck. Because if I'm being honest with you, somebody. Somebody posted on TikTok about how they were shocked to find out that America had a soccer team. I really cannot name one person from the American soccer team. Right. And me, who don't even watch FIFA. I could name at Least one person from. From every Latin country. Yeah, like, there's Cristiano Messi, like, girl.

[Ms. K]

Who's Mr. David Beckham.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly. Okay, Ozzy, name some US soccer players.

[Ozzy]

Nope.

[Bretman Rock]

Thank you.

[Ozzy]

I think you Embarrassing.

[Ms. K]

There's probably a guy named David in there.

[Ozzy]

Well, you're a soccer. Because Messi came down to us to play in the. I think he was in Miami or something like that.

[Ms. K]

Oh, for, like, to practice.

[Ozzy]

No, like, he's part of the.

[Bretman Rock]

The team. Because I'm too messy. Major League Soccer and I'm too clean.

[Ozzy]

But there was a tick tock of, like, which sports athletes have the most,

[Ms. K]

like, Instagram followers, which is a football player.

[Bretman Rock]

It's like soccer player.

[Ozzy]

Out of 10, it's like five. Five of them are soccer players. Yeah. You have Ronaldo, Messi, David Beckham.

[Bretman Rock]

Literally just the ones we need.

[Ozzy]

Yeah. Neymar.

[Bretman Rock]

Another TikTok.

[Ms. K]

I've seen Neymar before.

[Bretman Rock]

No, literally. Oh, he's so cute. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

My daddy.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, he is.

[Ms. K]

So you know where I've seen him?

[Bretman Rock]

No, but I know you saw him because I remember you in Paris.

[Ms. K]

In Paris. We were at the.

[Bretman Rock]

Is it the Jack Moose one?

[Ms. K]

No, the other one where we saw.

[Bretman Rock]

Who am I thinking about that we saw at the Jacques Moucho, who was also an athlete. The one Simone. No, I'll just have to look at the video again, but. Oh, okay. Yeah. The share went up with Bama Bahman.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. Yes, I remember.

[Ms. K]

It's where we locked the ice.

[Bretman Rock]

No, you did. You did. I saw another TikTok that was like. I didn't realize how big FIFA was until I guess, like, one of the goalies from a team. Literally, after one game, he got 10 million followers because I guess, like, he did really good.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, period. I love that. Let me go play volleyball. I mean, volleyball. Let me go play goalie real quick.

[Ms. K]

It's like the number one sport in, like, South America.

[Bretman Rock]

Everywhere in the world outside of the

[Ozzy]

uk if you look outside of the

[Ms. K]

United States, it's all FIFA.

[Ozzy]

It's always been soccer. That's always been the most popular sport.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And I think it's such a fun sport for.

[Bretman Rock]

I want to watch the World cup one of these days. I'm gonna put that in my bucket list.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I love how Shakira always is the voice.

[Bretman Rock]

Also, like, the hype and, like, the songs and the marketing around FIFA is always such such a.

[Ms. K]

It's, like, so happy. It's like everyone's celebrating everybody.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, I love that they have, like, you Were saying Shakira, but like, Tyla also has a FIFA song. Like, huh?

[Ozzy]

EJ from kpop Demon Hunter.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, very cute. Very cute.

[Ms. K]

Who would be the Philippines? I think Bretman Rock should sing like.

[Ozzy]

Yeah, and then you'll get like 10 more million followers for sure.

[Bretman Rock]

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[Bretman Rock]

Should I read a journal entry?

[Ms. K]

Oh my God, go for it.

[Bretman Rock]

Let me see if I even journal this week. I'm just going to read the latest journal entry like I always do. Okay. Period. June 22nd. Girl, I have been in my morning era, but girl, I have also been needing to work on a good routine. But right now I'm just glad I'm waking up at 6:30 again. In the last couple of days, I have a new pet and they are cockatiels, Freddy and Lola. Well, they are technically clayon eyes, but I'm just their trainer and landlord for now. Lola for sure loves Cleo and Freddie learns really fast. To be honest, something that I would love to have, something that I would have to add back into my routine is journaling. I feel so guilty that I feel like I'm journaling once a week when I truly was. When it truly was such a daily thing for me. I'd love to get back into the hobby of writing. Writing down my thoughts, ideas and randomness. I leave for a couple days to LA this week and I'm actually so excited to be out of the house for a second.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. You guys, Bretman is not the most down person.

[Bretman Rock]

I really am not the most down person.

[Ms. K]

Do you want to go do something? No. Do you want to? No. No. I'm like, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Even the other day when you tried to get me to go out.

[Ms. K]

Yes. Stayed in the car.

[Bretman Rock]

I was like, okay, I'll stay in the car. And then she came five minutes later and she was like, I can't do it. There's too many people. So we went to Carl's Jr instead.

[Ms. K]

Oh my God, you guys. The best burger I've ever had in like this year.

[Ozzy]

Yeah. Why is.

[Bretman Rock]

Have you gone to the Carl's Jr. At that random Khalifi?

[Ozzy]

I love going to that Carl's Jr.

[Ms. K]

It's so good.

[Ozzy]

Even their, their, their pickles, the fried pickles.

[Ms. K]

Oh, I had that. It was so good.

[Bretman Rock]

I love their jalapeno one.

[Ms. K]

I love how it was like fresh and Hot and like low key. The burger, when I was eating it, it was like just like my mouth was like a vacuum. Like it was just going somewhere. And I was like, why is it

[Bretman Rock]

that spongebob with Patrick, like just sucking in the.

[Ms. K]

I did not even feel bad eating that whole burger in like five minutes.

[Ozzy]

I think it's because it's the only Carl's Jr. Number one. But number two, it's like at a random gas station when they make the food, it's like really to order. Like, oh, you want a burger code. Then they make it.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And it tastes fresh. Dare I say

[Ms. K]

like of old.

[Ozzy]

No.

[Bretman Rock]

And the past three days I would look at Ms. K and be like, should we go so far from it?

[Ozzy]

It's good.

[Ms. K]

Brett lives like an hour, like an hour and 30 minutes away.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And we think about it every night.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And. And he always asks at like 9 o', clock, which they close. Are closed already.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

So you know which Carl's Jr. We're talking about?

[Ozzy]

Of course.

[Ms. K]

No period.

[Ozzy]

So I think it. I mean it might be mid in other places, but like I feel like

[Ms. K]

here it's kind of.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I would say the same thing. Like I. When I'm in the mainland, I never think about Carlos Jr. But in at home I'm literally like, girl, we have the best cars.

[Ms. K]

I think I would be so. I think there's something about like having like a lot of them loses the. Yeah. Or like, like how it's made because it's not like they don't make it the same.

[Bretman Rock]

I will say even like chick fil A. Like, I'm sorry, like, it don't hit here.

[Ms. K]

Have you guys tried Sonic yet?

[Ozzy]

Nope.

[Bretman Rock]

No. I don't care.

[Ozzy]

There's a Sonic on Maui.

[Ms. K]

There's a Sonic here.

[Ozzy]

No. Yeah, but I'm saying like, I tried on mommy.

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah, yeah.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

I'm.

[Bretman Rock]

I mean, I'm not a fast food girly either, honestly. But cars junior junior girl.

[Ms. K]

Like, I feel like I will always be Carl.

[Bretman Rock]

Let me suck your dick real quick. Come on the pod.

[Ms. K]

Come in Junior.

[Bretman Rock]

Come in Me on the pod.

[Ms. K]

It's so good.

[Ozzy]

What burger did you guys get?

[Ms. K]

I think I got the classic.

[Bretman Rock]

I think I got the Spicy Deluxe,

[Ms. K]

the Volcanic burger or something like that.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I don't think it was that dramatic.

[Ms. K]

It was okay. I always get the California Tots.

[Ozzy]

California. I forgot what it's called. I know. It's California something.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. We should go one day. Yeah. Oh, well, the next time you come from town,

[Ozzy]

you know somebody in My head. I was like, you know, I'll just bring it. But I was like, no, but that means I have to drive from town to come here.

[Bretman Rock]

There's times where you're coming from town,

[Ozzy]

Ozzy, don't my days so that if I'm recording here, I stay home. I work from home, right?

[Bretman Rock]

Suddenly, like, girl, God forbid I stay see your ass in town and you don't come with a car's Junior.

[Ozzy]

That's because I have to drive from town.

[Ms. K]

It would be okay for you to come late.

[Ozzy]

But you know what? I will if. If ever there's a time where I'm in town and then I have to come here, then yes, I will get a cars Junior.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

Period.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, you guys, before I start the segment, I do have to say, you know when I was like, oh, my God, I gotta. I gotta go do something downstairs. Yeah, bitch. I had to take a shit. Like the. Oh, yeah, I see. It's because I fucking put condensed milk on this.

[Ms. K]

Oh, so your stomach was scrubbing?

[Bretman Rock]

She was like the whole time. Yeah, literally holding it. But yeah. Let's get into the segment. Some of you guys sent in some dating stories and we're really here to unpack it. Not a lot of you guys sent it, but it's okay because we have stories of our own.

[Ms. K]

I don't be really dating that much.

[Bretman Rock]

I really don't. I really need to go out more so that I have more dating stories. Not even just to hoe out, but just to have stories.

[Ms. K]

Like, I feel so I need to be like, oh, I got left by a guy in the forest. Or like, oh, someone didn't like me, so they took me out of the car and like, yelled at me in the side of the freeway and was drove off.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. No, literally, like, I need somebody to literally, like, ask me if I could give them like a foot job or type shit like that.

[Ms. K]

While driving.

[Bretman Rock]

While driving, Yes. A snowmobile. Like some shit like that. Like, literally, like sucking dick in the middle of the ocean.

[Ms. K]

Like, or in a moped. Literally, like, you know, I've always wanted to do that. Like riding behind someone's moped and then literally.

[Bretman Rock]

Or like riding dick while, like, my man's fighting. Like, I don't know, something like that. Something like that. I really feel like I need to go on more dates. But with that being said, Ozzy, read us the first story that a fan sent in. Maybe we can do a who's the asshole sense in this too. Who knows?

[Ozzy]

Okay. Six years ago.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, gosh. Six years ago. That is 2020.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God.

[Ozzy]

That is 2020.

[Ms. K]

Beginning of COVID That doesn't feel like six years ago.

[Bretman Rock]

Right? The beginning of COVID The beginning of

[Ozzy]

COVID That's a whole other segment.

[Bretman Rock]

I was literally just making whipped coffee six years ago. That's crazy. Were y' all making whipped coffee? You know, I was making your ass some. Keefer. Don't even.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, you know, the fair. Wait, what was six years ago? It's 2020. You know, I remember in 2020, we did a game show and then I was behind the laptop cheating for you. Do you remember that?

[Bretman Rock]

No.

[Ms. K]

He did it online and you guys battling like. They were asking you to be.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

Stop. Keep her.

[Ms. K]

Stop. Keep her stuff. Keep yourself. Keep yourself. Keep yourself. Keep yourself. Do you remember that?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

Keeper.

[Bretman Rock]

What was it? I don't know what it was for, but I. I joined this quiz game thing and. Was it for Mr. Beast?

[Ms. K]

I think so.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I think it was like a random streamer. He invited me for, like.

[Ms. K]

Like a quizlet.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know. I want to say it was like a. Are you smarter than a fifth grader thing.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And then you went up against. Yes. Theory.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. And they were asking us questions, and it was just me versus somebody, and

[Ms. K]

there were two of them.

[Bretman Rock]

Stand in front of the. Stand in front of the camera. And when they ask questions, Google it for me and then tell me the

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

answer

[Bretman Rock]

just for me to be out.

[Ms. K]

Like, we ate it, though. It was that last question.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I was literally, like, acting like. Like. Yeah, I think it's orange. I think mango Chaka Khan. Right.

[Ms. K]

But anyways.

[Bretman Rock]

Sorry. Oh, my God. Wait, I forgot we're doing a whole. Okay, for real this time.

[Ozzy]

Title is Rose from uk.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Rose.

[Ms. K]

Is that her name?

[Ozzy]

I would assume.

[Bretman Rock]

Excited.

[Ms. K]

Jack, if Titanic happened to. Had happened like now, do you think they will have survived?

[Ozzy]

Yeah, because we have, like. Yes.

[Ms. K]

With the technology now that we have, I feel like. Yeah, same time, same place, everything.

[Bretman Rock]

Probably Rose would be on live. Like, Sami arose. And I'll let him come into the. Send me a rose, then I'll let him in my door, chat. You open me a galaxy

[Ms. K]

on Life is crazy.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Wait, did you guys see those AI? So, like, what happens? Like.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, no, I haven't seen the AI. We don't do AI in this household.

[Ms. K]

No, but I've been seeing, like, those videos on TikTok of like. Like, people, like, going to, like, the restaurant. Oh. Like, this is. This is me at, like, the Titanic or whatever. Like a vlog, basically being In Titanic. And everyone around him is, like, crying and, like, dying.

[Bretman Rock]

Me doing the Renegade while we're dying.

[Ms. K]

Like that Lola. The Lola from space.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Have you guys seen that? Yeah. Like that. Basically like that.

[Bretman Rock]

Lol.

[Ms. K]

I'm fighting war right now.

[Ozzy]

Yeah. She has, like, a whole, like, series, right?

[Ms. K]

Yeah. You should watch it. Okay.

[Ozzy]

Okay. So, hey, Bretman and Ms. K. Just want to.

[Bretman Rock]

I've been doing that a lot lately, Rose.

[Ozzy]

Doing what?

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah. I don't even know where you got it from.

[Ozzy]

Just wanted to say, Bretman, I'm proud of all you have accomplished, and you have inspired me so incredibly much to work hard and to keep being the baddest bitch out here. Love from the uk.

[Bretman Rock]

Thank you.

[Ozzy]

A few weeks ago, I found out K had been messaging another girl behind my back.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ms. K]

Not you, Ms. K. I didn't do anything in common.

[Ozzy]

It wasn't just casual messages either. They were talking all the time, flirting, and he'd never mentioned her to me before. I only found out because her name kept popping up on his phone and the story he gave me about who she was, who she was kept changing.

[Ms. K]

He's giving a Kevin.

[Ozzy]

Oh, the K. Yeah, yeah. It's giving a Kurt Kelvin. Calvin Kelvin.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Thanksgiving. Never mind.

[Ozzy]

Say it.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like he's giving Kevin, too. I was gonna say Kevin.

[Ozzy]

Okay. When I confronted him, instead of being honest, he told me I was paranoid and making a big deal out of nothing. Then when I showed him why I was upset, he admitted some of the messages were inappropriate but said it wasn't cheating because they'd never met up. The argument wasn't even about whether he'd physically cheated. I was upset because he'd hidden it from me and then lied when I asked about it. What really got to me was what happened next. During the argument, he brought up something personal I'd told him months ago about struggling with my confidence and trust issues after being hurt before. This is kind of a good tie in with the last.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ozzy]

He basically said the only reason I was upset was because I was insecure and that any other girlfriend would have been fine with it. That felt so unfair because I trusted him with that information, and instead of listening to why I was hurt, he used it against me.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ozzy]

Then the conversation somehow became about him. He started saying things like, I guess I'm just the worst boyfriend ever then, and nothing I do is good enough for you. By the end of the call, I was comforting him, even though I'd been the one who found out he'd been talking to Another girl behind my back. Since then, he's kept saying I'm holding onto the past and that I should move on because he apologized. But every time I try to explain why, it still bothers me. He says I'm making him feel guilty and ruining the relationship. I honestly don't know what to think anymore. Am I wrong for feeling hurt by this, or does this.

[Ms. K]

No, he's gaslighting the fuck out of you as fuck. While you were reading. I'm like, girl, that's gaslighting.

[Ozzy]

Or does it sound like he's avoiding responsibility for what he actually did?

[Bretman Rock]

As fuck.

[Ms. K]

It's giving. He met up with this girl, caught emotion with that person, and now he's just stringing you along because he's probably thinking one of those, like, what if it doesn't work out? And I know you're just gonna take me back, so let me just string you around for now.

[Bretman Rock]

Y. A scapegoat.

[Ms. K]

A scapegoat. Because you're the comfort that will always

[Bretman Rock]

take him back, and he knows that he.

[Ms. K]

And he will. Yeah. That is straight up gaslighting. And then using your weakness towards you is, like, so uncalled for.

[Bretman Rock]

I relate to comforting him even though he's the wrong though.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

I be that dumb as sometimes where I'm literally like, wait, you're the one that did me wrong. Why the Am I the one, like, apologizing now? Like, but that just shows. Like, some of them. Some of these men really be, like, master manipulators. Vibes.

[Ms. K]

And it's giving sincere. At Love island, where he was like, oh, I'm just a human. It's giving that.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, it's giving. If I had two fishes.

[Ms. K]

Yes. Like, leave him. Sorry, babes.

[Bretman Rock]

Sorry, babes.

[Ms. K]

Coming from us, this is not gonna go well.

[Bretman Rock]

Also, it's like, I'm. I want to go back to the whole. No, no, no. Like when. You know, when he was like, we haven't even met up.

[Ms. K]

Yes. But you emotionally cheated.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Regardless.

[Ms. K]

That's even worse than physically cheating is emotionally cheating. Because I feel like once you emotionally cheated on someone, that means you're clocked out on the other person already giving them.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, no, for sure.

[Ms. K]

Like, you don't care about them. That's why you guys tend to be, like, more angry towards that person or getting that ick or, like, you don't even want to do anything to the point where, like, now you're treating them.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that gives me. That gives me a good question. Could you get over what? Could you get over faster. Regardless.

[Ms. K]

The.

[Bretman Rock]

The man is wrong. But one is if he hooked up with someone but he's not emotionally invested with that person and you caught him and he. Yeah, like a one night stand or this. In this case, where he has been talking to someone and been emotionally invested with someone for, let's say, two weeks.

[Ms. K]

I feel like emotionally it would be

[Bretman Rock]

worse to get over, right? Yeah, yeah.

[Ms. K]

To get over.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like not that I could forgive someone for hooking up with somebody, but like, I feel like that's also. I would. Literally that's enough reason for me to leave someone. But like, I feel like if I had to pick which one I would get over faster, it would be the hookup.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Physically.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. Like, I'm like, okay, period. Like you hooked up. Like, maybe you were just really like fucking home. Yeah, you haven't seen me in two weeks. Like, yeah, period.

[Ms. K]

But you got to do what you got to do. Humans has needs.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. But you have been talking and been emotionally involved with someone for two weeks when I'm right here.

[Ms. K]

Because I feel like once you find comfort in people, you tend to go

[Bretman Rock]

towards them for sure.

[Ms. K]

You know, you like find that comfort again because like, they gave you something that.

[Bretman Rock]

And that's what partners are for. Sometimes it's just comfort to some to

[Ms. K]

make you feel like home.

[Bretman Rock]

How about you, Ozzy? What would you get over faster?

[Ozzy]

I think the physical one is a bit easier to get over.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ozzy]

Don't get us wrong. It is.

[Bretman Rock]

Both situations are still wrong and you still gonna get punched. Right.

[Ozzy]

But like, if I were to think of what I can get over, like, in terms of moving on, it's probably the physical. Because being emotionally invested into something is. You're talking about like your passion towards something, your feelings, your time towards something. Whereas if, like the physical stuff is like, if it's just an hour and like, that's.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Like, I'm like, okay, that's when you start comparing. Right?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. You needed a nut. Like, okay, period.

[Ozzy]

Yeah, yeah. But I think the emotional investment into someone else is a lot tougher to get over.

[Ms. K]

That's why, you know how like that whole entire, like, I don't know where I'm getting one with this, but have you guys seen the trend where like when a girl and a boy breaks up, they process things, like two different times. Like, the girl will cry first, the guy will party, and then the girl will gradually get over and then she starts looking while the guy parties. Right. But gradually, like gets sadder because.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ozzy]

Absence.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, okay, period.

[Ms. K]

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[Bretman Rock]

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[Ms. K]

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[Bretman Rock]

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[Ms. K]

Now let's get back to the video.

[Bretman Rock]

I want to do a story that a friend of mine went through lowkey because I feel like I don't know what to tell her and well, I did. This has already like also been two years ago, but at the moment when this was all happening, I didn't know what to tell her. Yeah. So I would like to know what you guys would have told her.

[Ms. K]

Cool.

[Bretman Rock]

So because this has happened to like two years ago and I really feel Like, I don't want to go into much details because my friend would fucking kill me, but basically she found they have been together for at least a year and a half at this point. She found a picture of him and his ex inside his wallet. And at this point, they have already been together for a year and a half. Yeah, my friend found it and she felt some type of way, so she brought it up to him. And when it was brought up to him, he just basically, like, crumpled the picture, threw it away, and didn't reassure her about it. And he just basically, I think from what I remember her telling me, like, he just grabbed the picture and was like, oh, sorry, I didn't know that was there, crumpled it, and then went about his Marion day. What she wanted was, like, one. Like, not necessarily an apology, but like a reassurance. Like, oh, my God, I really didn't know that was there. I don't check my wallet too often or something. That just reassures her that, like, he just didn't know it was in there to begin with. And in that three. And for the next couple of days after she found that, she noticed that he was acting very weird and, like, barely said I love you to her. Barely reassured her again in the next. In three days. And she started to feel insecure. And he just wasn't, like, literally, like, reassuring her. So she broke up with him. Was she being dramatic for. Yeah. Was she the asshole for breaking up with him for finding a picture of him and the ex in his wallet? Because I told her I was like, girl, I would have broken up with him, period. I. I was literally like, girl, the fact that you waited two weeks and,

[Ms. K]

like, especially for him behind, like, after what happened.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I'm like, girl, you could have reassured yourself.

[Ms. K]

I would have been like, are you mad at the fact that I found it, or are you mad at the fact that you crumpled it up? Yeah, you know, like, do you miss.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you miss the photo?

[Ms. K]

Because. What do you mean? Why are you acting like this? Why are you acting bad? Yeah. Why are you now ignoring me?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I would just like to know, because. Let me ask a straight person, actually, because this was a straight couple. As a guy, do you go through your wallet ever?

[Ozzy]

Not really. What? I think some guys are different.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ozzy]

Like, I feel I'm not as common as most other men, but.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, what, another one on top of

[Bretman Rock]

that for like, a year and a half.

[Ms. K]

And do you know everything that's in your wallet?

[Ozzy]

For the most part, yeah, I know it's in my wallet.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ms. K]

Period.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Because he just was like, I don't know why that's in there. That's all the reassurance he told her was like, I didn't know how that got in there.

[Ms. K]

I don't know. For someone, especially a guy, for someone who doesn't have a purse, who just carries a wallet and a phone.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

You should know what you have in there. You definitely. Especially would take out everything or, like, change wallets here and there. Right. So you. You definitely need to know what's in

[Bretman Rock]

there, because I told her. I asked her what he said, why it's in there. And all he said was, like, he didn't know why it's in there. And like I said again, didn't reassure her at all.

[Ozzy]

So there is no conversation.

[Bretman Rock]

Had they just. He just was like, oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know that was in there. Grabbed it, crumbled it up. And then the next three days he was acting weird. And then, like, after a week, I think. I think it was like after two weeks, like.

[Ms. K]

No, I'm sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

With him. No, no, I'm sorry.

[Ozzy]

I think at least from my perspective, he. He kind of already knows, like, what is this conversation going to be between you two? And he's probably thought about it and he's like, I'm not gonna try and talk about it. And to me, that's kind of a

[Bretman Rock]

red flag because he thought he was just gonna be like, go by. Yeah.

[Ozzy]

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. But it's not. And I think his failure to recognize that it's doing something to his partner and not having a conversation about it is also a rep. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I just thought, wow, you ate that up.

[Bretman Rock]

You ate that.

[Ms. K]

Because clearly. Like that.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ozzy]

Because I think, I mean, again, your. Your partner in life, you guys should always be. Yeah. In sync or on the same wavelength. And especially for being together for a year and a half, I feel like there should be some sort of connection to the point where, like, if I. If I notice in the two weeks that something is bothering me, you should

[Bretman Rock]

know how you should know. The way you.

[Ms. K]

They turn their head, the way they turn around. It's not even just.

[Bretman Rock]

It's with people. Anyone that you love.

[Ozzy]

Exactly.

[Bretman Rock]

I know Ms. K is mad or high. The second she's like, one step into my room, I'm like, she not on. She didn't wake up on the right page today. Like, you know, like, you just be knowing. And for a man to act oblivious, it's also. I Feel like another form of gaslighting is just pretending like nothing happened.

[Ozzy]

Like a shift like that already tells you something is happening or something's going on.

[Ms. K]

Be other than that, right?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. But yeah, I definitely. Because my friend was like, am I being dramatic for breaking up with him over a picture? And I'm like, I don't think you're breaking up with him for finding a picture. I think you're breaking up with him.

[Ms. K]

The lack of action that was presented after.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, hey, girl. Big word, Big word.

[Ms. K]

Thank you.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, no, but really though, like, he. I think you. I was literally like, no, you're not breaking up with him because of what you found. You're breaking up with him because how he. The lack of reassurance period.

[Ozzy]

Was this habit apparent before this whole incident happened?

[Bretman Rock]

No. I feel like my friend barely, like, tells me about her man problems, but like, this was one of the times where she was like, girl, am I being dramatic? And I was literally like, babe, I think you're being under dramatic.

[Ozzy]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. So, yeah, that was that.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And then, yeah, I would break up.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Should we do product of the day?

[Ms. K]

We should, we should.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, we should switch it up and start with Ozzy. Oh, Ozzy. What is your product of the day? Looks around the table.

[Ozzy]

I have come prepared.

[Ms. K]

You did?

[Ozzy]

Yeah. So I brought my Rubik's Cube.

[Bretman Rock]

What you're solving right now.

[Ozzy]

I'll solve it while you guys share your guys product.

[Ms. K]

But okay, you're a Rubik's cube person.

[Ozzy]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Share your products. Really?

[Ms. K]

I have this.

[Ozzy]

Wait, wait, wait. So I. I recently just found this, like a couple weeks ago, but I've been trying to make it a habit where when I go to sleep, I'll mix it up and then when I wake up, this is like the first thing, one of the first things I do in the morning.

[Ms. K]

Wow. Okay.

[Ozzy]

You try to. You try to get like a menial task out of the way so that your brain can start like, functioning right away. So instead.

[Bretman Rock]

Instead of me when I make my

[Ms. K]

bed, when I'm brain rotting in bed for like two hours.

[Ozzy]

Yeah. Instead of like just grabbing your phone immediately and just looking through it, like,

[Bretman Rock]

yeah, my morning puzzle is my bed.

[Ms. K]

Wait, that's kind of a good idea just to have like a little activity in the morning.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, the moment I wake up.

[Ms. K]

Sudoku.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ozzy]

Well, something easy. Like, it's a task that you can solve pretty easily. So.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

Period.

[Bretman Rock]

My product of the week would have to be this new Fenty beauty, I guess bronzer this is the press mousse, cream, bronzer. And before I hype this up, I will say, girl, you need more shades. Ms. Fenty Beauty, I love you. You are the blueprint. But she needs more shades. But Maple Glaze 04 has been my.

[Ms. K]

Oh, that's a pretty color.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. And I love that. It's like.

[Ms. K]

Is it gel, cream, or powder?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, it's like mousse. And it's my. I've just been using it as, like, just my powder for bronzing.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

And I love it. Thank you.

[Ms. K]

Very subtle.

[Bretman Rock]

Subtle, if you will.

[Ms. K]

Subtle. Okay. Mine is going to be this. She Glam products. I think they're from the same collection, but this is a lip tint. I got it from you, actually.

[Bretman Rock]

I know a lip tint.

[Ms. K]

This is in the color.

[Bretman Rock]

You acting like, I don't know, high stage.

[Ms. K]

I like this. I. I've been putting. I've been doing this thing where, like, I put my lip liner, and on top of it, I put stain, and I feel like that kind of act something. And then.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, wow, she's so thin.

[Ms. K]

Yes. And this liner from them, I use it to do my brows, period. Because I like to, like, add, like, little brow strokes. Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And now that it has been 10 minutes, are you done?

[Ozzy]

Keep talking.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, Ms. K. Where can the bad find you, girl?

[Ms. K]

The bad can find me at the baddest radio or mis k a y e, period.

[Bretman Rock]

And as you guys know, it is Bretman everywhere. And make sure you guys, like, subscribe and give the baddest radio the best rating. Girl. Season two is almost done. We have so many great things planned for season three. So many new faces, so many new guests.

[Ms. K]

Is this the last episode?

[Bretman Rock]

No, we have, like, a couple more. Okay. But, yeah, wow.

[Ms. K]

We should do. We should take it back to the dome.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

Girl.

[Bretman Rock]

Fuck home. It's so hot in there. Ozzy.

[Ozzy]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Where can the bad bitches find you?

[Ozzy]

You guys can find me on my name.

[Bretman Rock]

All right. Do you have a song for us today?

[Ozzy]

Yes, I do.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ozzy]

I don't know if you guys know it, though.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ozzy]

Sing it.

[Bretman Rock]

Go, Ozzy. Sing us out, girl.

[Ozzy]

Oh, God. Hold on.

[Bretman Rock]

Don't think about the towns or we have to try to maintain

[Ozzy]

I up. I up. Who said love is this easy? If I'm walking through the door way past midnight Trust me that it's only you it's only you.

[Ms. K]

Should go in the voice.

[Ozzy]

It's only you,

[Ms. K]

Baby.

[Bretman Rock]

Period.

[Ozzy]

That was a rough two minutes.

[Ms. K]

Bye.

[Bretman Rock]

Picture beach. I'll see you next Thursday.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Don't forget to follow rate and like. You can follow me at bretmanrock on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media. Bye Beach.

[Podcast Advertiser/Announcer]

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