Enemies to Lovers with My Bestie, Nicki B

Summary

DaBaddest Radio: “Enemies to Lovers with My Bestie, Nikki B”

Host: Bretman Rock (Dear Media)
Guest: Nikki B, with Ms. K
Date: November 6, 2025

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Main Theme & Purpose

This episode is all about friendship evolution—specifically, the iconic “enemies to lovers” dynamic between Bretman Rock and his longest-standing best friend, Nikki B. They reminisce about their journey from rivals in school to inseparable besties, all while keeping it fun, authentic, and extremely relatable. The conversation weaves in themes of confidence, community, queer/trans identity in Hawaii, and the importance of staying grounded while chasing dreams.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction & Nostalgia

• Bretman introduces Nikki B as his “longest best friend forever,” referencing their 10+ years of friendship and instantly dropping inside jokes.
• Nikki recalls growing up in Ewa Beach, playing sports, studying in Oregon, and her ventures in jewelry-making, wedding planning, and managing a farmer’s market.
• Nikki is not “chronically online,” making her their first non-internet guest (00:34–02:08).

2. Aloha Friday & Catching Up

• The trio celebrates “Aloha Friday” with themed drinks, including Ms. K’s “take on a mango sticky rice” (04:32–07:08).
• They discuss past cooking/baking blunders, like the infamous “patis coffee latte” with too much fish sauce—“Never make that again, Kiefer!” (05:37–06:03).

3. Pop Culture & Life Updates

• Weekend movie tickets, excitement for the new “Wicked” film, and Halloween costumes are lively topics (06:49–10:45).
• Discussion shifts to Filipino heritage, with Bretman joking about resembling Lapu-Lapu, the Filipino hero (08:22–09:45).

4. Yearly Goals & Reflection (10:48–14:03)

• Bretman reads his 2025 checklist—citizenship, solo traveling, gardening, more hair deals, and embracing his “cutest” self.

  “Honestly, I’ve checked. This is the cutest I’ve ever been.” — Bretman, 13:56

• Ms. K celebrates getting a new car, starting her transition-related goals, and “focusing on myself. More love.”
• Nikki B highlights starting her business and moving back to Hawaii.

5. Tradition & Identity: Flower Placement & Meaning

• The crew explains the Hawaiian tradition of wearing a flower on a specific side (left = taken, right = single), with some cross-cultural twists (15:05–15:53).

6. Queer Friendships: Origins and Evolution (19:04–24:05)

“Enemies to Lovers” Friendship Lore

• How they met: Same grade, only openly gay kids, both Filipino, rivals in sports and leadership, often compared by teachers/classmates. “We definitely have the classic enemies to lovers...like love-hate relationship.” — Bretman, 21:10
• Bonding Moment: Middle school volleyball forced proximity turns rivalry into deep friendship.

  “Why the fuck are we competing? We could just join teams and make everyone’s life miserable.” — Bretman, 22:08

Ms. K Joins the Circle

• Connected to Nikki through hanging at Bretman’s house, and bonded over shared trans experiences and growing up in the same place.

7. Trans Identity & Dating in Hawaii (24:05–28:24)

• Ms. K and Nikki B reflect on being trans in Hawaii—it’s “easier than most places,” due to a strong community presence and cultural acceptance.

  “There were so many mahus women around us...we just never felt [like outsiders].” — Bretman, 24:43 “[Dating] was harder five years ago...but now it’s not too bad. It’s weird still.” — Nikki B, 26:19

• Both express that while men may be interested privately, public dating is rare.

  “A lot of men like the dolls in the closet, but they will never want to be seen with us”—Ms. K, 26:55

8. Games & Everyday Life Together (28:48–32:45)

• The friends bond daily over playing Smash Bros. (for hours!)—each has favorite characters, and “down-B Kirby mains” get roasted.
• Their casual time together emphasizes the normalcy and joy in their relationship.

9. Best Memories & Inside Jokes (32:09–42:08)

• Hilarious and poignant stories:
  • Nikki’s infamous eighth-grade party and subsequent head-shaving punishment (35:00–36:55)
  • Bretman’s airport “sorbet” lactose incident (37:14–38:38)
  • The Seattle bonding trip for Ms. K & Nikki B (41:02)
  • Running group trip jokes: “Nikki’s trips always make it out of the group chat, but the friends never make it out of the trip!” — Bretman & Ms. K, 41:58
• The infectious laughter, inside jokes, and memories reveal the depth of their friendship.

10. Rapid Fire Bestie Questions (44:59–54:07)

• Fun, fast, revealing Q&A:
  • “Who eats the most?”
  • “Who’s most likely to laugh at something inappropriate in public?”
  • “Who gives the best advice?”

    “Just do it. What’s holding you back?” — Bretman, 46:54

• Unique habits exposed: Nikki points at her food when it’s good, double-fists beverages, and hates tomatoes; Ms. K needs textured things to sleep.

11. Friendship Lessons & Growth (58:38–62:15)

• Each shares a lesson learned from the others:

  “Confidence. These are the most confident people I know.” — Ms. K, 59:03 “Originality...you guys are so unique. Your lifestyle is also original.” — Nikki B, 59:52 “Every time I hang out with you guys, there’s a sense of humanity in it. You remind me of home, family, and the values I have.” — Bretman, 61:04

12. How They Realized They Were Best Friends (62:22–69:51)

• Reflecting on BFF “aha” moments:
  • For Ms. K: Nikki always answered her calls, judgment-free.
  • For Bretman: The “summer of 2017” solidified it—Nikki was always around, especially after college began.
  • For Nikki: Middle/high school track practice and leadership retreat were key.

  “We didn’t even realize we were hanging out every day.” — Nikki B, 69:47

13. Product of the Day, Plugs, & Sign Off (70:21–End)

• Nikki B: Shares her Tahitian pearl jewelry business, Sea Breeze Collective (@SEAVRZCollective).
• Ms. K: Shares her go-to hair slick essence.
• Bretman: Shouts out favorite gardening gear and social handles.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Bretman:

  “We definitely have the classic enemies to lovers.” (21:10)
  “Why the fuck are we competing? We could just join teams and make everyone’s life miserable.” (22:08)
  “This is the cutest I’ve ever been. Honestly.” (13:56)
  “Just do it. What’s holding you back?” (46:54)
  “You remind me of home, family, and the values I have.” (61:04)

• Nikki B:

  “Originality...your lifestyle is also original.” (59:52)
  “We might as well be friends, ‘cause like, we’re stuck in the same room.” (21:19)
  “I always know when a food is good—I’ll point at it.” (52:15)

• Ms. K:

  “A lot of men like the dolls in the closet, but they will never want to be seen with us.” (26:55)
  “Confidence. These are the most confident people I know.” (59:03)
  “If I have no one else to call, I’d literally call Nikki. She’d always answer, first ring.” (62:41)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:34 – Bretman introduces Nikki B as “longest best friend”
• 04:32 – Mango sticky rice “Aloha Friday” drinks
• 10:48 – Bretman reads and reflects on 2025 goals checklist
• 19:04 – Q&A: “Enemies to Lovers” friendship beginnings
• 24:05 – Being trans in Hawaii; dating in the islands
• 28:48 – Smash Bros. and everyday friend routines
• 32:09 – Favorite/funniest memories (Nikki’s party, Seattle trip)
• 44:59 – Rapid Fire Bestie Questions
• 58:38 – Life lessons learned from each other
• 62:22 – Realizing their “best friend forever” status
• 70:21 – Product of the Day and business plugs

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Tone & Language

• The tone is playful, irreverent, deeply personal, and peppered with inside jokes and “Hawai’i local” and queer/Filipino cultural flavor.
• All attribution and quotes maintain the hosts’ authentic, unfiltered voices.

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In Summary

This episode is a laughter-filled look at Bretman and Nikki B’s friendship history, with layers of sincerity around identity and self-acceptance. For both OG fans and newcomers, it’s a true celebration of chosen family, embracing your roots (and your weird habits), and building confidence by surrounding yourself with love and “the baddest” friends.

Transcript

[Bretman Rock]

The following podcast is a Dear Media production.

[Ms. K]

Hello.

[Bretman Rock]

Hello, everyone. It is Thursday yet again. However, we are in our aloha wear because it's Friday.

[Ms. K]

Aloha Friday.

[Nikki B]

Yes. Happy Aloha Friday.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, and you might be hearing a third voice. Nikki, before I introduce yourself, would you like to introduce yourself? Wait, hold on. Let me re. Rephrase it. Nikki, before I introduce you, would you like to introduce yourself, period?

[Nikki B]

Yes, I am.

[Ms. K]

Wait. Face reveal. Oh.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. My oldest best friend and my. Well, no, she my oldest. You're not my oldest. My longest. Everybody, I introduce you. My longest best friend forever.

[Nikki B]

Nikki, baby.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki B. Some of you guys. Some of you guys may recognize Ms. Nikki from a really, really old video of mine. Nikki, do you know which video I'm talking about?

[Nikki B]

Which one? Her vlogs?

[Bretman Rock]

No, the one where. Remember when my mom and I did a cooking adobo video and then you came at the very end to come and taste it? That and a couple other videos, like, from, like, reels.

[Ms. K]

Do you know what's so funny? I actually seen that one comment in the last video when we mentioned your name.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And then someone was like, yeah, only OGs would know who Nikki is.

[Nikki B]

Oh, wow.

[Ms. K]

Did you know you girl.

[Nikki B]

You know.

[Bretman Rock]

You literally. Well, as you guys can tell, we have our Aloha Friday wear today in celebration of having one of our first guests is here.

[Nikki B]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

I think we've only really had Bella, the nephew and niece, and Nikki.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my. But you're the first one that I have that isn't family because Bella's our cousin. Of course.

[Ms. K]

That isn't like. What is that called? Like, a person of the Internet as well.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. She's not chronically online. Yeah. Well, Nikki B, would you like to introduce yourself?

[Nikki B]

What do you mean? What do you want me to tell us?

[Bretman Rock]

Hi, I'm Nikki B. 24. Virgin. Oh.

[Nikki B]

Virgin's crazy, but period. Virgin, 26, grew up in Ewa Beach. Known Brett. Well, Brett known Brett for, like, a very long time. Over 10 years now.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, we have a lore. We'll get there.

[Ms. K]

We.

[Nikki B]

We do. Even me and Kiefer.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Period.

[Nikki B]

But, yeah, I grew up in Ewa Beach. Did a lot of sports growing up, went to college, came back recently.

[Bretman Rock]

Where did you go to college?

[Nikki B]

I went to Southern Oregon University.

[Ms. K]

Southern Oregon.

[Bretman Rock]

A never went to college, so I wouldn't know. What do y' all do? What do y' all do?

[Nikki B]

I don't know, because you know how.

[Bretman Rock]

Ever beach girls be, like, 76 South. Yeah. What do Y' all say in there.

[Nikki B]

In Oregon, they call themselves scooters over there. So we're the scooters over there.

[Ms. K]

Okay, we're scooters.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, scooters.

[Bretman Rock]

You went to Oregon and now you are back home.

[Nikki B]

I'm back home.

[Bretman Rock]

And what does she does?

[Nikki B]

Girl, I do a lot. You know, I do a lot. But one of the things is I make jewelry. That's one of the things I do right now. And she does wedding planning.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm here. Do I gotta tell you what you do?

[Ms. K]

I know. I'm like, I know what you do.

[Nikki B]

I'm like, I'm.

[Ms. K]

I. I can't believe you don't know what you do.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, I also manage a farmer's market.

[Bretman Rock]

So she's a working man.

[Nikki B]

That's my brother.

[Bretman Rock]

She's busy. Well, like I said, Nikki is my longest friend. We have been friends since elementary. No, I'm so sorry, girl. I don't. No, no, let's go back. Let's go back. We've known each other since elementary school, but we have been friends since intermediate. We weren't friends until intermediate. We'll get to there, but cue the intro. Earth to Bratman, girl. You already know who it is. And we're back with Ms. Nikki B. My longest friend. Before we start, should we start our segment?

[Ms. K]

Yes, we should.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you want to start? Because these drinks look good.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God, yes. Okay, wait. So what you see over there is my take on a mango stick rice.

[Bretman Rock]

Your take on a mango sticky rice?

[Ms. K]

Well, there's not really sticky rice. It's literally just mango and coconut refreshment. So just make sure to, like, you know, swivel it around.

[Bretman Rock]

You really need to start putting the ice when we start filming, girl.

[Ms. K]

I know. I really forgot about that. Speak to me.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, this is good.

[Nikki B]

No, it's really good. Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Mix it, mix it.

[Nikki B]

It's really done.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, do you see the inclus?

[Nikki B]

Yeah, actually, she. She was talking to him down there.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, Ms. Kade, you ate this up.

[Nikki B]

Oh, thank you, thank you.

[Ms. K]

No, literally, I should have made myself one.

[Bretman Rock]

It matches your. Do you want to take a sip of mine? Oh, my God.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, I haven't tried it yet.

[Bretman Rock]

It's really good. I would never gaslight you like that.

[Nikki B]

It's literally.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, all I have to say is I'm just glad you weren't here for her. Patisse. Coffee.

[Ms. K]

Girl, My fish sauce, you need to take.

[Bretman Rock]

She made a f. Sauce. Latte. Latte. Never make that again, Kiefer.

[Ms. K]

Okay, I'm not the one that Started it.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm trying to keep this damn flour.

[Ms. K]

In my ear, but no, it was very salty.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh.

[Ms. K]

I think it's because we haven't mixed it, like, really good yet.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, but even then it was still nasty.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah.

[Nikki B]

Did you put, like, the teaspoon or something?

[Ms. K]

I did. I didn't know, you know. Okay, so I'm, like, really bad at, like, measurements. I didn't know a teaspoon is like that much.

[Nikki B]

There's a teaspoon and a tablespoon. I think. You did a tablespoon.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, I think I probably did a tablespoon.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

What is the label on that? Tsp.

[Bretman Rock]

TSP TBL is tablespoon.

[Ms. K]

No, I put TSP tb.

[Bretman Rock]

Anyway.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Anyways. It was nasty, but this is good.

[Ms. K]

Thank you. Thank you.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K. What? Do you have any tea of the week?

[Ms. K]

I don't really have any tea of the week, but do you guys have any tea of the week?

[Bretman Rock]

What is going on this week? Oh, my gosh. In pop culture.

[Ms. K]

November. What is in November?

[Bretman Rock]

Well, I would like to announce that Ms. Kat bought us our weekend tickets already because.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my gosh. That is a tea. That is a tea. Yeah. How do you feel about the second movie coming out?

[Bretman Rock]

One, I'm very excited for it, obviously. And two, I love the trailers that I'm seeing, so I do excited.

[Ms. K]

Have you learned the. The soundtrack yet?

[Bretman Rock]

The new.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I have not.

[Ms. K]

I have listened to like, a little bit from, like, their Broadway. I've been listening to that.

[Bretman Rock]

I mean, I know what the next songs are, but I have, obviously, because it's not out yet. I haven't listened to the. The actual Wicked. But I was also going to say by the time this video goes out, I guess you guys will know that Clay and I did Wicked. I was obviously Galinda and she actually wanted to be Elphaba. Everyone always says, like, oh, my gosh, poor little girl. You always make her. Do you always want to be the sexy one? Or like, you always want her to be the second character? And I'm like, first of all, Clay and I take turns every year. And this year was her turn. She wanted to do Wicked. I asked her so many times. Literally, I have videos of her in January saying she wanted to be Elphaba because she wanted to be green and she thinks Elphaba is a better singer. And I'm like, okay, gosh. Which is kind of true, honestly. But you know me, my range is more like, ah.

[Ms. K]

I think I get it. I think she really wants to do that. Whole like. No, the. Are you gay? Oh, yeah.

[Nikki B]

Remember?

[Ms. K]

Did I eat that? Honestly, did I eat.

[Nikki B]

That was time.

[Bretman Rock]

Thank you.

[Ms. K]

You did do it again.

[Bretman Rock]

No. Come on.

[Ms. K]

I.

[Bretman Rock]

My pipes only really have too much accidentally. Yeah. And I think, hopefully, if I'm reading into the future correctly, I hope I did Lapu Lapu for Halloween, because I was dressed in all red yesterday at the. At my.

[Ms. K]

I know. I seen. Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And I was like, wait, I'm giving Lapu Lapu? I have to be a Lapu Lapu for Halloween. Nikki, do you know who Lapu Lapu is being the Filipino queen that you are?

[Ms. K]

No, she's like the one Filipino.

[Bretman Rock]

Lapu Lapu is the guy. Well, he wasn't the one that killed Magellan, but he is.

[Ms. K]

No.

[Nikki B]

Didn't he?

[Bretman Rock]

It was technically like his people. Like, it was all like his group. It's his tribe, but he was the leader of it, so he does get the credit. So. Yeah. Oh, wow.

[Ms. K]

I think I thought he did.

[Bretman Rock]

I love. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

If you look at Lapalapu, he looks like Brett. Girl with the long hair did not.

[Bretman Rock]

Kill Magellan to be reincarnated as me.

[Ms. K]

Bitch. You never know.

[Bretman Rock]

Imagine Lapu Lap was like, damn, I'm in a gay body, babes.

[Ms. K]

You never know what he was back then, right? Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Especially after watching Chief of War, I'm.

[Ms. K]

Like, yeah, what if Lapu Lapu was like, you cheated on me with this other person. I'm gonna kill you.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And Magellan was like, no, you didn't.

[Bretman Rock]

Ew.

[Ms. K]

You never know. You never know. We love being colonized.

[Bretman Rock]

Anyways, since we're talking about our past Halloween costumes, what are you guys going to be for Halloween?

[Ms. K]

I'm already either going to be or.

[Bretman Rock]

What were you guys? Because this is advanced. What were you guys this Halloween?

[Ms. K]

Knowing myself, I wanted to be Mimikyu. But I think I want to be like something easy, like a cowgirl or something, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, what were you for Halloween?

[Nikki B]

I was going to be a little clown. I'm going to take one of your guys costumes.

[Ms. K]

The clown that we will worn out.

[Bretman Rock]

No, those were cute costumes.

[Ms. K]

You should.

[Bretman Rock]

We'll let you borrow.

[Ms. K]

Period. Oh, there you go.

[Bretman Rock]

So that's that. Should I read my journal entry?

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God, yes. What is the tea of the tea?

[Bretman Rock]

The tea of the week. I had a hard time. I was trying to look for a prompt where I was talking about my friends. I know I have. I know I have journal entries where I'm talking about my friends, but I just could not find it. I was like, literally Starting to stress out. But in celebration of literally November and we have like two more months of the year, I wanted to do a checklist of a checklist I made in the beginning of the year where I put what do I want in 2025 and let's see if I accomplished any of this.

[Ms. K]

Any of this.

[Bretman Rock]

Finish my citizenship check.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Go back to the Philippines.

[Ms. K]

Check again. No.

[Bretman Rock]

Travel the world more and get over hating traveling. And guess who's going.

[Ms. K]

Check, check, check, check the girl.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm in my solo traveling era. I'm telling you. Get a gate for the entrance.

[Ms. K]

Not check.

[Bretman Rock]

Don't play with me. That's. That gets like a. A lot.

[Ms. K]

We still have December, so that could be a gift for you.

[Bretman Rock]

For sure. For sure. Best podcast of 2025. Honestly, only I can decide that. Check. And especially with our new producer, Ozzy. Check. I also feel like we should do a public apology for Ozzy. It was raining today and me, Ms.

[Ms. K]

K. No, no, it was Nikki's fault. It was Nikki's fault. Okay, wait. Yeah, okay, go, go, go.

[Bretman Rock]

And I was filming in the rain today, knowing damn well we had to film for the pod.

[Ms. K]

Like yeah, I got here at like 3:30 and we were gonna film at 4. We literally finished filming at 4.

[Bretman Rock]

We finished filming that pod. I mean that TikTok at 4. And I was drenched in the rain. So I was in the shower. Yeah, Ozzy had came on time at 4 o' clock and I was in the shower blow drying, walking around the house. After I got somewhat ready, I'm like, Where's Ozzy?

[Ms. K]

Like 4:30 now.

[Bretman Rock]

Around 4:30, girl, Ozzy was outside. Outside the door in the rain the whole time. So Ozzy, I'm so sorry. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I'm we lucky saw you pulled into and I was like. I literally was like in my head, I was like, okay, I'm gonna go open the door. Yeah, I went straight up and I was like, let me just wait for the doorbell to dick. I haven't. I didn't really hear a doorbell. But then Nikki comes up.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. I was gonna say all that to say it was very much Nikki's fault.

[Ms. K]

Yes. It wasn't my fault. Nikki comes up and was like, oh, someone was singing the doorbell.

[Nikki B]

And I'm like, you don't let in strangers. I was just like, wait, someone has to open the door. Yeah, you're already downstairs. I was like to get my makeup done.

[Bretman Rock]

More hair deals. Check the fuck check. And a check with a cute. She do be getting checks from those. Let's learn how to cook X.

[Ms. K]

Almost there.

[Bretman Rock]

Plant more dream plants and see more gardens. Check. Girl. That is actually my gift for myself this year. I'm replanting my little planters outside. So it's gonna look amazing and be the hottest I've ever been. Honestly, I've checked. No.

[Ms. K]

I feel like I can say, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

This is the cutest I've ever been. Honestly. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Body tea. Face tea.

[Bretman Rock]

Hair tea. Did you guys have any certain goals this year that you can say you checked off? It doesn't have to be as long as mine, but was there a goal that you. Gifford, you got a new car?

[Ms. K]

I did. I was just gonna say that I was like, I needed a new car, so I got that checked off. I started my. My tops top.

[Bretman Rock]

Arg.

[Ms. K]

What is that called?

[Bretman Rock]

Augmentation.

[Ms. K]

Augmentation. So that's a check off. It's not really like, I did it this year, but like, you know, that's next year.

[Bretman Rock]

You're. You're setting it up?

[Ms. K]

Yes. Yes. So I set that up. That's a check off. And then. And I've been focusing on myself. More love.

[Nikki B]

Check.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. Nikki B. Is there anything that was your goal earlier this year that you can check off?

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Nikki B]

Starting my business.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I remember that. We were just talking about that you moved back here.

[Nikki B]

Also getting my boobs done next year.

[Ms. K]

We're in the same schedule, you guys.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Watch out.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, Nikki B. Why is your flower on your left ear? Is a man also in your life?

[Nikki B]

No, unfortunately not, but.

[Ms. K]

Oh, she's manifesting.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh. So why are you. Oh, you're manifesting. Yeah.

[Nikki B]

Also, it just looks cute on the left side.

[Bretman Rock]

It's so sad that I have to wear mine on the right side these days.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm such a pick me.

[Ms. K]

Let me put mine on the right side. Thank you.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Ms. Nikki B. Why do we wear our flowers on a certain side?

[Nikki B]

Left means you're taken and then right means you're single.

[Ms. K]

Why is that? I don't know.

[Bretman Rock]

Because your heart is on the closer to you. But I think it's different in Fiji. It's the other way around.

[Ms. K]

Why?

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know.

[Ms. K]

Well, is it like also the engagements on the left side too?

[Bretman Rock]

Is it?

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

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[Nikki B]

Hi, we're the sports bitches. And no, we're not actual bitches.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, we are.

[Nikki B]

Like, I'm for sure a bitch. Okay, fine, we are. But that doesn't define us.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, we also love sports. We don't just love sports, we, like, love sports.

[Bretman Rock]

Sports.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, we're like sports sickos. Sports addicted. Get these sports into my veins.

[Bretman Rock]

You could call us a couple of sports perverts.

[Nikki B]

Which was the other name for our podcast.

[Bretman Rock]

Speak for yourself.

[Nikki B]

I'm Rachel Bonetta.

[Ms. K]

I'm Sarah Tiana.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm Megan Gailey.

[Nikki B]

And we are the sports. Listen to new episodes of the show every Wednesday, wherever you get your podcasts.

[Bretman Rock]

Should we do our little Q A?

[Ms. K]

Yeah, let's get started.

[Bretman Rock]

All right, y'. All. Okay, let's start with the basics. I will have Ms. K ask since. Since Ms. Nikki B. Is my. My actual best friend, and Ms. K just stole her from me.

[Ms. K]

I did not steal Nikki, Okay? She wanted to be.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl, please. Nikki don't even like Nikki. Don't like anybody. Nikki don't like anybody girl. So that's a lie.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God. Wait, can we say that Nikki did not like anybody?

[Bretman Rock]

Anyone.

[Ms. K]

Any single person that she.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait. Okay, let's. Let's feed the question.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you want to ask how we became friends? And then I'll ask you.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Okay. How did you and Nikki became friends?

[Bretman Rock]

Do you want to start it?

[Nikki B]

Okay, wait.

[Ms. K]

I want to. Both of your perspective. Let's see if it match up.

[Nikki B]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

So it's the same.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, it's pretty much the same. We're both. We're both in the same sport. 1, 2. We are in leadership. I feel like.

[Bretman Rock]

Same grade as well.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, same grade. We weren't in the same, like, classes.

[Bretman Rock]

Or anything, but I will say, because we were the same grade, we were also the two mainly open gays in our classes. I'm sure there was other gay people, but because we were the two openly gay ones, people immediately, like, started comparing us, naturally, because we had the same interest of everything. We get tracked together, volleyball together, student council, leadership, peer helper, jpo.

[Ms. K]

And it didn't have the fact that they're both Filipino.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, Filipinos.

[Ms. K]

Skinny kids.

[Bretman Rock]

And this stemmed from, like, elementary. I remembered, like, early days, me and Nikki would spend a whole recess chasing each other and slapping each other.

[Nikki B]

Playing tag.

[Bretman Rock]

Playing tag. But her tag was like, tag your. And. And it. It really was always, like, a competition with us, too, because, like, we. Not that we had anything to prove.

[Ms. K]

To anybody, but honestly, I feel like that's, like. That was a good reason why you guys brought each other's, like, best out of each other, for sure.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, we. We definitely have the classic enemies to lovers.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

Like, love, hate, relationship.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And then we hit middle school.

[Nikki B]

We hit middle school, and then we were like, you might as well fucking. Oh, sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

No, it's fine.

[Nikki B]

We might as well be friends because, like, we're stuck in the same room, and I don't know if we had.

[Bretman Rock]

A talk or we never had, like, we literally was just, like, we friends.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

We were just like, oh, yeah. Like, we might as well, like, be.

[Bretman Rock]

Friends because literally, like, in middle school, we would always have volleyball in doing research. And Ms. Nikki B. Nobody takes volleyball more seriously. Than Ms. Nikki B. And she would always make sure the ball was spiked at me. But, girl, you know me, bitch. Like, you say jump, I say how high, bitch? I'm a match. I'm a match. You're freak, bitch. And I'm always, like, digging, and I'm like, yeah, bitch. And I think we just reached a point of just like, why the fuck are we competing? When we. We could literally just join teams and, like, make everyone's life miss.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

Also we realized, like, whenever we would go on, like, like, games and stuff like that we would always sit, like, next to each other. Not, like, physically next to each other, but I'll be sitting here and then he'll be sitting on the other side of Jason to me, and we would just be.

[Bretman Rock]

It truly was exposure terror therapy.

[Nikki B]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

You know? Yeah. You know when you surround yourself with someone so much that you're just like.

[Ms. K]

Girl, let's talk to each other.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, that's why I say we met in elementary, but we weren't friends until middle school.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And ever since then, we were just, like, inseparable because, like, it still stayed the same. We still did the same sport. We still saw each other everywhere.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. So you guys were basically with each other every day.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And we were always Mrs. Aloha because.

[Ms. K]

Like, every time you guys would go on a field trip, so you guys would go together. Yeah.

[Nikki B]

But he had his own, like, group of friends. Yeah, I had my own group of.

[Ms. K]

Friends, but they were all friends. But they were all friends as well.

[Bretman Rock]

So that. So that was that. How did you two become friends?

[Ms. K]

I think we became friends with Nikki. And so hanging. Going to your house more. Yeah. Because I didn't really get close to Brian until, like, after high school.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And then after that, we just kept hanging out and I became your assistant. And then they came over a lot every day. And that was like, when we became, like, friends.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

That's when they became Eva fish.

[Ms. K]

Yes. Yes. And I think we just kind of bonded over that. Like, the fact that we, like, we were both trans and, like, we were.

[Bretman Rock]

Just grew up in a similar place. Yeah. And now. Yeah. Be going to your top augmentation together.

[Ms. K]

And getting our shots together. So it's like something that we kind of, like, bonded over.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. How is it like being trans in Hawaii?

[Ms. K]

It's actually very easy.

[Nikki B]

Yeah. It's not as bad as being. Well, for our experience.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Nikki B]

I feel like it's not as bad as you think it is, but it's.

[Ms. K]

Also because I think it helped the fact that we all grew up the same time. And so we were forced to just accept the people that we live from one another. And from elementary to high school, it's the same people.

[Bretman Rock]

And also just growing up, there was so many mahus. Women around us that in a sense we didn't. Or. I'm not trans. Yeah, but like, I'm gay, but I. In a sense, we just never felt.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And then they were very high support. Superiority. What is that called? Superiority? No, the superiority. Something like that.

[Bretman Rock]

Superiority. Superior superiority.

[Ms. K]

Yes. That horde. Yes. Because, like, they were very, like, out there and like every. And every time we had, like, assembly, they were like, very much celebrated upon on because, like, they were always like the center of the show. You know, maybe teachers.

[Nikki B]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Aunties, uncles, even Nikki's graduation party. That was my first drag show ever.

[Nikki B]

Oh, my God. Yes. When Rumors was a thing, it's no longer a thing anywhere.

[Bretman Rock]

And it's so amazing that the drag queens that were on your. Oh, my gosh, graduation party still remembers us, period. It was so iconic.

[Nikki B]

And still doing it.

[Bretman Rock]

And still doing it. So is it hard dating in an island as a trans woman? Because I. I was. Let me just answer real quick. I know it's my question, but as a gay person, it already is. So I can already. I can only imagine how it is as a trans woman.

[Ms. K]

Like, I want to know your perspective because I think it's hard for me.

[Nikki B]

I would say, like, nowadays it's a little easier. I would say, like, probably like five, four years ago. Of course, it was a little bit more harder because the. The whole, like, trans thing was very new to everyone, especially within our community. But I would say, honestly, it's. And for me, it's not too bad, but like, dating, it's like, weird still.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

But yeah, I. I would say it's not too bad.

[Ms. K]

Well, it helps that you're so fishy, so.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, I know. I'm like, is it fishy?

[Ms. K]

Catch.

[Bretman Rock]

Who's cooking?

[Ms. K]

Cine gun.

[Nikki B]

Like, I smell that shit sour the vinegar. But yeah. What about you?

[Ms. K]

I feel like my opinion is the same.

[Nikki B]

It's.

[Ms. K]

It's all right.

[Bretman Rock]

I know. I'm just asking because I'm like, I want you both to have boyfriends so I can be the single friend, honestly.

[Ms. K]

Okay, so this is the, like, this is like, what is happening that I notice a lot of people, a lot of men likes the girls, the dolls in the closet, but they will never want to be seen with us, right next to us or going on Dates. But it's very rare for a person to be like, yeah, let's go out. But at the same time, there could be that that person is not your type at all.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

You know.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you have experiences like that similar?

[Nikki B]

You know damn well. You know damn well I'm inventing to these two especially.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

On like my recent. Were like, you like guys?

[Ms. K]

Yes, because, like, they were.

[Bretman Rock]

When I get that Nikki call in the morning, I'm like, all right, who was it?

[Ms. K]

Who was it? When was it? How was it? No, because like, they're all like super, like lovey dovey when like, like on the phone or like just us together in like a closed space, but outside of that, it's like like 10ft.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Or like we're just. Oh, we're just friends.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, I believe you guys deserve to be and should be celebrated for the woman that you are. And you guys deserve. Obviously, you know this, but I just gotta, you know, let the audience know. These girls deserve the world and they deserve to be loved outside.

[Ms. K]

And I feel like we know that. That's why we're hardly dating because we're so, like, picky about, like, who we date. And it's like, you should. Yeah, we know our worth, girl. Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Queen. Yeah, period. We wanted to Google questions that you should ask your best friends because I feel like I know. I just feel like sometimes I don't even really know what the fuck to ask Nikki for this pod because I'm just like, I know everything about her. So I don't even like asking you a question is like so funny because I'm like, girl, I know how to answer to this.

[Nikki B]

And I'm here every day, guys. Almost every day.

[Ms. K]

Do you want to tell them what we do every day? Nothing. We literally play Smash Bros and watch movies.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Who's your character, Ms. K for smash.

[Ms. K]

It has to be right now either. I can't believe I either Roy or. What is that one when the devil are using Roy? Roy is the guy with the fire thingy. The fist that does.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yes, yes, yes.

[Ms. K]

The human guy.

[Nikki B]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

And then the devil one, the one from Tekken.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, Jin Jin. Yes.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Smash Bros. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

The one that has like, it's very dark and like.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, okay. Mickey, my.

[Nikki B]

I have my top three. One is piranha plant.

[Bretman Rock]

Duh duh.

[Nikki B]

Two Isabelle.

[Bretman Rock]

I know the three.

[Ms. K]

The only character she knows, Nikki has.

[Bretman Rock]

A Mii character in there that she custom made and she's not allowed to use it because she be making it. She be custom making it to be the strongest character. And I'm like, no, Nikki, you can't use that. That doesn't count.

[Ms. K]

Yes. How is it that all our attacks are, like, getting blocked?

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly. And mines. I have top two, obviously. I have Wowzer Jr. And Ranch Bonsai.

[Ozzy]

J.

[Bretman Rock]

The pink one, is it Wendy? No, not Wendy. Wendy's brother, Bowser Jr. No, Bowser Jr. And then the pink.

[Nikki B]

It's Roy.

[Bretman Rock]

It's Roy. I think his name is Roy. No, the pink one.

[Ms. K]

Wendy.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, that's Wendy.

[Bretman Rock]

I know there's a boy pink one, and his name's Roy.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, whatever it is. It's Bowser Jr. And it's different characters.

[Ms. K]

So if you want to, like, come play with us.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Best believe that's gonna be our game. We real comeback.

[Bretman Rock]

We play from, like 6 to 10. It's not even hours.

[Nikki B]

Like, it's. It's crazy. And we scream.

[Bretman Rock]

We. We put in the work.

[Ms. K]

Yes. It's crazy that I can't even battle anyone else but y', all, because none of them is like you guys.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, we're so good. Oh, a. We should play around before you leave, Ozzy, because who's your character, Ozzy? I play youngling.

[Ms. K]

Youngling.

[Bretman Rock]

We play him after this.

[Ms. K]

We play. Okay, but you.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know how do you speak?

[Ms. K]

I don't either.

[Bretman Rock]

Guys, if you guys are watching this, please leave your Smash Bro character in the comments down below. I need to know and there is a right and wrong answer.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And if you are a Kirby bitch. Delete.

[Ms. K]

Fuck you. Delete your ass. That's how I feel about that.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, exactly. Yes. People who play Smash Bros. And your character is curly. You don't play Smash Bro. We are like.

[Ms. K]

We only do Down. B.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl, you A down. B ass.

[Ms. K]

Yes, down.

[Nikki B]

They need to come out with more characters.

[Bretman Rock]

They need to.

[Nikki B]

But, like, please. And more girls.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Nikki B]

We love the girls.

[Ms. K]

Oh, I forgot about Min.

[Bretman Rock]

Min. Okay.

[Ms. K]

Anyways, yeah, we should get to the questions.

[Bretman Rock]

We should get to the questions.

[Ozzy]

What's your all time favorite memory?

[Nikki B]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

My all time.

[Ms. K]

Okay, wait. Okay, let me ask you guys. Okay, okay, Wait, wait. Okay, my. The first question is, what is your all time favorite memory with each other?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, I know.

[Nikki B]

With all of us. I think, like, me and you and just whatever.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You guys want to go first?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I'll go first. Yeah. My all time ever favorite Nicki memory is.

[Ms. K]

Stop. Don't say it. What?

[Bretman Rock]

You don't know what it is? Keeper. No. You know not to Bring that up because it cracks me up.

[Nikki B]

If you're only there, I'll say it.

[Bretman Rock]

You can't do that.

[Nikki B]

We should do.

[Bretman Rock]

We should follow.

[Nikki B]

Like, are you. That should be the screen, Taylor. Okay.

[Ms. K]

Don'T love it. Keep her.

[Bretman Rock]

Do that. It literally. It literally cracks me up, you guys. It's an inside joke, and it's only funny to us. We can't even explain it.

[Nikki B]

We can't explain the full story, but.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, okay, okay, okay, girl.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, hold on. Because once I get the giggles from that memory, it's harder to get it out.

[Nikki B]

Like, never hit it, never misses it, never.

[Bretman Rock]

Hold on.

[Ms. K]

Okay, Sorry, Kiefa.

[Bretman Rock]

Why are you.

[Ms. K]

I thought you were gonna say that.

[Bretman Rock]

I wasn't.

[Nikki B]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

I hate you. That always gets me.

[Nikki B]

We'll tell you after.

[Bretman Rock]

We'll tell you after. Okay, that should be your favorite memory, so you can explain it. But let me start, because once Ms. K tells the story, I will not stop laughing.

[Ms. K]

Wait, I have another favorite memory.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, okay, okay. My favorite memory, with Nikki, obviously. Guys, we were both in leadership together. Leadership is our middle school.

[Ms. K]

Tell the story.

[Bretman Rock]

Tell the story. So I don't know if you guys know this, but the movie Project X was actually based on.

[Nikki B]

No, not that one.

[Bretman Rock]

Was actually based on Nikki. So in eighth grade, Nikki threw a house party. Obviously, we were still enemies at this point. I was not invited, but my favorite memory of it was the after. Because Nikki threw a house party while her parents were on vacation.

[Nikki B]

I believe they're dropping my sister off to college.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. So they were out of town. So Ms. Nikki was like, let's throw a house party, guys.

[Ms. K]

I was bad.

[Nikki B]

Middle school Nikki. I was bad.

[Bretman Rock]

Literally, every time I tell this story, I'm literally like, why was Nikki in leadership? So in eighth grade, Nikki threw a house party. One thing led to another, and her parents found that when they got home, Nikki got in this big, big trouble. And Nikki, I always say, went through a Britney Spears number. Because Ms. Nikki, for as long as I've known Nikki, she had a side bang. She had a long side bang. Mind you, Nikki has always been Nikki since I've known her side long bang girl.

[Nikki B]

Since college.

[Bretman Rock]

The day that her parents got home.

[Ms. K]

He shaved her head. No.

[Nikki B]

Which one?

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki shaved. Nikki shaved her head because she got in trouble. And I think as her frenemy at the time, it was the funniest thing ever. And I remember just always rubbing her head or, like, just making it, making her more miserable than she already was. And I just have fond memory of that because Nikki Actually was my bully, and that was my time to shine. I'm like, yeah, bitch. You have nothing against me, bitch. Because I have hair.

[Ms. K]

You don't.

[Bretman Rock]

You wish you had hair, bitch. So, yeah, I would say that, because that was when the tables flipped and I became Nicki's bully.

[Ms. K]

How do you feel?

[Nikki B]

I have a favorite memory of Brett.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Period.

[Nikki B]

We were at the airport.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God. Nikki.

[Nikki B]

Vicki.

[Ms. K]

Wait, I think I know this one too.

[Bretman Rock]

No. Okay, no, I'll let you tell the story.

[Nikki B]

Brad was freshly on this tour. We were in la. I was there for my first time. Of course. We're in a rush, guys.

[Bretman Rock]

Kaya.

[Nikki B]

But we were like, let's go get some ice cream.

[Bretman Rock]

I was told it was sorbet. They said it was sorbet.

[Nikki B]

We went to the airport.

[Bretman Rock]

We checked. Wait, backstory real quick. I'm lactose. We went to the Santa Monica Pier to get ice cream, which I was told mine was safe and it was sorbet. Okay, fast forward. We're at the airport.

[Nikki B]

We're at the airport. It's like, yeah, I gotta go. I gotta go. Can you come with me? I'm like, I'm moving outside.

[Ms. K]

Say that song again. Say that song again.

[Nikki B]

Oh, it was so gross.

[Bretman Rock]

The way you can hear that from outside. It was the type of. That had you holding on to the walls. And I take a. Especially public toilets with my feet up on the toilet like this. So I was literally like this. Wait, stop. Someone. Someone comes into. So I'm shedding my braids out, y'. All. And someone comes into the bathroom. Nikki's outside. Nikki, is your story. I. You gotta say, laughing.

[Ms. K]

He's like, ew.

[Bretman Rock]

Someone came into the bathroom. I was like, ew, what is that? Oh, my God. What is that? You guys, I don't even know if they can. If they can understand the story.

[Ms. K]

But.

[Bretman Rock]

Basically, I was shedding my brains out in the bathroom.

[Ozzy]

Bathroom.

[Bretman Rock]

Someone walks in and was like, oh, my God, what is that?

[Nikki B]

What is that?

[Bretman Rock]

And Nikki saw this guy, like, come out of the bathroom all terrified.

[Ms. K]

You can stop that.

[Bretman Rock]

Of all stories. Nikki.

[Ms. K]

Actors.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, let's move on.

[Ms. K]

This is not that funny, Kiefer.

[Bretman Rock]

Please don't say the other one. We will not get through this episode. Let me lock in.

[Nikki B]

Can you do a nice one?

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Can you do a non funny? What? Please?

[Ms. K]

Okay, the very. My favorite memory with Nikki. I'm gonna go down.

[Bretman Rock]

Stop.

[Ms. K]

All I can see is your face in the mirror.

[Nikki B]

Stop.

[Ms. K]

My favorite memory with Nikki is when we went to Seattle together. Oh, yes. Yes. We had, like, a little day about.

[Nikki B]

That's when we bonded for the first time.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, the very first time. We, like, actually bonded because we, like.

[Bretman Rock]

Had a whole day together.

[Nikki B]

We had a whole week together, actually. Were you busy? I think it was three, four days.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

That was a very fun day.

[Bretman Rock]

And we just did everything because not all of Nikki's friends make it out of the trip. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I made it out.

[Bretman Rock]

You broke your head for that one.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, twice.

[Bretman Rock]

Mickey's trips always makes it out of.

[Ms. K]

The group chat, but the friends never.

[Bretman Rock]

Make it out of the trip.

[Ms. K]

They never go back to the group chat after.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, I actually left the group chat.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl. We spent 10 minutes answering this question.

[Ms. K]

Foreign.

[Bretman Rock]

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[Ozzy]

Okay, we'll do, like, rapid fire type, and then you have to choose.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, okay, okay.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Ozzy]

So who is most?

[Bretman Rock]

Like, who eats the most?

[Ms. K]

I hate you.

[Bretman Rock]

Who said I love you first?

[Ozzy]

Who is most likely to get caught laughing at something inappropriate and public?

[Bretman Rock]

Me. Us too.

[Nikki B]

Honestly, I feel like we just laughed. Yeah, I feel like us.

[Bretman Rock]

We should point at each other. I'm a point at Nikki. You can point Nikki. I think the question is, who would laugh first? And it's Nikki.

[Ozzy]

Okay, who has the worst taste in music?

[Ms. K]

That would have to be me.

[Bretman Rock]

I would say Ms. K. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

I have the worst taste in music.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K's taste in music is whatever I'm playing.

[Ms. K]

Literally, like, just girls. Ariana Grande, Nicki Minaj, Cardi B. That's all.

[Bretman Rock]

Good. And Nicki loves island music.

[Nikki B]

I do some love some island music, period.

[Ozzy]

Who gives the best advice?

[Ms. K]

Brat.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I would say me. I would never go to y' all for advice. Brat.

[Ms. K]

Brat.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm kidding. Okay, follow up question. Since you both voted me and you know I love talking about myself, what is the best advice I ever gave you?

[Ms. K]

Honestly, I can't say this, but I think the one advice that I was like, okay, I'm gonna listen to Brett, was that person's never gonna change. You just gotta have to go.

[Bretman Rock]

I did either.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And. And did that person change? No.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly.

[Nikki B]

Okay, Nikki, the best advice would be to just do it. You know, when I was, like, having my. All my ideas. When we have our. We have our talks.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Nikki B]

Our bestie talks. I mean, like, dive deep. And when I was, like, talking to him about, like, my plans for this year, he's like, what's holding you back? Or, you know, like, with anything, like, in general. Not even just, like, my ideas. Like, what's holding you back? There's, like, nothing holding you back. So that's one of the pretty things.

[Bretman Rock]

Because I've always been just like, just do it type of girl. Like Nike. Like, I. If I have my eyes and mindset on something, I'm gonna do it. And that's something that a lot of my friends actually in common. Always says about me is that, like, just watching me just do it makes them do it. I don't think I ever, like, really sit all of my friends down and be like, just do it. But I think because they want you. Yeah. Just doing it. They just also follow through as well. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Because it's like, you guys grew up together, and it's like them seeing you, like, do what whatever your heart desires makes them want to do their. Whatever.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly.

[Ms. K]

I think, honestly, from, like, the outside perspective of, like, Brett's friends, they're very much very diverse people. There's like a military person. There's like a model. Actually, there's a pilot. There's a. There's a. There's a bunch of you guys. Yes. A te.

[Bretman Rock]

And all the. Mommy.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

They're such great moms.

[Ms. K]

So I was like, all of them are, like, very successful people. Military, even their own.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

An officer.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I love all my friends. I. I like to think I have a really great taste in France.

[Ms. K]

You do. We guys are all very, like, similar, but yet different.

[Bretman Rock]

But I think in all common that we all have is that we're all very driven people.

[Nikki B]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Goal oriented, if you will.

[Ozzy]

Okay, Ozzy, I'm gonna ask for one person, and then the other two are gonna, like, give their answer.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, okay.

[Ozzy]

Sometimes it matches up. So for Ms. K, what is Ms. K's biggest pet peeve?

[Bretman Rock]

Can you hear yourself? Okay, should I feed that? What is Ms. K's biggest pet peeve?

[Ms. K]

What's my biggest pet peeve?

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, what do you think Ms. K's biggest pet peeve is?

[Nikki B]

I don't know what your biggest pet peeve is. I know what your dislikes are, and I know this bitch doesn't like eggs.

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah.

[Nikki B]

But that's not considered a pet peeve.

[Ms. K]

Pet peeve. Technically, my dislikes are a little bit of, like, my pet peeves.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, I know. Ms. K's pet. One of Ms. K's pet peeves.

[Ms. K]

What?

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K, I think this is just goes as when you were my assistant, but also just noticing how you are. You're very like, you like doing one task at a time. But when you're. When people ask you to do multiple tasks at this or like, you don't like multitasking. You're more of like a one. Like, let me focus on this, and I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do it correctly. You're not really the type of person that if, like, say, if Ms. K was in the middle of something, and you ask her to do something else, she would just be like, okay, I'm not gonna do anything.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

You like to do things one at a time.

[Nikki B]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

You're like a checklist type of girl. You're not.

[Ms. K]

No, because, like, in my head, I have, like, I. I. Whenever I get something, like, I plan everything in my head, and, like, that thing has to be one step at a time until I finish it.

[Bretman Rock]

You're a checklist girl.

[Ms. K]

And if someone, like, disrupts it, I'm like, I don't want to do this anymore. I don't want to do anything.

[Bretman Rock]

But she'd be like, why is everybody asking me to do everything? I'm like, girl, I just said to pass me that.

[Nikki B]

I'm like, also doesn't like being rushed.

[Ms. K]

I think that's a part of that.

[Bretman Rock]

I think that's a part of that. Like, because when you're asking her to do something when she's in the middle of something, she feels rushed. Yeah. So I think that, like, rush.

[Nikki B]

True.

[Bretman Rock]

I think that's it.

[Ms. K]

No, that's two different things. Because I hate it when people do that, and I hate it when people, like, rush me.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

But I hate waiting on people.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that's a valid one. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Miriam, if, like. If I'm waiting on you for, like, 10 minutes, I'm like, okay, I'm gonna leave.

[Ozzy]

Or if you're, like, outside the house.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And they're like, five more minutes, and then five minutes come and they're not there. I gotta get up.

[Ms. K]

Is that, like, something that you want to get out of your chest?

[Bretman Rock]

What?

[Ms. K]

That five minutes thing. Saying, like, they're five minutes away and they're not.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, no, I'm just saying. No, just like, girl, that's Nikki.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Wait, that's like, one of my favorite memory of you guys is when Brett calls me and was like, like, I'm mad. And I was like, why? It's like, because my friends were supposed to meet me, and they weren't there.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, girl. Nikki and I had an episode.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Trust. I need to talk to her for two weeks. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I was feeding Nikki. I'm like, nikki, like, Brad doesn't like you anymore.

[Bretman Rock]

Right, right, right, right. I was like, keefer, tell her. Okay, next question.

[Ozzy]

This one's for Nikki. So what is Nikki's weirdest habit?

[Ms. K]

What is Nikki's biggest, weirdest, weirdest habits?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, girl, I know this weirdest habit. Can I go first?

[Ms. K]

Yeah, go.

[Bretman Rock]

My favorite Nikki weird habit is I always know when A food is good.

[Ms. K]

Nikki does.

[Bretman Rock]

Why does this thing where she'll eat, she'll eat and if it's good, she'll point at it.

[Nikki B]

I look at my photo like she.

[Bretman Rock]

Will eat at first bite if she goes like this. It's good.

[Ms. K]

I don't really know. A weird habit from you.

[Bretman Rock]

She also hates tomatoes. And I noticed that if you bring. If you bring out a tomato around Nikki, especially, like if she orders fries and it comes with ketchup, she will make sure to put the ketchup as far as possible on the edge of the table because she can't even look at it.

[Nikki B]

I can't even smell it. No, I hate it.

[Ms. K]

I think one of Nikki's weirdest habits that I've noticed is when she always has a drink on her hand.

[Bretman Rock]

A cup.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. And it's not even a cup. It's just two cups sometimes, you know.

[Bretman Rock]

She always be double fisting, girl. She got coffee and not coffee.

[Ms. K]

And then she will order more drinks while those two are like unfinished with the extra inclusion. Yes, yes.

[Nikki B]

We love the inclusions.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. I don't think that's weird, but do.

[Bretman Rock]

You have any weird habits that we missed?

[Nikki B]

I don't even know.

[Ms. K]

One weird habit.

[Bretman Rock]

I know one for Ms. K. I know you. This is not a question for Ms. K. But one of Ms. K's weird habits is she will not sleep until something is like a rough is on her feet.

[Nikki B]

Rough?

[Bretman Rock]

What do you mean?

[Ms. K]

Like, you know, the mesh.

[Bretman Rock]

She loves like a mesh thing. Like she won't sleep over unless her feet is rubbing on like something hard.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, like something like texture.

[Bretman Rock]

Like this. Like she literally travels.

[Ms. K]

That's why I'm like this.

[Nikki B]

Like. What do you do?

[Ms. K]

You know, I'm like fidgeting. That's why I like. Like sometimes I'm like this because I like the feeling of it.

[Nikki B]

Oh, you're touching.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, I'm a very touchy. You know why? It's because my mom, like. What is that English word for. What is that thing called? Like.

[Bretman Rock]

Like digging?

[Ms. K]

No, the one that they, you know, like your mom.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh. Had cravings.

[Ms. K]

Cravings. When I was. When she was pregnant with me. She. Her cravings was crabs.

[Bretman Rock]

And you know how crabs like to go and fall and like.

[Ms. K]

And like they like to like.

[Nikki B]

Yeah, yeah. Oh, period.

[Ms. K]

That's the one that made my weirdest.

[Ozzy]

And what's a piece of clothing in Brett's closet that you hate?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, I got rid of it. Ms. K, I know what your answer is. We talked about it last week. Ms. K had hated this one.

[Ms. K]

It's the one Valentino. White and blue bag, studded bag. I hated it so much. I'm always like, why do you have this bag? And I was there when you bought it. Because. Because, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

It was hating then.

[Ms. K]

Yes. It was a Black Friday. It was Black Friday. And then we went to Saxon, and Brett had to get something just to get something, because he was like, I don't want to get out of here without getting anything. So he just got that bag, and it was the ugliest bag ever.

[Bretman Rock]

It never came out.

[Ms. K]

Never came out. I wish she'd seen it, but it's gone.

[Bretman Rock]

Thank God she was donated. Yes.

[Ms. K]

Also, one thing that I don't like, that I've never told you and, like, I just kept it a secret is your tabby shoes.

[Bretman Rock]

That's true. She's more of a statement than. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it.

[Ms. K]

I was like, but that's how I.

[Bretman Rock]

Feel with Crocs now. Yeah. I used to love Crocs, but now I'm like, maybe people weren't right.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, because now you wear clogs.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I'm more of a clog girl. Gardening clogs.

[Ms. K]

Okay. What about you, Nikki?

[Nikki B]

I don't really know. I don't go in your closet, and you're always dressed. I mean, I would probably say.

[Ms. K]

Oh, can I say something? That's, like, one of your weird habits.

[Bretman Rock]

What?

[Ms. K]

From, like, the first question.

[Nikki B]

His.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, he loves to keep, like, broken underwears, like, whole underwears.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know why.

[Ms. K]

I think it's the. Is that, like, a little too much to say?

[Bretman Rock]

No, it's.

[Nikki B]

Whatever.

[Bretman Rock]

No, that's so funny you said that, because Kat is literally counting down the days where we get to go through my drawer of closet of underwear because I'm subscribe to. I think it's called Underwear Expert, where I get new underwear every month. So my underwear drawer, y', all, it's like three stories high. There's. You don't need that much underwear. Yeah, my underwear is literally three stories, and it's just filled with old underwear, new underwear, and then underwear that I haven't even opened yet because I just refuse to. I think it's just, like the inner broke kid in me that, like. Yeah. But also, I'm like, I just.

[Ms. K]

The most comfortable because you, like, slept in it and whatever. Whatever.

[Bretman Rock]

But now that you mentioned that, it's so crazy that I go through all of my clothes every April, but not your underwear. But never my underwear. I don't know why, but you always.

[Ms. K]

Go for, like, sometimes, like.

[Bretman Rock]

And I always prefer my older. Even though I have new underwear, I'm like, let me wear this one with a hole that's, like, ripping and, like, holding by the.

[Ms. K]

That was like. I was like, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Oh, and also one more thing. That one Weird. Sorry. To, like, answer the past question. It all came out to me, you know how, like, when it's on the spot, it's like, not like everything lives your head one weird. Another one weird memory about Brett is he loves to pee outside. He has five bathrooms, but he will go, like, literally, if we were in the attic, like, literally the third floor of his house. He will go all the way down, go outside just to pee.

[Bretman Rock]

If I could shit outside.

[Ms. K]

And I'm like, why do you do that when you have, like, five bathrooms and they're like, no.

[Bretman Rock]

Literally available. Even my midnight pee, y'. All.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, I literally. That's scary.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I know. I don't know why I'm more so scared to go in the bathroom than, like, outside. It's not even a scary thing, I think. I don't know. I just do it. It's just one of those things that I just do naturally.

[Ms. K]

He's like, hit the sliding door to go outside in the bathroom and goes to the sliding door.

[Nikki B]

Ah.

[Bretman Rock]

Why?

[Ozzy]

That's more like a weird habit.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Nikki, you didn't even answer. My word. I don't know.

[Nikki B]

I don't think you ever.

[Bretman Rock]

That was the right answer anyways.

[Nikki B]

Period.

[Ozzy]

Yeah, I don't know this one. So I think these three, you guys can all talk about it. What is a lesson about yourself that you learned from one of your friends?

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, do you wanna repeat this question?

[Nikki B]

What is a lesson about ourself that we learned from our friends?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my gosh.

[Nikki B]

Fall from each other.

[Bretman Rock]

What did Nikki or Ms. K teach me about myself?

[Ms. K]

Can I say? I always say this. Like, what I learned from you guys is, like, literally just confidence. These are the two confident. The most confident people I know is, like, literally Brett and Nikki, you know, and, like, they show me two different confidence. Do you know what I mean? It's like, Brett always gives me the confidence of, like, being always, like, I can do anything I want. Like, let me just live my life. And, like, Nikki is, like, the one that helped me confident with, like, being me, being me as a person. So that's what I get from you guys. That's why I like hanging out with you guys.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yeah. Nikki, do you want to go next hey.

[Ms. K]

Hey, you. Nikki.

[Nikki B]

I. Honestly, one thing that I've learned from both of you is originality.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God.

[Nikki B]

Damn.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that's so original. That is such an original accent.

[Nikki B]

It is.

[Ms. K]

I've never heard of it before.

[Nikki B]

No, for real, though. But, like, whenever I'm with other people, it's very much, like, routine or, like, you know, it's always safe things to do. And there's, like, not. I don't want to say, like, they're not original, but, like, you guys are so unique to where your lifestyle is also original. Like, you know, like, the way you dress or, like, the way that you are. You're just very unique. And, like, you don't see that all the time. And, like, I don't know. Even with you, of course, like, you're very original. You don't copy things. Like, that's.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I love. Love.

[Ms. K]

I love that, too. Thank you.

[Bretman Rock]

I think for me, it's. It's far beyond, like, a lesson. I think it's more of, like, a reminder. Like, I love hanging out with you guys because I feel like every time I hang out with you guys, there's a sense of, like, humanity in it. But also, even though. Even though we're just, like, hanging out, playing Smash Bros, like. Like, I feel like my most. 100% with Y', all, and I think being around y' all is a constant reminder of, like, the roots that I.

[Ms. K]

The.

[Bretman Rock]

That I have and, like, where I come from. And I think that's why I love travel, especially with Ms. K. When I travel with her, she's quite literally my rock. Like, she reminds me of home, family. And same with Nikki. And especially with what I do, obviously, like, it's very hard, very easy for me to, like, be grand and, like, be extra and, like, fly high. But I feel like I can never fly too high when I have these two around me because they're always just down to, like, ground and, like, just really remind me of where I come from, who I really am, and, like, the values that I have, because they are very similar to the values you guys have. And. Yeah, I think you guys just keep me human. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Can I add on to that? I feel like. Because I don't think. Well, Nikki. No, Nikki. Seen you working before.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And I feel like, like, in a sense of your job, you have to be an adult all the time. And I feel like when me, Nikki, like, your other friends come in, I feel like they give you that sense of, like, playfulness.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And, like, just feeling like kid again from, like, High school, you know, kind of thing where it's like, oh, I can relax, you know? I know.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. No, for sure. No, I know what you're saying. It's very much that.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Should we do one last question? Yes, we should. That was such a good question. Honestly.

[Nikki B]

It was a good one.

[Ms. K]

I'm gonna ask that every time there.

[Ozzy]

So what was the. What was the moment when you guys realized, like, oh, this is my best.

[Bretman Rock]

I didn't have that choice.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, maybe. Maybe we'll have an. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

I think. I can't really say this, but I think there's those moments where I can't really say this.

[Bretman Rock]

Continues to say it.

[Ms. K]

No, but, like, I can't say the situation, but there's like, those moments where, like, literally, if I have, like, no one else to call, I would literally call Nikki. And she would always answer, and then she first ring. Yes. And she would always have, like. She would always keep it. Like, you know, it's never gonna go anywhere. And I was like, okay. And she always has, like, the. An answer to, like, the answer for it at that time, at that moment. And I feel like I could share anything with Nikki, and I will not get judged for it. So. And I've. Ever since then, I was like, wow, this is going to be my friends forever. And then that one time I realized that I was going to be your friend forever. It's like, remember when we were in the car ride, it was me and you, and then we left Brett's house, and I was like. I literally turned to Nicki, and I.

[Bretman Rock]

Was like, I know you don't have.

[Ms. K]

To be my friend, but thank you for being my friend. And ever since then, I was like, hey, you're stuck with me forever.

[Bretman Rock]

You're my sis. Yeah. Yeah, for sure.

[Nikki B]

All of you. Love y'.

[Bretman Rock]

All for me. Oh, and Nikki, you have to say the answer for the both of us, too.

[Nikki B]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

For me, I knew Nikki was my best friend for lifer. Actually was summer of 2017. I know it sucks that it took me that long to realize that you're my bestie. No, but this is when I realized, like, this is my girl for life. Like, we gonna get old together type shit.

[Ms. K]

But it's like, summer of 2025.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, actually, when you came over yesterday, I had a realization that, like. Like, maybe you are my friend.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, we're not there yet, but I. I do believe that we are working on being best friends.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I. I would say I know it's sad that it took me this long, but I think I'm just very picky with my friends. And I think at the time, too, I just, like. I just really never realized, like, what best friends were until, like. Like was summer of 2017, when I could not get rid of Nikki. Nikki was in my house every damn day.

[Ms. K]

Wait, was that year?

[Bretman Rock]

He literally was in my house the whole summer of 2017, the year we graduated, the only times where Nikki would go home was to go get new clothes.

[Ms. K]

Was that the time when you guys all got sick together?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And we had sleepovers every day, and I would scam all my friends to, like, do chores for me. I'm like, nikki, you got the dogs today, period. Jeanette, you got the dishes, and I will be doing my makeup. My real first assistants were my best friends.

[Ms. K]

You're like, I'm paying the bills.

[Bretman Rock]

But, yeah, I would say, like, that summer is when our friendship of foreverness was really solidified. Because, girl, when y' all left for college, bitch. Sad Minaj. I was literally like, oh, my. I was counting down the days for my friends to come back home, bitch. Yeah. It got to a point where, like, Nikki, I will pay. Pay for you to come back home real quick. You're like, no, not just me, but, like, our friend. We all, like, chipped in to get Nikki back home.

[Nikki B]

I was like, okay, period. I'm coming home.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, so I would say that, but I think when I realized Nikki is my best friend, period, was like, track. Yeah, it was just track. Like, literally every practice, the first person I would look for is Nikki and Jeanette. I'm like, where the is my friends? Every track meets, I was next to Nikki. Every 4x1, 4x4, it was always me and Nikki, first and third leg. Always. Don't play. Don't play. We didn't even talk about that lore of our of us dance.

[Ms. K]

You just want to come back because there's so much more to come back, you guys. There's like, Brett, Nikki. They all, like. There's, like, moments where they did photo shoots together. They even choreographed dances together. Like, they did a lot.

[Bretman Rock]

You're just gonna have to come back.

[Ms. K]

Come back y. With Jeanette. With Jeanette.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. Okay. Well, before we move on to the product of the day, if you guys like having Nikki on the pod, let us know in the comments down below. This is probably, like, the funny. One of our funniest podcasts ever, because I have. I. I'm so late saving my laughter for. Are you.

[Ms. K]

Are you. Don't start with that. And we have to tell them why. That's so funny.

[Nikki B]

That's. That's another episode.

[Ms. K]

It's like one whole episode when she knew.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Oh, yeah, yeah. Hold on. Oh, Nikki, when did you know you were best friends with Ms. K? And when did you know you were my best friend?

[Nikki B]

I knew Ms. K was my best friend. It was that same car ride.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Nikki B]

It was. Honestly, I cried when I got home. I don't, like, I share. I show my emotions in front of my friends.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

But when it's, like, very deep or whatever, I don't like showing that side. And I feel like that's the same with them, too. Like, we. I feel like growing up, like, we always, like, try to, like, hide our emotions.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Nikki B]

But I feel like within that moment, it was just a time where we actually did share our emotions, and it was just like, oh, my God, like.

[Bretman Rock]

Why did I hate you?

[Ms. K]

No, literally, you do behave like everybody.

[Bretman Rock]

I hate it.

[Ms. K]

The wedding, leaving to Nikki.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki hates when I tell y'.

[Nikki B]

All.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki hates everybody.

[Nikki B]

No, not anymore.

[Ms. K]

You could be, like, just waiting on the side and, like, get hated on. Yeah, literally me. Sorry.

[Bretman Rock]

God forbid you have the same crush as Nikki. If you know Nikki has a crush.

[Ms. K]

On someone that's hers, you're not even allowed to look at that person. Nothing.

[Bretman Rock]

Nothing, girl. Yeah. What about me? Nikki?

[Nikki B]

It was. It was leadership days when we went on a retreat.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God. Yeah. That was giving bestie vibes.

[Nikki B]

It was. Well, we were limited to, like, who we could talk to, like, five other.

[Bretman Rock]

People or who you wanted to talk to, girl. Because, like I said, Nikki hates everybody.

[Ms. K]

What? So there's, like, like, six of y' all and, like, three of them. You don't like. So there's, like, three left?

[Bretman Rock]

Well, yeah.

[Ms. K]

Sounds about right.

[Nikki B]

I guess I'll talk to rap. But even I feel like within those moments, like, I realized, like, wow, like, of all people, or, like, even, like, with all people, like, that I could get to know. I feel like we were also very similar in terms of, like. Like, just majority of the things that we are going on and within that lifetime or that era. But I feel like it's solidified in track.

[Bretman Rock]

For sure.

[Nikki B]

It's solidified in track because then we didn't realize what we were like, hanging out every day, like, literally, like, after practice, right before.

[Ms. K]

Those are the best friendship, though. It's like, when you don't realize it.

[Bretman Rock]

You guys are always, oh, my God. We are best friends.

[Nikki B]

We just be like, oh, what are you doing?

[Ms. K]

Like, yeah, you'll just, like, start remembering memories and you're like, oh, my God, that person was there.

[Nikki B]

Yes, Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

I think that's exactly what that is. Like, Nikki was always there. We were friends or not.

[Ms. K]

Every day.

[Nikki B]

I'm everywhere.

[Bretman Rock]

Watch out.

[Nikki B]

I'm everywhere. Like, you know, Mia. Like Nicki Mia, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, like I said, let us know if you guys want Ms. Nikki be back. Should we do product of the day?

[Ms. K]

Yes, we should.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, would you like to lead the product of the day? Yes.

[Nikki B]

It's my top period. So we went to tav.

[Ms. K]

I thought you were gonna say your jewelry.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, she can do both. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Nikki B]

Period. I have my jewelry. I made my earrings because I really.

[Bretman Rock]

Love the jewelry Sea Breeze Collective.

[Nikki B]

I made my necklace.

[Ms. K]

What? You made it? See what they did there? Now, this is where you vlog.

[Bretman Rock]

This is where you vlog. Where can I get such hair?

[Nikki B]

You just collect them. Watch out. But, yeah, I make my own Tahin pearl jewelry. But also.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I. I'm so glad you got that because we. I was with you when you were trying it on.

[Nikki B]

Yes. I was like, no, I have to get it. I have to get it.

[Bretman Rock]

It feels so good.

[Nikki B]

No, it, like, so sheer.

[Ms. K]

We went to this. This store. Well, Nikki went to this. We all went to this store. And then we all. Yeah. And then we all looked at the price and we were like, oh, crap, it's a little expensive. And then we kind of. Just before I started.

[Bretman Rock]

It's so good.

[Nikki B]

It's like, oh, my gosh, it's worth.

[Ms. K]

It's such a good.

[Nikki B]

It's a scarf, but I put it into a top. And then yesterday I used it as a pill. So I feel like it's very versatile. Very, very versatile. I love the color. I love the design. We love supporting local businesses.

[Bretman Rock]

So in that order, should I go next? Yeah, my. I also have two products of the week, and they have been my two best friends of gardening lately. I'm. If you guys watch me garden ever, you guys know. Oh, I always have this hat. I got a TikTok shop. I love it because it has two fans right here and you can point it at your face. And I just get really sweaty. And speaking of sweaty, there's also this clip on fan that I love. You clip it at the back. On your back or in the front? Like, let me give you an example. You clip it in the front like this, and then you put your shirt over it.

[Nikki B]

Okay. Skims.

[Bretman Rock]

And when you turn it on.

[Ms. K]

Oh, is it that.

[Bretman Rock]

It just like blows air into your shirt and you don't get sweaty. Oh, like that. And it's like puff set.

[Ms. K]

You need to be like a spokesman for farming.

[Bretman Rock]

That is so cooling. Nikki, you need these during your, like, farmer's market days. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Or you're like wedding company days.

[Bretman Rock]

Weddings, yum.

[Nikki B]

All the deets. That's my wedding company work for.

[Ms. K]

Oh, my turn. My product of the day is this insert name here. Quick. Slick Hair essence. So this one is like a little mascara that you use for your hair to just like slick everything down. I didn't really sneak slick everything down, but I used it for my bangs. That's why it's like just literally like this. Literally. It never moved ever since I was like, yeah, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Nikki, where can people find you?

[Nikki B]

You can find me at Lovenikki. B L U V N I C K I I B on Instagram, period. And Sea Breeze.

[Bretman Rock]

And Sea Breeze. Oh, sorry.

[Nikki B]

And Sea Breeze. S E A V R Z Collective, period.

[Ms. K]

Get your Pearl necklaces now.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K. Where can they find you, girl?

[Ms. K]

You guys can find me at the.

[Nikki B]

Fattest radio right here.

[Ms. K]

And M I S K A Y E N. Where?

[Bretman Rock]

And you guys already know a bad bitch when you see one. It's Bretman Rock everywhere. And I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. The baddest radio. Please give it a good rating everywhere. And I will see you guys next Thursday. I know I said this so many times and I sound like a broken record, but if you guys want Nikki back, comment down below.

[Ms. K]

Just let us know. Just let us know. Because if you guys don't want. It's fine.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I'll be back.

[Ms. K]

It's fine.

[Bretman Rock]

Regardless, like I said, she's always around.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah, please, nicely.

[Bretman Rock]

Anyways, we have to go. We gotta break down and set up for our Smash bro game because Ozzy swears he can whoop our ass. So we'll see if Ozzy is surprisingly fired. It's cause he beat us.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Cause.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

So if Ozzy's not on the next episode, it's cause yeah, nobody. Nobody beats me, girl. Like, and I'm a sword. Bye, everybody.

[Nikki B]

Aloha, Aloha.

[Ms. K]

Bye, Peach.

[Bretman Rock]

I'll see you next Thursday. Yeah. Don't forget to follow rate and like, you can follow me at Bretman Roth on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media.

[Ms. K]

Bye, Beach.

[Bretman Rock]

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