Transcript

A (0:01)

The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hello. Hello, everybody. It is Thursday yet again, and as you can see. Where are we? Oh, yeah, period. Sorry, where are we? Ms. K?

B (0:15)

We're at the old studio. Yes.

A (0:19)

And we will be here until I.

B (0:22)

Get the weather clears up.

A (0:23)

Well, the weather clears up and it actually worked out because it's raining today and I was like, girl, every time we shoot outside, it is literally a new problem. Every single time. Yes.

B (0:34)

And all of your equipment are like literally outside when we were filming outside.

A (0:37)

Yes. And I think I just need to figure out, like, what, babe, I'm out of breath. What'd you even do?

B (0:44)

I literally ran up the stairs.

A (0:47)

She changed her shirt.

B (0:48)

I did.

A (0:50)

But I was saying, every time we shoot outside, it's easy. They're always the lighting, the audio and the focus. And it's just like, so hard to figure out. Especially because we don't have, like a real proper producer. All respect to Kat, but this is just not her niche. Like, audio is not her niche, camera's not her niche. Just like how cooking is not in my niche. I would never be in Kat's kitchen. You know what I mean?

B (1:16)

So.

A (1:16)

But I do think by. I want to say by October, we're going to have a in house producer by then. So bear with us for the next couple episodes, we're going to be back in the stew and who knows if we're even going to go back outside because, girl, it is literally a new problem every single time. And just even in the past five minutes that we've just been shooting this.

B (1:37)

And I love the ac. I'm not going to lie.

A (1:39)

I'm not sweating. I'm not worried about the birds chirping. I'm not worried about the lighting changing. Girl, it's giving. We're gonna be inside for a second until we figure it out. So let's just get that out of the way while we're inside and let's get into this week's video. Cue in the intro. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we're back.

Summary

DaBaddest Radio — "Highly Guided, Highly Gorgeous"

Host: Bretman Rock | Co-host: Ms. K | Date: September 25, 2025

Episode Overview

This episode of DaBaddest Radio is a lively, confidence-boosting conversation between Bretman Rock and his co-host Ms. K, centered around themes of self-love, good hair days, navigating relationships, manifesting beautiful outcomes, and hilarious views on life’s small and big moments. With characteristic wit and unfiltered honesty, Bretman and Ms. K share personal anecdotes highlighting the importance of living unapologetically, embracing one’s mistakes, and the inexplicable ways the universe seems to guide them.

Studio Vibes and Podcast Setup

[00:01–02:11]

The episode opens with playful banter about the recording space. Due to unpredictable weather, the team has returned to their indoor studio, appreciating the controlled AC, absence of birds, and consistent lighting.
Notable Quote:
- "Girl, every time we shoot outside, it is literally a new problem. Every single time." – Bretman [00:23]
The hosts joke about production mishaps and promise improvement with an in-house producer in October.

Iconic Hair & Home Brewed Drinks

[02:12–04:44]

Ms. K immediately comments on Bretman’s hair (“shining, shimmering, glimmering, splendid” [02:23]), leading to a mini-hair tutorial promise.
Transitioning into their traditional “drinkity drank” segment, Ms. K presents a strawberry-mango tea with dragon fruit (grown by Bretman).
They debate fruit size and texture, with friendly roasting over kitchen skills.
Notable Moment:
- “The tea in itself is really good, but I wish you had diced even… maybe even smash it.” – Bretman [03:41]
Discussion turns to the taste of matcha; both react amusedly to people saying “it tastes like grass,” segues into nostalgic confessions about the odd scents (like plastic and gasoline) they liked as kids.

"Tea of the Week": Coachella Lineup & Music Fandom

[05:22–11:41]

Ms. K shares that the Coachella lineup has dropped, highlighting the first Filipina girl group, BINI, performing on stage—a proud moment for both.
They discuss backstage industry secrets (teams often keep performance invites confidential), and Bretman reveals he was nearly in a Cat’s Eye music video.
The hosts reminisce about past trips, festival memories, and favorite artists (Sabrina Carpenter, Giveon, Justin Bieber, Carol G).
Notable Quote:
- “I want baby. I want baby. You know, like OG.” – Bretman, hoping Justin Bieber performs his hits [11:30]

Social Media Rants: Twitter/X and Self-Validation

[12:00–15:40]

Bretman considers deleting his X (Twitter) due to negativity, likening the platform to being “at a barbershop as a gay person” or being “dabbed up” by straight men — both awkward experiences.
The duo reads Bretman’s last three tweets, discussing confidence, the meaning of mistakes, and tongue-in-cheek birthday wishes for love.
Notable Quote:
- “Even when I make mistakes, I’m guided. Someone’s supporting me to make that mistake—or like, I was supposed to make that mistake.” – Bretman [14:24]

Healthy Heartbreaks and Relationship Reflections

[17:49–20:28]

Bretman addresses frequent DMs about handling breakups, describing a healing process rooted in self-completion.
Notable Insights:
- “I went in there as a complete human being… there is nothing this relationship could take away from me because I'm already a complete person.” [18:18]
- He contrasts a healthy breakup “leaving it at love” to a prior relationship that ended in hate, attributing the difference to his own growth and confidence.
Ms. K and Bretman both joke about being in their “Ugh, man era,” expressing cynicism but also self-assurance post-heartbreak.

Catching Up: Concerts, Friends, and Dating Woes

[20:34–26:21]

Ms. K recounts going to a Fiji concert, the fun "reunion" vibes, and highlights from reggae performances.
Bretman proudly shares being on a Spotify cover for a Fiji song (“Give Me All”).
Conversation turns to Ms. K’s short-lived romance, broken off due to partner’s clinginess.
- Memorable Quote:
  - “He was very clingy. I’m like, girl, let me breathe.” – Ms. K [25:13]
- Contrasting, Bretman (a Leo!) admits he wants a partner obsessed with him.

Guided by the Universe: Full-Circle Moments

[26:30–32:22]

Bretman narrates a moving “guided by the universe” story involving his old friend Uncle Rod’s legacy, unexpected connections with plant shop uncles, and hiring someone whose name matches his father's.
The two marvel at the “coincidences” of names and encounters, attributing them to universal guidance or even messages from passed loved ones.
- Notable Quote:
  - “I swear, like, my dad and Uncle Rod is up there… doing a collab up there to guide me.” – Bretman [31:07]

Lost & Found: Manifesting Good Luck

[32:10–41:51]

Bretman hilariously recounts losing his wallet after a night out, using an AirTag to track it through a series of false leads and neighborly encounters, culminating in two fans (post Taco Bell run) helping recover it.
Highlight:
- The story reinforces the theme that “the universe always works out” for him, attributing luck to self-love and positive energy.
Ms. K remarks on the “pairs” that always follow Bretman, like “two” helpers, friends, or guides, underscoring a mystical feel.

Product of the Day

[42:22–45:13]

Ms. K spotlights African Shea Butter (bought from Bretman), raving about its effectiveness on dry skin.
Bretman shares his love for Anua’s PDRN Hyaluron 100 Plus moisturizing cream (which contains salmon sperm and hyaluron).
Amused, they joke about animal-derived skincare ingredients (salmon, birds, snails), tying it to flawless skin.
- Memorable Exchange:
  - “I’ve never seen a salmon with a pimple. I need their skincare routine.” – Bretman [44:43]
  - “You ever seen a snail with a wrinkle?” – Bretman [45:07]

Closing Vibes & Takeaways

[45:17–End]

The show closes with gratitude, reminders to live boldly, upcoming plans (hinting at a future “drunk episode”), and plugs for Bretman and Ms. K’s socials.
The signature message: Love yourself first, and embrace every weird, wonderful, and guided moment life hands you.

Notable Quotes (with Timestamps)

“Even when I make mistakes, I’m guided. Someone’s supporting me to make that mistake… I was supposed to make that mistake.” – Bretman [14:24]
“I went in there as a complete human being… there is nothing this relationship could take away from me because I’m already a complete person.” – Bretman [18:18]
“He was very clingy. I’m like, girl, let me breathe.” – Ms. K [25:13]
“I swear, like, my dad and Uncle Rod is up there… doing a collab up there to guide me.” – Bretman [31:07]
“I’ve never seen a salmon with a pimple. I need their skincare routine.” – Bretman [44:43]
“You ever seen a snail with a wrinkle?” – Bretman [45:07]

Episode Flow: Segment Timestamps

| Segment | Timestamp | | -------------------------------------- | ---------- | | Studio banter & weather | 00:01–02:11| | Hair chat & drink segment | 02:12–04:44| | Coachella/music talk | 05:22–11:41| | Twitter/X reflections | 12:00–15:40| | Relationships & healing | 17:49–20:28| | Concert & dating stories | 20:34–26:21| | Universe guidance/plants story | 26:30–32:22| | Lost wallet: Manifestation story | 32:10–41:51| | Product of the day | 42:22–45:13| | Closing remarks | 45:17–End |

For New Listeners

This episode is classic Bretman: part tutorial, part therapy, all-around uplifting. It’s a celebration of self-assurance, the funny messiness of life, and the little ways the universe proves you’re “highly guided, highly gorgeous.” Whether you’re nursing a breakup, manifesting luck, or just need a laugh, this is an episode for the baddest and boldest.