Highly Guided, Highly Gorgeous

Summary

DaBaddest Radio — "Highly Guided, Highly Gorgeous"

Host: Bretman Rock | Co-host: Ms. K | Date: September 25, 2025

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Episode Overview

This episode of DaBaddest Radio is a lively, confidence-boosting conversation between Bretman Rock and his co-host Ms. K, centered around themes of self-love, good hair days, navigating relationships, manifesting beautiful outcomes, and hilarious views on life’s small and big moments. With characteristic wit and unfiltered honesty, Bretman and Ms. K share personal anecdotes highlighting the importance of living unapologetically, embracing one’s mistakes, and the inexplicable ways the universe seems to guide them.

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Studio Vibes and Podcast Setup

[00:01–02:11]

• The episode opens with playful banter about the recording space. Due to unpredictable weather, the team has returned to their indoor studio, appreciating the controlled AC, absence of birds, and consistent lighting.
• Notable Quote:
  • "Girl, every time we shoot outside, it is literally a new problem. Every single time." – Bretman [00:23]
• The hosts joke about production mishaps and promise improvement with an in-house producer in October.

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Iconic Hair & Home Brewed Drinks

[02:12–04:44]

• Ms. K immediately comments on Bretman’s hair (“shining, shimmering, glimmering, splendid” [02:23]), leading to a mini-hair tutorial promise.
• Transitioning into their traditional “drinkity drank” segment, Ms. K presents a strawberry-mango tea with dragon fruit (grown by Bretman).
• They debate fruit size and texture, with friendly roasting over kitchen skills.
• Notable Moment:
  • “The tea in itself is really good, but I wish you had diced even… maybe even smash it.” – Bretman [03:41]
• Discussion turns to the taste of matcha; both react amusedly to people saying “it tastes like grass,” segues into nostalgic confessions about the odd scents (like plastic and gasoline) they liked as kids.

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"Tea of the Week": Coachella Lineup & Music Fandom

[05:22–11:41]

• Ms. K shares that the Coachella lineup has dropped, highlighting the first Filipina girl group, BINI, performing on stage—a proud moment for both.
• They discuss backstage industry secrets (teams often keep performance invites confidential), and Bretman reveals he was nearly in a Cat’s Eye music video.
• The hosts reminisce about past trips, festival memories, and favorite artists (Sabrina Carpenter, Giveon, Justin Bieber, Carol G).
• Notable Quote:
  • “I want baby. I want baby. You know, like OG.” – Bretman, hoping Justin Bieber performs his hits [11:30]

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Social Media Rants: Twitter/X and Self-Validation

[12:00–15:40]

• Bretman considers deleting his X (Twitter) due to negativity, likening the platform to being “at a barbershop as a gay person” or being “dabbed up” by straight men — both awkward experiences.
• The duo reads Bretman’s last three tweets, discussing confidence, the meaning of mistakes, and tongue-in-cheek birthday wishes for love.
• Notable Quote:
  • “Even when I make mistakes, I’m guided. Someone’s supporting me to make that mistake—or like, I was supposed to make that mistake.” – Bretman [14:24]

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Healthy Heartbreaks and Relationship Reflections

[17:49–20:28]

• Bretman addresses frequent DMs about handling breakups, describing a healing process rooted in self-completion.
• Notable Insights:
  • “I went in there as a complete human being… there is nothing this relationship could take away from me because I'm already a complete person.” [18:18]
  • He contrasts a healthy breakup “leaving it at love” to a prior relationship that ended in hate, attributing the difference to his own growth and confidence.
• Ms. K and Bretman both joke about being in their “Ugh, man era,” expressing cynicism but also self-assurance post-heartbreak.

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Catching Up: Concerts, Friends, and Dating Woes

[20:34–26:21]

• Ms. K recounts going to a Fiji concert, the fun "reunion" vibes, and highlights from reggae performances.
• Bretman proudly shares being on a Spotify cover for a Fiji song (“Give Me All”).
• Conversation turns to Ms. K’s short-lived romance, broken off due to partner’s clinginess.
  • Memorable Quote:
    • “He was very clingy. I’m like, girl, let me breathe.” – Ms. K [25:13]
  • Contrasting, Bretman (a Leo!) admits he wants a partner obsessed with him.

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Guided by the Universe: Full-Circle Moments

[26:30–32:22]

• Bretman narrates a moving “guided by the universe” story involving his old friend Uncle Rod’s legacy, unexpected connections with plant shop uncles, and hiring someone whose name matches his father's.
• The two marvel at the “coincidences” of names and encounters, attributing them to universal guidance or even messages from passed loved ones.
  • Notable Quote:
    • “I swear, like, my dad and Uncle Rod is up there… doing a collab up there to guide me.” – Bretman [31:07]

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Lost & Found: Manifesting Good Luck

[32:10–41:51]

• Bretman hilariously recounts losing his wallet after a night out, using an AirTag to track it through a series of false leads and neighborly encounters, culminating in two fans (post Taco Bell run) helping recover it.
• Highlight:
  • The story reinforces the theme that “the universe always works out” for him, attributing luck to self-love and positive energy.
• Ms. K remarks on the “pairs” that always follow Bretman, like “two” helpers, friends, or guides, underscoring a mystical feel.

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Product of the Day

[42:22–45:13]

• Ms. K spotlights African Shea Butter (bought from Bretman), raving about its effectiveness on dry skin.
• Bretman shares his love for Anua’s PDRN Hyaluron 100 Plus moisturizing cream (which contains salmon sperm and hyaluron).
• Amused, they joke about animal-derived skincare ingredients (salmon, birds, snails), tying it to flawless skin.
  • Memorable Exchange:
    • “I’ve never seen a salmon with a pimple. I need their skincare routine.” – Bretman [44:43]
    • “You ever seen a snail with a wrinkle?” – Bretman [45:07]

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Closing Vibes & Takeaways

[45:17–End]

• The show closes with gratitude, reminders to live boldly, upcoming plans (hinting at a future “drunk episode”), and plugs for Bretman and Ms. K’s socials.
• The signature message: Love yourself first, and embrace every weird, wonderful, and guided moment life hands you.

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Notable Quotes (with Timestamps)

• “Even when I make mistakes, I’m guided. Someone’s supporting me to make that mistake… I was supposed to make that mistake.” – Bretman [14:24]
• “I went in there as a complete human being… there is nothing this relationship could take away from me because I’m already a complete person.” – Bretman [18:18]
• “He was very clingy. I’m like, girl, let me breathe.” – Ms. K [25:13]
• “I swear, like, my dad and Uncle Rod is up there… doing a collab up there to guide me.” – Bretman [31:07]
• “I’ve never seen a salmon with a pimple. I need their skincare routine.” – Bretman [44:43]
• “You ever seen a snail with a wrinkle?” – Bretman [45:07]

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Episode Flow: Segment Timestamps

| Segment | Timestamp | | -------------------------------------- | ---------- | | Studio banter & weather | 00:01–02:11| | Hair chat & drink segment | 02:12–04:44| | Coachella/music talk | 05:22–11:41| | Twitter/X reflections | 12:00–15:40| | Relationships & healing | 17:49–20:28| | Concert & dating stories | 20:34–26:21| | Universe guidance/plants story | 26:30–32:22| | Lost wallet: Manifestation story | 32:10–41:51| | Product of the day | 42:22–45:13| | Closing remarks | 45:17–End |

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For New Listeners

This episode is classic Bretman: part tutorial, part therapy, all-around uplifting. It’s a celebration of self-assurance, the funny messiness of life, and the little ways the universe proves you’re “highly guided, highly gorgeous.” Whether you’re nursing a breakup, manifesting luck, or just need a laugh, this is an episode for the baddest and boldest.

Transcript

[A]

The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hello. Hello, everybody. It is Thursday yet again, and as you can see. Where are we? Oh, yeah, period. Sorry, where are we? Ms. K?

[B]

We're at the old studio. Yes.

[A]

And we will be here until I.

[B]

Get the weather clears up.

[A]

Well, the weather clears up and it actually worked out because it's raining today and I was like, girl, every time we shoot outside, it is literally a new problem. Every single time. Yes.

[B]

And all of your equipment are like literally outside when we were filming outside.

[A]

Yes. And I think I just need to figure out, like, what, babe, I'm out of breath. What'd you even do?

[B]

I literally ran up the stairs.

[A]

She changed her shirt.

[B]

I did.

[A]

But I was saying, every time we shoot outside, it's easy. They're always the lighting, the audio and the focus. And it's just like, so hard to figure out. Especially because we don't have, like a real proper producer. All respect to Kat, but this is just not her niche. Like, audio is not her niche, camera's not her niche. Just like how cooking is not in my niche. I would never be in Kat's kitchen. You know what I mean?

[B]

So.

[A]

But I do think by. I want to say by October, we're going to have a in house producer by then. So bear with us for the next couple episodes, we're going to be back in the stew and who knows if we're even going to go back outside because, girl, it is literally a new problem every single time. And just even in the past five minutes that we've just been shooting this.

[B]

And I love the ac. I'm not going to lie.

[A]

I'm not sweating. I'm not worried about the birds chirping. I'm not worried about the lighting changing. Girl, it's giving. We're gonna be inside for a second until we figure it out. So let's just get that out of the way while we're inside and let's get into this week's video. Cue in the intro. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we're back.

[B]

Your. Your hair.

[A]

Thank you so much, Kefir. What about my hair?

[B]

It's literally the first thing I saw when I came in. I was like, ooh, your hair. And literally till now, your hair, literally.

[A]

It's so shining, shimmering, glimmering, splendid. I love it so much. Can you believe I used a blow dryer for this?

[B]

No. What? And I was literally like, it's not fair how you can get it, like blunt, straight like that. Because, like, Whenever I try Very Flyaways. Yes.

[A]

Morticia Addams. I think I've just like learned how to use all the attachments on it.

[B]

You need to teach me.

[A]

Yeah, I will. Anyways, Ms. K, how was your week?

[B]

My week has been good.

[A]

This week has been a long one for me. Honestly.

[B]

No low key, same. I feel like just the week was like just dragging on. Yes, but we're here.

[A]

Anything fun or interesting before we get into our segments? Or should we just get into the segments and get into the nitty gritty?

[B]

We should just get into the segments.

[A]

Okay, period. Because I really, really want to try your drinkity. Drank, drank, drank.

[B]

Because I'm scared. It's not really that good.

[A]

Okay. Ms. Cafe, what'd you make me?

[B]

I made you a strawberry mango tea with dragon fruit on it on the bottom.

[A]

Grown by yours truly.

[B]

But it's giving like last minute creation. I just know the two fruit comes together.

[A]

Mmm. Okay.

[B]

But it is time.

[A]

One thing I will say because I feel like I'm always hyping you up.

[B]

Yes, thank you.

[A]

The tea in itself is really good, but I wish you had diced even.

[B]

A little bit more like smaller or.

[A]

Even, maybe even smash it.

[B]

True. See cuz Cat's Kitchen wasn't available.

[A]

It is good though. The tea itself is really good.

[B]

Okay, Okay.

[A]

I wish I was sucking up the dragon fruit though, you know? And I did miss make Miss Kate some her matcha herself.

[B]

I literally begged.

[A]

Is it good today?

[B]

I'm just kidding.

[A]

Can I?

[B]

No, it was really good. It's really good. It's not fair because like every time I go to work I'm like, I want to drink matcha, but our matcha is not really matcha.

[A]

That is good. It's a little umami. Yeah, I love that. Okay, okay, period.

[B]

I love when you can taste the green tea.

[A]

The green tea of it all.

[B]

Do you think?

[A]

Do you believe that matcha tastes like grass?

[B]

Really? That's what grass tastes like?

[A]

No, a lot of people, a lot of matcha haters say it tastes like grass.

[B]

I mean, I get it.

[A]

I have the same reaction. I'm like, really? That's what grass tastes like? No, but I'm also like, wait, how do you know?

[B]

Yeah, so how do you know what grass tastes like? I mean, it does. You know how like they say when you can smell, you can taste?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because like sometimes when I was a little kid, I don't know if it's weird, but like I used to like smell plastic and I would be like, oh my God, I wish I can eat plastic.

[A]

That's me with. And gas.

[B]

Really?

[A]

I'm like, I would drink up a good gas, but it's giving that, like, gas station. I'm always like, oh.

[B]

You getting high?

[A]

Get essential oils.

[B]

You're rolling your eyes like, oh.

[A]

Or like, fresh. Or, like fresh paint or another one that is. I. Maybe it's not that niche.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

But like a rainy day on a hot pavement. Yeah. It just gives.

[B]

But yeah.

[A]

Do you have any tea of the week?

[B]

I do. Coachella lineup came out.

[A]

I know.

[B]

And beanies in there. Yes. Yes. I know.

[A]

You know we're gonna be there.

[B]

The first Filipina group, girl group to perform at Coachella State, and they're gonna eat. You know what's so crazy?

[A]

A lot of the performers don't know they're going to Coachella until it's released.

[B]

I think it's because they want to keep it confidentiality.

[A]

Yes. I would just get, like. Do they ask them first, though?

[B]

I think it's their team. You know how, like, you know how, like, you said you have a team? Like, every time you say something, you're like, I'll talk to my team about it. Yeah. It's giving me that. Yeah.

[A]

Also Cat's Eye.

[B]

I know. That's off.

[A]

Gabriella. It's so crazy because I met. Speaking of team, I met one of the team members of Cat's Eye Las Coachella.

[B]

Who?

[A]

I don't know if it's their, like, road manager or manager manager. But I met. He has a twin daughter.

[B]

Oh, like a team team. Not like the Cat's Eye girl.

[A]

No, no, no. Not the Cat's Ey girl. But one of their managers I met at Coachella, and I signed his daughter's Labubu. I've never signed.

[B]

Oh, my God. I remember that.

[A]

Yes. Okay. Not to have a Madison beer moment, but I was supposed to be in the Gabriella music video because.

[B]

Oh, my God.

[A]

Because. Yes, they had asked me if I wanted to be in a Cat's Eye music video, and I was already home from LA at the time because it was right after Coachella, and. And I have the receipts. Don't even try me, bitch. Like, I know I sound like Madison beer. Madison, I love you. I'm just using you as an example. But you know what I'm talking about, right? Like, when Madison was like, I was supposed to be in the video.

[B]

No.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

Sorry.

[A]

But I. Okay. You know the. So the lore is. And I already know you guys know.

[B]

This, but I have to teach Reaction.

[A]

I have to teach the elders. Guys, don't mind Ms. K. She is closing up in her 30s, so I gotta teach the elders some of them.

[B]

Yes, I am education.

[A]

But Ariana had released a music video. I think it was Thank U Next. Yeah. And when it came out, there was an interview or I guess, like, I think Madison was talking to a fan. And she was like, I was supposed to be in the video. And, like, people were just meme bit. Anyways, back to me. I was supposed to be in the video.

[B]

No, that was literally my same reaction when you told me that you're like, oh, I was supposed to be in Gabriela's video.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

And I was like.

[A]

And I know that because.

[B]

You fucking.

[A]

Yes, I promise. And I know that because. And I know it was that specific video because I keep in touch with their manager that I met, and he had DM'd me.

[B]

The people you meet.

[A]

Like, literally, he had DM'd me while. When I was, like, posing doing, like, a hair video to Gabriella.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That was the music video we were wanting you to be in. And I'm like, I would have ate. I would have ate. But Cat's Eye, I'm available. I'm available. At the time, I had just got back home and I was not gonna get on a plane.

[B]

Hi, cat's eye. Can we get friends and family wristband? I'm just kidding. Imagine. I know. I'm like, wishing catai.

[A]

I feel like we would get from Beanie too.

[B]

Oh.

[A]

Who else are you excited for?

[B]

I'm honestly excited for Givon. Giveon girl. Give on. Give.

[A]

I'm lowkey excited for Justin and Serena.

[B]

I wasn't. I was gonna say Justin Bieber.

[A]

Yeah. Oh. Not to out. Not to, like, ostracize her. But I'm also very excited for Carol G. The three main. Yes, I love Ms. Carol G, but I haven't seen.

[B]

I was like, last time, I was like. Last time I seen Sabrina was like Coachella. And last time I seen Justin Bieber was at the I Heart Radio. If you know.

[A]

If you remember, she said, if you know, you know.

[B]

Yes. At the Stap centers.

[A]

I think 2018.

[B]

Yes. I think that was my very first trip. Because I remember.

[A]

Because that was not our first trip.

[B]

I think it was.

[A]

No, our first trip was Hairspray Keeper, and that wasn't the same trip.

[B]

Oh, no. Yeah. It wasn't the second trip.

[A]

Yeah, I think so.

[B]

Because this was when. I think this was the first time you. No, I think it's that same trip.

[A]

Was it?

[B]

Cuz it. I remember because I didn't have clothes for winter and I was like. I remember we went on a November and thinking I was like, oh, he's gonna bring me to la. In my. My point of view, LA was hot and like summer. Summery things. So I like literally brought summer clothes and I was shivering because I was like all I had was short shorts, a crop top and a chiffon cover up in the middle of.

[A]

Oh my God. Okay, that might have been our first look then.

[B]

So I think it was with your old friend.

[A]

Yeah, I remember. Yeah, period.

[B]

Now Haran was over there too. Britney Spears was there.

[A]

Oh my God. Wait, you remember the Jingle Ball?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Or something.

[B]

It was the Jingle Ball. I heart radio. Jingle Ball.

[A]

Who else? Are you excited? Oh, well, actually, do you like any songs from Sabrina's new album?

[B]

Yes. My man on a willpower.

[A]

Mine is.

[B]

No.

[A]

Wait, wait, wait again.

[B]

Wait, what is that? House tour is one of my favorite House surf. Never getting late again. Yeah, I haven't heard that one.

[A]

Cat, what is your favorite from the song? I'll just say Cat doesn't have a mic today. Nobody cat likes nobody's son. Let us know who your favorite Sabrina Carpenter song is. Also, did you know Justin Bieber released a secondary album after this one that he just released?

[B]

No.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I didn't even know.

[A]

It's like swag and then swag too.

[B]

Oh, I heard. I've seen a swag too. Yeah. But I'm honestly not going to lie. I'm hoping for Justin Bieber to do his era little era tour starting for Coachella. Oh, that's my prediction. Because I want baby. I want baby. I want.

[A]

You know, like og.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

It might reignite the little believer in me.

[B]

No, literally, because I feel like, girl, you're doing Coachella for the first time. You got to take us back a little bit, you know?

[A]

Okay. Well, I can't wait to see if we go to Coachella this year. I guess.

[B]

Hello. Guess.

[A]

I guess. Jean.

[B]

You guys, I was. I'm wearing your jeans actually today.

[A]

That's crazy. I'm wearing guess underwear.

[B]

Really?

[A]

No, but I could guess. But okay, let's go through mine.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Yes. I don't really have a journal entry today, but I thought it would be fun to go back to X because I think I'm going to delete my ex. Ex Twitter. Oh, I know. I just feel like it's. I thought like as a gay person and maybe as an immigrant and a brown person too. Like, I just feel like I get hate crime there. Like, being an ex.

[B]

Twitter is such a negative place.

[A]

Yeah. Being an ex feels like I'm at a barber shop. Like, you know the feeling of being gay in a barber shop or, like.

[B]

Where you're scared to look, but you're still looking?

[A]

Yes. Like, being on X feels like a straight man dabbing me up. Wait, can you dab me up?

[B]

I'll go. I have straight friends, so I have to know how to dab. Ew. And that was a good dab.

[A]

That was a good dab. Ew keeper. I never want to dab you up again. That was the straightest thing we've ever done.

[B]

I think it's because I hang out with a lot of, like, local people.

[A]

I know. But every time. Every time a straight person dabs me up or offers a dab up. Yeah. I sweat inside.

[B]

You're like.

[A]

I swear, I literally get, like. Because I don't know which style they're gonna do.

[B]

Are they gonna do the full.

[A]

Are they gonna, like, do, like, a little.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Or are they gonna come in for a side hug? I don't know. I just feel like I'm being harassed.

[B]

No, I. No, honestly. Honestly.

[A]

Right.

[B]

Especially when they go for, like, a random hug after.

[A]

I'm like, oh, my God, keep that shit to yourself.

[B]

Oh, my God. Like, I.

[A]

And it's crazy because I have girlfriends, obviously, and all their mens always know to just give me a hug. I'm like, just give me a side hug.

[B]

Like a. One of the girl hug.

[A]

Give me a honey, honey, girl. Like, I'm one of them. Okay. I thought it would be cute to go through my last. Let's just do my last three tweets. Okay. And talk about it. Okay. And by last three tweets, I'm going to read, like, tweet tweets, not like a picture with the caption. Okay. My last tweet ever was in 2023, and it's. I'm so pretty.

[B]

You want to talk about it?

[A]

I mean, we can't really talk. Very valid. Very valid. It's true. I still am. Three years later, two years later. Even when I up, I'm guided, period. You know what I mean? I feel like even when I mistake, make mistakes, someone's supporting me to make that mistake. Or like, I was supposed to make that mistake. Not like, you know, yes. Like, yeah, I was supposed to make a bad decision that day.

[B]

Yeah. It's giving validation for your own choices.

[A]

Yeah. There has to be a reason I made that mistake. And sometimes I'M grateful for some of the mistakes I make, honestly.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because one, the lesson. Or maybe it was just preventing me from something else.

[B]

Yes, because without that mistake, you wouldn't be here. Yeah, right.

[A]

Silent claps for that. Okay, third tweet. The third to the last tweet is damn. And after today, I'm gonna delete Twitter because it's so weird. Oh, my God. Okay, this isn't 2022. Somebody better fall in love with me before my birthday.

[B]

2022.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Did somebody did.

[A]

No. Ugh, I hate that shit. But also, like, falling in love on your birthday, I'm like, I don't want to manifest that. Like, I don't want a boyfriend for my birthday.

[B]

You've been manifesting, though.

[A]

I have been manifesting. Why? Not really manifesting, but I feel like we can talk about this next episode.

[B]

Okay. Okay. She's not ready yet.

[A]

Wait, you guys, I had a great idea because Ms. K and I are pre filming this week because I'm going to LA, and I was like, Ms. K, we should get. We should do a drunkard episode.

[B]

I know. I'm kind of. I'm kind of scared.

[A]

I'm kind of excited because I don't drink.

[B]

I really don't.

[A]

I don't drink, y'. All. Like, when I'm saying, I'm like, now.

[B]

Are we doing vodka or, like, wine?

[A]

I feel like we should do vodka. Cuz I'm like, wine is not giving. Like, we're gonna be crunk. Like, I want to get crunk.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

You know what I mean?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

And we're home. We're inside. Like, we're not outside. We can get. We can get real sweaty and deep.

[C]

Hey, guys. I am Bryony Bass, a Pilates teacher and the founder of Pilates by Briony. I started my podcast, beyond the Mat, after having some of the most moving conversations with people on the mat. Expect full disclosure moments, life hacks to level up your life, and stories that activate your dreams. With no gatekeeping allowed. Listen to beyond the Mat every Thursday, wherever you podcast.

[B]

Do you still feel the same way about your tweets? Not today.

[A]

Ugh. I'm so pretty. Yes. Even when I make mistakes, I'm guided. Yes. And I guess the last one is the only one where I'm like, not right now.

[B]

I said I'm tired.

[A]

I really am just in my, like, ugh man era. Like, not fuck man era, but like, ugh, man era.

[B]

Yeah. Yeah.

[A]

I will say this as well. I said this in my story before because I've been getting a lot of messages from maybe my fellow brokenhearted girls, my fellow freshly breaking up girlies, or just my fellow lover girls about like, how I've been dealing with my breakup. So very cute, silly. And just like how I've been dealing with it.

[B]

Girl.

[A]

And maybe, maybe there would be a better episode for me to like talk about this.

[B]

But if I was broken up too, I would want to spend it like how you spend yours.

[A]

Yeah. Literally just not giving a shit. I think what I will say is when I. Especially when I got in my last relationship, I went in there as a complete human being.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That, like, I know that there is nothing this relationship could take away from me because I'm already a complete person.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I think a lot of people, and I hope I don't sound problematic, but a lot of people get in relationships to feel complete, to find. Yeah. I don't think a man completes me. I'm saying this. In my experience, I don't know if anybody feels complete with their man. If that's you, that's you. But like, for me, a man doesn't complete me. I think I complete me. And I would want to date someone who's also complete.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because so that we can just be like a whole together.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know what I mean? Like, I don't want two halves. Like, I want just like a. Ew. I almost said a big hole. But like, you know what I mean? Like, I went in this last relationship as a complete human being so that, like, there's nothing that was taken away from me.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And like I said. And what I said when we broke up, it's still true. Where I said that, like, we left it at love.

[B]

Yeah. Because that, that's the. I feel like that's the one of the reasons why you took it. Like, you're like, very much nonchalant.

[A]

Nonchalant. You left it at love. And there's nothing but love that I have in my heart.

[B]

You guys gave space together, you know, give time period.

[A]

And we're just honoring that. And I love.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And in contrary to my last, last relationship, my first relationship ever, where it was just. It ended in hate. And that also made it easier because I, I could not, Like, I literally.

[B]

Was like, yeah, let me just hate you.

[A]

Yeah. But even then, even that, I think, like, because I went in that first relationship feeling like I needed a man to complete me. I think that's why, like, I kept giving him so much chances and excuses and I was like, we have to make this work. But literally I'm like, girl, we don't gotta. You know. So that's that.

[B]

We love a dump.

[A]

We love a dump. That's my last three tweets. Ms. K. What you do this week?

[B]

I have the most boring live ever.

[A]

Girl, no you don't.

[B]

Yes, I do.

[A]

Wait, are you. Wait, hold on.

[B]

Oh, wait. I went to the Fiji concert.

[A]

Oh, tell me, tell me, tell me.

[B]

It was so good, Cat. You could have came with me. I had a plus one ticket. You're busy. You were in a date.

[A]

Oh, yeah. Not a day girl.

[B]

She been on a date.

[A]

I love it though.

[B]

But it was really good. It was like a kind of like a reunion. I felt like it was a reunion because everyone was there. But at the same time it's like sad because one of the greatest is, you know. Yeah, I know, but it's just to like, honestly, just to see like. Oh my God, the connets girl.

[A]

The Connors. My God is cunning.

[B]

Yes. I'm like, girl, Hawaii has guys like.

[A]

Well, I know you went with Princess and.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

The best seat.

[B]

Yeah, we did actually. You should have came.

[A]

I. I wish I came because we.

[B]

Were in like the, you know, the very front row right before the stage over there. So we were where all. Where everything was like, where people was passing by. Everything was happening in like in front of us. You saw everything?

[A]

Yeah. Kane is boy. Guys, if you don't.

[B]

Men.

[A]

Men. Sorry. Kane is men.

[B]

Kane is boy.

[A]

Not.

[B]

But no. Yeah.

[A]

What was. Is. Was there any standouts? Like who was your favorite performer song?

[B]

Honestly, all of them. Once. It was like all of the songs that I thought. I thought I was not gonna know any songs. I'm not gonna lie because I'm not really much of a. A reggae listener. I'm more of like a pop girly. But honestly, I've seen everything. Like Love Me was so cute. A lot of Fiji song was so cute.

[A]

I wish I would. You guys should have came.

[B]

It was an experience to have.

[A]

Not to sound like a grandma, but I did try to watch the live stream on khon.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And girl, I was slump. Yeah, I wish not because it was boring, but I'm literally sleep by like 9:30. 10 is like late for me. You guys. I'm a grandmother. I'm a Lola. But it looks so great. One of my. It was not to sound like Madison Beer again.

[B]

But you got invited.

[A]

No, no, I. I am in the video. There's a Spotify song with Fiji and I think. Hold on.

[B]

They sang that song? They did. Yes.

[A]

Hold on, you guys. I have to humbly flex because one of my favorite reggae songs has me as their Spotify cover. Cover. Hold on, let me.

[B]

Because you played it so much, literally.

[A]

Is it. Give me. I don't want to get copyrighted, but give me all by Sammy Johnson and Fiji. I'm on it. Let me show the camera real quick.

[B]

Is that the ghost? Is that the one that goes. I never had nobody love me the way that you do. Oh, you do. Stream Give me all by Fiji.

[A]

Yeah. On Spotify.

[B]

On Spotify. Just to watch Brett put away.

[A]

Just to watch me put away my lip. Yeah.

[B]

It was so cute, period. Yeah.

[A]

Did you get. Did you get, you know, anybody's number? Did you kiss anyone?

[B]

Honestly, no. Because it was like a family friendly.

[A]

Oh, you were the Lagan Filipino.

[B]

Yeah. And also, like, I've honestly been talking to a man for, like a month. I have never told anybody, but. Because this is why I'm over it already.

[A]

Fair.

[B]

Yes. I give it a shot a month. I was like, okay, so you're also.

[A]

In your Ugh, man era.

[B]

Yes. Because it was. It was giving. Like, it was giving. Like, I was interested.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

I was like, oh, my God. Like, oh, man. Yes. Love me. Gives me the love I want. All of a sudden, it started going from calling after calling, living voicemails, like, hi, how are you? What are you doing? I haven't talked.

[A]

You don't want them upset.

[B]

I miss you. I'm like, boy, like, I'm at work and I'm not usually on my phone. You know that. And I don't text anybody back.

[A]

Okay, so why are you saying this? What?

[B]

Like, what was the point of this?

[A]

Yeah, that's the reason why I stop talking to him. Because he's checking up on you.

[B]

I started talking to him because I thought he was very clingy.

[A]

I mean, valid point. No, I mean, that's so Virgo of you. Because it's like, I'm like, do you. I, on the other hand, I want my man obsessed with me, bitch.

[B]

Oh, I need my space. I'm like, girl, let me breathe.

[A]

I think one thing I learned is, like, I love me, and I need someone to love me more than I love me, girl. That's just how it is. I'm sorry. I'm a Leo. Like, I can't love my partner more than I. Yeah, no, yeah.

[B]

Also, it's giving. Like, I only want it if I want it. If I don't want it, leave me the alone.

[A]

Very virgolicious of you.

[B]

Yeah, I guess for Me.

[A]

Let me not even get all the Virgos involved, girl.

[B]

It's just me. It's just literally me. I think it is my pride. I'm not gonna lie.

[A]

Well, I would love to see you in a relationship one of these days, just to see how you are. You swear you love me when I'm in a relationship?

[B]

I do love you. Because you're so different, you guys. The very first boyfriend Brett will ever had. He said yes to every single thing. Every single little thing. We asked for this. He was like, yeah, go, go, girl. Yeah. We went to trips. Like, I was like. And I would be like, oh, can I come and be like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, come.

[A]

I need to take.

[B]

I needed somebody to take my yes, literally. And I. Oh, okay. Cute.

[A]

I'm excited for yours because I feel like it's your turn, and I'm really. Just pause on it, girl.

[B]

Yeah, we'll see.

[A]

My week was kind of interesting. I know last week we were talking about grieving, and there was just so many, like, coincidence this week that I'm sure I've talked about in my story. So please skip, like, three minutes if you already watched my story this week. But remember, like, during COVID when I used to help Uncle Rod?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Uncle Rod is a. He owns a plant shop, and I used to volunteer and put things away for him all the time.

[B]

And I live where his farm is now. Yeah. I live, like, literally two minutes away. Yeah.

[A]

So I used to volunteer there. And he had passed due to a surfing accident, actually. And fast forward two years later, I started going to a plant store in Kapolei called Kapolei Greens. Love them. And the one in the middle. Yeah. I met this older guy uncle that used to help me, and we, like, really, like, kick. Like, really click. Like, we were talking about plants, and he was telling me about.

[B]

You also get along with, like, old people.

[A]

I really do. I think it's because I was raised by my grandma, so I'm like, I. Not that I know how to talk to old people. That sounds wrong, but it's like, I don't feel. You just gravitate. Weird.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Like, talking to, like, somebody's grandma. Like, I really don't. Like, I love talking to, like, aunties. Anyways. I was talking to this uncle, and he's telling me stories about his kids and even, like, how he was homophobic, like, growing up, and like, how he's, like, more free now. So that ended there. I saw him a couple of times after that, and that was that. A couple days ago, I Had went to a pot store, like, to get pots for my plants. And he was there, and he was like, brehman, do you remember me? And I was like, yeah, Uncle.

[B]

Like.

[A]

And then we started catching up, and he was like, yeah, I'm focusing more on, like, landscape architecting now. Like, landscape design. And I'm like, oh, my gosh, Uncle. Like, that's crazy. I just. I just felt like I wanted to redesign the front of my house. Like, all the little pods.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Just. Cause it's starting to get, like, congested. And I just want it to be more grand. And I have so many plants that I have in pots that I want plant on the ground. Be that as it may, while he was saying this, I'm looking at him and I'm like, why does he remind me of my Uncle Rod so bad?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

So I asked him. I was like, uncle, do you know Uncle A. Rod? And he was like, that's my best. And he says his last name. And I'm like, yes. And then he was like, that's my best friend.

[B]

Aww.

[A]

And I was like, what? And now I was like, now you really need to come over. Because I wanted to. Even if he wasn't gonna design my house, I just wanted to show him all the plants that I got from Uncle Rod. Cause so much of my cool plants is from Uncle Rod. And he came over literally the next Sunday. So I saw him on a Wednesday. He came that Sunday. This Sunday. And I'm showing him my. My property. He's telling me all these designs and stuff like that. But mind you, he's only a designer.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And we have all these great ideas. And I was like, oh, Uncle. I might need, like, someone to maintain it, because obvious stuff and side story. I fired my brother from doing my yard as well, because.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

It's a really long story, girl. I literally had to fire my brother to my yard because I'm literally like, I deserve better. I really deserve better. So. Yeah.

[B]

What happened to your monstera, girl? The big monstera?

[A]

Yes. Oh, my mature monstera that had fruit variegated and all. Like, he cut it up, girl. Yeah. So I literally was like, you gotta go, girl. I love you, but I'm gonna have to love you from a distance.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because. And I'm like, I really. And I don't want to. I did not want to get in a fight about it, because I don't think Jar has the same sentiment about plants that I do. I think he thinks that he just, like, cut up a random plant.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

He doesn't even realize that he just cut up my pride, my joy, you know, like, literally, like. So I didn't let him go. Anyways, I. I was asking uncle Craig. His name's Craig, if he knows someone that maintains yard. Girl. He's like, oh, I know this Filipino guy. His name's Ed. Whatever, whatever. And as he's talking, I'm realizing, like, oh, my God. My dad's friends used to call him Ed. Like, let me ask him if his name is Edmund. And he was like. He was like, no, it's actually either Edmundo or Eduardo.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I'm like, girl, that's my dad and his twin.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And so I just. In my head, I'm literally like. I swear, like, my dad and uncle Rod is up there.

[B]

They're just, like, guiding you.

[A]

Guiding me to Uncle Craig and my uncle Edward. Ed Mundo. Like, Edmond Edmundo. Rod. Like, I know they're doing a collab up there to, like. Isn't that so weird?

[B]

Yeah, that is weird. It's like. It's weird that it's weird the fact that out of all the plants are. You went to that one store and it turns out to be, like, their best friends.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

And the fact that, you know, you just saw him randomly and then, like, this whole thing.

[A]

And I fired the Edmund, and I'm getting a Edmundo. Like, what?

[B]

Oh, my God. It's the way that the universe just works for you.

[A]

Speaking of the universe working for me, I went out with my friends this weekend, Nikki and Jeanette.

[B]

Jeanette. Oh, my God. We should bring them in here soon.

[A]

I know. I was wanting to invite Nikki for the next episode so she could get drunk with us. I know, but then someone's gonna have to drop her ass home, and she's not gonna. I don't wanna make my friends drink and drive. Obviously. Anyways, so we went out this weekend. We went to go to my friend Char's art show in town. We did that really quickly because, girl, it was a sauna up in there. And I bought the painting of my dream, and I literally cannot wait to pick it up. I can't wait for you to see it.

[B]

I saw it on your st story. It's so beautiful.

[A]

So we had gone to her art show, and after her art show, we went to go to a sushi restaurant. But my jeep was running out of gas, so I had to pump gas.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

I put my wallet on top of the My car because I wanted to take pictures of me pumping gas. Right. And obviously me being the forgetful that I am. I. We drove off. Yeah, we drove off. We get to the sushi restaurants, we have a great dinner. And at dinner, we're talking. We're manifesting about, like, the future and the bars of our careers and stuff like that. And I got in a moment where I was literally telling them, like, I really am not worried about YouTube because. And me, because life has always worked out for all of us.

[B]

Yeah. The three of you guys.

[A]

And I just told them, like, life and the universe always works out for us three. And I'm, like, not worried one bit about, like, any thing that we talked about today, because I know they will all happen.

[B]

Yeah, true.

[A]

Be that as it may, I'm paying for the bill now. And literally right when the bill touches the table, I didn't even need to look in my bag. I was like, oh, my gosh, I forgot my wallet. So I was like, do you guys take Apple pay? Because obviously, I ordered all the food.

[B]

I was about to make my friends.

[A]

And I picked the restaurant, too. And that's my one rule, is, like, if I pick the restaurant, like, expect me to pay because, like, I'm obviously taking you there. But I realized I forgot my wallet. The bill came, and then I was like, nikki, I need you to call the gas station. She calls the gas station, and she. And they're like, yeah, someone turned something in. We go to the gas station. It wasn't even the right gas station, and it was in my wallet. Yeah. So I had. It clicked in my head that I had a airtag in my wallet. If your wallet can fit an airtag, please put an air tag in your wallet, because, girl. And it took us to a house in this address, like, 10 minutes from the gas station. We knocked at the door, and this guy opens the door kind of mad, and I was like, I'm so sorry, but I'm tracking my wallet, and it. It's showing here that it's in your house. And he was like, I'm sorry. I don't. I don't have your wallet. I didn't find any wallet. And I could tell that he really didn't, because if I had to. Yeah, if I had lost it in the gas station, somebody with three Teslas wouldn't be at a gas station. Yeah, his house had, like, three Teslas. So I was like, okay, that would make sense, because, like, what gas. I checked the thing again, and it had seemed like it was, like, right behind their house.

[B]

Like, the.

[A]

The pin was, like, kind of, like, in between the two houses.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

So I was like, it's either this house or the house behind them. So we go around, and we go to the house behind them. That house was a townhome. It was, like four houses in one.

[B]

One kind of complex.

[A]

Complex, yes. We knocked at the first one. Nikki. Nikki saw his dingaling. Because he opens it naked and he's like, on the side. And I was like, I'm so sorry. But, like, I said the same thing. I'm like, my. My airtag. My airtag says, my wallet is here. And he's like, no, I don't have it. Slams the door. We checked the nut. The next door. It was a lady, very sweet lady. And she was like, no, I'm so sorry, but I hope you get it. And I was like, okay, I'm. And the other two complex were upstairs. And I was like, I'm not gonna climb this. I'm not gonna, like, go up.

[B]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[A]

So I was, like, ready to call it a day. Because, mind you, I've lost my wallet before, so I wasn't, like, too worried. And I. You could always, like, replace my cards, my IDs, whatever. So I was ready to call it a day. We're headed back to the car now, and these two lovely girls just came back from their Taco Bell run. And they both recognized me. They're like, wait, we know. Do you know I love your chicken? What are you doing here? And I was like, girl, long story. I lost my wallet, and it's literally in one of these homes. I show them my phone, and they're like, no, we have to find it. We're on a mission now. And I'm like, okay, now I have these two girls involved and my three friends, so there's five of us.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And then I'm getting closer to the thing, and I'm like, see you guys. I don't know where it is. I think it's this. The back house of this.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I'm like, pointing at it. Mind you, they have, like, a fence right there.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I'm pointing it right now.

[B]

Yeah, yeah. And.

[A]

But they had lived at the complex upstairs. It didn't even click to me that, like, maybe it is in their complex.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because I thought it was just them two living there, and they were, like, ready to jump the fence for me. Me. And I'm literally like, girl, I'm not.

[B]

Gonna have these get arrested.

[A]

These girls get arrested for trespassing, and neither am I. So as I'm like, showing it to them, like, how it's Getting closer. If I go like this, I was like, let's just call it a night. Whatever. So the two girls. I say bye to them. They go back upstairs. They go back upstairs in their apartment.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I get back in the car. As I'm getting back in the car, I get a text from my friend Charlotte. My friend Char said that somebody had contacted her and DM'd her, saying that they found my wallet and they gave her my number. Gave them their number to call me.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because I guess they were, like, trying to DM me, but because I. I get a lot of dms or.

[B]

Yeah, it's very hard for me.

[A]

It's very easy for me to miss it. So I called the number. It's ringing. And I'm like, hello. My friend Char said, you have my. My. My. You found my wallet. Like. Like, which house are you in? And then as I'm talking to the person, the two girls at the Taco Bell comes running down downstairs, and they're like, oh, my gosh, Our roommate has your wallet.

[B]

I just want to know the conversation they were having upstairs while you were.

[A]

No, they literally was like. They probably just got up and were like, oh, my God, Bretman Rock's downstairs. And the roommate was probably like, dude, we have his wallet.

[B]

Yeah, but no, you were talking to him on the phone. Yeah. Yeah. So that's why I was like, wait.

[A]

Yeah, so I'm talking to them on the phone, their roommate, while the original. So I go there and I meet them, and I'm like, where did you guys find this? And it was in the parking lot where we parked to go to the sushi restaurant. So that means my car. And from the gas station to the parking lot was, like, 10, 15 minutes.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That means my wallet was on top of my car and made it all the way up to the. To the parking lot.

[B]

So you meant to say that literally while you guys were eating, you realized your wallet was gone? Your wallet was still on top of your car.

[A]

No, my wallet.

[B]

And then you called the.

[A]

No, my wallet. Because the parking lot that we went to goes up.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And I. And they. They told me that they found my wallet, like, as you go up, like, into. And grab the ticket.

[B]

I thought. I thought it was like. I thought it was like, you guys were eating, and then you guys caught the gas station, and then they were like. Like, oh, yeah, someone's. And then while you guys were driving away, that's when it fell. And I was like, bang.

[A]

No, it had fall. Fallen. When we got to the Gas station. Yeah, I guess so. That's.

[B]

Oh, my gosh, that's so funny.

[A]

They were like, we found it at the parking lot when you get the ticket. And I'm like, damn. My wallet was really on top of that.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And they said that they were trying to DM me, but because I wasn't replying, they went through my stories. And because I posted Char's art show.

[B]

I think I know what sushi place you're talking about.

[A]

The one by Bacchus Zigu Baki.

[B]

Oh, in Waikiki.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Oh, never mind, Never mind.

[A]

But long story short, I woke up the next day all, like, mind you, I had, like, sake. We had sake. And I probably had, like, two shots of sake. And I was so crunk. And I was also sick.

[B]

Sake is. I don't know why, but for me, like, Asian liquor. Guess to me it is like a light. Like a. It's like a light drink, but it's a creep. So you want. Because, like, sometimes it's the same thing for, like.

[A]

So it was just me and Jeanette drinking, and, like, he was like, fine. So we shared, like, a bottle, and Jeanette wanted a second bottle.

[B]

Yes. And I was like, it's the trick for the Asians because you don't feel it, so you keep taking it.

[A]

Yeah. And then I feel like sake doesn't give me Asian.

[B]

Yeah, no, listen, but there's something about, like, Asian liquor just, like, makes you, like, key and, like, I don't know. You're gonna be dead today.

[A]

I know. So I don't know how I will survive the next episode. So. Yeah, that was my week.

[B]

That's an eventful week.

[A]

Yes. Lost my wallet. But I also was highly guided.

[B]

And. Yes, literally. No, literally, because, like, you know how, like, we've been talking about how, like, you being. Being very guided this whole week by, like, how you met up with Uncle Craig out of randomly. And I'm meeting, like, what, you're the people and then you losing your wallet. And then there's these two people out of just two. These two random people just casually, like, walking around, guided you to, like, looking for their stuff.

[A]

And it was up in there.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

The whole time. So I'm literally like.

[B]

And it's always weirded. I'm always weirded out by this because you guys, like, anything that has a pair follows Brett. So the fact that everything, like, two of this, two of that. Yeah, that's girl a witch.

[A]

I'm telling you. Like, I. Like, hopefully I'm not like, knock on wood, but, like, things always work out for me.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Like, and I never.

[B]

The universe just loves you.

[A]

She does. Because I love the universe.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Feelings are mutual. Should we do product of the day? Yes, we can. Do you want to start?

[B]

Yeah, I can start. Oh, so this thing is Girl. But no, I stole one of yours, remember? I was like, can I have this? And then you were like, yeah, I don't know if it's, like, expired, but, you guys, I have, like. I've been having, like, an issue with, like, dry skin, like, especially, like, on my thigh area, and I've been using this, and, you guys, it's literally like, even, like, just for, like, using it for two days just makes it so much better.

[A]

So what is this, Kiefer?

[B]

Oh, it's the African shea butter.

[A]

Period aroma.

[B]

Deep pot.

[A]

Yeah, I just got it on Amazon.

[B]

It's so good.

[A]

Oh, no, I actually got this on Etsy, and you're supposed to actually, like, mix it and do a couple things in it, but you can just use it like this, too.

[B]

But I was, like, reading the. The. What is this called again?

[A]

Label.

[B]

Yeah, the label. And, like, the enhancement. And I was like, oh, that explains why it heals, like, the dryness, because it's one of the things.

[A]

And you're never gonna run out.

[B]

Yeah. Because now I have this, too.

[A]

Speaking of moisturizer. A moisturizer that I have been loving lately. And I know I showed you guys a moisturizer last week, but this is my nighttime one or my really dry day ones. I've been loving the anua. Pdrn. Hi, Lauren. Girl, I'm gonna get you something. No, you literally sent me some.

[B]

No, I was like. I've been like. Because, like, I've been to your house every week, and I've been seeing boxes and boxes of these, and I'm like, what is this?

[A]

Literally, I made one video, and they. They sent me, like, 12.

[B]

Literally. Oh, my God.

[A]

I'll give you some, because there's no. I. This is my first one. I haven't even ran out yet.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Thank you so much, anua. Because now I get to share my love for it. But this is, like, I said, the PDRN Hyaluron 100 Plus. Love it. Cat's nodding her head. Did you like it? I told you.

[B]

What's the. What's like, the.

[A]

Well, PDRN is, like, salmon sperm. Yeah.

[B]

Oh, my gosh.

[A]

And I like that it has hyaluron. I did. I would say.

[B]

What's with, like, animal stuff? Like, in our skincare. Yeah. Like bird spit. Salmon spit. Yes. I'm like, girl, what is is this?

[A]

I don't know. I've never seen. I've never seen a salmon with a pimple. I need their skincare routine.

[B]

I mean, you have a point.

[A]

Yeah, I'm sorry, like what?

[B]

You have a point. And, like, the snail is very like you.

[A]

You ever seen a snail with a wrinkle, right?

[B]

No.

[A]

You ever seen a dry snail?

[B]

Wow.

[A]

Exactly.

[B]

Oh, my God.

[A]

Like, I need that.

[B]

Not my mind getting blown right now.

[A]

I'm like, Ms. K, where can they find you?

[B]

Girl? You guys can find me anywhere. M I S K A A Y.

[A]

E. And you guys already know Baddy is here. Her name is Bremen Rock and she's Bremen Rock. Everything, everywhere, all at once. And make sure you guys like and subscribe to the baddest radio. I will see you guys in the next week's episode. Bring a drink and look cute. Love you.

[B]

Bye, everybody.

[A]

Bye, Beach. I'll see you next Thursday.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Don't forget to follow rate and, like, you can follow me at bretmanrock on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media. Bye, Beach.

[C]

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