Highschool Fights

Summary

DaBaddest Radio Podcast – Episode: Highschool Fights
Host: Bretman Rock
Release Date: May 29, 2025

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Introduction: Authenticity Without Makeup (00:01 – 00:50)

In the opening moments of the episode, Bretman Rock sets a candid tone by addressing his lack of makeup for the first time on the podcast. He humorously remarks, "I feel like this is the first episode where I didn't wear makeup for the pod. And I was like, I wonder if they will still accept me for who I really am" (00:24). His co-hosts, Ms. K and Kat, quickly affirm his confidence, with Ms. K commenting, "But she's a bad bitch" (00:17) and Kat adding, "You're so pretty" (00:43). This segment emphasizes the show's theme of living unapologetically and celebrating true self-confidence.

Personal Updates and Life Lately (00:50 – 03:14)

Ms. K provides updates on her recent challenges, particularly her struggle with finding a new car. She shares, "I finally found car at Ford's website" (00:57), expressing gratitude despite the high costs. Bretman encourages her, saying, "Shout out to Ford's, give this kid a new car, please" (01:00). The conversation then shifts to their daily lives, with Ms. K focusing on work and Bretman mentioning, "I've been really wanting to take baths lately and I don't have any bath bombs left" (02:28). This exchange highlights their relatable, everyday experiences and the camaraderie among the hosts.

Relationship Dynamics and Setting Boundaries (13:05 – 17:43)

A significant portion of the episode delves into Bretman Rock’s one-year anniversary with his partner, Justice. Bretman shares personal reflections from a journal entry, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries in relationships. He reads, "Boundaries. Bretman, you are giving way too much of yourself to this man. It’s important to set boundaries straight early into the relationship" (14:28).

Ms. K and Kat discuss their own non-negotiables, reinforcing themes of mutual respect and personal space. Ms. K states, "My non negotiables? My me time period. I like being alone" (16:27), while Kat adds, "Somebody who understands my work is first" (16:35). Bretman reflects on the balance between his "rushy" lifestyle and the need for a supportive partner, concluding, "I need a man to change my life. To not change my life, but to add to it" (15:45). This segment offers listeners introspective insights into maintaining healthy relationships while preserving individual identities.

Confrontation and Handling Drama (32:53 – 40:55)

Ms. K shares a personal story about confronting someone who was spreading rumors and negative comments about her. She recounts the encounter: "She comes up to me out of nowhere and was like, stop talking to us" (33:05). The situation escalates as Ms. K confronts the individual, ultimately standing her ground and asserting her confidence. Bretman supports her by saying, "Honestlly, you will always pass these people" (37:12), reinforcing the message of self-assuredness in the face of drama.

Kat and Ms. K further discuss the nature of bullying and harassment, with Bretman emphasizing resilience: "I could always just be like, you broke? But I'm, like, broke" (37:48). This conversation underscores the podcast's focus on confidence and overcoming negativity.

Highschool Fights: Nostalgia and Cultural Reflections (41:00 – 44:17)

The episode takes a nostalgic turn as Bretman and his co-hosts reminisce about high school fights, a nod to the episode’s title. Bretman recalls, "I have friends... in middle school... it was like my first fight ever" (43:06), while Ms. K and Kat add their own memories of school altercations. They discuss how these fights were a notable part of Hawaiian culture, with crowds gathering and local rivalries heating up, exemplified by Bretman's mention of, "Waipahu versus Kapolei" (42:09).

Kat reflects on the entertainment aspect of these fights: "I was like, how do I make this more spicy?" (43:30). The hosts muse on whether such behaviors are prevalent today, concluding that community dynamics have softened over time. This segment blends humor with cultural commentary, providing a lighthearted exploration of their past experiences.

Product of the Day: Sharing Favorite Items (44:51 – 46:44)

In a light-hearted segment, the hosts introduce their "Product of the Day." Ms. K showcases a power bank, emphasizing its practicality: "These are like the best. 'Cause it's always like so handy and it fits like everywhere" (44:53). Bretman follows with a personal favorite from Thailand—a fragrant inhaler that he keeps in multiple locations for comfort, stating, "It smells so divine." (45:30). Kat adds her endorsement, highlighting its daily utility. This segment not only promotes products but also strengthens the personal connection between the hosts and their audience through their genuine endorsements.

Conflict with a Former Acquaintance: Standing Up for Self (32:53 – 40:55)

Ms. K recounts an encounter with someone who accused her of being a manipulator and gaslighter. She details the confrontation, "She was like, stop talking to us, girl. That's crazy" (33:05), and describes her assertive response, "What are you going to do now?" (34:16). Bretman reinforces the importance of not letting others dictate one’s worth, stating, "You know what I mean?" (38:27). The conversation concludes with strategies for handling such negativity, including avoiding interactions and maintaining self-confidence. This deeply personal narrative serves as a powerful example of the show's commitment to promoting self-assurance and resilience.

Conclusion and Season Teasers (46:44 – End)

As the episode wraps up, Bretman and his co-hosts discuss future plans for the podcast, including potential episodes with family members and expanding their content. Bretman mentions, "We should have a day where we just do this. Yeah, the whole day" (28:42), hinting at more interactive and varied content in upcoming seasons.

They also encourage listeners to engage with the show by subscribing, rating, and following them on social media: "Make sure you guys subscribe to the baddest radio. It's the baddest radio everywhere" (47:07). The hosts sign off with their signature enthusiasm, leaving listeners eagerly anticipating future episodes.

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Notable Quotes

• Bretman Rock: "I feel like this is the first episode where I didn't wear makeup for the pod. And I was like, I wonder if they will still accept me for who I really am." (00:24)

• Ms. K: "But she's a bad bitch." (00:17)

• Bretman Rock: "Boundaries. Bretman, you are giving way too much of yourself to this man." (14:28)

• Ms. K: "My non negotiables? My me time period. I like being alone." (16:27)

• Bretman Rock: "You already know who it is."—referring to respecting personal boundaries. (04:37)

• Ms. K: "You're lucky I didn't jump off this motherfucking floor to over that side." (35:47)

Key Themes and Insights

1. Authenticity and Self-Confidence: Bretman’s decision to appear without makeup underscores the importance of embracing one’s true self, aligning with the podcast’s mission to boost confidence.

2. Healthy Relationships: The discussion on setting boundaries highlights the necessity of maintaining personal space and mutual respect in relationships.

3. Handling Negativity: Ms. K’s confrontation story serves as a testament to standing up against gossip and maintaining self-worth despite external negativity.

4. Nostalgia and Cultural Reflection: Recalling high school fights provides a humorous yet insightful look into past behaviors and cultural shifts within their community.

5. Community and Support: The hosts’ interactions and shared experiences emphasize the value of a supportive community in overcoming personal challenges.

6. Product Recommendations: The "Product of the Day" segment adds a relatable and practical element, allowing listeners to connect with the hosts through shared interests and useful items.

Conclusion

This episode of DaBaddest Radio offers a blend of personal anecdotes, meaningful discussions on relationships and boundaries, and light-hearted segments that showcase Bretman Rock’s authentic and confident persona. Through engaging conversations and candid storytelling, Bretman and his co-hosts provide valuable insights and relatable content, making the episode both entertaining and inspiring for listeners.

Transcript

[Bretman Rock]

The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hello everyone. It is Thursday yet again. Yet again. And if you guys are wondering why I look like I got kidnapped, it's because a bad bitch is not wearing makeup today. And I really.

[Ms. K]

But she's a bad bitch.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I feel like I should do a review.

[Ms. K]

It's giving. It's giving the. Why did I pull a trigger?

[Bretman Rock]

Pull the trigger. Pull the trigger. Boom. I'm so dramatic. I feel like this is the first episode where I didn't wear makeup for the pod. And I was like, I wonder if they will still accept me for who I really am.

[Ms. K]

I don't see the difference. It's just that you're more browner, less red.

[Kat]

You're so pretty.

[Bretman Rock]

But oh, my God. Thank you, guys. I feel like I'm gonna wear makeup less often nowadays. But Ms. K, welcome back.

[Ms. K]

Thank you. Hi, everybody.

[Bretman Rock]

Behind you for like the past, yes, four or five episodes because of my car. Give us an update.

[Ms. K]

I finally found car at Ford's website.

[Bretman Rock]

Shout out to Ford's, give this kid a new car, please.

[Ms. K]

Thank you, Ford, for, you know, making the product so expensive, but thank you for having it, period.

[Bretman Rock]

What you been up to?

[Ms. K]

Sorry, honestly, just work. I was telling them this earlier because they asked me like, what you've been up to. And I was like, honestly, I'm in this thing right now where I don't.

[Bretman Rock]

Want to do anything but work or just anything. Yeah, you were gonna sleep over yesterday because you were like, I was, but why didn't you? We had so much fun.

[Ms. K]

I was gonn. I was. We have a friend named Chia. I was asking her to pick me up because she was like, I miss you. And I was like, if you miss me so much, pick me up.

[Bretman Rock]

You would pick me up. And she didn't.

[Ms. K]

But she didn't shout out to Chia.

[Bretman Rock]

For not picking her up.

[Ms. K]

But prior to that. And I was like, I should just Uber. And I was like, I looked at the uber, it was $80.

[Bretman Rock]

And I was like, you should have told me. I would have Ubered you or Mickey.

[Ms. K]

Honestly, Nikki was already here when I asked her. She was like, girl, I'm already in Hawaiiana. I was like, period. That's my sign to stay home. What about.

[Bretman Rock]

What else have you been up to? Have you been on dates lately?

[Ms. K]

No, I literally just been focusing on fixing my car, you guys. I feel so, like, helpless, like having not a car. Cuz I've been with a car for like, what, 10 years? And this is the first time Like, I don't have any access to a car. So I'm like, but what have you been up to?

[Bretman Rock]

I have been, girl. I've literally just been staying in the house. The first time I went out of the house was yesterday to run some errands.

[Ms. K]

Where'd you go?

[Bretman Rock]

I got like. Well, what I get. I went to ota. I got like some bath supplies. Cuz I've been really wanting to take bats lately and I don't have any bath bombs left.

[Ms. K]

Okay, that's.

[Kat]

You have to have a bath bomb.

[Bretman Rock]

I need to have a bath. I can't just sit there in clear blue water.

[Ms. K]

Like he always has bath bombs. So it's like kind of like weird that you didn't have one.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly. Or I need bubbles. I need something in the bath with me because I'm not going to sit there in my dirty water.

[Ms. K]

And Brett loves to have companion when. When he's taking a bath.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I love a little laptop with me. I love a little.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Kat]

I was like, do you.

[Ms. K]

If his friends are here, he would be like, come, come, come to my bath.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh yeah. Especially like when I used to live in my old ever beach house. I would literally be in my bath and I would invite my friends over to just sit around my bath.

[Ms. K]

They would be sitting on the counter by the.

[Bretman Rock]

And we would just be catching up while I'm pruning up and I'm like, all right, guys, I gotta get out of the bath. Can you get out? And then everybody leaves and then. Yeah. Ew. Why would I. I don't know. I used to do that a lot. Like my friends would just sit around the bath with me. But wait, before we move on, I have a gift for you, Miss Kate.

[Ms. K]

Oh my God.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like you already know what it is.

[Ms. K]

Is it the jeep? It's your own.

[Sasha]

I know.

[Ms. K]

Oh my God. You guys, wait.

[Bretman Rock]

Face it this way so they don't show my eyes.

[Ms. K]

I finally got the merch. Finally. You know, I was. I saw one downstairs and I was gonna steal it, but then I saw.

[Bretman Rock]

You have your own. You have your own? Well, yes. Well, yes.

[Ms. K]

Thank you. Thank you, Lindsay, for sending me the track package.

[Bretman Rock]

And if you guys would like your own, the baddest radio merch. We are having a spring cleaning sale right now. By the time this episode goes up, you guys will have exactly one week to purchase them. It's at the end of the month and the site is up to 50% off. So make sure you guys, you know, use it up. Get the sales get the sales. Get it. Bratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl. You already know who it is. What?

[Jen]

Can you really not eat while pregnant?

[Sasha]

Would you ever put your kid on a leash?

[Jen]

How do you really feel about iPad Kids?

[Sasha]

I'm Sasha and I don't have children yet, but I've got a lot of questions about motherhood.

[Jen]

And I'm Jen, a mom of three. And I've got to tell you, there's truly no guide for this.

[Sasha]

The leap from adulthood to parenthood isn't talked about enough. One minute you're getting your first apartment, and the next, you're buying diapers.

[Jen]

We're here to help navigate that unknown. Join us for no Guide for this, a weekly podcast where we share stories and get answers to questions about the wild journey of parenthood.

[Sasha]

You're not alone. No one knows what they're doing. Whether you're a mom of three or you're still taking those prenatal vitamins, let's.

[Jen]

Figure this out together. Tune in to Noguide for this every Wednesday, wherever you get your podcasts.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K, did you make me a drinky drink drink?

[Ms. K]

I did. Okay. So I've been on Tick Tock lately, and I've been seeing, like, Red Bull drinks. I know it's a little crazy.

[Bretman Rock]

Why is it curting up?

[Ms. K]

Because the drink was sugar free. And I guess milk doesn't really go with, like, cold drinks like that. So just a little shake it up.

[Bretman Rock]

It's giving curds.

[Ms. K]

Stop. It's the milk.

[Kat]

Just, like, shake it before.

[Bretman Rock]

I swear this is gonna be cheese any moment now. If I keep steering, it'll turn into cheese.

[Ms. K]

But it's Red Bull cranberry BlackBerry with a little bit of coconut milk.

[Bretman Rock]

I was not expecting any of that. Wait, that was kind of good.

[Kat]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Wow.

[Ms. K]

I almost.

[Bretman Rock]

I never thought. I never thought Red Bull would taste like that. No. Because, you know, I don't really. I'm not the biggest fan of carbonation. Yes. But I think all the milk and all the ingredients killed the carbonation. And I'm like, wow. I think I was bracing my throat for impact because, you guys, I cannot with carbonation. There's, like, specific drinks that I like with carbonation, but like, like, strong soda, like Sprite and Coke. I cannot, like, if it's, like, flavored ones, like Fanta.

[Ms. K]

You said it's burn. It burns.

[Bretman Rock]

It literally burns. But if it's a flavored, like, Fanta orange, the grape one, I don't mind. But if it's. This one's good. I also don't like sparkling water. Get that away from me.

[Ms. K]

Now you have your little energy drink for today.

[Bretman Rock]

And I love that it's sugar free.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Period.

[Ms. K]

Well, not anymore.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you have any tea for.

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah. My tea of the day is my mom. Happy birthday, Mom. I love you so, so much, and I hope you have many more birthdays.

[Bretman Rock]

You guys, there's a lore to this. Explain them the lore.

[Ms. K]

Yes, because. Okay, so I said happy birthday to my mom. When is her birthday? Her birthday was March. March.

[Bretman Rock]

It's in March. Her birthday was on March.

[Ms. K]

Yes. And then she kind of got mad at me out of nowhere. I didn't know she was mad at me, but one time she picked me up to go somewhere because I was driving her somewhere, and she was like, so, like, when are you gonna greet me happy birthday on the podcast? I was like, huh? She was like. I was like, mom, your birthday passed away. She's like, yeah, but you didn't say happy Birthday. And I was like, why? Are you ashamed of me?

[Bretman Rock]

I was like, mom, what we're always talking about. Yeah.

[Ms. K]

I'm like, what do you say? I'm like. I was like, the way we filmed the podcast is not how you think we film it. It's like, you know, we don't film.

[Bretman Rock]

It the day of. You know what I mean? Yeah. So if we didn't film it on a day where your birthday may have landed, like, we.

[Ms. K]

Because I'm always like, when is this gonna come out? You know, But. And then she goes, well, you should know. And I'm like, mom, I don't. She's like, yeah, you should. And I was like, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

I was like, I also never know when any of the pods are coming out, especially when we bulk them, like, yeah, pre film. I'm like, I don't know when the episodes are gonna go up, because sometimes we're wrong.

[Ms. K]

Sometimes we're like, oh, it comes out this week, but no, it comes out, like, maybe two weeks later.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

But she was like. She was like, well, at least say happy birthday. And I was like, okay, mom, how long have you been holding this in? Like. And this was like, two weeks prior to her birthday. And she was like, you know me. I was like, okay, happy birthday.

[Bretman Rock]

Happy birthday.

[Ms. K]

Fireworks, fireworks, fireworks.

[Bretman Rock]

And with that, happy birthday to anyone whose birthday it is today as well. Let us know if it's your birthday.

[Ms. K]

Or next week or two weeks from now.

[Bretman Rock]

Happy birthday down below.

[Kat]

It's gonna come out in Gemini season.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Oh, wait, is your mom. Is your mom Pisces Then she's an Aries. Oh, she's an Aries. We love. We love she's an Aries. Like Ezekiel.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Which I had last episode. Who swores was so excited to be in here. And then every time he sits down, he just gets so nervous.

[Ms. K]

And I think it's the camera. Next time you should put like, a wall right here.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I think like a mirror. We're just like, not filming. I think it's just like the lights, the camera. Because we filmed like literally the mango video after that of him being like, this is disgusting.

[Kat]

That's not my auntie.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And I think. I think it's because. Just because the small camera and he's used to that, he's like, fine. But I think here he just like, literally melts into the couch.

[Ms. K]

That's a ball of character. That little dude has a character.

[Bretman Rock]

Literally. I can't wait to see how he is growing up. And like, I feel like. I feel like he's gonna do something creative.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. I keep making eye contact with this thing right here. This crack cookie. Do you smell that? Yeah. What is the cat cooking? Oh, sorry. You guys. You guys can't even see it. But this is what I've been staring at this whole time.

[Ms. K]

Her coochie.

[Kat]

No. I literally Woke up at 6:30 and.

[Ms. K]

I was like, you baked those this morning?

[Kat]

Yeah. I was like, I need to make something. So it's chocolate chip cookies, but the bigger one closer to Brett, there's that cream Cadbury egg inside.

[Ms. K]

Oh.

[Kat]

And then the other one is just caramel.

[Bretman Rock]

It's the cranberry egg. It's like the. You know the. How they make it shaped like an egg?

[Kat]

Yeah. Like, okay, they're open inside. And then show the camera.

[Bretman Rock]

Zoom in. Oh, okay.

[Ms. K]

Is that an egg?

[Kat]

It's not a real egg, Kiefer. It's chocolate.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

You gotta take that one to work. Right.

[Kat]

And the other one says caramel and chocolate and marshmallow.

[Ms. K]

That's a bite.

[Kat]

Hey, Brett, get some marshmallow.

[Ms. K]

I love the marshmallow.

[Bretman Rock]

Wow.

[Kat]

Right? It got all crispy on top that eight.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God. Wait. Speaking of birthdays, it was Kat's birthday literally last week.

[Ms. K]

Happy birthday.

[Kat]

I had a great birthday and great birthday weekend.

[Bretman Rock]

And I love that nothing reminded me more than of your birthday than the cookies. Because my. Because justice, before we even ate, ate these cookies. Like someone was taking it from them.

[Kat]

No, he literally. Because Brett was like, that's a sweet tooth, though.

[Bretman Rock]

You do.

[Kat]

He was like. Brett was like, I hope justice gets to try your cookie because justice never gets my peanut butter s' mores cookies because they get taken too fast.

[Bretman Rock]

Or he's just. He acts so demure of it. Like, he's like, I don't want it right now.

[Kat]

Yeah, he does that.

[Bretman Rock]

And then when someone takes it, he. That's all he thinks about. All parties. Like, I could have had my s' mores cookies, but I'm like, girl, you could have fucking reserved it. I've been telling you. And then when Kat brings it over to the house, it just sits there on the counter, like, staring at him. And then he wants to complain when it's gone. And I'm like, girl, no.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, literally, don't eat it now.

[Bretman Rock]

He ate a whole cookie before dinner. And then because of that, he ate. Barely ate dinner because he got so full from the cookie.

[Kat]

He came up to me, he's like, all right. And I put some aside for him. I'm like, yeah, these are for you. Oh, I popped it with the salt. The one you got me.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, period.

[Ms. K]

Oh, that's the one I topped it with.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Thank you, K. That was really good. I love a quiet meal because we're not like.

[Ms. K]

I miss the meals, though. Remember the steak.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, we do have two more episodes left, so hopefully for season finale, a seafood boil.

[Kat]

Mukbang.

[Bretman Rock]

There's so many things going on this week. Something that's also been coming up is my one year anniversary with my pop.

[Ms. K]

It's been a year.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. On the 22nd. Today's the 20th, so in two days. And I wanna. I feel like. I don't know, I kind of want to read, like, an entry that I wrote, like, after we made it official because. And this will be by the time when we are headed to our vacation, so.

[Ms. K]

Oh, again.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, no, we're just going in like a staycation.

[Ms. K]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Ms. K]

Okay. I was gonna say, I was like, I remember the day that you was like, calling me. Like, it was yesterday.

[Bretman Rock]

I know. I literally called Ms. K, like, after our first date. And I was like, Ms. K, I don't want to date anyone else but him.

[Ms. K]

I was like, I was like, I thought he got kidnapped because, like, 11 o' clock at night. And I was like, why hasn't he called back? Is he okay?

[Kat]

I remember coming to work and Brett was like in his room doing his makeup and glowing. And he's like, kat, I have to tell you something. I was kicking my feet. It was amazing.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my gosh. Okay, so. Oh, my God. I found these pictures of us during, like, our first.

[Ms. K]

The first time you came over.

[Bretman Rock]

No. Okay, I'm gonna read this one because I feel like a lot of you bitches need to hear it these days. Hold on. Let me find it. Oh, it's an entry about boundaries. Okay. 5, 26, 24 last year. Boundaries. Bretman, you are giving way too much of yourself to this man. And it's important to set boundaries straight early into the relationship because that wasn't ever set on your last one. And every boundaries you set isn't about him, but more or less to protect your piece that you work so hard on. You worked so hard on your home, and the last time you shared it with someone, your piece was broken. Ooh, girl, I was. I was full on, like.

[Kat]

You were spitting bars.

[Bretman Rock]

I was spitting bars. Here. My non negotiables for Bretman Rock is to protect his peace. Do not move in with a man unless they provide any assets. And even then, do not be stupid and rush it. Do not allow the Internet to tell you who you guys are as a couple. Don't allow a man to enter your whole world without him letting you into his world as well. Bretman might have fast, but proceed with caution when it comes to Bretman Rock. I need a man to change my life. To not change my life, but to add to it. I don't know why I wrote this as the ending, but I literally go, the boys will follow you anyway. Wait. The boys will follow you anyways wherever you go. I don't know why that was my last statement, but. Yeah, girl.

[Kat]

Well, that really a pretty girl privilege. Like, I feel like early on, you really did catch yourself. You're like, I'm gonna keep my standards high. I'm keep my boundaries set.

[Ms. K]

Girl, she learned.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And I just love the fact that just justice, like, never took it personal. And I was just. I just made it known to him. Like, girl, I come from a really broken past, and that's why I'm the way that I am. I'm not asking you to put me back together, because who the am I asking, needing a man to put me back together, but I'm gonna need you to, like, just watch me put myself back together and, like, you know, not.

[Ms. K]

Make it about me. Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Not make it about you. You know what I mean?

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Be there. Support me.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K. What are your non negotiables?

[Ms. K]

Non negotiables? My me time period. I like being alone.

[Bretman Rock]

Caddy, what is your non negotiables?

[Kat]

Somebody who understands my work is first. And they are not because I like, making myself account, like, ready for Brett. Like, Brett needs me. I'm like, okay, I'm there. And also when Brett's gone, it's my responsibility to take care of the house, take care of the dogs.

[Ms. K]

I do have a question. Oh, what about that? What if their. Their priority is work for us before you?

[Kat]

That's fine.

[Bretman Rock]

That's good then. Yeah.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

Period. Okay.

[Kat]

Because I've been with guys who are like, they got all butthurt, and I was like, oh, I only have, like, 20 minutes. I have to go to work. And they're like, can't just call out. And I was like, no. Like, I don't do that.

[Bretman Rock]

We don't do that.

[Ms. K]

I get that.

[Kat]

So that's a big thing for me, period.

[Bretman Rock]

What mine is very much just, like, not rushing things because, like I said in my entry, like, I feel like I myself likes to rush things, but, like, the being that is Bretman rock, like, and the life that I have, I'm like, I can't be rushing this.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And, like, I don't know, you need.

[Ms. K]

Like, I think you need to balance because you have, like, your very rushy Bretman rock lifestyle where it's like, everything's like, go, go.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And then you have your other one where it's like your idol. Take time.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm more of a chill gab.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Kat]

Was it important for you to find somebody who can do both Brett Maroc and you when it comes to fast pace and slow down?

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like, definitely. For sure. And I think justice definitely is understanding the difference between the both of them. Because I. I mean, it's so weird to talk about yourself as a third person.

[Kat]

Mm.

[Bretman Rock]

And I. And I don't be talking about myself through in a third person point of view, especially when it comes to, like, justice. But I think he's starting to get it and that there's, like, a work me and then there's like, a life me. And it's like, he gets it when, like. Cause, like last week, for example, Saturday, even though he was over, I barely saw him because I was working on two videos. He was, like, upstairs doing his own thing and, like, going in the gym, and I was just, like, in the room or in my office the whole day, like, working. And, like, he never, like, made it about himself. And, like, really what I like about him is that, like, when I do miss him, I can just go upstairs and, like, get a hug and then go back to work.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And he knows he has that with me as well. But the Distance thing also helps with us. Like, we don't live near each other, even though we live in the same island. Like, like, still do, like, miss each other. And I feel like I sound like a broken record always saying that. But, like, having that distance really helped him understand.

[Ms. K]

That's why I always say to people with, like, relationships, especially when they're, like, together all the time, it's like, you guys gotta give time to miss each other. Because if you guys are always together.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

That's when things go, like, you kind.

[Bretman Rock]

Of just get sick. Like, every little thing they do. I'm like, oh, my God, why are you doing that? Because even with justice, like, even. Oh, in just two days, like, by Sunday, I'm like, why do you sleep like that? Like, oh, my God.

[Ms. K]

Hating the bed.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I'm like, girl, wait, don't you have your own house?

[Ms. K]

Right?

[Kat]

No.

[Ms. K]

By Sunday, even though you're like, come over?

[Bretman Rock]

No, literally by Sunday, I'm like, girl, Monday can't come any sooner.

[Kat]

Wait, so I heard he cooked for you last weekend. Tell us.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God. Yeah, he be cooking.

[Ms. K]

Babe, watch the orange chicken.

[Bretman Rock]

No, he actually made salmon on the first day, and then the next day he made mahi. I really don't want to expose this man, but what happened? Girl, he shouldn't. He thawed. He made me mahi unseasoned. And then. And then he had thawed vegetables. Right? Thawed it. Frozen vegetables.

[Kat]

Oh, like on the stove?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And he just left it out in the counter and then served it after. So I had.

[Kat]

Oh. So he didn't warm it.

[Bretman Rock]

So I had cold vegetables and unseasoned mahi. But also I'm like, you know, he obviously is putting the effort in there. I stayed. I still tasted it. Like, I'm like, girl, you ain't better. I'm not better than you because I haven't cooked for you either. So I shouldn't be, like, fudgeing saying anything.

[Ms. K]

Are you coming back from your birthday yet?

[Bretman Rock]

I'm literally like, katie, I know I look skinny because. No, but also, we were like, eating out for, like, lunches. And then he helped a lot in the garden this week.

[Kat]

Oh, really?

[Bretman Rock]

So I was like, and I always need an extra muscle in the garden, even though I like doing it by myself. Like, I'm just like the heavier things.

[Ms. K]

Always nice.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And I made sure he was moving fast because I'm like, I hate a slow moving man. You know? He really is. That's his default same.

[Ms. K]

I don't like slow moving people. Like, Move.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Wait, was that it for the segments?

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my gosh. Period.

[Ms. K]

We're talking about boundary.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, speaking of dating, I really feel like we should do, like, a dating episode where I, like, go through your, like, Tinder accounts.

[Ms. K]

I got banned from Tinder.

[Bretman Rock]

Tinder. Wait, Tinder. I've done so many ads for you.

[Ms. K]

Please. Oh, my God. Hi.

[Bretman Rock]

Look at them in the eye right now.

[Ms. K]

I'm looking at you. Wait, hold on. Let me lift my hat up. Hi, Tinder. Unban me. So we could do whatever he wants to do, literally.

[Bretman Rock]

I. I feel like I could make a really cute, like, profile for you, Ms. K, and, like, finally get all the men's. Yes.

[Ms. K]

I feel like. Because you attract, like, the right man. Because, you know so well.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, but. So I feel like you will do that for me if you, like, you know, set my Tinder up, period. Would you have, like, a. Like, a formula on how to do it?

[Bretman Rock]

Well, no, honestly, I've never made a full Tinder account that lasted more than, like, two days because I'm like, you, girl. I became banned sometimes, but I know what would be striking, and I know what would get men to swipe left.

[Kat]

What was your bio say from SK Mysterious?

[Bretman Rock]

Well, I used to like how your bio, like, made it known that.

[Ms. K]

Oh, it's always on my bio.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, she always. I like how. And I appreciate how you're always concerned for your safety as a trans woman, and you always let them know, like, yes, because she is a door.

[Ms. K]

Yes, because I hate it. Oh, my God, you guys. I hate it when men are like, oh, why didn't you tell me? I'm like, well, why didn't you? Read, first of all, right?

[Bretman Rock]

Read the room.

[Kat]

Literally.

[Ms. K]

I'm not hiding anything. If you ask me, I'm gonna be like, yes, I'm trans, and what? But period.

[Bretman Rock]

I forgot what I wanted to talk about today. I literally had, like, a thing that I wanted to talk about, but I. Is there anything you want to talk about today, Cat?

[Ms. K]

Oh, the garage sale.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, no. You talked about that already.

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah. Oh, you did.

[Bretman Rock]

So.

[Kat]

Yeah, we did.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, with E. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Ms. K]

Oh, you did.

[Kat]

I went with e. We're like, 15 minutes. He got so shy in the camera.

[Ms. K]

What is that?

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, in spirit of spring cleaning, Ms. K, are there any things you're trying to get rid of in your life? Like, maybe old habits? Like, things or miss or me? Well, you go, Cat.

[Kat]

My thing is, me and Chia were talking about this is that I have a problem with buying things And I over consumption and I have a lot of things in my room and a lot of clothes and there's a little pile that is like donate, but I need to go through it more and donate more clothes because I keep changing my style and I'll buy like a whole new wardrobe for my new you.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you really be like, I'm gonna wear dresses and then all dresses?

[Ms. K]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And then you're like, I'm gonna do more street style and then you do street stu. I feel like you're in your local girl era.

[Kat]

I am. I'm in my. With my sea breezy with her purse.

[Ms. K]

And her tube top.

[Bretman Rock]

Wait, did you see her necklace?

[Kat]

Yeah, right here.

[Ms. K]

I was like. I was like, today she came out of the car, I was like, oh, you look very colored.

[Kat]

The bronze of her.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, yes. Wait, Kat, how was your birthday vacation before we move on?

[Kat]

It was so cute. We went to Kauai for three days and it's super laid back and chill there, which is what I was.

[Ms. K]

Pros and cons. I've never been to Kauai.

[Kat]

Oh, I think the pros. The pros are. Is so laid back. It's so chill. It's not as populated as here. I was not. I don't know why, but I thought there'd be more tourists. And I was like, oh, it's really chill here.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Kat]

But the local food was so good. If you guys haven't been go to tip top and get the oxtail soup. Oh, my God. It's the best thing ever.

[Bretman Rock]

You also had Thai food?

[Kat]

Yes, we went to this.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, not as good as the Thai food I'd be having, but okay.

[Kat]

Well, in Thailand, literally it was on the west side and I don't know know what it's called, but it was like this little shop on the side, like auntie and pop shop. And it was so good. The best mango sticky rice ever. And I don't even eat mangoes like that. But the mangoes were so good.

[Bretman Rock]

And she brought home some mangoes. I didn't even know you can, like smuggle mangoes, but I guess it's because it would make sense. But it's just crazy because they're so strict. Usually when you're going off island and you have to go to like three. Scanners.

[Ms. K]

Is it like a real bake? Like, not a real bagel, like a real ass?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, it's in the fridge. I cannot wait to taste it after.

[Ms. K]

Like, what kind of mango, like, grown here?

[Kat]

Like, like local. From Kauai. Oh, that's probably why it's so Good.

[Ms. K]

Oh, wow.

[Bretman Rock]

Ms. K, is there any spring cleaning things that you're doing? Maybe habits, habits wise?

[Ms. K]

I've already talked about it. Just like smoking? Yes, maybe a little.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm very proud of you. How are you? Maybe we'll not call it smoking.

[Ms. K]

We'll.

[Bretman Rock]

We'll.

[Ms. K]

We'll call it digesting cancer.

[Bretman Rock]

No inhaling, smoking, period. Like, vaporizing. Oh, I thought you meant the other type of stuff.

[Ms. K]

I felt so seen though the last time when someone was like, I see Ms. Kiss vape under her. I'm like, oh, that is so trashy.

[Bretman Rock]

Now y' all know. Now y' all, let's do a vape reveal. Vape reveal. No vape.

[Ms. K]

The only vape we be vaping now is the.

[Bretman Rock]

Where did you get that? Because I swear I brought it here for my product of the week.

[Ms. K]

Oh, is it really it?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, yes.

[Ms. K]

My product of the week is. No, but I feel like that. And also, like, not spring cleaning, but spring adding. Just adding on to new, like, little things.

[Bretman Rock]

What are some of the things that you added onto your things from my spring cleaning? Cuz you had the biggest stack.

[Ms. K]

I swore.

[Bretman Rock]

I thought I was. I thought I was like, I was bracing myself for our moms, but it was Ms. K. Ms. K is the true enemy.

[Ms. K]

It was not me. The other pile right next to me, that was mine, but that was my mom's.

[Kat]

Oh.

[Bretman Rock]

And my nieces.

[Ms. K]

So it looks like it was both mines. But I only had like, halfway through.

[Bretman Rock]

My garage sale, Ms. K literally had to go through her own stack to donate back to the.

[Ms. K]

Because I was like, people were like, you have so much. I'm like, this is not the final product. I'm gonna go look through it and see, you know, because when I was looking through the big pile, I'm like, excited, you know, I'm like, oh, I want this, I want that. I didn't really look at it, period.

[Bretman Rock]

So what are your favorite things that you found on the bedroom?

[Ms. K]

I honestly found this jacket. It's the one with the rhyme stones. It was really cute set. That one's really cute. I really like the hats because I'm a hat girly.

[Kat]

You. You were getting all them?

[Ms. K]

Yes. I literally was like, put them in this pile so I know where to go.

[Bretman Rock]

No wonder Tony was like. And his bald headed ass was like, Ms. K, you don't even wear hats.

[Ms. K]

I'm like, there was like 800 hats in there.

[Bretman Rock]

So princess couldn't make it today because she is just the queen of flaking.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm just kidding. No. Princess is in her busy era. Hopefully we can get her in the last couple episodes of the Pot, obviously. Because I have something really exciting I want to do with her next season because I know she can really only make a couple episodes at a time.

[Ms. K]

We should just have like a day where we just do this. Yeah, the whole day.

[Bretman Rock]

But I was thinking of doing like, with her where every episode we have, we invited. It's kind of just like how the last season of mtv. No, it's like me and Princess.

[Ms. K]

Oh.

[Bretman Rock]

Because from episode season two of mtv, like the whole thing was us going together.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

So it's gonna be like, right? Like something like that. I think that'd be something really exciting. I want to interview, like, the Titus.

[Ms. K]

Be on the side, like, rolling.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God. But yeah. Isn't that a good idea?

[Ms. K]

That is such a good idea, right?

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know. We'll. We'll figure it out when we get there. But I was thinking of doing that for her.

[Ms. K]

Where Season two, Cat and her sibling.

[Bretman Rock]

Some. Oh, my God.

[Kat]

Oh, my sister's gonna be in town.

[Bretman Rock]

That's a long ass. Her couch. Cat. Cat plus eight. Wait, so spring cleaning. Something that I want to change habit wise or not keep buying. Is really just everything. Like, I feel like I buy so many things that, like, let's say, for example, I wanted hair clips, Right. I went on Amazon and I ordered 10 different types of hair clips. I wanted earring backings that were like, clear, but I needed every shape of earring clear backings there is. I don't even have enough earrings. Has a shopping addiction very much that.

[Kat]

Easily influenced for me.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And it's like. I think it's just like such a collector syndrome, I guess, where it's like, I need everything.

[Ms. K]

No, you do. That's why you'd be having 85 chickens, 800 trees.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, if I like something, I really love something. Yeah. And it's like not even, like, even. Remember when I got my first crystal? I was like, oh, my God, I love crystals, girl. That was my whole personality for like two weeks. For two months even, I was just getting crystals.

[Ms. K]

Sunny angels, Miskis.

[Bretman Rock]

Miskis. And now I don't even want to look at my labubus. I'm like, okay, girl.

[Kat]

Oh. I mean, if you don't want them.

[Bretman Rock]

No, I'm just. I mean.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Not that I don't want them. It's just like. I'm like. I'm really like, every time I look at it, I'M like, I would have sold my left leg for this brown one a month ago. And now I'm looking at them, I'm like, girl, everyone has y' all now.

[Kat]

Like, but now you be into Jelly Cat.

[Bretman Rock]

But now I am in my Jelly Cat era.

[Ms. K]

Always one step ahead.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm always.

[Ms. K]

Okay, bye.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm telling y' all, Jelly Cat's the next Jelly Cat.

[Ms. K]

Do you have one?

[Bretman Rock]

I do. I have two. I have a turtle one and, like, a teddy bear one. But Jelly Cats are, like, they're, like, really known, like, back in the 90s, early 2000s of just, like, these really comfortable, like. Like, stuffed toys. A lot of kids like, is it jelly?

[Ms. K]

Like, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

A lot of kids made it like their own. Like, you know when kids get attached to a certain object, like, they have a binky.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, Jelly Cats are known to be a lot of kids binkies. Like.

[Ms. K]

Like a support.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, support animal because it's so comfy. And now they make, like, bag bag charms out of, like, cute little things. But also, I just like the characters that they have. It's like. It's so cute. Like, I want to find, like, the devil's eggs.

[Ms. K]

Like, how you talk about it.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, girl. But when everyone likes it, I'm gonna be like, all right, what's snacks? Like, what else is next? But, yeah, I think Jelly Cat Bag charms are gonna be up and coming next after everyone gets tired of the Boo Boos.

[Ms. K]

Oh, yeah. It's gonna be a day.

[Bretman Rock]

Not that I'm tired of the Boo Boos. Popmart, if you're watching this, I'm not tired of the Boo Boos. I'm just, you know, one step ahead. I'm. I have curiosity on other things.

[Ms. K]

So don't stop those shipments.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, I'm like, girl, send me the tracking. Ms. K, has there been anything else you want to talk about?

[Ms. K]

Oh, my God, no. But I just want to talk to you about this. The one. Oh, we came across my past recently, you know. Okay. I encountered this person. Let's just say this person is, you know, I see mostly every day. So basically what happened was she's been talking about me.

[Bretman Rock]

You guys mad about me behind your. What kind of things has she been saying?

[Ms. K]

Saying, like, I'm a manipulator. I. I'm. I'm like one of those, like, gaslighter, where, like. Like, you know, like to make you do things that you don't want to do. Like, I want to dose. I'm alive. I mean, like, and I should be warning people Warning people before I even met them, like, saying like, oh, this person's mean. Like that kind of moment. No, but basically, why do I feel like she's. No, she's a little insecure little girly. And she's like, you know, jealous of me that I'm like, this confident.

[Kat]

Got it.

[Ms. K]

But anyway, so she comes up to me out of nowhere and was like, stop talking to us. You know, like their crew. And I was like, okay, what?

[Bretman Rock]

Like, oh, it's not. Stop talking to us, girl. That's crazy.

[Ms. K]

Yes. And I was like, she was. Kept going on and on and on and on and on. And the first thing I said was, you've been talking shit about me. I was like, not even, like, into that drama. I was like, I didn't listen to anything she said. I was like, you've been talking about me? Have I said anything to you? No. So why are you saying something to me now?

[Bretman Rock]

Right?

[Ms. K]

And she was like, huh? She's like, yeah, you've been talking about me. I've heard from this much people and I can tell them right now that you've been talking about me. And then she was like, I don't know what you're talking about.

[Bretman Rock]

And then she kind of like, always have short term. Remember, Lila?

[Kat]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

Once you confront them.

[Bretman Rock]

When you confront them, girl, I'm like, especially the non.

[Kat]

Hella quiet.

[Ms. K]

Like, yeah, exactly. Huh. And then as soon, you know, I was yelling at her and I was like, oh, my God. Behind my head, I was like, like, this is not it. So I start walking back. I turn around. Tell me why. I hear, yeah, walk, like, walk away like you always do, bitch.

[Bretman Rock]

Ooh.

[Ms. K]

I turned around so fast. I was like, bitch, who the fuck is walking away? I'm right here. I'm right in front of you. I'm like, the fuck? Yeah, I'm right here. What are you going to do now? Yeah, you've been talking shit. And what. What is it? Like, what do you want to say now?

[Bretman Rock]

Now?

[Ms. K]

And then she had nothing to say. She just quiet.

[Bretman Rock]

Always, always.

[Ms. K]

And then they had to, like, pull me back. She's like, oh, my God, not right now. Like, I was like, okay, let me go outside. Cool down. And I was like, oh, my God, I can't believe this girl provoked me like that. I was like, I can't. And all of a sudden, I've been watching baddie baddies. So, like, in that moment, I was like, yeah, I'm that baddie.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

And then my. One of my friend comes up to me, was like, oh, he was giving baddie. And I was like, thank you, baddie.

[Bretman Rock]

Baddie. Shot o' clock. And it's an espresso.

[Ms. K]

No, literally, me after, like, I can't. Because I was, like, literally shaking. I'm like, girl, how are you going to say that when I'm, like, walking away? I'm like, of course I'm going to come back.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, the fuck? Oh, I don't even know. I don't even. I'm not even there, and I'm worked up.

[Ms. K]

I'm like, oh, it's that sentence that gets me, like, huh.

[Bretman Rock]

The walk away. Yes. I'm like, I'm still here.

[Ms. K]

I'm like, you're lucky I didn't jump off this motherfucking floor to over that side.

[Kat]

Literally.

[Bretman Rock]

So did she ever say, it's your face? What? That she's been talking?

[Ms. K]

No.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, God.

[Ms. K]

And I recall. I don't remember what you're saying, and I have, like, text messages that proves that she was talking about. About me. I have proofs that she snitched on me. The person that she snitched to told me.

[Bretman Rock]

That's crazy.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Kat]

Ms. K didn't even say that. She was, like, so nice to her when she first met.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Kat]

And Ms. K was, like, a friend. And, like, a friend, like, reaching out for her.

[Ms. K]

Reaching out for her, asking her if she was okay because she has problems. Like, like, you know, whatever. She has problems at her house.

[Bretman Rock]

I mean, literally. Projection.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Kat]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

Open my home to her, like, saying, like, if you're. If you feel. If you don't feel safe at your house, come to my house kind of thing. The next thing you know, we. We come back from Miami. Can you go upstairs? You're in trouble. I'm like, what? For what? Bullying. I'm like, bullying.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, you should snitch her back then. Because, like, clearly she got you in trouble for bullying. Literally doing to you right now is also bullying.

[Ms. K]

Exactly. And I'm like, that is, like, harassment. It is. And I was like. Honestly, after that, I told her. I was like, I was the one I was talking to. I was like, I feel so relieved because that was, like, inside me for, like, the longest, and I haven't said anything. You know, I don't want to deal with that. And, like, I don't care.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

So.

[Bretman Rock]

Because you're like, I'm better than. Never mind. Let me not get in there. But I really feel like you will always pass these people, of course, in. In actual life. And I think that's why I never Cared. Especially for, like, in high school when I. I never really cared about bullying, period. But especially in high school, when I had the ball rolling in my career, girl, there was nothing anybody could tell me that even behind my back, in front of my face, above me, under me, bitch, you can say anything. And I would not have cared because I'm like, but you're gonna stay here.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

And I'm gonna be everything everywhere all at once. And it's just like. I don't know. I also just like, even I said this so many times. Like, I could always just be like, you broke? But I'm, like, broke. People know they're broke. So it's like literally saying. Saying, yeah, you bum. Or saying yeah doesn't really do anything for me because I'm like, you know that.

[Kat]

That.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, you know you're broke. You know you're bomb.

[Kat]

You know you're ugly.

[Bretman Rock]

You know you don't look better than.

[Ms. K]

Me, so I. I, like, stop projecting.

[Bretman Rock]

So it's just like. So I. I don't even have to say, like, girl, and I look better than you. You know that. You know that.

[Ms. K]

I mean, I'm not gonna say that I look better. I mean, but you do.

[Bretman Rock]

No, you. You do, though.

[Ms. K]

Literally, though, because I'm like, girl, I'm like. I'm one of those people where, like, I'm, like, like, confident enough to, like, know how I am to people and, like, how I think and how I react to people. And I'm like, girl, I don't do that. If I do, I'd be telling you I'm gonna do this, and then I'm gonna do it.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, it's her little group also joining in on the fun, because, girl, you really do flock with the same feathers.

[Ms. K]

It's a little group that be telling me things. So.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, so her friends don't even like her.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

So clearly she is okay.

[Kat]

Girl, it's not even the first time because other people told Ms. K that, like, she's done the same thing. Other people?

[Ms. K]

Yeah, and it's the fact that I think she got mad at me because she got mad at me because I don't know.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, girl. And you know she's watching.

[Ms. K]

Hey, hey, girl, how are you?

[Bretman Rock]

Girl, keep talking behind her back.

[Ms. K]

It's.

[Bretman Rock]

Honestly, I'm sorry, girl, I'm, like, so heated.

[Ms. K]

I'm like, girl, I'm not gonna say anything, but I think it's like she envies of, like, how conf. I am as a person and who I am as a. As a Person.

[Bretman Rock]

She's probably also just like, oh, a lot of people love you.

[Ms. K]

No. Yeah. And also because she always, like, said that, like, oh, my God. I always, like, I love how you are like this. I love how you're like that. And I was like, oh, my God, thank you so much. And always ask me for, like, you know, advice, and I always tell her, like, things like, just be yourself. Like, own up to it. Like, who cares? And then this is what I get from being nice.

[Kat]

It's always the insecure one, girl.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, we should end this as the bigger person.

[Ms. K]

Don't be insecure. Be the secure one.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly. And what are you gonna do moving forward, Ms. K?

[Ms. K]

I'm gonna be. You know what I do if I don't like you? I don't see you.

[Bretman Rock]

Exactly. Tunnel vision.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Kat]

He doesn't say if he.

[Ms. K]

If he says something to me. I didn't hear you, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

So whenever you're in public and someone's like that, just turn around.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. And honestly, if you can't say things in front of people's faces, don't say it at all. Yeah. Because there will be someone. There will be ears listening, and sometimes they will be regurgitating what you said. And then next thing you know, there's a fist in your face. And that's.

[Ms. K]

No, honestly.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like, like, everyone needs to get their ass beat. Once I got my ass beat, so.

[Kat]

By who?

[Bretman Rock]

Not by, like, oh, girl, like a fight. Like, not like in school, actually, like.

[Ms. K]

I think only, like, honestly, the people wise Princess. My sister Asen John has the only one people that fought.

[Kat]

Really?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Ms. K]

In school.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, we never. I know. I'm like, who loudest?

[Ms. K]

You've never gotten a fight, Mouth? Never. The instigators.

[Bretman Rock]

No. All of our cousins, including Princess, got in a school fight. We should ask her about her school.

[Ms. K]

I was there the first day, the first time she fought, she called me. She was like, can you please be here? Like, I just need someone there for me. And I was like, of course. And this is when I was like, in Kapolei, so I had to take a bus ride.

[Bretman Rock]

You thought it was, like, being there for her? Like, yeah, to comfort her, but she really means, like, being there for her to, like, fight.

[Ms. K]

And I was like, oh, my God, Pretty, Are you gonna fight? And she was like, yeah, I'm gonna fight. And I was like, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

You're like, this ain't tag team.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. I was like, who are you tag teaming?

[Bretman Rock]

But yeah, we should ask her about it once she gets.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

When she gets here next week, I'm like, we should have a school fight episode. Because that's so Hawaii culture.

[Ms. K]

It is.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know how else it is in other parts of the state or the world, but I remembered being in middle school and like, YouTube used to be full of, like local Hawaiian fights.

[Kat]

Oh, my God.

[Bretman Rock]

Even Facebook, it'd be like, like Waipahu versus Kapolei. Two girls.

[Ms. K]

Yes. Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, girl. And they were like compilations of it. It was like such a big thing. You always know when someone's fighting because.

[Ms. K]

They make it known.

[Bretman Rock]

Crowds.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, headed to the park.

[Ms. K]

Like, we're having a party. Like, of course the security is going to be behind us, following us, because this big ass crowd.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know if that's a thing anymore.

[Ms. K]

I don't think it is.

[Bretman Rock]

I haven't seen, like, local fights. Like, things has been cordial.

[Ms. K]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. Whoa.

[Ms. K]

Yeah. Because there were.

[Bretman Rock]

There were full, like, riots too. Remember there was a couple a versus.

[Ms. K]

North service girl ever beach was versus seeing everybody.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Kat]

What?

[Ms. K]

It was like. It's so funny because sometimes, like, I'd be watching those videos and I like, squint. I'm like, oh, my God. It was. Is that me?

[Bretman Rock]

I have friends. I have friends and they watch the podcast always, so. Hi, Mary. I'm kidding. But I had a friend and this was in middle school and it was two girls and it was like my first fight ever. So I was like, really excited and I want to go see it. And I was like, girl, what the fuck is this? I was like. It was like, I love my friends, but it was like, I literally was like, how do I make this more spicy? Like, I wanted to push them.

[Jen]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

They could go in.

[Ms. K]

It wasn't.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

It was forever.

[Bretman Rock]

Yes.

[Kat]

You.

[Bretman Rock]

No, you, you. And I'm like, girl, I'm not. I didn't hike all the way down to the park to watch.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Point at each other. No, you.

[Kat]

You come at me first.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I was like, girl, one of you better fucking go. Because I. I got places to be.

[Ms. K]

Like, girl, I don't know why we're like. We were so like, oh, my God, there's a fight. Let's go watch it.

[Bretman Rock]

I mean, if that was the case right now, I would go out if someone was like, girl, your neighbors are fist fight. I'm like, girl, let me see. Oh, my God, this is so toxic. But I love to watch a good fight, especially because, like, I got your wrestling girls, girlfriends, even in wwe. Like, divas yeah, it was over.

[Ms. K]

Like, girl, I don't know why we're so violent. And we used to like fight like.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, for fun.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, Ms. K was the queen. She was a ring master.

[Kat]

Oh my God.

[Bretman Rock]

God. Okay, should we do product of the day? Oh my God.

[Ms. K]

Yeah, we should. Should I go first?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Ms. K]

My product of the day is this power bank right here.

[Bretman Rock]

Actually an anchor. Is this mine?

[Ms. K]

Is it?

[Bretman Rock]

It's the one downstairs. Yes, girl, it is.

[Ms. K]

I was like, wait, I have one like it.

[Bretman Rock]

I love a good pair, but I love the best power banks.

[Ms. K]

These are like the best. Cuz it's always like so handy and it fits like everywhere.

[Bretman Rock]

Especially on a cute plane ride. And like you just put it in there and like just watching.

[Ms. K]

Every time it rains, I always charge them because I feel like it's always going to be blackout. So I always have them.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that's a smarty. Yeah, that's a smarty idea.

[Ms. K]

But these are so amazing. Like, I always have them now on my phone or like in my bag.

[Bretman Rock]

My product of the week is another Thailand product. I don't know if I showed you guys this already. I think we've shown a different type of inhaler, but this is the inhaler. This is the one that Lisa had on her. Like, like what's in my bag? Video.

[Ms. K]

Oh, was it really?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes. And it smells so divine.

[Ms. K]

Like tea.

[Bretman Rock]

It smells like tea. There's also like mintiness in it. But I literally keep this on my bed and in all my three cars because I'm just. I just like sniffing on it. I don't even know if it like helps with everything.

[Ms. K]

Like, it's your vape.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Even if I don't. Even if I don't like feel nauseous or anything, I'm just like smelling this because it has become like my comfort. Like, like child. I'm like.

[Ms. K]

I think it's a smell that you.

[Bretman Rock]

Look for too, honestly. Wait. Cat also love this because she got like an emergency surgery for her teeth.

[Ms. K]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And she was in pain for like a week. And this is all she was smelling.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Kat]

This is my bad side. Yeah, it just helps.

[Bretman Rock]

So this is also Cat's product of the week.

[Kat]

Yeah, it's my product every day. I use it every day.

[Ms. K]

Really?

[Kat]

I have one. My car. When I buy.

[Bretman Rock]

I forgot I started the episode. Episode like that.

[Ms. K]

She's ending the episode like that.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. So the thumbnail can be this.

[Ms. K]

It's like, okay, let me put my mask on.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. Ms. K. Where can they find you? Girl?

[Ms. K]

Yes, can find me anywhere at M I S K A A Y and.

[Bretman Rock]

You guys are already here. Make sure you guys subscribe to the baddest radio. It's the baddest radio everywhere and make sure you guys give it the best ratings. Obviously, if you guys want a Season 2, I love you guys. I will see you guys next episode. And also follow me at everywhere at bramondrock.

[Ms. K]

Bye everybody. By bye.

[Bretman Rock]

Bye Peach. I'll see you next Thursday. Yeah, don't forget to follow rate and like you can follow me at bretmanrock on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media. Bye Beach.

[Sasha]

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