DaBaddest Radio – "Holy Spirits and Haunted Stories"
Host: Bretman Rock
Date: October 16, 2025
Episode Overview
In this Halloween-themed episode of "DaBaddest Radio," Bretman Rock and co-host Ms. K dive into the supernatural by sharing and reacting to scary, paranormal stories submitted by their listeners. Dressed in holy garb (Bretman as Jesus and Ms. K as the Virgin Mary), they explore religion, Filipino cultural practices, haunted childhood homes, and chilling supernatural experiences—all with their signature mix of humor, sass, and authenticity. The episode also weaves in personal reflections about faith, being "unapologetically baddest," and the importance of protecting your energy.
Key Discussion Points & Segments
1. Halloween Episode Vibes (00:01–04:32)
- Wardrobe & Theme: Hosts dress as Mary (Ms. K) and Jesus (Bretman), poking fun at their costumes and referencing Filipino religious traditions.
- On Religion: Light-hearted banter about the absurdity of religious pageantry as kids in the Philippines. Serious undertones about growing up Catholic and feeling unwelcome in church spaces, especially for LGBTQ+ youth.
- Notable Quote:
“I believe in God, period. ...but it's church that I have a hard time having a relationship with.” – Bretman (12:31)
- Notable Quote:
- Filipino Traditions:
- Discussion of extreme Catholic practices (e.g., men volunteering to be "crucified" for real in Philippine villages).
2. Keeping It Real: Life Updates & Affirmations (04:33–08:00)
- Latte Tasting: Ms. K makes a polarizing “patis caramel latte” (fish sauce latte)—reaction is unanimously negative and hilarious.
- Memorable Moment:
“That make me want to walk on water, girl.” – Bretman (09:17)
- Memorable Moment:
- Bretman’s Journal Affirmation:
- Shares a personal note about resilience, handling tough weeks, and setting personal boundaries.
- Inspirational Quote from Manager:
“Oceans do not apologize for their waves. Negativity may come and go, but your light and your purpose remain steady, powerful, and undeniable.” – Bretman’s manager Mariama (06:00)
- Retail Therapy Update: Flexing a new “love bracelet” as a pick-me-up after a tough month.
3. Tea of the Week: Pop Culture Drama (09:26–12:00)
- Nicki Minaj vs. Cardi B Feud:
- Discusses recent drama between the rappers, particularly relating to boundaries when children are involved.
- Both agree: “Kids should be off-limits.”
“I do think kids should be off limit, to be honest.” – Bretman (10:40)
- Social Media Criticism:
- Bretman addresses negative comments when posting about his niece/nephew, defending family privacy.
4. Deep Dives: Experiences with Religion (12:28–17:00)
- Personal Journeys of Faith:
- Both discuss growing up in the Philippines as Catholics, moving to the U.S., and changing religious affiliations.
- Struggles with church due to not feeling accepted for their sexuality.
- Light-hearted fake confessions take a comedic turn ("I think I’m gay… every time I close my eyes, I see dick and thank you…” – Bretman, 15:55)
- Filipino church rituals: First communion, confessions, and the taste of communion wafers sparking memories.
5. Main Event: Listener-Submitted Spooky Stories (21:26–59:00)
Story Highlights:
- The Man with Long Fingers (22:42)
- Listener’s niece sees a terrifying figure with black teeth and long fingers; disturbing follow-up events involve voices and haunted mirrors.
- The Music Box (26:54)
- A music box starts playing by itself after the grandmother's funeral—a classic, chilling haunting.
- The Haunted House on Broadway (27:48)
- Listener recounts a childhood spent in a property plagued by a vengeful spirit, culminating in frightening poltergeist activity and mysterious attacks.
- Dreams that Foretell Violence (35:06)
- Listener dreams about a classmate's father; the next day, the father is connected to a real-life murder—followed by a late-night apparition at her window.
- Paranormal Movie Marathon Fallout (40:55)
- A listener experiences sleep paralysis and a malevolent shadow after binge-watching horror movies, cleanses her home with holy water.
- Personal Filipino Hauntings (45:04)
- Multiple Filipino stories: spirits, “manananggal” sightings (a mythical Filipino creature), ghostly children asking for help at 3 am, and elders’ advice not to interact with ghosts.
6. Host Tales: Family Hauntings & Filipino Folklore (51:28–57:10)
- Personal Family Ghost Stories:
- Bretman describes growing up in a haunted family house, encounters with mysterious figures caught on security footage, and odd animal behavior coinciding with a relative’s death.
- Cultural Notes:
- Reflection on the uniquely intense and communal experience of the supernatural in Filipino culture.
7. Product Recommendations of the Day (57:13–59:31)
- Ms. K’s Pick: “Viral” brand perfume – genuinely impressed by its scent and complimented often (58:04).
- Bretman’s Pick: “Me J” hairbrush – praises its sturdy weight and effectiveness, likens it to a Mason Pearson brush (58:41).
Notable Quotes & Moments (with Timestamps)
- Religion & Identity:
"But it's church that I have a hard time having a relationship with...I've always been gay. I just never felt welcome." – Bretman (12:31) - Setting Boundaries:
“Your energy must be protected and honored at all times. Period.” – Bretman (06:00) - On Nicki/Cardi Feud:
“Kids should be off-limits, to be honest.” – Bretman (10:40) - Comedic Confession:
“I think I’m gay. Honestly, every time I close my eyes I just see dick and thank you and I don’t know what to do.” – Bretman (15:55) - Supernatural Reaction:
“That make me want to walk on water, girl.” – Bretman (09:17) - Culture Shock:
“If you think this is mocking... you would levitate if you went to a third world country.” – Bretman, discussing Filipino pageantry and costumes (01:27)
Timestamps for Key Segments
- 00:01–04:32: Holy wardrobe, intro to religion & Filipino traditions
- 04:33–08:00: Journal entry, self-affirmation, taste test gone wrong
- 09:26–12:00: Nicki Minaj & Cardi B drama, social media boundaries
- 12:28–17:00: Experiences as Filipino Catholics, fake confessions
- 21:26–59:00: Spooky listener stories and reactions
- 51:28–57:10: Family haunting stories, Filipino supernatural lore
- 57:13–59:31: Product of the day recommendations
Tone and Style
- Language: Relatable, humorous, irreverent, but warm and inclusive.
- Energy: High, quick-witted, authentic; topics often oscillate between comedy and heartfelt seriousness.
- Dynamic: Strong chemistry between Bretman and Ms. K; playful teasing balanced by vulnerability.
Takeaways for New Listeners
- Halloween on "DaBaddest Radio" means laughs, chills, and Filipino realness—from haunted lattes to haunted houses.
- Expect frank talk about culture, religion, and personal growth that doesn’t shy away from hard topics but keeps things uplifting.
- Listener stories are the highlight—if you love supernatural tales, especially with a Filipino twist, this one’s for you!
- You’ll get beauty tips and product picks at the end as a palate cleanser after all the scares.
