DaBaddest Radio — “Interviewing My Secret Admirer...”

Host: Bretman Rock | Guest: Ozzy Jaramillo (Producer/Videographer)
Date: February 12, 2026

Episode Overview

In a special Valentine’s Day episode, Bretman Rock finally introduces the much-requested, formerly behind-the-scenes member of DaBaddest Radio: Ozzy, the podcast’s videographer and occasional producer. The episode unfolds as a playful “first date” between Bretman and Ozzy, laced with humor, candid insights into their dynamic, Ozzy’s background, love languages, and philosophies on relationships and life. Listeners get a rare, entertaining, and heartfelt look into the real people “behind the pod.”

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Meeting the Secret Admirer: Who is Ozzy?

• Ozzy’s Grand Entrance: Ozzy surprises Bretman with sunflowers—the latter’s favorite flower—immediately setting a light, sweet tone.
  (00:01–02:29)
• Background Basics:
  • Full name: Ozzy Jaramillo (pronounced “Jara-mee-yo”).
  • Named after baseball shortstop Ozzie Smith, not Ozzy Osbourne.
    (04:01)
  • Oldest of three boys, raised in Waipahu, Hawaii.
  • Filipino-Latino heritage; shares playful banter over where their names come from.
• School Life:
  • Attended Waipahu High, class of 2009.
  • Was #1 on the school tennis team, not drama or band as the team guessed.
    (08:15)

2. Their Working Relationship & Meeting Story

• How They Met:
  • Bretman posted blurry podcast episodes and realized the need for a dedicated producer.
  • Ozzy, already experienced on other Hawaii pods, submitted a standout resume and media kit.
  • Both share perspectives:
    • Ozzy didn’t expect to be picked, encouraged to apply by friends.
    • Bretman’s immediate impression was friendly familiarity.
      (17:41–23:26)
• Why Ozzy Loves This Pod:
  • Finds DaBaddest Radio the most fun and involved podcast due to its camaraderie and interactive style.
  • “It’s such a hangout… this is the most involved I’ve been in a podcast. Like, I’m in front of the camera.” (23:47)
• First Impressions:
  • The hiring process was casual—“We didn’t even have like a ‘you’re hired’ moment, just, ‘get in there’.”

3. Ozzy’s Love Life & Perspectives on Dating

• Dating History:
  • Had two significant relationships: one high school sweetheart, one in his early 20s.
• Learnings from Relationships:
  • “Don’t stray from who you are in how you love people.” (27:00)
  • Effort is key: “Even if your effort is at 60 or 40 percent that day, then give that 40%.” (27:06)
• Love Language:
  • Likes both words of affirmation and physical touch; values quality time as well.
    (27:54–28:31)
• Romantic Gestures:
  • Once orchestrated a two-day LA date: church confession, Aladdin musical, pasta dinner, and Disneyland Easter egg hunt (with competitive twist).
  • Most extra thing: “I bought Disneyland tickets for us.”
  • Reflects on how he’s less likely to do grand gestures now, prioritizing intentionality and compatibility over big moments.
    (34:05–42:22)
• Reflection on Ghosting:
  • Waited months for texts. “Red flag was like… she didn’t text me back, you know, so I should have known, like, communication is big.” (41:46)

4. Creative Side: Poetry & Singing

• Poetry:
  • Ozzy reads an original poem, “What is Interaction?” about the paradox of social media “interaction” versus real life:
    • “We misuse and abuse what we can’t touch. Views about the news, opinions about the world. That ain’t saying much because all the media’s got you socially limited…” (30:34–31:34)
  • Poem reflects on how digital life shapes and sometimes diminishes genuine interaction.
• Music:
  • Started singing in high school, inspired by Filipino YouTube musicians (AJ Rafael era).
  • Sings to close the podcast: Adele’s “When We Were Young.” (72:21)

5. Getting to Know Ozzy—First Date Style Q&A

Favorite Age: 28—“You’re not young anymore, but you’re still kind of living your life.” (50:29–51:38)
Personality Type: Ambivert, leans introvert unless needed.
Hobbies: Video games (100 Thieves fan), trying new foods/restaurants, especially Japanese and Korean cuisine.
Pet Peeve: Baby voices, especially when people use it in adult interactions.
Hot Take: “You don’t have to have everything figured out at a certain age… just enjoy life.” (63:17–63:36)

6. Foodie Recommendations

• Favorite Spots:
  • Adela’s Country Eatery: “If you’ve never had Adela’s… it’s a good like, splurge once-a-month type thing.” (56:06)
  • Alii Fish Market: “Their poke is amazing.”
  • West Side pick: Fullen Farms, Malama’s Poke in Makakilo.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Ozzy on effort in relationships:
  • “Even if your effort is not 100%, if you’re operating at, like, maybe 60 or 40 that day, then give that 40%.” (27:06)
• Bretman on men with podcasts:
  • “Men don’t really be thinking before they speak a lot of times… if you’re gonna have a podcast as a man, keep women out of it. Anything you gotta say—just shut up.” (25:19–25:30)
• Bretman on being “the baddest”:
  • “I invented badminton… It’s literally my initials—Brett.” (10:42)
• Ozzy’s poem, “What is Interaction?” (30:34–31:34)
• Vulnerability moment:
  • Ozzy shares his poetry and admits to never starting his own podcast because he’s “afraid of getting canceled” and wary of being “just another man with a mic.” (24:14–24:39)
• Their real friendship:
  • “I have friends who often compare themselves to me and I always have to remind them, like, girl, we’re on our own timeline.” (63:42)
• Iconic musical send-off:
  • Ozzy sings “When We Were Young” by Adele live to close the episode—everyone joins in for an affectionate, full-circle finish. (72:21–73:11)

Highlight Timestamps

• 02:29 — Ozzy joins on mic, “in the flesh”
• 04:01 — Name origin story
• 08:15 — Ozzy’s tennis background
• 17:41 — How Bretman hired Ozzy
• 23:47 — Why Ozzy enjoys DaBaddest Radio
• 27:06 — Relationship lessons on effort
• 30:34 — Ozzy reads “What is Interaction?” poem
• 34:05–42:22 — Ozzy’s grand romantic gesture
• 47:31 — Favorite hobbies and music; K-Pop faves
• 50:29 — Favorite age (“28”)
• 56:06 — Restaurant recommendations
• 63:17 — Ozzy’s life hot take
• 72:21 — Live Adele performance

Overall Tone

• Lighthearted, playful, self-aware, and open-hearted.
• Bretman dishes out rapid-fire wit, self-deprecating humor, and vulnerability, while Ozzy is earnest, thoughtful, and quietly funny.
• The banter is authentic, making the episode feel both like an inside joke and a warm friends’ hangout.

For First-Time Listeners

This episode is a perfect entry point: you get both Bretman’s signature flair and rare access to “DaBaddest” family dynamics, including Ozzy’s personal side. The “first date” conceit brings out new, humanizing stories and provides thoughtful, sometimes hilarious reflections on modern relationships and friendship.

Not to Miss Next

• Follow Ozzy at @ozziejarmillo for more of his video work, and maybe, just maybe, a future podcast.
• Bretman: “Literally, and y’all better not try to hire Ozzy, because, girl, I don’t need to look for another producer, bitch!” (66:37)
• Don’t miss Kat’s soundbites (the unsung behind-the-scenes comic relief).

End Note

A Valentine’s Day episode that radiates honest, wholesome friendship vibes laced with vulnerability, poetry, recommendations, thoughtful advice, and one hell of a live send-off.
“Do you have any final words?”
“No, I don’t.”
—Ozzy, the baddest secret admirer, now revealed. (66:23)