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A (0:01)

The following podcast is a Dear Media production. Hello. Hello, everybody. It is I, Bretman Rock. It is Thursday yet again, and as you might see, I'm alone today. Ms. K is a busy, busy gal, and we will see her next week. But I'm only gonna be alone for a couple seconds, and I'll get to that after this intro. Bratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. Before I start, I just would like to say this is the Valentine's Day episode. I hope everybody has their Valentine's and their Valentine's Day already figured out. It's also. Well, no, it's technically not Valentine's yet, but hopefully tomorrow you have a Valentine's Day kiss. We have Kat in this producer role today. Kat. Let's hear something. Hello. Ms. Kat is here today because my very special guest and my date for the Valentine's Day episode has been one of my most requested guests ever, honestly. And he is not even really an influencer, not even really a celebrity either. But you guys have been hearing him. You guys been teased by his back, by his hands. And every week, I just feel like we get comments on how we just need to start showing our producer slash videographer slash, honestly, sometimes our research team. I introduced you guys, and really, it really did take a lot of convincing. Not really, because I was like, we're gonna try to make it as comfortable for you as possible. You know, I'm like, if you just want voice only, if you want hands only. But he said he wants only fans, so I'm kidding. So without further ado, I introduce you guys to my videographer, Ozzy. Ozzy. What is that? Ozzy? Oh, my gosh. He came with flower. Oh, my God. And it's sunflowers. Oh, my God. Ozzy. Thank you so much. I was not expecting this at all.

B (2:29)

Hello, everybody.

A (2:30)

Hey, guys. This is Ozzy in the flesh. Hello, period. After months and months of honestly blackmailing and convincing Ozzy to be on camera, we have him on camera today. Ozzy, are you nervous?

B (2:45)

I am.

A (2:46)

You're giving nervous shaking. I am. Oh, my gosh. This is our first date. I will say, because every time I do a video with a straight man, everyone's like, I see some tension, bitch. No, Ozzy's straight, y'. All. We have to respect that. And actually, I hope this episode will land on your future's wife. Honestly, this. You guys, Ozzy needs a girlfriend. I really feel like this video. Your future girlfriend's watching this video.

B (3:17)

Hey, if you're watching this. Hello.

A (3:19)

Introduce Yourself to the world, Ozzy.

Summary

DaBaddest Radio — “Interviewing My Secret Admirer...”

Host: Bretman Rock | Guest: Ozzy Jaramillo (Producer/Videographer)
Date: February 12, 2026

Episode Overview

In a special Valentine’s Day episode, Bretman Rock finally introduces the much-requested, formerly behind-the-scenes member of DaBaddest Radio: Ozzy, the podcast’s videographer and occasional producer. The episode unfolds as a playful “first date” between Bretman and Ozzy, laced with humor, candid insights into their dynamic, Ozzy’s background, love languages, and philosophies on relationships and life. Listeners get a rare, entertaining, and heartfelt look into the real people “behind the pod.”

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Meeting the Secret Admirer: Who is Ozzy?

Ozzy’s Grand Entrance: Ozzy surprises Bretman with sunflowers—the latter’s favorite flower—immediately setting a light, sweet tone.
(00:01–02:29)
Background Basics:
- Full name: Ozzy Jaramillo (pronounced “Jara-mee-yo”).
- Named after baseball shortstop Ozzie Smith, not Ozzy Osbourne.
  (04:01)
- Oldest of three boys, raised in Waipahu, Hawaii.
- Filipino-Latino heritage; shares playful banter over where their names come from.
School Life:
- Attended Waipahu High, class of 2009.
- Was #1 on the school tennis team, not drama or band as the team guessed.
  (08:15)

2. Their Working Relationship & Meeting Story

How They Met:
- Bretman posted blurry podcast episodes and realized the need for a dedicated producer.
- Ozzy, already experienced on other Hawaii pods, submitted a standout resume and media kit.
- Both share perspectives:
  - Ozzy didn’t expect to be picked, encouraged to apply by friends.
  - Bretman’s immediate impression was friendly familiarity.
    (17:41–23:26)
Why Ozzy Loves This Pod:
- Finds DaBaddest Radio the most fun and involved podcast due to its camaraderie and interactive style.
- “It’s such a hangout… this is the most involved I’ve been in a podcast. Like, I’m in front of the camera.” (23:47)
First Impressions:
- The hiring process was casual—“We didn’t even have like a ‘you’re hired’ moment, just, ‘get in there’.”

3. Ozzy’s Love Life & Perspectives on Dating

Dating History:
- Had two significant relationships: one high school sweetheart, one in his early 20s.
Learnings from Relationships:
- “Don’t stray from who you are in how you love people.” (27:00)
- Effort is key: “Even if your effort is at 60 or 40 percent that day, then give that 40%.” (27:06)
Love Language:
- Likes both words of affirmation and physical touch; values quality time as well.
  (27:54–28:31)
Romantic Gestures:
- Once orchestrated a two-day LA date: church confession, Aladdin musical, pasta dinner, and Disneyland Easter egg hunt (with competitive twist).
- Most extra thing: “I bought Disneyland tickets for us.”
- Reflects on how he’s less likely to do grand gestures now, prioritizing intentionality and compatibility over big moments.
  (34:05–42:22)
Reflection on Ghosting:
- Waited months for texts. “Red flag was like… she didn’t text me back, you know, so I should have known, like, communication is big.” (41:46)

4. Creative Side: Poetry & Singing

Poetry:
- Ozzy reads an original poem, “What is Interaction?” about the paradox of social media “interaction” versus real life:
  - “We misuse and abuse what we can’t touch. Views about the news, opinions about the world. That ain’t saying much because all the media’s got you socially limited…” (30:34–31:34)
- Poem reflects on how digital life shapes and sometimes diminishes genuine interaction.
Music:
- Started singing in high school, inspired by Filipino YouTube musicians (AJ Rafael era).
- Sings to close the podcast: Adele’s “When We Were Young.” (72:21)

5. Getting to Know Ozzy—First Date Style Q&A

Favorite Age: 28—“You’re not young anymore, but you’re still kind of living your life.” (50:29–51:38)
Personality Type: Ambivert, leans introvert unless needed.
Hobbies: Video games (100 Thieves fan), trying new foods/restaurants, especially Japanese and Korean cuisine.
Pet Peeve: Baby voices, especially when people use it in adult interactions.
Hot Take: “You don’t have to have everything figured out at a certain age… just enjoy life.” (63:17–63:36)

6. Foodie Recommendations

Favorite Spots:
- Adela’s Country Eatery: “If you’ve never had Adela’s… it’s a good like, splurge once-a-month type thing.” (56:06)
- Alii Fish Market: “Their poke is amazing.”
- West Side pick: Fullen Farms, Malama’s Poke in Makakilo.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Ozzy on effort in relationships:
- “Even if your effort is not 100%, if you’re operating at, like, maybe 60 or 40 that day, then give that 40%.” (27:06)
Bretman on men with podcasts:
- “Men don’t really be thinking before they speak a lot of times… if you’re gonna have a podcast as a man, keep women out of it. Anything you gotta say—just shut up.” (25:19–25:30)
Bretman on being “the baddest”:
- “I invented badminton… It’s literally my initials—Brett.” (10:42)
Ozzy’s poem, “What is Interaction?” (30:34–31:34)
Vulnerability moment:
- Ozzy shares his poetry and admits to never starting his own podcast because he’s “afraid of getting canceled” and wary of being “just another man with a mic.” (24:14–24:39)
Their real friendship:
- “I have friends who often compare themselves to me and I always have to remind them, like, girl, we’re on our own timeline.” (63:42)
Iconic musical send-off:
- Ozzy sings “When We Were Young” by Adele live to close the episode—everyone joins in for an affectionate, full-circle finish. (72:21–73:11)

Highlight Timestamps

02:29 — Ozzy joins on mic, “in the flesh”
04:01 — Name origin story
08:15 — Ozzy’s tennis background
17:41 — How Bretman hired Ozzy
23:47 — Why Ozzy enjoys DaBaddest Radio
27:06 — Relationship lessons on effort
30:34 — Ozzy reads “What is Interaction?” poem
34:05–42:22 — Ozzy’s grand romantic gesture
47:31 — Favorite hobbies and music; K-Pop faves
50:29 — Favorite age (“28”)
56:06 — Restaurant recommendations
63:17 — Ozzy’s life hot take
72:21 — Live Adele performance

Overall Tone

Lighthearted, playful, self-aware, and open-hearted.
Bretman dishes out rapid-fire wit, self-deprecating humor, and vulnerability, while Ozzy is earnest, thoughtful, and quietly funny.
The banter is authentic, making the episode feel both like an inside joke and a warm friends’ hangout.

For First-Time Listeners

This episode is a perfect entry point: you get both Bretman’s signature flair and rare access to “DaBaddest” family dynamics, including Ozzy’s personal side. The “first date” conceit brings out new, humanizing stories and provides thoughtful, sometimes hilarious reflections on modern relationships and friendship.

Not to Miss Next

Follow Ozzy at @ozziejarmillo for more of his video work, and maybe, just maybe, a future podcast.
Bretman: “Literally, and y’all better not try to hire Ozzy, because, girl, I don’t need to look for another producer, bitch!” (66:37)
Don’t miss Kat’s soundbites (the unsung behind-the-scenes comic relief).

End Note

A Valentine’s Day episode that radiates honest, wholesome friendship vibes laced with vulnerability, poetry, recommendations, thoughtful advice, and one hell of a live send-off.
“Do you have any final words?”
“No, I don’t.”
—Ozzy, the baddest secret admirer, now revealed. (66:23)