The Boyfriend Tag

Summary

DaBaddest Radio - Episode: The Boyfriend Tag

Release Date: May 8, 2025
Host: Dear Media
Guests: Bretman Rock & Justice Fester

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Introduction

In this episode of DaBaddest Radio, host Bretman Rock teams up with Justice Fester for a candid and engaging conversation about their relationship, personal journeys, and experiences as public figures. Skipping over the usual advertisements and introductions, Bretman and Justice dive straight into their shared stories, offering listeners an intimate glimpse into their lives.

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Recent Adventures: Philippines and Coachella

The episode kicks off with Bretman and Justice reminiscing about their recent trips. Bretman mentions his upcoming return to the Philippines, revealing his exciting achievement of being the first cover model for Allure Philippines, alongside the renowned Ms. Heart Evangelista.

Bretman Rock [02:20]: "I am the first cover of Allure Philippines ever. And not just me. It is with Ms. Heart Evangelista."

Justice shares her positive experience in the Philippines, highlighting the warmth and hospitality of the locals.

Justice Fester [01:24]: "Just that I love Philippines. Everyone's very welcoming."

Transitioning to their Coachella experience, Justice describes the festival as "very bougie" and details their luxurious accommodations and favorite performances.

Justice Fester [03:05]: "Coachella was very bougie. I was not expecting it."

Bretman praises Lady Gaga's performance for its artistic depth, emphasizing her status as a true artist.

Justice Fester [03:34]: "She's a true artist."

Despite the glamour, Justice mentions the minor downside of enduring dusty conditions post-festival.

Justice Fester [03:57]: "Except for me coughing up dirt for the next week after getting back. I know, but, I mean, that's just Coachella."

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How They Met: A Journey of Six Years

Bretman and Justice delve into the origins of their relationship, recounting how they initially met six years prior at Scarlet, a prominent gay club in Hawaii.

Justice Fester [06:20]: "We first met in Scarlet six years ago, which is a gay club here."

Their first interaction was casual, sparked by a shared drink and a night out. However, due to external influences and misunderstandings, they didn't exchange numbers, leaving their initial connection unresolved.

Justice Fester [07:43]: "Nothing happened. We didn't even exchange numbers."

Six years later, a twist of fate brings them back together through a TikTok trend, rekindling their connection and leading to their first date.

Bretman Rock [16:20]: "It was him in, like, a golden Labrador... I was like, he's so cute."

Their first dates were memorable, filled with nervous excitement and deep conversations. Justice recalls their rock painting date, highlighting the emotional intimacy they shared.

Justice Fester [21:39]: "That was honestly probably the cutest, like, date experience I've ever had."

Their relationship blossomed quickly, with Bretman proposing after just three weeks of dating, solidifying their bond.

Bretman Rock [22:21]: "Now, we don't have to call them about getting in trouble from work."

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Relationship Dynamics: Personalities and Boundaries

The conversation shifts to their individual personalities and how they complement each other. Justice identifies as a Cancer with Libra rising and Leo Moon, while Bretman describes himself as a mix of Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius—all fixed signs.

Justice Fester [23:20]: "I am a cancer, sun, Libra rising. No Leo Moon, period."

They discuss what irritates them most about each other, revealing a playful dynamic. Bretman finds Justice's calm demeanor soothing yet occasionally frustrating when he needs more energy and spontaneity.

Bretman Rock [24:07]: "Sometimes I'm really like, girl."

Conversely, Justice appreciates Bretman's authenticity and humor but occasionally finds his loud chewing and ASMR aversions amusing.

Justice Fester [24:09]: "He's just saying things like, 'I'm just like, sis, what?'"

Respecting each other's need for personal space is paramount in their relationship. Bretman lives in the mountains while Justice resides in town, yet they maintain a healthy balance by spending weekends together and valuing their individual time.

Justice Fester [28:23]: "I have my own place. I live in a two bedroom, two bath all by myself."

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Maintaining a Healthy Relationship: Communication and Boundaries

Bretman and Justice emphasize the importance of communication and setting boundaries early in their relationship. They prioritize talking openly about their needs and ensuring that their careers and personal growth remain central.

Bretman Rock [43:57]: "We talk a lot... and set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."

Their trust in each other is unshakeable, bolstered by their understanding of each other's public personas and the challenges that come with fame. They acknowledge the omnipresence of social media but reassure listeners that their trust and respect for one another prevent insecurities from emerging.

Bretman Rock [46:40]: "I trust you, too."

When conflicts arise, they handle them maturely—opting to take a step back rather than engage in heated arguments.

Justice Fester [44:55]: "We get irritated, if anything, and it's just like, okay, I'll see you in 10 minutes."

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Audience Questions: Fun and Personal Insights

The duo takes a lighthearted turn by answering listener-submitted questions, revealing more about their personalities and quirks.

Astrology Signs:

• Justice: Cancer Sun, Libra Rising, Leo Moon.
• Bretman: Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius.

Favorite Pastimes: Bretman enjoys when they spend quiet days together, such as meditating in the mornings or having long conversations while watching YouTube.

Bretman Rock [37:54]: "I love a rainy day... throwing away a day."

Justice prefers meditating together and occasionally helping Bretman with gardening, though she respects his preference for doing things solo.

Irritating Each Other:

• Bretman: Loud chewing or tapping noises.
• Justice: Putting dairy in front of Bretman or wearing bad posture.

Flavors and Smells:

• Bretman as a flavor: Lavender.
• Justice as a flavor: Scooby Doo Gummy Bears (Blue One).

Most Romantic: Initially, Justice claims to be more romantic, but Bretman feels they are equally romantic, with Justice often taking the lead in romantic gestures.

Justice Fester [47:40]: "Me."

Bretman Rock [47:43]: "You could take that."

Meeting the Parents: Justice has met Bretman's mother and other family members, while Bretman has yet to meet hers. They shared a humorous anecdote about Bretman's over-caffeinated appearance during a meet-the-parents meeting.

Bretman Rock [43:57]: "Did you guys do the meet the parents thingy?"

Keeping the Relationship Healthy: Their strategies include open communication, respecting personal boundaries, spending quality time together, and maintaining individual interests.

Justice Fester [43:57]: "We talk a lot. We honestly just take time to ourselves."

Bretman Rock [45:48]: "We set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."

Favorite Pastime Together: When they're not doing anything, they enjoy each other's company—whether it's lounging in the attic with YouTube or playing card games with deep, philosophical questions.

Bretman Rock [35:25]: "We just have YouTube playing, and we're just talking and watching the day."

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Evolution Since Meeting

The relationship has brought significant changes to both Bretman and Justice. For Justice, increased recognition and being a public figure have altered how she interacts with the world, especially when accompanied by Bretman.

Justice Fester [40:33]: "I get more recognized now, period."

Bretman feels less lonely and more supported with Justice as his partner, appreciating the companionship and mutual understanding they share.

Bretman Rock [41:40]: "I am less lonely now. I have a plus one."

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Final Thoughts and Reflections

As the episode wraps up, Bretman and Justice reflect on what they've learned from each other. Patience stands out as a crucial factor in maintaining their harmonious relationship.

Justice Fester [48:45]: "That patience is key."

Bretman acknowledges Justice's patience with him, recognizing it as a fundamental pillar of their bond.

Bretman Rock [48:48]: "He is so patient with me that I have to be patient with him as well."

They conclude by expressing gratitude for each other's presence in their lives, ensuring listeners understand the depth and balance of their relationship.

Justice Fester [49:05]: "Thanks for having me on the baddest radio."

Bretman Rock [49:56]: "Make sure you guys follow and subscribe to the baddest radio. I love you guys and I will see you guys next week."

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Key Takeaways

• Authenticity and Complementary Personalities: Bretman’s vibrant energy balanced by Justice’s calm demeanor creates a harmonious relationship dynamic.
• Communication and Boundaries: Open dialogue and mutual respect for personal space are foundational to their relationship’s success.
• Shared Experiences: Traveling together to places like the Philippines and Coachella strengthens their bond and provides shared memories.
• Public Life Navigation: Both navigate the challenges of being public figures with trust and understanding, ensuring their relationship remains strong despite external pressures.
• Fun and Playfulness: Engaging in lighthearted questions and playful banter keeps their relationship lively and enjoyable.

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Notable Quotes

• Bretman Rock [02:20]: "I am the first cover of Allure Philippines ever. And not just me. It is with Ms. Heart Evangelista."
• Justice Fester [03:05]: "Coachella was very bougie. I was not expecting it."
• Bretman Rock [16:20]: "It was him in, like, a golden Labrador... I was like, he's so cute."
• Justice Fester [21:39]: "That was honestly probably the cutest, like, date experience I've ever had."
• Bretman Rock [43:57]: "We talk a lot... and set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."
• Justice Fester [48:45]: "That patience is key."

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This episode of DaBaddest Radio offers a heartfelt exploration of Bretman Rock and Justice Fester's relationship, blending personal anecdotes with valuable insights on maintaining a healthy and balanced partnership. Their openness and genuine affection provide listeners with both entertainment and inspiration.

Transcript

[Unknown]

The following podcast is a Dear Media production.

[Bretman Rock]

Hello. Hello everyone. It is I, Bretman Rock.

[Justice Fester]

It is I, Justice Fester.

[Bretman Rock]

And today we are finally doing the Bretman Rock and Justice Fester episode. I feel like we have been edging them for this episode for so long now. Ever since we did the Halloween episode last year, period. Cue the intro. Ratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we are back. As you guys can see, I have my dandy dandy iPad today because I'm going to be reading some of the questions that you guys have sent us. I posted on my stories today, but before we get to that, I feel like we should do a little catch up. They haven't seen you in a while. The last time was when we did the who Knows Me the Best video. Do you have anything to say about that video?

[Justice Fester]

No. It was a lot of fun. I like being on POD with Princess and Cat. We talked about going to the Philippines, but we had not went to the Philippines yet. Right?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. How was the Philippines for you?

[Justice Fester]

Philippines was amazing.

[Bretman Rock]

What was your favorite thing about the Philippines?

[Justice Fester]

Baal. That's how you say it.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl.

[Justice Fester]

We went and saw the Tarshiers are the resort resort we stayed at. It was very much like giving like White Lotus.

[Bretman Rock]

Shout out to Amorita. Shout out to Amorita. Was there any key takeaways from that trip for you?

[Justice Fester]

Just that I love Philippines. Everyone's very welcoming.

[Bretman Rock]

Ready to go back with me soon.

[Justice Fester]

I can't wait.

[Bretman Rock]

Speaking of going back, I am filming this the day before my flight back home to the Philippines. Better than Billie Jeans. Guess that is why I get more head than the Guillotine. I'm going back to Manila. If you guys don't know what I'm going for the Philippines for, I feel like I can finally say it because by the time this episode goes out, it'll probably be out already. But I am the first cover of Allure Philippines ever. And not just me. It is with Ms. Heart Evangelista. And we shot it right. The last time that we were back home in the Philippines. I think it was the day that you landed is when I shot it. Because you were supposed to be on set that day.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, the El Nido part, right?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. Like we had just landed back from El Nido in Manila and then that's what we shot. And I'm sure you guys already know that a bad bitch shot for Blk as well. So I have that collab with Blk and a fabulous cover for all Philippines with Heart Evangelista. That's where I'm in the Philippines for. But do you want to tell them about Coachella? We've also gone to Coachella. We were home for, like, a week, and then we went to Coachella. How was your Coachella experience ever with guests? And I'm sure you guys are so tired of hearing about Coachella, but he hasn't talked about it yet.

[Justice Fester]

Coachella was very bougie. I was not expecting it. We flew privately, obviously, with guests. We got there. We got picked up in, like, these pretty cool, like, colorful shuttles.

[Bretman Rock]

They look.

[Justice Fester]

They were, like limos on the inside. We got our own, like, house with a pool and hot tub and stuff. It was really fun. It was.

[Bretman Rock]

What was your favorite set that we saw at Coachella?

[Justice Fester]

Either Lady Gaga or Charli xcx.

[Bretman Rock]

No, you were, like, Gaga out. I never thought you were a monster.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, I'm gonna have to say Lady Gaga, actually, because her. Her show was just very artsy. I loved it. Yeah. Like, the whole opera theme.

[Bretman Rock]

You liked when she was, like, dead, you were like, oh, my God, babe. This is so artsy.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, yeah, it's Gaga, girl.

[Justice Fester]

She's a true artist.

[Bretman Rock]

Was there any bad things about Coachella? Negative things besides hot?

[Justice Fester]

Except for me coughing up dirt for the next week after getting back. I know, but, I mean, that's just Coachella.

[Bretman Rock]

So is it time to address the elephant in the room?

[Justice Fester]

What's the elephant in the room?

[Bretman Rock]

Would you like to tell them why you're wearing a hat? Because, as you guys know, Mr. Justice was a silver head for Coachella.

[Justice Fester]

You don't gotta call me out like that. But.

[Bretman Rock]

But we have to call. What. They're probably wondering, where is your silver hair?

[Justice Fester]

I bleached my hair for Coachella. It wasn't silver.

[Bretman Rock]

It was blonde, but okay, girl.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. And then I. I didn't know how my work would react to it getting back. So, like, that night, I just got home, and I took a pair of.

[Bretman Rock]

Trimmers and just buzzed it, giving Britney Spears 2007.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Or maybe five, I think.

[Justice Fester]

Show them.

[Bretman Rock]

Do you want to show them your hair?

[Justice Fester]

It. It's actually grown, like, very fast for it only being a week.

[Bretman Rock]

So he buzzed his head, you guys, because he didn't want to get in trouble from work.

[Justice Fester]

It's giving very military buzz cut. But then I went to work on a Tuesday, and everyone was like, where'd your hair go? Why'd you cut it off?

[Bretman Rock]

I know. Why did you cut it off? Because, you guys, I told him to just FaceTime me and we can just color it together on FaceTime. Yes. I fell asleep, but I was like, girl, just get a dark brown Revlon, like a cheap one. You don't really have long hair anyway, so it doesn't matter if it has.

[Justice Fester]

It's.

[Bretman Rock]

It's box dye. But you just didn't want to diet back to black.

[Justice Fester]

Well, after you fell asleep, I was like, you know what? It'll probably just be faster if I buzz it off. Opposed to dying it for. You have to like, what, diet for like 40 minutes or an hour or something like that. And then that's. If the color sticks, you have to redo it.

[Bretman Rock]

That's true. I feel like.

[Justice Fester]

And at that.

[Bretman Rock]

What do you mean, if the color sticks? It's going to stick, especially if it's dark.

[Justice Fester]

Well, it was already like 11 o' clock at night, and then I had work the next morning, so I was like, just gonna buzz it.

[Bretman Rock]

That's fair. Before we answer all of your questions, I feel like the burning question that we always get asked is, how did we meet? And we actually met twice. So I'd let you guys. I'll let justice tell the story of how we first met, and then I'll tell the story of how we second met. And that's when we started dating.

[Justice Fester]

We first met in Scarlet six years ago, which is a gay club here.

[Bretman Rock]

And probably the best and the only gay club in Hawaii, honestly.

[Justice Fester]

Well, they just. Yeah, they just opened up another one, but I don't know.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, they did?

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. I don't know if that's good or.

[Bretman Rock]

Not, but I haven't been to a club since I literally turned legal or, like, at least back in Scarlet. I turned 21 and I stopped going.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, it's been at least like six months a year for me because I just go for, like, celebrations of, like, birthdays or something. But anyways, we met at Scarlet's. Ms. K was actually the first person that came up and talked to me. I guess they didn't know. Oh, like Brett and Ms. K. And then he had a couple of friends, like justice.

[Bretman Rock]

As well.

[Justice Fester]

Yes. They didn't know. They thought I was cute. They didn't know whether I was gay or not. Ms. K came up to me at the bar and she asked me if I was gay. And I was like, yeah, I am. I mean, I'm. We're at a gay bar.

[Bretman Rock]

But you're like, no, but you were with like two. Two girls and a boy. And you guys literally look like just us two straight Couples.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, I was. I was with like a group of friends and it was like one of the girls birthdays in the group. Anyways, I told Ms. K I was gay. Ms. K, like waved Brett over basically. And then we just started talking and then I think he got a drink and we like shared it.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, I don't know why, we just never got like two drinks.

[Justice Fester]

It was like an AMF or something like that.

[Bretman Rock]

It was.

[Justice Fester]

And we just start. We just. We shared it. We were God, deep in conversation, I guess. And then after Scarlet closed, we went to like Zippy's at like 2am I was kind of. Well, we got super drunk and then I was kind of like embarrassed because I was with like a group of like 10 people and I was close with like maybe like two of them. The rest of them I didn't know. I think I got super quiet when we all went out to Zippy's and I got kind of awkward because just.

[Bretman Rock]

Like a big group and we were all like drunk and like the lights were on and I think we were all just like, girl, yeah, we were just trying to get our zip pack and go.

[Justice Fester]

That part was a blur for me, honestly. But yeah, we ended up. Nothing happening. We didn't even exchange numbers. Got. Didn't get any pictures together that night. Then I remember messaging him. I think it was the next morning after that had happened. And when I woke up or whatever, I messaged him and asked him on a date. And he never replied.

[Bretman Rock]

Nope. And the reason why we. Well, you saw it differently than I did, but everything is basically true from all the way down to Zippy's, especially on your point of view and my point of view. That all happened. But what had happened when we were at Zippy's and why we initially never got each other's number is because one of my girlfriends came up to me and was like, Brett, I think he's talking to like one of my friends. And I was just like, not that girl. I'm not that girl to be in anybody' roster, girl. So I cut it. I really was just like, okay, he don't. I kind of just like lost interest, honestly, because I was just like, well, I didn't know he was talking to someone else, so I'm not going to be like putting myself in there. So I think that's why it resulted to us not getting each other's number. But six years later, six years go by and Kat, it makes me watch this show. I forgot what it was. But the. It's like when they're all living in their bunkers. Let me Google it.

[Justice Fester]

Oh, by the way, I was not talking to anyone at that time. I would have not talked to Bretman or what.

[Bretman Rock]

Would you like to tell them who the guy was? Tell them who the guy that was talking to you.

[Justice Fester]

Oh, yeah, the guy that made that up or whatever. He was like a pathological liar. He was known. He's known for, like, lying to people about just random things, stupid things I shouldn't be lying about.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. So the guy that he was supposedly talking to, I also knew this guy. I wouldn't say he was a friend. He was more of, like, a friend of a friend. And I met him, and he lied about so many things as well, to me. So that's how I knew that. When he told me that he was lying about it, I was like, oh, I didn't doubt it, because this guy's the type that would lie about his parents dying where he lives. He said he lives in Fiji. I'm like, you know, you don't. He talks about, like, just so many. He hypes him like, you know those people that just lie about everything for fun. And don't get me wrong, I do be lying for fun, too. But, like, there's just people out there that just be lying out of their ass, and he was one of them.

[Justice Fester]

So basically, he was interested in me, but I was not interested in him. And I kind of, like, denied him so I could. So maybe his way of trying to get back at me was, like, trying to ruin something between, like, me and Brett. I don't know.

[Bretman Rock]

But we always thank him because I really don't think those people should have dated.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, no. We were two whole different people back then. We were not as mature as we are now. We obviously had, like, life experiences that we needed to go through for us to be able to have, like, the relationship we have now. So, yeah, honestly, I'm kind of grateful for that.

[Bretman Rock]

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[Bretman Rock]

So going back to what I was saying, we met six years later, and this was last year in May, which, honestly, I did the math. And when this episode goes out, it'll be probably around our one year when on our first day, we ate. But anyways, going back. So Kat made me watch this show called Fallout, and the ending of it was so intense that I had to pause. And the show, girl, I have not told this story in so long that I literally forgot about everything. But basically, I go on Tick Tock, and I see. I'm scrolling on Tick Tock, and I see a picture of him and a dog, and it was him in, like, a golden Labrador, I think, right?

[Justice Fester]

Yes.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, it's a Golden Lab. Oh, Golden Retriever. Yes, it's a golden Retriever. And he's taking a picture, and he's just smiling in the picture. There is nothing really going on in the picture. It was one of those trends that was like, here are my red flags or green flags or whatever. And then the next slide was him on a boat, still smiling. And right away I was like, who is this man? Like, and it was bothering me. You know when it bothers you because, like, you can't remember who someone is. Like, you know, you know them from somewhere, but you can't remember where it was. I'm literally staring at these pictures for, like, 10 minutes now. And then I finally decide to go on his Instagram page on TikTok. He's so cute. He's so cute. And I literally was like. Not only was I already bothered that I couldn't remember who he was, I was also bothered because I'm like, he's so cute. Like, so I need to, like, talk to him, obviously. But he is private on Instagram at the time. And because his Instagram is connected to his TikTok, I click on his Instagram, it's private. And I'm like, girl, do I risk it all for this man? I don't. I literally do not slide in anyone's DM ever. And I was just like, it can't hurt to just be like, hey, what's up? But also, I needed to know who he was, so I literally Was gonna DM him. Do I know you from somewhere? That is literally what I was gonna DM him. But as I press DM message, there was a six year old message waiting for me. And I'm not gonna read you what it says because that's in between us. But it was just like him apologizing, being like, oh my God, I'm so sorry about last night, I would like to take you out on a proper date. That was basically the synopsis of it. And I reply and I'm like, is that date still on the table? Because I'm not doing anything.

[Justice Fester]

I remember waking up at like 6am or 7am for work and I saw the DM and I replied the same exact day that he messaged me. And we went on a date same day too.

[Bretman Rock]

So yeah, you were like, oh, I'm free on weekdays. Oh no weekdays from this time to this time. And I'm also free weekends. And I'm like, are you free tonight? Like, what the fuck? So we went on a date that very night. That very, very, very night. Should we tell them where we went on a date? Well, we went to Roy's in town. Yeah, Roy's, Waikiki, which was your choice. Honestly, such a great restaurant. We have one on my side of the island too. And the whole time I was driving there, I'm like, why the hell did I tell him I would drive to him? But I remember being so nervous that day. I literally was picking out over like four different black tank tops that look the same. But going back to the date, I remember just like seeing you and I was like, there was already like a sense of familiarity there that like we were just so comfortable ever since like our first date. Honestly. Would you say that?

[Justice Fester]

I would say I was very. Well, I feel like when I had saw you, it's like I. I mean a lot had changed in between that time, but also at the same time, nothing. Like it was very familiar. Familiar.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I really feel like we left off. We really picked up from where we left off. Even though where we left off was literally at Zippy. It was drunk as. What was your first impression of me?

[Justice Fester]

Like, I thought that you were even more beautiful the first time I had met you. And I was kind of intimidated because obviously you're like Bretman rock and stuff and I didn't think that I was. I, like I was also overthinking what I was gonna wear to the date and stuff. And I probably spent like a good like 30, 40 minutes trying to figure out what I Was gonna wear. I just overthinking it.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my gosh. Same. I probably acted, like, cool. Like, oh, my God, this. This. I just got to see the back of my. My closet, girl. Like, it was not that much, but, yeah, that was it. Like, really. We just went on a day. It felt like everything was cute. And we went on another date. Like, two days later. I took you to a.

[Justice Fester]

Are you talking about the farmers market?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, the farmer's market. I took you to the farmer's market. It was like a food market thing. It rained on us. And then we ended up, like, driving to ma childhood beach that I used to go to all the time.

[Justice Fester]

And we just sat on the beach.

[Bretman Rock]

And talked when we talked. And then I think you told me about, like, a lot of trauma. We did a lot of trauma dumping, for sure. And then I had to leave for Miami. I remembered, no, no, no, no. We went on another date before Miami. We went to the beach. I remembered because we were gonna date. We're on our first day that we planned was supposed to be at the beach on May 4, but I literally was like, girl, let's go on a date today. And that was May 1st. And we went on three dates before I had to leave for Miami. The beach date was really fun. We did the rock painting. And that's when I posted that video for the first time on TikTok and was like, okay, I don't really feel like launching or soft launching or hard launching anything. I was just like, let me just drop this video. Did we post it on your.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, on mine. On my TikTok.

[Bretman Rock]

Hello.

[Justice Fester]

That was honestly probably the cutest, like, date experience I've ever had. Like, we painted rocks and drank wine and listened to, like, Frank Ocean. And was it just Frank, or was it Lana, too? No, it was all Frank.

[Bretman Rock]

It was just all Frank. And then a couple of days after that is when I realized we're both.

[Justice Fester]

Really big Frank Ocean fans, for sure.

[Bretman Rock]

That was it, right? And then we went to bed, and then I had to go leave for Miami a couple of days after that. And then I got back home, and that's when you asked me to be your boyfriend.

[Justice Fester]

So I got him. I got him a blue bouquet of flowers, and I. It said it had inside of it. Will you be my boyfriend, period?

[Bretman Rock]

And obviously, I was gonna say yes, because you also picked up my dog Lily and picked me up with her. And I was like, oh, my God, this is so cute. And obviously you and Kat, like, were talking, like, and stuff like that. That's how he got Lily. He didn't just come to my house and, like, got Lily. Also, how many weeks after did you. Did we start talking? And then until you asked me out, I feel like it was like it.

[Justice Fester]

Was in between, like three to four weeks now. It was almost a month. I thought it was a month, but it depends on.

[Bretman Rock]

No, our first date was the first. Right.

[Justice Fester]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

You asked me out on the 22nd. That's like three weeks.

[Justice Fester]

I said three to four weeks.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, okay. Period. No, I'm just doing the math. Like, bitch, I don't know why you're trying to extend it to four weeks. It was three weeks.

[Justice Fester]

Whatever. It doesn't matter.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Okay, should we answer some of these questions? So that's how we met, and that's how we started dating as well. Okay, what are your signs?

[Justice Fester]

Like my zodiac, astrology.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, Yeah.

[Justice Fester]

I am a cancer, sun, Libra rising. No Leo Moon, period.

[Bretman Rock]

And y' all don't know my. Y' all don't need to know my. But I'm a Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius. I'm all the fixed signs that sun, moon and rising. What irritates each other the most? Like, if you needed to irritate me, what would you do? And what would I do if I irritated you? Because I know what I would do to irritate you.

[Justice Fester]

Oh, I know what he would do to irritate me also. I don't know. I've never thought about trying to irritate you.

[Bretman Rock]

You really don't irritate me.

[Justice Fester]

You just be like, not irritate you as much as I possibly can.

[Bretman Rock]

You really just be saying things sometimes that. I'm just like, girl. Sometimes I'm really like, girl.

[Justice Fester]

But that's low key kind of funny.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, no, he just be saying things like, I'm like, sis, what? And he. I don't know. And I joke about him like, just being a straight man sometimes, but he really be doing, doing and saying the straightest shit. Sometimes I'm just like, oh, my God, you're so fucking irritating. Like, for example, and Guess, please do not take this seriously. But we were talking about Guess jeans, right? And he inter. And I, it was me, Ms. K and Brian, we were talking about gas. And he goes, what is guest jeans known for? And I'm like, girl, I swear, if you asked that, like, in the middle of like the guest dinner, I would be so irritated. But I literally go, it's in the title, girl. And he's like, guess jeans, bitch.

[Justice Fester]

I didn't know it Was guess jeans. At first I just knew. I've guessed.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, that's valid. But girl, I literally was like, oh my gosh.

[Justice Fester]

Something I could easily do, probably irritate him is, I don't know, like, put Belk in something.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl, that would actually, no, he do be liking to eat. I. And I sometimes, like, I think you do it on purpose, but like, or not even. You just like everybody in my life in general will just like eat something with dairy in front of me knowing I can't eat it. Or like, you'll get something at restaurants knowing I can't eat it. You, however, I feel like if I wanted to annoy you, I would just chew really loud.

[Justice Fester]

Yep, yep, that's an egg for me.

[Bretman Rock]

I would just chew really loud or like tap something really loud.

[Justice Fester]

I hate like ASMR stuff.

[Bretman Rock]

He's not really like when people like.

[Justice Fester]

Chew with their mouths open, like they like smack. I don't know, it's like, it's like taking chalk and like, just like scribbling on.

[Bretman Rock]

She's not the best fan of asmr. Let's just say that. Yeah, like chewing loud around you is like annoying to, to you. I don't really care cuz I'm like, girl, I'm a loud chewer. Who said I love you first? Yeah, I feel like, yeah, I literally said I love you the day he asked me to be his boyfriend. I'm like, God love you. That's my man's. But you kiss me first. Why are you so quiet, Justice? They want to know why are you so quiet?

[Justice Fester]

I guess I'm just very conscious. I, I, I don't know, I just think about other people and I don't like being like, annoying or coming off the wrong way. So I just kind of like, I'm more of like an observer.

[Bretman Rock]

She's very just much that so on the Halloween episode, I remember seeing a comment being like, I can tell he's not really into Bretman because he's not really talking much. I can tell. Or he's so quiet. I can tell.

[Justice Fester]

Just because I don't talk much on a podcast to like the world doesn't mean I don't talk a lot to him. I probably talk most to him than I more to him than I do to like anybody else. That's just how I am. I'm very, like, selective.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Justice Fester]

If I get comfortable with the person, then I can open up and I will talk more. But when it comes to strangers, I'm just, I'm very weary, I guess.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. You guys have to understand, he just is getting used to this. This is his third podcast episode ever. If anything, you're doing better than you did on our first one. Honestly. Because I remembered we would remember. I remembered we would do, like, even practice podcasts. Just because you were so nervous about it. Yeah.

[Justice Fester]

I thought of one thing I could do to irritate him. It's probably something I'm doing right now. I tend to, like, I have really bad posture sometimes, and I like, duck and make myself smaller than.

[Bretman Rock]

He's like this.

[Justice Fester]

So right now I'm kind of having bad posture, not sitting up straight.

[Bretman Rock]

You can. You can do that. Okay. Yes. His bad posture really do be annoying me because I'm like, girl, why are you walking around like a gorilla? Like, because he's like this.

[Justice Fester]

I just have big shoulders. I can't help that.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, they're huge. They're so huge. Are you guys living together or still one? Personal space and time.

[Justice Fester]

I have my own place. I live in a two bedroom, two bath all by myself.

[Bretman Rock]

He lives in town. I live in the mountains. We literally, quite literally live on the opposite sides of the island. It could not be even more opposite.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, it's like over an hour. It's like an hour and a half an hour.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. But he does stay over every weekend, and sometimes if he gets off early or if he has days off, like, let's just say he spends days off with me. Yeah, we spend a lot of days off together. But recently you've been having a lot of more personal time because your family's in town.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

How has that been? Your grandma's been in town.

[Justice Fester]

It's been good. It's been nice. It's always nice. My grandma hasn't been out. Well, my grandma has been out here for the past week for this is the first time she came in, like, two years. Very nice.

[Bretman Rock]

She's so sweet. I love it. They also came over for Easter. I hope your grandma had fun. Even though I knew her ears were ringing by the end of the night because how loud my family is.

[Justice Fester]

She loves seeing you with, like, your cousins and all your nieces and.

[Bretman Rock]

Really?

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, she was talking to me about it.

[Bretman Rock]

No, she.

[Justice Fester]

She loves how family oriented you are, girl.

[Bretman Rock]

You know how I be. I'm just glad you guys could make it, honestly. And I could show her my house. Like, I. Period. Oh, also, I feel like I'm a little traumatized, not just from my past relationship, but just growing up in a household with 25 people really did numbers on me. That I truly was. Like, at 8 years old, I was praying on my knees, like, lord, please let me live by myself. When I turn 20, I'm gonna live by myself. I've always prayed to live by myself. So I. I think it'll be a minute until we even, like, consider living together, honestly. And that's just because I love my space. And if there's anything about me. And I love you, obviously, but I love to miss Justice. I feel like it's always, you need to miss your partner. Like, I don't know.

[Justice Fester]

I agree. We've already talked about it. We. We don't plan on moving in with each other until after marriage.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Justice Fester]

Not. Yeah. And we're not in a rush. Like, we have a.

[Bretman Rock]

We're not in a rush. We have our whole life ahead. And we've made promises to ourselves that, like, our careers and ourselves will always come first. And if. If I. If, you know, if my relationship affects my career, like, I'm definitely gonna be like, girl, we need to talk about this. But.

[Justice Fester]

And I. I want to be respectful of. Obviously, I live in, like, a condo, like, a two bed, two bath. He lives in, like, a big house with lots of land and animals and stuff. All of this is his. I want to be respectful to that.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. But. And honestly, we're just, like, really not in a rush. Like, he loves his space. I love my space. I love when we come together. I love when he's over. And it works for us. So, period. What attracted you to me and vice versa?

[Justice Fester]

How funny you are. Obviously. I love how you're, like, authentic. You're probably one of the. Well, you're definitely the most authentic person I've ever met. Those are probably the two things that caught. And you're beautiful. You're one of the. You're very androgynous, period.

[Bretman Rock]

My favorite thing about Papa is probably how he is so grounding. And I think obviously, just, like, your energy and your aura is very, like, calm. I'm not that. I'm nothing of the sort. And it's just, like. It's just so funny to me that, like, someone that is so calm and, like, just not. And not you. You do be having energy sometimes, but I. I don't want to say not.

[Justice Fester]

And I feel like when I do have energy, I annoy him because you.

[Bretman Rock]

Want to do the most. But someone who's just, like, so calm, who's, like, with me, who's very. Not. And I'm just like, wow, opposites really do attract. But honestly, that. That's what attracts me to the most other than, like, physical attraction, obviously, because, like. Yeah, but I think it would be probably your calmness that I'm most drawn to. Just, especially, like, at Coachella, too, for example. Like, it was a lot for me, and I. I'm sure it was a lot for you, too, but I think just because you're so calm and, like, you're not freaking out, it causes me not to freak out. So I love that. Yeah, I would say that. Would you guys want kids in the future?

[Justice Fester]

Yes. But he said he. He. He wants separate kids, I think.

[Bretman Rock]

Tell them why. Tell them why.

[Justice Fester]

Because, well, he obviously his sister has enough kids for him and her.

[Bretman Rock]

I don't know. That is not why, girl. You know the reason why? So justice was like, I want girls. I want three girls. And I was like, oh, that's so cute. Like, what are you gonna name them? Three girls?

[Justice Fester]

Did I say three girls?

[Bretman Rock]

You said you wanted girls.

[Justice Fester]

No, I did not.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, well, maybe I said that. So basically, we were talking about kids, and he was like, I want kids. And I was like, what are you gonna name them? That's what it was. I don't think you said a number, actually. You just said what you wanted to name them. And I was like, girl, those your kids? Because he wanted to name them Clementine Mandarin oranges.

[Justice Fester]

I.

[Bretman Rock]

He wanted to name them after grapefruits because he loves the color.

[Justice Fester]

None of this was serious. None of this was serious.

[Bretman Rock]

He was so dead.

[Justice Fester]

I want a kid with a unique.

[Bretman Rock]

Name, and he wants a clementine and a tangerine. I'm like, girl, I know you love orange.

[Justice Fester]

Clementine's actually kind of cute, for Clementine.

[Bretman Rock]

Is a cute name. But I'm like, it is not being named Clementine, girl. No. So that's why I joke around with him being like, girl, you're going to have your own kids at that point, because I'm not carrying no fucking kids. Talk about, hey, this is Mandarin girl. Mandarin what? So, yeah, no, but yes, of course we want kids. Do I want them right now? Honestly, no, because my sister has so many fucking kids. Like, I'm sure you have seen my Easter post with all those kids, my cousins multiply, my sisters multiply. My family multiplies, period. And I already have. I feel like I have such an obsessive personality that I feel like if I had one kid, I'm going to keep wanting kids. Just, like, how my family is so.

[Justice Fester]

In my head, I have at least 10 years. I don't have, like, a biological time Clock like women do. So I can have a kid whenever?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, thankfully. But I feel like if we were a hetero couple, we would have one by now.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. Oh, yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

No, for sure, girl. Very much for sure. I feel like we would make such cute kids. We would make cute babies. What is your favorite pastimes or what are your favorite things to do with me?

[Justice Fester]

I like when we meditate together mornings. I like working out on my own. So I wouldn't say working out together.

[Bretman Rock]

We've never worked out together. We've worked out around each other for sure, but not together when we like, like some.

[Justice Fester]

Well, rarely. I'll like help Brett, like garden at his house.

[Bretman Rock]

You like helping around?

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, I like helping out when I.

[Bretman Rock]

Let basically because he knows damn well I rather do by myself. Yeah, because I mean, it's another thing that annoys me with justice, girl. I love that he's calm, but he a little too calm sometimes when I'm like, can you. When I. When he helps me and he takes his time. Oh my God.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. It's not my time, it's Brevin's time. I'm just. I'm just. I'm just here.

[Bretman Rock]

No, you take your time, girl. And I see. I saw one TikTok one time where it was like God couldn't reach me. So he sent me the slowest moving man on earth. And that has to be Justice. I could not have relate to a tuck tuck tick tock more. I was like, girl. And it was his man, like checking out like at the store. And that's literally justice moving or getting ready anywhere. And I remembered Coachella. He got mad. Not mad at me, but he. He thought I was serious when I said, why do you just irritate me? And it. And it's just because, like.

[Justice Fester]

But at that time, I was purposely trying to irritate him by the way.

[Bretman Rock]

He be eating slow eating like a little kid.

[Justice Fester]

I was like leaning over because I think I dropped a piece of food and almost got home. Like I was wearing like white or something and almost got on me. So then I was literally like hunched over eating and staring at ravid boss.

[Bretman Rock]

And I'm like, why do you just irritate me? Also, I. I also learned this very early on to not watch justice get ready because it just. And I know a lot of girly pops can relate to this, but like, watching your man get ready for anything is so fucking irritating because I'm just like, why do you move so slow? Why do you do things out of order? Like, sorry, I don't see the rush, personally. What was even the question that we. Oh, our favorite pastimes. But my favorite pastimes with Justice. I don't even know why I started talking about Coachella again. But my favorite pastime with justice would probably have to be when we don't do anything.

[Justice Fester]

I agree. I like rainy days.

[Bretman Rock]

I love a rainy day. Or just, like, when you were both off and we both have an off day. Like, you guys would think that we're, like, out, like, running errands and, like, doing things, but, like, my favorite pastime with justice is literally when we're in the attic and we just have, like, YouTube playing, and we're just talking and watching the day. Like, throwing away a day, like, is probably my favorite thing to do with justice, which is when.

[Justice Fester]

When we first started dating, we used to, like, play a lot of, like, card games and stuff with, like, deep, like, philosophical questions.

[Bretman Rock]

Those are also really fun, too. Yeah.

[Justice Fester]

And we would just literally spend all day talking about just life, so I like that.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. I just love talking to you doing nothing. I love long drives. You know, y' all get the vibes. Justice, have you ever dated any girls?

[Justice Fester]

Yes. I've dated probably, like, five plus girls.

[Bretman Rock]

That's crazy. Well, I dated a girl, so I'm.

[Justice Fester]

Not that, but the most recent girl that I've dated, she actually just had another baby or another kid. She has two kids now.

[Bretman Rock]

She named it her favorite boyfriend ever, which is Justice.

[Justice Fester]

Imagine we're, like, best friends now. I, like, went to her wedding. I've been. Oh, well, she's, like, FaceTimed me after having both of her kids that she has now. Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

This is a fun one. If Bretman was a flavor, what would he taste like?

[Justice Fester]

Skittles.

[Bretman Rock]

Skittles is crazy. I mean, taste the rainbow, girl. I feel like you would taste like steak. Probably like a surf and turf.

[Justice Fester]

I With that. That sounds tasty.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, that's not really a flavor, though. Let me think. Let me think. I don't know. You really have, like, a fresh man scent. I love the way you smell. I wouldn't really call it a flavor, though. I feel like a must.

[Justice Fester]

Ew. I don't smell. First of all, don't even get it twisted.

[Bretman Rock]

I like the way you smell, period. And that doesn't mean you smell bad, girl.

[Justice Fester]

Brett likes. He always smells, like, very florally, like, flowers and stuff.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah. So, like, lavender. I feel like I would smell, like my flavor would be lavender. I feel like yours would be, like. I feel like, you know, that you know, the Scooby Doo snack, Gummy Bears. You're the blue one. You're like, the light blue one that I always go for. I feel like every time I open the Scooby Doo snacks, I always go for that blue one. You guys know what I'm talking about because it's the best flavor in there. It's that one. That's how that. I feel like, that would be your flavor. What part of your lives have changed the most since meeting?

[Justice Fester]

I guess I get. I, I get more recognized now, period. Obviously, when I'm like, me and Brett go out together, it's. It's not like an average person going out anymore. Like, we always have to arrive early because we gotta take time for, like, pictures and stuff.

[Bretman Rock]

What was the weirdest or funny recognized story that you remember about myself or about you? Yeah, like, no, like, since we started dating. Like, when was, like, the weirdest time somebody recognized you where you were like, oh, my God, you know me.

[Justice Fester]

Well, my, my grandma just got here. She's been here for a week. The first day she was here, I went to, like, Island Brew over in, like, Hawaii Kai, and there were two girls that came up to me with my grandma here, and they were like, hi, are you Justice? And I was like, oh, yeah, I'm Justice. Hi. And they were like, oh, yeah, I, I. We know you online. Like, can you tell Brevin? We said hi, and they asked me for a picture and stuff. I don't know, I'm just not used to that. It just caught me off guard. And my grandma looks at me, she's like, oh, my goodness, my grandson's a celebrity, period.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like for me, obviously, like, having a boyfriend itself changes your life because I'm, like, less lonely now. I have a plus one. And, like, I guess, like, not to sound so deep, but, like, I am less lonely now. Like, I just have someone, like, to. To laugh with, someone to send memes with. Like, someone that is, like, you're not always available because obviously there's work and we have to respect that. But, like, when you are able to, like, you're always there for me, obviously. And, like, I don't know, not much really changed besides the fact that, like, I really just have a companion. Someone that is my boyfriend. Okay, we're gonna answer a couple more questions, but I feel like it's only fair if justice picks them.

[Justice Fester]

Did you guys do the meet the parents thingy?

[Bretman Rock]

Meet the parents thingy?

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, just, I guess, like, the meat. Meeting the parents. Have you met the parents.

[Justice Fester]

Oh, I've met. I met Brett's mom, but he hasn't met mine yet.

[Bretman Rock]

Only FaceTime.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. He's met my grandma now. I met everyone else in his family.

[Bretman Rock]

The second date, literally. Oh, no. That was, like, the second week. Sorry. He was over. And I was hungry. I don't cook, obviously. And my brother was like, oh, we're. We have a lot of food because we're catering down the road. If you want to come pick up food, like, come. And he was over, and I'm like, just this. I'm really hungry, and I really want Filipino food. At the time, I really was genuinely, like, wanting Filipino food. I wasn't, like, forcing my family into him. I was like, just, can you come drop me off at my brother's house to pick up the food? You don't got to come down. But you ended up, like, wanting to come down that day, but you were, like, all coffee out. I remember that day because you were.

[Justice Fester]

Like, I had, like, three cups of coffee.

[Bretman Rock]

No food. No, we did. You did get food. We. We had Island Vintage. We went to Island Vintage before we went to my brothers.

[Justice Fester]

And two of the cups of coffee were two shots of espresso. It was kind of.

[Bretman Rock]

So he had, like, about six shots of espresso before meeting my brother. And then by the time we were headed home, he was like, I say.

[Justice Fester]

Anything stupid, like, he's meeting my mom and my stepdad and my brother. Next month, we're going to a wedding back in Illinois. So. Yeah. How do you guys keep your relationship healthy?

[Bretman Rock]

We talk a lot.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah. We honestly just take time to ourselves.

[Bretman Rock]

We take a lot of time to ourselves. We talk a lot. We. But damage that Coachella. That Coachella there is still in your system.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

We just talk a lot, but also spend time without each other a lot. Not a lot. I mean, like, a healthy amount where, like, we still miss each other. Even after a year, I can still say I miss you, even just after a day of not seeing you. Like, sometimes I be you'd be headed to work, and I'm like, damn, I already miss him. Like, you know? So I think it's really, really healthy that we still find time to, like, miss each other, but also talk to each other every day. Mm. Like, you know, and we set our boundaries really early on in our. In our relationship, and I think that's why we don't like. Not to, like, knock on wood, maybe, but, like, we don't really be fighting like that.

[Justice Fester]

No.

[Bretman Rock]

We get irritated, if anything, and it's Just like. And we. When we do get irritated, it's more like, okay, I'll see you in 10 minutes. Like. Or, like, I'll see you tomorrow.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Or I'll just get irritated to myself, and then, you know, I'll miss you. But, yeah, I think it's because we just have really. I went in the relationship, like, already, like, setting boundaries. Like, before we were even, like, together together. And he obviously has his own boundaries, but also, just, like, respecting each other's boundary, I think. Because I feel like if we did argue, it was, like, probably, like, me having to feeling like I had to explain my boundaries to you because you didn't understand them and vice versa. But I think that's what we did. Like, we really just set boundaries really early on, and we respect them. We spend time apart. We spend. We talk every day.

[Justice Fester]

I think that's something that really helped in our relationship, is we set boundaries, like, super early. We were like. But. And because we're two different people, obviously. So it was very new to us working with each other, I guess, because we had differences. But I think our differences after we set boundaries started, like, complement each other.

[Bretman Rock]

A little bit, for sure. So I think also this was never really a boundary for me, but it's just something that you just got, which is, like, what I do for a living. Like, he. I never felt like I had to explain Bretman rock to him or just like. Like, I don't know. You're just not insecure like that to a. Like, to a point where I'm. I have to be like, hey, I'm going to a concert today. Like, don't be jealous. Like, people are gonna be, like, recognize me. Or, like, not recognize me, but, like, people gonna talk to me and stuff like that. And, like, you don't really care, because I think, you know that I'm not a thought.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, I trust. I trust you.

[Bretman Rock]

I trust you, too. Obviously. I feel like, also with the trust thing, like, we have eyes everywhere. Like, I don't even know if you know this, but, like, Ms. K's friend worked at the boat that you and your grandma was on the other day and texted the both of us. I mean, so it's. And not. Not just with you, but, like, with me, too, where, like, everything I do can be or will be posted online. So it's like. It's not like I can, like, go out and, like, meet guys and not have that, like, posted or something. I don't know. We don't really. We're not really insecure. Like that. Because we know we got each other. Girl, maybe two more questions.

[Justice Fester]

Girl.

[Bretman Rock]

What are you laughing at?

[Justice Fester]

People are stupid. Somebody said, how big is it?

[Bretman Rock]

Well, how big is it?

[Justice Fester]

There's a lot of good questions in here. Who is the most romantic out of the two? Me.

[Bretman Rock]

That's crazy.

[Justice Fester]

Me.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, girl, I'll let you take that.

[Justice Fester]

What? What?

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like we're both equally romantic.

[Justice Fester]

Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

But you. You be doing. You be doing more romantic shit for sure. So that's what I'm saying. Like, you could take that. How do you feel about all my animals and my dogs and all my chickens?

[Justice Fester]

I love all your dogs. I love all your animals.

[Bretman Rock]

Is your favorite dog that I have.

[Justice Fester]

That's. I don't want to. I don't want to pick favorites.

[Bretman Rock]

They're not going to watch this.

[Justice Fester]

They're all my kids, my step kids.

[Bretman Rock]

Your step kids. Who was your first dog that you were like, period. You ate that? I feel like it was L. A.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, it was definitely L. A. I think it's just because I have, like. I'm like a softie for L. A because she's the oldest and she's just so sweet, and she never, like, really does anything wrong. She. And she's also my favorite type of dog. Pitbull. I've always had a thing for pit bulls.

[Bretman Rock]

Last question is, what have we both learned from our relationship dating each other?

[Justice Fester]

That patience is key.

[Bretman Rock]

Why was I gonna say that you're crazy? Well, at least for me, you need a lot of patient with me. But I think for me, I learned that he is so patient with me that I have to be patient with him as well, because sometimes I'm not. Is there anything else you want to say, Justice?

[Justice Fester]

Thanks for having me on the baddest radio. 44.4.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm like, what? 44.4. Where can they find you, girl? Oh, wait, hold on. Before we do that, let's do product of the day. My product of the day is the Dr. Althea vitamin C boosting serum. I used this for the first time last year when it was viral on TikTok. And recently they just had sent this to me again. I don't even know how they got my address, but I was like, oh, my God, I forgot how much I love that. And I tried it again. They also have a green one, which I just finished, and now I'm. The green one's just, like the more sensitive skin one. And this one is like vitamin C. It's good for every skin type. And I just love It. It's vitamin C. I feel like you've also been in your vitamin C era. You should try this.

[Justice Fester]

They sent me products.

[Bretman Rock]

Pretty big. Yeah, period. They're really good. Do you have any product of the week?

[Justice Fester]

I don't have it on me right now, but spark, it's like a advocare. It's like, kind of like vitamins, caffeine for the day. My grandma, like, is a huge advocate for spark, so she brought, like, a bunch of spark on her trip, and I've been using it.

[Bretman Rock]

You love it.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, period. You both love coffee. I remember we went to the farmer's market, and by the time you guys both finish your first coffee, you guys were already thinking about the second one, and I'm like, damn, bitch.

[Justice Fester]

Yeah, we have that in common.

[Bretman Rock]

Caffeine addiction. Yeah. Where can they find you, Papa?

[Justice Fester]

Instagram. Justice is king.

[Bretman Rock]

And me, I am BretmanRock everywhere. And make sure you guys follow and subscribe to the baddest radio. I love you guys and I will see you guys next week. I hope you guys like this episode. Also, Kat wasn't here today, and that's why I have the headphones on. I don't know if I mentioned that already. Anyways, I love you guys. I'll see you guys next week. Bye, Beach. I'll see you next Thursday. Yeah. Don't forget to follow rate and, like, you can follow me at BretmanRock on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media. Bye, Beach.

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