DaBaddest Radio - Episode: The Boyfriend Tag
Release Date: May 8, 2025
Host: Dear Media
Guests: Bretman Rock & Justice Fester
Introduction
In this episode of DaBaddest Radio, host Bretman Rock teams up with Justice Fester for a candid and engaging conversation about their relationship, personal journeys, and experiences as public figures. Skipping over the usual advertisements and introductions, Bretman and Justice dive straight into their shared stories, offering listeners an intimate glimpse into their lives.
Recent Adventures: Philippines and Coachella
The episode kicks off with Bretman and Justice reminiscing about their recent trips. Bretman mentions his upcoming return to the Philippines, revealing his exciting achievement of being the first cover model for Allure Philippines, alongside the renowned Ms. Heart Evangelista.
Bretman Rock [02:20]: "I am the first cover of Allure Philippines ever. And not just me. It is with Ms. Heart Evangelista."
Justice shares her positive experience in the Philippines, highlighting the warmth and hospitality of the locals.
Justice Fester [01:24]: "Just that I love Philippines. Everyone's very welcoming."
Transitioning to their Coachella experience, Justice describes the festival as "very bougie" and details their luxurious accommodations and favorite performances.
Justice Fester [03:05]: "Coachella was very bougie. I was not expecting it."
Bretman praises Lady Gaga's performance for its artistic depth, emphasizing her status as a true artist.
Justice Fester [03:34]: "She's a true artist."
Despite the glamour, Justice mentions the minor downside of enduring dusty conditions post-festival.
Justice Fester [03:57]: "Except for me coughing up dirt for the next week after getting back. I know, but, I mean, that's just Coachella."
How They Met: A Journey of Six Years
Bretman and Justice delve into the origins of their relationship, recounting how they initially met six years prior at Scarlet, a prominent gay club in Hawaii.
Justice Fester [06:20]: "We first met in Scarlet six years ago, which is a gay club here."
Their first interaction was casual, sparked by a shared drink and a night out. However, due to external influences and misunderstandings, they didn't exchange numbers, leaving their initial connection unresolved.
Justice Fester [07:43]: "Nothing happened. We didn't even exchange numbers."
Six years later, a twist of fate brings them back together through a TikTok trend, rekindling their connection and leading to their first date.
Bretman Rock [16:20]: "It was him in, like, a golden Labrador... I was like, he's so cute."
Their first dates were memorable, filled with nervous excitement and deep conversations. Justice recalls their rock painting date, highlighting the emotional intimacy they shared.
Justice Fester [21:39]: "That was honestly probably the cutest, like, date experience I've ever had."
Their relationship blossomed quickly, with Bretman proposing after just three weeks of dating, solidifying their bond.
Bretman Rock [22:21]: "Now, we don't have to call them about getting in trouble from work."
Relationship Dynamics: Personalities and Boundaries
The conversation shifts to their individual personalities and how they complement each other. Justice identifies as a Cancer with Libra rising and Leo Moon, while Bretman describes himself as a mix of Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius—all fixed signs.
Justice Fester [23:20]: "I am a cancer, sun, Libra rising. No Leo Moon, period."
They discuss what irritates them most about each other, revealing a playful dynamic. Bretman finds Justice's calm demeanor soothing yet occasionally frustrating when he needs more energy and spontaneity.
Bretman Rock [24:07]: "Sometimes I'm really like, girl."
Conversely, Justice appreciates Bretman's authenticity and humor but occasionally finds his loud chewing and ASMR aversions amusing.
Justice Fester [24:09]: "He's just saying things like, 'I'm just like, sis, what?'"
Respecting each other's need for personal space is paramount in their relationship. Bretman lives in the mountains while Justice resides in town, yet they maintain a healthy balance by spending weekends together and valuing their individual time.
Justice Fester [28:23]: "I have my own place. I live in a two bedroom, two bath all by myself."
Maintaining a Healthy Relationship: Communication and Boundaries
Bretman and Justice emphasize the importance of communication and setting boundaries early in their relationship. They prioritize talking openly about their needs and ensuring that their careers and personal growth remain central.
Bretman Rock [43:57]: "We talk a lot... and set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."
Their trust in each other is unshakeable, bolstered by their understanding of each other's public personas and the challenges that come with fame. They acknowledge the omnipresence of social media but reassure listeners that their trust and respect for one another prevent insecurities from emerging.
Bretman Rock [46:40]: "I trust you, too."
When conflicts arise, they handle them maturely—opting to take a step back rather than engage in heated arguments.
Justice Fester [44:55]: "We get irritated, if anything, and it's just like, okay, I'll see you in 10 minutes."
Audience Questions: Fun and Personal Insights
The duo takes a lighthearted turn by answering listener-submitted questions, revealing more about their personalities and quirks.
Astrology Signs:
- Justice: Cancer Sun, Libra Rising, Leo Moon.
- Bretman: Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius.
Favorite Pastimes: Bretman enjoys when they spend quiet days together, such as meditating in the mornings or having long conversations while watching YouTube.
Bretman Rock [37:54]: "I love a rainy day... throwing away a day."
Justice prefers meditating together and occasionally helping Bretman with gardening, though she respects his preference for doing things solo.
Irritating Each Other:
- Bretman: Loud chewing or tapping noises.
- Justice: Putting dairy in front of Bretman or wearing bad posture.
Flavors and Smells:
- Bretman as a flavor: Lavender.
- Justice as a flavor: Scooby Doo Gummy Bears (Blue One).
Most Romantic: Initially, Justice claims to be more romantic, but Bretman feels they are equally romantic, with Justice often taking the lead in romantic gestures.
Justice Fester [47:40]: "Me."
Bretman Rock [47:43]: "You could take that."
Meeting the Parents: Justice has met Bretman's mother and other family members, while Bretman has yet to meet hers. They shared a humorous anecdote about Bretman's over-caffeinated appearance during a meet-the-parents meeting.
Bretman Rock [43:57]: "Did you guys do the meet the parents thingy?"
Keeping the Relationship Healthy: Their strategies include open communication, respecting personal boundaries, spending quality time together, and maintaining individual interests.
Justice Fester [43:57]: "We talk a lot. We honestly just take time to ourselves."
Bretman Rock [45:48]: "We set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."
Favorite Pastime Together: When they're not doing anything, they enjoy each other's company—whether it's lounging in the attic with YouTube or playing card games with deep, philosophical questions.
Bretman Rock [35:25]: "We just have YouTube playing, and we're just talking and watching the day."
Evolution Since Meeting
The relationship has brought significant changes to both Bretman and Justice. For Justice, increased recognition and being a public figure have altered how she interacts with the world, especially when accompanied by Bretman.
Justice Fester [40:33]: "I get more recognized now, period."
Bretman feels less lonely and more supported with Justice as his partner, appreciating the companionship and mutual understanding they share.
Bretman Rock [41:40]: "I am less lonely now. I have a plus one."
Final Thoughts and Reflections
As the episode wraps up, Bretman and Justice reflect on what they've learned from each other. Patience stands out as a crucial factor in maintaining their harmonious relationship.
Justice Fester [48:45]: "That patience is key."
Bretman acknowledges Justice's patience with him, recognizing it as a fundamental pillar of their bond.
Bretman Rock [48:48]: "He is so patient with me that I have to be patient with him as well."
They conclude by expressing gratitude for each other's presence in their lives, ensuring listeners understand the depth and balance of their relationship.
Justice Fester [49:05]: "Thanks for having me on the baddest radio."
Bretman Rock [49:56]: "Make sure you guys follow and subscribe to the baddest radio. I love you guys and I will see you guys next week."
Key Takeaways
- Authenticity and Complementary Personalities: Bretman’s vibrant energy balanced by Justice’s calm demeanor creates a harmonious relationship dynamic.
- Communication and Boundaries: Open dialogue and mutual respect for personal space are foundational to their relationship’s success.
- Shared Experiences: Traveling together to places like the Philippines and Coachella strengthens their bond and provides shared memories.
- Public Life Navigation: Both navigate the challenges of being public figures with trust and understanding, ensuring their relationship remains strong despite external pressures.
- Fun and Playfulness: Engaging in lighthearted questions and playful banter keeps their relationship lively and enjoyable.
Notable Quotes
- Bretman Rock [02:20]: "I am the first cover of Allure Philippines ever. And not just me. It is with Ms. Heart Evangelista."
- Justice Fester [03:05]: "Coachella was very bougie. I was not expecting it."
- Bretman Rock [16:20]: "It was him in, like, a golden Labrador... I was like, he's so cute."
- Justice Fester [21:39]: "That was honestly probably the cutest, like, date experience I've ever had."
- Bretman Rock [43:57]: "We talk a lot... and set our boundaries really early on in our relationship."
- Justice Fester [48:45]: "That patience is key."
This episode of DaBaddest Radio offers a heartfelt exploration of Bretman Rock and Justice Fester's relationship, blending personal anecdotes with valuable insights on maintaining a healthy and balanced partnership. Their openness and genuine affection provide listeners with both entertainment and inspiration.