Today we have a conversation with JAY BILAS. Yes, the Jay Bilas you know from ESPN. He’s an icon in the world of college basketball, a six time Emmy nominee, a NYT bestselling author, a Duke legend and NBA vet, a practicing attorney, a husband, a dad , an all around great dude, and today he’s the guest on our show!

I personally got as much or more from this conversation, as much any other episode we’ve done so far. The marriage advice, insights on how he raised his kids to be the successful and wonderful adults that they are now

So many gems. So much wisdom. You're going to love this episode with Jay Bilas.

DISCUSSION TOPICS

Growing up in LA
The journey from overseas basketball, to coaching at Duke, to law school, to broadcasting
“WE Decisions” vs. “ME Decisions”
Leaving doors open in life
Jay’s approach to WORK LIFE BALANCE
HAVE To’s vs. WANT To’s
Learning to say no (Yes to A is No to B)
How to handle traveling and missing family events
“They just want you”
Nobody has it all figured out
Wife comes first
Not keeping score - amazing marriage advice
“We first” vs. “Me first”
Appreciating your wife’s sacrifices
“I’m not allowed to be tired when I get home”
The ups and downs of empty nesting
YOUTH SPORTS - how to be a great youth sports parent
Demanding vs. Demeaning - a brilliant perspective on coaching kids
How to not ruin sports for your kids