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Decoding Success with Matt LeBris
Hosted by Matt LeBris · EN
Welcome to The Decoding Success Podcast - the show for high-performers who have used their trauma to fuel their success. If you have ever felt like a black sheep, someone who experienced isolation, neglect, or disconnection, you're in the right place as we guide our community to feel seen, understood, and connected to their highest selves. Matt LeBris hosts our weekly show, as he dives deep with world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature, providing invaluable insights on emotional, mental, physical, financial, and spiritual well-being.
Each episode features deep, transformative conversations designed to reconnect you with your true self. Our mission is to guide you on a journey of self-discovery, helping you go from feeling isolated to feeling seen, from anxious to connected, from being hard on yourself to giving grace. Whether you're seeking to identify your path to healing trauma, anxiety or dark days, make mindset shifts to step into your highest self, or break free from what no longer serves you, The Decoding Success Podcast is here to help.
While you might hear some woo-woo things, make no mistake because you're going to get the real, raw, born-and-raised New Yorker out of Matt. And, with conversations featuring the likes of Mel Robbins, Grant Cardone, Dr. Nicole LePera, Patrick Bet-David, Gabby Bernstein, Dr. Caroline Leaf, Daymond John, and many more, you're bound to discover the golden nuggets you're seeking as you pursue your desire to transform your life from the inside out.
Tune in to discover practical advice, inspiring stories, and powerful tools to elevate every facet of your life. Join us and become part of a community where you can thrive and become the best version of yourself.
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369. Why Betting on Yourself Feels Lonely (But Pays Off) w/ Lil Mo Mozzarella
Jan 2000:39:32Tap to summarizeYOUR PERSONAL BRAND LEVELED UP STARTS HERE: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris What does it really take to bet on yourself — especially when the path feels isolating and uncertain? In this episode, I sit down with Lil Mo Mozzarella to talk about leaving a stable career, stepping into comedy later in life, and why real confidence is built through action, not approval. We unpack the loneliness that comes with growth, the importance of protecting your value, and how turning pain into purpose is often the key to long-term success. This conversation is about earned self-belief — the kind that comes from showing up, taking risks, and staying in the game even when it's uncomfortable. WATCH EVERY EPISODE ON YOUTUBE HERE: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris In this episode, we cover: • Why betting on yourself can feel isolating • How Mo pivoted into comedy • The cost of chasing validation • Protecting your value in business • Turning pain into purpose • Why regret is heavier than failure Connect with Lil Mo Mozzarella 🎤 www.lilmomozzarella.com 😂 Tour Dates 📲 @lilmomozzarella
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368. Why Shame Is Blocking the Life, Love, and Intimacy You Want w/ Stefanos Sifandos
Jan 1301:18:56Tap to summarizeLEVELING UP YOUR PERSONAL BRAND STARTS HERE: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris Most people think they're stuck because they lack discipline, confidence, or clarity. But what if the real reason you're not experiencing deeper intimacy, freedom, and fulfillment… is shame you don't even realize you're carrying? In this episode, I sit down in person with Stefanos Sifandos for a raw, honest conversation about the invisible force shaping our relationships, our self-expression, and the parts of our lives where we keep holding back. We explore why shame doesn't usually announce itself loudly— it hides in avoidance, performance, people-pleasing, and silence. And more importantly, we talk about what it actually takes to move through it. This is a conversation about what has to die for real intimacy to begin, why healing can't happen alone, and how being truly seen is the gateway to everything you say you want. WATCH ALL EPISODES ON YOUTUBE GRAB STEFANOS' NEW BOOK HERE In This Episode, We Explore: Why shame is the hidden barrier to intimacy, authenticity, and growth How shame disguises itself as fear, procrastination, and "playing it safe" The difference between being "self-aware" and being truly integrated Why what you avoid emotionally tends to repeat in your life How shame shows up in relationships, communication, and self-expression Why healing happens in safe relationships—not in isolation What it actually means to stop hiding and allow yourself to be seen This Episode Is For You If: You feel successful on paper but disconnected internally You struggle to fully open up in relationships You keep repeating patterns you understand but haven't outgrown You feel like something is blocking your next level—but you can't name it You're ready to stop performing for love and start experiencing it -- If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who's been hiding parts of themselves too — or someone you want to feel closer to. And as always, if you enjoyed the conversation, leave a review. It helps more people find the show — and more importantly, find themselves.
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354. The Hardest Lesson I’ve Learned About Opportunity
Aug 1400:11:12Tap to summarizeI want to let you in on something that hit me hard recently: If you’re “playing it cool” in life, chances are… you’re actually just playing yourself. In this solo episode, I’m breaking down a moment that made me reflect deeply — a missed opportunity on a Brooklyn street that left me with instant regret. I’m sharing it because I know I’m not the only one who’s ever let fear get dressed up in confidence. We convince ourselves we’re being smooth. That we’re in control. But deep down, we’re just scared — scared of looking dumb, getting rejected, or not living up to the version of ourselves we’re trying to project. I dive into: Why “playing it cool” is costing you the life you want What fear looks like when it’s wearing designer clothing The hard truth about opportunities: they don’t wait for you to be ready Why it’s better to live with a “no” than a “never know” How to start acting like the version of yourself you’re trying to become If you’ve been sitting on an idea, holding back your voice, or missing shots you know you were meant to take — this one’s for you. Let them see you try. Let God see you try. You're not here to play it cool — you're here to play it real. 👉 If this hit home, do me a favor: ✅ Subscribe to the show 📝 Drop a review if you got something out of this 📲 Share it with someone who needs the reminder today Want to sit on the couch on check these out? Sub to the YouTube here: 📺: https://www.youtube.com/c/MattLeBris Let’s stop letting fear call the shots. Appreciate you for tuning in. – Matt
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353. Suzy Batiz on the Darkest Season of Her Life And the Gold She Found There
Aug 1201:10:22Tap to summarizeSuzy Batiz, the creator of Poo-Pourri and one of the most unconventional entrepreneurs in the game, joins The Decoding Success Podcast to share the raw, unfiltered truth about chasing success… and what she found when she got it. This is NOT the story you’ve heard before. Suzy opens up about the bankruptcy, divorce, suicide attempt, and even the darkest season of her life — fresh out of it and sharing publicly for the first time — and how those lows became the place where she found the gold that truly mattered. Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode: 🎯 Free Personal Brand Strategy Call: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris 📖 Gay Hendricks – The Big Leap We’re diving into: Why hitting rock bottom can be the doorway to your highest self The real danger of making money your god Learning the difference between body, soul, and spirit — and living from the one that knows the truth Letting go of control and choosing trust in God (even when everything’s on the line) Why “success” without alignment will never be enough How to face reality, build your “figure-it-out” muscle, and lead through chaos Suzy’s journey is proof that surrender isn’t giving up — it’s letting go of the need to control so you can step into something bigger than you ever imagined. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to chase the next milestone, feared losing it all, or wondered what’s on the other side of letting go… this conversation will shake you in the best way. Connect with Suzy Batiz: 🌐 Website: https://suzybatiz.com 📱 Instagram: https://instagram.com/suzybatiz 💡 Check out her course: Alive OS
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352. It’s Okay to Not Be Okay — How to Rewire Your Mind with Dr. Caroline Leaf
Aug 7, 202501:05:41Tap to summarizeDr. Caroline Leaf takes us on a journey through the science of the mind–brain connection. You’ll learn powerful tools to manage moments of anxiety, overwhelm, and panic—based on neuroplasticity and her signature Neurocycle method. Highlights include: How to reframe your inner narrative with intentional breathing, validation, and cognitive shifts. The difference between mind vs. brain, and why your mind drives 99% of your experience. The importance of the five-step Neurocycle, practiced over 63 days, to rewire toxic thought patterns and build lasting resilience. Why “it’s okay to not be okay,” and how healthy acknowledgment, not suppression, leads to transformation. 🚨 Free Strategy Call for Personal Brands If you're building a personal brand and feel stuck, unclear, or unsure what moves to make next — I'm offering a free 1-on-1 strategy call to help you break through. Whether you're a coach, creator, speaker, or service provider, this call is designed to help you clarify your message, amplify your impact, and align your brand with who you truly are. → Book your free call now at https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Links & Quick Access Book: Help in a Hurry App: Neurocycle Website: Dr. Caroline Leaf Socials: Instagram | Facebook Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Mind-Body Connection 05:37 Techniques for Managing Anxiety 11:26 The Importance of Validation and Acknowledgment 17:23 Navigating Emotional Challenges 22:48 The Science of Neuroplasticity 28:26 Befriending Your Mind 34:17 The Journey of Healing and Growth 39:49 The Power of Choice in Healing 45:51 Embracing Life's Challenges 51:38 Conclusion: Building Resilience and Meaning
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351. Haley Hoffman Smith: You’re Not Blocked, You’re Believing the Wrong Thing
Jul 31, 202500:51:13Tap to summarizeWhat if the life you dream about is actually one belief shift away? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, I’m joined by the magical Haley Hoffman Smith—subconscious mind expert, speaker, and author of You Have the Magic. Together, we explore what’s really holding people back from their desires, why self-doubt isn’t yours to begin with, and how Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping can completely change your life. We unpack how past programming creates present limitations, the power of healing stored emotional trauma, and how to use belief work to call in your next-level reality. If you’ve ever felt stuck, blocked, behind, or “not enough,” this episode is the reminder you didn’t know you needed. This episode is presented by my friends at Brand Builders Group. Ready to finally monetize your personal brand and break through the wall of obscurity? Book your free strategy call here 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris 🔑 What You’ll Learn Why self-doubt is learned—and how to unlearn it The science behind EFT tapping (and why it’s more legit than you think) How to shift core limiting beliefs without bypassing your emotions Why your dreams feel “too big”—and what to do about it How belief, identity, and desire shape your reality The truth about manifestation that most people miss Three powerful steps to rewire your subconscious today 🧠 Timestamps / Chapters 00:00 – The Journey of Self-Discovery 02:51 – Understanding Self-Doubt and Its Origins 05:35 – The Power of EFT Tapping 08:11 – Navigating Opportunities and Self-Perception 11:31 – The Role of Faith and the Universe 14:32 – The Importance of Authenticity in Pursuing Dreams 17:11 – Transforming Limiting Beliefs 20:05 – The Process of Healing and Self-Reflection 23:06 – The Magic of Manifestation 25:44 – Practical Steps to Change Your Reality 28:55 – The Role of Emotions in Healing 31:33 – The Connection Between Past Lives and Present Experiences 34:35 – The Importance of Community and Support 37:31 – Final Thoughts on Personal Growth 🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned 📘 You Have the Magic – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/book/ 🌐 Haley’s Website – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/ 📲 Instagram – @haleyhoffmansmith 🎵 TikTok – @haleyhoffmansmith 🌙 DreamAway Program – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway/ 💥 You were born with magic. You just forgot. This episode is your permission slip to remember—and to create the life you know you’re meant for. 🎧 Tap in, rewire, and rise. 📲 Rate, review & share this episode if it sparked something in you. 💬 Tag us with your breakthrough: @mattlebris
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350. Sam Dogen: Pain Is Progress: Why Financial Discomfort Can Free You
Jun 23, 202500:44:55Tap to summarizeWhat if the very thing you’re avoiding, financial discomfort, is the key to your freedom? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, we’re joined by Sam Dogen, the creator of Financial Samurai and author of Millionaire Milestones. Together, we unpack the biggest financial lie millennials are still telling themselves, why winging it with your money never works, and the mindset shifts that lead to true wealth. From forecasting your future misery to redefining what “enough” means in a world obsessed with more, this conversation is packed with raw truths, personal stories, and hard-hitting advice you won’t hear from your typical finance guru. If you've ever thought you're behind, if you’re feeling pressure around money, or if you're simply searching for clarity, discipline, and peace of mind... this episode is your wake-up call. This episode is presented by my friends at Brand Builders Group. Ready to take your personal brand to new heights? Monetize your brand? More... Get on a free call with a certified brand strategist here 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris 🔑 What You’ll Learn: Why “everything will be okay” is the most dangerous lie in personal finance The surprising link between pain and purpose when building wealth How to calculate your own freedom number (and why it matters) The reason saving should feel uncomfortable—and what to do about it How to integrate values + money goals without losing joy Why most people fail to build wealth (and how to never be one of them) 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Sam Dogen’s Book: Millionaire Milestones Financial Samurai Blog Follow Sam on X (formerly Twitter) 🚀 Ready to take control of your finances? This isn’t just about money... it’s about time, freedom, and designing a life on your terms. 👉 Rate, review & share this episode if it resonated with you. 👉 Tag us on social with your biggest takeaway: @mattlebris
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349. Annalie Howling: A Shameless Life Is Possible — Here’s How
May 13, 202501:04:24Tap to summarizeWhat if the reason you’re exhausted, disconnected, or stuck… isn’t failure — but shame? In this deeply vulnerable and transformational episode, performance coach and trauma expert Annalie Howling joins Matt to reveal how shame shapes our identity, fuels burnout, and keeps us from experiencing real connection — with others and ourselves. Annalie shares her raw story of overcoming childhood trauma, healing internalized beliefs like “I am bad,” and learning to live a truly shameless life — one filled with freedom, self-compassion, and unshakable inner peace. If you’ve ever felt like a black sheep, unworthy of love, or driven by pain instead of purpose… this episode is a mirror, a roadmap, and a permission slip to finally come home to yourself. 🔑 What You'll Learn: Why shame is a belief system, not a behavior The link between burnout and unresolved trauma How your inner critic guards your comfort zone Why self-compassion is the antidote to shame Signs that shame is still running the show in your life The difference between being seen and just performing 📚 Grab Annalie’s Book: 👉 Unapologetic: Unshackle Your Shame, Reclaim Your Power — out May 13th Find it here: https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Unshackle-Shame-Reclaim-Power/ 🔗 Connect with Annalie: Instagram: @annaliehowling Website: annaliehowling.com 🎧 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode spoke to your soul. Welcome back to Decoding Success — the podcast for the black sheep ready to come home.
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May 6, 202500:30:40Tap to summarizeI’ve been thinking a lot lately about what really makes us happy. And spoiler alert: it’s not about chasing a perfect 10/10 every single day. In this episode, I’ve got the fellas in the studio with me, and we’re diving deep into the real meaning of happiness — and how you can create it for yourself starting right now. We’re unpacking the myths we’ve been sold about what happiness should look like, why “being present” isn’t just a buzzword, and how giving (even when you feel like you don’t have much) can unlock a level of joy you didn’t expect. In this conversation, I’m sharing: 👉 Why presence is the foundation of happiness 👉 The power of giving — no matter what you have to give 👉 How taking an honest audit of your life can show you what really matters 👉 Why chasing “ecstatic highs” leaves you feeling empty 👉 How to stop defining happiness by someone else’s standards 👉 A fresh perspective on love languages, fulfillment, and showing up for yourself and the people around you Whether you’re in a funk or just want to feel more fulfilled, I really think this episode is going to help you reconnect with what’s real. 🎧 Give it a listen — and let me know what you think happiness really is. 👉 If this conversation resonates with you, do me a favor: share it with someone who needs it. 👉 Want to watch the conversation or take it with you on the go? Check the links in the show notes for YouTube and podcast platforms. Until next time — be blessed. Peace.
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Apr 25, 202500:07:31Tap to summarizeHave you ever confronted someone who hurt you — only to be met with denial, defensiveness, or gaslighting? In this powerful solo episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, Matt LeBris breaks down one of the most overlooked truths in modern healing: you don’t need anyone’s apology to validate your pain — and you definitely don’t need it to begin healing. If you’ve ever waited for an “I’m sorry” that never came… this episode is for you. Matt shares: The 3 things you actually do need to heal Why seeking external validation can keep you stuck How to reclaim your power after being hurt The importance of courage, commitment, and patience in your healing journey Why healing is an inside job — and how to take the first step Whether you’ve been hurt by family, a friend, or a partner, this episode will help you shift your focus inward, validate your own experience, and move forward — even if the people who hurt you never acknowledge what they did. If you’ve ever thought, “I just need them to admit it,” this one’s for you. Share this episode with someone who’s been hurt and is still waiting for closure. Let them know they already have everything they need to begin again.
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