Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz
Episode: On Tour with Tom Sandoval And The Most Extras
Release Date: June 24, 2025
Overview
In this vibrant episode of Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz, listeners are taken on an exhilarating journey as host Tom Schwartz teams up with Tom Sandoval to explore the highs and lows of touring with Sandoval's band, The Most Extras. Blending mindfulness with mischief, the episode delves deep into the realities of life on the road, the dynamics within a band, and the unique experiences that come with performing live. Additionally, the conversation touches upon their recent appearance on America's Got Talent (AGT), offering exclusive insights and behind-the-scenes anecdotes.
Setting Off on Tour
The episode kicks off with Tom Sandoval broadcasting live from Los Angeles International Airport (LAX) at an early hour. Sandoval shares his initial feelings about embarking on the tour, highlighting both excitement and apprehension.
“We were made to travel. It's now time for your weekly Retox with Tom Schwartz.”
— Tom Sandoval [01:04]
As they prepare to hit the road, Sandoval humorously reflects on the stereotypical allure of touring—sex, drugs, rock and roll, glitz, and glam—but quickly tempers expectations by acknowledging the demanding nature of constant travel.
“All that glitters is not gold. That is to say, I've been on the road a lot lately.”
— Tom Sandoval [04:48]
The Realities of Life on Tour
The conversation transitions into a candid discussion about the challenges of maintaining balance while touring. Sandoval opens up about the physical and emotional toll of being constantly on the move, touching upon issues like disrupted sleep schedules, unhealthy eating habits, and the longing for home.
“It's probably one of my top three favorite things in life. But just being on the road a lot, man. It wears your body down.”
— Tom Sandoval [04:58]
Schwartz complements Sandoval’s honesty, emphasizing the personal sacrifices made by those who choose the touring lifestyle.
America's Got Talent Appearance
A significant highlight of the episode is the duo's recent performance on America's Got Talent. Sandoval recounts attending the taping and the unique experience of being on a platform typically reserved for emerging talents.
“Tom Sandoval and the most extras. Insane as that sounds, I'm talking AGT.”
— Tom Sandoval [08:18]
Schwartz shares his perspective on the performance, expressing pride in the band's effort despite not advancing further in the competition.
“I feel good about it, you know? I mean, it's pretty fun and funky.”
— Tom Schwartz [20:46]
Mel B’s observation during the show that their enjoyment was contagious underscores the infectious energy they bring to the stage.
“She was like, you guys are having so much fun up there. I'm having fun because you're having fun.”
— Tom Sandoval [17:35]
Touring Dynamics and Band Insights
Delving deeper into the dynamics of The Most Extras, Schwartz and Sandoval introduce the band members, praising their talent and camaraderie. Each member’s unique contribution to the band's sound and live performances is highlighted, fostering a greater appreciation for the collective effort behind their music.
“McRae on trumpet... Colin, our musical director and saxophone player... Mia, who is a bassist and also just an insane musician.”
— Tom Sandoval [25:33]
The hosts discuss the importance of maintaining positivity and energy on stage, and how the band’s chemistry enhances their performances.
“We’re all like creating together. We're all expressing ourselves together, and we're also creating like a really fun time.”
— Tom Schwartz [16:15]
Challenges and Coping Mechanisms on Tour
The episode doesn’t shy away from the tougher aspects of touring. The conversations reveal how band members cope with fatigue, stress, and the constant demands of performing multiple shows in succession. Techniques such as staying physically fit, moderating alcohol intake, and fostering strong interpersonal relationships are discussed as essential strategies for longevity on the road.
“The best thing to do is get yourself in really good shape beforehand and then you can kind of slack off a little bit as you're on tour.”
— Tom Schwartz [29:30]
Sandoval shares his personal struggles with maintaining energy levels, offering listeners an authentic look into the perseverance required to sustain a touring lifestyle.
“You do 20 songs a night, three shows in a row.”
— Tom Sandoval [15:43]
Personal Reflections and Growth
Amidst the hustle of touring, both hosts reflect on personal growth and the importance of letting go of past resentments. Sandoval discusses reconciling past conflicts with Schwartz, emphasizing forgiveness and moving forward as essential for personal well-being.
“When you forgive, you heal. When you let go, you grow.”
— Tom Sandoval [08:46]
Schwartz echoes this sentiment, sharing his journey towards emotional healing through the shared experiences of the tour.
Band Manager Spotlight: Jason
A heartfelt segment is dedicated to Jason, the band's manager, who juggles multiple roles to keep the tour running smoothly. Sandoval and Schwartz express immense gratitude for his unwavering support and dedication.
“Jason is a dear friend and Tom's tour manager and he handles all the logistics, all the bookings.”
— Tom Sandoval [35:10]
Jason opens up about the emotional challenges of balancing tour life with family responsibilities, highlighting the human side of managing a band.
“It's the hardest part. I miss Kimmy, my wife and my two kids.”
— Jason [35:30]
The trio shares a touching moment, reinforcing the sense of family and community that underpins the band’s success.
Behind the Scenes: Live Shows and Performances
Listeners are treated to an insider’s view of live performances, including sound checks and the intricate preparations that precede each show. Both hosts emphasize the camaraderie and collective effort required to deliver memorable performances night after night.
“Soundcheck is like getting your ears dialed in. And my ears are. Were dialed in last night.”
— Tom Sandoval [15:23]
They recount the vibrant atmosphere of venues like Arcada in St. Charles, sharing anecdotes about the venue’s history and unique charm.
“It used to run as a brothel. The green rooms are all brothel rooms.”
— Tom Sandoval [31:48]
Connecting with Fans: Meaningful Interactions
The episode underscores the profound connections formed with fans during the tour. Sandoval shares touching stories of fans overcoming personal challenges to attend their shows, reinforcing the positive impact of their music.
“There was a girl that came to our show who couldn't come last time because she was in a wheelchair for over a year.”
— Tom Schwartz [32:53]
These interactions highlight the mutual respect and appreciation between the band and their audience, fostering a supportive and uplifting community.
Final Reflections and Takeaways
As the tour draws to a close, Schwartz and Sandoval reflect on the transformative experiences gained from their journey. They advocate for balancing digital engagement with offline experiences, emphasizing the mental health benefits of disconnecting from screens and embracing real-world interactions.
“The best parts of life are lived offline. Don't let online consume you.”
— Tom Schwartz [44:35]
Sandoval concludes the episode with a heartfelt endorsement of the tour experience, expressing gratitude for the opportunity to reconnect and grow alongside his bandmates and fans.
“It's been awesome. Thank you in big part to you.”
— Tom Sandoval [42:23]
Key Quotes
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Tom Sandoval:
“All that glitters is not gold. That is to say, I've been on the road a lot lately.”
[04:48] -
Tom Schwartz:
“When you forgive, you heal. When you let go, you grow.”
[08:46] -
Tom Sandoval:
“She was like, you guys are having so much fun up there. I'm having fun because you're having fun.”
[17:35] -
Jason:
“The hardest part. I miss Kimmy, my wife and my two kids.”
[35:30] -
Tom Schwartz:
“The best parts of life are lived offline. Don't let online consume you.”
[44:35]
Conclusion
This episode of Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz offers a compelling blend of humor, honesty, and heartfelt reflections as Tom Schwartz and Tom Sandoval navigate the complexities of touring with The Most Extras. From the exhilarating highs of performing on national television to the intimate moments of personal growth and fan connections, the conversation paints a vivid picture of life on the road. Listeners gain valuable insights into the resilience and dedication required to sustain a successful music career, all while maintaining mindfulness and embracing the beautiful chaos that comes with it.
Whether you're a music enthusiast, an aspiring artist, or someone intrigued by the behind-the-scenes realities of touring, this episode serves as an engaging and enriching experience that underscores the importance of balance, positivity, and genuine connections in both personal and professional realms.