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Guys, what's up? How you doing? If you listen to this, guess what? You've been blessed. That's right. And may the Schwartz be with you today. On the show we have shy Fructor, star of next gen NYC well into season two. Man, there's so many good shows now. It's like, I know it's overwhelming, but I'm telling you, if you're not watching it, you should be. They're chasing dreams and NYC. Man, I always wish I would have lived in NYC in my early 20s right out of college. Just unbridled optimism, ferocious ambition. Oh, it sounds awesome. Give me a time machine and I'll do it. Give me a time machine and I'll do it. You know what I'm saying? What would you do if you had a time machine? Are you thinking about it? Buy bitcoin. Okay, obviously we're all buying bitcoin. Obviously. Well, going back to 2010 with a thousand bucks and buying Bitcoin at.003 cents per coin, that's 333,333 bitcoins. And at today's price, let's see, that's like about $21 billion. Yes. With a B. My God. Nice. Or maybe go back 65 million years ago. A little self guided Jurassic Park. You know what I'm talking about? What you don't want to see, you don't want to see a velociraptor
Shy Fructor
or
Podcast Host
maybe something more soulful and sweet, sentimental. Go back and spend some time with someone you love. A parent, a friend, a family member. Maybe snuggle up with one of your pets, your pup or your kitty that's passed. By the way, while we're on the topic of Next Gen nyc, how about we go back to Jersey? You know what I'm saying? How about we go Back to Jersey? 2010 Season 3 Episode 10 Housewives of New Jersey and CG Cast Member Star Next Gen NYC Sing One of the most iconic songs in Bravo history. I love that song. That was such a tender moment.
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Podcast Host
It became a meme. Such a tender moment, though. My God, I think she's 25 now. 15 years ago, but yeah, man, I would have loved to live in NYC. Just like Shy's doing my 20s. Doing the damn thing. If there's a theme of today's show, you know, it's just keep that dream alive. You know what I'm saying? Keep the dream alive. Or maybe reignite a dream. Could be starting that small business, taking acting classes, finally starting your baking YouTube channel, whatever. Finally getting that group trip out of the group chat. Taking that honeymoon you've been putting off for like five years because life got in the way. Whatever.
Podcast Co-host
This is just.
Podcast Host
It's just a little reminder to keep that dream alive. Or maybe, I don't know, I don't know, maybe excavate one of those buried dreams in your notes, Dust off
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Podcast Host
of your old notebooks, get that business started. I don't know, man. If there's a theme of today's show, aside from enjoying next gen NYC and shy, it's keeping the dream alive. 20 years from now, you might be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. Remember that. And remember, keep the dream alive. Unless you have a time machine, you better get moving. And we're gonna get moving. Next stop, Shutters Santa Monica beach with Shy from Next Gen ny.
Tom Schwartz
Shy in the house. Where are we? What are we doing?
Shy Fructor
We're out here in la. What?
Tom Schwartz
Shutters live in the dream, right on the beach, soaking up the sun. We're literally on Santa Monica Beach. Do you love la?
Shy Fructor
I do love L. A. I love New York. I do like LA.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah, I've lived in LA 16 years. But as I was talking with you before we started rolling, I've always wanted to do what you're doing right now. So I've been living vicariously through you on Next Gen. I've always wanted to be in my early 20s, living in New York City, chasing dreams, wheeling and dealing with. How does it feel to be living my former dream?
Shy Fructor
I mean, there's a place in New York for everyone, so I feel like you can still do it. You could still do it if you wanted to. But the twenties in New York are unbeatable. Truly unbeatable.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah.
Shy Fructor
And so you move there. You're in like, you start off in the shittiest apartment in the world. And you know there's like one and a half bedrooms for you and your friend. And you're like, who's getting the half bedroom? You know, it's like. And then you just slowly figure out your way there.
Tom Schwartz
And like our theme song said, those are like the best days of your life. Like, my favorite days are when I first moved here, I had no money in la. I had my roommates, our shitty little two bedroom apartment in West Hollywood. What was your first place in New York? Like a little fifth, Fifth floor walk up in Lower east side with cockroaches? Or did you. Did you have kind of a chic place?
Shy Fructor
No, it was. It was 5th floor walk up in Hell's Kitchen on House Kitchen. It was like 37th and 9th. And that's like. It was. It was a scary apartment. It was actually one time, I was on my way home, my roommate calls me, goes, are we having people over? Is someone staying with us? I'm like, no. I come home and there's like four suitcases in the middle of our apartment. We're like, what is. Whose is this? These, like, tourists from. I think they were from somewhere in Europe. I think they were like Belgium or something. Come in. And they're like, hello. And we're like, who are you guys? Like, this is our Airbnb for the week. This is our apartment. We live. We live here. Our landlord never took off the apartment from Airbnb. And these, they, like, overlapped with these people. So we actually had enough having, like six of them stay with us. No, I'm kidding. No, we told them, leave that.
Tom Schwartz
I was hoping you embraced it and you guys lived happily ever after.
Shy Fructor
No, we were like, we need to. We need to sleep and go to work tomorrow. Get out of here. Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Because that could have easily turned into a horror story.
Shy Fructor
Oh, my God. A Belgian horror story.
Tom Schwartz
But you still. You're still in your honeymoon phase with New York. Wait, you were born in Sweden, right?
Shy Fructor
I was born in Hong Kong. Hong Kong, Yes.
Tom Schwartz
Which is so freaking cosmopolitan. Your family speaks Cantonese.
Shy Fructor
You say Cantonese and then my mom speaks Swedish, too? Yeah, she's a big mix. Just like a weird mix of the world.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, can we do, like, a quick condense? How the hell did you end up on Bravo tv on a television show in New York City?
Shy Fructor
Well, I moved to the US when I was 15. And I grew up. My parents always telling me, just keep your mind open to the world and, you know, say hello to everyone and be kind to everyone and. And say yes to new experiences. So at some point in college, I moved out to LA for a little bit of work and met a friend here named Dylan. Dylan Gike. He's an awesome friend of mine. And then when I moved to New York, many years later, he hit me up and he was like, hey, I'm moving to New York. If someone reaches out to you for this project I'm doing, just hit him back. And I was like, sure. And this woman reached out to me, was like, hey, I would love to jump on a call with you and for you to meet all these people. And I jumped on a call there, had no clue what is for. And then next thing you know, this, cameras are up and we're rolling and we're.
Tom Schwartz
That's fucking cool. Serendipity.
Shy Fructor
Serendipity.
Tom Schwartz
I love one of my favorite words. And now you guys are tight, you know? You guys.
Shy Fructor
Now we're tight. Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Did you ever have. Or at least, like, fantasize about being on television? Did you have any drive to be a performer, an actor or musician?
Shy Fructor
Oh, my God, so many. I mean, I. I actually play in a band right now. Right? You're in a band? Yeah, we're in a band.
Tom Schwartz
You're doing everything. We're gonna come back to the comedy stuff because I saw you on your Instagram. God, that's another thing.
Shy Fructor
That was a long time ago. Yeah.
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Tom Schwartz
You're fulfilling a lot of dreams that I skipped. I've.
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Shy Fructor
Another life.
Podcast Co-host
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Well, can we circle back to the comments? You're in a band?
Shy Fructor
Yes, I'm in a band. Wait, what? Are you the.
Tom Schwartz
Are you the lead singer?
Shy Fructor
I'm the drummer.
Tom Schwartz
You're the drummer?
Shy Fructor
I'm the drummer. So I started a band. This happened less than a year ago, actually, in. In October, November. My cousins and I. I live with my brother in New York. And then we have family, friends that. We're so close, who are practically cousins, and we. We've always played music together. And then one day we were like. We wrote a song again. We're like, let's record this. And then we wrote another song. We're like, let's record this. And then we're hoping to release. Start releasing stuff by the end of this month, actually.
Tom Schwartz
I'm so hyped for you.
Shy Fructor
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
I love that you're so diversified already.
Shy Fructor
It's just about being. It's just saying yes to everything.
Tom Schwartz
I love that.
Shy Fructor
Saying yes to everything.
Tom Schwartz
I love that, man. I love the sp of just saying yes to everything.
Shy Fructor
I mean, 24 once, you know, I'm
Tom Schwartz
saying there's so that. That's what I wanted. That's when I first got like the urge that I really wanted. Like, my heart was like, you belong in New York City. But I was. To be frank, I was too big of a. I had just gotten out of college and I was working a regular job, I guess a nine to five. I went to Florida State University.
Shy Fructor
Fsu.
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Shy Fructor
And I was.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah, fsu. Go Knowles.
Podcast Co-host
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
What you know about that?
Podcast Co-host
Up.
Tom Schwartz
You've been down to Tallahassee.
Shy Fructor
No, I'm not. I have a lot of friends from New York that I went. One in particular, one friend who she was. Her and I were hanging out and she was one of the wildest people I've ever met. Yeah. It's a fun school.
Tom Schwartz
It's a great place to grow up to go to college, matriculate, and I miss it. But would I still want to live there? No.
Shy Fructor
Yes.
Tom Schwartz
I'm happy to be in Los Angeles, but still I yearn for New York City. That's one of my favorite things about your show in the city. For me, like, New York is just as big a character as you guys. It's like a cast member.
Shy Fructor
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
When I'm watching the show, for sure. What's your favorite part of New York?
Shy Fructor
My favorite part of New York. My favorite part is that you could literally do anything you want at any time of the day. 3:00am you want a dumpling? You'll get a great dumpling. You know, you want to go party at noon on a Tuesday. You can go party at noon on a Tuesday. You know, you want to get a job doing something, you put your mind to it, you can, you can do it. You know, you never know who you're meet too.
Tom Schwartz
You never know if you want a delicious bowl of ramen at four in the morning and like a Starbucks strawberry smoothie. Yeah, it's all yours.
Shy Fructor
It's all yours.
Tom Schwartz
Whatever you can imagine. You can get absolutely instant gratification all day, every day.
Shy Fructor
You're gonna move out there, though. I feel like you have like, it's it's less of. It's about the energy. You. I feel like you're literally the energy of like a 24 year old, just like us.
Tom Schwartz
I appreciate I have a youthful energy. You know what? My girl roasts me. Kiana. She's bi, coastal, like I was telling you before. And she always laughs because she's like, you're so not a New Yorker. She doesn't say it in a smug way. She says, I'm way too chipper and friendly and I like small talk too much. And she's like, yeah. She's like, that's why you'll never be a true New Yorker. Like, I was watching the latest episode. I think you said to your first impression, Rowan was like, you look like you're from Portland. I thought that was so funny. And I was like, being a true New Yorker, what are your first impressions of me so far?
Shy Fructor
I mean, you could be completely honest. I'm not a. I'm far from a junior worker. Me, myself. Right.
Tom Schwartz
What makes a true New Yorker?
Shy Fructor
That's the question. You know, at what point can I say, like, I'm a New Yorker?
Tom Schwartz
They say 10 years, you get your wings.
Shy Fructor
Okay. I'm close to halfway there. Okay. I'm coming up around like three or three and a half years now. So I've been there. But. But I mean, I feel like I've spent enough time. I don't leave New York. I never, like, I rarely leave. Like, coming to LA was like. I was like, wow, this is. There's another place outside of New York. You know, it's like kind of a breath of fresh air, but I spend my whole. All my summers there so far since living there, all my winters there. But no, the energy is great. I feel like you should. You should definitely get out there because the chipper energy, it's. It will. It's very confusing to New Yorkers, but it disarms them. It disarms them.
Tom Schwartz
I like, you know, I like your honesty. Yeah, I was. She was comparing me to Ned Flanders. I don't know if you ever watched the Simpsons. Yeah, he's like the hyper friendly neighbor.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, yeah.
Tom Schwartz
And yeah, listen, I have boundaries. I'm not like, overly giddy and chipper. It's just like, I've said this so many times on the show. I feel like, have you seen Elf.
Shy Fructor
Yes.
Tom Schwartz
When he first gets to New York.
Shy Fructor
Absolutely.
Tom Schwartz
That's how I am every time I get there.
Shy Fructor
I mean, okay, not to like, fan a little bit, but when you were, you know, at Bravo Con I saw you walking around. I was like, that's. Everyone was like, that's Tom Schwartz. You were walking around, like, kissing babies. I was like, like, you know, you were like. You were kind of talking to town for a bit. I was like, that guy seems chill.
Tom Schwartz
You know, I'm cool in one little niche, one world, maybe. I. I don't know if you ever watched Vanderpump, but we have, like, a couple restauran Tom, Tom Schwartz, and Sandy's that went up in flames. RIP but, like, I'm cool in my little pockets, but, you know, I'm not global. I'm not cool.
Shy Fructor
What is it? Every two years in Vegas? That's our. That's our moment.
Tom Schwartz
Yes. Next year, we're gonna have another moment next year. Did you love bravocon, dude? It must have been so exhilarating your first time.
Shy Fructor
Listen, I loved it so much, but, you know, we took our New York energy to Vegas and we were out until, like, 6 in the morning with 7am Panels. And I remember, like, one of our. Because we were filming while we were at BravoCon, too. Yes.
Podcast Co-host
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
I popped into a scene. I don't know if you remember. I think I popped.
Podcast Host
Yes.
Shy Fructor
Oh, my God. Do you remember that dinner?
Tom Schwartz
I felt awkward because I was like, we.
Shy Fructor
We.
Tom Schwartz
There's. There's some crossover, some behind the scenes, and some production. I know some people who work for your show, and they're like, schwartzy, why don't you go pop in? Oh, my God.
Shy Fructor
And I felt like, I hope they keep that in there because you walk in and. And you're like, what's up? And the moment you leave, all hell breaks loose.
Tom Schwartz
At that dinner, I felt the tension.
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Tom Schwartz
I won't say I was pal people, but I felt like I was.
Shy Fructor
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Right before something all. Yeah, that's exactly how it felt. It felt tense.
Shy Fructor
A lot of.
Tom Schwartz
I don't want any spoilers, but.
Shy Fructor
No spoilers.
Tom Schwartz
You guys were sweet and very respectful, but I. I was like, oh, I just walked into something.
Shy Fructor
It's funny, you know, I feel like today, when it comes, you know, to this kind of, like, reality show stuff, there's a lot more rules and expectations, and I feel like we're all kind of like, at that boundary of, like, I'm about to break this rule and expectation. But, you know, like on that episode with Riley with that glass, you know, she picked it up and she put it back down. You know, this is. You know, it's not. It's not early 2000s, that's not going flying, but she, you know, there's still that moment that's right thing.
Tom Schwartz
Back in the. It was like kind of the Wild west in the early days of Vanderpump rules. Like 2000, 13, 14, 15. It kind of felt like there was no rules and we didn't have the feedback loop. You guys get instant criticism, you know, right away how people feel about you. We didn't know, like, Twitter was barely around, and Instagram was just starting in the early days. So it's like we weren't positively or negatively reinforced. You know what I mean?
Shy Fructor
Absolutely.
Tom Schwartz
How you feel about, like, your first experience getting, like, lovers and haters?
Shy Fructor
I. I mean, you know, you gotta. Everyone says, don't read the comments and like that, but it's hard not to. And then you read them and you're like, am I. Re. Am I. Are they. Are they right or are they wrong?
Tom Schwartz
You know, you look in the mirror,
Shy Fructor
you're like, do I. You know, do I look. Yeah, I. All. All sorts of stuff, you know, and it's. It's just like. It's. Someone called me a nothing burger on one time, and I was like, what? A nothing burger? I'm a too much burger?
Tom Schwartz
You're something. No, you're too much. In the best possible way.
Shy Fructor
Yes. That's why. That's why. I hope that's what my mom says.
Tom Schwartz
But I remember one comment really got to me during one of my lower moments. They called me. Someone called me a mediocre shit stain. And that really stuck with me.
Shy Fructor
That's tough. That was a tough one.
Tom Schwartz
I've talked about it several times on the show. But you're okay with it?
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Tom Schwartz
What is that little masochistic part of us, like, that wants. I. I sometimes just want to take a peek.
Shy Fructor
Absolutely.
Tom Schwartz
To see what the temperature is. Right. To get a temperature gauge.
Shy Fructor
You know, I. I also think a little bit. I. I always say, like, I feel like you follow anyone around enough with a camera and they'll. They'll make good tv. But I do think that something like, bravo. You got to have that kind of outgoing personality. I feel like I've always had that. So I've always gotten a little bit of that criticism from friends and whatever critiques are just like, maybe you're too much of a personality. But, you know, you gotta learn to just, like, say it and just be whoever you want to be.
Tom Schwartz
Dude, you're great. You seem perfectly comfortable being yourself. You don't seem like you're trying to perform or be someone else.
Shy Fructor
Just have one shot. You See, a couple more shots, and you could be like, I need to. I need to leave this kid here right now. Because it's too much
Tom Schwartz
like your show. It's kind of genius because it's like. It kind of incorporates, like, four different franchises at one, because you got Gia, Ariana, Riley Brooks, all from different Housewives. Also, you have some, like, other Hollywood royalty in there, and it's kind of brilliant.
Shy Fructor
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Seeing how you guys are all just starting your own businesses and getting life going in New York City. Like, do you guys. Like, do you. Can you appreciate how iconic Brooke Shields is?
Shy Fructor
Oh, my God. I mean, I.
Tom Schwartz
Do. You guys know, right? Like, she. She was like Zendaya and, like, Margot Robbie all rolled in the one before social media even existed. Like, she was a supermodel before supermodels were supermodels. She was like, one of the biggest icons of the 70s, 80s, and 90s. But, like, is it cool? Do you ever get starstruck hanging out with some.
Shy Fructor
You know, I mean, I haven't met Brooke Shields yet.
Tom Schwartz
Oh, okay.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, I haven't had the pleasure.
Podcast Co-host
Just her.
Shy Fructor
I feel like on the scenes that we did, I did with Rowan, and Rowan's a fantastic person.
Podcast Co-host
She's.
Shy Fructor
She's so cool, and we get along.
Tom Schwartz
Such good energy.
Shy Fructor
Such good energy. You know, she's always doing a bit, which I love, because I feel like, you know, I kind of. I feel like I used to be like that. But enough time in New York, you stopped doing the bit. But, like, I. You know, I. I do love Rowan. She thinks she's great, but I'm like, there's me and then there's Rowan, and then there's Brook Shields and then there's Michael. Jack. I know Rowan. Rowan knows Brooke. Brook Shields, and then Brook Shields knows new Michael Jackson. So I'm like, 3 degrees separation from the King of Pop.
Podcast Host
That's unreal. I know.
Tom Schwartz
Isn't that cool?
Shy Fructor
That's crazy.
Tom Schwartz
It's fun to, like, just marinate on that for a second.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, exactly.
Tom Schwartz
I just went to the Rock and Roll hall of Fame in Cleveland, and I was looking at the OG Thriller jacket. You know the red one?
Shy Fructor
Yes.
Tom Schwartz
And you could just feel, like, the power, the mystique.
Shy Fructor
Incredible.
Tom Schwartz
Coming off of it.
Shy Fructor
Incredible.
Tom Schwartz
Really. Like, it had a. It had an energy to it, and it was magnetic.
Shy Fructor
I thought, my friends. My friend in New York, her. Her grandfather was actually the tailor for that jacket.
Pluto TV Announcer
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Shy Fructor
Enough.
Podcast Host
Hey. Hey, guys.
Tom Schwartz
Oh, what's up? Are we being too loud? Oh, this is just audio. We're not filming or anything. We do need a permit from our sales department. Oh, it's. It's just. This is honestly just for my personal podcast. Is that okay? We can cut it. We can cut her off. Yeah, yeah, it's fine.
Shy Fructor
No problem.
Tom Schwartz
Okay.
Shy Fructor
All right. Awesome, dude.
Tom Schwartz
Well, listen, we can cut it short. I just wanted to come say what's up. Absolutely. This has been awesome.
Podcast Host
I mean.
Tom Schwartz
I mean, I wanted to hype your show before we finish. It's so good. Next gen nyc. It's the real deal. Wait, before we go, can we talk about your clothing line? About time.
Shy Fructor
No, no problem. Do you wanna. I'm. There's like. We can go to the balcony in my. There's a balcony right outside.
Tom Schwartz
Should we. Should we wrap it up there? Just like five minutes?
Shy Fructor
Five minutes.
Tom Schwartz
Is that okay?
Shy Fructor
I'm. I'm totally fine. I'm on.
Tom Schwartz
Okay. You guys, we just got so busted. We're supposed to have a permit. I thought podcasts were cool. We're not doing video. Okay.
Podcast Host
All right.
Tom Schwartz
Thanks, Shy.
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That was me.
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
But, yeah. I'm scared of Waymos. We're rolling, by the way.
Shy Fructor
Scared of Weimos.
Tom Schwartz
I'm so scared. I'm. I'm. I. I'm a big advocate for innovation and technology, and it's so cool. They're novel. But I don't know. I saw a horror story about somebody. You see these kids who, like, went on, like, a Project X style night. They got really drunk and they were throwing a party in the back of the Waymo, and the Waymo stopped and, like, called their parents. Yes.
Shy Fructor
Had this vision of someone Being like, I'm gonna send my dog daycare. So they put Just a dog in the Waymo. Just the thought of Just a dog in a Waymo. You know what I'm saying?
Tom Schwartz
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Shy Fructor
Just a dog in a Waymo. Wait.
Tom Schwartz
Okay, we're good. Wait, before. So I guess we need a permit to record here.
Shy Fructor
I didn't know that this is undercover.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah, the stakes have been raised. We really are rebels. Rebels with a cause. We're drinking a beer. I might even smoke a cigarette. It's your mom's birthday, so I don't want to keep you. But wait, I wanted to ask you about your clothing line.
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Tom Schwartz
About time.
Shy Fructor
About Time.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, how did you come up with the name?
Shy Fructor
It's my favorite movie of all time.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, I don't know the movie.
Shy Fructor
Margot Robbie's Action the movie. And then Rachel McAdams and then that ginger English guy who's in, like, everything. Forget his name. But it's a great movie. It's like that guy. It's a rom com, and I don't really like rom coms that much, but do I.
Tom Schwartz
Do we all need to go and watch About Time.
Shy Fructor
Everyone has to go watch about that. Okay. Everyone has to go watch that movie.
Tom Schwartz
So wait, where does it. Is this innate. Where. Where did you get the. The instinct, the desire to buying clothes? Who's your muse? Do you have a muse and a main source of inspiration?
Shy Fructor
Yeah, probably my ex girlfriend. Yeah. Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
I can't say that on the mic.
Shy Fructor
No, it's okay.
Tom Schwartz
Is that okay?
Shy Fructor
Yeah, you can say it.
Tom Schwartz
Oh, well, you say it.
Shy Fructor
No. Okay. I'm not. We can. We can skip past that, but past that.
Tom Schwartz
He. We both have tattoos from the past that tell a story.
Shy Fructor
No, but it was kind of like, you know, I. It started off, I left college in a really bad mental head space, and then my mom, who's fantastic, she gave me a sewing machine, and she was like, start sewing. So I started sew. And then two years later, I was dating this girl, and I really wanted to impress her and just show her that I can do something and, like, wanted. And I always had this. I kind of hope to, like, start something with clothing at some point, and I just did it.
Tom Schwartz
That's just in you. You think it was born. It's in your DNA, or did you have, like.
Shy Fructor
Honestly, no.
Tom Schwartz
An epiphany, just like you said. You just had a moment.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, that's. Yeah, I just saw a couple ideas and I put them together, and then from there, just like, domino effect. Dude.
Tom Schwartz
I, I, I've never wanted to be a designer, but I did, like, most of the merch for our bars. TomTom at Schwartz and Sandy's. I love designing clothes. Do I want to be a designer? Hell no. Could I be a designer? Hell no. But I love making merch. It's like one of my great, like, side quest pleasures in life.
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Shy Fructor
Every bar, every good bar has merch.
Tom Schwartz
Thank you.
Shy Fructor
Every good bar.
Tom Schwartz
And every time I go to a new bar in New York, I buy one of their T shirts. Before we move on from this way, what's your favorite, like, little dive? Do you have, like, a Cheers bar? Like, you're. I don't even know if you know the Cheers reference. Sorry, I didn't mean it. But you guys didn't know.
Shy Fructor
What do you watch Frasier?
Tom Schwartz
You guys didn't know what two Time was on the show? Remember Tool Time?
Shy Fructor
Tool Time? Oh, sorry.
Tom Schwartz
I'm Home Improvement. Tim the Tool Man Taylor. Tim the Tool, your boy who was about to build the closet. He referenced it and he's like, no one's gonna know what this is.
Shy Fructor
That like, move that bus. Is that what that is?
Tom Schwartz
No, it's like, is that what we're talking about? Know what that is?
Shy Fructor
You know, make home makeover, Greatest homemaker. Like, Move that bus. And then there.
Tom Schwartz
This wasn't. This was an iconic 90s sitcom and Tim Allen was the lead and he was like, yeah, he, you know, he was like, this guy, he had a home improvement show and he would.
Shy Fructor
That was like, okay, well, salmon, Diana.
Tom Schwartz
No, salmon.
Shy Fructor
Yes. And Frasier.
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Shy Fructor
Love Frasier.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, can we find your stuff online right now or you still. You can.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, you can. You can go on and buy anything, though.
Tom Schwartz
Do you have a website for. It is on your Instagram a link
Shy Fructor
in your bio about. Yeah, it's Lincoln bio about Timestore.com.
Tom Schwartz
and right now, it's, from what I've read, it's 30 original pieces that you repurpose.
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Tom Schwartz
You like repurposing?
Shy Fructor
Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Vintage clothes.
Shy Fructor
Right? Upcycle. I'm taking, like, old materials, so not old clothes, but I'm doing, like, tablecloths, linens, stuff that you would and typically make into clothes and making those into clothes.
Tom Schwartz
Didn't you take your curtains in your room?
Shy Fructor
I did. I took. That was my first piece. I took my curtains for my room. My mom dropped off a pair of curtains. And then my roommate was really happy about those curtains. And the next day he was like, where are the curtains? And I was like, look at these pants. Ro. He's like, those pants are cool. Where are the curtains?
Tom Schwartz
That is just the flex you think it is. That's so cool.
Shy Fructor
Not to him, but we're not roommates anymore.
Tom Schwartz
I think it was a worthy sacrifice.
Shy Fructor
Oh, absolutely.
Tom Schwartz
The curtains.
Shy Fructor
The curtains.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, do you. So who are the other music. Do you have any fashion designers that you look to and that you're inspired by? I don't know, like, Jean Paul Gaudier, Virgil Abloh? Freaking.
Shy Fructor
I mean, Virgil is a goat. He's amazing.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah.
Shy Fructor
Emily Boddy.
Tom Schwartz
Oh, I don't know.
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Can you introduce us?
Shy Fructor
Emily Bodhi. She runs the Clothing Man. Bodhi. Oh, huge. If you. If you put our brand side to side, you can see there's a lot of inspiration from there. She's incredible. She's, like, truly a. An inspiration to a lot. A lot of young designers. A lot of people. Yeah.
Tom Schwartz
Anybody else educate us? I feel like I'm so out of the game. By the way, I want you to rate my fit before we finish the podcast.
Shy Fructor
Oh, I love the fit. I love the fit. I walked in, I was like, that looks like Tom.
Tom Schwartz
We wear this. I wear the same thing things every single day. I think you probably will. I love, like, a good bespoke suit. I do, like, designer stuff. I have cool clothes. I just never wear them.
Shy Fructor
I mean, there's always a time and place for everything, right? Yeah. That's kind of the idea with the clothes is that, like, what I make is that you don't wear it every day, but, like, there's always. There's gonna be a time where you see it and you're like, today's the day I'm gonna wear it. And it's the perfect day to wear it. And everyone's gonna be like, where's that from?
Tom Schwartz
It's Friday night. You're going down to the West Village to the swankiest new bar. What are you rocking? What are you rocking?
Shy Fructor
I don't go out on the West Village.
Tom Schwartz
Wait, that's my girlfriend. Roasted.
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Tom Schwartz
She's like, no one goes to the West Village anyway.
Shy Fructor
People do. It's not people like us.
Tom Schwartz
See, this is why I'm not a true New Yorker.
Shy Fructor
No, you. I feel like you like the East Village. That's where, like, you know, it's. You know, it's a little dive here. Dive your. You know, Got some good clubs there too.
Tom Schwartz
Yeah.
Shy Fructor
When you go back to New New York, Studio 151 is the place for you to go. They spin vinyl there. It's a great Spot.
Tom Schwartz
I love any spot that I listen. I. I like hipster vibes. I love it. They got. They got. They got a full wall full of vinyls. Yeah, I love that.
Shy Fructor
That's what they do there.
Tom Schwartz
Okay. I say, I just moved to New York. I met you. I'm also pursuing fashion. I'm 24, 25, and I want to go out for my first time in New York. And you want to make a good impression. Where would you take me?
Shy Fructor
Oh, honestly, that's. That's a great question. I feel like we. We definitely start the night off in a nice bar, in a fun bar. You know, go anywhere from Doc Holidays, which is like the divi. Sport you can get to. I know something a little bit nicer. Bar Picciolino is a really nice place. And then from there the nights, you know, the worlds are always there. 151 is a great place to go out. You know, can always go out to different listening bars, go out to different, like, lounges. And then from there, you know, let's go to Brooklyn and just have a night out there.
Tom Schwartz
I love Brooklyn.
Shy Fructor
We can always go to the Box, but like, you know, we don't. Do we want to go out there? I don't know.
Tom Schwartz
I've been twice and I've seen things that I. Unspeakable things. And if you. So for people who don't know, the Box is kind of an avant garde, risque burlesque show. Like a hypersexual burlesque show. When I went. I don't know if I've ever. I don't know if you guys are ready for this, whoever's listening. Like, when I went, it's very avant garde. Like there was this performer and she was half naked, but she would put obviously bio safe fluids in her rectum and she would squirt them out from her orifice onto the whiteboard. And she did this beautiful painting. And it was. I know it sounds kind of lewd over the top, but it was kind of in the moment. When you're in that space, it felt like art. It's. I. Maybe I sound full of. Right. Is.
Podcast Co-host
What would.
Tom Schwartz
Is. Is the Box. Would you recommend the Box?
Shy Fructor
Not for maybe your first time out in New York, but we'll. You gotta build your way up there.
Tom Schwartz
You know, it's definitely NC17.
Shy Fructor
There's always new places that pop up. There's one club that just opened up called Gosh. That I like only the coolest people. I know when I say coolest people, I mean, like, you got in There, it's very artsy, very cool. And I just, I've been trying to find my way in there. So gosh, if you're listening, let me in there.
Tom Schwartz
Gosh, better let my boy shine there or else we're going to break that fucking door down.
Shy Fructor
But Peoples too. People's is a great spot.
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Peoples.
Tom Schwartz
Wade, I saw you performing. We talked about this earlier. Your first stand up bit. Did you do open mic night or have you been slowly building a routine for your stand up bit?
Shy Fructor
When I was in college, this was my junior year of college, I had a really light schedule one semester and, and I had a lot of free time and my bunch of my friends were like in class a lot more than I was and I was like, what am I going to do with my time? And I, for some reason I looked up open mic night near me and I secretly started going to these open mic nights in Boston without telling anyone. Didn't tell anyone. So cool. It was so fun.
Tom Schwartz
That's so cool.
Shy Fructor
And, and then from there I just like really started enjoying it. And then I, my senior year, I like all of that summer, junior year and then into senior year, I just started doing different shows around New York and I ended up doing like something called the Industry Room, which is kind of an audition. And I just did a bunch of shows from there. And then one day I woke up, was like, I'm done with that. I'm done with that.
Tom Schwartz
You hit a wall. It showed its purpose.
Shy Fructor
Yeah, it didn't go anywhere, you know, it wasn't like, it was like meant to go anywhere. It was just truthfully, like an outlet to just like say my most outrageous thoughts. And it'd be like, oh, that's comedy. That's okay to say, you know, Like, I was like, I had funny things, I think funny things to say.
Tom Schwartz
It's a great confidence builder especially. You don't seem like a shy guy. You seem very confident and sure of yourself, but in a great way. Not in a cocky way. You just seem like you're very much in tune with yourself. But if you're not and you're listening, I think it's a great way to break out of your shell. If you're introverted or you get stage fright or performance anxiety, get up there. Don't be afraid to bomb. I want to go out and bomb one night in la.
Shy Fructor
It's funny, you know, like when you do an open mic night, it's typically other standup comedians. If it's not a show, then it's an Open mic night. And if it's open mic night, it's typically mostly other comedians there, they don't laugh at your jokes. Other comedians stand up, comedians won't laugh at your joke. So you'll be up there doing five minutes and no, not, not get a single laugh. And then show crickets and then we do a show in front of people that, you know, don't want to be comedians and don't do it for their, you know, their hobbies or their living. You get a lot of laughs and it's just like so interesting. They just don't laugh. So you, like, you just, you. It's so, it's fast. It's a fascinating industry. It's a fascinating world in there.
Tom Schwartz
So anyone who was thinking about trying it, you just scared them away.
Shy Fructor
So, no, it's honestly the moment you do it, the moment you make a first joke and no one laughs, you have like the most liberty. Like, it's like the most like, freeing moment ever.
Tom Schwartz
Comedians talk about this all the time. It's somehow, I guess, incredibly liberating just to go up and bomb.
Shy Fructor
Absolutely.
Tom Schwartz
And maybe even get a boo. Yeah, not so much of like a literal boo, but just you can feel them not enjoying it. I think it builds character.
Shy Fructor
You know, it's funny. Like in the first episode this season of Next Gen, there was a birthday party for Amira and it was like a country themed spelled C U N T R Y. And Amira is like the most fabulous girl in the world. She's, you know, she's fantastic. She's so cool. She's a badass through and through. And she had like this kind of sexy country themed birthday party. And I was like, listen, I'm. What am I gonna do? Someone has to dress up as a horse for this. I dress up in a horse costume and a lot of them kind of like, you know, made fun of me in a good way, in a funny way, whatever. But it was very humbling. You know, I feel like everyone at least once a year should go out in a horse costume and just humiliate, humiliate yourself.
Tom Schwartz
Just put yourself way outside your comfort zone.
Shy Fructor
Go and get laughed at. Just go and remember what it's like to be human.
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Tom Schwartz
You know, it is a very grounding, humbling experience. Right. Like, this is, this is sage advice
Shy Fructor
for someone to walk the streets of New York dressed as a horse. I can walk the streets in New York in my own skin and feel fantastic. You know, it's amazing.
Tom Schwartz
Any other aspirations outside of everything we've Already talked about the band. Wait, so wait, when are you dropping new music first?
Shy Fructor
We're gonna drop our first single within the. Within the. Either July or August. Okay. Gonna come out and it's gonna be hopefully incredible.
Tom Schwartz
I'm hyped for you.
Shy Fructor
We'll see.
Tom Schwartz
Dude, I'm hyped for you.
Shy Fructor
I'm excited about it.
Tom Schwartz
You're doing the damn thing.
Shy Fructor
We're doing it.
Tom Schwartz
You're chasing your dream. Nyc Next Gen. And brother, I'm so excited to see what you do moving forward.
Shy Fructor
I'm very excited for it.
Tom Schwartz
I'm serious. I gotta dab you up. I'm so excited. Thank you for sitting down with me. Shutters Santa Monica, where we risked it all for an interview.
Podcast Co-host
Love that.
All right.
Love you, brother.
Shy Fructor
All right, Peace.
Tom Schwartz
Thank you,
Podcast Co-host
Shy. Thank you so much. Absolute pleasure chatting with you. You guys check out Next Gen NYC on Bravo. If you don't know, now you know. A most pleasant little redox in beautiful Santa Monica, California. Shout out to Shutters. Very chic and cozy hotel on the beach. You should book it next time you're there. So tasteful. Coastal chic. That one's for you, Kiana. This episode is dedicated to your dreams and keeping them alive. Or at least resurrecting them and having goals to accomplish those dreams. Because dreams without goals and action are just dreams taking your shot. Today's episode is about telling your inner critics to shush. Negative self Talk.
Hush.
You gotta keep on keeping on. That's right. Keep the dream alive. Shy. We see you chasing your dreams at nyc, the best city in the world, New York. I love you always and forever. And I'll see you in my dreams. And next week, actually, because I'm going there.
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All right, you guys. Thank you for tuning in.
Tom Schwartz
Retoxification complete.
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Date: July 29, 2026
Host: Tom Schwartz
Guest: Shai Fruchter (cast member, Next Gen NYC)
This episode of Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz explores what it means to chase your dreams and say “yes” to life’s unexpected opportunities. Tom welcomes Shai Fruchter, the breakout star of Bravo's Next Gen NYC, for a laid-back but candid conversation recorded beachside in Santa Monica. The discussion weaves between Shai’s multicultural upbringing, his unscripted path to reality TV, creative side hustles in music and fashion, and relatable reflections on navigating twenties in New York City. The theme of the show is about embracing main character energy, keeping the dream alive, and not being afraid to step outside your comfort zone.
"The twenties in New York are unbeatable. Truly unbeatable."
(07:24, Shai Fruchter)
"Next thing you know, cameras are up and we're rolling."
(10:15, Shai Fruchter)
"It's just about being. It's just saying yes to everything... 24 once, you know."
(11:24–11:32, Shai Fruchter)
"For me, like, New York is just as big a character as you guys. It's like a cast member."
(12:20, Tom Schwartz)
"You could literally do anything you want at any time of the day."
(12:37, Shai Fruchter)
"Someone called me a nothing burger... I'm a too much burger."
(17:49–18:04, Shai Fruchter)
"My mom…gave me a sewing machine, and she was like, start sewing."
(25:40, Shai Fruchter)
"You have like the most liberty... It’s like the most, like, freeing moment ever."
(34:59, Shai Fruchter)
"Everyone at least once a year should go out in a horse costume and just humiliate yourself."
(36:05, Shai Fruchter)
On making your twenties count:
"If there's a theme of today's show, aside from enjoying Next Gen NYC and Shai, it's keeping the dream alive. 20 years from now, you might be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than the ones you did."
— Tom Schwartz (05:28)
On criticism and self-acceptance:
“Someone called me a nothing burger... I’m a too much burger.”
— Shai Fruchter (17:49)
On creativity and saying yes:
“It’s just about being. It’s just saying yes to everything.”
— Shai Fruchter (11:24)
On embracing discomfort:
“Everyone at least once a year should go out in a horse costume and just humiliate yourself.”
— Shai Fruchter (36:05)
On the interconnected world of reality TV:
“There’s me, then there’s Rowan, then there’s Brooke Shields, and then there’s Michael Jackson. So I’m three degrees of separation from the King of Pop.”
— Shai Fruchter (20:10)
Candid, conversational, and honest—with plenty of humor, pop culture nods, and exchanges that bounce smoothly between aspiration, self-deprecation, and encouragement. Both Tom and Shai champion authenticity and the joy (and awkwardness) of jumping into new experiences.
This episode is a soulful reminder to embrace your main character energy, keep your dreams alive—no matter how outlandish—and stay open to new experiences, even if they lead you places you didn’t expect. Celebrate your quirks, push comfort zones, and above all: “Say yes to everything.”